My boyfriends brother and girlfriend have a 6 month old baby. The man also has two other children from previous relationships. Recently, the housing situation where they were living fell through. The couple and the baby moved in with a friend's mother. They are living in an unfurnished basement and paying 140 a week. They do not have a vehicle, have not got approved for food stamps yet, and basically have no money. He works, but his paycheck is only about 100 dollars after child support and taxes is taken out. She also works a few days a week too, when her boyfriend isn't working, because she is taking care of the baby. The house they are living at now is miserable. They also can't save up for a deposit for their own apartment when they are paying 140 a week for basically just a room in a house. Are there any resources available to them other than hud or food stamps in the St Louis mo area? They are desperate. ...ps, I also don't need to hear any comment about how they shouldn't be having kids if they can't support them. My boyfriend and I would help but after our own bills there is not much left.

Basically I am seeing him but it is a secret because of his guardian. His guardian is obviously homophobic and I was wondering if there was anything his guardian could do that would get me in trouble. We don't have a sexual relationship because well things just started and we aren't ready for that at all. Basically things are pretty innocent. There is not a huge age difference.

Today i took a walk to take my mind of a break up i had recently had. I live close to a graveyard so when i passed by it i thought of something. I remember a year ago that my ex took me to visit his cousin grave. I thought about visiting my ex-boyfriend cousin grave to talk about how i feel and telling him about my ex and to tell him that if can protect him and make my ex happy from all whats going on. But i refused later on because i felt it was bad to visit someone who i dont know. Is it right for what im trying to do? I mean i feel like its a selfish act but talking to someone who i dont know from my ex family can make me feel better. Please dont tell me to talk to someone from my family because they don't know about my relationship or ex. I'm trying to be strong for myself. Please answer my question and tell me your opinions, thank you (:

where they put you over the lap and spank you with your pants down

It s my father that doesn t let me go anywhere (and not bc he worries, trust me). School break is on for more than a month and I haven t been to a club this summer, expect for this Saturtday but he at first didn t want to let me go, but I want to go out more often, since my friends were clubbing every single weekend, while I spend my days in a house. I m 17, not problematic child and I had almost all straight As in school, but he s still making problem when I want to go somewhere, while it s totally fine for him to go out whenever he wants with his friends and drink (he has alchocol issues). Help me, I don t want to my short freedom go to waste :((

Hello, I have some serious trust issues with my boyfriend that has lied to me several times in the past. We are together now for more than a year and all these lies happened 5 months ago and I still can't get over it an trust him. He has lied to me about chatting with other girls and had deleted all text messages before I had the chance to see it. I do not believe that he was flirting with them, but I just can't forget the fact that he lied to me. Then he started hiding his phone from me and changed his facebook password and this for me was the breaking point I asked him to show me his phone or else he would lose me for good. He did show me his phone and I saw that he also had lied about being with a friend, instead he had gone with another friend to a girl's birthday party! I've also seen on his fb account that he had added more than 10 girls an liked many many many pictures of other girls ... At that time I had broken up with him but we got back together one week later. I forgave him but didn't forget. Now he shows me his phone whenever I want and he lets me on his fb to show me that I can trust him. In fact I can't and I'm afraid I'll never will, still 5 months later I think about the lies on a regular basis and I hate myself for that. I have become very insecure and I have the feeling that I can't let go of the past. My boyfriend has also deleted every number of those girls and created a new fb account but I still can't trust him! Could I trust him again?

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I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he was a cheater (at least 3 times!) and verbal abuser. Anyway, I saw him recently at a party and he cornered me in a hallway. He started getting agitated and then said we "had to get back together." I said "no" and started to walk away when he grabbed my arm and twisted. I broke free and kicked him as hard as I could right in the balls with my pointed cowgirl boots! After I rocked his babymakers, he fell down and puked while I stood over him and asked him if he could taste his nuts. His face was priceless! I guess I nailed him so hard his nuts swelled up to the size of oranges and one ruptured and had to be removed (I play college soccer so I know how to blast a ballsack!). I feel a little bad about what happened but he is now saying he never mess with a girl again and he even wears an athletic cup all the time to protect his remaining family jewel. My girlfriends on the soccer team now call me the "nut remover" and say I should hang up a fake pair of nuts like a hunting trophy on a tombstone background with the words "RIP Brian's Nuts-Destroyed By Girl Power" since I sent his nuts to "nut heaven." Other people say I should hang up a guy's athletic cup as a symbol of female power over male weakness (guy's nuts are so vulnerable and they need the extra protection). Any other good nicknames? And what should I hang up? The nuts? The cup? Both? The more names and ideas the better! Be creative! Just wish more girls could experience blasting a jerk's balls! It is such a great feeling seeing a supposedly tough guy go down with one kick. Must suck to have nuts. They are just two targets dangling between a guy's legs! One shot and it is all over.

My boyfriend and I are planning to move from Orlando, Florida to Colorado. I am already apart of a company that I am able to transfer with, but my boyfriend wants to work at a dispensary. Where is the best places to move for this type of job?

Please no mean negative comments. This is a long story to explain and I dont have enough space. But my ex sent me this email after I asked why he was ignoring me.This is after I visited him on a trip to NYC where he lives. I swear to life I never pressured marriage to him,he was the one asking for kids and all that. Do you think he will realize the error of his ways? I never did anything bad to him, I feel he wanted any excuse to block me! he broke things off on email after I had went to verizon like a fool thinking something was wrong with my cell that I dont see messages from him Sana, I repeated several times that it was still too early to commit to anything. Marriage is not something that happens overnight. I gave you my word and yet you still didn't believe me/ignored me. This really hurt me. I can't be with someone who does not trust me. I did nothing to warrant this sort of treatment. We should go our separate ways. I wish you all the best. *** This guy was soooo close to me,but ever since i left home from the trip, he started getting distant and saying "you have a nice life in albany" and yorue a good person..blah blah..break up talk. So I told him "not enough is being done to keep us together" he misinterpreted that to mean I wanted marriage overnight?

Im going to ask if my best friend can stay for a week because he is having problems at his house and he cant go over to his fathers because his father is not in his life and doesnt want anything to do with him. My friend said he would buy his own food, not be there when im not inside also we are NOT a couple, we established we are only best friends and nothing more so no sex or anything freaky. Im 22 and my friend is 23 turning 24 and only asking for one week. Will my dad be mad at me for asking? :/ I'm kind of scared he would be mad.

My father-in-law, age 60, has been living with my husband & I off & on (more on than off actually) since before we married, a total of 8yrs & counting. We've gotten my him place after place of his own, places where he could afford to pay his own rent & utilities, buy groceries & household items, pay his phone bill & get his medications. He'll live on his own for 1-4 months, then find reasons why he cannot live there any longer, & moves right back in with us "to help us all out", he says. He's taken over my family, made our house his own, & tells us what were doing wrong & why we can't get ahead. He doesn't pay rent or bills & pouts if we ask him to help with groceries or toilet paper. He's a chain-smoker & refuses to smoke outside. We have a 5yr old daughter that is beginning to act just as selfish & demanding as he is; & we have another child on the way that I'm afraid will do the same. His remaining sister & brothers offer for him to stay with them & they'll help him get a place, but he has an excuse for everything about why he can't. His own daughter has let him move in with her & her husband countless times, but after a couple weeks he's right back at our house. He's tearing my marriage apart; my husband jumps my butt for things we both know are attributed to his father's being here. I don't know what to do, & I don't want my family to fall apart because of one person's not wanting to grow up & be an adult... What can I do to get him to move out permanently?

My sister in law is always telling her brother -My husband- that he s hot or looks like a model ; even his aunt commented on his online photo and said hubba hubba ... This is inappropriate, right? They re just always in his business to the point that it is crossing the line in general - How do you get your husband s family members to cut the cord a bit and stop being so creepy-close with him?

My husband has a child from a previous relationship, and he goes to see the child from Friday evening to Sunday evening every weekend. He says that he stays with a friend overnight, and I believe him. My husband pays child support of $2,000+/month, that is not court ordered. Lately the visits have become more frequent. He was recently gone from Thursday afternoon to Sunday evening, and then left again Tuesday to stay overnight, and plans on returning Wednesday evening. The mother is unemployed, and currently a student. She has a fear of the highway, and cannot drive to meet us. When my husband's mother and sister visited from another country, they primarily stayed at the mother's home because of the child. I have never met the rest of my husband's family, and she has regular contact with them due to the child. My family and friends are very suspicious of this arrangement, and they have insinuated that my husband may be having a relationship with the mother. I filed immigration papers for my husband, and he is about to receive his permanent green card. The mother could not file for him because she did not meet the income requirements. I learned after our marriage that my husband was going to marry a woman and obtain his green card, but cheated on the woman with me. Early last year, my husband cheated on me with another woman and lied about his name and marital status. Obviously, my friends and family argue that a leopard cannot change its spots.

Me an my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 years living together for 7 months and he's up all night on the laptop next to me but I ask him every night to please go to sleep with me and then go back on the laptop after I fall asleep but he won't the bloody thing always come before everything, what do I do I'm getting so sick of it.

He added me onto facebook immediately but I always have to initiate communication with him. It has been like this for years. He always wanted me to keep up with him and call him. He never expressed what he wanted relationship wise.Even though he would talk to me about having children and what would be nice baby names.So I moved on and married someone else. I found out that he was not happy about it. Before I got married. I ran into him at a store with my fiance with me. I introduce him to my fiance. My fiance told him that we were going to probably relocate out of state. He begged my fiance to not move me then he said "you don t want to do that". I thought maybe we could be friends. I wouldn t be friends with someone that I dated before I got married. I m so bothered by this. I even thought maybe we could talk about it. What should I do or is something wrong with him?. He is much older than me. He is in his 50 s and has never been married. I m in my late 30 s. My husband said I should resolve the issue if it bother s me.

okay so i'm not judging my mom at all because i'm no one to judge another person i suspect my mom is having an affair with a guy she calls her friend ts not her friend at all my mom is like my diary and we tell each other a lot she told me she had kissed the guy and that she felt butterflies, i asked her if he was married she said yeah but he claims hes separated from his wife they live together they have 2 kids but he supposedly sleeps in another bed anyway this guy really likes my mom and he likes him too but he wont make her his gf or public , ive meet the guy before but my mom has never met his kids or been to his house , she says he makes her happy , happier than my stepdad make ( they still marry but theyre complicated ) he loves us a lot and help us a lot , i'm my mom would loose my stepdad for this guy who wont take her or us seriously i need advice on this i'm thinking of sending the guy a message and ask wassup with him if hes willing to take my mom seriously ask him if he's marry & if he denies ima tell him i;m going to message his wife i wont ,its just to scare him if he doesn't leave my mom alone what should i do ? if i just mind my own business i think she might get really hurt & depressed i don't get why shes being involved with a married man the thing is my stepdad knows about this he decides to stick around but his always talking to me about it and calling me hes like i love your mom but shes being too friendly with this guy i get mad i want to do something

So in 6th grade, me and this girl were best friends. We had good laughs and we would hug every single day, typical kid stuff. In 7th grade, I had transferred out of her class (ik, not a big deal) and we grew apart. This boy in my new class liked her and tried to get her. They dated for like a week I think and broke up. I grew jealous and started developing feelings for my "best friend". She found out I had feelings for her though. Later in the year of 7th grade, this new girl transferred into my school. Me and her kicked it and we had fun and stuff like that. She started having feelings for me. Everyday after school, I would sign onto AIM (instant messenger) and I chose between to who to talk to: The new girl that had liked me or my "best friend" that I had liked. I chose to talk to the new girl and cut it off with my "best friend" for awhile. I don't know If I really liked her because a lot of boys in my school thirsted for her and thought she was hot and all that. We ended up kissing but never officially a couple. Me and new girl still talked. After that, I transferred back into "best friend's" class because I had missed her. I still loved my "best friend" like crazy. We didn't go back into being best friends nor good friends. I was too shy to talk to her so I would just talk on AIM. I cut it off with the "hot transfer". One night all of a sudden, my "best friend" admitted to me that she did have feelings for me. Idk if she was just jealous that I had moved on or...

Or even getting a PT on the books job , or dating girls but he is fine with me starting smoking cigarettes, or getting an off the books job, or calling an escort service?? Does that make sense for someone who has your best interests in mind????

My co worker thinks women can just go YOLO party sleep around have fun date as many bad boys as she wants until she's 30 then she can settle down and find a nice successful good looking man to marry and take care of her have kids with or have him take care of any kids she has if she's a single mom which she is We guys were like are you serious or are you joking kidding And she said she was serious And I was like maybe if he was stupid in that case he wouldn't be successful or good looking and we all laughed "Id rather jump off a cliff than marry such a woman right fellas "and we just poked fun at her I offended her but i don't care I was trying to give her the reality Later the guys were like I think you went to far you should apologize

I knew her since I was in 3rd grade, and in 4th grade we became best friends. Since 5th grade we used to fight and argue a lot. It was like an on and off thing we had. In 8th grade we were at spanish class and she was mad at me, we hadnt talk for a couple of days, and I went to go drink water and when I came back I heard the teacher and a couple of other students talking trash about me but when one of the girls saw me she made everyone stop talking. It wasnt the only time she talked trash about me. Yet we still were on and off... After a good while I made besfriends with another girl. She now always ditches me for guys.She's sometimes too self-centered. We dont really talk anymore... When we went to high school the on and off girl was in all of my classes. We were fine in the 10th grade. I tried not to fight with her, and when she was mad at me I left her to cool off because I was tired of fighting with her and she always whined that she never wanted someone to talk to her when shes mad. But then she whined I never asked her whats wrong. I wanted to make new friends since we were at a new school. But when I did she got mad with me again. We didnt talk for a while. I made a new close friend but she was always talking behind everybodys back. She once told me that my friends (the on and off one) was talking trash behind my back.Then she got a boyfriend and stopped talking to me. After that the one with the boyfriend, the on and off and two other girls and me started hanging out, since we were the only girls of the group.... The on and off girl started talking to me again... Then in 11th grade I made guy friends and they were my really tight bestfriends and I only hung out with them since three of the girls had boyfriends and the on and off one just wanted to sit down and do nothing.I know I made the mistake of leaving her there, This last may we had an argument about that and I was really tired of fighting so I told her that if she didnt want to be my friend she could just leave, I wasnt forcing her to be my friend.So she left. And this been the longest we havent talked. I obviously care about her.But I dont talk to her. Im not going to be the one apologizing again. I didnt do anything wrong this time.I think... Three failed friendships... It has to be me right? What other explination does it has to be? Im not going to be a Senior... I'm not exactly that likible when it comes to girls, and hang around fine with the guys, even with all my drama.... I now only have one girl-friend and she became my bestfriend.... But thats about it with the girls....

My boyfriend/bestfriend of 2 years birthday is coming up in October. My birthday is in October as well, and so is our anniversary. I was thinking something with opal in it since that's the birthstone of October, but I don't think he'd wear jewelry. I Pinterest a lot and that's where I get most of my ideas but those are starting to get cliche. Any ideas would help!

Luego de estar 19 meses, casi 20 juntos, fuimos nuestra primer pareja, y tuvimos nuestra primera relacion sexual. Fue una relacion en donde yo fui muy celoso siempre, eso ha desgastado la relacion por momentos y estoy seguro. Y ella siempre fue muy caprichosa, y siempre por TODO me discutia y hacia problemas. Hubo 3 veces en las que ella me dejó, y a las horas o pocos dias, me pedia de volver, a lo cual yo aceptaba SIEMPRE. Siempre busqué arreglar, charlar las cosas, solucionar los problemas. Asi como tambien siempre cambié, siempre trate de ser lo mejor y di todo para la relación. Pero no doy mas, la deje por que no aguanto mas su caracter, sus actitudes, sus modos de contestar, su poco respeto que tiene hacia mi. Me ha insultado demasiadas veces, y hasta me ha dicho que no pensaba cambiar por mi. Ya la relación se volvia aburrida, cada vez que nos veiamos peleabamos, ella ya no se emocionaba al verme. El problema es que hace 2 o 3 semanas, tuvimos nuestra primera relacion sexual y eso lo utiliza como un modo de chantajearme, de decirme que la use solo para tener mi primera relacion (MENTIRA, SE DIO JUSTO AHORA POR QUE LA ESPERE 1 AÑO Y MEDIO). Al no tener amigas, esta decision mia de dejarla definitivamente, la destrozó. Y me llama para darme lastima, eso a mi me confunde, por que me prometio muchisimas veces que iba a cambiar, y no lo hizo. NO QUIERE ACEPTAR QUE LA DEJE, ME PIDE POR FAVOR QUE LE DE UNA OPORTUNIDAD, COMO LE DIGO QUE NO ??? NO LO ENTIENDE

Hola me gustaria pedirle a mi chica que sea mi novia me gustafia pedirselo de una manera diferente , contarle una historia pero la historia de como nos conocimos . Asi que que piensan?como lo deberia hacer?

Some years ago, I met this dude online & we had planned to meet up after months of video calls and consistent contact. We developed feelings & decided to date and things were fine until I started seeing some red flags like him not texting back, "going out with his boys" for hours which later turned into days WITH NO CONTACT. I'm not dumb, I told him I couldn't deal with that. So we broke it off and a week later we got back. Of course, things were not the same since there were trust issues here and there from BOTH ends. He felt he wasn't secure with me since I had just dumped him after not hearing from him for those long hours and for me, I just felt that respect and trust was gone...BUT THE "LOVE" I felt for him was still there. So, we decided to meet up and even though we were on and off, we wanted to see each other in person. So on 2 occasions (and I believe this is God's sign of saying no) something always came up. The first time he was seeing someone and the second time, I had to rush home cuz my uncle was diagnosed with end stage liver cancer. Even after all this, we still texted or called from time to time. He lived a busy boy life before but now, he's born again and involved in all kinds of church activities. I know it's good for him cuz I've always prayed to God to change this man's life! But somehow...my gut says he's somewhat still the same person. Why do I still feel for him even after all he's done to me? Is it love? or stupidity? lol

I'm starting a new school this year and and I'm going to a city school for the first time and their are so many courses you can choose from. My main choices are visual arts and economics. I'm good at both and i like both of them very much but i don't know which is best for the future (like which one offers the best jobs...)

I'm in love with another girl (im also a girl and she is bisexual) and she is totally out of my league. She is popular and pretty and takes my breath away.I love everything about her. She doesn't know that i love her and i want to tell her but I'm afraid she will laugh at me and never talk to me again. I love her so much it hurts. But she is sooo out of my league! I cant stand this anymore! (17 years old) Should I tell her how i feel?

Is it a common word or slang for something?

Hi i am girl from a village in punjab. We are sikh. My age is 29. I am in very bad condition. Two weeks ago my family ties me with some one i don't want to marry. They scare me and even emotionally blackmail me to do so. But now i an very uncomfurtable with my husband and i want to leave him but he says he will never leave me at any cost and i know that even my family will not support me in doing that. I am very depressed. Please tell me what to do or where i can find help.

This is a long story. When I was sixteen my mother and I moved to a new state for a fresh start and while we were there we became Adventists. The church we went to there was great and all the people were great, I made friends with the teenagers my age etc. After college I got married to a girl from that church and despite how young we were, we were both very happy for about 4 years, last year I found out she had been cheating on me for a couple of months with a friend from the church. I tried to be mature, we had a quickie divorce, I sold our apartment and we split it 75/25 (about equally to what we had each paid) I decided to do some travelling, meet some people, enjoy myself, she remarried the guy she had cheated on me with. I currently work on cruise ships and I've a new serious girlfriend, life is great. I recently found out though that at my old church despite most people knowing why we divorced, everyone is happy that those two are together just because they grew up together and it seemed more right than me, who they consider below them basically because I didn't know them until I was sixteen. Also there is gossip about me being some kind of amoral playboy, I was visiting my mother with my new girlfriend and we went to church with her (mother's house mother's rules) and apparently that only aided the rumours. I just hate that the two people who are guilty are welcomed with open arms and I'm apparently Frankenstein. Most of their argument is based on either "my ex wife was meant to be with my old friend anyway" or "I'm a playboy now, so clearly I was exactly the same during the marriage" I'm hardly a playboy these days, however my being in a serious relationship with an Asian just made them assume that its all about some weird fetish, because heaven forbid I fall in love with anyone else. I'm worried I've painted Adventists in a bad light, Just a disclaimer, I'm still friends with many I've met, of course there are exceptions, but as a general rule, Adventists really are good, Christian people, who always do their best to be nice and to help others, even a lot of the old church are either on my side or mostly realise its none of their business and just ignore the situation, I'm talking about a handful of about 15 people. Yeah I'll try not to worry about it, I only ever go to church now if I visit my mother, otherwise I'm not religious.

My boyfriend was recently admitted to the hospital for having a low blood count. We don't know what's going on but we're hoping it's not cancer. I'm away on a study abroad right now and can't go see him. It's heartbreaking. If things get worse and he can't leave the hospital for some reason, can his family keep me from seeing him? He's Indian and I'm American, and they do no approve of me so this is most likely something they would do. Can they keep me from him if he wants me there?

I wanted to whack my team leader. So this is what happen. I am new to our company, and he is my team lead. He is the one who gave tasks to me and after we finish the task we have to report it to our manager. This is the third time so I was so upset.While I almost done doing my tasks, he turned to me and he said he already finished the tasks. So I feel my efforts are useless. Why he didn't give me a chance to finished my tasks it makes me down. Tomorrow we have to report to our manager and I don't know what would I say since I didn't finish my tasks. :-( What should I do?

I want to surprise my wife with a little late night seduction...I want to lightly tie up her arms (not legs) and put something over her eyes, and run things over her body...like a feather, maybe a piece of ice. What are some other suggestions? My mind is drawing a blank! Come on!...no one has any suggestions?

I have a friend. We both study at the same university and are constantly seen together. People assume we are a couple. I do like him and that's my mistake cause I doubt he does judging by the way he is acting now. So we are in our summer break.We saw each other a couple of times.Said he missed me. Played LoL and skyped. Then one week he stopped messaging me. I did not message him cause I don't want to look clingy and that's why I waited for him to write first. So I couldn't resist anymore and asked him if it rained where he lives( for the record it was my parents that told me to ask him cause we have a garden in the village he lives and had to know if we should go water the plants or not :D ). He just replied 'no'. I waited maybe he'd ask me smth which he didn't and then I said " Dude what's wrong. Why did you stop talking to me?". he replied:"who are you? where's Ana? The Ana I know doesn't use the word "DUDE" ". Then I jokingly replied "this is an updated version of Ana".then he said "give me the Ana I adore back". and me: "You'll never see her again muahahah". And 'seen'... He 'liked' 2 memes from facebook which were about a girl crying and saying 'why wont he call me?' and below a picture of some guys drinking and having fun. and some days later the same meme but with a guy watching cartoons. Am I just thinking too much ? I just feel stupid cause I really care about the guy ..

My girlfriend and I live in her home with her son and daughter. She likes to come home after work, slip off her uncomfortable bra and put on a tee shirt. Quite often it's obvious due to her nipples showing through her shirt that's she's Braless. My question is for other mothers with a son who's 19 or so. Is it likely he notices or even gets aroused by this? Should it be a concern? Your feedback is appreciated

I now like this super awesome guy who admitted to me soon after that he liked me but after awhile of trying to get with me he gave up even when he had a friend trying to help him get with me. When I told him not to give up things seemed to go more smoothly once I told him I started liking him he became so much more like his true self to me and was so sweet unlike any other guy I had be sweet to me, which was rarely ever. Anyways I've only gotten to see him once this summer and when he came over we got to touching but nothing too serious. So, my friend gave me the advice to tell him how I felt about him not having much time for me after that so I was honest but constructively and made sure I didnt sound rude. He hasn't been answering recently because "he works 15 hour days and is dog tired when he gets home". I completely understand that, what I don't understand is how he can be active on Facebook periodically throughout the day and have time to look at my snapchat story and answer my best friend but not me. I cannot tell if my words we're too harsh or not and cannot word them on here because the conversation was deleted but after I realized he had enough time to answer my best friend and not me I quickly became even more upset, and said something sort of like "if you have enough time to answer her and not me you can forget about talking to me anymore" and even after that text, I still got no reply. Did I do something wrong here, besides get angry, even though I had the right?

i do the same thing to him when he tells me to leave him alone. i didnt think he would actually leave me alone. well if he tries texting me or contacting tomorrow i wont respond then.

I'm just curious about incest between cousins in law. I'm from Michigan and we have never lived together. Is this legal?

So, I'm ashamed to say that I get turned on by the thought of having an incredibly sexy sister to fool around with. How do I get rid of this? I feel like it's not normal, and if it's not, how do I get rid of it?

His ex wife got locked up temporarily for domestic abuse to her bf. His son stayed with us for which I thought would be temporary. Now he lives with us full time. We get no help at all from the mother. Lately he's been mentioning getting his daughter to live with us & upgrading to a bigger house. I feel like I have no say so on it. A house full of 4 kids was never apart of my future plans. I hate to make him feel like I don't won't anything to do with them. They are great kids overall. I just don't have the patience for being the brady bunch family. What should I do or tell him? I'm much more comfortable with them visiting often. Also, he doesn't even have full custody of the kids & we aren't married. Should I just move into my own place before this gets crazy

Or even getting a PT on the books job , or dating girls but he is fine with me starting smoking cigarettes, or getting an off the books job, or calling an escort service?? Does that make sense for someone who has your best interests in mind????

hi, im Edgar 27y.o single ,independent ,i share rent with a roommate, i need help ,i dont like getting money from other people hard work but im desperate ..i want to go to school, to study business,graphic design,culinary arts and music producer ,all to own my business, and Help my 3 lovely women who i adore ,,my GREATGRANDMA,98Y.O. GRANDMA 65Y.O. AND MY MOM 46Y.O. it feels im running out time, 3more years ill be 30 :( IM LETTING THM DOWN :( I JUST want 30,000 $ to clear up my debts and start all over again,, ill work really hard to pay for school ..

Hey Guys, I'm A 22 Year Old Girl And I've Always Dated Girls. I've Always Felt Pretty Secure Of What I Wanted. Until Recently One Of My Best Friend Who Is A Guy Confessed To Me That He Loves Me And He Wants To Start A Family With Me. I've Never Been With A Guy . I Told Him I Wasn't Into Guys. Which He Already Knew. We've Talked A Lot And Now I Am So Confused. I'm Starting To Feel Something For Him. But I Can't See Myself Being Intimate With Him. Please Help Me What Should I Do..

When I was 15 , I've met this 25 year old guy. I got into his car and he started touching me an I told him no. He then started touching me in inappropriate places . I told him no again , but he didn't listen. He kept on and on and I was scared so I just let him have sex with me . I've never actually told anyone .. Because I've never considered it rape.. I mean I'm the one who got into the car right ? So it's not rape..right ? I've been severely depressed after that and I'm just taking the wrong turns in life .

Ive just turned 21, And i've been living on my own for about 3 and a half years in a complex. I've got a fairly old lady right next to me, and she's constantly calling the police on me for really stupid things like; having the gate left open, playing my guitar (soft acoustic noise level), etc. It's not only me. Theres a mosque right across the road, and they have their get together once a week, and here is this woman yelling at them, trying to alert authorities about bomb threats about them, calling them godawful names, and on a Sunday, the mosque is rented out as a christain church (Ironic), And the majority of these indiviuals that attend this on a sunday are of darker skinned, and she's yelling at them, calling them the N word, and horrible things. I try my best to ignore it, and i say to myself, that it's not me, it's her, and that she's the miserable one, and i don't need any of it. But it doesn't work when it's so constant. I would just like some ideas on how i can ignore this to the best of my abilities, because i find it hard for myself to turn a blind eye, and not react. Thanks .:PS:. I'm in the progress of being relocated, so it's not a permanent problem, But it would probably take about 2 years till that happens.

I have no income but I saved up enough for a preowned vehicle. My parents do not agree with my decision of keeping in touch with my ex-bf. They also wanted me to be a virgin before marriage but I did not want to be. They say that I am hurting them but them not accepting me and supporting my choices even though they do not agree, hurt me. I feel like they are selfish and very controlling even though I am 25. What should I do? Please don't say move out.... I do not have the finances. The only way for me to move out would be to go on welfare.

1. Is my first time going to hurt less since masturbating never hurt? 2. IVE BEEN TRYING T FIGURE OUT WHAT BOOK THIS IS. Its about these two guys who kidnap this girl and at the same time, there's this vampire outbreak or something... If anyone can figure this out, given my bad explanation, you are a lifesaver. 3. I need help writing a song! I have part of it but need assisitance writing the rest. Kik me if you wanna help (my kik is krissycamry.) 4. Me and my boyfriend we're trying to figure out how to stay together, since his schedule is goimg to be awfully busy. Any advice/stories about that kind of thing? 5. Is Saint's Row better than GTA? I'm a gamer myself and I personally thing SR is better, but I like hearing other's opinions. 6. WHATS THE NEWS ON THE SILENT HILLS SITUATION? 7. Should I go to an Of Monsters And Men concert? 8. This one is totally serious. My dad is married to someone else and hardly visits. I feel like he's not even my dad anymore because he treats my stepsister better than he treats my sister and I. I want to talk to him about it but I'm scared. 9. Also a serious question. I have depression, and now that people know, they text me all the time for no reason. I get that they're trying to check up on me, but I often want to be left alone. How do I tell them that nicely? 10. My grandmother is very senile and tries to argue with me a lot. I have a bad temper though, so how do I keep myself from saying something rude?

I asked two people a non work related question and they say there now mad at me but I still feel stupid ABOUT the question i asked them, was 'What do they think of bi sexuals? " how do you get your self to get over feeling stupid?

I am a 78-year-old scorpio who faces abuse by my dogs who scratch me in my slumber. I lock my doors at night but I always seem to be awaken by my dogs laying at my feet and staring at me in ghoul eyes. I have scratches down my legs and on my arms and face and neck. I have gotten stitches before and I have been talked to by doctors. I have talked to therapists and they have said I am just stressed. help. what is my fate. love ryan gonsales

Luego de estar 19 meses, casi 20 juntos, fuimos nuestra primer pareja, y tuvimos nuestra primera relacion sexual. Fue una relacion en donde yo fui muy celoso siempre, eso ha desgastado la relacion por momentos y estoy seguro. Y ella siempre fue muy caprichosa, y siempre por TODO me discutia y hacia problemas. Hubo 3 veces en las que ella me dejó, y a las horas o pocos dias, me pedia de volver, a lo cual yo aceptaba SIEMPRE. Siempre busqué arreglar, charlar las cosas, solucionar los problemas. Asi como tambien siempre cambié, siempre trate de ser lo mejor y di todo para la relación. Pero hasta aca llegue, la deje por que no aguanto mas su caracter, sus actitudes, sus modos de contestar, su poco respeto que tiene hacia mi. Me ha insultado demasiadas veces, y hasta me ha dicho que no pensaba cambiar por mi. Ya la relación se volvia aburrida, no habia interes de ella hacia mi para vernos, ya no se emocionaba. El problema es que hace 2 o 3 semanas, tuvimos nuestra primera relacion sexual y eso lo utiliza como un modo de chantajearme, de decirme que la use solo para tener mi primera relacion (MENTIRA, SE DIO JUSTO AHORA POR QUE LA ESPERE 1 AÑO Y MEDIO). Al no tener amigas, esta decision mia de dejarla definitivamente, la destrozó. Y me llama para darme lastima, eso a mi me confunde, por que me prometio muchisimas veces que iba a cambiar, y no lo hizo. NO QUIERE ACEPTAR QUE LA DEJE, ME PIDE POR FAVOR QUE LE DE UNA OPORTUNIDAD, COMO LE DIGO QUE NO ??? NO LO ENTIENDE

Okay so I'm 17 & this guy that works with my mom is like I don't know maybe 23 I'm not 100% sure. But around 4 months ago I went into my moms work dressed all pretty and when I left my mom texted me saying that the guy she works with came up to her and told her how pretty I've gotten & stuff.. Well I go see my mom at work everyday she works(sometimes). Well I'll look over at him and I'll catch him looking at me & he is real nice. & one time he was walking past me and he was like "havin fun?" And I was like (: no (; soooooo, what little things should I look for to see if he likes me

and insulted me. I was in a bad situation and I am shocked about how poorly sh treated me!!I am furious with both of them because they continually treat me like ****! I helped my mom when she couldn't work and my sister when she was bitching all the time about her boss. She was verbally abusing me and I hate both of them. They are both evil witches and I want to move on and forget about both of them. Any advice?

I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm going to be moving into a house with four guys ages 20-23 soon. I'm good friends with and feel very comfortable around all of them but I'm a little worried! I've never lived with guys and they have never had a girl live with them. Any tips on what to expect or advice on how to be the best possible roommate?

I'm 22 and just found an apartment and decided to move within a few days. I'm not going to be to far from home and still be able to see my friends from time to time

I am a lifeguard, and I have never been late for work for this job before, but a few days ago I overslept and arrived at 10:02, when my shift starts at 10. The other guard I was supposed to open with had gotten there early for their shift, and already set everything up. I felt a little bad that that they had done it all themself, and I apologized to them. He was clearly annoyed about it, and said I needed to get there 10 minutes early. He is not my superior, and I had never been told this before, so I asked him if he had been told to do that by our boss. He said no, but that it was "common courtesy to the other guard" to do so. I don't think it's right to clock in to a shift before they asked you to be there and expect more in your paycheck, nor do I like the idea of doing 10 minutes of unpaid work. However, if he really cared that much about it I was willing to just do it to avoid conflict, and I didn't really think it was a big deal. Our time sheets are in a binder that sits out in the open, and we write our hours in. When I checked out, I had already put the entire annoyance out of my mind, and wrote down my shift times for the day. Looking back on it, I probably should have written in that I was a couple minutes late, but I wasn't really thinking about it, and at minimum wage two minutes don't make a whole lot of difference anyway. Today, I had work again. When I was writing in my hours today, I noticed that someone had CROSSED OUT my last log, and taken 15 minutes off and written LATE across it. I know it was that other guard, because I recognized his writing. I know that 15 minutes doesn't equal that much, but it still pissed me off that he had the audacity to write on someone else's time sheet AND make me look bad without confronting me first about it. If he had talked to me I would have changed it to take a few minutes off if he really cared that much, but just changing it without saying anything seems inappropriate and aggressive. Again, he is not my manager or above me in anyway, he is just another lifeguard. My question is what should I do about this? I feel like if I keep quiet I am allowing myself to be bullied into letting him do what he wants, but by saying something I might stir up trouble. This is just a low wage summer job, but I still don't want to be fired or anything because I don't want it to look bad on another job application. Sorry this is so long, but please help. What should I do??

So I've never really been a huggy/touchy kind of person with strangers, friends (really close friends excluded), and family. My family is really huggy/touchy and I find that I become very uncomfortable when they try and cuddle up with me, hug me for a longer amount of time, or are in close proximity for a while. I still hug them but it's usually for a very short amount of time. The thing I find weird is that when I was with my ex-girlfriend I loved hugging her and being close to her. Why is it that I'm picky (subconscious or not) about who I let close to me? Why do I feel uncomfortable with my family I've been with my entire life when Im absolutely fine with a lover or really close friends?

I've been working at this pharmacy since August 2011. It's an ok place to work but the pay is slightly above minimum wage and the workload is pretty large. I'm 22 and am planning to go back to college in January and have been feeling like it's time for me to quit and focus on school. On the one hand I feel bad leaving because I've gotten to know everyone here really well and I've never liked change, but on the other hand I feel like it's holding me back. I can't afford to live on my own yet because I don't make enough and I don't want to have to juggle the dead end job and school. Plus it sucks that I won't have a bit of cash coming in. What should I do?