I quit looking a long time ago and embraced the role as a lifelong bachelor. It is what it is but I try not to let it get me down.

Both US/Europe Doesn't Permit polygamy marriages. But, If husband Doesn't Register his marriages officially, Will this work? Can he live Together with all of his wife in same house & Socially Call them wife? 

US & Europe doesn't allow polygamy marriages Legally. But, Arab/African & Few Muslim countries allow Husband to have multiple wife legally. So, If they want to travel us/Europe with all of their wifes, Can they Travel Legally? Like, Not intention to get citizenship, but for travel 3-6 months or business proposes. 

Me and this man although we have strong feelings for each other and we are in mind we are trying to end the affair because he feels like me and my husband are never going to divorce and he said he doesn't want to put his life on hold forever. He said he's already been rejecting women left and right for 3 months. We had sex like 3 times so it's strictly emotional for us. We stay up all night on the phone. Contrary to popular belief it's not just a fling. We have a strong emotional connection. If it was just a fling we wouldn't be having these long conversations all day everyday. Reason why I have to stay in this marriage for a while is because I don't have any money and relying on my husband for everything financially. Husband is very controlling opinionated and short tempered and he was like this even in the beginning when we started dating but I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt. I'm looking for jobs currently and going to make an exit strategy once I have sufficient income but in the meantime have to stay. The man I'm having an affair with said he feels the same as me and would hate to let me go because we have an amazing vibe and conversation but he said he doesn't see me divorcing anytime soon. He said he wants us to have sex one last time though which is weird for someone who is trying to let someone go right? I don't want to have sex again because I'm trying to do the right thing and be loyal to my husband again until I can leave but the other guy said He said let's end on a good note and then I guess we can go back to just being friends.." I'm scared to tell him I don't wanna have sex in fear he will tell my husband everything 

which one in her 40's or her 50's!

Trying to settle something with my mother-in-law. 

I can't get pregnant as I had my tubes removed. I told him not to *** in me but he did anyway. This has never happened before and when I talked to him about it he said he doesn't have an answer to why he did it when I told him not to. He also thinks I'm just looking for a reason to be mad. I told him how hurt/upset/violated I felt but he didn't say anything other then he doesn't think it's a big deal. I even stated it this way to him: "I have never taken my bodily fluids and put them inside of your body without your consent. I've never but my bodily fluids in you period." That seemed to hit different (judging from his facial expressions) but he maintained I was looking for any little reason to be mad.  Am I making a bigger deal out of this then it really is?  Just because we are married doesn't give him the right to do whatever he wants to me.  How do I begin to trust him again?  Side note: I've always had trust issues sexually and I was finally starting to feel comfortable with him after 11 years and it feels like he set us back 6 years.  Why is he so blasé about it? 

I thought it was just a phase she went through but it seems permanent and degenerative! We have 3 children.

I recently started working after being home for about 2 years. I have 2 little kid. boy, 4 and girl 2. I love working it makes me so happy and I have set goal for myself financially. I am married and my husband has no issues supporting us on his income. I have though of quieting and being a stay at home mom. It hurts to be away for my babies. how do I handle this? 

A wife who refuses to admit she's still depressed and anxious despite taking prozac given to her by her PCP and not a psychiatrist and who has intrusive thoughts that she only knows how to get rid of through playing a card game on her phone (in which she's 5,000 games deep on since the beginning of the year). An adopted daughter who's not unlike my wife with those intrusive thoughts only in her case she comes up with irrational and illogical solutions to these intrusive thoughts and will act impulsively to end them. She is addicted to tik tok, memes, dark humor, and boys (like truly addicted, in a codependent borderline personality disorder way). An autistic son who refuses to catch up his grades so he can graduate this year and who refuses to take care of his hygiene, to form friendships, and to clean anything in the house that he leaves behind. He also is the nicest out of everyone but he's so unproductive that it's maddening. A young daughter who also has hygiene issues and likes to give the older sister grief for her dark humor and her bad decisions. Honestly, she bothers me really minimally and I wish I had more time to hang with her. Then there's me who wants to fix it all but I can't. I don't know how to because I can't be in 10 places at once, so I end up being in 0 places at once.

There is a receptionist at work who is cute and very nice. Though I am married and I love my wife, I am kind of attracted to her. I think about her sometimes, and I even had a passing thought of... well, you know... I don't know if she has any feelings for me, but she wants to grab lunch sometime. I would never cheat on my wife. My love, religious beliefs, my honor, and my sense of practicality will not allow it. What should I do, guys?  Serious answers only. And I am not going to cheat or divorce my wife, so don't even suggest it.

I know the answer is yes and you're absolutely doing it for attention! But my main gripe is this: Please! If you're gonna wear the heels, at least learn how to walk in these! You best believe I am watching closely and judging you. You get minus 10 points if you wobbly or walk like TRex. No need to thank me and you're welcome.

I deleted text messages from another man for 2 years plus , I took out credit cards and don't tell my husband , my social media was out of control and my husband accuses me of cheating but I swear I didn't . He has also caught me lying about it all . He works out of town and doesn't believe me my friends have all cheated . How do I convince him ? 

I've mentioned before about how our step-son's 2nd baby momma has only let us see our youngest grandchild but a handfull of times and she'll be 2 in a few months. She feels that she doesn't know us well enough for us to come get the baby for a while even thought we've tried to reach out to her on numerous occasions. Back in Jan I text her to see if we could possibly pick the baby up one Sunday morning and just take her to church with us for a few hours and her reply was, "I'll really have to think about it." It's now March and I've not heard anything from her since. Am I wasting my time trying to get to know her so we can form some sort of relationship with our granddaughter? She doesn't seem willing to meet us half way? Her and my step-son, my wife's son, doesn't get along and I feel she's taking it out on us as the grandparents. We've tried but how long do we keep trying before we give up? I don't want this baby to grow up thinking her grandparents never cared about her or we never tried to see her when it's been mom who was the holdout. Should we give up or keep trying?

I blame myself partially because she is 28 and I fear it's too late for her to change now. This has gone on far too long. We should have made the extra effort to get her into some type of therapy a long time ago when she was still a child. When she was younger and her teachers thought she was a little slow and pulled me aside and said she is having a hard time catching onto things. Now she is a 28 year old who is scared to drive and she doesn't know how to find her way back home even if she was to drive. I asked her to give me directions on how to get back to the house while we were at the grocery store she said she didn't even know how to get back home. I'm worried she won't be able to make it on her own. She is obsessed with washing her hands she washes her hands 500 times a day to the point where her hands crack and bleed. She has an addictive personality I believe because before she got fired she spent every last cent of her check at the mall. Her account is drained now. She told me she has 50 cents in her account. She used to hide packages so we couldn't see how much she was buying. While in college she ran in front of a car we had to go up to the college because they said she was trying to kill her self. Also the men she deals with worries me - they are men who have been in jail and who physically and mentally abusive women.  One of her boyfriends that used to come over to our house recently was on the news for killing a young woman. This worries me even more  How can my husband not see that our daughter is unstable and needs help. I don't understand how he can't see it and everyone else around us can. I talked to him about this and he said " I'm not paying for any type of therapy.0

What big and small things did arguments come from?

at a nudist camp if you would be the REAL best man?

My husband has 2 kids and I have 2 kids, and we ve been together for 3 years, married for this last year. We have my kids one week, his the opposite week and they overlap for one weekend, giving us a weekend together with no kids. This schedule works out great, the kids get our attention, they get to see each other and there s limited fighting, and we also get some alone time. The problem is I think he and his kids need more from me than I m able to give. Not that I m not willing to give them what they want from me, because I do give it and then I feel completely drained. And honestly I believe it s because I need to set my boundaries, which is something I struggle with. I believe what I m giving too much of is my time and attention and not giving enough time and attention to myself. I was neglected as a child and I m still unsure of what I need when I need it. I sometimes don t even know I need anything until I get overwhelmed. I try to take space at that point, but I feel like it s this endless cycle of buildup-overwhelm-release, and not actually building myself up, then giving the excess energy out of love. It s out of necessity. I love them, but I feel burdened to give, like I don t have the energy but I don t want to let them down. The biggest thing for me though, is that I need a peaceful space, and my boys and I can have that together, and my husband can join. But once his kids are around there s so much chaos. They scream, hit, fight, have negative attitudes... I think there are a lot of assumptions about what I'm saying here. I WANT to give them the time and attention they need, I don't know how to maintain my energy to do so. I'm asking for help, guidance, something that's going to allow me to give to them freely. I don't want to feel this way, but I do and I'm asking for help. Condemning me based on assumptions isn't helpful. If you don't believe that we're all just doing our best, and sometimes we need help, please don't comment at all.

It's me. Sorry about the post overload. So part two of the step kids playing ball picture ordeal. The mom thinks I should put my nickname on shirt as well as her husband. I already asked my husband if he was okay with us doing a group picture and he said he didn't care. Should I text the mom and ask her as well? 

Hello - I have a quick question. My husband and I built a business together (it's not a fortune 500 company by far, and does have some assets as well as debt - but it's still going and has been paying our bills - as well as expenses and "wants" such as the occasional vacation for at least 15 years). I was in charge of the "office", while he was over the field work, and he gained technical skills including becoming somewhat of an expert Fiber in the telecommunications industry - with a very good reputation. He is claiming that I am not entitled to spousal support of any kind because: 1) he's not sure how much money he will make in the future and 2) I worked for the company too just like he did - and it's not "his fault that I didn't develop skills to be able to support myself".  Is this true?

We had a 6 year relationship and after that he found other women and I found other men. This is weird. I was with him a few minutes before he died and he spoke to me about something I can't remember. 

There hasn't been a day in my life that I wasn't manipulated by a girl. Seriously, I'm looking back and I haven't known a single girl in my life who treated me with respect and dignity. My mom, my classmates, my bosses, my workers, my co-workers, my wife, my daughter (actually, I guess I do know one person, my youngest daughter hasn't), and even strangers who I interact with randomly since I'm a friendly personality type. Every single one are using their feelings/emotions to manipulate me to do something for them, especially if that "thing" they want is to win a fight and get their way... I'm just worried that if I were to take away this emotional vulnerability from them, could they be skilled enough to get what they want through treating me with respect and dignity? Or would they increase their manipulative tactics until it started working again? And if it never works again, would they abuse me or threaten to leave and find someone who it does work on (classic narcissism move looking for a new supply like my adopted daughter just did). Obviously my biggest fear is abandonment. I don't want to be left alone. That vulnerability has been exploited a million times. I also have a fear of doing harm; I don't want to live my life knowing someone is in pain because of me - so they come up with fake injuries and make me repent for something small/petty that probably didn't hurt but they knew it would get their way. I'm also manipulated by rules/laws that are double standards...

My property tax is through the roof. They said the data base says I'm married to my EX. She owns her own home also. This is why my tax is higher substantially. How do I legally prove I never married? I guess when we first had a home at one point they assumed we were married because we have the same last name. 

Both of my step kids are playing ball this year and we are getting shirts to match the kids. The kid's bio mom and her husband will be there along with my husband and I. I am hesitant about us taking a picture: husband, kids and I (just us) because I feel like it wouldn't really be fair to bio mom because it's her big day as well. I don't want to ruin her big moment. And I don't know if we should all take one as a group either. Should I just forget about the picture because it's been eating me up. I feel like I'm not going to enjoy their game without wanting a picture. What do y'all think? Would it cause an issue if I did get a pic with them? Or should I back off? My nickname will be on the back of my shirt and I thought it would be cute to all take a pic with our shirts, but I don't know. I feel like I "have to" you know? And I don't want to feel that way. 

How can i meet a woman 45+ who is married and wants sex?

my husband was never good at paying child support even when my kids were little..so he was in arrears and owed back child support.. it was a struggle just to get him to pay anything so when my youngest son turned 18 I thought well that's it...so imagine my surprise when years later and my son is 21 yrs old i get a check from child support.. why? what does it mean? I'm just surprised..is this a one time thing or is my husband still obligated to pay us back child support?

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