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- Question: Is my sister using me for protection?
- Question: What does it mean to have a heart of a coward?
- Question: Can I get my dad arrested for not taking me to the circus?
- Question: Dad been cheating on my mom for 10 years and its been on my mind all summer what should i do?? please help?
- Question: Convince my dad to let me go on a trip?
- Question: I don't know? Daughter and Mom situation!?
- Question: Is not going to my dad s because of lice a good reason?
- Question: I had a huge fight with my mom?
- Question: Why does my mom always nag me?
- Question: Horrible parents?
- Question: Would my family be better off without me?
- Question: Going to 9th grade problems?
- Question: I hate my father?
- Question: Do you have to be 18 or older to exchange your phone at Apple?
- Question: I slapped the hell out of a teenage girl with a magazine last night?
- Question: Does anyone else find this odd?
- Question: My stepdaughter resents me!?
- Question: My older sister is really mean to me. We are 6 years apart.?
- Question: I dislike my boyfriend's daughter. What should I do? Everyone keeps telling me I am childish for feeling this way...Am I?
- Question: Co-ed sleepover?
- Question: My Mom is stressed out?
- Question: Dating and family?
- Question: How to get my sister to stop stealing from me?
- Question: My daughter is being hateful?
- Question: My mom thinks i have a bad attitude when i very mad?
- Question: My entire house smells like cigarette....?
- Question: How to get rid of a unwanted guest?
- Question: My mom took my ipod in April and I want it back. Any ideas?
- Question: Is there a light out of this tunnel?
- Question: How do I ask my step dad to adopt me?
- Question: Help, I need advice. I failed in everything. Made worst mistake. However, now I want to improve myself. Advice?
- Question: Can i go live with my parents again?
- Question: I feel like quitting martial arts, but scared that my parents will be really disappointed?
- Question: Can i move out im 17 will be 18 in 2 months and im pregnant?
- Question: How can I get them to stop treating me like a kid?
- Question: Was my sister being a bully?
- Question: Why do old ladies like to get perms?
- Question: What age do females stop growing? (As in height wise)?
- Question: Should I tell him or ignore it?
- Question: They kept that one quiet didnt they? Did you know Ex-Rangers player Kenneth Watson is convicted pedophile?
- Question: Parents Against College?
- Question: I WANT SUICIDE!!?
- Question: My parents are spending WAY to much $$?!?!?
- Question: Is my mom a hypocrite?
- Question: Greek man marrying a white American girl?
- Question: Should I talk to my sister? What do I do about this situation?
- Question: My mother dislikes my DH. Fills my child head with..?
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- Question: My sister never wants me to go if her and my mom go somewhere and if i do go she will end up staying home! does she hate me?
- Question: My childs father and I are not talking at the moment what should i do ?
- Question: How to ask your dad if your best friend can stay for 6 days?
- Question: My mom put me on a lease that am not living in?
- Question: How can I get my dad to give me the phone?
- Question: How long do I allow this?
- Question: How can I help an 18 year old friend of mine who's living with an abusive mother?
- Question: Why do parents get mad when there child embarrasses them?
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- Question: I hate my stupid useless father?
| Question: Is my sister using me for protection? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:59 PM PDT Ok I'm 17 yr old guy and I workout a lot so I'm really muscular and bulky. My 14 year old sister makes me go everywhere with her and her friends and I ask her why and she tell me I scare off creeps. |
| Question: What does it mean to have a heart of a coward? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:55 PM PDT Ok so I'm 9th grade me and my gilfriend fore played, my hands touched her and she consented to it and even enjoyed it by moaning. So a month later, her parents found out and they called me while I was at a bar with 3 of my friends. and he said "you touched my daughter boy I'm gonna kill you" we all laughed "ya but here's the thing my daddies the governor and u touch me you'll be workin the bread lines" I said arrogantly, and he knew it to. then I politely bid him a farewell and I hubby up and me and my boys laughed. however at the end of 9th grade me and my boys were at the mansion arm wrestling when her dad walks in and goes into my dads office "good luck" my friend yelled. So about 39 minutes later as me and my friends were headed to the door, her dad stopped us and we turned around and even my dad was with him, and I found out that my dad was on his side and her dad said "now we got something to discuss kid" and of course I was shocked that my own father betrayed me and we all stood there and then my dad had all of us come into his office and her dad smiled "your nothin but a coward at heart kid" "please sir don't do the to me" I said bur he just dragged me into the office. (After my friends got the shot kicked out of them, my father sent me to do manual labor for my girls dad for 4 months, however I was saved after one month by my girl who convinced her dad to just drop it and that she liked what they did) what does it mean to say that someone's a coward at heart??. |
| Question: Can I get my dad arrested for not taking me to the circus? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:29 PM PDT My moms friend gave her 2 tickets for the circus tonight. And me and my dad was gonna go cuz I love the circus. Then at like 6pm, him and my mom decide to go to the hospital instead. Why would you even chose hospital over the circus? Wtf. I whined only a little, but straight away my dad be all yelly at me. And said "shut up you little sh-t." He can't call me that. They dumped me at my grandma's. She can't take me circus cuz she sick. I asked my uncle to go with me but he said he's too stressed cuz he quit his job and now mite get legal problem for destroying some equipment. He won't listen that circus is good for stress. It's just not fair. Why would my dad say we going circus if he's not gonna take me? I think it's really cruel and I want him arrested |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:18 PM PDT Long story short, some random girl on facebook (i believe it's one of his daughters by the cheating women), messaged me on Facebook talking about he has been living with her for 10 years. I knew something was wrong because he was never at home and i always questioned myself as to "what does he eat everyday?" "Where does he sleep everyday" When you can't answers those questions for you own dad, thats basically a sign of cheating. Its been a year since the girl told me. I was in college so it wasn't on my mind too much. but now thats its summer and im home everyday, it just bugs the crap out of me that he is never there. I guess an extremely long time ago my mom believed that he works like crazy, far distances, and that he stays with some uncles and friends to save gas. My mom absolutely does not talk to any other guys but him and it saddens me to think that this so called dad of mine is cheating on this great wife he has. I just don't know what to do. I was thinking about telling my dad, "can we talk, like a restaurant"? And then the first question is "who is Holly?" Or should i just straight out tell my mom? What do you think i should do??? Also, this cheating women added me on facebook for some reason. A long time ago, my dad told me and my sister to erase her because she is dangerous. My sister did, but i didn't. Now i see pictures of him and her, and her saying "been with this bae for 10 years and counting"... |
| Question: Convince my dad to let me go on a trip? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:17 PM PDT How can I convince my dad to let me go on a trip with my mom? He doesn t want to come, so I told him to book plane tickets for me and my mom. He still said no. I want to go to Beirut and see my family (Who I haven t seen since I was 5, almost 13 years ago.) I want to eat the REAL food, not the Americanized "food" they sell here. He s not worried about ISIS, because we re going to a safe area. And we re not staying in a hotel either. My dad just tells me that I don t deserve to go on a trip, but I ve been doing work for him all summer now without pay. I do EXACTLY what everybody in the house tells me to do, and I even stopped complaining about my abusive brother. How can I convince him to let me go? Me and my mom have been asking and begging nonstop for the past few days, and while my mom stopped asking him, I m not giving up that easily. Also, my mom found cheap tickets that we can afford so the money isn t an issue. |
| Question: I don't know? Daughter and Mom situation!? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:16 PM PDT I don't know why but sometimes I feel that I don't like my mum. She beats me up everyday she doesn't care about me. Everytime that I don't feel well she beats me up. Every time that I don't feel well she doesn't let me to the doctors. last month I had a really bad headache that I couldn't even move my head!She didn't take me to the doctors ! She doesn't care about me :( I don't know what to do now, ignore her or talk to her? She always does that and she always beats me up and I always forgive her I don't know if I can forgive her now :( Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Question: Is not going to my dad s because of lice a good reason? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:15 PM PDT My parents have shared custody. 1 week I m at dad s, 1 week I m at moms n it switches every week. We keep getting lice and I m almost positive it s from my dad s house. I m so sick of getting it, getting rid of it, then going back over and getting it again. Would it be rude to tell him that I don t want to come over anymore if I explain why? I m so sick of lice. :( |
| Question: I had a huge fight with my mom? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:14 PM PDT I'm 18, my mom and I had a huge fight. It was about something else but it ended with her telling me I'm a spoilt brat and don't know what strict parenting is like. She's a child of an alcoholic, so I get my childhood was way better than hers but it wasn't perfect. My mom has severe cleaning OCD, and I was very supportive of her in my childhood (even she admits that); my dad's family is a real mess, his brother is physically abuses my grandma, who is mentally unstable since my other uncle (her son) died, so, growing up, I visited with her and my abusive uncle a lot with my dad to lighten the mood - so, long story short, my parents did their best but I didn't exactly have a picture perfect childhood. I kept all of my resentment in for a long time, and at 10, I started cutting because of the pressure. I didn't tell my parents for a year; I was afraid I was gonna hurt them. When I told them, they thought it was just a phase; I had to tell them again in another year before they took me to a therapist. I didn't say anything about this before, I just "understood" that they both had problems of their own but now, I feel resentment and I think they should have done a better job protecting me from these stressful situations. I just told my mom all of that, and she got upset, she started crying, and said she tried really hard to always put me first. I feel bad for making her cry but am I wrong for wanting her to own up these mistakes at least a little? |
| Question: Why does my mom always nag me? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:06 PM PDT Ok im 14 and my mom is super annoying she doesnt pressure me to clean my room bcuz most times it clean but she always has a problem with me it either to wash the dishes and cursing me about im lazy and im just sitting there on my tablet but im not that lazy she only look on the I didnt do but she doesnt like at the things I actually do like clean my room keep my stuff clean and alot of other stuff I cant explain now. She is also always cussing that I never study and im always on my tablet or phone playing games but I do study its not all the times Im on my tablet I play games in fact i barely play games anymore I only have like 2 games and I barely play them to that most times im on youtube cause I love to watch documentaries about animals and love to research things about the earth and watch vids on them isnt that sorta like givin me information and knowledge? She also annoys me and cus about me not washing the diahes aand I didnt even eat nothin yet or nasty up anythin when theres only like 3 dishes in there and she says its not hard well if its not why tha hell she dont do it 0.o huh? my mom is super annoying when she comes across me she always finds somethin to cuss about when she takes me shoppin she doesnt buy the things I like I like she only buys what she likes and thinks what would look good on me cmon im frikkin 14 and she controls over the things I wear and what I like to wear isnt gangster lookin at all then she calls me a unhappy boy shes the one that me unhappy |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:04 PM PDT My parents are always horrible to me! My mum and dad buy me lots of stuff and holidays but then when they do I pay for it on words, recently my dad payed for me to get my nails done but then they make me feel guilty and shout at me constantly and shut me in my room for the rest of the day |
| Question: Would my family be better off without me? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 01:03 PM PDT I m 18 and live at home with my mum, sister and my mums boyfriend. I HATE my mums boyfriend, I feel like I can t be part of the family because of him, I feel really uncomfortable around him, whenever I m at home alone and he s there he will come into my room and shout and rant for about 20 minutes putting me down, the last time he did it he started pushing me and threatening me. My heart starts beating fast whenever I approcah my home because I m scared he s going to be the only one home. I ve just been walking the streets every day for the past couple of weeks because he s at home during the day and my mum does a 9-5 Job ( I don t want to be in the house alone with him) when I come home I also go straight to my room because I don t want to be near him, I can hear them downstairs talking and I wish I could just go and join them. I currently don t have a job also so my mum is pushing me to get a job. I ve been arguing about all this with my mum All the time so we rarely even speak anymore. I wish I could just move out but I m 18 with no job. I just don t know what to do? |
| Question: Going to 9th grade problems? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:56 PM PDT Hi, I am going to 9th grade next year. My Dad said he would disown me if I to go to public school and wants me to stay at the private school I am going to. But my Mom won t let me stay at the private school and wants me to go to public school. And also she s the one that enrolls not my Dad. And they re also divorced so it s unlikely they ll talk about it. (sigh) What do I do? I don t wanna be disowned |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:56 PM PDT He always treats me like **** and i am not some stupid teenager that got butthurt over something dumb. Oh hell, i will tell every ******* thing about this lazy asshole. My mom is the only working person in our family and she tries to do her best to maintain our family. We are poor and i am the only child in our family. I'm very shy and quiet person.. so i only have one friend. My dad is not even trying to find job! He just yells some things. My parents are arguing a lot... it kind of worried me but now not to much.. he never even cared for me. He said that he loves me but looking into his eyes you know he is lying.. me and mom are going to fly away to another country without dad... i can't take him anymore! And we are only flying away in 4 months... (i'm sorry for grammar mistakes but i didn't care anymore) |
| Question: Do you have to be 18 or older to exchange your phone at Apple? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:56 PM PDT My iPhone 6 has a hardware issue so I'd like to go to an Apple store to have it replaced. I'm 14 and I don't want to go with my mother because she rambles on about miniscule things in her loud broken English and I can tell it annoys the employees. She's very clueless and old so everything with her is a hassle because she can't handle stress and freaks out. I just want to go in, have them check out my phone, and get it exchanged for a new one. Will this work? |
| Question: I slapped the hell out of a teenage girl with a magazine last night? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:50 PM PDT I was at the supermarket late last night. This night was horrible. Only 1 person working there it seemed and the line to check out was a mile long! There was this girl in front of me with her mother that kept turning around sticking her tongue at me like she's 5 years old. Finally after the 5th time I said "try that again and I'll slap it off!". The mother was too busy on her cell phone to hear, notice or care. Well I'm not about to let a woman disrespect me I don't care if your 16, 36 or 66. I'm a real man with a real penis and I want some damn respect! So she did it again and I rolled up the magazine and I whacked her across the face. Oh now everyone is looking at me including the mother that broke away from the cell phone spell and started cussing at me! So I put up my fist and told her "want some of this?" At this point I knew the cops would be here so I just said f it and I walked, not ran out of the store with my chin high. I may not have got the groceries and had to lie to the wife later but I have never felt so powerful and proud to be a man in my life! What part did I say she was 5? She was a teenager, at least 15 maybe 17 years old. She was acting like she was 5. She will live, I didn't hit her that hard. |
| Question: Does anyone else find this odd? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:39 PM PDT The other day my family and I looked at a house. We removed our shoes (as often required at open houses). I was barefoot as I had worn sandals (not uncommon) and everyone else wore socks. When the realtor showed us the different rooms and asked us questions about what we thought, she often asked me "Oksana, how does that carpet feel?" Or "Oksana, how does that floor feel?" I later asked her why she kept asking me that, and she said that it was because I had bare feet, thus it was easier to feel the carpets/floors than those wearing socks, and said that my opinion on the carpets/floors was especially important. Does anyone else find this odd? |
| Question: My stepdaughter resents me!? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:35 PM PDT She is just 20 yo and in college. She doesn't like the fact that I am a stay at home mom. (I have a young daughter in 4th grade). My husband and I decided that I would be able to stay home until she was older & able to be on her own without much supervision. My husband works very hard and makes a decent living, but we by no means live an extravagant lifestyle. I take care of everything else involving our household. He doesn't lift a finger when he comes home from work. My job is taking care of my family. I therefore, have no rights to complain about the amount of money she thinks she is entitled to spend whenever she is with us, dinner, movies, clothes, etc. Whatever she wants to do my husband obediently goes along with it. Her brother who is 25 yo likes to bring his girlfriend with us where ever we go and my husband pays for everyone. She now refuses to spend time with us as a family until I stop complaining. What should I do, should I apologize to here, should I stop questioning how much money is being spent? Do I have the right to complain at all? If she doesn't get her way she screams and yells at her dad, no matter where they are and gives him ultimatums on how to deal with me. |
| Question: My older sister is really mean to me. We are 6 years apart.? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:33 PM PDT -She drags me,litterally no kidding!! If i walk in her room and sit down she will drag me out! If i tell my mom she gets mad but that doesnt stop my sister from doing it again. -She treats me way more differently then I do. This incident happened about a month ago-I was making a tower for my drama project and I needed a ruler.My sister was also doing a project and she needed a black sharpie. So my sister asked me for my black sharpie and I went to get them. I couldn't fond my sharpie so I gave her my other colored sharpies and a black marker. When I asked her for her ruler she said she couldn't find it. And she didn't even look!! I looked in her desk drawer for the ruler and guess what I found! My black sharpie!!! I gave it to her and she said that she didn't put it there. After that I went to my mom and too her that my sister was treating me unfairly and she said that she had my sisters ruler. Oh I forgot to mention that when I asked my sister for her ruler she said that I had used it before and lost it. I'm pretty sure that you know how this ended-same as the floor dragging incident. |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:24 PM PDT My boyfriend who I am engaged too has an annoying kindergartener. She LOVED me at first though! It was until I got pregnant when her behavior changed. She would start an argument between her father and I all the time now. I am due ANY day now and all she says is "I don't like Diane(me) & I don't want a sister" but her dad insists that she is happy about me being a mother figure and having a younger sibling. I should add she never met her real mother. I am 20 and my boyfriend is 31. I don't want to move in with him because he'll expect me to be a mother to his daughter. It's NOT my responsibility! But he gets mad and tells me "If we're getting married you have two kids also!" I tell him "No. YOU have two kids. I only have ONE." But yet everyone agrees with him and says I'm childish and need to grow up. It's getting to the point where I just want too coparent because I don't want this annoying kid in my life and everyone just thinking I'm the problem. She also tried to trip me a few times while I'm pregnant & I keep getting told it was a accident. I don't even want to leave my daughter around her so she can fight her! But my boyfriend's parents tell me I sound so childish and that she isn't like anything I say about her. Do I sound CHILDISH? Am I wrong? Any similar situations? What should I do? THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR FEEDBACK EVERYONE! I AM VERY HAPPY WITH THE ANSWERS I RECEIVED! I just felt like I needed some stranger's opinion of the situation to see if people are just saying "You need to grow up" because they are related to the little girl. But now I can agree that I am being very childish about the situation. I was only 19 when I got pregnant though :'(. So of course I am not "READY" but I accept the situation. My boyfriend is basically the one who is rushing a family & marriage because he is in his thirties. I feel I still have plenty of time and I will NOT marry him any time soon. AGAIN THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR INPUT <3 |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:19 PM PDT My friend invited me to her cabin for 2 nights along with 2 other girls and 2 guys. I'm not dating either of the guys (my other friends are). There would be parents there and the guys would either be camping outside or sleeping in the basement while the girls sleep upstairs. Everyone else's parents said yes but I'm too afraid to ask mine because they're a little bit more strict. My brother has had two co-ed sleepovers (once for prom and once for Fourth of July) but he's older than me so I have no idea if they'll say yes. How can I ask in a reasonable and mature way to make sure they'll say yes? |
| Question: My Mom is stressed out? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:12 PM PDT So my mom has been stressed out for about two years now. She started getting stressed out because my dad got laid off from his job two years ago and she was the only one with a job. A year ago my dad found a job but its in another country, so my dad had to move away. So now my mom only lives with me, but shes always not happy. Everyday she comes home, she seems all stressed out and doesnt want to talk. When i try to tell her anything she gets mad unless its important. She also has no friend, which is part of the reason why she is so stressed out and depressed. Like she always look stressed and when i talk to her, she gives me a bad look. I try to leave her alone as much as possible, but sometimes she calls me to talk about something that leads to argument. I also have no friends and its summer now so im pretty bored. I do go out everyday but i walk by myself for a couple hours outside. She gets mad at me cause i dont do anything interesting, but its summer and i have no friends. Even though i have no friends i try to stay happy as much as possible. Shes now telling me to volunteer somewhere but i really dont want to. I dont know where to volunteer but i havent say no to her just to not make her mad. I wasnt depress at first but my mom has effect me enough to make me depress. Like she take her anger out on me when she feel stressed. Sometimes i feel like i wanna kill myself jut to make her feel bad but I know i wont do it. I just dont know what to do now. |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:09 PM PDT I like this girl. My dad's cousin is married to her cousin. So she is my dad's cousins husbands cousin. So we are fine not family right?? Just wanna check |
| Question: How to get my sister to stop stealing from me? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:09 PM PDT I m 15 and my sister is 19. She has stolen prescription pain killers and 5 dollars from me in the past couple of days. It doesn t sound like a big deal (well, maybe the pain meds), but wtf?? That s ******* pathetic to steal from your little sister. It makes me especially mad because I have my own job and I make my own money. How can I get her to stop stealing from me? |
| Question: My daughter is being hateful? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 12:06 PM PDT Okay so my daughter has always been this way, but now she's gotten pretty bold. She tells me to be quiet if I'm talking to my niece, has yelled & screamed, used to kick hit & bite. But 1 thing for sure, she LOVES her cousin. Her cousin has always been there for her & has helped raise her in away & always introduced her as her big sister. She's the only person my daughter never acts hateful to. She never bite her (only 1 time, but that was it), never said to her face, "I don't like you" (which she tells almost every1 even 1 of my close friends. I made her apologize for it). My niece has had ideas to make her behave but never works. My niece made a good behavior chart (which was she gets 5 stickers a week, she gets a prize), but she ripped that up. So why is my daughter so nice to my niece, but never to us? I'll admit my niece has been like a parent figure than a cousin. She practically helped me raise them. The father is around but never associates with them. How can we get her to stop being hateful? She's 5 |
| Question: My mom thinks i have a bad attitude when i very mad? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:56 AM PDT In my house, if I get mad, or get feelings of anger, my mom will instantly accuse me of having a bad attitude. She acts like I'm not supposed to get mad? She always say 'I tired of your attitude' when all I really do is get mad. Like today I told my brother my opinion on something and he said "no one cares about your attitude" I got mad, and my mom thought I had a bad attitude. Should I speak up fro myself or something? |
| Question: My entire house smells like cigarette....? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:49 AM PDT My parents are mentally challenged I swear.. They smoke in side 24/7 only stopping to sleep! Live tried to tell them to go outside but they tell me to shut up and go away! The risk of second hand smoke don't even make them flinch, let alone want to quit. Now don't tell me they won't quit until their, that's bullshit and you know it. They are always telling me to try harder at my sports but how can I try harder when I have the endurance of a 400lbs man? I would put money on it that when I exhale smoke comes out... I'm also starting high school in a month and don't want to smell like smoke. My parent ruined my life when my Gf dumped me for that very reason! It's not a good smell at all and they won't listen to reason!!!!!!!! They won't see a doctor, they won't make an effort to quit and they don't seem to care that they are Killing my siblings and I ever ******* day! They are stupid and someone needs to show them. I honesty would rather be homeless that's live I a house that smelt like smoke. None of my friends want to come over, EVER! And I'm so tired of spraying 10 bottles of clongne on every morning to smell half decent. I get made fun of for the smoke scent, I always hear sny coments about it and it's embarrassing AsF. Please help what should I do? I can feel my lungs burn when I breathe! And when the AC turn on you just want to kill your self! I basically live outside... |
| Question: How to get rid of a unwanted guest? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:46 AM PDT I had studied abroad for a few years so i had no idea that my brothers friend had been leaving with my family over two years. My brother met him when he got in college. I dont like this guy. all he did were play games, sleep, eat. He didnt do any housework nor cook and didnt even give a penny to my parents. The reason letting him stay was because dad was worried that my brother could be lonely since i wasnt home and he wasnt familiar with the new city which my family just moved. Mom didnt like the idea because she used to take care of and cook for dad and brother but she had to cook for three and clean after three people but she didnt win over my dad. so i encouraged my parents to ask him to leave since i cameback home and my brother already familiar with city. Also this guy was taking a break from college and wasnt doing anything. They talked to him and he agreed to move out but after three months he hasnt moved out. Since my apartment is closer to my brothers college, he moved in with me.But this guy still LIVING with my parents for another four months. Finally after asking him to move many times, the guy moved to his parents house. But after six months, he came to my home and lived here for almost two weeks. I dont want to end up like my parents so i told my brother to ask this guy to leave but my brother asked parents house key which i didint give him. Currently my parents travelling, so my parents house is empty. This guy taking advantage of my brothers kindness. HELP |
| Question: My mom took my ipod in April and I want it back. Any ideas? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:42 AM PDT My mom is like super religious and im pan. She took my phone and my ipod and read through my messages to the girl im talking to. She didnt know what I was at the time and then she had a convo with me (more of an argument) and forced me out. She has now told me I can't have this girl over anymore, and she has made no move to give me anything back. It's been months and I'm very annoyed all of my music is on there. I also have pictures and videos from concerts on there as well. I didn't download anything to icloud. Any ideas on how I can ask her for it back with out her yelling at me? |
| Question: Is there a light out of this tunnel? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:41 AM PDT I will try not to make sob story. A few weeks ago me and my brother and mother got evicted.So had no choose but to move to my dad place.I'm to wake up and look for a job.he gets drunk and makes me feel uncomfortable.so i go to the library apply. then I applied to all these jobs just to lose my phone charger.now my phones dead and i'm screwed.I looked everywhere.every time go back home I get a pit in my stomach.i'm ready to give up. I don't want to feel this way anymore.It's like bad luck won't let me go.what should i do ? |
| Question: How do I ask my step dad to adopt me? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:30 AM PDT Okay so my mom has been with this guy for over three years and next summer they're gonna get married. My biological dad has been for the most part out of the picture for a year. My step dad always says that he doesn't have that much authority over me because he's not my dad, but I want him to be my dad. I'm 16 right now, how do I ask him if he will adopt me? I'm just afraid that he's gonna say no and then I'll look like an idiot for asking... |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:24 AM PDT I am 22 years old male. My parents believe that I go to collage But I never did and I spend most of their back balance in name of college fees. I am doing things from 2009. However now I want to improve myself. Sometimes I gets thought of suicide. But then I convince myself that it is a cowards way, plus I have given enough pain to my parents I can t give them more. What should I do now ? Should I tell my parents the actual truth. Is they any way to recover from this situation faster ?. Let me tell u something about my parents. They trust me more then themselves They love me more than anything else and my mother has extremely weak heart. |
| Question: Can i go live with my parents again? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:24 AM PDT So I am 16 y/o and my brother sister and I got taken out of our house. We now live with my grandparents. The judge said our parents have to be clean for 90 days and go to couseling before we can go back to live with them. Lately I ve been feeling really homesick. My parents have been clean for a while now. I just want to go live with them. Is there anyway that I can.? |
| Question: I feel like quitting martial arts, but scared that my parents will be really disappointed? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:22 AM PDT Ok so I'm going into high school next year, and I know it'll be taking up a lot of time and hard work. Also I'm hunting for a job right now and if I get one it will take up a lot of my week. I only do martial arts 2 nights a week, but I don't want to continue when I know that I'll be busy this coming year. I'm scared that if I tell my parents, they'll be really really disappointed. They've spent so much money on me to go there that I feel it'll make them sad to see that I want to drop it all together. Although I have felt like I've learned a lot. So how could I tell them? |
| Question: Can i move out im 17 will be 18 in 2 months and im pregnant? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:17 AM PDT I want to know if i can move out at age 17 turning 18 in 2 months and im 7 months pregnant the dad doesnt want to know anything about me i dont really know what to do my mom is very abussive ... every morning i wake up hearing her agreviate me with bad words and everynight when i go to sleep its the same i cant take it anymore not just that but she always reminds me of what happend in my past and it gets me deppresed because it wasnt my fault witch she blames me for it ... (i got raped at age 8 ... her boyfriend threatend me not to say anything and my mom didnt believe me and since then she treats me really bad she sent me to mexico for 2 years because she didnt want to see me but she came back for me and know she still treats me like **** ... since all that happened she has not celebrated not even 1 birthday to me ... she cant even say happy birthday... she doesnt let me go out anywhere ... she doesnt let me get a job ...i go to a cosmotology collage and she doesnt want to take me no more ... she tells me that school is a waist of time!!! I want to take care of my baby get a job move out and do me i want to move out but i dont have the help of anyone .... all my life i have been treated like **** not just that ... i got raped at young age ... my mom didnt want me she aggreviated me and told me that when i was born she would of rather killed me |
| Question: How can I get them to stop treating me like a kid? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:11 AM PDT I'm going into my junior year in my school and I live with my two older family friends because they go to the college I'm going to and my parents can't afford out of state tuition. Theyre both guys and I'm a girl. I moved in last year but I've known them since I was like born and the oldest (26) shares custody of my with my parents. The younger one is 24 They are always bossing me around and telling me what to do. It's not that I don't like them, it's just I don't think of them like my parents. The oldest actually grounded me because i didn't come home the other night. He even went as far to threaten to spank me which makes me really uncomfortable. How do I get them to stop acting like my parents ?? |
| Question: Was my sister being a bully? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 11:10 AM PDT Me and my family went to the beach. My sister wanted to swim in the water. I paddled in the water but it was icey, unbearably cold so I said I won't swim. My sister got angry at me and wanted me to join her in the water. I said "no, it's too cold. I'm not doing it" She then yelled at me: "Everybody hates you!" I was walking across the beach, and she ran from behind and as she passed me, she said: "Every...body... HATES YOU!!" Was she being a bully because I refused to swim with her? Note she has autism which wasn't diagnosed properly till she was 15, so this could be a reason. |
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| Question: Should I tell him or ignore it? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:57 AM PDT In the summer, my husband and his family will get together every weekend and grill. Well last weekend was not so enjoyable for me. As I am stuck on a dilemma that could tear his bond with one of his brothers. My husband and the oldest brother were at the store getting more food and drink for the day. I went into my in laws house to use the restroom. As I came out I bumped into older brother #2. Older brother was always little weird with me. He rarely talked. Well as I passed him in the hall he grabbed my arm and said "why are you with him?",he caressed my hair. I then grabbed his hand and twisted it as hard as I could and told him to back off. I told him that was very disrespectful of him for his brother and I. I didn't say anything because my mother in law is diabetic and has a heart condition. I did not want any outbursts from my husband to affect her to the point to where she would have a heart attack. The next day I mentioned what happened to his sister and she repeatedly told me not to say one word to her brother (my husband), she didn't want any major fights to happen between her brothers that would affect my mother in law. She didn't want any wedges between her family. If I mentioned it to him and they fought it would be MY fault. I don't know what to do. I love him and his family. But I won't go to anymore family gatherings if older brother #2 is there . |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:56 AM PDT Its starting to look very much like all this nonsense about Jock Stein was a mere smokescreen to stop people looking into what has gone on behind closed doors at Ibrox. The filth has been uncovered. And of course there is Stevie Chalmers whose victims will never have closure. Fans of Sevco should look to see what skeletons they have in their closet before they go making up stories about other clubs. They've been caught with their pants down just like some of their former players. |
| Question: Parents Against College? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:55 AM PDT Hi, I know this situation is quite unique but I'm just looking for some insight. I'm 16 years old and I'll be 17 in December. I've already been accepted to my top two colleges, but have deferred enrollment until fall of 2016. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and have known eachother for 3 years, been together for 2. He lives 7 hours away so he makes the drive to see me once a month, maybe two. However, my parents have only met him a handful of times. So my dilemma is, my top pick college is closer to where he lives, maybe an hour away. We were already thinking of renting an apartment/house as I'll be almost 18 and he'll be 20 at the time. When I start college, he'll be finished and hopefully have a job in his chosen field. My parents are 100% totally against me living with him and aren't completely sold on me moving out for college at all. I love my parents to death, they're amazing people and have taught me everything I know about life. However, I'm ready to move on with my life and take on some responsibility. Being in a long distance relationship for such an extended period time isn't easy either though. My parents aren't supporting me financially for college either. I just would like them to put their opinions aside and support me. Any insight/opinions/advice will be nice. Thanks in advance! |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:54 AM PDT I want to be. My mom and brother said they d be so much happier if I died. I m seriously considering it. And now I lost going to Florida with my family because I got in a fight with my mom. Instead I m going to Texas with my 80 year old grandma who s crazy and all she does is play bingo and watch the price is right. I m a 12 year old girl. I only have one friend. NO ONE WOULD MISS ME IF I DIE. |
| Question: My parents are spending WAY to much $$?!?!? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:44 AM PDT Alright so, im going to europe with my parents and sibling. My parents are immigrants from a poor place in Europe. Now that we have some money, i feel like my parents are going overboard. We have some money, but not millions! People in that part of europe where my parents are from are very poor. I understand my parents giving money to their family, but now they are buying Anne Klien bags, Nikes, etc etc for people there. They've bought tablets, phones, $700 laptops, watches, etc for people there and our family receiving it doesnt even give one "THANKS". My parents havent been making as much money as before lately. I get pissed off because they are spending so much on people who insult them and think they are dumb for caring enough to buy them gifts. I've told them to stop and they ignore me. My parents barely buy nikes for themselves, yet they buy it for their cousins who use and insult them behind their backs. I'm getting really sick of it. Sometimes I truly feel like my brother and I arent the only kids our parents have, but every family in europe is our sibling too!! I dont understand why they keep spending money and acting like its their responsibility to give everyone everything possible. ESPECIALLY because after giving over $50,000 in money to my uncle, he spent it ALL in the casino and thinks my parents are dumb. |
| Question: Is my mom a hypocrite? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:34 AM PDT every bad dream i have causes her to blame the games i play while she s perfectly fine with games like metro 2033 but won t let me near call of duty she'll keep me away from games like black ops but is perfectly fine with metro 2033. it just drives me crazy |
| Question: Greek man marrying a white American girl? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:33 AM PDT Would the family be accepting?? What's the best way to win over a greek family? |
| Question: Should I talk to my sister? What do I do about this situation? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:15 AM PDT The story is I'm 42 and my father contacted me to tell my that my sister, she's 27 wants to move in with her boyfriend. My dad told my sister she is making a big mistake and whatnot and my dad wants me to talk to her because of what I been through with moving in with a guy and such when I was younger. I contacted my sister and she says she doesn't want to talk about it. I know she's an adult so I'm not sure what to do. |
| Question: My mother dislikes my DH. Fills my child head with..? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:12 AM PDT I cannot take this anymore. I sent my child to stay with her for a week to visit. My child complained ( i believe by prompting by my mother) that dH and i fought ( seriously rarely ) people says things rude when they fight. Only between myself and DH. Sooo my mother said she can stay with her if she wants?!? And she told my child i have depression ( not true) and i take pills for it? Not offense to anyone who does, but it isnt true. Now my child is asking if they can go live with her? My parents fought all the time when i was a child and i wore my child would never experience that so its only normal rare fights. How do i tell my mother this is wrong? In a calm but pointing out that its not appropiate to do that? ( btw shes always done this sort of thing) my child is young and easily influenced |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:07 AM PDT what does he look like black white or caucasian? |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:05 AM PDT My dad s birthday is coming up and I don t know what to get him!!! I want to give him something nice, unlike those little toolboxes he never uses. I 13 so no stuff like "go to the bar with him"......help??? My dad like to fish but he wanted to play soccer on his b-day....he like detailed sketches....help! I ll like to draw but it will take a long to to finish a kind of a sketch he likes, i also enjoy doing DIY stuff but can t find something good on the web. P.S. i'm female |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 10:02 AM PDT shes ALWAYS with my mom so its not like she never sees her |
| Question: My childs father and I are not talking at the moment what should i do ? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:59 AM PDT Okay so this may sound a little childish (which it is ) but I am pregnant ( 5 months ) and recently my boyfriend and I had got into a big fight/fuss about two weeks ago over something that happened in the past like 6 months ago ...He has not talked to me since the fight and I just want to get things right for our daughter , i dont want to fuss or fight with him , i just want us to grow up and act like parent because soon we will be that . He is stubborn and he told me that he wouldnt talk to me no more after the fight , but he says he's ready to be the best dad he can be .. I am stuck between a rock and a hard place because right now , I am pregnant and I want to experience this together and not alone ..every time we argue i am always the one to patch things up and reach out first, this time i am tired of that, i want it to be him that recognizes this issue ...what should i do from here ? |
| Question: How to ask your dad if your best friend can stay for 6 days? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:43 AM PDT Problem is my best friend is a guy and im a girl. He is 23 turning 24 soon with family problems and his dad is not in his life so he has no where to go. I'm 22. My dad has extra bedrooms and my sisters barely go over so he could use a room for 6 days. We are not a couple and don't have feelings for each other so we aren't going to have sex or anything like that, we already established that we are best friends and nothing more. Plus, my friend said that when i am not home he won't be home and will wait for me to get out of work to go back tp my fathers. How do i ask my dad? (Parents are seperated and live in different homes) |
| Question: My mom put me on a lease that am not living in? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:42 AM PDT I'll try to make this short and simple. I just moved out of my parents recently. I have my own job and life and I'm renting a room for rent. My mom is going to be moving out of her apartment into a cheaper apartment. She is unemployed---completely broke---no income. To help my mom out I have been selling her things on my ebay account and I get 10% Anyway, I just got this text from my mom last night. This is what she said: Just wanted to let you know that I put your name and number on our application papers because I have to confirm income. So I put on their that you are doing eBay sales for me and I am getting deposits through PayPal. I only mentioned the last three months. The total was $10,000 something. Don't panic - they just want to confirm things but my checking account will verify this as well. Nite God bless!!! I texted this back to her: :( I don't know what to say or do to my mom!!! Our relationship is on the rocks as it is. Now I'm just upset and angry w/ her. She had no right to do this to me! She had a tax Business that I knew was going to fail and told her that she should get a job. And it failed and then she went and got a job. But every time she gets a job she quits. And quits again! Now she's dragged my name and number on a lease that I didn't even sign. I even got an email from eBay saying that my account was being used fraudulently and needed the password to be reset. Can my credit be ruined by this? What do I do??? :'( Please help!! |
| Question: How can I get my dad to give me the phone? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:41 AM PDT Ok so my dad bought me an iPhone6 and he said he is going to give it to me on September 1st when school starts, But I want him to give it to me right now. I'm also bored and have nothing to do. What should I tell him so he can give it to me now? |
| Question: How long do I allow this? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:41 AM PDT Do I allow this to go much longer? I'm a single dad. My 4 year old daughter has gotten into a habit of( the 3rd time she's done this), in the middle of the night, getting out of her bed and climbing into mine, but, with her she brings our puppy Golden Retriever with her. So, rather than Dad sleeping in Dad's bed, Amber sleeping in Amber's bed, and Slug sleeping in his bed, all 3 end up in Dad's bed. I'll wake up and I'll look behind me and I'll see my daughter hugging the puppy like a teddy bear. Do I nip it in the bud soon? |
| Question: How can I help an 18 year old friend of mine who's living with an abusive mother? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:41 AM PDT The easy answer would be for her to save up and move out, but unfortunately, it's not that easy. She's still looking for a job and she has had no luck so far. As for living with other family or friends, the rest of her family are just as abusive as her mother and since she doesn't have a car, her only options friend-wise are her friends that live close to her, but even then, she can't stay with them. Her mother will constantly deprive her of food, verbally abuse her, threaten her, and she has even ended up in the hospital because her mother wouldn't allow her to eat. I really don't know what to do at this point, because I want to help out very badly and I care about her a lot, but there's not much I can do since I'm an hour away and I also live in an unhealthy environment(but I'm in the process of moving out). Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I just don't know what to do. I'm so worried. I feel like she has no where to go. |
| Question: Why do parents get mad when there child embarrasses them? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:38 AM PDT |
| Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:38 AM PDT I'm seeing all of my friends traveling to other states and having fun and doing stuff. My family can't do that because we're "poor" compared to every normal person here and can't even afford to go to any fun place, even if its in our state. I'm just so sick and tired of not having the same opportunities as everyone else. I've only been out of state once, and that was when I was 7 (and it wasn't even by a lot. we went to cedar point and that's in ohio, right by where i live. im 13 now). All of my friends and other relatives get to go places and do fun things and have a life. I'm stuck here at my house, not even able to go to the store all that often because my dad is always at work and has the only vehicle we own. Despite his efforts, we barely have any money to do anything. Once in a blue moon we'd all go out for icecream, thats like only once every 2 years we get a chance to do that. we've already done that this year. We barely get by. We currently get food from a church that donates free food to the poor. (in case you're wondering, i have this laptop because its my grandma's old one and she gave it to me.) Is there anything I can do to stop this frustration? I just want to have a childhood like everyone else's. I just want to be normal. It's summer break and I am stuck in the house all day, doing nothing but wasting away my childhood. |
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| Question: I hate my stupid useless father? Posted: 22 Jul 2015 09:16 AM PDT First of all, he is obsessed with chess on facebook tht he cares abt it more than his family ( He once kicked me off the computer bc he wants to play chess on it) , He complains tht we give him too much chores WHEN ALL HE DOES IS LAUNDRY AND SLEEP EVERYDAY ( he doesnt even do laundry sometimes so my mom does it instead ) , he is RUDE AND LOUD ( he once shouted at every1 in the van whn we wer going on a trip to the beach cuz it was someone s bday) , he is VERY VERY LAZY, he STINKS CUZ HE IS TOO LAZY TO TAKE A BATH, HE CURSES IN FRONT OF EVERYONE, He did not finish school ( he missed 2 yrs of college so he didnt graduate) everyone hates him, AND HE SLAPPED MY MOM ONCE BC SHE SHOUTED AT HIM FOR BEING A LAZY DOUCHEBAG -.- srry for all of the cursewords I just rlly hate him.. Wht shud I do?? I cant stand his disgusting body odor lingering around our house and his lazy and trashy attitude, and my MOM DOES ALL THE WORK INSTEAD, |
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