Marriage & Divorce: Question: Does love has to be earned - People think they'll be loved just for whom they are. That's really sexual attraction. It doesn't last.? |
- Question: Does love has to be earned - People think they'll be loved just for whom they are. That's really sexual attraction. It doesn't last.?
- Question: When a couple decide to get married, ( I know you don't have to ) why does the woman take after the man's last name. Just curious.?
- Question: How do you have sex ?
- Question: Family problems?
- Question: Help!! I just got engaged!?
- Question: How do you know what to do with your husband when he decepts you decieves you and disrespects you without couseling or divorce ?
- Question: Is life too short to live it for one person? (wife, husband, gf or bf)?
- Question: Is it a Mexicans custom for their wife to feed their brother on a daily basis?
- Question: My husband forced me to right separation letter saying I decide to separate and have it notarized. Can he used that against me?
- Question: How can I put it on the internet that I am a married man looking for a woman?
- Question: Why is the ex's wedding dress here!?!?
- Question: Should I stay or go?
- Question: I give up on my marriage.?
- Question: Why do my husband spend all of his free time on the computer alone?
- Question: Divorce?or stay.Everything else is good except emotional neglect.?
- Question: My husband needs to get a sleep study done but dont have insurance?
- Question: Husband talking to ex on facebook.?
- Question: If you were separated and were intent on divorcing your spouse, would you take your wedding ring off?
- Question: How can i find a husband to marry and have kids with (i'm 220)?
- Question: Will my wife get the house and kids?
- Question: Name this politician who was involved in a little monkey business?
- Question: Hello wedding experts, i have a question?
- Question: I got a divorce from my wife in 1984 my son is now trying to get the file. can i have it sealed or is it to late? what can i do?
- Question: Partner gets into heavy detail about his past s3x partners ?
- Question: What to think of men who have a lot of nudity on their Facebook?
- Question: Should i text my go co worker this because he is being harsh towards me?
- Question: What is the benefit of waiting to have sex until marriage vs trying it out?
- Question: What should I name my blog? It's specifically for newlyweds, or young newlywed couples. Any ideas?
- Question: Is it normal that I don't want to met my girlfriends ex husband?
- Question: Is it normal for my wife to hangout with her ex? in a group of people. But still. He s there, I am not. This happens often.?
- Question: I ve been with my husband for 9years and only been with me and another guy..he can fit 3 finger in my vag does that mean I m loose Had 3 kid?
- Question: My husband is always looking on his ex facebook account. is that okay?
- Question: Should I take back my wife wife of 7 yrs (1 child) after sleeping w/ another man?
- Question: What is love?
- Question: My husband sued me for divorce on the grounds of physical and violent behavior.?
- Question: My boyfriend stopped saying I love you back to me. My heart is broken...Did he stop loving me?
- Question: What is the income level for a married couple in the state of de.?
- Question: Ex wife will consider asking for backed child support?
- Question: Im having a hard time maintaining this marriage? Please help?
- Question: Husband telling another girl he only stays with me for our daughter?
- Question: Why do i feel like i have a evil and good sides?
- Question: Can I get an original divorce accusation throw out, due to my husband going against everything he used to file it. I have to move out home.?
- Question: Denying visitation?
- Question: How is it like to marry with a girl who was married before?
- Question: What could i do legally to get my husband an his ex to stop talking?
- Question: Married... with roommates? Good or bad idea?
- Question: My boyfriend stopped saying I love you back after he became extremely stressed with his personal life. Did he give up and stop loving me?
- Question: Should I stay or should I go...?
- Question: Been married 14 years and I'm finding my husband really annoying.?
- Question: My husband blocked the doorway on me when we were fighting this morning. If he provokes me, do I have the right to slap him?
- Question: Every day is a battle.?
- Question: What do I do about the past?
- Question: Last minute at home anniversary ideas?
- Question: Is it time for a baby yet??
- Question: Am I a good wife?
- Question: Should I leave him?
- Question: Living with a wife who never admits she's wrong?
- Question: Is it wrong to never want to get married?
- Question: Why shouldn't Children get married at puberty?
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| Question: How do you have sex ? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 08:56 PM PDT Me and my wife have been married for 2 months we don't have any kids yet. She said tonight will be our sex night. We haven't done it yet since we've been married. I'm kind of scared. I'm afraid I might hurt her. I'm younger than her. I love her very much. How do we have sex ? How can I do it without hurting her ? She's 22 I'm 17 |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 08:56 PM PDT I need an outsiders opinion on this..my husband and I have been together for 6 almost 7 years and we have a little girl together who is the light of our life... And then there is his family. My husband is PR and he is very loyal to his family I understand that -- but then there's his sister that is so ungodly evil to me... She has created fake Facebook in his name and pretending he was talking to other females, she has done whatever it takes to tear us apart. Well we ran my husbands credit report and came to find out that she's been using my husbands identity and opened up credit cards in his name & his family knew. I confronted her about it & now she is sending evil texts and has told his family to stay away from me. This girl is 32 years old lives with her mom and dad and has two kids with two different guys and the one guy barely makes enough to provide shoes on their feet so she is not only stealing from us but she opened credit cards in her moms name too.. My mother in law said she will pay it off but I'm not that easy. My husband doesn't want her to go to jail & I understand this but she is pure evil. I have already contacted transunion, equifax and experian. She told me her brother was a grown man who didn't need his hand held. My husband already said he is no longer part of that family that it's just us but I am lieing awake eating potato chips realizing my husband has a credit score of 442 all because of her. |
| Question: Help!! I just got engaged!? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 08:44 PM PDT I've been living with my guy (now fiance hehe) for the past 2 years and dating for the past 4 1/2. For the first 2 years or so of dating him I really wanted to marry him. I had a dream where we had a baby and she was the best thing ever. When I moved in with him, I was very disappointed by his lack of enthusiasm toward marriage, and with every passing holiday lacking a proposal, I grew very resentful. It got to the point where recently, (the past few months actually! Lol!) I was strongly considering breaking up with him, just packing my bags and moving cross-country. Well today, out of the blue, he proposed! I was shocked and flattered but at the same time taken aback because I had been distancing myself from him for a few months now. I guess I'm happy but at the same time I am SCARED! I can't help but wonder, what if he's not the right guy for me? He's a nice man, has a good job, treats me well, loyal, etc., but there have been several times I have had crushes on other men. Even a few months ago I had a huge crush on a colleague. It scares me to see the future. It scares me to see the rest of my life with him, and our children, and their children's children, etc, etc, stretching on into infinity. It kind of scares me to see my mortality and the rest of my life unfolding. Yet I know that even if I weren't with him the future still awaits, it never goes away. Are these feelings normal? Anyone else here experienced them? How did you cope? |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 08:08 PM PDT husband made out to be a dream life they were in love they got married had a child then things turned for the worst everything he promised was out the window he drinks he parties without his wife and child he goes an comes as he wishes he has no respct for her or their home anyone can call or show up any hr with anyone to party he talks to his ex he also lets her disrespect the hi wife and family he talks to the wife like an animal all the wife does is argue over the points and cooks an cleans stays home no friends no parties really not even family does she have she cares for the child 24-7 like a real mama should she cant go anywhere alone period |
| Question: Is life too short to live it for one person? (wife, husband, gf or bf)? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 07:55 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it a Mexicans custom for their wife to feed their brother on a daily basis? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 07:53 PM PDT I purchased a house paid cash in full and only pay for the lot (land) ($200) per month... My husbands brother was suppose to move out in January to go else where I'm tired of feeding him my food I cook and supply him the needs to live like soaps ect... Is it normal for Mexicans to bum off their brothers? I buy my food he eats it my husband tells me I need to cook for him and his brother to me this is bull since I only married one man... He cooks with my dishes I purchase and leave them in his room for months. Spouse and Inlaw works with same pay but my spouse is the one with the responsibility.. I'm the bad guy since I don't want a third wheel in my house and I don't want to be married to two men is it a Mexicans custom to let their brother bum off of them? (Asking for a friend) |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 07:45 PM PDT Living in Florida, my husband and I have a house together where he only helps me pay 33% of the mortgage when he wants to. However, he's paying daycare for our 3 year old. To keep up with the house payment, I have myself in a lot of debt, where we decided to rent the house out and move to a smaller place, so I can pay my debts in a year, and that will put me in a position to pay the mortgage on my own without his help. I called the realtor, signed contract, but my husband didn't sign the contract. A couple from out of town loves the house and wants to move in, in less than 48 hrs, my husband decided not to rent the house anymore. He texted me saying in other for him to help me out I have to accept his condition. I felt bad for the couple that are staying in a hotel patiently waiting for the house. I accepted the conditions which are writing a separation letter stated I'm the one taking care of everything for my son, but he will take care of the school. I can't travel with him without his consent, he can see him whenever he wants He has me sign and notarized. He also want that the check is made to him every month, so he can pay the mortgage. He wants me to leave the house before he leaves; then he will sign the lease agreement. Is this legal? Is there anything I can do at this point? Can he use that letter against me? He doesn't help at all in the house. I don't want to sell the house. I have no money to hire a lawyer right now, but I'm planing to do that in 2 months. FYI, married for 8 years. write*** separation letter |
| Question: How can I put it on the internet that I am a married man looking for a woman? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 07:44 PM PDT To get a in touch with me philipstrauss13@yahoo.com |
| Question: Why is the ex's wedding dress here!?!? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 07:36 PM PDT My boyfriend of 10 months and I recently got an apartment together. While putting stuff away I discovered that his ex's wedding dress is hanging in the closet. He's been separated 4 years and divorced 1 year. I asked if he held on to it for sentimental reasons and he snapped at me. Guess that answered that question. He said he was hoping to give it to his daughter one day, ummmmm shouldn't that be up to the mom? And they are divorced, I can understand if they were still married and handed the dress down to their daughter. (According to him, the ex didn't want the dress) So am I being a bit selfish for asking him to either get rid of it or give it to his ex so she can decide what to do with it? |
| Question: Should I stay or go? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 07:34 PM PDT I no longer have any desire for my husband sexually. After many years of terrible sex (like 17 years) I woke up to myself and worked out how to have an orgasm. But the damage was done. I feel traumatised if I get intimate with my husband. He knows this, and I have explained that I don't want to have sex with him, and that I cant see the situation changing. What he doesn't know is that I started experimenting outside our marriage to see if it was just me that couldn't enjoy sex, or was it more specific to my partner. We have three beautiful children ages 13 yrs to 7 yrs. I enjoy my husband's company and he is a fantastic father. Should I break up my family, take my kids out of the nice school they are in, and have a more difficult life (probably would be difficult for my husband as well), yet have a chance with another relationship? Or should I stay, keep my kids in a stable environment, and stick it out with my husband, and perhaps not be completely honest? |
| Question: I give up on my marriage.? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 07:34 PM PDT Me & my husband have been married for 9 months It was arranged/love marriage. In the begn. He was desperate to marry me & promised he will keep me happy & listen to me(now i realize that was his card to win me) i let that go knowing men do that. After marriage things started to change & i started noticing his real nature which was moody & selfish now when i say selfish i also mean conceited & self centered at times. He told me growing up everyone was jealous of him cause he was more good looking & smart which led to him loving himself & being by himself mostly. Our relationship has come to a point where we barely talk. I want to point out that were also miles away but there are still plenty of ways to see and communicate with each other so there shouldnt be any excuse. Moving on, i went to visit him for two months & even then things weren't the best, he was distanced & i like to show effection which he was not too okay with. At the end it turned out that i got used to him ignoring me so much i just didnt care & would just talk to my friends. But im not happy? I see this as a compromise. He barely calls me when i call him he has an excuse not to pick up he just got fired from work he's free all the time i don't see what the problem is? I even help him financially i do as much as i can but it's like he's not reciprocating that love back & im at a stage where im just tired of trying that i don't even care anymore. Does this happen with a lot of couples or am i over reacting? |
| Question: Why do my husband spend all of his free time on the computer alone? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 07:32 PM PDT |
| Question: Divorce?or stay.Everything else is good except emotional neglect.? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 06:51 PM PDT I have become obiese since the birth of our son.Mainly due to intamacy completely null and void by husband.our son is 10 and and he loves his dad he is a good provider but lost interest after the birth..This has created severe anguish and pain in my soul and heart and caused low self esteem and severe depression in me.now I'm so big,hurt,and he won't talk about it.Weve been togather 13 years..and and the last 10 years I've been emotionally neglected.Is it time to move on??. |
| Question: My husband needs to get a sleep study done but dont have insurance? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 06:48 PM PDT |
| Question: Husband talking to ex on facebook.? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 06:39 PM PDT I found out after I woke up and saw all the messages. There was no flirting they had a 2 hour conversation about nutrition and food and stuff. He did send her messages of the cats and my dog, they had the cats together. How angry should I be cause right now i'm super pissed off at him. He didn't try to hide it, didn't delete anything, he said he should never have contacted her, he did so by commenting on a photo she tagged a friend of his in. I was thinking about leaving him if I can't trust him to not do stuff like this. I don't know what to do. Let me add, he never mentioned me, he always said things in these messages like "I got a dog, not "we got a dog." He told her that he doesn't drink anymore cause that was a problem when they were together, it's not a problem with him now but he does still drink. He told her that he got a membership to the gym which isn't true, "me and him got a membership to the gym", seems like he was trying to impress her. @Living The Dream I'm on his account, okay? I don't have a yahoo account. |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 06:32 PM PDT If you wanted the divorce? |
| Question: How can i find a husband to marry and have kids with (i'm 220)? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 06:09 PM PDT So in modern days in america its rare for college kids my age to even think of marriage or NOT sleeping around. I'm still a virgin and I want to be married while young. Maybe in India I would not have this problem, as they largely value marriage and arranged marriage is done by families usually. But here i am from a broken home and I am scared I'll only marry when I'm older and less attractive, say 30 or 40. Ugh. Any tips? I'm not Indian lol! |
| Question: Will my wife get the house and kids? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 06:05 PM PDT My wife wants a divorced and I don't. In Kansas will she be granted residential custody if she files for divorce. You would think that the person who doesn't want to leave the marriage should be the one to stay and keep the kids. If she wants out she can leave but don't force me out of my house and away from my kids. |
| Question: Name this politician who was involved in a little monkey business? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 05:55 PM PDT |
| Question: Hello wedding experts, i have a question? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 05:55 PM PDT Before the wedding, why are the grooms men go to somewhere enjoying, like taking a vacation such as in taiwan. I don't get it. Why is it? |
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| Question: Partner gets into heavy detail about his past s3x partners ? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 05:16 PM PDT Is anyone's partner/husband like this ? He drinks and when he gets tipsy he talks about past sexual partners and details of how their br3asts and down there area looked and how much fun it was to sleep with them etc. Also, he'll mention how it would be fun to sleep with ( insert a description of a woman that looks nothing like me). Is this common ? Does he just not like me ? Even when he is sober he is fine with detailing his past and talking about how he is attracted to redheads etc, yet am not redheaded, does he do this to insult me or what ? |
| Question: What to think of men who have a lot of nudity on their Facebook? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 05:03 PM PDT I am referring to one guy in his 30s who has all kinds of different female nudity on his FB. He frequently finds and shares videos of women who are topless or bottomless or both, in bikinis, etc. This is not necessary porn he's posting but rather videos of women who get clothes ripped off in a prank or somehow end up half clothed. But with regard to porn he has posted a collage of nude women having sex put together in a depiction of an actor's face. He also has a few videos of topless woman strolling down the street and a video of some woman being picked up and having sex with a random man as she walks down the street. He has alluded in the past that "anybody" can "have it" from him. Not sure if he was being serious. He frequently complains of not being able to find a "serious" girl for himself and a large percentage of the women on his facebook are dressed provocatively. I don't know what is in his mind when he posts these videos and pics because I have never done it and cannot imagine someone who would. What does all of this say about this guy? What if he were to approach me to date? Is he a virgin? Yeah, what's not intriguing about a facebook full of boobs and @$$? |
| Question: Should i text my go co worker this because he is being harsh towards me? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 04:59 PM PDT my co worker and i were kinda "talking" it didnt really work out. he is being sooo harsh to me at work. i want to text him. why are you being so harsh to me at work? can you please stop. it really hurts my feelings. hate me all you want but can you stop showing it. should i say this or no? is he going to think "oh she wants to talk to me"? |
| Question: What is the benefit of waiting to have sex until marriage vs trying it out? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 04:58 PM PDT |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 04:30 PM PDT I am a young, female, college student. |
| Question: Is it normal that I don't want to met my girlfriends ex husband? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 04:25 PM PDT My current girlfriend has two kids with her ex husband. He can't be around the kids alone because he's being investigate for looking up child porn for the second time. She also wanted to lie and tell him we were just friends and not seeing ex other and I didn't want to go along with this. She said she wanted to lie about it because the divorce was so recent and she didn't want to upset him. Is it normal that I don't want to meet him under these circumstances? |
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| Question: My husband is always looking on his ex facebook account. is that okay? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 04:01 PM PDT my husband and i just got married few months ago. actually, i was a fiance visa here in the state. 2days before my flight he told me that he wasnt ready yet to get married. at first i was shocked, but i still manage to accept it and continue to my flight and just go home after 2months. But after 2months he told me to go downtown and i just found myself with him getting a marriage license. im very happy actually eventhough it's a surprise for me. We just got married last march. After that, he told me that he still like his ex girlfriend. and if he only given a chance he'll court her again. he actually proposed marriage to that girl but she doesnt want to get married yet. and the reason why they broke up is because the girl is entertaining a married man. my husband told me that she is a virgin and a nice lady. that im she's far better than me. i told my husband from the very beginning of our relationship that i am not a virgin. i've been honest and loyal the entire relationship.. i love him so dearly.. and now i accidentally saw his search on facebook that he is constantly looking for that girl.. i dont know what to do.. i feel that he loves me too.. but im very insecure on that girl which is very unhealthy for me. please help. |
| Question: Should I take back my wife wife of 7 yrs (1 child) after sleeping w/ another man? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 03:54 PM PDT I initiated a divorce last year after we started having major issues and things were said to me that could not be taken back or forgotten. After 8 months of that (we're we still lived together but did not touch each other once) we reconciled mainly for our son and started being intimate again. It was never the same - no I love you's or kissing or sharing a real life - just playing house with maintenance sex. During this time we were both faithful. So one morning after another fight she says I found someone else and I was like okay cool. Then it hit me that she was looking for someone the whole time or worse I made her heart open to this by not really fixing anything. So the day she went to go on a trip with him I tell her I still love her - she still leaves and sleeps with him (she never hid the fact). Now she thinks she made a mistake and wants to try and get back together. I just don't know if another man inside my wife is something I can get over? I know allot needs to changed on both ends but I also don't know if she's actually sorry either. Well we r seeing a therapist tomorrow but I'm just so lost - I don't even know even without her with that man that I want her back for her - for my kid - or so that man no longer gets her? |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 03:41 PM PDT If there is no intimacy between a couple but just accepting each other the way they are, is that love? Is love just accepting each other and letting the partner do whatever they like? Could you truly love somebody yet never show any affection to your partner? I feel that if you love somebody, there has to be some emotional investment & some affection. If there is acceptance but none of these two, it is hard for me to call it love. |
| Question: My husband sued me for divorce on the grounds of physical and violent behavior.? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 03:10 PM PDT My husband sued me for divorce on grounds of abusive and violent behavior due to me finding out about text messages to his ex-wife . He didn't know how to say sorry. So, we sent angry text back and forth for 2 days. He moved out because I wouldn't forgive him. Since, the court appearance .I have to be out the house in 30 days, now 20. Because, he owned the home before marriage. He had a restraining order for both added to the papers , Right after court he called me and texted . We have talk amicably since , even having Skype sex, which I videoed just 2 days ago, with him saying he wanted me. He has been here to the house eating my cooking. Can I get that order thrown out? If, so how can I go about it. He had an attorney, I didn't . Couldn't afford one. We aren't divorced yet.. |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 02:53 PM PDT He was telling me quite often but once his life was almost turned upside down, he just stopped saying he loved me. He even stopped answering my calls and replying! But here is why... 4 years ago he was accused of molesting his ex wife's daughter. He won the military panel, won family court was proven innocent and then had to go to court by jury! Criminal court. This has been stressing him out for 4 long years and people have thought he was a child molester. Finally he had the trial all last week and he stopped talking to me and his mother. She is in Africa and I'm in Germany. We have a long distance relationship. His daughter had been talking to me the whole time. She actually face timed me while they read the verdict NOT GUILTY! I have been by his side this whole time. He fell deeply in love with me and I fell for him but the distance has caused issues. We have been together for 8 months now but him not saying I love you has blown me away. For a person to be so deeply in love how could they just stop saying I love you? I prayed and prayed with his daughter for his verdict to be not guilty. She and I bonded and she said she wants me to be her step mom lol She told me that he didn't eat the whole week and was not speaking to anyone until after the verdict. Well it's over and I've been by his side believing in him. I have been loyal. He thought I was going to leave but it's like he left. He hasn't called in over a week. :-( |
| Question: What is the income level for a married couple in the state of de.? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 02:52 PM PDT |
| Question: Ex wife will consider asking for backed child support? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 02:51 PM PDT My friend just got divorced for the third time from the same person.. They do have a child which is 14 years old and is under the grandparents (mothers side) guardianship. The child in this relationship was lost due to the mother fault. .. However, they did live together till this spring, got divorced and the child was living for all these years with her grandparents. Now, he did find out that she will be asking for a backed child support. Could she do that? Will he be paying something to her even that the kid is legaly under her granparents guardianship? Or she is just trying to scare him?.. Please help. Thank you! Just to make it clear. The child is living with the grandparents the last twelve years and they are getting financial support from the government. |
| Question: Im having a hard time maintaining this marriage? Please help? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 02:49 PM PDT Me & my husband have been married for 9 months it was arranged/love marriage. In the begn. He was desperate to marry me & promised he will keep me happy & listen to me(now i realize that was his card to win me) i let that go knowing men do that. After marriage things started to change & i started noticing his real nature which was moody & selfish now when i say selfish i also mean conceited & self centered at times. He told me growing up everyone was jealous of him cause he was more good looking & smart which led to him loving himself & being by himself mostly. Our relationship has come to a point where we barely talk. I want to point out that were also miles away but there are still plenty of ways to see and communicate with each other so there shouldnt be any excuse. Moving on, i went to visit him for two months & even then things weren't the best, he was distanced & i like to show effection which he was not too okay with. At the end it turned out that i got used to him ignoring me so much i just didnt care & would just talk to my friends. But im not happy? I see this as a compromise. He barely calls me when i call him he has an excuse not to pick up he just got fired from work he's free all the time i don't see what the problem is? I even help him financially i do as much as i can but it's like he's not reciprocating that love back & im at a stage where im just tired of trying that i don't even care anymore. Does this happen with a lot of couples or am i over reacting? |
| Question: Husband telling another girl he only stays with me for our daughter? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 02:29 PM PDT So this may seem bad, but I made a fake profile to test my husband after he cheated on me. Well, I messaged him on there and started flirting and he is flirting back. I sent him a nude picture on there and he said he loved it. He said his wife didn't trust him and had been talking to another dude on facebook. (I did message a guy who I haven't talked to in a while to ask him about the adoption process and to tell him I was sorry to hear about his mom's motor cycle accident). Well, then I asked (from the fake profile) why he stayed with her (me) and he said just for his daughter...what should I do?? |
| Question: Why do i feel like i have a evil and good sides? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 02:28 PM PDT sometimes i want to love mass murdering racist men i see on tv. other times i am a very nice lady and i want to be with a guy who will follow the rules. |
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| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 02:24 PM PDT Currently going through a divorce. We have been separated for almost 3 years now (September 19, 2012). During this time he would only come around once or twice a month and never paid any child support. He submitted a lawyer for a divorce in June of this year and since then he has been visiting our child for a few hours every other weekend and he began giving me $120/week. I know that his income ranges from 900-1,200/week and childsupport here in IL is 20% of his income. We do not have an agreement on visitations nor a court order yet, can I get in troublw for denying him to see our daughter? Okay, clearly you guys are being mean so... 1. We separated due to him causing me & my daughter emotional abuse. 2. I ended up in a hospital due to it. 3. He visited my child in my home once or twice a month (whenever he felt like it) without paying a cent to feed her. 4. I have hired a lawyer already. 5. I don't want to deny visitation for ever just for a few weeks due to his mother being in town (a woman I had an order of protection against for the past 2 years) Thank you! |
| Question: How is it like to marry with a girl who was married before? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 02:04 PM PDT |
| Question: What could i do legally to get my husband an his ex to stop talking? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:34 PM PDT my husband is talking to his ex . we made agreements in the begining not to have ties with our exs. except his exception was they had kids .now the kids are all of age an living there lives .still he knows after so many issues that i dont want him talking to his ex. yet i still find hes calling her shes calling him an recently on his birthday she called him and texted him all of course behind my back and her boyfriends back one thing is its sneaky for a reason two he knows it bothers me |
| Question: Married... with roommates? Good or bad idea? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:01 PM PDT Me and my husband will be getting married in 3 weeks, and currently we live with my mom and two sisters. We have an opportunity to move out into an apartment but the only catch, we'd have one other person living there. The bathroom and Bedrooms would NOT be shared. And it is a work friend were looking at renting with. Obviously its not ideal to have a roommate after getting married, but i feel like its a better situation than were in now. WDYT? |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:11 PM PDT He was telling me quite often but once his life was almost turned upside down, he just stopped saying he loved me. He even stopped answering my calls and replying! But here is why... 4 years ago he was accused of molesting his ex wife's daughter. He won the military panel, won family court was proven innocent and then had to go to court by jury! Criminal court. This has been stressing him out for 4 long years and people have thought he was a child molester. Finally he had the trial all last week and he stopped talking to me and his mother. She is in Africa and I'm in Germany. We have a long distance relationship. His daughter had been talking to me the whole time. She actually face timed me while they read the verdict NOT GUILTY! I have been by his side this whole time. He fell deeply in love with me and I fell for him but the distance has caused issues. We have been together for 8 months now but him not saying I love you has blown me away. For a person to be so deeply in love how could they just stop saying I love you? I prayed and prayed with his daughter for his verdict to be not guilty. She and I bonded and she said she wants me to be her step mom lol She told me that he didn't eat the whole week and was not speaking to anyone until after the verdict. Well it's over and I've been by his side believing in him. I have been loyal. He thought I was going to leave but it's like he left. He hasn't called in over a week. :-( |
| Question: Should I stay or should I go...? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:50 AM PDT I have been married a little over a month after a 4.5 year verylong distance relationship. I recently looked through his old e-mails and discovered that he had been periodically e-mailing an ex to tell her she's beautiful and he loves and misses her, he signed up for a dating website (but doesn't appear to have used it to actually contact anyone), and he was carrying on a YEARS-LONG very intimate and very sexual relationship with a woman who lived a few hours from him. In some cases, there are messages to/from me, pictures to/from me, on the same day he was writing long sexual e-mails to her.. and apparently telling me goodnight then staying up and having phone sex with her. We got engaged November 2013. There are e-mails from that time where she references him suggesting they meet. There are January 2014 recordings of her masturbating for him at his request. I confronted my husband, and he initially denied it, then said he forgot. FORGOT. he says he wasn't sure about me for a long time, but he is now and he loves me. I am completely crushed. I feel used and betrayed and like I got tricked into marrying this scumbag. I missed him so much for so long, and this is what he was up to. I really do love him, but it seems he's not what I thought. I don't know what to do. Why should I believe that he won't just continue this behavior now that we're married? Is it better now that we are living together? We used to visit each other every 3-6 months. full disclosure, for a long time, he used stimulant drugs which cause sluttiness, and he used benzos which cause memory loss and general carelessness. Not trying to make excuses for him, but I am trying my best to understand. |
| Question: Been married 14 years and I'm finding my husband really annoying.? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:21 AM PDT I love him very much but I'm at the point where I had enough. His efforts to try hard is no longer enough. He doesn't take care of our house like he should- forgets menial chores like taking out the trash, doesn't like taking care of the yard and wouldn't hire someone to do it, doesn't pick up after himself (leaves clothes, his stuff and shoes all over the place)... I am getting tired of it. I feel like a f*****g maid! We have two children who are close to following his trail. One of them still forgets to flush the toilet and he is 8. I try to let it all go but how can I calm myself down especially when my hormones are not so great! |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:07 AM PDT We were fighting this morning, and I stormed into the bedroom where he followed me and continued to argue with me. I wanted to be alone, so I tried to leave the bedroom, but he stood in my way and continued to argue with me. Repeatedly I asked him to move out of my way, but he does not listen. I start to get even angrier and verbally let him know I want him to let me through. Yet he continues to stand in my way and yell at me. Eventually I slap him in the face and he questions why I would ever do that. My question is, did I have a right to slap my husband in that situation? I would never slap him any other time, but I feel he provokes me to that point. Please let me know opinions. Thank you. |
| Question: Every day is a battle.? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:06 AM PDT He can't talk to you straight regarding some issue in your relationship(between you and him) he didn't say a word but everyday you felt that your nothing to him anymore no love at all..HE WANTS to relax and enjoy self . Letting you keep hangin asking what's going on. Everyday is a struggle and pain for me. Waiting for an answer. |
| Question: What do I do about the past? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:41 AM PDT I have four children my oldest has a different father my husband raised her since she was two years old. When she was small she saw lots of fights and physical violence, I was very aggressive towards my husband becaue of different reasons. Me and my husband separated when she was 14, we lost our home everything she was cutting school run away with her boyfriend. I was there trying to support but I was going threw my own struggles and I regret not being there for her more. On two occasion she went out with her stepdad and her siblings. I guess in one of those occasion they got into a big fight and he told her that to get out of he's life and that he wasn't her father. At this point in her life she's got in contact with her real dad and she's trying to have a relationship with him. Me and my husband got back together 4 years ago and had a new baby that's two now. I don't know what to do Cuz she holds so much grudge. And I don't blame her. But how do I handle this situation my husband apologize to her lots of time and tries to make it up. Do I leave him? What do I do to solve this. I'm going crazy with guilt I feel bad for my other kids. Help |
| Question: Last minute at home anniversary ideas? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:13 AM PDT 9th wedding anniversary today, I know that's not a special number or anything but my wife and I had dinner plans. Babysitter has canceled last minute and I'd like to do something special at home. Kids go to bed by 8 so we have the whole night in reality. Live in suburban Chicago if that helps. Thanks for the ideas. |
| Question: Is it time for a baby yet?? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:06 AM PDT My husband and I have been married for almost 4.5 years. Everyone around us is wanting us to have a baby; my parents, his parents, his cousins, and my cousins. And it seems that everyone around us is having babies. On one side, I feel like we are ready, but on the other side...I don't want to give up my lifestyle now. IDK what to do??? Maybe I should just do it. |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:03 AM PDT I have been married to my husband for a few months now. We recently got married. I'm just worried that he might be disappointed in me or something, is that normal? I'm a stay at home wife (I'm not a mom yet) so I usually wake up at 6 to prepare his breakfast. That includes fruit, scrambled eggs, and a glass of hand squeezed orange juice. Sometimes on the weekends I make waffles or pancakes (by scratch, not the frozen stuff). When he is at work, I clean the house, sweep the floors, vacuum, etc. I make myself some lunch. Then, I take care of the mail, pay the bills, etc. For the rest of the afternoon I read parenting books or I go out and look for clothes for my baby girl on the way ( I'm 2 months pregnant). Around 5:30, I prepare a gourmet dinner. And it is usually ready when he comes home at about 6:30. We talk about our day, and things like that. He usually does the dishes and does some of his work stuff. At 9, we might watch our fav. TV show together and go to sleep around 10 or 10:30. Thanks! Sorry for the length btw. My husband loves me very much and he told me so.. He plans fun things to do every weekend and he once apologized over and over saying how he wanted to take care of me but he had work. I understand though. He doesn't have much expectations, I just want him to be happy. We both understand and love each other. My husband earns $400,000 a year so money isn't really a problem. We live in a nice house in a nice neighborhood. He compliments my housework and tells me how special & amazing & perfect I am every day. He offered to hire a maid but I refused. I prefer to do those things by myself. We both know that I'm not his slave or servant. I take about two or three days off every week. He wants me to have fun and do what I want to do so I don't have any pressure to be perfect or anything. I get my nails done every two or three weeks, I go shopping for myself every two weeks, I spend some time with my friends every week, and I pretty much do what I wish to do. We split the chores. Sometimes he does the cleaning, sometimes he does the cooking. I do the laundry for one week, he does it for the next week, then we switch back. He's fine with it and he feels happy to help me. |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 08:38 AM PDT I'm a 25 year old mother of two both children are my husbands. We've been together 10 years, married 5 since we got married he changed drastically. (Or just unmasked what was really underneath) He's become quite controlling I was called for an interview at a job I really wanted. And he got so upset. He told me if I went and got the job that I could leave and he wouldn't want me around anymore. He said that once a married woman started working that was when the marriage went to hell. Married women aren't supposed to work because that's where affairs start. I got so pissed off and insulted because 1) I've never given him a reason to doubt me. 2) if anything HE has been unfaithful to me. And 3) if anyone should be trusted it's me. Well, he said he finds it so hard to believe, that after everything he's put me through that I wouldn't hesitate to cheat on him the first chance I get. I said " No, I don't believe in revenge. I chose to forgive you. And its more than obvious with your comment that your conscience still eats at you. I still love you. And when you love someone you don't hurt them in any way. Its more than apparent you do not love ME. You don't trust me. And frankly I don't think we should continue this relationship." I am tired of this controlling and untrusting person. The only thing that has kept me there is that my children love their home and father. |
| Question: Living with a wife who never admits she's wrong? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 08:34 AM PDT Just now my wife said "possums will be coming in our pool" I said no they won't get IN the pool. Her reply I didn't say in the pool I mean "like walk around the black yard! Then she refused to admit she just said the words "in the pool" This is just one example of her never admiting she is wrong. She is the type of person when she steps on my foot she blames me. She drops a dish and says I used too much dish soap making the dishes slippery. Even though the dish was dry and sitting in the cabint for a day. And she always sets me up so if some thing goes wrong the blame lies on me. For example she'll say "is it safe to give are cc number to this website?" "Are you sure we got every thing out of the hotel room?" "Are you sure we packed EVERYTHING we need for this four week trip to Europe?" So how to you live with a women like this??? |
| Question: Is it wrong to never want to get married? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 08:32 AM PDT I grew up "old fashioned." No sex before marriage (which I regret breaking,) don't date unless you intend to marry, and marriage is the only way to be with someone. I still believe those things, it's become who I am. Is it wrong, now older, that I've decided to never get married and just stay single? I know I might get heckled in society, because marriage is a social norm. I've looked at all the pros, cons, imagined what it would be like, and I honestly don't think marriage is right for me. I think I'm better off staying single. Single for me isn't lonely, it's the exact opposite. I have more time for my friends. I never want kids, I've already decided that a while ago. I just don't have the patience or personality for raising them. I don't believe in being in a relationship unless I'm planning on getting married to that person. Becoming a nun has nothing to do with this, and if you don't care, why did you answer? |
| Question: Why shouldn't Children get married at puberty? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 08:02 AM PDT Throughout history Children would get married very early and there was no problems. Ik there's an issues with money and work but i think the real problems is that we treat them softly not like a men and women. There is research that children can take in as much info as a young adult only if treated right. There were many teens that were kings or war generals and many outrageous positions and they didn't do a bad job. Oh yea in texas in the 50s they would get married at puberty as well. |
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