Marriage & Divorce: Question: My husband's work is stressing him out and he comes home extremely late!? |
- Question: My husband's work is stressing him out and he comes home extremely late!?
- Question: Alcoholic Fiance?
- Question: Just found out my boyfriend is married... What do I do?
- Question: Professional and personal?
- Question: How to tell my husband I want kinkier sex?
- Question: Wife takes showers with her 9 year old daughter. Is this fine? Why does it upset me and disgust me?
- Question: Dad been cheating on my mom for 10 years what should i do?
- Question: Why is it ok for men to throw flammable liquids on women?
- Question: What should I do about this? Ladies what would you do?
- Question: I as a black man desire to have many wives and lots of kids. =) Is that wrong though?
- Question: I adopted a very disturbed child?
- Question: Roommate problem?
- Question: What is battered wife syndrome?
- Question: What is battered wife syndrome?
- Question: I recently discovered that my mom hates my wife of 12 years. My wife has no faith in me that I would stand up for her. What should I do?
- Question: Should I be careful with this woman?
- Question: Joint legal custody to father an friend with shares physical custody to father?
- Question: Can we please do away with alimony?
- Question: I feel my husband never have my back he always be there for his family I don't think he care about me I just want a divorce ADVICE PLEASE?
- Question: My wife is sending nude photos to our son?
- Question: Married people, how do you feel about this situation?
- Question: Is it to be expected to have a mental break down when your spouse files for divorce and refuses to give the relationship another chance?
- Question: Do people often file for divorce, but then change their mind before the divorce becomes finalized and reconcile?
- Question: Divorced @ 24?
- Question: Sex with hippo?
- Question: Child Support?
- Question: Fat wives...?
- Question: How do you support a friend who is getting married at a young age?
- Question: Why did you get married, where?
- Question: Is there a time limit on a Rule 11 Agreement filed in conjunction with a pending divorce?
- Question: Partner doesn't want marriage.?
- Question: I don't love my wife?
- Question: My husband is hacking?
- Question: Ex introduces me to new wife?
- Question: Should we move to Colorado?
- Question: What can I do my husband remote access my accounts and lap top?
- Question: How can I get my wife to stop talking so much?
- Question: My wife opened a personal letter addressed to me?
- Question: Dad been cheating on my mom for 10 years what should i do??
- Question: What's up?
- Question: Why do married men go to prostitutes?
- Question: Can i lose my virginity to mg fiance and it still be right?
- Question: The only child wife?
- Question: I want to get away from Facebook but I don't want to hurt my husband since we're married in our relationship status.advice?
- Question: How do you know if a state have jurisdiction over you?
- Question: PLEASE I NEED ADVICE?
- Question: What is the incentive for a man to marry a woman? Once they do, they give up all sorts of rights, the law sides with women usually?
- Question: Would you be really pissed at your husband??
- Question: What do you think of men who will only consider marriage if the woman makes more than him thereby eliminating his risk of losing half assets?
- Question: Can i still file for divorce in another state?
- Question: Why do people say this about young marriage and college?
- Question: Husband cheated I don't know how to live?
- Question: Hate it when my wife sees a male Gynecologist. Any other men feel this way?
- Question: Should he see the baby in the hospital?
- Question: Should I tell my husband about this?
- Question: HUSBANDS: WWYD if you and your wife were at a wedding and?
- Question: Am I wrong for being upset?
- Question: What do you think his who attitude is toward the fact that his wife text his mistress?
- Question: Question about child support, can you help?
- Question: Why do so many marriages end in divorce?
| Question: My husband's work is stressing him out and he comes home extremely late!? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 09:22 PM PDT So I've been married for a month and my husband is throwing himself into his work. I am very appreciative that he's working so hard, but lately he's not coming home till very late or sometimes at 1 am. He's stressed out and he works until he gets delusional. It's definitely not healthy and it's starting affect our relationship. His parents came to visit this weekend and he was just overall in a very bad mood. At a point his mother told me a story (that I've heard once before) and we were having a good time, having some drinks etc and then he rudely interrupted and said "you've told her before' and his mother fell silent. So she told me another story and then she said "yes he was just a little boy" and he got a small scar on his face from this 'fight' he had in school, and I gently put my hand on his chin to see it and that's when he grabbed my arm in a very forceful way... And he grasped it tight until I widened my eyes and had to like gesture to him to leave my arm... his parents just tried to kind of laugh it off and we tried to 'gnore it. But the next day we went on a walk and I tickled him (very softly) not vigorously at all and he got me in a grip that actually hurt my shoulder and I laughed, his mom and dad too, making a joke out of it, but he looked quite serious, he wasn't laughing really&also he kept me in that grip for a bit too long... I had to say "ok you're hurting me" So I'm at the apartment, he is still at work, it's 9:20 pm. I don't know what to do? Help! |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 09:19 PM PDT We've been together for 5.5 years & he is an alcoholic. It used to be horrible (car accidents, lost license, getting fired, constant drunkennes) but now it really is way better; he has improved a lot & I am proud of him. But once a month or so, he goes on a bender for DAYS, gets angry with me for being upset & ends up unconscious while I check on him to make sure he's still breathing. He is saying now, once again (that our wedding is off) that he is going to rehab & addictions counselling, but I have heard it all before (not the rehab part; that's new). Should I believe him & keep trying? |
| Question: Just found out my boyfriend is married... What do I do? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 09:12 PM PDT We've been together almost 10 months and I'm 9 weeks pregnant with a baby we planned. We always stay up until after midnight texting, we go on weekend getaways, he spends the night, no ring mark on his finger. Nothing about him made me suspect anything. He came to the fertility doctor with me, I would drop him back off at the barracks and even went into his room. My best friend decided to look into him and she finds a joint FB account he shares with a women which I cannot see from my page ( he must have me blocked). He has a wife and 2 kids! The youngest is only like a year. A picture of he and his wife together was posted 3 weeks ago. I don't know what to do! I can't reach him because he's in the field until Wednesday. Do I even deserve an explanation considering I'm basically the "other women"? Do I contact his wife? Do I contact his chain of command? I know he's going to call me as soon as he can on Wednesday. Do I even answer? I can't think straight. I feel so disgusted and disappointed in myself. I've contributed to making a mess out of another womens life. Has anyone ever been through this? I just need advice |
| Question: Professional and personal? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 08:57 PM PDT So my hub and I are going through messy divorce. I worked for him for long time and now need letters of recommendation but he refuses stating that I would use it against him in a divorce process. What to do? i really need it! |
| Question: How to tell my husband I want kinkier sex? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 08:41 PM PDT How do I tell my husband I want to have kinkier sex like bdsm? He knows I like it a little rougher and he doesn't seem closed off to the idea of it but what's a good way to bring it up a and tell him I want him to dominate me in bed? |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 08:37 PM PDT Idk what it is but it bothers me and she thinks im crazy and weird for thinking that |
| Question: Dad been cheating on my mom for 10 years what should i do? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 08:33 PM PDT Long story short, some random girl on facebook (i believe it's one of his daughters by the cheating women), messaged me on Facebook talking about he has been living with her for 10 years. I knew something was wrong because he was never at home and i always questioned myself as to "what does he eat everyday?" "Where does he sleep everyday" When you can't answers those questions for you own dad, thats basically a sign of cheating. Its been a year since the girl told me. I was in college so it wasn't on my mind too much. but now thats its summer and im home everyday, it just bugs the crap out of me that he is never there. I guess an extremely long time ago my mom believed that he works like crazy, far distances, and that he stays with some uncles and friends to save gas. My mom absolutely does not talk to any other guys but him and it saddens me to think that this so called dad of mine is cheating on this great wife he has. I just don't know what to do. I was thinking about telling my dad, "can we talk, like a restaurant"? And then the first question is "who is Holly?" Or should i just straight out tell my mom? What do you think i should do??? Also, this cheating women added me on facebook for some reason. A long time ago, my dad told me and my sister to erase her because she is dangerous. My sister did, but i didn't. Now i see pictures of him and her, and her saying "been with this bae for 10 years and counting"... |
| Question: Why is it ok for men to throw flammable liquids on women? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 08:33 PM PDT but women get arrested for fighting back? |
| Question: What should I do about this? Ladies what would you do? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 08:32 PM PDT My wife and I have been. Married for 3 months my dad said he could get me a job with him making twice what I do now I make 9.25 now so I'll be making 18.00 but I'll be going out of state and I'll be gone a month or two at a time.the job my dad does he makes 10 hour days 7 days a week so around 1500-2000 dollar checks while I make 1000 a month. My wife said that she has made up her mind and isn't letting me go she says she can't do long distance ...thing is I hate my current job I'm so,miserable I work at Wal-Mart so you know how bad it can be..I'm treated like **** there all day everyday...advice? |
| Question: I as a black man desire to have many wives and lots of kids. =) Is that wrong though? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 07:12 PM PDT Maybe its my ego.... Maybe I jus need one.... dun dun thun____ SUPERWOMAN! |
| Question: I adopted a very disturbed child? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 07:11 PM PDT I'm 23 and am married to my lovely husband. We've been married for a year and a half and recently discussed children. Instead of having our own child we decided to adopt an 8 year old boy named Austin. He was apparently exposed to sexual and physical abuse by his own parents who dumped him on the street. Anyways the police took him in and then we adopted him. The thing is, due to his life with his birth parents, he doesn't talk to us, and if we say something to him he hangs his head and looks away. He hasn't even agreed to go anywhere with us. I know he is scared about his life because of his past, but how do we show him that we are here to love and care for him? We were going to enroll him into 3rd grade this year, but he doesn't seem to show any interests in going outside of his room. I am very worried about him, and I know it will take time for him to love and trust us, but I feel worried he is unhappy or feels threatened. I've only talked to him a few times, and when I did it was to ask him what kinds of food he liked, what toys he wanted etc. hes hurt, and he is very disturbed and I wonder how to comfort him. I love him very much and treat him like my own baby. What should I do to help him trust me and my husband? He has physical and emotional scars from his abusive parents, will he EVER feel safe? Thank you -Julia |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 06:51 PM PDT Hey all, I've been living with my roommate for about a month now with my husband, her, and her husband. Our husbands are currently away so it's just us two. Anyway she is the kind of girl that nags at her husband for everything. He will come home from work and she will tell him to do this and do that even though she does nothing all day. Anyway, I thought I was doing good, I wash my own dishes when I am done (she lets them pile up), clean the bathroom I use, nd basically just clean up after myself. She is always complaining to me about seeing the dishes not done, and today she was on the phone bitching about how she has to clean up everyone's trash. So I had enough of that, i cleaned her dishes kitchen and took the trash out. Also her dog is so annoying. I have never disliked a dog so much. He constantly bites me, he ripped up my air mattress so I have to sleep on the floor (she has an extra one wont let me use it), he is always scratching at my door and takes my shoes. She never disciplines him. He chews up everything and won't stop biting and scratching and he is a big dog so it hurts. I am not sure what to do. |
| Question: What is battered wife syndrome? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 06:50 PM PDT |
| Question: What is battered wife syndrome? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 06:50 PM PDT |
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| Question: Should I be careful with this woman? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 06:11 PM PDT This woman seems to five me more attention than my own wife. She texts me many times while I am at work, much more than my wife does. And she offers to see me for lunch and dinner. Again my wife never mentions eating out. Should I be careful about this woman who is giving me so much more attention? Is she looking for something? |
| Question: Joint legal custody to father an friend with shares physical custody to father? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 05:56 PM PDT Shares Question if i gave my custody to the friend do i still pay support to my abuser |
| Question: Can we please do away with alimony? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 05:29 PM PDT Why don't women get a job and be an adult instead of taking their mans money?It's disgusting they deserve nothing from someone elses paycheck, its the 21st century get a job. Women initiate 80% of all divorce cases @Forked Tongue @tehabwa aww that's cute so she gets to steal his money and life because she became a stay at home mom? Some money to begin her life anew with is ok, its entitled childish women like you that ruin society you low life scum. |
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| Question: My wife is sending nude photos to our son? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 05:22 PM PDT I was looking in my wife's phone for pictures of my sister in laws newborn granddaughter and I found nude pictures of her that I have never seen before. I got suspicious because she sends me pictures but there were a lot that I have never seen. So I checked her recent messages and found that she has been sending them to our son who is from my first marriage. Their texts are mostly normal and then there is sexual messages and then the pictures most of which are poses that my son is asking her to do. I'm so disgusted and confused. I can't bring thus up to any of the family and I have no clue where to start. I'm afraid if I come out and bring it up I'll end up beating both of them. Can someone please give me some advise. |
| Question: Married people, how do you feel about this situation? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 05:11 PM PDT My husband just lost his job. I asked him to please not go to his mom for money because i can cover our expenses and more, he has said himself that she is psycho and it probably comes with strings attached, and I hate taking money from people especially now that I m married because we are supposed to be taking care of each other. Every time we take or borrow money from others it makes us look badly, especially him since he is the head of the household and i don t want anyone feeling like he is not taking care of his business even if that was true. So why is he wanting to take her money? Because he loves money and doesn t care too much about how he gets it, but I am furious. How would you feel if you were in my shoes? |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 04:50 PM PDT I feel like I'm going to snap and have a breakdown. My husband threw ne across the room and I called cops. He has a court date now and has been going around telling people we are getting a divorce. I haven't even been able to talk to him and try to reconcile. Then my parents are telling me off saying normal people don't react to things like this by having a mental break down. Am I wrong here? |
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| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 04:32 PM PDT I took advantage of him. I complained, I nagged.. I did do a lot for him > he did cheat on me. It was an unhappy marriage. I tried everything. I lost 70 pounds... I took care of our child. I could have acted differently i married him 4 days after I turned 18... I stayed faithful to him for 6 years. He left me found another girl who's so pretty, not even 3 months after our divorce.... She is now staying at home wife while he works... My child is on summer vacation with him for the month of visitation she stays at home with my child... Me and him had all the same friends... None of them will really talk to me now. I'm doing well. Got a good job good apartment. What do I do? Why does he get to be happy? It's so hard to meet people. I don't like to drink. I don't like to meet people off the net. I know I don't need anyone. I just need a friend. I just do not think it's fair. My husband my one and only is with another girl right now with our child and I'm all alone. How do I meet people? I am not religious, all I've focused on the past 4 months is my job & self , and daughter. I need someone to talk to sometimes. Is this normal? Why does he get to be happy? He's talking about getting married to her. My friends are in pictures with her & him . |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 04:32 PM PDT my wife waight gain, she sweat a lot during sex I hate it, she doesn't want to acknowledge the sweat cause by her weight gain. YUCK |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 04:26 PM PDT I been separated from my ex for about 3 years, we have 3 kids together. I don't pay child support currently and have the kids every weekend (Fri, Sat and Sun) we have never been to court for custody or anything. My question is, If she files for Child Support 3-4 years down the line, do I have to pay child support from the time we split up? or do I just pay from the time she files? This is California. |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 04:19 PM PDT Having children is the reason to be the size of elephant? |
| Question: How do you support a friend who is getting married at a young age? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 04:04 PM PDT |
| Question: Why did you get married, where? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:52 PM PDT |
| Question: Is there a time limit on a Rule 11 Agreement filed in conjunction with a pending divorce? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:50 PM PDT |
| Question: Partner doesn't want marriage.? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:50 PM PDT Long story short, we've been together for almost 5 years, have a child and plan on having more but partner doesn't 'believe' that we have to get married or 'sign a piece of paper' to prove our love. Which I get that. I mean, I've come from a family that was once married but now both my parents are comfortable just being in love and sharing their lives with each of their new spouses. But like the girl I am, I want marriage. I want the commitment and most importantly....I want to share the same name as my children. That means more to me than anything. I just don't know how to digest this anymore. I love him but like I said, I want that commitment. But I'm not about to ask someone to marry me and them only do it because I want to.. What should I do? |
| Question: I don't love my wife? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:24 PM PDT I have been together with my wife for 3 1/2 years, married for a less than a year. I don't love her any more , can't even stand her, daily arguments made me feels this way. I have not told her that I love her for 8 months now. I am not having affair....my wife never appreciated anything from me |
| Question: My husband is hacking? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:20 PM PDT |
| Question: Ex introduces me to new wife? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:18 PM PDT Many years ago, I dated and briefly engaged to a man who lied, cheated and abused drugs. After our breakup, he found religion, and got married.. He then brought his new wife to meet me and my family. Why? Our relationship was over. I have no feelings for him and he has his own family. We had no children. There was no reason to for me to meet the new wife. I always wondered why he would do this weird thing? Any ideas? |
| Question: Should we move to Colorado? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:15 PM PDT My husband is from the Denver area. I'm origanally from southern California but have been in sw Missouri for the last 20 years. We've been together for 5 years and are getting ready to have our 2nd wedding anniversary. No kids yet. We currently live in mo and I thought we'd stay here. My family is here where as all of his family and friends are in Colorado. Should I just give in and move to Colorado? |
| Question: What can I do my husband remote access my accounts and lap top? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:08 PM PDT |
| Question: How can I get my wife to stop talking so much? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:07 PM PDT |
| Question: My wife opened a personal letter addressed to me? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 03:07 PM PDT My wife has a history dealing with trust. Her old boyfriend cheated on her and I think she has a problem with trusting me. I have never cheated on her. What has upset me as tonight I found a letter that was addressed to me that said "private" on it. It looks slightly different from other letters - there was no bank or company logo so on quick observation it could have been intriguing. However it was a letter from my investment with the bank - return of income investments and addressed to me. She didn't tell me she had opened it and I discovered it when I mentioned that I was looking for a proof that I have an account with the bank (I am busy applying for a work tender and needed to submit proof). She then mentioned there was this letter for me by the microwave. It was hidden away and was confused as to why she had not told me that letter arrived. I feel like she was being snoopy. She never opens my letters. My question is: surely it's common morals not to invade someone else's letter? Is it right or wrong? How would you react? Do you open your partners letters? I have nothing to hide I am just confused as to why she opened it and then hid the letter? What's your gut feel on this? I feel she does not trust me. P.s: before we married she also hacked into my email account to read my emails which she owned up to me. I feel since then she still try to find a way to check on me. |
| Question: Dad been cheating on my mom for 10 years what should i do?? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 02:55 PM PDT Long story short, some random girl on face book (i believe it's one of his daughters by the cheating women), messaged me on Facebook talking about he has been living with her for 10 years. I knew something was wrong because he was never at home and i always questioned myself as to "what does he eat everyday?" "Where does he sleep everyday" When you can't answers those questions for you own dad, thats basically a sign of cheating. Its been a year since the girl told me. I was in college so it wasn't on my mind too much. but now thats its summer and im home everyday, it just bugs the crap out of me that he is never there. I guess an extremely long time ago my mom believed that he works like crazy, far distances, and that he stays with some uncles and friends to save gas. My mom absoletely does not talk to any other guys but himm and it saddens me to think that this so called dad of mine is cheating on this great wife he has. I just don't know what to do. I was thinking about telling my dad, "can we talk, like a restaurant"? And then the first question is "who is Holly?" Or should i just straight out tell my mom? What do you think i should do??? Also, this cheating women added me on facebook for some reason. A long time ago, my dad told me and my sister to erase her because she is dangerous. My sister did, but i didn't. Now i see pictures of him and her, and her saying "i been with his great man fro 10 years"... |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 02:16 PM PDT I have been married to my husband for 1 year and 3 months. I am now in the process of trying to figure out what it was that made me marry him. Before we got married, he often told me we were friends, and so I was very clear that's all we were, even though we had sexual intercourse on a rare occasion. During the time of our "friendship" I grew to have feelings for him and since he asked me to marry him 1 year and 4 months later, I felt he too came to share those same feelings. Things changed with his mom and my friendly relationship after we got married. What was once friendly has become just cordial if anything at all. She informed me that she was my husband's first love #1 woman in his life. If she asks him to do something for her, he does it. Let me go into further detail on this…. My husband is a Pastor of a small church. I work fulltime in a town that is 60 miles away and take the commuter train daily. Between the commute and work, my week days are 11 hours daily. I am the breadwinner in the family and pay everything except our small mortgage of $450. I also clean the church on Saturday's with the help of one other woman I am grateful for. I am tired all the time. He has time during the week clean the church, but, has grown accustomed to me doing it all the time. I told him we needed to work more as a team and do this together. My house is not cleaned regularly nor thoroughly because I am working all the time. Was I wrong in getting married to this man? Also, our sex life is nearly nonexistent. I have stopped being the instigator of it because then I would have to do all the work and the majority of the time, my needs are not met. In the meantime, I am tired, unhappy, gaining weight, not fulfilled and am doubting my marriage. |
| Question: Why do married men go to prostitutes? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 02:09 PM PDT Most of these ladies' johns are married or in committed relationships. When I searched for answers one guy said 'There are alot of reasons 1,He wants to get really nasty but the wife won't do it. 2, She doesn't care for his needs because she love some1 new. 3, She won't do anal Or suck his Dick & take it in her mouth. 4, Kids She has no time or is to tired for any good sex. 5,She has cheated on him & still keeps doing it to him with out any care in the world. 6, He likes rough sex & she won't do it with him. 7,He needs to talk to some1 that is a woman cause he has ?s as to why she cheats on him. 8, He is weird & wants to have a women do things to him that if his wife knew she would leave his crazy *** lol 9, His wife has gotten fat & he's not to much into that so he go's to a smaller woman. 10, his wife is a b it ch to him. 11, His wife is a different race from the woman he is paying to have sex with.But the real reason is that the RELATIONSHIP ISN"T A HAPPY ONE' So my question to that is why do men feel so entitled to do degrading things to their woman's body that their woman would never ask to do to him? |
| Question: Can i lose my virginity to mg fiance and it still be right? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 02:08 PM PDT Like your suppose to be married but what if you lose to your fiance is that still sinning?? |
| Question: The only child wife? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 02:02 PM PDT I have been married to the only child for less than a year, we fight every single day. I can never say No to my wife, No means criticism to her, different opinion means criticism. I am just tired , every thing have to be her way....we can never sat down and have constructive conversation..... Her parents coming to visit us tomorrow, they live 2Omins away from us .., I don't want to be at home, last time her mother came ,she tried to go in our bedroom, our door intercom don't work, my wife had to go down stairs to open the door for her mother , we live on first floor, she made comment that should have been me went down to open the door for her, my wife told her it was her choice she went down.I don't want to be at home to witness my mother in-laws behaviour, I'd rather be out....my wife don't understand this... |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 01:34 PM PDT Hi I've been wanting to deactivate my account on Facebook and the reason for that is my husband's family. I can't stand them!! I always have to find out things I don't like and I want to try to keep my distance from them. Every time I'm on Facebook I feel temped to share things about my life and I will rather just not post anything,, as my in laws keep ignoring me as if I don't exist. The problem is that I feel bad for my friends who DO appreciate me. And my husband also has an account so I don't know what will happen with our relationship status since we're married on Facebook. I don't want him to be hurt because its not his fault that i want to leave. I feel bad because he would be alone in Facebook and won't be able to tag me or anything :( or he might think I don't care about him since I won't be there. I seriously need to get away but I can't tell my husband I'm doing it because of his family. If I tell him the situation he might talk to his family and I'm gonna become the drama girl. They already don't like me and I don't want it to get worst. My husband so far doesn't see how poorly his family treats me. Advice please. |
| Question: How do you know if a state have jurisdiction over you? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 01:29 PM PDT im going through a divorce but i want to know how to determine whether a state has jurisdiction over you and how can you change that? |
| Question: PLEASE I NEED ADVICE? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 01:23 PM PDT So me and my husband have been together for 2 years we have a 3 months old baby. But lately we have months fighting for every single thing. I feel like everything I do, or say bothers my husband but just me because with other people he's talkiactive and in a good mood he's always in a bad mood or tired and quiet when it comes to me. Just to mention he has two jobs so he gone all day since the morning till like real late at night.I understand he might feel stress but I'm home alone all day long everyday with my son. And I want to feel loved and have someone to talk to at least. I'm a stay home mom so I stay home all day long 7 days a week. My family leaves in another state so all i have here is him. Sometimes we don't even have sex no more. Or even talk. We love each other alot and there is times when we do kiss and feel loved. But then i make a conversation and something i say bothers him and stop talking to me completely. He says I'm dramatic when I want to to talk to him and start crying because I feel hurt. I seriously don't even know what to do anymore. I feel like separating each other. Again we do love each other and we tell each other this when were not fighting but then the love doesn't last long when were fighting again. I feel disappointed all the time and I feel like I can't keep going 😞 I'm sorry if its to long I'm just trying to explain everything. Any advise? |
| Posted: 20 Jul 2015 01:07 PM PDT Im 25 male, and have decided against marriage. I have a girlfriend and decided we wouldn't even live together, for one I like my privacy but two, once you get married or even live together for a while, the law considers it a marriage and when things so south, the chick gets part of your belongings and earnings. And if she gets pregnant..oh my god, that just complicates all sorts of things. I wear condoms every time, but I expect her to be on the pill or some form of birth control too; she agreed. Dudes got to watch themselves In tisi crazy world, nobody out there protecting men's rights.. |
| Question: Would you be really pissed at your husband?? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 12:57 PM PDT I'm upset because, a few weeks ago I had a mental breakdown and I attempted suicide. I got help and am getting help and I feel better. Anyway, the only person who knew was my husband. He told his friend what happened and his friend (our neighbor) told every neighbor in the neighborhood as well as some of our mutual friends. I found out that the neighbor told them because I had about 5 neighbors tell me he told them. I don't think it's something you tell or a rumor you spread. I'm so hurt because it was something really private that I did. It was a mistake and now everyone thinks I'm a fragile person and it's annoying/ embarrassing. What irritates me more is I have stopped talking to the neighbor because of his big mouth and my husband continues to be friends with him! Am I wrong??? No one was suppose to know and now everyone knows. There isn't anything I can do about it, by my husband doesn't get why I'm upset. |
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| Question: Can i still file for divorce in another state? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 12:47 PM PDT i currently left my husband and now i reside in another state which is mississippi which ive never been before. my husband is in NY. our son was born in atlanta. i dont have my name on any lease in mississippi ..but i have been here for 90 days so i was wondering, in order to file for divorce, do i have to go back to the state my husband is in in order for us to take care of this divorce case? being that our son wasnt born in NY, how does the court there have jurisdiction ? is this determines by residency? or is it determines by the last place you've lived before a divorce? |
| Question: Why do people say this about young marriage and college? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 12:47 PM PDT |
| Question: Husband cheated I don't know how to live? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 12:39 PM PDT Few months back I asked on here about my husband not having sex with me anymore and he thought (told me) he might have a testosterone prob. Well no my gut told me our entire relationship something was wrong I was even have the same dream about it over and over. I finally found out he had a porn addiction. Fine I tried to deal with that and work on forgiving and moving on. He went on his own to get help and started going to my church after 20yrs away from God. Next thing I find out he had online accounts I didn't know about and he was sending sexual communication to disgusting people on there. That hurt more but he lied and lied and lied every time I had asked anything so after not giving up at this point I found out these two things and of course he swore there was nothing else. Again I tried to work through it. I asked if he were talking to anyone from his past again swearing he never did. I shortly find out he had a secret cell phone and was contacting 3 old flings and also (he travels) he was setting up meetings with them during his trips but swore he didn't follow through. The lies continued, I knew it was lies so didn't let it go. Last night I find out he has SEX with one of those whores. He's lied about everything I've asked and there's more. I married this man this yr and I'm so empty and hurt. He begs me to stay and is getting help but how am I to believe he won't do this again or how the hell can I forgive this. It runs through my mind every moment. |
| Question: Hate it when my wife sees a male Gynecologist. Any other men feel this way? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 12:37 PM PDT |
| Question: Should he see the baby in the hospital? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 12:25 PM PDT My husband had an affair with another woman. And the child is due to be born in the next couple of weeks. I decided to stay with him long ago and we have been working on things ever since. But i don't trust him to be around this woman at all. We have decided that there will be no contact between them in issues regarding child there will always be a middle man. I am just wondering about when the baby is born. He said he planned to go up there, and i understand, but the thought of it makes me sick. I need others opinions on the situation. Especially if you have dealt with something similar. |
| Question: Should I tell my husband about this? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 12:04 PM PDT My brother is making a big deal of this. To make a long story short, a few months ago I met my father-in-law for the 1st time. My husband didn't know; he has severed contact with his dad b/c of physical abuse in the past. FIL contacted me through a relative to say that he was in town and wanted to see our kids. I was reluctant but he said it was likely his last chance as he was diagnosed with cancer. He lives in another state and it'd be only a short meeting over lunch in a restaurant. He begged me not to tell my husband b/c he was afraid my husband wouldn't allow it. I agreed to take our baby to see him, and it went well. He's now a shriveled man and told me his regret of being a bad father to my husband (he was an alcoholic). FIL wanted to see our 3 y/o son too, but I wasn't sure so I said I'll think about it. Afterwards I asked my husband (without telling him about the meeting) if he's fine with his dad seeing our sons, but his reaction was so strong (he said his dad is manipulative and basically a monster) that I abandoned everything and avoid FIL's attempt to contact me. Last week I mentioned this to my brother and he said I MUST tell my husband about it. Actually he's angry that I'm keeping this from my husband. I'm a bit hurt b/c I only meant well and tried to accommodate everyone. Our son wasn't exposed to danger (in a full-packed restaurant!). My brother is a bit like "I know best" sometimes, so Idk if I really should tell my husband? Is this really a big deal? |
| Question: HUSBANDS: WWYD if you and your wife were at a wedding and? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 11:56 AM PDT You aren't much of a dancer so you are off to the side catching up with the guys while your wife does her thing on the dance floor. Next thing you know some other guy is dancing with your wife and seems to be getting a little too touchy feely. Your wife is giving you the "save me" face. WWYD? This happened to us over the weekend and I'm curious if my reaction was the common one or not. I'll comment it later. |
| Question: Am I wrong for being upset? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 11:53 AM PDT My husband and I have two beautiful children. Our daughter is 21 months and our son is 9 months. Lately, my husband has decided to spend every weekend working, despite having a good paying job with benefits. I've spoken to him about it and have told him that it would be nice to have him around on weekends. It'd be great to take the kids to the park or somewhere they can run around. Our daughter is starting to test her boundaries by running off and our son moves around by rolling everywhere, then gets stuck in crazy positions. I love my time with them when I have them, but it's hard to take both of them on an outing alone. Our daughter wants to see everything, which is only normal; and our son is very heavy for his age, which makes toting him around rather difficult. I understand where my husband is coming from. He thinks he is doing what he feels is best to provide for his family, but he just won't listen that that by being home, he also providing for the family by spending time with the family. He always compares me to his mother, saying that she did all the housework and still managed to raise the children. She didn't have a full-time job outside of the home either. Am I wrong for being upset with him? Last night he informed me that is working again this coming weekend. I had to ask him point blank, though. And when I asked if or when he was going to tell me, he just shrugged. |
| Question: What do you think his who attitude is toward the fact that his wife text his mistress? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 11:49 AM PDT This husband's wife sent a text message to the woman he is having an affair with and the other woman sent him a text letting him know that his wife text her. His response was "ya?" Based on that response what do you think his who attitude is on that? |
| Question: Question about child support, can you help? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 11:39 AM PDT husband and I are having a discrepancy about his son remarrying. His son from a prior marriage has 6 kids, this son and wife divorced 15 years ago. This son has been paying child support, he will pay the rest of his life. This son is now going to remarry, if this son loses his job, or something happens, will the state go after this/his new wife to pay that child support? thank you |
| Question: Why do so many marriages end in divorce? Posted: 20 Jul 2015 11:36 AM PDT Are people naive? |
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