After a break up and the guy says his heart is okay

This girl and I used to have class last semester Every morning we always look straight to each other eyes before I enter the classroom During class she wont look at me only before and after. One time we look at each other for about 5 seconds straight to each other eyes then look to the ground. She and her friend sat front of me and both ran away. She at times will give me half/shy smile when we both make eye contact. She used to stare at me from distance sometimes then turns away. Now this semester I have no classes with her. Is been awhile since I seen her until Thursday I came out of the rest room and turn to my left and we both at the exact time made eye contact which last for few seconds. She turn away quickly once we look at each other, I walk towards her and her friend. Her friend look at me when I was walking away. At the time she look at me her cheeks were pinkish like blushing but it can also be make up blush so I don't know. I was talking to a friend at the hallways and she walk pass us and look at me quick then look striaght I had finals and came out early and she saw me. I enter the rest room come out and we both glance at each other at the same time. I seen her hanging with some guys but just talking never seen her with a guy hanging out with. So i guess she is single. I'm a shy guy too nervous to say something, she is too cute and I'm a average guy she was very quite person in class She seems talkative with friends around her Remind you guys were in college

I want to help him but have never been in this type of situation before. He confided in me why he drinks, and the biggest contributing factor was being molested as a child. I believe I may be the first person he has told about that. He knows he has a problem and needs help, but I don't know if he's ready for it yet, and I believe this because of his recent binge, which he cut off contact with me to try to shield me from it. I'm truly worried he will die. I'm asking for advice and articles on what I can do to help him. I appreciate your time.

He always says I suppress my feelings and he said one day he would get the truth out out me. Honestly, I dont know what he is taling about, so why he keeps accusing me?

I don't usually do these kind of things.. But I've been single for two straight years and to tell you the truth I'm tired of being single. I'm a good guy with a pretty good personality, but I guess I'm not an attractive guy? If you're interested in getting to know me send me a message on my Kik which is NxDR.

So I haven't talked with this girl in 2 years. She started commenting on my photos on instagram about this really old inside joke me and her used to have. So I messages her for her phone number she gave it to me and we've been talking and she's actually been more engaged in the talks and she'll joke around and we'll joke about the inside joke. Now yesterday I asked her out of no where to do something she said her grandfather was coming over to help them with their rooms, but we kept talking. Is she avoiding me. I think she legitimately had her grandfather over. Then today I asked her out to eat out of no where because no one else wanted to, and she said her friend was over. Is she avoid ing me. Again I don't think she is but tell me otherwise. So does it sound like she's interested? Is their potential? Any tips?

My ex and I broke up before school ended. We are both very religious but he is more than me. He decided to be friends and not date again until college(pastor said so apparently). I've moved on but he was my first love and I might have been his...when we broke, I remember his mom telling me she was sure I was his first love. She is very very religious and has a heart of gold. I know she told me because I loved him and wanted me to know tht the break was not my fault what so ever. He and I are trying to be friends again but struggle because he did hurt me. He said he forced himself to move on so I did too but I do keep catching him staring at me. I heard him say his heart is okay. So I wonder if he still cares and maybe one day we could be close friends again. I was the first girl he ever opened up to, too.

As claimed by female coworkers this girl is interested in me. Even the guys think she is. I just don't get what they are seeing though. They say her face lights up when she sees me, they say you can tell by the way she looks at me, and his she talks to me. The problem is she is a little bit flirty and they know it. I've explained this to them. However they insist she is more flirty with me than anyone else. We have also been on a date and she is always chasing me and play fighting. Do you think I'm just not seeing something? I don't know what they are seeing?

So theres this guy and when ever i see him he yells out hey sexy and I want to have sex with him but idk what to do when he talks to me so i just smile and walk away, so what do i do/say? plz help. (btw im 17 and in highschool)

Alright so this guy that I knew last year and had sorta a "thing" with him but it was never official is trying creep back into my life. I don't have the energy for him anymore I'm emotionally drained. He sends me all these mixed signals and can't tell me what he wants I told him to leave me alone but he's relentless. I think he even has girlfriend that's older then us. I'm not one of those girls either I'm definitely not a side chick. Any advice??

i told her we had so much fun the last time we hung out and told her im scared were gonna loose it and she said "were not gonna loose it we wil have plenty of nights like that" i dont know how much "plenty is" it makes me feel like she means its limited somehow or something helo i cant stop seeing the negative in EVREY message i get from her. i have bad anxiety and paranoia.

My girlfriend sent me a voice message, but something weird happened it sounded like she was having sex. I asked my sister she said it sounded like she was stressed I want to upload it online to see if you guys can hear it to it sound like she said **** me. to someone else I want to know you guys opinion. Can anyone tell me how i would post a voice message online so other people can hear it?

ive been getting emotional over little things, whats wrong with me?

He said, "hi", I said, "What's up?" He said, "Nothing, just thinking about cuddling." Is this coincidence, or does it sound like he likes me? Thanks.

I love my man and I want to be with him but I'm not sexually attracted to him one reason his sex is boring, what do I do?

What happens when you attend a party like this in high school and where you have guys taking pictures of themselves with their other buddies and where you see girls in the action too? What does it take to go to a party like this.

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My best friend and I are in a fandom together. She isn't too active in the fandom and only joined because I did, but she still shows plenty of enthusiasm for the game itself. When I'm playing the game with her she seems drawn towards one of the characters and blushes when I mention him. Except she refuses to answer me when I ask her what she thinks of him, and particularly avoids discussion threads about him (at least in public). She also has a ton of fanart of him saved onto her computer, both her own work and others'. I've known her for years and there is definitely something she's not saying, which unnerves and slightly offends me. I can't tell for sure, since she hasn't confirmed, but do you think she has a crush on the character?? Is this normal??? Do I need to confront her???? WHAT DO I DO?????????????

I used like 2 girls ( at different times). Before the first one I had to face a lot of rejections and heart breaks and my confidence was shattered. But when I liked this girl the second girl had a crush on me and was really shy. What happened with the first girl was that she showed signs of liking me, everyone thought she did and once I started showing interest she got a boyfriend and threw it in my face. I had to face yet another heart break. But this is when I was highly inexperienced. I was so in live with her and her personality I kept going back for more. She played me once more and played games so much. But eventually I said **** it cause the second girl liked me and I had a crush on her kinda the whole time. So this girl was EXTREMELY shy, she would stare then look away, she wouldn't look me in the eye up close, told her freinds family about Me before she even knew my name and would desperately try for attention. This went on for 2 years. So we talk and we laugh and have a good convo. Then she starts acting b*tchy and shse rejected me when I asked for her number.S he told me no and I said "u sure" she told me "yes". I ignore her now. But I was so hurt cuz I thought she like me Now every time I see the girl 2 I get FURIOUS. I don't like being around her I don't even want to see her. I think I truly hate her. Why would she do this. When I see her I try to avoid her but I don't make it obvious. I feel a burning in my chest when i seen her today. Normal??

I need help figuring out what question to ask my crush who I think likes me. I want to get to know him and possibly get something going before my temp time ends for school in a few weeks. I wanna keep it simple to get to a point where he will ask me for my number. He has tried talking to me by just coming up to my area and staying there until we get interrupted and stuff but when I ask him what he is doing when he is watching me he says he is working even though I know he isn't cause he doesn't do what I do. He is everywhere in the warehouse not just where I am all day. please help.

My boyfriend is on vacation, so we can't have sex obviously. He's been asking to see a video of me fingering myself. I have decided tonight I'll send him a video of me fingering myself and moaning till I c*m would it be a turn on or weird if at the end I licked my c*m off my fingers wearing a sexy lipstick? When he fingers me he makes me lick my own c*m off too.

My boyfriend had asked me directly to let him watch me while i was in toilet especially when do no 2 but I was so shy and couldn't accept that until oneday I did not close toilet door in the early morning as I thought that he was sleeping deeply, while I am farting and about to poop he surprised me and opened the door and let in I was so embarrased and cover my face by hands and asked him to go out he told me that's the only way to overcome my fears to do pee and poop infront of others I couldn't hold it and dumps alot of poop with horrible smell and loud farting then alot of pee he was watching me curiously and bad odor didn't bother him I couldn't wipe infront of him anyway and get dressed! He kept watching me other times and I became more confident to do that while he with me in toilet and even wiping myself then he started to told me he wants wipe me after finshing. Why would he want to wipe me? And why would he want to watch me?

I did it first time in mid 20s and i think i dont *click* well in social situations , more stoic/reserved while others who do it in like high school or whatever, do they just appear more normal ? Can i make up for this by doing it way more than normal? I mean the mind is still developing in the teens more so it coincides more with sex which is develops knowing about it, while youre in your 20s youre already developed in the mind and sex probably doesnt change your brain psychology? or does it? help anyone i'm really freaked out , i dont want to be this reserved and all if i do it more to make up for lost years will that help?

Hello there, me and my girlfriend are about to have a romantic weekend up state. We're into soft core Dom/sub and I am the Dom. We're bring rope, blindfolds and that's about it. She is into orgasm denial and dirty talk. Does anyone have any suggestions for activities we can do? Thanks!

So to start off, my dad has never done anything inappropriate with me in any way, hes never touched me badly or anything. He s always been a good dad. But once I was about 11 I started to get snappy with him, I wanted my space from him. I always grew up as daddy s little girl and I was sick of it. He took this really hard and was really upset by it. I eventually stopped being do snappy towards him and became nicer again. But one thing had changed and it s been going on for years now (I m 18 now), he always stares at me. Even when we re at dinner ill catch him staring at me, no matter where we re at I ll always catch him looking at me. It s not in an inappropriate way, he just stares. And like he always takes my side on everything and always wants to hang out with me and be around me it seems. Sometimes I feel like hes smothering me. I love my dad, I do and I m not trying to accuse him of anything, hes never done anything bad to me, it s just sometimes he makes me feel uncomfortable. Also, sometimes it s like he doesn t even know my mom exists and he often sides with me over her. Through the years, I ve found myself attracted to older men, I don t know why. I just get so nervous and uncomfortable say around my friend s dad or any type of older guy. I even kind of find myself attracted to my crush s dad right now at the moment. I don t know why, I just do. And my parents aren t divorced or anything nor do they ever plan to. I ve never been attracted to my dad either. Help?

I met a guy in Fall 2011 in my class and he would always stare at me whenever I walked into class. He always had that yearning look on his face. One time he said that I had pretty hair.In summer 2013 we crossed paths again in a prep class. He would always park next to me. One time I was sitting in my car and talking o the phone and when I looked to my right, he was staring at me with that yearning look.That fall I volunteered at an organization he created with his friends. He invited me to the board meeting and introduced me to all his friends as "Hey I want you to meet Anna that Ive told you about." Th entire meeting he stared at me even while he was talking to his friends. That night on his twitter he posted: "I wish I could shut off these feelings..."This semester he is in one of my classes. On the first day he sat behind me and said "Hi Anna how are you?" and he had that yearning look. He still sits behind me. Today when class was over I turned to my side to get my stuff and he was staring. As I was slowly getting up and he did the same and I sat back down and he still did the same. Then I got up and he did the same. We talked for a bit and he was was nervous. I do like him. Last week I had to send him my notes and he texted me and complimented my handwriting. He said it was amazing and immaculate. Today as I was slowly getting up and he did the same and I sat back down and he still did the same. I asked if he has a gf and he said "No, not looking for that now. Just trying to stay focused."Once when I was walking to class, he was sitting outside of the class and kept staring at me as I was walking to class. Sometimes when he leaves class he'll turn around and look at me as he leaves.Last night we were helping each other with hw through text from 6-9pm. A few hours later he texted me good night. He invited me to study with him for the final. After we studied, we were leaving the library and he hugged me goodbye.

My ex and I broke up before school ended. We are both very religious but he is more than me. He decided to be friends and not date again until college(pastor said so apparently). I've moved on but he was my first love and I might have been his...when we broke, I remember his mom telling me she was sure I was his first love. She is very very religious and has a heart of gold. I know she told me because I loved him and wanted me to know tht the break was not my fault what so ever. He and I are trying to be friends again but struggle because he did hurt me. He said he forced himself to move on so I did too but I do keep catching him staring at me. I heard him say his heart is okay. So I wonder if he still cares and maybe one day we could be close friends again. I was the first girl he ever opened up to, too.

me and my ex first met each other on the bus,1month later or so,he got my number from someone else,and asked me out,and we started dating,we have been on and off,and i try to be nice,and give him chances,we have been on and off dating for awhile,we have dated at least 7times or so,one time when we dated he mentioned marrying me,and asked me how many kids i wanted,he told me he liked me when he first saw me,but one time we got into a argument and he called me some mean names,but he apologized and hasn't done it since so far,now we are not dating and have stopped on and off dating for about 2months,but he still randomly texts me out of the blue,i confronted him about it and he said he just wants friendship ,but he has called me like 20 times and messages a lot to,today he messaged me and asked if i was single,what's his deal,is he in love with me,he has dated other girls,but he keeps coming back for me,help please,im so confused,does he just want to keep me on hold or what,every time he contacts me,he isn't dating anyone

He's in his mid 20s.... I am 22 - he was copying what I said word for word for a little bit - he always puts sweets on my desk even though I tell him not to and I'm on a diet. He also tells me there are sweets in another department. I always react to him - he texts with exclamation points. I said something nice and he said "Thanks [my name]!" - he always teases me. - one time a someone jokingly said they saw us holding hands and the guy said "he saw that? Man. Guess he is onto us." - I asked him if he wanted to get a drink he said "don't hate me. I'm busy this weekend so I can't this weekend" I haven't heard back to get a drink.. - I said he was very sweet & cute and he said "easy, there". I said "sorry" and he said its ok and then asked me how my night was going The next day he seemed normal and started convos with me.

Is it wrong to have sex with someone who is 13 years older than you.? I'm 28 and he's 41 I had been talking to him online for a year and we live in different states. We recently met in person a few weeks ago. We ended up having sex and I enjoyed it he asked me when was I coming back we aren't in relationship. I told him that he needs to get over his insecurities about his penis size and that he's good in bed.Then he laughed saying well why am I not screwing more women. (I'm guessing he said that as in a way of saying that most women have a problem with his size). I told him that it's a good thing that he's not screwing a lot of women because there are so many people with STD's that he should ALWAYS use protection and I told him that if I could I would let him have me every night and that he was the only man I really want. He asked me if I thought he was cute. We aren't in a relationship but he asked me when would I be back to see him but I don't know if I should go see him again.

So there is a guy in my lecture and lab. But every now and then I catch him looking at me. Once I was standing behind him in line to write my name on the sign-in sheet and looked back at me. Once he came up to my lab partner and I to talk to my partner (they have another class together as well) and when he looked at me he smiled huge and took a few deep breathes before he talked to my partner. When he went to sit back down he looked back at me. Once he came up again to my partner and talked to her about their class and he kept staring a ton. Once he came up again and asked what we thought of the exam but I was too shy and didn't say anything. My friends said he kept looking at me. I got a haircut and he was staring 24/7. Then after class my friend was talking to him and she called me over. When I came up to him his eyes went wide and sparkly and he smiled big. He almost looked frozen. Once a random guy came to me and asked me a question and he glared at him. when another guy asked me a question, he turned his whole body around and glared at him. we talked more. When we were leaving class he asked was I was going and I said to the right and he said he normally goes the other way but he said he would walk with me and so we walked and talked. He asked a lot of questions around me and walked close to me. Whenever he looks at me he blink slow. Once he walked with me again and we talked. Before we parted way exchanged numbers. We studied together with my lab partner. When we were studying my friend was talking about her boyfriend and he looked at me and smiled. When we were leaving he walked me all the way to my apartment. Last week I told him that if he wanted to grab coffee sometime then to let me know. He said that sometimes things come up but he will let me know. We studied together again and he walked me to my apartment. On the last day of class he walked out of class, looked at me with a sad face and sighed hard and didn't say goodbye. I texted him for coffee again and he said he is busy with family stuff these days (this is true bc my friend said he was family stuff going on so he's not looking.) We talk once every few months. Once he posted "when someone never leaves your mind and heart, thats when you're in love" and then there was another pic that said "weakness moments when you feel like you're losing the person you love the most, and this person means everything for you, and you can't live without this person, while you can do nothing to it so you ust go get lost. cut distances and distances with hope to forget, but simply it is not gonna happen"

Ive heard that you have to fully finish for it to constitute something differently than just putting it in, that it signifies to the boyfriend and girlfriend that he fully commits , or something , the invisible bond, because if he just pulls out or its like just starting to *** and then pulls out, its worthless… uncommital and all. That there are different levels than just "putting it in" , you have to "fully finish"

If your girlfriend ask you to rub her butt would you say I don't feel like I it, rub it for a little while then stop, or rub it for a then have sex?

So I met this girl at a Festival on Friday and it hit off pretty good my friend and I and she and her friend. We were going on rides and I decided to not go on one and my friend told her I had a crush on her and she responded that she didnt really know me but she was blushing and smiling. so I talked to her on facebook and it went pretty well we went to the fest Sunday with her friends and me alone with them. Her friends were all girls fyi just incase. I didnt intend it to be a date so it was ok. Her friends viewed me as her Boyfriend while she viewed me as her friend because well thats what I was I didnt ask her out. So I didnt text her for 2 days after that to not seem needy, but I text her Wednesday and she doesnt respond I text her Tuesday she doesnt respond I text her Friday she doesnt respond. Idk what happened it was all going well she even said she had a fun time Sunday and we were talking and she didnt mind me flirting I think? So what do I do?

most fat chicks are usually so nice. why?

So I have a huge crush on this guy in one of my classes. He s a senior and I m a sophomore, we re in college. I tend to go to his Instagram page and stalk it, and I accidentally hit the follow button. I unfollowed him about 5 seconds later, but I m not sure if he saw it or not. Is it possible that he saw it? I don t want to go to class on Monday and he gives me this weird look, knowing that I stalk him on Instagram. It s so embarrassing.

Ive been dating this girl for 3 1/2 months not and she doesnt seem to be amused by anything i say and idk she leaves me feeling hopeless and emotional, i try to talk about something, but she usually ends up saying "oh" "ok" "okay" "nice" "fun" I feel hopeless that shes loosing interest in me We have talked before and i thought its just the fact that we have nothing to say but, she does that to everything i say, i dont know what to do, i need help

Ive had no contact with my ex for 3 yrs. we were seeing each other intermittently for 2 yrs but saw other people in between. He tried to cheat on his gfs with me a few times. He manipulatively succeeded once, while w/ a girl he planned to marry. we had a big fall out. I told his GF. I was heartbroken by his treatment of me, it took a long time to get over. He swore he would never speak to me again. He moved on quickly. A month later he moved another girl he cheated with into his apartment. I met her once before. She fallowed him around like a puppy and couldnt wait to be with him. 3 years later, they have been married for 1 month, and she is 6 months pregnant. He contacted me by email 2 wks ago, testing the waters maybe. He didnt know I already knew all these things. I let him take the lead, I wanted to see where he was going. We texted a bit, but he didnt volunteer anything. I finally asked him about his relationship status and he told me he was married. Never mentioned who he married or that they were expecting. He then apologized for how he treated me.He started flirting, and later tried sexting. this went on for 3 days. I have not heard from him since. I am looking for some insight on this. I'd like to think that he hasnt changed, and I should be glad he is no longer in my life.part of me wonders if his flirting was just a slip up and that he is a changed man, I wonder if she got the good version of him after I got the bad.

Our family was going to the beach but sadly it got cancelled. What places like great wolf lodge or bush gardens (like weekend kind of things) could we got too that's just as fun?

i'm 24 and have a 3 year old child

an you sense that he is the same age as you, then he looks down and smiles/ meaning of this lol

My ex and I broke up before school ended. We are both very religious but he is more than me. He decided to be friends and not date again until college(pastor said so apparently). I've moved on but he was my first love and I might have been his...when we broke, I remember his mom telling me she was sure I was his first love. She is very very religious and has a heart of gold. I know she told me because I loved him and wanted me to know tht the break was not my fault what so ever. He and I are trying to be friends again but struggle because he did hurt me. He said he forced himself to move on so I did too but I do keep catching him staring at me. I heard him say his heart is okay. So I wonder if he still cares and maybe one day we could be close friends again. I was the first girl he ever opened up to, too.

So, me and my boyfriend are having issues. I always want to do more stuff than just sex when im over but I cant make him *** at all even if I jack or suck him off over an hour and he moans the whole time and says how great it feels, he always ends up having to jack himself off at the end and *** on my chest or in my mouth. just yesterday I was blowing him for over TWO HOURS and still he had to jack himself off at the end to ***!!! I feel disappointment that no matter how hard I try he will not *** when I do it. so why could this be? im trying everything :(

Suppressing my feelings for him. He thinks im playing hard to get. One time I got mad because he ignored me on purpose. And he said, "so are you saying you want to be more than friends and do you want me to call you everyday" he keep asking me this question...why?

So I sent my ex explaining to him something, because he blocked me on Kik…but, he was claiming to have feelings for me, but we spoke for a bit but he was calling me a "f*cking smart a**", and he was angry so he blocked me. On my kik, he blocked me because he felt bad, and didn't want to talk to me… I feel like he hates me, does he hate me or is he just being immature? And no he hasn't took down my photos, and he got jealous before he blocked me. Serious answers only!

I have a crush on a guy named Derrick we are staying with his family while we are in Florida for vacation we leave in 1 week that's not the only problem though I'm 13 and he's about to be 29 how do I get over him he's so smart and handsome its kinda intimidating

I'm 21 year old Indian male, I never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl...etc. I really want to experience a relationship. I need help with approaching a girl, I want to know how to calm my nerves. I get really nervous, especially if it is a girl I don't know. I'm pretty decent looking, I'm going on to my 4th year of college. I'm a smart guy, i workout all the time. I'm doing everything right. This is the only area I need help with. I would appreciate all your answers.

We have sex many times. She is my first and I'm her first. Lately, she got a Bf and rarely give me sex. I get my own gf, and also had sex hooked up with my other girls acquaintance. But in the end of the day, I still found myself craving for her. For the past few months, sometimes she give me, sometimes she refused. I don't want to use her for sex anymore, but I don't know how to stop my lust toward her. Please help. She is my best friend, not fck friend. That's a pregnancy and diet guide. I saw her everyday, so avoiding her completely is impossible. She is my neighbor, and the only person close to me other than my brother.