Every time I'm done with the kitchen I wash the counters , do the dishes and make it look all nice but it's never good enough it seems she starts to tell my boyfriend that I leave stains on the seasonings when I always wipe them. Or I leave handprints or crumbs on the fridge when I always double check and wipe down the fridge the fridge is just like those plain white ones that you can't see out of and me or my boyfriend have not once saw a stain that's why I think she's making it up. I try to please her but she always points out something I did wrong and every time I'm done going to the bathroom she makes me uncomfortable because she always checks to see if I made a mess she never does that to anybody else and the funny thing is there's been people that make bigger messes then me in the kitchen and she never gets mad at them if I make one she screams at my boyfriend for it.

So, I have an 17 and 3/4 year old daughter. She is a model, a beauty pageant winner, and fitness buff who is well on her way to getting her personal trainer certification. I'm very proud of her as you can imagine. The problem is, what she's been doing for this past year. A little after she turned 17, she informed me that she always thought I was very handsome and she wanted to have sex with me. I told her no, I'm you're father, you should know that that would be inappropriate. But she hasn't stopped, and most mornings I'll wake up with her on top of me, kissing me, grabbing me all over, with my clothes off and her clothes off. It's gotten to the point where I've had to lock myself in my bathroom and sleep in there at night out of fear that she'll get me while I'm asleep. But the moment I step out into the open house, she jumps me and takes me down, trying to get my clothes off and kissing me all over, etc. Once, she even drugged me! My theory for why she does this is that since she's so beautiful she's been able to get any guy she wanted her whole life, but being her dad, I'm the only guy who she can't get, so she wants what she can't get? She's become obsessed with having sex with me, and the problem is that she's around as strong as me so it's very hard to keep her off, she can pin me rather easily and keep me down, I manage to pry her off everytime but it's difficult, she has more defined muscles than me! The fact that she's always pinning me and violating me and (cont... and trying to have sex with me is becoming a big problem because I'm worried soon I'm going to start to give in. I only have so much mental and physical strength to try and resist a beautiful woman throwing herself at me, let alone one who is slightly stronger than me physically!!! I don't know how much longer I can resist. I tell her NO all the time and to please stop but she won't take no for an answer. Eventually I know my feeble mind and body will succumb to the sexiness. I don't want (cont: to report her or anything, because I highly doubt a court of law would favor me, a man, and also the father. They would likely turn it on me. Also, even if I could get her blamed, she's my daughter and I love her. I don't want to disown her or kick her out, let alone jail her. What do I do?? Do I have to succumb to her? I'm starting to think I don't have a choice...and she is the sexiest woman I've ever had in my life, after all..

He lost his brother today. He killed himself at age 22. My bf is 17 and I'm 15. He came to my house and my parents talked to him for a little. We went downstairs and he broke down in tears. I held him and tried to calm him down. I was able to calm him down by rubbing his back and hair but he's still so upset. He's crying but not as hard. I feel terrible. How can I comfort him?

My boyfriend's dad is very abusive towards his mom, his siblings, and him. He never opens up about it and he is constantly in court to fight it. The dad was finally in jail last night after his mother called the police as he began to hurt them, but he got out on bail. My boyfriend sees a therapist as well. His mother tells me about this all because he won't open up to anyone about it. How do I comfort him? oh and he get's bullied at school, and the teachers come down on him for not being a good student, and they do not know about the abuse at home.

My boyfriend lives in another country and he isn't really 100 percent nice. He is ok but, not amazing and he is in another Jordan in the middle east. He wants me to go there and move back to Jordan. I hate my life it is miserable. i have no family. I hate my mom and sister. my dad only cares mostly for himself and my brother was never around. The grad program which is to study medicine and very respectable doesn't accept fafsa from America so I don't know how I would pay for it. Only through a private bank loan. My mom is that evil she would do anything to help my sister but, not me. If that is my last route to get a private loan and she doesn't help me I will hate her even more. i want to turn my life around but, i can't stand america or the west. i just want my life to turn around and want to move back to Jordan or start grad school. I don't know how it will happen. I feel depressed.

so i did a really bad thing and i stole i'm only a teenager and i do mistakes but i got caught and they had to call my parents and my boyfriend almost got in trouble too because he was with me but they didnt call his parents because only i stole. they took my picture and i'm now banned from going in to the store and so is my boyfriend. i feel really guilty and bad for doing that and i dont even know how im going to sleep tonight the guilt is eating me up.

They are all going to Palm Springs for the weekend for my aunt Claudia's "bachelorette party". I just met the woman she is marrying my uncle. Their relationship is horrible. She breaks up with him every week. Calls off the wedding. Posts stupid posts on social media and then next day acts if nothing happened and calls it back on. I'm not a drinker or into the club scene. Well not with my family anyway. We aren't close. They are the annoying Belligerent drunks and I'm not a fan of hanging out with negative people. My aunt ivy isn't going because my aunt Judy hates her for no reason what so ever. ( and I mean literally no reason what so ever. She is like this with everyone who marries in the family she treats them like **** and will start fights for no reason) so we ( ivy and me) aren't going. I ran into her at Costco and asked her if she was gonna go despite the fact Judy hates her and she said no. She knows that once alcohol gets in her system it would be inevitable that my aunt Judy would start something. So I told her too I'm not going. And she invited me to go to a taco festival in LA for a few hours that same weekend. I of course I said yes. ( obvi free fooood!) and I told my mom about it. My mom gets mad and says it's not cool and that my aunt ivy knows all the girls are going and she only invited me and blah blah. I don't really see anything wrong with it. I can't see the bad. If yall think its wrong can you explain why that is?

I'm just wondering if my dad's step brother's son would be related by blood.

She has to do chores all day. She has to yell at my brother because he isn't doing things right. She doesn't want me near her, but i want to help her We might be broke She doesnt work, only my dad does, and no, i cant make her work. She cries and sniffs, but she doesnt wail. and it makes me feel so bad. i dont know what to do we moved here a year ago and she cant make any friends i dont know what's happening other than this, sorry. please help me, i want to have fun with my mom.

I know this isn't a big deal, and I'm not pouting over it, but my mom just let my sister have a cookie, and when I asked if I could have one, she said "no" so I said, "you just let (my sister) have one though)" she shrugged and said "well that's your fault." (It's even a healthy cookie. )And didn't even look at me. It kinda hurt, and I felt like she was mad at me. Even though she seems pretty happy towards everyone else in the house. When she said "well that's your fault" it didn't make sense. What was my fault? Like I said, I'm not pouting over a cookie, I'm just kinda feeling like she doesn't care about me or is dissapointed and angry at me..

I am 17 years old Emma.My mom is a teacher.She always takes negative emotions on me.She calls me ugly,useless.She can hit me and forget about it.Then she blames me.I can't say I am perfect child.I have some issues like talking back.She has a news husband who doesn't have any verbal filter.He makes stupid remarks about everything.Today he said that I look like a dead dog.And my mom doesn't say a word to him.When I say something to him.My mom immediately protects him.I have no life outside home no friends, no hobbies.I am crying because of my relations with mom everyday.Shesays I deserve the way I am being treated.Dad left us 10 years ago.he lives less than 10 mins from my house.Whenever we accidentaly meet at the street he gives stupid remarks and tries to get away as soon as possible.He has a new family and 2 kids.He never took active part in my life.Since my childhood he was ignoring me.Now he's divorced again and his ex took his other kids to the other city.He is fighting for those kids.Even when he bothers to call me once a year he tells me about them and doesn't ask about me.He doesn't pay a child support for the last 7 years.Even when he was paying it was about 50$ a year.He has money.He says that he doesn't pay because his kids have asthma they need it more.I have asthma, acne, scoliosis and many other issues.And he doesn't even asks how I am feeling. My mom picks up on my because of the child support like it's a my fault that he doesn't pay it.I hate them both.

Both guys 14. Our parents went off on him bc of something on his phone (idk) and they beat him and yelled at him it was bad. So when he came in our shared room he was shaking and he couldn't breathe good. I hugged him and told him to relax and he's still breathing bad, shaking and crying. What do I do?

He s sexually aroused by my feet, and whenever I tell him no it just encourages him. He also once asked me to touch my private parts. My dad just says he s a little boy but I m seriously creeped out by my brother s actions. I don t know how to make him stop. Can someone help?

I was playing with my dog out the back garden when I over heard mam saying that she cares for my dad deep down and my mama friend said maybe wait a year or two because you ve had a tough year. It has been a tough year because I was in hospital for 8 months and my dad was in hospital aswell with a brain tumour. I have no one to talk to and I don t want to tell my dad because I don t want him to get hurt and my brothers away for a month. Please help me

I come from a very rich family & I am the only child of my family. My parents never let me out of the house, nor do they leave me at all anywhere else rather than in my house. My father is a doctor who is also in the business field, who is always with his patients, and he has a fortune which obviously will be mine one day but that's not the point, he bearly knows me let alone my age. My father believes heavily is psychic stuff which obviously is fake. He was told by some psychics that I have a very bad time till I become 21 (18 now). I don't get to drive a car, I have never got the chance to see a movie or eat at some place with people who I can call friends,I basicly get into my car with one of our drivers in the morning,dropped at school, then picked up at school, to the class, then again picked up, and brought home. I am always under the microscope, I live in a wider piece of a hallway with no door so they see my every activity. I am a straight A/A+ student, I am kind of an over-achiever who is really depressed. I am alone, no one to talk to, don't have real friends cause the lot I have stay cause of the $$ I got in millions in the accounts, cause I never get to go out and make true friends. I just wanna be normal, not do piecing and stuff, my dad is trying to "protect me" as he tells, but now what he needs to protect me from is myself (suicide) I hate this life. I have all the high end ohones and materials, but non of what that really matters, what money can't buy.

hello. when I was little I was abused by my mom till I was 8 and saved by my grnma & dad. now that my grandma has died and I am 15 and tired of living with my single dad who doesn't take good care of me. I have to do his laundry and try and do mine and clean the house just about everyday and try to find money for clothes or sometimes food. I'm scared to go back to my moms but also just done and ready. I have a loving boyfriend who is going to try to come over to talk to me about this but his car broke down. we have been dating for almost a year and he loves me to death. idk what I would do without him and my mom doesn't know about him bc she thinks I'm too young to date & he is a senior now and I'm a sophomore and he has a beard. idk I'm scared that she's still abusive or won't except me or my boyfriend. idk should I put up with the crap here at my dads or take a risk to move with my mom? she's still on probation for what she did but she's a loving mom who takes me shopping and is able to take care of me and definitely has the money and time. please help my decision a little more.

As I said, I'm homeless and I have no friends (I'm not from the city that I currently live in) and family that live here. Any advice on what I could do?

PLLEASE ANSWER IM IN MY ROOM TEARING UP!!!!!! IDK WAT TO DO So my mom and I fight a lot,but we always make up and fightagain, not like fists frights just like those little things ya know? So for example,my mom a couple days ago said we were going back to school shopping today. So this morning my mo went to feel my head ( i was sick the day b4). and i didn't want her and i yell "don't touch my head" but that was just becuase i had just woken up 10 mins ago and i dint want to be awake. So like 5 mins ago i went to go apologize for what i said and i explained the situation. "She said you only nice when u want something, your nice to everyone else but me then when it comes to me your like the oppposite" I tried to explain more but she said " im done, get out of my room, im not talking to you, get out!" I asked her if she would just listen for 1 min while i tried to apologize for everything and try to clear things up but then she interrupted and i said listen for 1 second and she yelled " SEE THATS WHAT I MEAN, then i left crying cuz all i wanted was to say sorry! Whatever i do my dad will back her up, Btw, she said she will buy me new shoes becuase i grew out my old ones, but i don't get new clothes like my brother does for BTS even though i tried to do my best to say sorry, but i got screaming instead of hwat i expected which was 'I forgive you" Am i spoiled please be honest? If i am how do i not be? What do i do with this situation?

So on sunday i was at my friend Torri's house. I accidentally dropped her phone in the toilet. it would have been fine if she hadnt played with it. But she did and now i owe her 246 dollars for a new phone-keep in mind im only 14- and i only have 140 and her dad is saying "well then maybe she needs to ask her parents for money" and i just have had a terrible time with my mom, and my dad is being really nice to me but i know hes going to blow up when i ask him for 100 dollars. and tell him why. and my friend shows no remorse towards me. she knows how bad its been in my family. And i just got off a cruise so its going to be hard to get that much money out of my dad. its one of those things like when someone says "just tell me if you need anything" and you dont want to burden the person so you just keep your mouth shut. but then the person next to you who was told the same thing asks the person on their way out "oh yeah can i borrow your phone? i need to call someone". And the reason it costs so much is because the phone costs so much is because her dad is cheap and will only pay 10 bucks a month at the most. And i asked if she could at least chip in and all she said "Ill try" meaning "No because my money is for my new red hair dye". I just feel like such a disappointment. just like UGH! someone please either tell me a story where something similar happened or somehow comfort me.

I am a 13 year old girl and I love my family and especially my parents so so so much. But recently I've been starting to wear makeup and she's been dropping hints that she thinks I look ugly. Like "you shouldn't wear so much makeup, your so pretty without it, but not with it" I don't even wear a lot, I just wear concealer and eyeshadow and mascara. I have really bad self confidence and makeup make me feel better. I told her that I don't care what she thinks because I like it. I wear makeup to make myself happy, not to impress anyone else. But recently since she told me what she thought I've felt so ugly with AND without makeup, I just feel like crying all the time now please help me :(

It's been deleted now. It was the question where the OP was talking about her mom being really cruel to her on the day she realized she got high test scores. WHY were people so vicious on it? The Op was insulted and cursed out and everything. Why did people act that way? It must've been a horrible day for her. But what triggered people to lash out? I'm pretty sure it was in this section, so if anyone remembers the Q could you tell me why?

I m entering my last year of secondary school and my only brother is on his way to university next month. My mum sat by me whilst I was playing fifa just so that she could see my face. I m a brick wall when it comes to emotions because I usually don t feel sad about most things, and I m a bit anti social. My mum told me she is going to be alone next year and she ll have no one to watch grow up or to cook for and she said this while smiling. A second later she burst into tears and I gave her a hug. It s one of the few times I ve felt genuinely sad, and I m worried if I leave for university next year that my mum will break down I guess mentally seeing her last son leave. What should I do and should I be worried she s crying?

My dad never listens to me. He starts fights all the time and when I ask him to politely stop he never listens. Finally when I say shut up (I get so frustrated and I just want him to stop) he goes insane! (He has really bad anger issue but denies it) he throws things at me, hits me, chases me around, and just says horrible things while screaming. After a fight happens, my mom always takes his side and says that I m the one who did something wrong.. All because he won t listen, can someone help out on what to do??

My daughter is fourteen, she's slightly overweight, and she was insulting all her siblings pointing out all their flaws such as she said her sister was stupid because she was struggling in math, she called her brother an idiot because he has a lisp (which he is in speech therapy for) and just going down the row being very bitter and rude, I told her to stop pointing out everyone's flaws and she has some of her own, so she should release everyone has them and she's not perfect and she said I didn't plan to go into detail, but she is perfect and she asked me what flaws she had and I was silent, then she said that's what I thought you guys are the ones with problems, I then told her she was fat. She ran to her room, slammed the door, and I could hear her crying from downstairs, I tried to go in and apologize and she told me to shut up and go away, I respected her wishes. It's been four days since that happened and she is refusing to eat and only speaks when spoken too. I've tried everything, I've apologized again and again, all she does is say no thank you when offered food and goes back to her room after using the bathroom or getting a drink.. What can I do? PLEASE HELP!!

I'm omitting a lot because the details only allow so much, just assume there's a lot more. Today,I, my sister, my dad, and my aunt all live in the same house. This house is in my aunt's name, but only because our grandmother, who bought the house, was letting my aunt live with her, and because for some reason it would save money to have it in her name. My aunt made my grandmother's life hell, screaming at her every single day, threatening to kick her out because "the house is in my name". So when my grandmother died, it was our aunt's house, even though our grandmother has outright said that either we all live in it or sell it & split it, but she never wrote that in a "will" or anything like that. So our aunt, who had a brain aneurysm, can't speak properly, mixes up words, for example she called an exterminator because "there's a mountain lion in our attic", and when people correct her or ask for clarification, she screams at them for "mocking" her illness. She also has a habit of throwing things away or destroying things spontaneously, and then denying doing it or claiming it was justified if we proved she did it. One day she decided to take a knife and cut and peel and tear the wall paper in the bathroom apart, looked like a bear was trapped in there, because "I always hated that wallpaper". She refuses to get any kind of treatment, and these crazy acts are becoming more and more common, we can't just move & leave for financial reasons, what can we do about her?

So I have this neighbor that's probably 60/50 and I'm 12 and my sister is 13. Sometimes when we're home. He'll look up at the windows and see if anyone's home. And a few minutes ago, my sister and I accidentally left the garage open and he was walking up and down our driveway and looking up at the windows. Then, my sister opened the door and he asked us if we wanted ice cream. I was creeped out so I told my sister to say no. And sometimes he'll just walk into our yard. What do I do?

I'm 16, and I am very mature and intelligent. I'm known as an "old soul" and always take care of my responsibilities. I have a boyfriend who lives around 10 minutes away from me. I don't have a car because it is illegal to drive at my age alone in my state. So my only mode of transportation is my mother. She is very scared to let me go. I understand her concern but at the same time I know I make good choices and I cannot be hidden from danger. In order for me to experience the world I need to take danger head on, and make my life the best possible. I'm tired of sitting in the house all day when I have someone who wants to see me and I want to see him but because of my mother we can't. He is also my age and his parents are at work until night time so he has no ride. My mother is being hypocritical in that she says I'm too far yet she lets me hang out with my friends like 30 mins away. It makes no sense. I hate being held back and I hate being told what to do. I know I'm young and I get that but she makes me feel stupid and weak. What can I do?

My parents are super strict! They don t let me go out, I m not in any clubs,they don t let me talk to my friends.So I m all day and everyday at home on the internet.I had a fb and my mum didn t want to have one.I m super careful, I don t have my name on it, my pics or anything.I don t mind being alone, but i really dislike the feeling of being alone.Sometimes it gets really depressing and my parents don t understand.I have only one sibling,but now she s going to college.My dad took away my phone yesterday and now both my parents think I m doing something bad which I m not.I know better and they raised me so they should put more trust in me,especially my mum.Now my dad lost trust in me and since yesterday my heart has been beating fast and it really hurts.Help me, please!

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I have a 16 year old son. Sadly, my mom and sister have rejected my son. They said that they have believed for many years that my son isn't actually mine but that my girlfriend was messing around and it's someone else. They were very disrespectful to my girlfriend. I told them that no matter what IT IS MY SON. I have disowned them for the treatment of MY SON.

He started talking to her on a dating site only a few months after the death of my Mom. I was only 9 when my mom died, and 10 when I found out about my dad messaging her. We moved near her. We were barely even unpacked when she started coming over all the time. (I was twelve at the time) I was suffering with depression, since my mom died. Moving did not help, and especially a new woman hanging around all the time. I put up with it for a year. However that all changed when he proposed. I told my dad I did not want a stepmom, but all he said was "Oh, she isn't going to replace mom." She dresses like a whore. She even wore clothes from when I was nine years old. That did not sit well with me. She is so clingy, I had trouble finding time to talk to my dad alone. When I told him that I wanted to break up with her all he said was "Do you want me to be sad and alone?" He did not even consider that's how I felt since I only had one friend, and we barely talked. She comes with us everywhere. One time I thought that just for once I was going to be able to spend time with him, she came along. My dad did not understand why I was so upset. Things aren't going any easier she sold her condo and moved in with us, my sister is going to an exchange program in Italy then leaving for college, and I am moving into high school. My only friend moved away. One of my favorite pets died. Life hasn't been easy, but she keeps ruining any hopes that I will be happy. Please help me break them up

I have two older sisters who moved out, and two adopted little toddlers who kind of destroyed my life- and now my mom wants to have ANOTHER baby?! For the last five years, I've saw nothing but a wall being built between me and my parents. They treat me different now that they adopted. We can NEVER have fun because at least one of them will destroy our trips or events to have fun, so for five years I don't do anything with my family. The babies(one is three, one is five) are FINALLY getting old enough to go to pow-wows and not cry, on trips, etc. but my mom is planning on having another baby. I don't want her to. Isn't five children enough?:( I am finally getting my parents back and they are treating me the same again in five damn years and I am finally getting freedom back and the fun we used to have before she adopted but she WANTS ANOTHER GOD DAMN BABY?! How do I cope with this? I am about to explode! I have been tied down for so long>:( Babies are ruining my ******* life! How do I convince her out of this, OR at least cope with her dumbass decision? 15 btw By the way, I understand that 'it's her decision' but it doesn't mean I have to ******* like it. I can't move out to another family members house because I own two dogs and if I go, she'll get rid of them- can't take them either/ I hate my adopted sister- I've never met such an awful child in my life. Chances are I'll hate the new baby too- biological or not. I'm sorry but I used to love kids but my parents verbally abused(and neglected) me after getting them and treat them with royalty. This will be another 3-5 years of pure hell. I tried telling her but she doesn't care... :(

My brother is eighteen and I'm fifteen he moved out the house a couple months ago and he honestly isn't doing what he needs to do,our parents are divorced and he works at a local Taco Bell,this week I stayed with my grandmother on my dads side and my aunt who is my dad sister came over and brought my grandmother and I Taco Bell.My aunt said that out of curiosity she asked for my brother at the Taco Bell and before she walked in it seemed like everyone was scramming to hide him,his car was there. My aunt went up to the counter and asked The girl we suspect to be his girlfriend where he was and she said she didn't know buta guy said he was just there he brought him a pack of cigarettes.I have always known my brother smoke for a year or so,but my dads side always suspected more.Lately he's been asking my mom for rent money and doing a couple things that's seem shady.My mom is totally oblivious and she thinks highly of him,and she should--he is the oldest.But me being the Second oldest my mom would place me as the independent,practical one.Im wondering if I should tell my mom because he's obviously using her.He just recently crashed my grandmas car too, and apparently someone's fixing it and he asked my mom for money but when we ask I him about it it's always someone stole it.What do I do? Should I keep my mouth shut about what I know?Or should I just be his good little sister,even though he neglected me completely and stopped talking to me when he turned 15 and I was 10-11..,

So I recently graduated high school and I turned 18.Anyway ever since I've turned eighteen and graduated my brothers best friend has been trying to get with me and everything. I had lost a A LOT of weight when I was 17 and that's when all of this started.My brother is 5 years older than me so they're both 23.They're both in college and dont get me wrong hes very nice and everything but I just don't want to get involved with my brothers best friend!A lot of my brothers friends were at my house and I had my best friend over too. Well we were outside on the trampoline and so were they and my brother had to run to the store because they needed glue,so one of his other friends went with him and the other two stayed at the house.His best friend came over to me and my friend and started talking to us and everything was fine,but then my friend went inside to put on a different shirt because hers was soaked from the trampoline.Right when my friend went inside he started getting flirty and then he got onto the trampoline and sat on the edge.I was near the edge and I didn't think he would be able to reach me, but I forgot he's way taller than me.(I'm only 5'2!!)Well he reached over and put his hand on my leg and started massaging it and I was really uncomfortable and I didn't know what to say because I'm really shy, especially about things like this, so I just sort of pushed his hand off and smiled politely. What am I supposed to do about all this??

Im 14 yo my mom dead since 1 year and 5 months ago and i felt alone So my dad he begins going out with girls ... And i cant say anything And my sister she is busy with her new boyfriend and when came to talk to her she scream at me and she left so my aunt have 3 kids i cant go with her .. And i dont have friends anymore i dont have anyone to talk with and all the week i stay at hone alone bcz my dad he is busy and i dont have frnds im not happy anymore i miss my mum i miss her so much ... Im tierd ... Every day crying and say the same thing but nothing changee

Well, I'm fourteen and I don't think my parents are all that nice to me sometimes. On numerous occasions they've called me worthless and compared me to others in my school who have received awards and such. Whenever i make a mistake, which for some reason has happened a lot more recently, they call me dumb. My grades aren't the best, A's B's and occasionally a C. But its been like that for a while now with the same subject as a C or B and the rest as A's and B's, depending on what was taught that year. Just recently they took away all of my electronics for separate reasons that I think are just ridiculous. Also, I'm not nagging or whining that they took them away, I entirely understand sometimes that doing that sort of thing is necessary. But leaving me in the dark as to when I'd have them back coupled with ridiculous reasons for the punishment. I lost my tablet simply for watching Netflix in the bathroom, much like how people read newspapers. My console because i didn't hear them calling me to come downstairs, then them claiming that on an entirely separate occasion, that i did hear and didn't listen. But what they didn't understand was that i was hanging out with friends in a game world and were doing something that has rewards that reset weekly (with the reset happening the day after i believe), and although i told them that id be there in just a few minutes, which they gave me, they still punished me for it anyway.(They didn't want me downstairs for any particular reason) Oh and finally, i lost my pc for the well developed reason of... just because. I feel like my tv is going soon because they just want me to sit downstairs and be closer so that they can get what they need quicker if they have an errand. During arguments they have with me, whenever they know I'm right or what I'm saying is reasonable, they just say that they're the parents and that they are in charge and stuff like that. They have no respect for me whatsoever and almost never value my opinion. Also, what should i do about it? Well since I'm getting off Yahoo for a while, I'll just say thanks to everyone who has and will answer on here. Don't worry though, ill check back again if you do write an answer

This is a serious question.. Please be helpful! I'm a 14 year old girl btw. I just came home from school today and the minute I walked in my mom started showing me this new phone that she bought me (iPhone 6+) A few minutes later, my twin sister came in and my mom said, "Hey, Sophie (my sister's name) Look at what I bought your sister." My sister looked really disappointed since she only has an iPhone 4s. I felt sooo bad for her. I wanted to give her my old iPhone 5s but my mom told me that Sophie's phone was good enough and refused to let me give it to her. My mom literally LOVES shopping. Every Saturday, she takes me to the mall and gets me like $1000 worth of designer clothing. I feel terrible and I don't think my sister should be treated like that. I share my clothes with my sister, but she won't accept it. Instead, she wears her Target/ Walmart clothes. She doesn't want to accept my money either.. But I really want to help her!! I talked to my mom about it. It won't work. My sister only has like three shirts and two pairs of jeans. I feel like such a horrible sister.n My mom thinks that I don't have enough clothes when my wardrobe consists of thirty designer shirts, twenty designer blouses, thirty three designer skirts, twenty pairs of designer jeans, fifteen designer sportswear items, fifty designer dresses (both casual and formal), and like eighty pairs of shoes. IM NOT KIDDING. My mom gives me like an allowance of $200 a month and my sister gets like nothing. I really don't know what to do.. My dad favors me too.. I'm older than her by three minutes, so it's not like I'm the baby of the family

I know they are probably sick of seeing it, but to me, that movie is a blessing. I always have to watch my sister, and whenever I turn it on, she sits down and shuts up. I don't have any issues when I turn it on because she loves it. I have seen it 1,000,000 times but, I think it is the greatest thing to ever happen. How can the best baby sitting tool ever created bad?

My friend wanted me to ask this question on here. She has this amazing relationship with her uncle since birth. It's more than a father/daughter relationship. He has a wife also but her relationship with my friend isn't same. He does, literally, everything for her. The only thing that he didn't do was make her. He treats, loves, & cares about her exactly like she is his own. He is & was there for everything. They spend most of their time together. He says that she is his baby and is his princess, you those little cute nicknames. He tells her that she is one of his main priorities in life & he would die for her, stuff like that. But, she knows other people with these types of relationships(involving uncles/nieces/nephews ect) & they all end in "they had kids and now their relationship doesn't exist." She's so scared because he means so much to her. He says that this relationship will never change no matter what. She wants to know if, this relationship is like this just because he doesn't have kids that came from him or he means it and it's here to stay? As much as I hate saying this, personally I think that these types of relationships NEVER last forever and don't matter. No matter how close these relationships are, the only ones that truly matter, last forever, & are the most important are, the husband/wife & parent/child. If it's not one of the two,It's not as important. At least from what I've seen.

So my family and I are staying where my grandma lives so they are in a hotel but I chose to stay there. So far I ve HATED it! I couldn t sleep at all last night. So how do I tell her I want to stay at the hotel

I sang out the song Monster, and my sisters heard me in my room screaming with headphones.."I, I, FEEL LIKE A MONSTER!!!" . They won't stop teasing me about it! GAH! I'm so embarrassed... I wanna sleep and never wake up! TTnTT

My dad recently been getting phone calls and he always had to go to a private place to answer them (Bathroom, upstairs, even outside the house) I didn't care much about it until, one day he forgot to log out of his Facebook account from the tablet (Everyone uses it that's why he always gotta log out) and I was home alone, then I heard the messenger beep sound I thought it was my phone but I didn't find any messages, then I realized it's coming from the tablet I didn't wanna check it out but my curiosity pushed me, and it turned out that he was getting messages from a girl who seemed to be younger, way younger than him like 'Hey babe, I missed you, call me'' Ugh I almost threw up. And yeah I had to check out the conversation and I was stunned, it's full of sexual photos of naked girls and porn photos sent by him, I immediately marked it as unread and of course I didn't wanna tell mom about this. Till this day he is still chatting, phone calling with her. What do I do please?

Most of my life I have lived far away from cousins up until now when my 16 year old (I'm 8 1/2 years older) cousin moved in with us with his dad. Just curious to know how close and how well you guys get along. I'm don't have any siblings so I'm interested in fostering some kind of bond between us.

They want me attention and want me to acknowledge them. I do not know why they have this problem, I can only think of it as them feeling guilty for annoying me constantly. They are always angry for long periods of time every day. They used to shout and argue with each other. Now they take out all their frustration on me. I am a university student. I am young, I am still dependent on them. I am more dependent on them because of my older sibling passing away making me very vulnerable, and the course I am on is very intense, which makes it harder for me to develop life skills. However, my mood is always ruined by them. I do not have the mentality to lose my mind or go mad. I get a lot of stress from them, and it is ruining my life. They are supposed to support me, but instead they are hurting me. They think they are right (they never are), and they give me impossible demands. They want me to tolerate their bad attitude and want me to still be nice to them. I get a melt down once per week and shout back at them. They do not tolerate this and call the police (who themselves get angry at my parents for wasting their time). My parents eventually tell the police to leave, and this cycle repeats. Now, I am pretty much in a bad mood, and I do not know what I should do with such difficult parents. Help please.

This is more for my brother, his daughter has been taken to another state has lives down the street from our parents. I got a hold of her once and she was to meet up but her husband wouldn t let her go. She tells me she can t get away because I her man. Also I have talked to her mother and she says the man won t let the kids talk to any of their fathers. Also her mother won t give her information and won t tell her daughter to get a hold of her. So I m lost on how to get a hold of my nice so I can see her or let my brother see her. There is no court orders no child support, just his name on the birth cert and us trying to locate her. My bigger concern he is in danger if this man refuse to let her see family.

basically I stole money from my sister and her boyfriend who live with us. I did this awhile ago but my dad searched my room three nights ago and found the money. since then everyone in my house has been mean to me, including my parents. they treat me like I don't matter almost. this morning I did write an apology letter to them and I think they read it. I've been staying out of the way. what now?

My mom loves to talk and chat with family members/friends. However, just the other day she was discussing some family problems, nothing big actually, but she just kept of talking ever since. She talks on the phone for hours and then calls another person and talks for another few hours, even after there is no one to call she continues the conversation with my dad. Since I don't really involve myself, I'm still worried, nonetheless. My mom has continues to talk about the same situation for 2 weeks already (pretty sure I could write 12 essays with all those words coming out from that mouth). Now, should I be concerned about this because just the other day she said she wanted to go to the doctor to get her throat checked. I've noticed that it sounded very abrasive, like when someone has a cold. She's losing her voice and wants to consult with a doctor, but she just continues to call people or person about the problem revolving around the family.

I live with my cousins . We are in college.We pay for only electricity and the rent. I was not here the whole month but I am here the last week of the month. I should use my room ac without feeling guitly. my uncle said I could but if the bill sky rockets it will be on me. I just feel like what if my cousins think I am being a pest by using the ac. I did not use any electricity the whole month, so I guess this evens it out. The room ac probably costs a 1.50 a day if I run it for only 4 hours. I'm only here a week, and then I'm going home.

A few years ago, I was super skinny. I tried to eat but I wouldn't gain weight. My teacher was stupid and liked to criticize me, she always asked me if I ate and what I ate. But she never asked obese students. Once I told her I ate a bit of Nesquik and bread and she called my mom to tell her what I needed to eat. She said I needed to eat eggs, bacon and lots of milk for breakfast. My mom told me she was stupid, and that I couldn't eat so much because I already ate more than I have to (I ate like if I were a whale). But no matter how many times I told the teacher I did eat, she made me eat at random times of the day. Sometimes, at school, they would bring us snacks and she would make me eat them when some didn't want theirs. Not to say that the teacher had a problem with me because I'm spanish, she always wanted me to do the littlest mistake to blame me. Once, some girls told me to do something (I don't remember what, but it wasn't a big deal.) but I had to go to detention and those girls were off the hook. When I asked my teacher why I was in detention, she was like: You should know, tell me what you did wrong or I will call your parents!!! Turns out, I didn't do anything wrong, and my mom told me so. She also had a problem with me for other little reasons. I felt like if I were the one who she ever blamed. She never blamed anyone else. She even accused me of helping someone cheat when she was the one who put us together. Also, turns out after making me eat so much I'm obese. By the way, she always yelled at me for no reason, even for things like losing a pencil

My dad smokes cigarettes every since i know..when he doesn't he gets really 'violent',impatient and stressed..i want him to be healthy,he tried electronic cigarettes but he didn't like it..any advice??i want him to stop smoking.thanks.

So, i have this really close friend, who i tell everything to and he feels that i should live with his family. im always at there house and it feels like a second home to me. His mother is really sweet and caring and is everything i would ever want. My parents are divorced and have shared custody. i live with my father and for a two years now, ive been trying to stop the visitation to my mother (she lives very far away and the drive to her house is annoyingly nerve recking for both my father and i). my fathers house though, is filled with screaming, cursing, and everyone is always getting so mad at eachother. (my grandma, grandpa, and dad live there). And my mother has no job, and uses what her botfriend gives her. In her house i would either have to sleep on the couch for the time that i lived there, or in a room with another 14 year old boy.She wouldnt be able to really take care of me. In the past 3-4 years that my parents have been divorced, i feel that i have been sustaining a bit of emotional damage between the yelling, my mother not having money, the constant visits to court(my mother still wants more visitation even though she cant take care of me as it is), my grandfather(has cancer), and my grandmother(stroke took away feeling in hand, one foot, and she can barely talk), and school. My friend says that if there is a way to take me away from some of these problems for even a short amount of time, he wants to find a way to do it. his mother is willing to take me in.

So i got caught with the wrong friends at the wrong time and her boyfriend (pays for my phone).. took my phone away and asked me to take the pass code off. Lately i've been having problems with my mom so she kicked me out of her house and sent me with my dad. I have horrible things on my phone that a mother wouldn't want to see which gave her an even more reason not to return my phone. But my phone is the only thing I have and all my work is there, I love studying and I don't want to fall behind in my work. I have a laptop, but it's only the school's. I return it tomorrow and my mom doesn't want me back in her house due to previous history. I don't know what to do, everyone says she needs time, but I need to go back to work..

My bad karma has bitten me so bad that I don't know what to do. My background: When I was 14, I was smart, intelligent, and very confident girl. I was very much influenced and pampered by my mom who used to ***** about my younger sister all the time. My sister was weak in studies, and while teaching her I would punch her, slap her, pull her hair just to release my anger and get into my moms good books. Now I was quite young and my mom never told me what I did was wrong. My sister even failed one class and repeated the same class. Now fast forwarded today. I'm 28 working woman. I have a son who is 4 month old and married for 5 yrs. when I left my house and stayed in hostel, I realized how much I was wrong in treating my sister. I started loving her and taking her side. My mother eventually stepped down and started caring for her . Now after my marriage, I think my sisters curse is following me. My husband treats me the same way I used to treat my sister. I've apologised to my sister several times but whenever she is upset with me, she always brings that old stuff. Now she has the husband who loves and respects her and I have the one who do love me but also treats me like a ****. I feel the pain she was in. I know it's my bad karma and I don't know what to do about it? Moreover, my mother who used to be by my side, lives with her, takes care of her and doesn't even talk to me. She doesn't like me anymore. What to do?

I have one sister who Is a year younger than ne . She has always treated us differently, now that we are bothadults and have children of our own things haven t improved. She is constantly slandering me, talking badly abt out yme behind and to my face. She curses me and wishes that I loose my children. This morning she cursed me she said that she hopes I get aids or cancer and that i die. I don t know why she is like this.... I ve always been a good daughter to her, I paid her mortgage off for her, I alway show respect but now I m at the point of breaking.... I don t know what to do

I m a 17 year old male. And this is really freaking embrassing and frustrating. Everytime I argue to my parents or even just have a serious talk I start crying. Today they tried to convince me to do something I didn t want to do. I tried talking to them to not make me do it. Instead tears come out my eyes and I didn t get to say what s on my mind. This really pisses me off. I can t communicate with my parents like this. Why does this happen? Can anyone help me?

So, only and strictly for information, I would like to hear your opinion. This girl is same age as me (we're both around 20) she is part of my wider family (I can say she's my 2nd or 3rd cousin), and before I saw her maybe 2-3 times in life. Few weeks ago I saw her when me and my close family went to visit her family. Me and she talked , not much, but half of hour, maybe little less and she seems to have same interests like me (99% same), which I found very rare (This is 90% reason why I added her). Anyway, I found it strange, it's been around 30 hours I set her friend request on Facebook and she still didn't accept it. When I talked to her at her home, she seemed to be relatively quiet (not shy-quiet, to be clear) but acted really polite. I would never add someone I didn't met in person or don't know well enough.

My dads job makes it so we are always moving so I asked him if I could just live by myself because it's hard for me to make new friends every year or so and I have just learned not to make any friends at all. He agreed but now I'm wondering if it's the best thing for me. I won't be paying for anything except clothes and food. I have been cooking since I was 12 so it's not like I'll b eating out everyday or at all. I will also be taking care of my dog, he is small so he doesn't eat a lot of dog food like my parents dog would. I can make my own appointments with my doctors and dentists, and I live In walking distance to the store. (I don't have a car yet but I do have a drivers licence) What I'm asking is, would this really be the best thing for me. Should I just keep moving with me dad everywhere?? Even if I hate moving would moving out be the best thing for me?