I m 14 years old. I want to have fun, and make memories with my friend. Earlier this year we wanted to do graffiti but never go the chance. We are entering high school and want to have a fun high school experience. Cutting class could be fun (any tips to get away w that w/o parents finding out?) but we want other fun things to do. We want to have memories where we look back and laugh at how dumb we were and remember how much of an adrenaline rush that was. Thanks :) P. S no lectures about following the rules. If we follow all the rules we miss all of the fun!

I have a friend. She's really pretty. Skinny. Hoy boyfriend. Bright blue eyes. Beautiful without makeup. Amazing with makeup. Amazing clothes. Pretty hair. Basically she has everything and she knows it. She looks amazing in every photo I see, but there i am. Her ugly friend. I hate being ugly. I feel fat and i dont know what to do. I'm not just feeling sorry for myself before you say i am. I like myself. But when i sit next to her at school or something, i can immediately tell who is better. her. all my friends prefer her and she is way more popular. shes smart too. its so unfair. i know it sounds stupid and its not because of her but i self harm because i dont like myself. i compare myself to her. i guess i just needed to get it out. im jealous of her. i want to be her. and she knows it.

My friend has a job she does on saturday. I've been watching her baby since he was a newborn. At first, she would drop him off at like 1pm saturday and not pick him up until like 3 am. I got tired of that, so I offered to just have him spend the night. The first time she didn't pick him up until 3pm the next day. The baby was good, slept all night didn't interrupt my schedule much. She's poor so I did it for $50. HOWEVER. 2 weeks ago something happened (I don't remember what) but I didn't get paid. I didn't mind much because I have a good job and I'm not missing $50. But this last time I watched him, he was up all night, they didn't give me what I needed for him, and when I dropped him off she was like "oh I didn't go to the atm so I only have $25". I told her in nicer words that her baby was aweful. Well, I'm never going to see the other $25. I also do her hair, she's come to expect not only that I can do her hair any time but that I can do it for free. Now I feel like she's starting to "train" me to babysit for free. I'm wanting to get another weekend job somewhere at a store I can get a discount, but I don't want to babysit him anymore until then. I'm a bridesmaid in her wedding and don't want to burn a bridge but she's taking advantage of me, and I don't have time/patience to be up all night on my weekends off.

So a year or so ago my ex-best friend and I used to fight a lot. And yes, I was arrogant, immature, and bratty and most of the time I was in the wrong in the fight. However in the last year I've matured a lot, like literally everyone tells me how much they used to hate me and now it's like I'm a totally different person. (I'm 15 btw) Anyway, my ex-best friend (I'll call her Jane) and I have always had a rocky relationship. Recently though as aforementioned I matured a lot and I noticed that there were a lot of issues in our relationship that did not relate to me. Like she constantly criticizes my writing and artwork but then gets really mad if I don't praise her writing and artwork. She is generally very critical of me and still considers me to be very immature, reckless, and stupid. She constantly talks about how much smarter she is, when I go to one of the hardest high schools in state and got straight A's all honors last year and she goes to a crappy public school and got mostly C's and B's in on-level classes. Also, she hero-worships two of my friends and constantly talks about how perfect they are yet constantly criticizes me. Also recently she's been the one starting all of the fights for totally stupid and immature reasons. She says super mean things to me and then apologizes by saying, "I'm sorry your feelings were hurt" instead of apologizing for being mean in the first place, yet if I have one word out of place and don't explicitly apologize like "I'm so sorry I shouldn't have said that" she flips out. Two months ago I stopped talking to her. I didn't silent treatment her but I made no effort to talk to her and decided that if she wanted to talk to me, she could make the effort, mostly to test if she actually cared about our relationship. She did no such thing and even though I didn't say anything mean or avoid her or anything, but she went and told one of the friends she hero-worships that I was being immature. I finally emailed her and told her why I was mad-- because she didn't respect me and because she criticized me & hero-worshiped the two friends. I worded it very politely by saying things like, "I don't know if you realize that this is hurtful to me, but criticizing my writing does hurt" and stuff like that. I also asked her to look at me as I am now instead of still seeing me as the immature jerk I was a year ago. However I recently became very close with her brother and he informed me that he told her that she sees me as, and I quote "a reckless person who acts crazy and stupid." She can't admit she's wrong and he also told me that she does feel that she's superior to me. I was very close with her before all this happened and have told her practically everything but I'm so sick of her attitude toward me and I don't know what to do. Please help and advise! I'm really sorry this is so long, but please just read it through and answer. (Instead of furiously answering some stupid political baiting question under the politics category)

Alright so I am a guy and I like this other guy who was with me in a class. We play video games online together. This guy already has his own friends and he's always with them. I have social anxiety and I get really uncomfortable and feel jealous when I see him hanging out with his other friends without including me. I can only get to know someone if it was "one on one" without others being involved. When I was with him in class he had a friend with him, I assume that they're roommates. Anyway I just get really anxious because I like this guy but I can't make the most of it when his friend is around. The presence of his friend made it difficult for me to connect with him because I don't like his friend as much as I like him. There were some awkward moments that happened between us as well and I'm really not happy about them. Anyway, we are friends, and I do think he likes me but probably not as much as I like him. Okay so here is the thing that's bothering me, we don't see each other anymore because we aren't taking classes together, I have him on my PS4 though but every time we play it just has to be ME that sends the invitation. If feels really awkward!! Although he is a nice guy and he's always greeting me and asking me what's going on and stuff whenever we play, but it just feels awkward when I invite him to play but he doesn't. Should I keep inviting him? I just really need to feel that there is some kind of balance because our friendship is so one sided!

So basically for a while now I notice my good friend steal things. Usually small things like sweets or charms, but still it's wrong. I don't have the heart to say anything to her, but at the same time I'm scared she's going to get in trouble. Or that me or my friends will get in trouble when we're out with her. Should I say something or leave it and hope she stops?

For the people that want to become your friend again, but they have disrespected you. (Especially people you come into contact with at work or through family friends).

So about 2 months ago my best friend moved back home to her moms old house. Recently her mother passed away in early January and her father passed away when she was 10 years old. So its pretty safe to say that she has been through a bit. Earlier today she told me that she doesn't about life or living and wants to just die. She said she wont kill herself because she is afraid of what dying would feel like but i am scared that one day she wont be scared and would hurt herself. She has friends that live in her hometown and such but that is about it. She just graduated and works at a department store making minimum wage and struggling to make ends meet. I don't know what to do to help her or make her listen. She doesn't care about her friends anymore or what it would do to us. she no longer cares that we love her. She no longer cares that I love her and i don't know what to do. She refuses to seek any couseling or therapy because she has done it before when her mom was alive.

My cousin and I have always been close, with only nine months apart we've grown up together and are very close, I'd consider him my best friend. Although, ever since he got a girlfriend (who i would consider my good friend) she has seemed to have become more distant. Recently, the three of us went to a small party with our other friends. At one point in the night, my cousin, two others and I went off to go listen to some music, eventually four became two and it was just my cousin and I in which we just talked like normal and listened to music. The next day, my cousin came round for a few hours, in which we didn't realise a group arrangement was already happening. Later on my cousin's girlfriend argued with my cousin, she was upset how he seems to spend more time with me than he does her, insinuating really childish and embarrassing things that "we should get married" and joking she'd rather spend the day with a cousin instead of him. She was annoyed that we had gone off at the party (when originally it was a group of four) because apparently it "looked weird" and "made people think". She then argued with me and said I was the problem that they argue sometimes. I'm really hurt and offended people seem to have a problem I am close with my cousin, is it normal I am?

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I've been really good friends with her for nearly 2 years and we go out every week. It never used to be a problem but recently, say the past 5months, all she talks about is her boyfriend. Literally everything we talk about always reverts back to him. For example we can be listening to the radio and she'll tell me how the song reminds her of him and then divulge stories to me which I don't want to know. And she's constantly on her phone texting him and then showing me photos of them together and things like that. It's not that I'm not happy for her, but I feel like she's always rubbing my nose in the fact that I'm hella single. I've asked her in the past to tone it down and not talk about him but she always finds a way to revert back to him. It's getting me to the point where I dread going out with her because I don't want to hear about them or what they've got upto constantly. Sometimes it would be nice of her to ask me about myself and what I've been doing. How can I approach the subject with her? She's mid 20's and I'm early 20's.

She knows we aren't friends anymore but today she sent me a text saying, "Hey there girly-I know were not exactly on good terms but, I still wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday. Hope you have a nice day". What does this mean? Does she still want to be friends and this is her way of apologizing? Should I forgive her? I broke it off with her because she wasn't being a good friend she would be considered a "toxic" friend.

this has been going on for a month but it's really stressing me out since I've been suffering from situational depression due to drama going on with tons of my friends. I don't know how to handle such a situation since I am scared to lose another friend or start any fights. I just don't know what to do. Whenever we hang out now she always seem so tired she never really talks to me she never really laughter smiles. She always talks about how much fun she has with her other friends lately. She gets so many Snapchats and texst from other people and I see her when she replies and her replies are always so fun and she talks to them but when she snap chats or text me their one-word answers or she looks so sad. A few nights ago I told her that my mom had gone to the hospital and she didn't even say anything about it she just opened it and never responded and the next day I mentioned something about it again and she said cool. I am so scared that I'm going to accidentally start up something!! I can't go through what I did before with my other friends. I am desperate for answers! I started an account just ask questions so please please please help me thank you!😭😭😭

ok i really want to know from you guys out there. do you share with your friends your personal life plans? (for example your big life dreams and goals??? (not marriage and stuff like that) backstory: I really get uncomfortable when I have dinner with a friend, and after certain friends finished ranting on and on about their life...they finally ask me sincerely "so what's new with you?" I just cringe a little at the question. (if any others out there also have this feeling, tell me!) i feel that way because I think my life is so boring and nothing new ever happens. I mean it seems like my life is just stagnant and its always the same old thing (me trying to be successful in my personal career and/or make my own successful business as I am also pursuing entrepreneur). So if it gets to that stage, and I am successful with my personal goals and even before this happens as I have all my pre-work plans and ideas in my head I just feel very hesitant in sharing these ideas with my friends cause they are like big big wishes and it's said when you tell a wish it doesn't come true. It also comes from my fear of (biggest fear) having 5, 10 years gone by and I made them aware of my ideas but what happened is none came true...I would feel like a failure in front of them then and so depressed. but then I would wonder if it didn't happen because I told them about it & they were actually jealous & inside they hoped it didn't happen for me ... Ugh I am so confused. any advice :/ thanks

So I'm a girl and I'm in highschool and I just want to know how to seem tough and bad. I'm not doing this just for fun it's just that a lot of kids have been bothering me. I want to make it seem like I can beat them up and that they shouldn't approach me or else they will get hurt. I don't have any bad intentions but if I put up a bad face then people will avoid me more which is what I want. I just want people to be scared of me so they don't bother me anymore.

i did nothing wrong and i don't even know this person and she doesn't know a thing about me

So, my bestfriend bday was yesterday and her boyfriend invited only his friends to her surprise party where he proposed to her but he did not invite her family or me or her other close female friend at all. I'm happy for her but I am a little upset I wasn't included and I'm suppose to be her maid of honor. I think he is going to try to make het and I stop being friends cause he is always trying to make her talk on the phone with him when we hang out which is scarce as it is.

When I was in middle school, there was this girl Kate. And she absolutely enjoyed making my life miserable. She excluded me from games, I found out she gossiped about me, and she turned my friends against me. Being fed up with her, I changed schools for my last two years of middle school, and guess what? She followed me- she moved to the same school as me? Now I'm wondering if that was a coincidence or not. After a couple months I ignored her and just did my own think. But after a time I began to notice that the people around her ( some of my friends) began to ignore me. So out of desperation and sadness, I moved back to my old school to enjoy my last two years of middle school. But now, going into one of the best high schools in my city, she's going there too! With her friends following along as well! My parents and relatives, after telling them the scenario, tell me to just do your own thing, but how can I when knowing a sadist in the same building as me, dislikes me so much. I feel trapped, I need some advice on what my next move should be in this game called life. I also have no intention of moving to another school.

So there's this guy that my best friend introduced to me about a year ago. He seemed pretty chill. We hung out a couple times & we messaged every now & then. Over the summer we got closer & talked more, & it was going okay. We were friends. But things started to get f*cked up. He started messaging me nonstop. If I wouldn't reply, he would send me over 70 messages in a row. & the way he started to talk, the jokes he made, the way he started treating people was just obnoxious, inappropriate and slightly rude. The last time I hung out with him he kept trying to hug me & it was so awkward. He bought me a necklace for my birthday & later I found out that he spent $80 on it. My friend has pretty much stopped talking to him because of how creepy & ridiculous he's gotten. He changed his whole school schedule around just so he could be in her lunch! I honestly want nothing to do with this kid anymore, but I feel so bad because he has always been there for me and is overall a good kid...he just acts this way because he has a hard home life and a mild case of autism. So many people stop being his friend because he's just so hard to be around... and I feel just awful being another one of those people...but I don't know if I can do it. What do I do?

My friend just informed me that he wasn't going to invite me to his bachelor party because it is taking the form of a sports tournament (football, volleyball, and kickball) and he didn't think I would be able to compete with everyone else and that's probably true. However, he had promised to invite me before he decided on that theme and, based on that promise, when he asked if I could help out with a few bucks to cover some costs associated with the bachelor party and the wedding, I said yes and gave him the money (several hundred dollars). This was different from the wedding present, which I gave them in advance a few weeks ago, before finding out about the bachelor party. Am I in the wrong to be a little upset? If not, how do I best handle this? I don't think he meant anything against me by not inviting me, because the sad truth is I would probably embarrass myself when compared to the other participants, but I also know none of them gave that kind of money to help fund everything.

I feel like me and my best friend are drifting apart and I don't want to lose her. We use to talk everyday and now we barley talk, last time we talked is over the weekend when she was upset. It seems like she's even ignoring me lately and I messaged her earlier and said "hey." And she replied back hours later "can't talk." And then she logged off like then got back on (now she's off again) what are signs of losing your best friend?

On campus I always sit in the same spot studying, waiting for class. This guy I used to text will always pass by and look at me but I just glance and look back the other way. We was texting each other for like four months everyday and he is the one who stopped texting me because we haven't hung out. It's weird seeing him because I get this feeling in my stomach, also we don't talk/text anymore like we used too weeks ago. He doesn't say hi or anything so I don't either. Should I just keep ignoring him or at least say hi? But I did text him last week asking him was that him who I seen on campus one day and he said yeah, so he still has my number but doesn't want to talk to me.

so I plan on sneaking out tonight right? well not sneaking out but I'm telling my mom I'm sleeping over my friends house while I actually don't and sleepover my bfs house, he lives 2 :30 hours away:/ I have my moms car but I've never done like anything bad before... thoughts?

At school I was well known and liked by most (not popular, just known) but I didn't really have any friends, just people I hung out with at school. Yeah, I switched numbers with a couple of these people, but they never bothered to contact me outside of school or invite to the outings they organised, sometimes even in front of me. I wasn't part of theirs or anyone's 'circle', I just hung with different 'friends' during different classes or situations but mostly just 'floated' not really feeling like part of any particular group. So it's the last Summer holiday of our current school (we're year 11 going into year 12/college) and so now, a few weeks into Summer, suddenly some of these girls are contacting me. I've been texting back but I can't help but feel like they're only making an effort to be friends now because they're scared of being alone when they move on to their new schools or something. Or maybe they're just bored of their holiday already I'm just their last resort as usual? I don't know what to make of this. Do you think they're just using me?

I'm going to go to a lot of raves next year and wanted to make sure that I'm rave ready. (I'm 18 years old) http://imgur.com/sG1scuI

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I find it very difficult to forgive my ex-best friend. She was bullied when we became friends in kindergarten, because her English wasn't so good. The next year, I introduced her to a friend of mine and she ran off with her and made fun of me. After that friend moved away, she became my friend again. She was still bullied by some people but the popular kids liked me. She then would lie to me (around 1-4th grade), such as making up stupid lies that were obviously untrue (talking to ghosts, crayon flakes being her dried up blood). Throughout our elementary school years she would occasionally make a new friend and just laugh at me, making fun of me. She would call me a boy and other stupid things. We were made fun of and the class called us lesbians. She started to drift away from me then. Through middle school we were alright, not as close but she did stop bullying me. In high school it all completely changed. She entirely turned on me. Her new group of friends was pretty popular, laughing at me and insulting me (subtly) such as saying, hey nice pink shoes. Did you get it from the kids section? How cute! She never invited me out, and when I asked if she was busy she would say she was doing schoolwork, but on Facebook I saw her post photos of them out. One of their group wasn't a bully and I eventually got into a relationship with him. They bullied him terribly, to the point where he wanted to commit suicide. They posted anonymous questions on formspring. Calling him fat and "retarded". I broke up with him so that they would ease off him. Ex-best friend watches anime as well, but bullies me and my current best friend for it. We play video games and she makes fun of me for it, calling me an idiot for not focusing on my studies. She even has the nerve to go up to my current best friend and tells her to tell my my clothes are weird. I posted a rant on FB and she commented that she knows she was a terrible child. Im sure they still laugh at me. We are in college and I've heard her mother calling my mother asking about what I'm doing with my life and what my GPA is. It's really difficult for me to let this go. Sorry for the tldr.

this girl I went to school with we are becoming very good friend I can not stop thinking of her she always on my mind she there in my dreams there on my mind when I wake up sent we been talk been so full of love and peace happiness this girl was so mean to me in school it one reason why I suffer from depression all the bad thing she use to say and do to me in school then after I caught the garter belt at my friends wedding last month when I got home she sent me a message on face book say she was sorry for all the thing she done to me told her I forgive her a long time ago now we talk every day cant stop thinking of her even though we are just friend she know I will give my life up just so she could be safe or live told her that want her in my life but don't want to lose the friendship we have now what should I do I never had this much love and feeling for any woman at all

Ok so i rly want to get a gift for my friend. I know that no one will just give me their credit card number or paypal, so is thereany way i can get my bestie a gift online for free like a free online gift card?

Edit Alright so I've liked this guy for a while now. I'm not sure if he liked me but his friends and my friends have pointed that out saying he does. All he does when I see him is blush stare and smile every now and then. I think he knows I like him too as I do the same thing. Anyways I gathered up the courage to follow him a while back, but somehow people on my account got u followed and it was hacked. So I made a new one and I followed him, he hasn't accepted me nor declined me... He's been active as he has posted a bit. Do you think he doesn't like me? He's exhibited the same behavior for four years with the blushing and other things. He just hasn't accepted me or declined my request as yet? Do you think he may be shy, as he really was nervous around me and smiled and blushed a lot? When I said hi to I'm in front of his friends he turned slightly and blushed chuckling a bit. He always exhaggerated his movement around me to notice him. However he was always a shy guy.Help? Sorry about the long paragraph.. Any advice I'm not sure if the blushing,smiling, and staring was an "indication". We were close friends at one point,but then we got into different classes.We talked when we saw eachother walking home very now and then, and his friends hinted at his "feelings". But, I'm not sure, I can't say I'm positively sure about it.

Note: Call me creepy but I told him in his year book and he just snickered with his friends. I informed him that I'm being serious and that he needs to get his act together. I even told him that he's even smarter than I am and would progress in life if he just takes school a little bit more seriously. By the way I'm also short, that might be a factor that makes people no take me seriously. I mean just because I'm short doesn't mean I'm mature and able to give advice. I usually don't act stupid as well. Help? *immature and not take me seriously. Linda please be more specific.

I'm 15 so i can't drive yet, and whenever I ask for a friend to come over, she makes me feel so bad. I'm really really introverted so I rarely have people over or go out, so it's not like it happens often. I asked if my best friend can come over tomorrow and she works the whole day so she wouldn't even be home, and she made me feel so bad. I told her that and she goes, "Fridays are normally my night without you guys." and "You should be way more thankful i'm even letting you do this." I just don't get why she makes me seem like such a burden when we don't even bother her?

For 3 years, I had the most amazing teacher. When we first met we got along instantly. She was very welcoming and caring towards me when I first met her and she was like that until the very end until she stopped officially becoming my teacher earlier this year. Over the last two years especially we were close. She got promoted to assistant headteacher so I helped her with small jobs and I also taught her classes with her. She would call me her personal assistant and she would let me and my friends watch movies in her class. When I was having problems she came with me to the school councillor and she explained everything for me. For my birthday she bought me flowers and as a goodbye present I bought her a Hollywood walk of fame frame with her name engraved in it. We also emailed each other. I emailed her on her school email and she emailed me on my personal address when she needed something. I added her on Facebook as a joke while on work experience. She thanked me and told me it was nothing personal then I added her again because I was going to leave school but I ended up going back and once I graduated I added her but she always left the request pending. I went to this teacher for a lot. She helped me grown in confidence and as a person. I want to be friends with her. I miss her and I do care about her. She inspires me and we are staying in contact and I'm visiting her in December. Can someone explain why I feel like this?!?!?! I don't have any sexual thoughts about her!

I have a friend that I have known for about 30 years. I cared about her like family, we were close growing up and drifted apart around 15 years ago. I searched all over the Internet for her and even found someone she knew to find out where she was and finally got in touch. She seemed so happy at that time to hear from me, but I wondered if I hadn t reached out, would she have looked for me? I guess I feel like a fool because we only have hung out maybe 10 times in the past 10 years. I always reach out to her and usually get a bunch of reasons Why she is so busy And it will have to be Another day. Our conversations are a struggle because we don t know about each-other. She is mysterious to me now. For my peace of mind I think I should stop contacting her And deal with the fact that she may never contact me. It just hurts to have a friend that doesn t like you . She hangs out with other people so I know she has time. I have Messaged her and told her she is a great friend and I don t want to lose touch .. But she just says yeah, I know.. I have been so busy & need to make time to hang out.. It s all BS to me.

Okay so I met this amazing person around my 8th grade school year (she was a 7th grader but is the same age as me) since she was probably the only female besides me who loved to play video games and got into a random topic about bioshock. We talked more and more as each day passed and before you know it she invited me over to her house that weekend. I was nervous but it ended up being really fun and ever since then we couldn't be separated apart. We grew more close to each other in my 10th grade year. Things were well until my grades started dropping. I couldn't keep up with my Honors classes and was falling behind very badly. Also at the time my family was in a huge arguement which affected me greatly. I decided that maybe going to home school would be best for me to go at my pace. I talked to her about it and she got very emotional and started crying. She said she didn't want to lose me and that I was her only true friend that actually stuck with her. She hugged me very tightly and couldn't stop crying, until I calmed her down. That day I felt so bad for leaving her by herself and encouraged her to make new friends. She would say no and that no one ever listened to her anyways.. I don't know what to do because also one of my friends told me whenever I was absent she would be by herself at the lunch table and would not talk at all (which is very abnormal of her since she is very outgoing) and would stare at the floor. What do I do? Please help!!

So my sorta-friends invited me to something way later than they invited everyone else, b/c they didnt decide i was cool enough to hang with them lmfao. Im not even mad i just wanna screw with them, so now that im in the group chat what would be a clever thing to say to poke fun at the fact thye invited me later than the others? Just need someting light and humorous, because im not actualy tryna start a fight

ive had the worst reputation since 6th grade and for the longest time i had no idea why. last year i finally found out where it was all coming from & its these group of about 6 boys that ive never talked to or done anything to. i wont go into detail but they created these really wierd rumors and theyre awful. there NOT like the usual rumors you hear in every school. its ruined so much for me and caused me all these problems. since people at my school actually believe them & avoid me like the plague, ive lost so many people. -Its gotten so out of hand that whenever they see me make a new friend or talk to someone, this group literally walks up to that person and tells them everything and convinces them not to be my friend. its been 4 years and they still do it everyday like its their only enjoyment. i reported them to the principal many times and they stop for a week and continue after. One of them has threatened me. im just done. id do anything to be civil with them. i just want them to stop and i shouldnt have to worry everyday about them. honestly, im thinking about suicide. its just so out of hand and i dont know what to do. (its summer so i cant go to the principal again).And i have a boyfriend and im extremely scared of them telling him cause ik they will. ive tried ignoring them, they just keep spreading it to everyone. im so desperate for help and i just dont know what to do anymore. i honestly think ending my life is the answer. does anyone know what i should do? PLEASE READ- its really bad because all my friends have just started to become best friends with this group bullying me. and its really stressful because im constantly worried that theyre always talking about me and telling my friends stuff. my friends mean more to me than anything and i cant lose them. its all become awkward too since they always want to invite the group along when we hang out Update 2: ive begged to move schools but i cant

Us three have been friends since elementary school (we're now in highschool) and we've always been best friends ( btw were all guys ). We always used to keep in touch almost every day and text or call each other and hang out a lot (almost every week). Also we always hang out at his house because he has chill parents and a big house. Long story short we hung out at his house and got into an argument because he lied about something. He ignored us the rest of the night but was back to normal at breakfast and we were all cool. However, once we left his house he read but ignored all of our texts and denied all of our calls and won't tell us why he's mad at us. I'm almost positive that we will still be friends later on and that it'll just take time but the problem is is that it's the summer time and we were hoping to hang out a lot and have tons of fun but we can't just because he's mad. I feel like if it wasn't summer break I would ignore him back until he breaks and finally texts us but I didn't want to waste our summer so I want to resolve things already so we can all hang out again! I feel like he doesn't deserve it because if he wanted to be friends he would be texting us but it's been almost a month and he's still ignoring us!! Even though I feel he doesn't deserve it im willing to try anything to fix it and have him stop ignoring us and tell us why he's mad and resolve it. PLEASE HELP

I don't know what's going on. I'm missing friends that I had in 2nd to 10th grade. I'm in 11th grade now and I'm far away from all the friends I made last year because I'm on vacation with my family. I don't know what to do, though, because I had so many friends when I was really young that I miss now and I don't know why.

We used to fight and argue until one day he finally had enough and decided to give up. We broke up until my friend messaged me back saying he was sorry. We agreed to start over as friends but he told me he was strange because he views friendships differently than me. I see friendships with considerable importance but he views friendships with lesser importance. I believe that this conflict, that our thoughts don't align, is what caused us to almost split apart. Should I make my friend see friendships as important as I do? Or should I give up on this friend and abandon him? We've known each other for 6 months and we've been really close.

Basically my best friend asked me to go round her hous tomorrow but I have really bad anxiety so if I go round her house I'll probably have a panic attack and I'll have to go home because I have anxiety about going to other people's houses what is a good excuse?? Thankyou for any help x

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This year I'm going to be a freshman (high school) and Im TERRIFIED. I'm one of those socially awkward kids with a small group of friends and some classes I won't know anyone in so I might have to partner up with upper classmen or other people in my grade who I really don't like. What also sucks is that last year a lot of other 8th graders knew a bunch of the more "popular" high schoolers because they had a lot of older relatives there so they knew all of their friends and so on. I'm just worried because I'm more of a "shy" introverted person and one of my other quiet friends moved away so now I only have one close friend I can talk to who I know won't ditch me. We've actually talked about sticking together cause she is also awkward. My question is how do I make friends with people who are older than me and people in my grade who I've never really talked to. I kinda self-diagnosed myself as socially anxious so hopefully that gives you an idea of what I'm talkin about. I've also never talked to a lot of the kids in my own grade before cause they seem so rude and stupid/immature and always like "i love my daddy" and "hes SOOOO HOT OHMYGOD" and it really pisses me off cause no you are 13 ******* years old you should not be calling him your "daddy" and they're just really annoying and I hate them. Idk what this is pls help

my cousin, who has become my best friend for 12 years, (lets call her L) has been, i feel, replacing me. we have/had a really strong bond that i felt couldn't be broken. L and I go to different schools but we had a healthy relationship, we couldn't go a month without seeing each other, like most best friends. when L was little she, and this girl that goes to my school (we ll call her B) had a mutual friend, so they had met a couple of times previously, but never really became friends, well i got to know B and we became friends, so i had her and L over.. bad idea. the night basically consisted of them ignoring me. i just shrugged it off and everything went back to normal. then recently, L had B over without me, and thats where things got messy. they hit it off and started hanging out all of the time. L barley has any time for me anymore.. they hang out for weeks at a time, never stopping to hang out with anyone else. ive talked to B's friends about it and the feel the same as i do.. ive also talked to L's friends and they feel the same. I maybe get a night every once and a while but not anymore than that. i've tried to talk to her about it but she just denys it and gets all defensive. and now shes started doing the things we were going to do together with B.. and it hurts a lot. ive talked to my parents about it and they just get all worked up and mad about it. i really dont want us to stop being friends but i don't know what to do.. please help

My sister has recently gotten a friend to hang out with, its not a date even though my mom says it is. After my mom met her guy that is a friend, my mom wont even let me talk to my sister!And she is my BESTFRIEND!!! So when my mon asks me why i stay in my room all day instead of doing things like go outside or something i say "my best friend has been taken away from me." Now my mom is buying my sister a smartphone and paying data (even though she said Im not paying for your data like a day before she got the smart phone) i know its caused by jealousy but i just want an hour with my sister alone without my mom telling me to leave her alone. Now me and my sister are strangers, and i dont want that to happen but it already has.

Im having problems with one of my best friends. I have five other best friends, we are really a group. But anyways Bella (the one I'm having a problem with) is always so negative and she's kinda rude to me sometimes. We quarrel a lot and then makeup but I'm just so sick of her being rude and stubborn! She also has to ALWAYS butt her opinion into anything I do, even if I don't want it. She also does a lot of bad things and tries to pull everyone else into doing them. I just don't know what to do. She's very hot tempered and easily offended and I have no idea how to deal with it. Will somebody PLEASE HELP ME!!!

So my friend (15) used to be in karate. Yeah, big deal, right? Well, whenever we're messing around, she starts saying stuff like "you better watch out, I was in karate!" And I always reply that just because she was in karate that doesn't make her any more tough than I am. I still work out and lift weights. Yeah, so she always acts all tough just because she was in karate. Um, chill, you're not the only one. I know friends who were in karate and I never even find out until I ask them what sports they've done. As for her, she just brags about it without me even asking her. "So I was in school, and this kid was annoying me, so I threatened him and told him I had a black belt." "Once this kid hit me for fun, so I kicked him and he backed off." He didn't back off because he was scared. But he's not gonna fight a girl. Yesterday we were at the swimming pool and I pushed her into the water. So you know what she did? She kicked my knee, which I injured a few months ago and is still healing. When she kicked it I screamed. It KILLED. I started swearing under my breath and at her, telling her I've been waiting months for my knee to heal and then she just kicks it. She started apologizing, saying she forgot that my knee is injured. Well, now I'm scared that it got worse and I wanna get an MRI done. And it hurts. My brother said it's my fault that she's in the position where she does these things, and that I need to let her know not to touch me anymore, even as a joke. Thoughts?

I'm starting at a new school after summer. There's going to be a parents teacher night, where everyone will be showed around. One of my parents has a physical "issue" People notice, kids comment on it, people are surprised. My dad is in a wheelchair Should I tell my new classmates about it before the parents teacher thing? How do I tell them? When do I tell them? It's weird to bring up?

i posted a similar question, i didn't get many answers. anyway, i'm 15, i've been fighting with my mother 3 times a day, every day, for the past year, its making me depressed, we always end up having some chat and agree for us to make amends, but it never happens, she recently told to get out, and said i couldn't take any valuables with me. I can move out at 16 with parents permission. i'm in the UK. I made a website, and app for IOS, it had a lot of traffic and ads on it, i made , and still am making money from it, i can get access to 100k, i want to move abroad to either Germany, Netherlands, Spain, France. My cousins friend owns a tech start-up in Amsterdam, he said it wouldn't be a problem to get me a job there. i know there's a lot to consider, but it's what i want. i just need to know what the full process to go through to move is, i've made up my mind I'm mature for my age, and would have someone to live with if i moved to Amsterdam, i've spoke to my cousins friend about it, both in person and online.

On VERY short notice, my parents and I decided that I should change schools because we're moving back to our other house (long story). This will be my 3rd time changing high schools. Although I'm used to it, I've never been too good at choosing my friends. Don't get me wrong, I do love my friends but we never quite understand each other. I'm going to grade 11 next year and I'll be the new girl again. In Ontario, Canada, we graduate high school in grade 12. That gives me only 2 years to adapt myself and make new friends. By experience, I know who I should be friends with and who I should keep a distance with. But even so, how do I join a group? All of the group of friends have already been formed so I have the lower hand. I mean, little things count. What are some little acts that I could do to fit in? At lunch, I'm going to have to sit alone for the first few weeks but what are some ways that I could, say, sit with a group right off the first week? Haha god I sound like a loser x) i just don't want to screw up

I recently just lost my family-My wife and kids. I was with her ten years. Her and I have been through alot. I'm surprised we lasted ten years. She won't let me see 2 of the kids because I am not their real dad. Which is bs. Because I've rasies them since they were babies. I can see my son. But not for long. He is going back to school and I can't be a weekend dad. Or Even a dad at this point. I'm so broken. Her and I did this to ourselves. My family doesn't care about me. I can't talk to them about this. She was my only real friend. I don't have any friends. The ones I did don't want to hear about this. Her and I been make up to break up for ten years. I have nothing left for me in this town. I can't stand to see familiar faces in wore out places. So, I've been thinking about when I get enough money. Like a few grand, I will hop in my car and just let the road take to someone new and start over again. What do you think? I've been trying not to kill myself everyday. It's so dam hard. I just want to move far away and never look back. It's not like I have anyone or anything here for me anyway. She already has a new guy moved in and has since 2 months ago. I can't do this.

I mean, I never really went to labels but, okay. So I just get along with boys better. I do have a little brother, but he doesn't do stuff typical boys do (hes autistic.) So, I do kind of want to go to the mall, But I would probably buy stuff like jeans, shorts, graphic tees, and maybe once and a while, a romper or blouse just in case I'm go some place fancy. I don't REALLY play sports.. But I think I might want to learn to play some basketball.. seems interesting. But usually, I'm more of a video gamer. When it comes to makeup, you can maybe catch me with some lip gloss . That's it. I already have big eyelashes so no mascara. No need for foundation (even though I do have acne.) That's it.I am black and with quite a curly mess if i do say so myself, so I mostly have my hair braided. I have two cats, but I can't say I'm a cat person because I have never had a dog. I love making people laugh. I am not the best in school (that will change later this year.) And all my best friends were mostly boys (counting out a little girl who kept begging me.) So yeah.. Am i a "tomboy"?

So, interestingly I have been quite a loner not that I enjoy being alone but it sort of happend that way. Anyway, during class today my teacher told me to go up to the front to present my project. It was nothing to me because it's no big deal to me but after I presented it my desk mates were saying I was so cool. Then, during lunch the boys were playing basketball. And the ball rolled to me, I was just listening to music and then they say pass it to me but as I grab the ball and try to toss it to them I slip and hit the meanest kid in the face but it was a complete accident! Now I'm here in my room punished for school violence can you believe a 13 year old girl is on timeout! But, I keep receiving text messages saying how cool I am and we should hang out from my class mates. I don't know how I feel about all this attention but at the same time I feel like I should grab a hold of this opportunity maybe it's my ticket to stop being a loner. What are your thoughts on this?

Bueno estuve saliendo con ella un par de veces y ella me dijo en una de las citas que le gustan los chicos malos y sus exs eran asi. Ella esta soltera y dolida por los otros idiotas. Aun asi quiere seguir buscando a otro malo. Yo soy muy buena persona y le demostre eso. A parte soy muy simpatico segun muchas mujeres y por nada del mundo yo cambiaria de personalidad para gustarle a alguien. Se que ella necesita a alguien como yo y por una parte siento que ella quiere a alguien asi pero los malos le atraen mas y lo que me dijo me desanimo. Deberia seguir intentado? o dejarlo asi de plano como amigos solamente. Cuantas veces tienen que romperle el corazon a alguien para que aprenda???????. A ella le rompieron el corazon 2 veces

This guy and I are the same age, instantly the first day I met him I knew we'd be great friends, have so much in common and so much to talk about. I love our friendship so much where I don't want to loose it to anything. I've already kissed/ cuddled with him because of late movie nights and we talk. Stay friends.. or risk a relationship not knowing the outcome and I don't have the same friend :/

I was on my laptop in bed and my friend skyped me an said I'm really sorry I have to die I'm useless and I can't deal with it and shot herself in the head and died instantly I'm here in my bathtub on my computer crying soo much because I'm 12 and she's only 12 as well 😣😫