What could possibly be the reason? I've already told him I'm not interested in him...

We have been divorced over three years. He left me. I noticed his wedding band sitting on his desk one day when I was dropping off the kids. Then another time it was on his end table and today it was on his TV stand. Does it mean something that he keeps it? It's not just something he took off and threw on his desk to be forgotten about, since it is always in a new spot when I go over there. I wonder why he wouldn't just throw it out, since he didn't love me anymore.

Just curious? I thought I had a strong connection with my ex. He's 29, so when we broke up, he was "pressured" into getting married (especially where we live it's normal to get married by 22). He recently got married to "his friend" after dating her for a year. Is it fake? Or real? Would you be able to get married to anyone if you felt pressured?

Im so angry the way she talked to me was so bad, i really dont want to see her, i talked to her as ny mother, bow i dont want to see her again

Me & my boyfriend have a 6 year old together. We've been living together 7 years - not married. As our culture/background my bf believes I should do pretty much of everything being a women. Back in the day women of our culture would cook, clean, have 4 kids and of course take care of their family because that was their full time job now a days we live in a world where both of us have full time jobs yet I get home from work expected to cook, clean, shower our child, wash, look after our dog, massage him, feed him every 2 hours & he wonders why I get so tired and end up cranky and upset. He won't even take out the garbage from our restroom and I am very frustrated at this point. Feels like major responsibilities fall on my shoulders. We go 50/50 on bills financially that is one thing that finally is settled, but as for Evertythibg else he believes it is my responsibility to do everything else in household. He has no household duties and that bothers me so much. What do you guys recommend I do?

1) he is not being threatening 2) I caught him in an emotional affair with an ex (I love you, sexting, etc.) 3) he promised to quit talking to her, but he LIED. He told ME that he'd NEVER leave me for her and that he doesn't know how he would've survived without me! I ALMOST fell for it, until I found NEW messages.. 4) Told her that he's a grown man and NOT gonna stop talking to her, but will delete their texts. But that he's going to text her in front of me, so to plan on that. (uh HUH!) Went on to say a pack of LIES about me. Like that I told him to pack up his stuff and leave!! He said he wanted to know what's in HER head. So, as you see, I want to kick the jerk out, without drama to my mama. Any suggestions?

does the increased privacy provided by your own room and bed make living in the same house with your spouse more tolerable?

All my boyfriends they want sex but not marriage. That was fine like 8 years ago, but now i'm ready to settle down an start a family, but none of them want to. I even looked up a guy from high school, but he's already married with kids and he won't leave his wife. (he had the hots for me back then, but now he's not even interested at all) I had a few unplanned pregnancies in my early 20s. An terminated them cause i wasnt ready for that, but now i am ready, but men are like "I don't like kids" as soon as i bring it up. This sucks. How to change a mans mind on the issue?

why should the amount of money you make and the rank you have at your job be used as a marker to determine how much youre worth and who is willing to impregnate you. when i was unemployed no man was willing to impregnate me or mske me theirs but now i have a job its like i get respect even though i shouldve been getting respect before then based on my good looks. i wish good looks were what determined a womans readiness to be a mother. based on looks alone should dictate if she is worthy of marriage and prgnancy at a early age

My wife is a teacher and she is doing private classes for students at my home. This new student she is teaching is 19 years old and he was doing really good. One day I saw a message sent by this student to my wife. "You have nice legs..Skirts and blouses look nice for you". I didnt take it as serious. But recently, my sister told me that she saw that student keeping hand on my wifes thigh. But however, my wife has pushed his hand away. Is this an act of flirting?

What do you think To delete your ex from social media if he decided to be with someone else? Show emocional inestability? Any change to get back if we delete it?

I feel show much shame.

Don't say you cna tfind love st 15 I've been with him since I was 13 and I love him I know that

Remember we're real women too.

My husbands reasons are because my new brother in law is bad with finances and is shady with his business and he has been caught lying about things. Recently my parents were not talking to my brother in law either because when he was dating my sister, they didn't follow curfew, my parents confronted them about it so my sister decided to move out and got married to him. But my parents have made peace with them now and are good. Anyways, besides the fact that my husband doesn't like him because he says he's an untrustworthy person, now he wants me to avoid him at family events. We have little children and they all like my sisters husband a lot but my husband has prohibited me from allowing our children to see him. Husband wants me to leave places if brother in law is there. My sister brought donuts for my kids and I with her husband recently and my husband found out and flipped because he was not home and said he is not allowed at our house. He messaged my brother in law not to come around our children again or he would file a restraining order. My husband is a great father and husband but this is hurting me because I can't be at family events anymore where brother in law is at without my husband saying he feels disrespected because I'm not respecting that he doesn't want our kids around my brother in law. He thinks that my sisters husband will be a bad influence and bad role model eventually to our kids. He wants me to leave family gatherings if brother in law is there.

I have 3 young kids. Since I have major responsibilities I'm stressed about my job and what if I lose it. If we go over budget I stress. We have a mortgage, car loans, student debt and my kids go to catholic school for now. No credit card debt at least. I want to learn how to not think about this when I wake up everyday. It's gives me anxiety and I hate it. Maybe it's a normal feeling? Thoughts?

For men, marriage is for suckers. At 41 I will be able to retire. I bang young beautiful women all the time. Why would I throw that all away for some ugly aging wife and a few rotten kids

I've been married for 15 years now. Like most other guys at this point like me, I am in my mid 40s and not attracted to my wife anymore because it's the same thing every time. Us men aren't meant to eat at the same restaurant every day for the rest of our lives. Why doesn't anyone tell us when we are young that its not in the best interest for men to get married finance wise and fun wise

My husband has this thing where he doesn't care to ask me about my day at work and he doesn't want me to ask him about his. When I do ask him he'll say something like "it was the same ole same ole" and keep moving. He never asks me about mine because he said he leaves work at work. He doesn't want to think about his job when he's home. We got into an argument because I want to talk about my day and he said that I shouldn't have to be asked to talk about my day. If I want to talk about it just talk about it. He said that a lot of the time I'll have something to say then get mad because he won't ask me how my day was. I wanted to tell him yesterday that my schedule was changing and I'll be getting home like an hour earlier each night. When I told him that he looked at me and asked, "so how does this affect me?" My husband doesn't get home until around 6:30 anyway so I'll still be home when he gets here. He feels that I could have sent him an email when I found that out but bottom line, he could have asked me about my day. He'll be 50 in a few weeks and just doesn't get that women like communication. He said that he's been this way since we met some 16 years ago and I knew this from the onset so why am I now wanting to change the script? He said he could ask me about my day but would I really want him to ask just out of formality and not care about what I'm saying OR if something happened in my day I wanted to talk about how about I just start talking without having to be asked. Doesn't he understand that women like communication and being asked these things. It shows they care.

I married pretty early at age 22 and my wife is 24 i was hoping that she would be more mature and could handle situations a lot better but I'm at wits end. My parents say that my wife doesn't respect them. And i saw this myself when she first met them, didn't say hello or anything. But at the same time I'm trying to be understanding and think maybe she is shy. Where the problem lies is that we live with them because I'm not in a financially stable yet and she knew that when we married, my parents are okay with us living with them for free cause they know im in school and they want to support me. But my wife doesn't understand that it's a privilege to be free of rent and all other problems. Now we're constantly arguing because shes demanding that my parents change and won't stop antagonizing my mom because me and my mom are close i grew up not seeing my mom as a friend not my mom. Because she shows more affection and care for me my wife can't stand it. I've tried to talk to my wife but she wont budge all i get are insults at my family or her saying who wants this…. I just wish my wife was more understanding and stop giving me hell and knew the definition of respect… all i can say is she went as far as to say me and my mom were having a sexual relationship which is nuts….

Say you know an adult who is completely justified in being extremely frustrated/angry at a circumstance, is in the privacy of their own home with, say, only their spouse in another room, and they have a disorder that makes them prone to feeling more anger/frustration than some. At what point would you say they need to stop the way they are expressing their anger, regardless of the circumstances or whether anyone else is in the room and observes them? For example: Shouting, shouting for more than a couple seconds, shouting for more than a minute, banging fists on furniture, slamming doors, throwing something without damage, damaging something that they fix, breaking something irreparably, harming someone... etc. I want my spouse to feel comfortable in our house and with me. We personally do not mind swear words. We do not have children. He has ADHD and is taking new medication and has sensitive hearing and migraines. However, his responses to frustration have escalated recently, and I want to nip it in the bud. I want to have a specific point that I can tell him, "You need to stop. I know this isn't right and is very frustrating, but this is not ever appropriate to do." Unfortunately, I've been around people that were violently angry, so my frame of reference is only so great. Opinions?