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- Question: IF YOUR EX WIFE HAS A RESTAINING ORDER ON YOU AND YOUDID NOT BREAK THE ORDER CAN SHE GET AND EXSTAINING?
- Question: Why am I comfortable in a bad marriage?
- Question: Does a single mom of 3 have hope to find love?
- Question: How do I deal with my wife's sister when she took a photo of one of my sons?
- Question: Would you divorce your wife for this?
- Question: If a spouse is found to be guilty of installing spyware on his wifes phone?
- Question: How to save my marriage?
- Question: Sit: Dinner Table. Wife says "Swipe that fly away". I calculate and slap the fly dead." Wife gets angry. Thoughts on right/wrong.?
- Question: Any suggestions for how to deal with my husband's way of "punishing" me?
- Question: First Time Wife Share Threesome?
- Question: Does my husband want a divorce?
- Question: How should I tell my parents I m getting married at 20?
- Question: I want my Kid back from my wife..?
- Question: Not married but do pay child support does this cover extra curricular activities?
- Question: I'm a married woman and I fell in love with a married man. What to do?
- Question: Am I normal if I watch porn? I'm a woman.?
- Question: Moving out of state?
- Question: Distance Marriages, how do you keep them going?
- Question: My divorced friend does not have primary custody of her kids. What are the chances of custody being changed?
- Question: Friend with benefits?
- Question: Is it wrong for a married woman to do this?
- Question: Please help!?
- Question: Need outside advice on whether or not to try and make things work with my wife?
- Question: Should I say something?
- Question: My wife is acting very childish but she won t listen when we try to talk. What can I do?
- Question: Bereavement Pay when Husband Passed 3 mo ago?
- Question: Do You Pay Spousal Support b/c Autistic Child?
- Question: Why did my wife leave me?
- Question: Can he take half of everything?
- Question: If I get divorced will I owe if my babies father was on child support then we got married and he was never removed from paying child support?
- Question: Should I just back out of getting married? Have I made a mistake?
- Question: Why is society so against marrying young?
- Question: My husband doesn't want to divorce me but I know for a fact that it's not working.?
- Question: Divorced? How did you truely break free?
- Question: Ex wife interfering with my vacation times!!?
- Question: Is there any word for "rival wife"?
- Question: Was waiting till marriage worth it?
- Question: Husband's awful ex wants to be part of our family?
- Question: My wife literally has her eyes glued to the TV 24/7, how do I get her to pay attention to me again?
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- Question: Am I really a terrible husband or can you guys relate even a little?
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- Question: My husband watching porn?
- Question: Why did his ex like our wedding picture?
- Question: Why did his ex like our wedding photo?
- Question: I am a aries girl and my husband is a cancerian..he wants divorce as he thinks i argue a lot and doesnt respect his parents. i really love him and want him back is there any way to change his decision?
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| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 08:54 PM PDT |
| Question: Why am I comfortable in a bad marriage? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 08:37 PM PDT I'm 38 almost 39 yrs old. I've been married for 3 years and I have no kids. My wife wants kids, but we rarely have sex. I used to try to have sex, but I've been rejected so many times, I've resorted to porn and I've come to enjoy it more than sex with her usually at this point. I love when she's gone to work or falls asleep. I don't really enjoy many of our conversations and I find her annoying. I'm pretty sure she can't stand me either. Why do we live like this? Gabe, she doesn't swallow or even visit down there often. Anonymous, maybe, but I've had quite a few ladies in my past. I'm sure I could find another. |
| Question: Does a single mom of 3 have hope to find love? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 08:32 PM PDT I have 3 kids and I'm 24. I'm actually pregnant with my third and with the dad (my first child has a different dad) but I'm really sad cause I don't know if it will work out in the long run. He doesn't seem like he truly loves me or seems totally happy. He swears he does and is happy but I don't know...but if we ended up splitting up I'm worried I'll be alone for the rest of my life cause honestly what guy wants to be with someone who has 3 young kids. |
| Question: How do I deal with my wife's sister when she took a photo of one of my sons? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 08:26 PM PDT My wife's family recently had their annual family reunion. I was not present at this reunion. My wife took our two toddler sons to it. My wife's older sister is a camera buff and loves to take photos and this can be annoying sometimes. After the reunion, my wife's sister came back to our house and started to upload photos. In the process of uploading photos, my wife's sister informed me that she posted a photo she took of one of my son's to her family's supposedly private family Facebook page. I am not on Facebook nor is my wife. We do not want our children on Facebook. My wife's sister is well aware of this. But when she told me what she did, it was in a rather teasing "oh look what I did" tone. I was angry but I said nothing at the time. The next day, I had a very frank and impassioned discussion with my wife about what happened. I found out my wife was aware that it happened and was going to tell me but her sister beat her to it. I was not pleased to hear that either. Later on that day, my wife talked to her sister and told her to take the photo down but did not tell her why. Her sister took the photo down right then and there. My wife still has not told her why. I have told my wife that I want her to tell her sister that I wanted the photo taken down. The reason is that I want to put a fear in my wife's sister that she crossed a line with me by putting that photo on the Facebook page. I really want to confront my wife's sister and tell her off. Should I? |
| Question: Would you divorce your wife for this? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 08:26 PM PDT My wife and I gotbinto a bad fight. I lost my cool and threw her. She called cops. Cops charges me with assault. I'm thinking of divorcing her. We've been martied since may. Is this good enough reason to divorce? |
| Question: If a spouse is found to be guilty of installing spyware on his wifes phone? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 08:09 PM PDT to spy on her texts and calls(without her permission) will that count against him in divorce/custody battle? |
| Question: How to save my marriage? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 07:48 PM PDT I have been married going on 10 years. I am 52, my wife is 32. She is from Eastern Europe, has a good job. For many years things were very good. Like many, we endured hardship during the Great Recession. We almost lost our home. She works full time in Healthcare and I am a small business owner. A year or so ago she began complaining that I snored, and suggested I sleep in the extra bedroom. As of now, intimacy is gone. We never have sex, there is no affection. She used to give me back rubs and manicures, now nothing. We seldom socialize of go out. She feels more like a roommate than a wife. We don't fight much-it's just a friendly indifference. I feel she has no desire to be close and it is sad. We never watch TV, or hold hands or kiss. I owned my home before our marriage and she has never helped pay the mortgage. With no communication, I have to question whether this can be worked out. I feel like a stranger in my own home. I am going to talk to an attorney tomorrow to protect my home, the only asset I have. Any thoughts from the insightful community? Thank you in advance. |
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| Question: Any suggestions for how to deal with my husband's way of "punishing" me? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 07:04 PM PDT When my husband gets angry at me, he will often use the silent treatment and stop talking to me completely. Sometimes this goes on for a few hours, sometimes days. It usually ends with me crying and pleading with him to tell me what is wrong. Frequently, I have no idea why he is angry, and once he tells me, it's something that I barely even remember doing or saying. One morning we woke up and he decided he was mad, and did not speak with me the entire morning. When I finally got him to talk to me, he mentioned that he was angry at something i'd said the night before...again, something I barely remembered saying. This is really getting to me, and I don't know how to handle it when he gives me the silent treatment...it really hurts me because i'm the type that prefers to talk out our issues with one another versus letting them linger and staying mad. We are in our early 30s, and have been together since high school; he's had this behavior all this time, but it's starting to break me. I hate having to monitor and analyze my words and moves out of fear it's going to lead to another days long break without us talking. Can anyone offer suggestions for how to deal with this behavior? It really upsets me and pretty much breaks me down, and i've tried talking to him but it never changes. |
| Question: First Time Wife Share Threesome? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 06:57 PM PDT HI Me and the wife want to explore sexual fantasies and we are going to share her. Shes on birth control for now and i said no condons which pleased her. If we make sure everones clean will this be safe? Would 3 men inc me be too many in this scenario? She wants everybody to empty in her mouth or lower parts. Thanks x |
| Question: Does my husband want a divorce? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 06:54 PM PDT Ive been with my husband for 7 years... we have 2 kids ages 6 and 4. For the past 5 years hes been acussing me of cheating... which i never have. Im with both my kids allll day. I work for my mom so i take my kids with. I dont drink go to clubs...smoke...do any kinda drugs. I never do anything unless the kida are with me. My husband makes me feel like im cheating if i dont take my kids everywhere with me. But he can go hang out with his best friend play ps4 and stay out as long as he wants i never ask him to take the kids with nor do i everrrrrr accuse him of cheating. Every now and then he will text me sayong if ur cheating om leaving u. Or he will out of no where ignore me and whwn i ask him whats wrong he thinks im cheating. Im sooooooo sick of him thinking this. I really have neverrrr ever gave him a reason to think this. I told him if he wants to break up he can just do it instead of trying make me feel guilty of somthing im not doing. I respect my kids i respect my body and my husband but i just dont know what to think anymore about his madness for nothing and its getting very hard on me to the point where i feel like im better off at home that way he cant accuse me of anything. Any advice pleaseeeeees |
| Question: How should I tell my parents I m getting married at 20? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 06:47 PM PDT So I ve been with my fiancé for more than two years now. We have a great relationship we understand and trust each other. The only problem is that my parents are VERY strict they don t let us go out I can only see him in my house and we can only go out to eat dinner and for less than two hours. I can t go to the movies with him, I can t go meet his friends, I can t go to concerts, parties nothing! We have talked with them a lot of times, they have even met his family but the situation is the same. We get frustrated and I have been depressed because of it. So a couple months ago we decided that we wanted to get married. We are engaged now but I don t know hoe to tell my parents I m concerned about the reaction they would have. Any suggestions? By the way he s 25, has a career and is financially stabled. I m going to college and have a full time job that pays more than minimum wage. |
| Question: I want my Kid back from my wife..? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 06:34 PM PDT my parents are one of those rare personalities who always help others and they have a very good repu of being very gud nature and kind hearted persons. .i got one proposal who came knowing about our family that they are very gud persons.. I got married 2 yrs back..slowly came to know that wife family was very v miser towrds money..they dont even eat healthy food or wear gud clothes coz its cost more money..though they were having some crores of property..anyhow it was quite diffrent what i lived I tried to adjust.Though after our marraige my wife usually wanted to live more with their family we never objected..when asked she told that I cant live much time withouth them..so as A kind hearted my dad and me allowed her to regulary visit her place...until this point as we were adjusting every thing was going somewhat fine.the real problem begins when our first baby boy born our family and me got very attached to him.now suddenly my wife started a new issue which is she doesnt wants my parents to live togther with us.I can adjust any thing in my life but getting seprated with my parents is like dying for me and them..so not getting proper solution she decided to go her home..she took my kid..and now she is not coming telling that once U get seprated than only i will come.I cant leave my God like parents to this kind of lady..but i want my kid. even their parents are supporting her..Guys just answer what should I do...and how can i get back my KId..plz help me.. |
| Question: Not married but do pay child support does this cover extra curricular activities? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 06:33 PM PDT |
| Question: I'm a married woman and I fell in love with a married man. What to do? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 06:24 PM PDT We fell in love over facebook. Our spouses were supportive, so we arranged a meet. Over 4 days all of us had sex and fun. But my husband and his wife ended up feeling left out, so we broke up. He loves me dearly, but has asked for a 3 month no contact period so that his wife can let go of bad feelings. My husband is supportive. But I miss him so much it's hard not to contact him!! What do I do?!?!? |
| Question: Am I normal if I watch porn? I'm a woman.? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 06:23 PM PDT I like to watch good looking couple on the tube. I don't know if this is too much or some hypocrite out there will call me out for masturbating. I have a good sex life by the way. |
| Question: Moving out of state? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 06:21 PM PDT I have custody of my two kids and in the divorce decree we decide that the kids were going to live with me but the father can spend time with them whenever he is free. The question is I live in fl but I'm trying to move to Watertown NY with my husband and kids, the issue is can I move, I cant reach my ex husband to notify him about the move. He is in the military and live in Germany. I'm going to drop a motion for relocation to see what happened. |
| Question: Distance Marriages, how do you keep them going? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 05:19 PM PDT My husband travels a lot with his new position. I work as well. When he comes home, I make sure he has a hot bath, hot dinner, and his favorite shows DVRed on the TV, since he can't get them while on travel. I love him and he works so hard to provide for us. We have several children and he is a great dad. I just crave more intimacy. How can I keep the flames going? |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 05:08 PM PDT Shes distraught and now that she pays child support, is rather poor. Her ex is not willing to co-parent or negotiate. What can she do legally?She hardly ever sees her children. She has also been forced to pay his mother for her babysitting services. And he is brainwashing the children to hate her and treat her badly. Can this court decision ever be reversed? |
| Question: Friend with benefits? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 05:07 PM PDT A guy whose age is 24 and I am 19 wanted sex and I have him he doesn't want a relationship and I gave him sex and I had sex for the first time with him only..so the guy have left me and went to abroad for studies and told me he can't commit for marriage as he has got no plans to marry in the next 7years and he told me he will come after a year or two and he will still ask for sex and now that he is gone he changed his whatsapp number without telling me should i wait for him to message me ,?I met him through dating site but I didn't see him online there..and I Still didn't finish my studies and wanted to study medicine! !if I had sex for the first time does that mean I am a bitc.h. or slut |
| Question: Is it wrong for a married woman to do this? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:17 PM PDT Is it wrong for a married woman to sleep in the same bed as a male friend. (No sex just sleep). My mother recently got into an argument with her husband about this and I am curious if it is wrong even if there was no sex involved or anything sexual going on just sleeping. Thankz! @starfish: He was helping us move since my dad couldn't get the days off work to help us out for the move. Hotel was rented since we were moving 3 states away and using my moms friends truck and help. To save money we shared a hotel room 1 king size bed. My mom, me, and her friend stayed in the same bed. But even if they were by themselves for the same reason would it be wrong? |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:15 PM PDT Hi, My English isn't good so hope you guys can understand what I mean and help me. My boyfriend said if we get married, I will pay half bills. Is it normal if he give me a condition before marrying? He said he isn't my mom and dad so he isn't going to support me. Husband and wife of course you help each other but I confused that is it normal when my boyfriend talking about percentage thing before marrying? Thanks so much for help. |
| Question: Need outside advice on whether or not to try and make things work with my wife? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:12 PM PDT Me and my wife are currently separated and have been a little over 2 months, I live in California and she in Virginia, we have a 7 month old daughter. We grew up with different backgrounds, her coming from some money; me having grew up pretty poor. The trouble started whilst we were dating a few months before we got married, i was in the army, stationed in Virginia, she was living with her parents. We would argue, she would grab or try to break things, i would try to stop her, she would say im abusive, i would say im leaving, she would threaten to kill herself, i feel bad and stay. Well regardless we get married, same things happen minus the me leaving and her threatening suicide. We get into one night shortly after having been married, she gets on me on the bed and starts clawing at my face, causing me to bleed, well i push her off me with my foot, causing her to fall off the bed, she calls cops says im abusive, i leave, i end up in jail for spousal abuse all because i left which made me look guilty; mind you she had no bruises, marks or anything and i have bloody ears, cheeks and neck. Im still bitter about that because she wont fess up, relationship continues, with her not liking something, crying and moving to parents for a short time then coming back. She has been to jail twice now for domestic violence with the most recent being the exact same thing that happened when i went to jail but instead i called the cops. I still love her and want to be a family, but... |
| Question: Should I say something? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 04:00 PM PDT My husband best friend is getting married this weekend. My husband is a minister so he was asked to perform the vows. We've known about this wedding for over a year but were never asked for more than my husband to.do the vows. Well three days ago they called and said, "ok what do we do?" We were like what? They have not planned a single thing. No idea what music they want. No idea who is doing what. No guest list. No venue. But they want it to be awesome like.our wedding. Well, i planned for two years my wedding. It was hard work. ...anyway...So my poor husband was trying to play wedding planner. Well I helped out because my husband is not very good at planning weddings.lol. All she has is a dress. Which is fine, but they want a huge shindig. Ok... We frantically planned everything. It should go smoothly. But I just found out that they are already married. They have been married for almost two years. No one else knows. She said that's why she hasn't planned anything. But now their lack of planning has become my emergency. I'm really irritated by it all and want to just say something. But not sure what.... Lol. I mad that they expect so much from us on such short notice. I know its not not the right thing to do, and i probably wont, but how I wish I could put her in her place or spoil their secret. Any nice suggestions? |
| Question: My wife is acting very childish but she won t listen when we try to talk. What can I do? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:50 PM PDT couple of years ago our marriage hit a very rough patch. I won t go into much detail but I will say we both had a hand in it. When I met her she was a business owner and was used to being in charge and and opinionated. She threatened to walk out on me numerous times, I tried to keep it together & talk with her but one day I just blew up finally & told her I was done being her punching bag & dealing with her outlandish insecurities. This completely took her by surprise when I told he; now she became very submissive, throws childlike tantrums and attention hungry, pretty much the exact opposite of her strong personality when I first met. Even though I stayed as long as I have up to now she behaves in such a way that is just very unbecoming and unattractive. I ve tried my best to let her know gently that she not act in such a way for me or any one for that matter. Of course she didn t take this well & let fly with the harsh words. And she wonders why I was ready to walk out? We ve been to couple s counseling. Forget it the counselor was a real whacko and very bias against me as if things were completely my fault when we are both responsible. I can accept responsibility for the things I ve said, done or haven t done but I felt demonized. Now naturally I am a very caring person, sometimes to a fault. Feels like I m staying out of guilt more than because I want to. I really don t know what else to do, she doesn t like being told things and only chooses to listen to what she wants. |
| Question: Bereavement Pay when Husband Passed 3 mo ago? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:50 PM PDT My husband passed away 3 mo ago and I took 2 weeks off from work and a little bit more after going back to work because it was a bit much for me. At the time my boss did not tell me about bereavement pay. I went on the job website and ran across life events and read that I could get 3 paid days off. Should I still try to get my 3 days or count it as a loss. Though my checks have been awful since his passing. |
| Question: Do You Pay Spousal Support b/c Autistic Child? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:36 PM PDT My brother is going through a divorce. His soon to be ex-wife is only money hungry. She cheated on him and they have been separated for the past 4 yrs but legally married for 7 yrs. He had been paying her $800/mo for support of my 7 yr old twin nieces. One of the girls has autism. The legal paperwork says after calculations his child support should be $478/mo but she wants spousal support and using the fact that my niece is autistic. Would she be able to get spousal support from him. She thinks that no matter who she is with it is still his job to provide for HER & the kids. Yes, I know what its like to take care of my autistic niece. We have her 3 during the week and every weekend. |
| Question: Why did my wife leave me? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 03:14 PM PDT My wife and I have a daughter..she lived with her parents when we got married with our daughter sense I couldn't afford stuff. She said she left me in the end for several reasons none of them seem as a huge huge deal to me. Our sex life was dull: She always told me she wanted to be dominated and I would be romantic because I don't wanna do that. I'd wake her up when she was sleeping for sex because I honestly thought sex was enjoyable for both parties. She got grossed out and thought I was full of myself because when she'd ride me I'd say "oh baby that looks beautiful" and "oh that looks so nice" she said she wanted to punch me when I said that. When I worked full time she worked 25 hours a week on average, when I'd go see her she'd say "can you get up and help the baby for once?" I told her no because I had been up for 21 f'ing hours the day before. Ridiculous Next was she never met my parents in the two years we dated: We literally never had time too 4th: Shed try and dump me and say it's over for over a month and I'd cry and threaten to hurt myself, so she'd give in she said it bothered you Even though she did, I did ignore her saying we needed counseling which was stupid, then two weeks after she attempted to dump me everyday I got divorce papers. She told me we could still be together in person but she didn't wanna be married anymore, I find out she found another man after she sent me divorce papers, please help me get her back? |
| Question: Can he take half of everything? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:29 PM PDT I've been married to an american citizen for 2 years. We met in sophomore high school year, started dating, didn't get married until we both finished high school (2 years later). He cheated on me with my friend, and i have all the evidence and he knows it. I went to file a divorce and he told me he would do everything he can to stay with half of MY MONEY and my property. You see i have a visa to work here, and never did i ask him to help me become a resident. I never thought of it and to this day i still have my visa, i own my own shop. I pay my taxes. Since we got married, he worked for me, he never got a job other than being in my store "working". The house we lived in is owned by me, the cars, simply everything is owned by me because i bought everything! So my question is, will he really be able to take half of my stuff if we get a divorce? And yes, i had my business before i married him. It just grew much bigger as time passed by but he never got involved. He was just there working. Thank you all for your advice. |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 02:23 PM PDT Young & dumb, (While together) I put my babies father on child support ONLY to show him that children aren't cheap since he rarely did anything. I then wrote a letter requesting for him to be removed but he requested that I DO NOT remove him from paying child support so that he can always have a paper trail for proof of him providing for his children. When we got married he requested that I CONTINUE to keep him on child support to ensure that the children get majority of his paycheck first no matter what. |
| Question: Should I just back out of getting married? Have I made a mistake? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:48 PM PDT I'm suppose to get married Saturday. My fiance and I have not had sex in 2 years. We hardly ever fight and we get along just fine. Just in the past she's cheated and done drugs behind my back a few times and I can't trust her even when she has been good. I just fear she will do bad things again because she is capable of it. Is this the wrong person to marry? Yes I love her but she does not make me have butterflies and I am not in love. I just fear being alone and not ever finding someone again. |
| Question: Why is society so against marrying young? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:37 PM PDT It depends on the maturity level of the couple, how long they have known each other, and many other factors as well. If someone wants to marry young, more power to them! I'm not 17, and I was asking in general. If you don't like my opinion, move on. I'm 25, so stop judging before you know. Child. |
| Question: My husband doesn't want to divorce me but I know for a fact that it's not working.? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:32 PM PDT This is our second try but I think the changes that are made to improve the relationship came a little too late. He hasn't been transparent with our finances and he almost wanted to divorce me because a friend of mine paid attention to me. Our communication was never ideal because we end up being in a worse situation when we argue. His words are always meant to hurt and never to compromise. There are little things that he does that become so big because our problems are so huge. I want out. I know our families will interfere but I'm not happy and my two kids start to notice. How should I start? |
| Question: Divorced? How did you truely break free? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 01:08 PM PDT In marriages you build friendships, and blend families. When the divorce was final how did the break up with others go? How did you do it? |
| Question: Ex wife interfering with my vacation times!!? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:57 PM PDT hello. we have joint custody of 8 year old son...we go to counseling once a month and these past 2 weeks my son was with me and the next 2 weeks he will be with her. These times were organized in counseling. We have been going places and just got back from NYC where we spent 3 days there..NYC is about 2 hours from me. We got back today and she saw my truck and sent me a text that how come I didnt take my son anywhere!!...my 2 weeks will be up this sunday....I am not sure why she is controlling me that I didnt take my son anywhere she has no clue what we have done with the times he has been here so far!! Should i show the counselor at our next meeting about her text that she is controlling me as to why I didnt take my son anywhere!!! |
| Question: Is there any word for "rival wife"? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:44 PM PDT |
| Question: Was waiting till marriage worth it? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:30 PM PDT People who successfully waited till marriage, was it worth it? - Did you find somebody who held similar views to yours? -Was the honeymoon awkward and bloody like most people say, or was it magical and loving. -Do you find yourself wishing you had sex with other people before hand? -Were you jealous of your partners past if they weren't a virgin? -Was your spouse a virgin? - Is your sex life boring or amazing? - Did you only wait till marriage for sex? --Did you fool around with oral or manual beforehand? - If you did wait for your spouse but weren't a virgin prior, do you regret not saving yourself? Only answers from people who waited please! What age did you meet them? |
| Question: Husband's awful ex wants to be part of our family? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:29 PM PDT My husband was married twice before I met him. The first wife lives near us. My husband has remained close to her daughter who considers him her "dad" and 1st wife and I now share grandchildren and are somewhat friendly. But 2ND wife...She is just an awful person. she lives in another state, has only visited once but the visit was awful! It ended with her adult daughter not speaking to her for a year and the first wife's daughter asking her to stop disrespecting her dad. Since then she's made many attempts to befriend us all and seems to want to be included although her behavior alienated us. Next month her daughter will be leaving our home and going to college about an hour away. mother is planning to fly in for move in day, and has already told her daughter that she's trying to stay HERE has no money for anything once she's here, and has asked her daughter to arrange "family parties" and would like to borrow a car from us. I can't imagine what she expects. She has no blood relative in this area other than her daughter. Her former in laws openly despise her and she them, she has an ex husband that she had remained on good terms with only to grab money his two ex wives and their families whom she alienated. I know she's trying to force her way in that she wants to be part of our family and I also am sure that she wants my husband back, although he'd never take her back. What the heck am I going to do? |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:20 PM PDT I know I am probably doing something wrong, because we all know that when a woman stops paying attention to a man, its typically his fault, But I am trying my best, I wrote her letters about how much I feel for her, I take time off to take her on getaways, I work out and stay in shape. Despite that, all she wants to do is watch TV. Her eyes are literally glued the the TV 24/7. |
| Question: How to do tell your Morman parents that you're not going to be married in the temple? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 12:17 PM PDT I was raised Morman and my dad was a bishop. mt boyfriend and I are planning of getting married next summer and we won't be getting married in the temple like my parents want. He was raised LDS as well and believed everything, but neither of us are active. I really love my parents and they like my boyfriend, but how do I tell them then we'll be doing a regular wedding? I'm the oldest and they expect me to set a good example of my siblings, but I really want their support. |
| Question: Should I hack my husbands email? (Please read details before answering)? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 11:33 AM PDT I was told that my husband is cheating on me. I am pregnant with our second child. He s an extremely good looking man and women swoon over him all of the time. I ve always known that women would want to temp him. Before marriage he did cheat on me. But we have been together since we were 13 and 14 so we have both matured now being 24 and 25. Our first son is 1.5 years old and we have had a tough time with intimacy. It happens but very seldom. He also has a job where he travels sometimes. So that doesn t help. But on facebook I have noticed that a lot of new women are being added. We bicker a lot more than usual. If I asked him I know he would deny it. I just want to know for sure and I have a way to get into his email which will allow me to get into his social media. I just feel so guilty for wanting to do it. I m scared to find out the truth either way. He will obviously know that it was me that hacked his stuff. I don t keep passwords on anything of mine and all that require passwords I have saved to the computer. I have nothing to hide. A reliable source told me that I should pay close attention to him. If he is cheating then I m done. I will ask for a divorce. If anyone has advice I would greatly appreciate it |
| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 11:31 AM PDT My husband cheated on me 7 months ago. But I'm still hurt about it. There was kissing and hugging involve but no sex, so they both say. I just gave birth to our 2nd child about 3 weeks ago. I decided to take my husband back, but I can't get over it. I have given up on the relationship, like I don't care about working out anything. I don't tell him anything no more since he talked **** to the ***** about me. Ever since I found out I don't trust him with anything I don't trust him with my secrets I don't look at hI'm as a friend no longer. I don't speak to him about anything unless it's business related. Is it time for a divorce? I don't feel sexy anymore I had some kinky outfits I would use with him in bed, but since he was with her I put everything away I don't want to have that freaky sex anymore. He is trying to do his part, but I don't want to try. He tries to conversate with me but all of the sudden I remember he told that ***** I treated him like ****, not true. I remember and just response Yes, No, or cool, or that's nice.he asks me what's wrong. And I respond to nothing is wrong. Everytime i wanted to know something he would shut me out about his cheating. I found out all the **** he did by her not by him, after confronted he finally admitted it but he didn't tell me himself. I feel the rage inside me the sadness, Id killing me slowly inside. Am I depressed? Should I divorce? Any advice would help thank you |
| Question: What can you do if your single girlfriend says inapproproite things about your husband? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 11:25 AM PDT Looong ago, my friend was over our place hanging out with me. My husband didn't know and emerged from the bathroom without a towel, giving everyone an eyeful before apologizing. Ever since, my friend constantly comments to me on my husbands junk. It's not a constant topic, but it comes up enough. It came up yesterday when she saw him wearing swim trunks. Telling her to can it doesn't work, neither does ignoring her. It probably doesn't help that he always laughs when she says it in front of him. |
| Question: I am married but I can't stop thinking about this guy who is also married? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 11:23 AM PDT Initially, our conversation were all very innocent. He invited me to talk about a possible business idea.we had such a great time that we met up to work out together. However, the next proposed working out together, he didn't show up (blessing in disguise). I ignored his texts and messages realizing that our innocent friendship might venture in the danger zone. However, I think about him often and the fun conversations we had. How do I stop myself from thinking about this married guy... |
| Question: Am I really a terrible husband or can you guys relate even a little? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 10:54 AM PDT Because of my work I travel a lot to places like Japan, Germany, Vietnam, I've been all over. Each and every place I got I end up going to a strip club with the guys from whatever branch I'm visiting. My wife knows that I go and I've always justified it to her by saying that I'm expected to go and that it would put everything we've built together at risk if I snubbed these guys. All that's true but I have to admit that when drunk I've made more than my fair share of poor decisions and I've cheated nearly a dozen times over the last year, six times with the same girl. But I figure as long as I love my wife and I'm playing it safe then what she doesn't know won't hurt her. By playing it safe I mean condoms always, and an understand between me and the other girl that I have no plans of divorcing. |
| Question: Am I wrong to stay mad at mother in law? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 10:25 AM PDT I have a looong story, and I need actual advise please, by serious people only. It was my husband, myself & 2 small kids. My husband and I used to be really close to my mil, and she started bringing up a old bad habit of drinking while we were going though a homless part of our lives. She used her social security checks to pay a hotel for us, while we worked on getting back on our feet. We didn't used to have a car, and she would drive us around everywhere. The problem is, she was very aggressive, manipulative, and drunk. She literally would stop at the liquor store and buy herself hard liquor, go back to the car (where we were waiting) and drink, then drive her vehicle drunk with us in it. Let me say something, I hate that I let it happen not once but many times. I am ashamed to let a drunk person drive me and my family around many times, but I was very intimidated and scared of this lady in a way you cant imagine. She treated us like crap, and would talk down on me many times, making it seem like im the worst person in the world, and I honestly felt it was true. I actually had a brakedown a couple days after my 2nd son was born, where I just wanted to die. Anyways! skip to the end. I Were were living together at one point and she hit me, in front of my kids. attacked me (literally jumped on me and went wild). My 2 year old tried stabbing her with a toy knife! Im so upset, and its been a year. but I don't want her around & my husband misses her. I don't know what to do. Im limited to how much I can write, If not, I would've told you guys the Whole story. Before jumping to conclusions, please know that I didn't choose to live with her like that, and bring another kid into it. I got in a waiting list for family shelters, and before that happened I had a 3 bedroom house to myself and my kids. This happened from one day to the next, because we were going through a rough mental illness patch of our lives. |
| Question: My husband watching porn? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 10:01 AM PDT We have been married for a long time and we really love each other. We had really great sex. But a few days ago I caught him watching porn and he promised me to stop watching it from now on, the problem is I know he's not watching now he doesn't want to have sex with me.Does it has anything to do with porn? |
| Question: Why did his ex like our wedding picture? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 09:04 AM PDT My husband and I have been married a little over a year. There was a girl he dated in high school and beginning of college for about 2 years on and off. It was one of those "you break up with me" then again soon after "i break up with you" typical high school relationships. After we got engaged, Jana (his ex) and her mom were shopping when her mom Lynn noticed my husband and I. They bum rushed us and got right behind us in line, forcing us to communicate with them. My now-husbands reaction was to walk for the door, but I knew that would sound crazy, so we stayed and politely talked as her mom said how "his smile always melted her" and how I am "just as beautiful in person as on FB" (I dont know them) Jana saw my ring and commented "Damn Colin!" with a kindof smile slow smile and just seemed kindof uncomfortable and maybe the tiniest bit....fake? Just was strange. After our wedding, one of our mutual friends posted a picture with my hubby and i on our wedding day and Jana "liked" it. We arent friends with her on FB. Your thoughts, guys? BTW, i truly dont feel threatened by this girl AT all. I just found it strange, as I wouldn't have "liked" and ex's wedding pic. It would look like I was trying too hard to appear happy for them, if that makes sense. |
| Question: Why did his ex like our wedding photo? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 08:52 AM PDT My husband and I have been married a little over a year. There was a girl he dated in high school and beginning of college for about 2 years on and off. It was one of those "you break up with me" then again soon after "i break up with you" typical high school relationships. After we got engaged, Jana* and her mom were shopping in JCPenney when her mom Lynn* noticed my husband and I. They bum rushed us and got right behind us in line, forcing us to communicate with them. My now-husbands reaction was to walk for the door, but I knew that would sound crazy, so we stayed and politely talked as her mom said how "his smile always melted her" and how I am "just as beautiful in person as on FB" (I dont know them) After our wedding, one of our mutual friends posted a picture with my hubby and i on our wedding day and Jana "liked" it. We arent friends with her on FB. However, when she saw my ring, she said "damn colin!!" and just seemed kindof uncomfortable and maybe the tiniest bit....fake? Just was strange. Your thoughs, guys? We are NOT friends with her on social media, btw. She saw this picture through a mutual friend of my hubbys and I. Hubby said she used to always say she wanted to marry him, and her mother was somewhat pushy about them getting more serious and saying things like "see jana? he's only here for the short term..." her mother seemed to have taken a real shine to him during their courtship.....even paid for a vacation they all went on and used to buy him gifts and give him money to take Jana out. Hubby says he never planned on marrying her and knew he wouldnt. ALSO, we got married about 3 years after they stopped dating. It wasn't shortly after. I just dont think i would EVER like an ex bfs marriage photo, would seem too odd like i was trying too hard to seem happy for them. I would have not commented or liked it or acknowledged it.....am i wrong? Thanks guys! Any thoughts are great. |
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| Posted: 29 Jul 2015 07:58 AM PDT My husband and his friends are going to amsterdam for a week tomo and I'm so so upset. I only found out about this a month ago but he had it planned! I'm just so upset I'm actually crying. I will miss him so much but also I no what's over there. What is wrong with me ? What will I do for week? Since I no there's been a awkwardness between us. I don't wanna send him off and I'm angry or upset . How can I just get over this ??? :( |
| Question: Should a person tell their spouse everything? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 07:57 AM PDT Let me be specific, I was at lunch with my sister and a couple of her friends and they were having a debate about that and my sister said she tells her husband everything which prompted me to ask her if she told her husband everything I've ever told her in private and she said yes and then said it wasn't a big deal since it's not like he's going to tell the whole town but the point is I don't want him to know certain things. So my question is especially to the ones who are married, should you tell your spouse everything including things you were told to keep secret? |
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| Question: What should I do? I feel the desire to go wild and party like crazy!? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 07:13 AM PDT Let me start off by saying I'm a "good girl". Always distanced myself from the partyING kids in highschool. My family had high moral standards. I married young because I had sex before marriage and my family taught me to wait until marriage. So I felt I had to marry this man. I had sex with him bc I fell in love. He is very insecure, jealous, controlling, obsessive. He's never hurt me so don't think that...he adores me. We've been together 10 years and now hoave two children together. He doesn't ever want me to go out without him. Questions me about everything. I can't help but be so envious of all the relationships out there that are free. I'm 28 years old and I've never got to go wild and now it's all I think about. I'm going to go crazy if I never get to do stuff with girl friends. He thinks I'm cheating when I have tried and calls me nonstop. I need drunken fun and I think my time is about up. I want a moment to be carefree. My whole life I've been the good girl. I'm so sick of it. I'm not this person I love being outgoing social with friends and he's just the opposite. I didnt even work ever because he didn't want me to. I'm now in my last sester of nursing school graduating in december. All I can feel is I want freedom but feel awful about it! I need advice. Please. |
| Question: How do I get my husband to do me on my period? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 06:31 AM PDT I love my husband and his little penis but why won't he have sex with me on my occasional period? I love him but he's kind of a wuss. I told him there is nothing to worry about. I would think most men would like getting laid no matter what the circumstance is but I think he's scared. |
| Question: How come alot of women don't get along with their husbands brothers wife? Posted: 29 Jul 2015 05:46 AM PDT It's very common that women moan about their sister in laws of that relation. |
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