Or do they instead restrict themselves to minimum things after exploring and sharing all experiences with their exes as now they have many excuses to fool their husbands specially if the husbands are simple, modest and clueless of some women's fooling capacity?

I have this married couple next to me who are in their mid 50s. I'm 31. They're both fat so i do help them with heavy things like moving furniture. But the married man is completely creep. He knocks on my door when his wife is not there or if she on holiday with her daughter. He'd ask if I'd like to come in and watch a film with him :/. Who the hell says that? I declined and said no thanks. But he kept coming back knocking my door with any excuse to talk to me. But now he's whispering stuff to me as we go down in the lift to get out the main door. Saying thing's like "oh you're really hot" "you should come in when my wife is not there and have fun" etc. He is just being persistent and i can't even leave the door without feeling unsafe encase i see him. I feel disgusted and uncomfortable when he says creepy out of order things that he knows he's making me feel horrible and he thinks it's funny. He's looks like he got downs god dam. Nobody would even look at him he's that ugly. Sorry. Anyway i now hear good news that they're moving house. Thank God!!!!! My mental health has been on the edge with him annoying me for 2 years of them living there. They're not moving until 5weeks they say because of paperwork. How can i stop this guy upping his game because he will as he knows he won't have nothing to lose because they're moving anyway. I cant just tell his wife about harassment because i dont wanna make things worse with arguments and mental health declines even more. Thanks 

I'm 27 years old and my parents have been married for over 30 years. They're both in their 50s. They've been separated for 4 years now. My brother and I are both in our 20s and out of the house. Growing up, my parents had marital issues. My mom has been cheating and today, I found out that my dad has been cheating for years with another woman. This Friday is my birthday and my husband and I are traveling out of state. A month ago, I paid for my dad's ticket and hotel for my birthday. Since my dad admitted to his cheating today, I'm feeling reluctant to have him with us for my birthday. Both of my parents are wrong, so I'm not taking sides. Am I wrong for not wanting my dad to go? I love my parents. I have a close family, but I am struggling with this because our plane leaves on Friday. 

Sorry I get a lot of rude and smart remarks from the guys. Okay ladies maybe you can give me a legit answer to this. Has your husband or boyfriend suddenly gotten bigger down there? I've been with my girl for two years now, sex is great and a healthy relationship, A few months into our relationship she notice I was getting a lot larger, I wasn't taking any kind of pill or using devices on myself but my girth is nearly 8 inches or 2.5 inches wide. I'm a white male over 50, 5-8 tall and about 160lbs. I did see my doctor and she took a look and felt around and said there isn't anything wrong but couldn't answer why this happened. Is there any other clues why I got bigger?

I have a step son (age 3) and I've known him for 2 years. He usually is always sweet to me and gives me hugs bye, but lately he hasn't been. He still wants me to hold him and play with him, but lately he doesn't want to give me a hug bye. I still do anyway, but could this mean anything? Is it normal with kids? My step daughter is the same sometimes. She will have her moments. I know kids can be moody. But do you think there's any other reason why my stepson is like this? We have a great relationship. 

I have an unusual situation at hand. I am separated from my husband and in love with another man.  Now,  Before anyone gets judgey here's the story...  My husband and I got married for religious reasons and familial pressure. It only took us about a year into our marriage to realize that we didn't want to be together anymore. But, soon after we were married I found out I was pregnant...So we tried to work it out but it just wasn't working so we split up. We have both been emotionally and physically detached for a long time which made it easy to move on.  A few months ago, I met a guy out of the blue and we clicked instantly. We knew that trying to have a relationship would be difficult because I am still married and pregnant. But, the connection that we had was undeniable. I found myself falling in love with him. And, I really believe he loves me too. But... with how complicated things are, sharing these intimate details with our family was not a priority and it caused us to go out separate ways. Neither of us felt completely comfortable not knowing what to say.  Now, I am 4 weeks from my due date and once I have my baby I can be granted a divorce by the state of IN. Until all of this happens I feel that not contacting this new guy is out of the question. My question is, how do I go about rekindling things once all is settled? I have never heard of or even been in this situation before and I know it is strange. I would appreciate kindness and honest answers.  Thank you!

Sometimes when I kiss my husband, I feel like I'm not putting my lips right on his. It doesn't feel weird, but I think too hard about it. Does kissing come naturally and is it different for everyone?

The way that I see it is, what she doesn't know won't hurt her or matter. My favorite is when she does things like pack my lunch, oral, or cook my favorite meals without me asking. I guess I just like how she doesn't suspect a thing and thinks I'm her soul mate. I've been married to her for 10 years and have always cheated. Is it that bad, it's not like she knows, my buddies say I'm a piece of *#$@ and how it's disrespectful but im pretty sure it's fine. I'm pretty sure all guys cheat. Side not, I always accuse her of cheating/ sneaking around to cover my tracks. What's everyone's input? And are my buddies right? I think their a bit harsh. Thanks everyone!!!

Do you still doll yourself up for your man like you did in your spirited years? What did you rate yourself back then as opposed to now. Describe the outfit in detail without being nasty!  There are minors on this site! Keep it clean ladies!

I had a somewhat fling with a guy but it ended due to I just wasn't ready getting out of another relationship. Now we follow each other on social media and we watched each other's stories every posting. Keep in mind I never viewed his story until he viewed mine. Question is he posted him partying with females this past weekend and I saw it but didn't react. I posted a story the same day and he saw it but now he quit watching my videos. Not sure what happened but do guys do stuff like this? If not then that's fine I don't have to watch his stories neither but i don't know why he viewed my story after i saw his "partying" story. My picture was of my breakfast with the caption good morning lol maybe he'll view again but I'm just curious that's all.

I had a somewhat fling with a guy but it ended due to I just wasn't ready getting out of another relationship. Now we follow each other on social media and we watched each other's stories every posting. Keep in mind I never viewed his story until he viewed mine. Question is he posted him partying with females this past weekend and I saw it but didn't react. I posted a story the same day and he saw it but now he quit watching my videos. Not sure what happened but do guys do stuff like this? If not then that's fine I don't have to watch his stories neither but i don't know why he viewed my story after i saw his "partying" story. My picture was of my breakfast with the caption good morning lol maybe he'll view again but I'm just curious that's all.

on instagram i have an app that shows your stalkers and she always shows up as 1 of my top  3 stalkers, I made an instagram story and i can see she watched my story, she goes to my friend and says hey why did ______ make that story what was the point of it, anothere time we are all ata get together, and she tells my friend hey why does_____ not look intrested in so in so when hes talking to him.. than she tells my friend..please dont get all big and muscular like _____ i dont like that

I'm a 30 year old woman, been married for about 5 years. Before I was married I dated a woman, who's 2 years my junior, and I left her when I met my husband. Our marriage was very good, for a long time. Last year I ran into my ex-girlfriend, quite by accident, and well we ended up going out for a drink. As we sat and talked I began started having all these feelings about her again. We continued to meet up and visit for the next couple of weeks, and before I knew it we started sleeping together again. Its been going on for a while now, and she told me that she is still in love with me, and I have to admit I feel the same. I know it's wrong, because I'm married, but I cant help it. I feel I should talk to my husband but I have no idea what to say. Any suggestions?

We have been exclusively dating each other. Now after 4 months, I asked guy if we are more serious. He said to not talk about the future and to live in the present. But, he also said he thinks marriage would be possible. He says we are becoming closer everyday and he wanted to make sure that I've told my parents about him. Why is he scared of the future then? His previous ex left him after a year.

Sometimes when I kiss my husband, I feel like I'm not putting my lips right on his. It doesn't feel weird, but I think too hard about it. Does kissing come naturally and is it different for everyone?

Bold, adventurous, spirited, and intelligent women, you are a disappointment.  You need to dig deeper into your creative well of past experiences. You all's answers and questions putting me to sleep today! I hate to be that guy to tell you.....but man you're boring. Let's mix it up a bit for the sake of marriage and divorce board! Who's with me? *CRICKETS* I thought we wuz friends ladies!  Why you gotta leave me hangin like that? We wuz kangs!

I'm a US citizen living in Michigan. My wife, a Chinese citizen, abandoned our marriage and went back to China, a year ago.   Now I want to look into divorce. What is the quickest and easiest way to divorce？ Possible option: Somebody told me if I have the marriage license certified so that the Chinese government recognize it, I can go to China and then file divorce there. Then I will have to notarized the divorce paper in American Ambassador so that American government recognize it. I can then use the notarized divorce paper to change my marital status back to single when I come back to the states.   (Maybe show that to county clerk?) Does this option really work? But this option requires me to go to China (it's a long flight), and deal with their government. Possible option 2: Can I divorce her without going to China. Can I file divorce based on the fact she abandoned the marriage?

My husband and I purchased a townhome 2 years ago. It has been an issue since we moved in and it's progressively getting worse.  When we moved in the neighbor complained my car was too red. Then, they complained my little garden flag was too close to the curb. Then they tried to say our dogs were pooping in the yard and we weren't picking it up. We had a video on a camera of another individual in the neighborhoods dog pooping in our yard. We showed it to the HOA we got fined 50.00 and I was told I was still responsible because it was our yard. Then I got into almost a fiat fight with our 60 year old neighbor. We put our trash out on trash day and were leaving for vacation that evening. Our neighbors told us they'd bring it in. They forgot. We were fined another 50.00. Our neighbor came out SCREAMING at me threatening to kick my a*s because we didn't bring our trash in and it sat there for 5 days while we were away on vacation. We have another neighbor who watches everything everyone dies. She watches exactly what time I leave for work exactly what time I cone back from work. She will make comments like oh I saw your husband was 8 minutes late today leaving for work. It's so creepy I can't take it anymore. Yesterday the guy across the street tried to poison our 2 dogs.  I'm terrified I'm going to snap at someone in this neighborhood and end up in jail I really am. I don't talk to, or bother, or ANYTHING. We can't afford to move. I'm scared I'm going to end up in jail! 

I'm not old yet and don't want to get there anytime soon.  I couldn't imagine getting my freak on with a wrinkled up old prune.  I told the wife once we cross that line, all sexy time is OVER.  I don't even care that tinder granny out there still doing it.....(be nice Xavier!) Oh yeah so back to my question...I was reading that if you restrict your diet (less calories) and expose yourself to either extreme heat or extreme cold, you can reverse almost 20 years!  Then it'll be back like your adventurous and brave single years again! See, don't ever say Xavier never help you ladies!

This is in reference to extremely promiscuous modern women.  I want to express my admiration for their brave and adventurous lifestyle but I'm afraid I'm coming off as offensive. Ladies, can you give some ideas? This is so I can get legit advice without sounding judgmental when addressing the ladies for help in the marriage bedroom. I have off the top of my head the following: 1) modern 2) experienced 3) adventurous 4) brave 5) bold  Ladies, has marriage sapped for creativity this much? Recall your single days! I need some more euphemisms!

My husband cut off his parents two years ago. We had had almost no contact since then. They were manipulative, controlling people. I had a son last year, and my husband passed away in a car accident 2 months ago. Now my estranged in-laws who have never met my son want, at very least, joint custody of him. Can they do this? What are the chances of them doing succeeding? Please help, I am so so worried, my husband and I did not want them involved in our children's lives at all. Please help Is there any way to prevent them from getting visitation rights? I live in Louisiana. 

We already ruined one of her kinky outfits last night after sexy time.  Where do you recommend to pick up a better quality intimates that can take the rough sex? My woman doesn't know about these things because unlike most women, she didn't live the extremely promiscuous life before marriage so she needs help from you experienced ladies. No judging here!  I admire your bravery for living adventurous before marriage.

My girlfriend of 3 years have lived with me for 2 years now contributes hardly anything! Maybe $200 a month. I had my own place she didn't I asked her to move in. She told me she had financial problems but I didn't know how bad. She works but dont make a lot. She quit 5 jobs in the last 2 years looking for better income. And now she has a wage garnishment. She don't ask me for money and she does buy food for the house. I do love her. She is a good person and good mother. We are both 37! I'm struggling with my bills and she told me she knows she can't help and she says she moving in a month. I don't want her to move but what can I say it's been 2 years and she contributes very little.  I posted in this section (marriage) cause I'm singles I got kids answering I need adult advice 

It appears the entire culture is rubbing the promiscuous lifestyle in your face in an attempt to shame or make married folks feel inadequate. They throw out these average body counts stats so you feel like your missing out if you don't meet or exceed these numbers.  Also making women feel inadequate if they haven't had a vast amount of previous lovers. Ladies, why does it have to be this way?  How did you let yourself be brainwashed into believing wh0redom is the right way to live before marriage? Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking down or judging people who live this way.  In fact, I'd like to partake as well in my moment of weakness.  But something is telling me it's wrong to take advantage of women this way.  I am terribly conflicted. How do I suppress my conscience?

2019 was a bad year. My wife and I got ourselves into a lifestyle that was WAY over our head and a lot of bad things happened to our family. My dog (she turned 10 human years old in November) was tormented by a new puppy we bought in 2019 and ended up dying at the end of January this year due to complications of stress, diet, disease, and anxiety (the vets were pretty useless to diagnose her with her underlying issues). We also tried to foster a new child and ended up having to give him back to the foster system because he brought drugs and chaos into our home. And finally my autistic son pushed me so far out of his life that the only way back is for me to turn into a different father. My marriage was already suffering prior to all this because my wife wanted to be a woman of duty to her family not to her institutional obligations as my wife. But after all this crap that happened to us, I think she's open to doing a LOT differently. I just don't know what to do. Marriage counseling only works if we both agree on an ideology (I'm a traditionalist and she's a feminist, so right now one of us has to change for it to work), and I don't know how to approach that so we can find the right counselor for us. We also are quite a bit overweight (eating was our coping strategy to stress/chaos/depression/anxiety) so hitting the gym sounds great but who will be home to watch the kids and the puppy? All I need is one small step to move forward, I just don't know what it should be.

And now he will be tested in bed by her as its a natuaral thing to compare past similar experiences with the present ones?

Hello good morning, I want to know if I did the right thing. So me and this guy were dating back in September and I end it in January after New Years. He's 14 years older I'm 31, he has 3 kids, 1 from his previous wife who passed away and his daughter is my age, the other 2 kids is from his recent wife who passed away as well, a girl and boy, they both in their 20's.  I'm finishing up college and work as a security guard and he's a chef, I'm not sure if those two fit  together, lol, but he seem to have a pattern, his recent previous wife who passed away, went to the same college I'm attending now and was working with the cops or was one, I forgot, and things happen like she cheated with a detective and he said she ate herself to death and gotten to  over weight and she was pregnant and it wasn't even his, he told me he choked her and yet were fighting when he found out she cheated, anyways, after that, he went on and dated and I'm guessing nothing worked out because he came to me, before me was a younger girl he dated and she's in her 20's and she was a cop and that didn't work out. He told me about his past and life growing up which was bad, and no good parents who destroyed their life's and passed away, his mom died in front of him. Now the issue with me and him. He keeps picking faults and then say it's to help me grow but that's not helping me. And say I'm not ready yet because he got me a ring and we were engaged, he bought me things but I was so caught up with school.  I was caught up with school I didn't mean to ignore like he said I was doing because I didn't think to buy him things in the beginning and I was just now doing it, then say I can cold and selfish but I swear I didn't mean anything and I was never purposely doing it on purpose I just put my school before him and I was always in college before I met him and we loved each other as well, so one day he just text me and still bringing stuff up and I had enough about it so I needed to end it. Was it ok

So they can collect alimony and child support in addition to taking half of the man's belongings and money.

First things first - I love my wife.  When we got married 3 years ago she was drop dead gorgeous and had a fantastic figure. She looked great in a little dress or in tight jeans. A real head turner.  I can't help but feel that she's stopped making an effort now. Since she's been on maternity leave with our second child she's gone up a dress size and doesn't have that fantastic figure that I fell in love with.  I don't want to come across as mean, but what's the best way to tell her she needs to get back in shape for the good of her health?