Marriage & Divorce: Question: How to get wife to do the housework all the time. I am working 10 hours a day and she has a part time job.? |
- Question: How to get wife to do the housework all the time. I am working 10 hours a day and she has a part time job.?
- Question: Husband tells people we're selling our house and getting a divorce?
- Question: If you get married in another town and never get it recognize in the state you live in?
- Question: Are you old fashioned when it comes to marriage, love? I am. I don't believe in competiting with getting married. Marriage is suppose to be?
- Question: If i moved out of state with my children and filed for devoice would my spouce have to come to that state to fight the devrice?
- Question: I m not making enough money to support myself we are separated 3months now?
- Question: Would you say anything?
- Question: Where is the best place to meet your girlfriend/wife potential type?
- Question: I want to believe my husband but at the same I don't?
- Question: How will custody work if one parent lives far away?
- Question: Why do people judge others for not marrying?
- Question: Has modern dating (and even marriage) become reduced to an exercise in vanity?
- Question: I feel like I'll never be able to grt married because my mom lives with me?
- Question: People say you should marry for love but the only reason I want to get married is to have a Baby and somebody to help support the children!?
- Question: What is up with a husband that every year has to mention his former spouse's birthday to his present wife?
- Question: What do I do now?
- Question: Ex wife becomes oppositional and combative with me when she interacts with this one guy. Why?
- Question: Can a guy be in love we two women?
- Question: My husband talks to me so crazy in front of our children and family , his son lives with us and he does "no wrong" he takes his side?
- Question: Need help with a my husbands friend?
- Question: My ex husband divorced me after 26 years for a hoe that slept with both of his brothers and was my friend, its been almost 2 years since the divorce and he hasn't married her yet?
- Question: Sex before marriage??
- Question: Is my husbands ex wife jealous of me because I am 26 and she's 43? by the way I've been married for 5 yrs now.. with time drama gets worse?
- Question: Why do Ex Wives use kids and manipulate them to cause trouble in marriages?
- Question: My ex husband is black mailing me?
- Question: Why does English man always get married from Chinese woman?
- Question: Why am I hurting for someone I hated.?
- Question: I have a domestic partner who acts like a child, He is 60 going on 6 years old What should I do, and do they have a name for people like him?
- Question: Am I a bad husband for not disclosing a couple of things?
- Question: How long did you date before you were married or engaged to be married?
- Question: Wife and husband not talking to each another?
- Question: Me and wife not talking to each another been 2 month already dont know what to do ?
- Question: I'm thinking about separating from my husband? Please give me advice!?
- Question: I thought I found Mr. Right until this happened...?
- Question: What do you do when people close to you do everything you've ever told them not to?
- Question: Why does my husband doing my fantasy bother me so much?
- Question: Why is my wife being so ungrateful and nit picky?
- Question: Is my marriage worth saving? My husband says I do not do anything for the family and mentions divorce at least once or twice a year.?
- Question: My husband doesn't get it?
- Question: How to I get my wife to stop being so selfish and negative?
- Question: Got married at 18, made a mistake, need advice.?
- Question: How do you know you ve met "the one"?
- Question: Joint with me having primary,full custody or joint if the father changes jobs, homes and women monthly? Our son is only 1 I don't want this?
- Question: No longer attracted to apathetic husband?
- Question: Divorced..feeling free?
- Question: My husband jerks me around?
- Question: Missing my wife Terribly!!?
- Question: Why do men and women even bother looking for a partner ?
- Question: Where is the actual line when it comes to a cheating spouse?
- Question: How to teach husband a lesson?
- Question: What are good website to find marriage records?
- Question: My wife left me 2 years ago to be with another man. We have 3 girls ages 3, 4, and 7. My wife's father is dead. I want to give my wife away?
- Question: Does he love me as he says? No judging please.?
- Question: What can i do when my husband keeps defending his daughter when she talks back to me?
- Question: Afraid of first night (marriage) sex !?
- Question: Why don't people support same-sex marriage?
- Question: Does it make it harder for women to find a mate if she devotes her prime years to becoming "independent"?
- Question: I can't tell you how disgusted I am about Gay Marriage, but let me attempt?
- Question: Why do I feel bored in my marriage?
- Question: Should men avoid marrying women who compete, control, criticize or complain?
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| Question: Husband tells people we're selling our house and getting a divorce? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 09:29 PM PDT We had a falling out, but I always thought we'd cool off and things would be okay. We just bought a house one year ago. And friends of mine heard my husband saying we were getting divorced and selling our house. I had no idea about this, we haven't even talked anything over. I did the math and got a quote on our house and we'd lose $40,000 by selling now. I can't even believe it. What would you do? Would you force the guy to talk this over? This is crazy |
| Question: If you get married in another town and never get it recognize in the state you live in? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 09:24 PM PDT |
| Posted: 19 Jul 2015 09:10 PM PDT through sickness, and health till death do us apart. I don't want a divorce. If I get married it's because I love him for him, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. It isn't a game or competition. Love isn't a game. It should be " real". Using money, and other crap that's not real but fake. I believe in a real relationship, not one that's out of envy, beef. |
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| Question: I m not making enough money to support myself we are separated 3months now? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 08:38 PM PDT Cheating husband want a divorce any everything we had together after12years what should I do? |
| Question: Would you say anything? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 08:37 PM PDT My wife and I have been debating something for a while now. We moved into our house about six months ago. We tried to introduce ourselves to all of our immediate neighbors. We noticed that the family to our right was pretty reserved and withdrawn. OK, no big deal. We assumed they were not the chatty types, and that was fine by us. However, in the last few months we've been witnessing something that has us torn. On several occasions we have heard those neighbors' voices raised in argument. They have brought their arguments onto their back deck a few times this summer, which makes it public. What has us uneasy is that we've seen the wife getting physical with the husband. She's smacked him on the face, has hit him hard with BBQ tongs, and we saw her throw what looked like a glass paperweight at him. We have not seen the husband get physical, other than putting up his arms in defense, or pushing her away after she hit him hard across the arms with the tongs. They act oblivious to us even being outside (the houses sit on one acre lots). My wife thinks we should stay out of this, and let them figure their own path. If it was just arguing I'd be inclined to agree. But with the physical actions, it's harder to accept that. I fear one or both of them could get seriously hurt. They also have an 11 year old daughter, but we rarely see her, and she does not appear to be involved in any of these fights. Who would I talk to if I did say something -- the couple? Police? |
| Question: Where is the best place to meet your girlfriend/wife potential type? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 08:23 PM PDT 1-church 2- dance club 3-work 4 -school 5-internet( tried this with fukd results, lol) I'd hate play serious with the wrong type,fun it's fun , get serious it's get serious I got fed with the club scene( meat market stuff ) ....it was fun but you don't really meet anyone special ....you don't meet the monogamous type looking for a boyfriend , it's more like the usual player type full of nothing ... @ james , the monogamous boyfriend get serious , romantic type |
| Question: I want to believe my husband but at the same I don't? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 08:20 PM PDT Back in February my husband got 2 textes on his phone that was connected to aol. One of them was from a girl that he responded to on craigslist telling him to call her and the other one was also another girl from craiglsit. I asked him what was this all about and who are these girls and why were they texting him and he said he didn't know anything about it and didn't know who these girls were and even swore on god and his kids so I believed him and let it go for the night. The next day he was at work and I asked him what his password to his aol account and he said he didn't know it because it's been months since he used it but while I was cleaning the house something kept nudging me to look at a piece of paper that was laying on the floor so I did and to my surprise it had all his passwords in there including his aol password. So I went in and found a total of 4 responses to girls on craigslist telling them that he can pick them up and go to the casino and that it would be all on him, his treat. I called him right away and confronted him about it and he still denies it and continues to swear on god and his kids. Since we have WiFi I went back to his old phone that he was using and couldn't find any old text messages but did find something that he started to write but didn't finish it in his draft and showed it to him but still denies it. I gave him a chance to come clean about it so we can move forward and work things out but still denies it to this day so I don't know what to think |
| Question: How will custody work if one parent lives far away? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 08:17 PM PDT My husband and I separated last year. He now lives in a different state (It s a ten hour drive). Both of our young children live with me. My ex wants to put in the divorce papers that he gets custody in 2-5 years. I don t agree with him on that. I believe the kids should continue to live with me, and my he should get visitation. - I m the more responsible parent. - Our special needs child is thriving in school. - The kids grandparents on both sides live here. My husband doesn t help out financially. Would the judge take that into consideration for custody? (I have filed for child support through Child Support Services.) Another issue is visitation. Since he moved away, he has visited once for a couple days. It s not reasonable for the kids to fly there. Also, he can t have them for a long period anyway because he works at night. He wouldn t have anyone to watch them while he works. So how would visitation work? Would he have to just keep coming here? Ok just a though: If I had to find a way to take the kids there for a visit, I would. But the challenge is that his car was repossessed so he can't even meet me half way. |
| Question: Why do people judge others for not marrying? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 07:52 PM PDT And not having kids? |
| Question: Has modern dating (and even marriage) become reduced to an exercise in vanity? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 07:43 PM PDT |
| Question: I feel like I'll never be able to grt married because my mom lives with me? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 07:32 PM PDT So I am 25 and my mom lives with me. My dad died. She has a degenerative form of md and will one day need assistance for daily activities. She trained me how to do her job band instrument repair after hs, and we wormed and saved for a house and I work and she fixes inatruments as something to do. She is losing feeling in hands and legs. Anyway, i feel like I will never be able to find a woman, because im always helping her and also she lives there, i cant just leave her hanging, |
| Posted: 19 Jul 2015 07:10 PM PDT I just want my kids to have what I didn't have which is a Mom and Dad and I don't some sperm bank either because I have to lose my Virginity to have a baby so let a men do his job I say! |
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| Posted: 19 Jul 2015 06:42 PM PDT My husband told me last week that he wants a divorce. The sole reason is that I was diagnosed with bipolar and he doesn't want to deal with it. We have only been married for 6 months. I need to know what I need to do now. I'm a stay at home mom so I have no income to get my own place, and we don't have any family or friends in state. Luckily my daughter has a different father so there won't be any custody issues. What steps do I need to take? I don't want the marriage to end, I don't think its a valid reason to end a marriage but he doesn't seem to be willing to budge on his decision. |
| Posted: 19 Jul 2015 06:15 PM PDT My wife of 14 years divorced me to chase a guy she had an affair with. Its 2.5 years since the divorce. He dumped her 7 months ago. However, she still meets up with him from time to time. I've noticed that when she does interact with this guy, she becomes oppositional and near combative with me in our interactions shortly afterwards. We have two kids that we share 50/50 custody with. So, its usually something related to the kids that she will end up becoming argumentive over. My question is, what is it about her interactions or relationship with that guy that causes her to be so mean to me? I feel like I'm her punching bag. |
| Question: Can a guy be in love we two women? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 06:00 PM PDT My bf, who is married but on the process of getting separated (possibly divorced in the long run). Says he loves me. We've been dating for 4 months. He got caught by his wife cheating with me but he still didn't let me go because he says he loves me and I show it to him unlike his wife. We don't just meet up for sex. We go out for lunch, and movies. Just like a regular couple. Could he really love as he says? |
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| Question: Need help with a my husbands friend? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 04:05 PM PDT My husband and I don't know exactly what to do? He has a friend who just got out of jail. His friend has a child that the mom left with him. The mom is hooked on drugs and has two warrants for her arrest. Anyway, we thought the dad is trying to do the right thing but he let the mom move in with him. Now the child, is at the age of going to school. I got him all the information to enroll her into school, to get her shots (she's never had them and she's almost 6), and pretty much all the info he would need. My husband wound up taking his six year old to get her shots. And NOW the enrollment period is over and I kept telling my husbands friend to enroll her and he didn't. The child is severely obese. She is almost 6 and weights as much as I do, which is about 93lbs. She only eats junk food and she only has one outfit. They also leave her at home for hours by herself. I feel like i need to do something but my husband doesn't want to. I feel like a childs welfare is at steak? What should we do? It just makes me so sad. I mean, when I have gone over to their house there is never food on in the fridge. I've had to bring groceries. I think ya'll are right. As much as it totally sucks, I know this child is in a bad situation. I don't know if I could foster this kid. I mean, the drug addicted mom and I already got into it. I took Makenzie out to go shopping and her mom screamed at me that her child didn't deserve any new toys. That was the drugs clearly talking. I'm gonna call |
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| Question: Sex before marriage?? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 03:40 PM PDT |
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| Question: Why do Ex Wives use kids and manipulate them to cause trouble in marriages? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 03:15 PM PDT |
| Question: My ex husband is black mailing me? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 03:08 PM PDT I'm ashamed to say, my ex husband still has a video of us having sex and sent me a picture of it. This is what he says to me, just because I won't send him pictures of us that we used to have when we were still officially together... the reason why I left? He was very abusive to me. On days that it wasn't physical, he was mentally abusive. He cheated on me with a minor and police were never involved because I didn't want to ruin his future. (No the cheating wasn't kissing etc, but texting a 16 year old about who she has kissed, if she's bi sexual, and that she loves older men etc.) Im really lost of what to do. That video was when I tried to work it out with him a third time to see if he's really changed. I see he hasn't and he has that video of me. ... I dont know what to do anymore. Help? I'm so mentally exhausted and scared. |
| Question: Why does English man always get married from Chinese woman? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 03:06 PM PDT Even though ,there are too many beautiful English girl? |
| Question: Why am I hurting for someone I hated.? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 01:24 PM PDT I've been married for ten years. We got married at 20 and 16. She had a horrible temper, she resented our daughter, she's from mexico, she had sex with two guys during our marriage. Aftet I found out hated her so much I slept with 5 girls after that. We decided to stay together but though it all I still hated her for doing what she did and she disgusted me. I finally filed for divorce. I couldn't stand to see her face. Yeah I was wrong for doing what I did. But now that she's gone and if I hated her....why do I miss her and want her back??? It doesn't make sense. I was sure about my decision and made the right one. Now not so much....Help!!! |
| Posted: 19 Jul 2015 01:22 PM PDT 1) He takes his sleeping meds 10 to 15 minutes earlier than he should, causing himself to fall and I have to pick him up, and tend to his wounds. 2) He is not responsible with money. 3) Picks fights about nonsense. 4) He crams his religion down my throat, and I told him, I don't believe in that stuff, and he keeps pushing and pushing. 5) He demands attention at inappropriate times. 6) He claims I'm abusive when he doesn't get his way, and makes threats. 7) He pesters me while I'm working. 8) When he gets a wild hair up his a** he wakes me up 4 or 5 hours into my sleep on a work night. 9) He makes me do EVERYTHING for him when he can do it himself. Any advice would be helpful, I'm at my wits end. I spoke with someone and they said it's an emotionally abusive relationship and I should leave and find a healthier one. |
| Question: Am I a bad husband for not disclosing a couple of things? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 01:18 PM PDT First of all I never cheat or flirt or do anything to make my wife look foolish when she s not around. In fact I praise her as much as I can when I am in public without her. But just yesterday she found a medication of mine that I m taking for health reasons(nothing major that would affect her) that I hadn t told her about because it is a bit personal. Also, as I drive grueling distances for work sometimes I will occasionally use chewing tobacco to help me stay awake. It is infrequent that I do this, but she has found a couple empty cans. She thinks that I am a liar and says that she can t trust me, and we are now considering calling the wedding off even though we have two small children. I am a good man and father and provide for them, and they are all that s important to me. Is my voluntary non disclosure of these two things reason for me to be called a liar, or should my fiancé try to have some understanding and not sweat the small stuff? |
| Question: How long did you date before you were married or engaged to be married? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 01:17 PM PDT |
| Question: Wife and husband not talking to each another? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 01:01 PM PDT |
| Question: Me and wife not talking to each another been 2 month already dont know what to do ? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 12:53 PM PDT |
| Question: I'm thinking about separating from my husband? Please give me advice!? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 12:01 PM PDT |
| Question: I thought I found Mr. Right until this happened...? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 11:20 AM PDT I'm a 30 year old woman who has been divorced two years. I'm a pretty, thin blonde with my own home, car and income. I've been dating someone for the last six weeks who is wonderful. He's handsome, genuine, sweet, passionate, understanding and we have lots of fun together. We'll call him "Tyler." Shortly after Tyler and I started dating, my two best friends (married) and I were at their house drinking. "Stephanie" and I were topless and flirting. There was some over-the-shorts petting but no insertion. Her husband, "Brian," wasn't invited to the fun, apparently, but Steph got sick so she passed out in the other room and I woke up (still topless) on the couch with Brian. I was mortified and covered myself immediately and then went home before anyone woke up. Nothing like that had ever happened before and shocked all of us. Later, Tyler and I went out and I told him about this thing that happened with Steph and Brian. He played it off like it was no big deal and I thought that would be the end of it. Last night I went over to Stephanie's house, just like we have been doing for two years. Tyler has been out of state for a few days. He lost his mind when he found out I was there. He was drunk with friends and emotional from being at a funeral all evening. He kept telling me I was destroying their marriage and thought he had told me not to go so he was pissed that I went anyway. How do I help him see that it isn't a big deal? How can I reassure him? Is he validated? |
| Question: What do you do when people close to you do everything you've ever told them not to? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 11:18 AM PDT It's like I'm speaking a different language entirely. My mother keeps "forgetting" that I really don't want to hear about this one girl's life. So nearly every Sunday, my mother sends me pics of the girl with her baby or talks about her. I'm starting to think that my will to disconnect with this girl has lead to my mother being obsessed with her. Then there is my husband's friends. One friend in particular, for example, likes to come over with his new girlfriend of the week and come in without knocking. I've told him SO many times that I am not comfortable with that. I've told my husband and my husband claims he has talked to his friend about this. Still, yesterday his friend shows up with his new girlfriend and just barges in. Then they all get mad at me when I'm unhappy with the situation. Clearly my mother and my husband's friends don't respect me. So what do I do? I can't really get away from my husband's friends for several reasons, and my mother is otherwise very nice and supportive of me. I don't really want to stop having anything to do with her, but she really doesn't seem to respect what I say. I should have specified that locking the doors is not entirely possible. I can lock the doors all day but my tenants just go behind me and unlock everything, even though I have told them not to. |
| Question: Why does my husband doing my fantasy bother me so much? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 11:02 AM PDT I had a fantasy of my husband sleeping with another woman and just thinking about it turned me on. Well he finally did it last night but i feel so much different about it now. Can this marriage be saved cause i feel dirty now |
| Question: Why is my wife being so ungrateful and nit picky? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 10:58 AM PDT I work full time, and my wife works 15-20 hours per week. She badly wants me to get promoted and move up the ladder so that we can start saving for our 5 year old daughter's college. I think this is a good idea too, and I want to get promoted soon as well. Unfortunately, this means working long hours when needed (not all the time), and traveling to meet potential clients. My wife doesn't like it when I travel. I was out all last week for some important meetings. I left on Monday morning at 6:30 AM for a 9 AM flight. My wife was really upset that I took such an early flight, and that I was leaving excessively early to catch it. I told her "It is 6:30 AM, I do not need or want this right now. It was either take an early flight today, or leave yesterday." She said "Well why do you have to leave so early for it, can't you wait till Jess wakes up?" I said "No, I can't. I don't want to risk missing my flight. I want to get to the airport by 7:30 at the absolute latest." Why all the nagging? She needs to understand that she has a much more comfortable life thanks to MY career, not hers. She barely makes 18k per year, and as an engineer, I make 80. She would NEVER have the house in a good school district with a wonderful daughter and a car on her salary, even if you doubled her salary to account for hours. She is trying to have her cake and eat it too. |
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| Question: My husband doesn't get it? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 10:46 AM PDT When we are home and he's doing his thing and I'm doing his thing. He ALWAYS ask me to fix him something to eat, I can be in the middle of doing something and he expects me to get right up and fix him something because he's hungry. I've seen other husbands get up and fix there own food, not a full course dinner but something simple like a sandwhich some chips..etc etc. and he gets mad at me because he says "i act like i dont like doing things for him? its not that but he just expects me to get up right then and there. I be comfortable,relaxed and lazy just like him. I always do the cooking for everything from cooking hot dogs making him a hot pocket..etc. am i wrong..we fuss about this because i feel one way and he feels another help???? |
| Question: How to I get my wife to stop being so selfish and negative? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 10:41 AM PDT I work full time, and my wife works 15-20 hours per week. We have a 5 year old daughter who will start first grade in September. My job requires occasional travel. Usually it's just 3-4 days per month, but sometimes it's as many as 8. Whenever I travel, my wife gave me crap about neglecting family. When I get back, I am greeted with an unpleasant "Finally! It took you long enough! Get in the house!" I have some flexibility as to when I travel, so I never travel when any of us have anything important going on, and I go out of my way to talk to my wife and daughter every night. I have explained to my wife that I am working to feed this family. Our daughter is in school now, so my wife's schedule isn't as hectic as it used to be. My wife works 15 hours per week at $17k per year, but has a nice house, is financially stable, and has an adorable daughter who goes to a good school, because we can afford to live in a good school district.....this is all because of MY job....the fact that I travel a few days out of each month is a MINISCULE price to pay. With all the crap my wife gives me and how ungrateful she is, it almost makes traveling a relief. I don't have to hear her crap all evening every evening. If my wife is going to keep nagging me about getting promoted, guess what. It means I have to work hard (including but not limited to traveling). I have tried to explain that she cannot have it both ways, but she doesn't listen. |
| Question: Got married at 18, made a mistake, need advice.? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 10:36 AM PDT If you are here to leave nasty, mean, and unnecessary comments, please feel free to leave this page. I need actual advice. I will make this as short and to the point as possible. My husband and I fell in love as a couple of 17 year olds in high school. He proposed to me before I left for boot camp, as 17 year olds, to which I said yes. We were in love, and I was in a world of uncertainty and a pain. Saying yes seemed like the obvious answer. As I was in boot camp, I felt myself losing emotions and memories. I felt myself forgetting about him. I dropped out of boot camp to go home to him, to which I regretted very shortly after. I resented him and no longer felt the same way I did when I left. But we had a decision to make. We didn't NEED to get married. He gave me an ultimatum. Stay engaged and get married, or break up. Because "why stay together if you don't want to get married?" so, after a while of pondering, I gave in and said let's get married. I was at the worst point of my life at that point, and would have done just about anything to get out of where I was living and become financially stable. I loved him, I cared about him more than anything, but I wasn't in love. And I thought it was because my whole life was in ruins. I thought that after we got married and got our life going, my heart would heal and I would feel in love. The day we eloped, I knew I made a mistake. We are now 19, and I am still not in love and don't know if it is possible to be in love again. |
| Question: How do you know you ve met "the one"? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 10:35 AM PDT Have you ever met someone and just knew that they were the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with? |
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| Question: No longer attracted to apathetic husband? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 10:30 AM PDT we have been married for 15 years, no kids. Over the years my husband has been become lazy, apathetic and whiny. He has no goals or ambition other than for the toys he buys himself. Every time we have moved or made some type of life change, it was me who initiated it and started the ball rolling. He spends most of his time lying around on the couch with his ipad or xbox. He makes good money, but I do as well. I do recognize I have flaws - i have ADD and am messy, and he has always claimed he is a neat freak. But instead of helping me organize or clean up, he just dumps all his stuff on top of mine. There have been times I wanted to go through everything and start getting rid of stuff and organize but I can't get him motivated to help me. He's been complaining about his job for the past 8 years that he hates it and he's going to get laid off. He's still there and has done nothing to fix the situation. He does work out or exercise at all. He says it's my fault because I won't go to the gym with him (even though I do exercise and am in very good shape). As a result of all this I am repulsed at the thought of having sex with him. There is no masculinity to attract me. I have told him this and he improves a little bit and goes back to where he was. Because that's who he is. He is very attracted to me and wants to continue the marriage. I am at a loss because I feel terrible breaking my vows since there is no abuse or cheating. What do I do? it should say he "doesn't work out" |
| Question: Divorced..feeling free? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 10:20 AM PDT Did you love the freedom more than ever after you got a divorce? I used to be scared of getting a divorce and being alone but now the idea of living by myself with my dog really excites me. This freedom sounds a lot more joyful than the freedom I had before I got married. Anyone else felt that way? Also, if you never got remarried, many years later, is being alone difficult? |
| Question: My husband jerks me around? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 10:11 AM PDT Anytime my husband and I get in an argument he grabs my arms really tight and jerks me towards him. He also grabs my chin very tight so I don't look away. Sometimes I feel like he treats me as a child because he'll say things like "don't you argue with me" if I try to say how I feel. We have only been married for a couple of months. I dated him for 2years and he never agreed this way. |
| Question: Missing my wife Terribly!!? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 09:36 AM PDT Its been around 2 years since our marriage, she went to visit her parents for a month.. Its been just a week and i terribly miss her, rite the moment she left at airport.. its been unresistable since then.. She means everything to me, nothing helps me at all :( I just cant go on without her!! |
| Question: Why do men and women even bother looking for a partner ? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 09:30 AM PDT The divorce rate in America is so High? A lot of women are single with kids, a lot of men are either single or with another girl and giving money to their Ex (Child support), I'm 23 years old single for the past 5 years but with all the problems there is nowadays with men and women, is it even worth the time having a girlfriend/boyfriend or getting married since it could also be expensive. CAN YOU GO 4 YEARS OR MORE WITHOUT HAVING A GIRL OR MAN NEXT TO YOU ? |
| Question: Where is the actual line when it comes to a cheating spouse? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 09:06 AM PDT My husband and I have been married for two years and together for five. Over the course of our five years together, every now and then I will find a bunch of random emails from sites that he has signed up for (which he denies). Women dating sites, porn sites, etc. More recently he downloaded the KIK app and has been talking to people in a chat room entitled "Lewd Acts". Specifically talking to a particular woman, telling her things like he hopes she has had a good day and calling her a sexy southern lady. He says that he only does it because he's lonely and we don't see each other much. He works days and I work overnights. Am I wrong to feel pissed off and betrayed? I don't see him as much as I like, but I don't find validation in talking to other men in chat rooms. I try to talk to him about it but he just ends up getting angry and shifting the blame on me or coming up with stupid come backs such as "If talking to other women is cheating, am I supposed to talk to female coworkers?" Any advice here? I literally feel like I'm drowning and he's got the life raft in his hand but refuses to throw it out. I know it's not a physical affair but is it an emotional one? Where's the line? |
| Question: How to teach husband a lesson? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 08:51 AM PDT I'm tired. I've tried everything - arguments, talks, patience etc. you name it I've worked on it to get my husband understand that I have a back and foot problem and that I need a good night sleep. He will ask me to wake up say for another hour or so, and then say we both will go to sleep together, but instead he will take his laptop and start his searching. My problem is that I can't sleep with lights on and I can't trust him to go to another room as he always picks up my 4 month old baby and wakes him up from sleep. Them I'm left with a crying baby. This habit of his is driving me nuts. I have showed him many articles that sleeping baby should not be disturbed and that I'm tired from the whole day work and that atleast he should see my state and that I need to relax too. He won't move his *** and ask me for chips, coke, etc to be served to him in his couch. He never helps in household activities except that he takes care of lawn and our finances. I'm tired of physically handling so much work. If I don't do it he nags me until I complete it. I've tried to speak with him, made him understand but he is a selfish asshole. Please tell me how to teach him a lesson? |
| Question: What are good website to find marriage records? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 08:43 AM PDT |
| Posted: 19 Jul 2015 08:07 AM PDT This may sound weird but I want my little girls to see me giving my wife away at the alter. I want to walk up with her and then show my beautiful little ones how much I love them and that Daddy has given their mum the permission to marry. How do I do this? My wife hasn't spoken to me except when we exchange custody on the weekends. But in her heart I know she still loves me. I can see it in her eyes. So far all I read is rubbish. My wife still loves me. I will give her away. Do I ask my children to beg her? I want to go that route. |
| Question: Does he love me as he says? No judging please.? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 07:44 AM PDT My bf, who is married but on the process of getting separated (possibly divorced in the long run). Says he loves me. We've been dating for 4 months. He got caught by his wife cheating with me but he still didn't let me go because he says he loves me and I show it to him unlike his wife. We don't just meet up for sex. We go out for lunch, and movies. Just like a regular couple. Could he really love as he says? |
| Question: What can i do when my husband keeps defending his daughter when she talks back to me? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 07:39 AM PDT |
| Question: Afraid of first night (marriage) sex !? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 07:28 AM PDT Hi, first of all let me tell you that I'm a Muslim, so my family did find a girl for me and now we're engaged but soon will be married too, so I'm thinking about the first night of marriage. I'm feeling a bit of shameful (afraid) to have a sex with her without knowing her much, so any suggestion or advice will be of help, thank you so much! |
| Question: Why don't people support same-sex marriage? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 07:18 AM PDT I'm really confused. I support gay marriage but please don't be rude, I'm just wondering why heaps of people don't support it, I understand it's something to do with religion but I have never done R.E at my highschool and most of my family isn't religious, I just don't understand why it's bad. Please help me understand? |
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| Question: I can't tell you how disgusted I am about Gay Marriage, but let me attempt? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 06:29 AM PDT So one *** places his **** into another **** *** and then magically the world becomes *** and OK about this |
| Question: Why do I feel bored in my marriage? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 06:26 AM PDT My husband and I have only known each other 3 years, got pregnant after only 4 months and got married right before baby was born. He always tends to quit jobs as he was brought up in a wealthy family so he doesn't see how it affects us. I work 55 hours a week so we have what we need. For the last 8 months or so I have not been able to get myself "in the mood" or even want to be that close to him. He's a great dad and good to me but him not taking any charge or holding jobs very long has really affected me. He just recently started working again after 3 months and is already saying how he's applying to other jobs, which I feel is him getting bored at work again. Lately I've been finding myself wondering what is out there and feel like we should take a few steps back. I miss the excitement of when our relationship was new, I feel stuck.. |
| Question: Should men avoid marrying women who compete, control, criticize or complain? Posted: 19 Jul 2015 06:11 AM PDT Do those characteristics make for a miserable marriage, to a woman who has them? |
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