Question Family: Singles & Dating: Question: What do crushes feel like?

Our relationship has been going down hill for the last few months, more so recently to the point i was going to have the talk with him today about what needs to change in order for things to work or its over. He obviously knows this but went out today and put a deposit on an engagement ring?!?! Wtf. He knows things are bad because he was awkward about saying good bye before he left and waited to see if i would give him a hug or kiss. Why would a guy do this knowing the relationship is in shambles??? I did not respond or react when he told me. We had company over so i just continued making dinner. It was not the time to address it.

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 07:19 PM PST

Just a note saying you have a great personality and that I miss working with/talking to you?

Question: Does she like me ?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 07:16 PM PST

I have a crush on this girl that I work with. I know for sure she likes me also. She is always looking at me when she thinks my back is turned. The thing is a couple of weeks ago we had a falling out. She was really angry at me. We havent talked since the incident because I was giving her space. I did apologize to her in person. Lately it just seems like she is trying to get my attention. It seems like she wants me to come up and talk to her. I havent because the last time we talked she walked away mid conversation and implied that she didnt want to talk to me anymore. The thing is she keeps walking past me . Which is not normal for her to do. Also before she leaves for the day. She always turns back and looks back at me before she walks out the door. The other day she really caught my attention. So I walk to walk becuase I live about 10 mins away. So I had wear boots becuase we had recieved snow. So I left my shoes there and I would wear the boots to and from work. When I got to work I would change into my shoes. These shoes stand out becuase they are high quality shoes. They are black and white almost like a zebra. She has seen me wear the shoes and knows they are mine. I always keep them in the back of the closet. So one day when I came into work. I noticed she had hung her jacket right over top of my shoes. There were atleast 5 other empty hangers. She never hangs her jacket back there. I feel she was indirectly trying to get my attention.

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Question: Is it normal to lose interest after 3 days no contact?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:57 PM PST

I've been away on a work thing for 3 days and didn't have time to text or call as well. After 3 days I feel like I've just went off him. We aren't together or been out much. Just talking really but he seems to be. Should I just tell him or ghost, how should I do it

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:52 PM PST

I don't like the fact that she was about to join a gang, but now she seems to be doing fine. We hangout and she's really sweet but I don't want trash to be attracted to me. Maybe I'm being a little down on myself but idk what to think. Should I continue pursuing this relationship? She really likes me and I feel like I really liked her until she told me this... I'm really confused on what to do.

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:47 PM PST

its a pretty black and white mentality to think that women only like this or that in a guy.

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Question: Did he mean what he said?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:41 PM PST

Ok, I have a coworker (male) and we have shared some intimate moments, no sex just stealing a kiss, hugging each other passionately! One day after he tried to kiss me, I said I wonder who else you've done this with, he replied no one you the only one that let me. I played it off as if I wasn't offended or bothered by his statement, but I reAlly was! Shortly after I left the office, he called me repeatedly I answered after a few tries, and he was rambling on like he wanted to say something but wasn't comfortable saying it. In short, he said he wanted to clear up his statement, that I meant a lot to him and that he wants me to know I'm special to him. So this left me confused becAuse I think he was on the verge of saying he loves me but he didn't! So, I've laid low for a while, his birthday came and I was working in another office 30 miles away, he made a special trip to come and see me, I was on cloud 9, I felt very special although I played it off and gave him a dry Happy Birthday, he gave me a long stare and told me I looked nice, then he left! I guess I'm wanting to know what should I do? How should I feel? Should I let him know I was hurt by his statement or let it go?

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:41 PM PST

I keep having these awesome encounters with these great guys. They seem very interested when talking to me and even flirtatious. We keep having great conversations every time we see each other. We hangout in a place with alot of people. So anyways, if they see another guy talking to me at all they completely back off and dont talk to me anymore.Some guys are just my friends that I socialize with also in this same place. However once the cute guys see these platonic social situations, they back off from me and never ask me anything directly. Why do they do this? I socialize with women and men in a friendly way in this same place but the cute guys get turned away by it.Am I doing something wrong?

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:23 PM PST

I find women that a lot of black men find attractive, wide hips , curvy, long straight hair. btw, I was raised in suburb america lol

Question: Did I blow my chance?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:22 PM PST

There is a really attractive girl in my college class I've been wanting to talk to for weeks. Today after my class I approached her, introduced myself and told her that she was in my class, and that I see her hanging out all the time after class at the same coffee shop I go to so I thought i'd introduce myself. I did this relatively calmly and smoothly, but she seemed frightened by my approach and closed off. She sort of just smiled and said oh ok! Then continued to look at her computer screen with her headphones on seemingly completely uninterested in me. Now i'm looking for advice on the next move I should make. I feel like I'm good enough looking to make something work and confident enough in my small talk game where if I can just crack the ice with her i'll be off and running. Any advice on how I might open her up? Things got a little better tho, as she went to the bathroom and asked me to watch her stuff, and when she left I sai it was nice meeting you and got her name upon request

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Question: Would you break up with a guy who doesn’t spend much time with you ? ?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:12 PM PST

I've been seeing this guy for over two months now and he only sees me one or two nights a week usually on weekends. He never takes me out or comes to visit during the week .

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:04 PM PST

I saw my friend pat my girlfriend on the hips at a party and it made me uncomfortable.

Question: How to reply?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:04 PM PST

To a person I care about who sent me "❤️ to you!" at the end of a conversation? Can I say "love to you back"? Or "thank you, love you too"? Which one is better in your opinion? First to answer gets best answer

Question: Should I just give up on dating?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:02 PM PST

0 0 I'm 24 years old, never been in love or had a boyfriend. In the past, I've done mostly online dating, met a lot of weirdos, creeps, perverts, guys with hidden mental issues. The last time I've dated casually was when I was 20 back in 2016. I had a lotta guys fall for me but I never returned their feelings. I have just been on so many failed dates. It happened so frequently that I honestly feel like I'm being sidestepped for other women. After the entire " getting to know you stage", they find out that I don't return their feelings then they would just disappear like nothing had ever happened. I have wasted so much time and effort on going on first dates with nothing ever coming out of it. Right now I am finally trying to meet people at social events but the bar scene is hopeless for me. Nobody ever approaches me. In public, men almost never make an eye contact with me. Maybe its because I'm unattractive? Nobody has ever called me ugly but I certainly feel that way. There were a few rare occasions where guys did like me either for my looks or personality but they didn't have any of the qualities that I was seeking in a partner. On the very rare occasion that I encounter a guy who DOES have some of the qualities I need to fall in love, he's either unattractive, married, has a girlfriend, or is just a pervert desperate for sex. At this point, I'm absolutely exhausted. I've been chronically single for years. It just seems like there are just obstacles over obstacles for me to finding love. I'm not physically attractive and nobody has what im looking for. I'm losing motivation to meet men. And I'm honestly not even interested in getting to know them anymore. I really have lost hope.

Question: What do you think of this?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 06:01 PM PST

Basically guy rejected me as had a gf (who I didn't know about) last Summer. No longer on speaking terms but still in same circle. Lately he has been constantly staring at my chest, stealing glances at me, watching what I'm doing, smoothing out his hair, smacking his lips, leaning in towards me and laughing at my jokes but we still don't talk. He has a lot of his own personal issues and strong feelings for his girlfriend but I just do not get this behaviour?

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:55 PM PST

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:52 PM PST

Question: Should i be offended by my guy’s comment, or is this a good thing?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:51 PM PST

I'm talking to a guy who's courting me. In an insecure moment of needing reassurance, i said to him, "there's no way I'm gonna believe you don't have lots of girls hitting you up with how good you look." He responded, "i don't, or we wouldn't be having this conversation." I took that to mean i am his last resort, and got really hurt over it. Is that what his response means? Help.

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:50 PM PST

The more specific, the better. Do you usually plan it to be a one-night stand?

Question: Has smartphones increased the virginity rate?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:41 PM PST

I have no idea what life would be like if I had to take my ****** eyes off the screen and face real people. I'm so used to getting constant feedback from people all over the world on the internet but in real life, I don't even make eye contact and I avoid talking to cute girls like the plague.

Question: I hugged my crush and........��?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:40 PM PST

I liked this boy since the beginning of the school year. He's never spoke to me and I never spoke to him before. He actually never knew I exist. I just keep staring at him because he was really dreamy. He as just so nice to look at. I thought about it, so I planned to hug him so there was this big bouche that was by the basketball court that was behind the school. I was hiding in there and I jumped out and ran towards him and hugged him. EW, WHAT THE ****? GET THE **** OFF OF ME! He shouted. He also shoved me a little against the fence. I feel really bad for what I did. He stares at me weird now. Was his reaction normal?

Question: How to ask a girl to be your valentine?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:38 PM PST

I am in college, and have a crush on this girl. She is not a complete stranger. We have been around one another a few times, she knows my name. We have mutual friends.I have given her a few compliments. I even asked if she would like to workout together sometimes. I would like to get her something for valentines day. How should I ask if im unsure if she is interested and she does not know I have a crush on her. Or should I just get her gifts without asking, as a surprise and give to our mutual friends. I rarely see her in person and don't have her number.

Question: Why do guys care if you like them or not?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:38 PM PST

Theres this guy i like and for some reason he thinks i hate him, i asked him out and he rejected me, and again he thinks i hate hime because I ignore him. Why do guys care about you liking them when they don't even like you?

Question: First date?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:38 PM PST

The guy I'm talking to wants to take me on a date but I made it clear I am only free during the day 9-5 weekdays since that's when I can get a babysitter, however he keeps pressuring me for date night. He wants be to bring my 2year old son with me, or come to my house to hang out. But I just thinks it's way too soon. We been talking for two month and never went on a date.

Question: What did his comment mean?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:33 PM PST

We have been exclusively dating each other. Now after 4 months, I asked guy if we are more serious. He said to not talk about the future and to live in the present. But, he also said he thinks marriage would be possible. He says we are becoming closer everyday and he wanted to make sure that I've told my parents about him. He also asked if I would stand by his side even if my parents object marriage. Why is he scared of the future then? His previous ex left him after a year.

Question: Anyone notice how attractive women are always with unattractive men and attractive men are with average women.?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:33 PM PST

Is it Because women don't care about looks as much

Question: How do I ask a girl out if I don't even know if she likes me? She's pretty far out of my league.?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:27 PM PST

I've been into this girl for a little while now, and I wanna ask her out. A few big problems though, and I would like help. Firstly, I don't even know if she would even consider going out with me. I'm not really an attractive person, and I'm probably ugly. She's kinda just more attractive than me in all ways, out of my league you might say. Secondly, I'm a Sophomore in High school and she is a Freshman (I'm just one year ahead of her for you Europeans). I hear that inst a big deal, but I'm not so sure. Thirdly, how do I ask her out and what do I do if she rejects me? What should I ask her for, should I ask for her number or just a full on date? And then comes the rejection, how should I react to her if she rejects me? What do I say when she says "Sorry, but I don't really want to" or something like that? Any and all help would be greatly appreciated.

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:14 PM PST

He makes a move on me and then ignores me?

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:08 PM PST

Just a little info about me: ● I'm an almost 30 year old man. ● I have dated a little, but have never had a serious girlfriend. ● I'd love to have one, but I know I'm probably one of the most stubborn men you'll ever meet. ● I have a hard time making decisions, I get that from my dad.● I was raised to believe that sex is more than just a mere physical exchange, that it is something that is supposed to be special, and shared with someone you truly do care about.● I want to eventually have a wife, and perhaps have children, although that isn't a necessity, but maybe I will feel differently about kids later down the line.I know you have to compromise on some things, but what should you compromise on and what should you not?That said, what are the most important qualities to adopt and implement to be relationship material?

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 05:05 PM PST

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Question: Am I wrong to be upset with my boyfriend?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 04:57 PM PST

It was my birthday. My sister suggested we go to Hooters because her best friend was bar tending and would give me cheap drinks considering. I turned 27 so the question really seems hilarious. Please don't judge. There was a specific waitress who I found gorgeous but apparently so did my boyfriend of 2 years. I know he looks at other women. Hell, I noticed her. But he was openly GAWKING at her for 2 hours until I made a joke about him staring at her and only her multiple times. I mean not just a glance at her breasts but at least 6 times that I noticed staring for more than half a minute. When I brought it up he laughed in my face and yelled at me. He said **** happens. Then it was no longer a joke. Then I was mad. Upset. Hurt. It was my birthday and he had barely spoken a word to me since we had gotten there. He was only speaking to his friend that had come with us and was keeping all eyes on her on MY birthday. Am I wrong for being upset about this? Like I said, I notice breasts, I don't mind him noticing. But openly staring at the same woman for such a long period, ignoring me on my birthday...trouble in paradise or paranoid?

Question: Embarrassing story. I need to get this off my chest :(?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 04:49 PM PST

So there was this girl, I used to like her so much, we met online. We used to chat for 7 months and then decided to meet each other. After our first date, she became cold and distant. I liked her so much but she didn't reciprocate, anyway, I insisted to see her and she agreed to meet me. On our 2nd date, everything went smooth, she held my hand, she truly liked me on our 2nd date. Then one of my friends called me and asked me if we could hang out later and I said " sure " then she heard the conversation on the phone and said " let's go meet him now " and said okay, we'll meet you in 20 minutes. I didn't realize he had his other friends with him, 2 more people with him, so when we met them, they started bullying me, making fun of my hair, saying jokes n stuff about it, and they wouldn't stop. I felt extremely embarrassed in that moment and every one of them, including the girl I liked, started laughing. It was the worst feeling I ever had. Then we separated, my face was all red and I showed signs of distress, then she laughed really hard but after seeing me sad she stopped laughing. That was the last time I saw her, she didn't want to date me anymore and pretty much avoided me.

Question: Why was this guy so angry when I met up with him?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 04:46 PM PST

So there was this guy from tinder that kept asking to meet up with me and I kept blowing him off with excuses for like a year and a half. He asked me if I wanted dick pics I said no thanks. I even had another guy I was seeing on my Snapchat story which he watched. He guilt tripped me into meeting him and when I was in a bad place I crumbled and agreed. When I went to hug him he had this really angry expression on his face and stood cold and stiff. He barely wanted to talk to me and when I was walking up the stairs I stopped for a few seconds and he angrily said "Come!" from the top. I look the exact same as my pictures (some guys even told me I look better in person), I've met up with 10 guys from dating apps before I met him and all of them asked to see me again so it's not like I don't look like my pics. I don't understand why he was so angry??

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 04:14 PM PST

My friend and I went to eat somewhere today. We were talking about when were grandmas and stuff because there was a group of old ladies there playing cards. I told her how my ex bf said he still was gonna wanna have sex with me even when I'm old and she was like "yeah it's cause you're gonna be boujie" I was like huh? Did she mean that he would only sleep with me because I'm gonna have money or something. I'm not ugly and I'm actually pretty and my ex bf used to basically think I was a goddess But what did my friend mean by this?

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Posted: 03 Feb 2020 04:11 PM PST

I've just found a few hrs ago pictures of my grandpa and grandma together when they were 17 and 16..They met in high school but grandma didn't want to date him. He then after high school enlisted in the Marines,was sent to Vietnam...once he came home he was surprised to see that she was still single,asked her out,got married. Grandpa became the general practiotioner of our small town in Alabama. They fought sometimes but you could tell they loved each other. Grandma died a year ago last week,4 days after their 50th wedding anniversary. I found that picture and is so sweet,they're so young in that pic... I think he was a lucky man to be able to share his whole life with the same girl. Me,on the other hand..27,always been single,the way things are going,I don't see a girl in my future. I wish I had some good girl. What do you think?

Question: Do I need to have exceptional social skills in order to keep a girl interested?

Posted: 03 Feb 2020 04:08 PM PST

Sorry for my English. Most girls that Ive talked to usually lose interest within the first 3 months. I only ever got my first real gf when I was 21 which lasted 10 months. She broke up with me 3 times and each time she wanted to get back so i guess I'm not that boring but I always feel pressured to entertain the girl that I'm dating. I'm not much of a talker but from time to time I might be extremely extroverted but for most days id rather keep it to myself. I overthink everything I say in fear that I wont come across as boring. I'm a lot better at talking in person but when it comes to texting I don't know if its just me but that's probably when I lose some of their interest. I don't know what kind of magical question with the perfect timing do I need to have in order to constantly keep their attention. I have so many hobbies and a lot of friends. In my head I seem like a fun with a foreign accent. But other times I feel like something might be wrong with me or that I wasn't meant to have a partner that will last forever or at least a decade. I've been called handsome a few times or 7/10 so I guess looks might not be a problem. I don't know if I need to have more money but I don't want to use materialistic things to attract someone. Im 23 btw

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