I was at the school library working on my assignment when this guy sitting next to me asked, "are you single or married?". I was like "eh I don't know"...and for sure I also said, "sorry I have to work on my essay". Few minutes later, he said "can I have your contact so maybe we can talk about it later?". He also said something about looking for a partner. To his question I replied "sorry, I don't have time to date"...and also added, "it's not you". He said he understands. Few minutes later, he then said, "sorry to bother"..."it doesn't mean you are not modest because I am modest". What just happened? I've never been approached by any guy in the past. Did I look easy? Why did he also said he's modest?

So the other day I was shopping in Walmart. I grabbed the items I needed and headed to the self checkout as I always do. As I finished I walked past this girl sitting on the bench and walked out the door. I didn't think much of the girl at the time. I walked across the Walmart parking lot to the Mc Donalds to get something eat. I was sitting down eating my food. When I saw the girl that was sitting on the bench with a tray of food in hand. She was about to sit at the table right next to me, but I gave her a weird look. The only reason I looked at her that way is because I just saw her and I thought she followed me but I cant confirm that. There were plenty of other tables to sit at. So I don't see why she chose the one right next me. I am wondering if she followed me of if it was just a concidence...?

What emotions do you feel?

A female coworker texted and said we need to have a serious talk. She won t tell me now and said I ll tell you tomorrow. I asked everything ok said said yeah I ll tell you tomorrow I said your off and she said I ll be there tomorrow and I ll tell you. Its got me all wondering what it can be and why its waiting tomorrow. Any ideas?

I wouldn t have a problem with it if it was random girls, but it s girls he used to "talk to". And he s constantly comparing me to past girls. I asked him to delete all the pictures and he says stuff like "it takes too much time" and "I need some just in case I need to use it against them" bs and immaturity. He asked me to delete them myself. But he wants to keep some. It s just making me super insecure about myself.

is it because you're gay. that must be the only reason I don't understand how one would WANT to be just friends with a girl. You have a whole gender to be just friends with, Guys! So why bother with girls if it isn't for sex?

My ex and I were together for 2 and a half years and the 2nd year we were on and off. Finally in October was when it was enough, he meet someone new and I left cause I was going to stick around or be back up. We have been split up for a couple months now and We didn't end on the best terms and I cut him off cold turkey and blocked him Off social networks and phone. We do have mutual friends but hadn't ran into each other into recently. The first get together that I had seen him he came up to me and said hello and extend his arms out for a hug. I completely ignored him and didn't acknowledge him and he went as far as grabbing a chair and sitting next to me and glancing at me through the night. another encounter we had was at a friends house when I walked in and he made the stupid comment "who is that baddie?" And began to laugh. I completely ignored him again. I'm trying not to read too much into it but why is he trying to act like if nothing happened? And why is he trying to provoke me or get attention?

For pass 3 months I've been having a sexual on and off again thing with a coworker/friend. We both agreed it was for fun.. lately he's been comparing me to other women claiming no other girl can have sex the way I do. Before that we didn't have sex for 3 weeks. Afterwards he told me about the girl he liked. He said that he doesn't like her because she wants him to change before they started dating.. Although he kept talking about her and why he thinks dating her is mistake. I got the feeling that he is most likely going to. Couple days later we all had a party.. there was this guy that showed interest in me so I said yes to his offer of dancing. Before I could even reach the dance floor my friend came and grabbed me away from him. The guy got scared off. Another guy came to us as we were all leaving to ask for my number and my friend started swearing at him saying to go away because he's not in the mood. I asked him about both incidents he said that I seemed pretty drunk and he wanted to make sure I was ok. The second incident there was a fight he was in so he said he was already pissed off from that previous fight..since that night he hasn't been on any of his social media's or even replied to anyone's Happy New Years. Do you think it could be because of the girl? One of her request before they started dating was for him to not use his phone so often, she also didn't like the fact that his best friends are women and that he drinks.

i've never been good at touching people (altho i'm a girl and i know generally they're good at that.) i want to "accidentally" touch someone but i don't know how to go about doing it, as i have 0 experience doing it and the only times i have were truly an accident lol. i dont mean in a sexual way i just mean in a casual way

If you try to be direct she'll think you're rude and if you are subtle she won't take the hint. How does a gentleman ask to get laid, or is he supposed to pretend like he isn't human and doesn't occasionally want sex? Ladies, how do you find balance between being a prude and being a slut? Is it a man's responsibility to get a woman in the mood or a woman's responsibility to get a man in the mood?

Alright, when I was little, I was weak, apologetic, and desperately needing the attention of girls, even before I knew the concept of sex, I just felt like I needed to have a relationship with them. Many years later (now 16), I've fully immersed myself in Libertarian, Red Pill, self-improvement ideas. One of them is not caring about what women think of you. I can logically understand why I don't need women to be happy, and quite honestly, I don't even know if I want to anymore, after flirting over text (I don't know why that caused me to be apathetic) but I feel I need female attention to be sane. It's not that I want it, I just feel that my value is directly tied to the women that like me, regardless of any logic proving opposite that. I just want to be happy now, I don't want to need girls anymore. Almost like amnesia, like I want to forget about caring about them entirely.

He literally spends half the day playing video games and ignores me. I wish he would just talk to me all the time and do nothing else but that. Is that too hard to ask?

And MOST women tell him he's "UGLY AS F*CK", but some like him, but only as friends, maybe best friends, but don't desire him in a romantic/sexual way. So it's either he's hated by women, or seen as "just friends". Does it mean the guy is lacking or not showing testosterone or something? Or the guy is being too nice? I can not in good conscious act like an ******, I was raised to treat women with respect. I don't even hold doors open for women because I'm afraid they'll see me as a beta male nice guy, but don't want to seem like a sh*tty person, so I just enter the door first and hold the door open with one hand behind me. If she says thank you I just kind of nod and look forward as I continue walking. I was once called a gentleman by a somewhat older woman (who was with a guy) and it upset me because women find it emasculate for a guy to hold the door open for a woman, in extreme cases, they actually get mad and blow up on him (those are the feminazis). My parents and grandparents are stupid and say "You're not going to get a girlfriend if you're not a gentleman, hold doors and don't curse." But doing these polite things are exactly what make women think a guy is beta and romantically and sexually undesirable. And of course, a guy has to make a lot of money, especially if he's physically unattractive. I have factual reason to believe I'll never have a girlfriend or sex (without paying for it, but you can't buy love too). I don't believe in anything without proof, because that's just illogical. If I can see something with my eyes, it's real, because there's physical evidence proving it's existence. If something has never happened to me (especially at my age, 23) then it just isn't a part of reality for me, there is no real reason to believe it will ever happen, because it never has before, and most people date and have sex long before they're even 18. I'm 23 and no girl has ever even wanted to be anything more than friends with me, if even that. Since friendship is a positive thing, and women don't want to date or have sex with guys who they're friends with, it make me think that relationships and sex are disgusting, toxic things, Romance? Making love? Wtf even is that? If she likes you too much, you're just friends, if she doesn't like you enough, she dislikes or hates you. So I guess she has to like you somewhat but not too much? Which is honestly disgusting and makes relationships, romance, and sex sound evil and toxic and immoral.

I was born in Oct 1998, and my little sister in Jan 2001. We're not related at all, were both adopted and she's Mexican while I am Persian. Whenever we're horny/drunk we have sex, passionate sex, for hours on end. No one knows about this and we don't want to date/get married because that would be weird. Is this weird??

Your opinions?

So basically, the story is there's a girl I got the hots for, so I got to know her a bit better, but when I asked her out a few months ago, the answer was no (more like a "not yet" than a "definitely not" So I didn't press the issue anymore. But not too long ago, i started getting signs that she wasn't into me, so I kinda got the message. So I've tried to get her out of my mind these past few days by going to the gym, surrounding myself with other friends and catching up on literature, just doing things to take my mind off of the whole situation, but no matter what I do, it seems like I can't stop thinking about it and getting down on myself. What can I do?

Once I was playing a video game with my boyfriend, and we were randomly paired with a girl and we all became hype.. and then he was telling her to take a car in the video game, and he said "take it baby." It worried me that he called her babe but he told me he was just hyped and it was an expression. Now it worries whether he still calls other people babe/baby when he's hyped? And if he does, is it a bad thing???

Sounds weird but basically she's been hanging round with this evil evil girl like I mean bully and I've told her so many times to stop hanging round with her and she just says "I know she loves me deep down" but when her friend joe told her she straight away said she was stopping seeing them, why do I feel **** about this and should I do anything about it

He's a single dad of two. I'm unsure if he's serious or playing me. He always say sweet words to me asking me out. But kindda confused why he keeps on telling me how he hates his mate gf and telling me that's why he doesn't like to get into relationship but still he says im special he thinks about me he loves me?

My boyfriend told me to " set a date" & her show up. I'm scared to do this. 20 years ago we were engaged & broke up, so there are issues. We live apart but we are 45 so I do want to get married before I croak! Two weeks ago i messaged him that I'm setting a date which he ignored. He does have M.S., Anxiety & health problems. Should I go for it & be like, " be there June 3rd"?! What would you do?

He said "i don't mind doing something other than that but I'm just not looking for anything more" when I asked what he was looking for on a dating app. We've been out 3 times and kissed the last time but that was it. We text from time to time and snap chat everyday. What do you think he meant by I don't mind doubt something other than that? Like going out on dates still?

None of them seem very nice

I think it's okay as long as they both consent both answers were awful, but I needed 3 points

I met this guy in one of my classes at university about two and a half years ago and I liked him almost straight away. It started off as just a crush, but then I became friends with one of his friends and became part of their friendship group. That was when we really got to know each other and I developed proper feelings for him. Although I don't know if he "liked" me per se he was quite flirty towards me. But here's the catch, up until the last two months of university, he had a girlfriend, so obviously nothing could happen. After they broke up up he became even more flirty towards me (calling me pretty, being very touchy, jokingly teasing me, etc), but he started hooking up with this other girl. Then not long after our final exams he moved back to his country (he was an international student) and I haven't seen him since. I miss him so much, but I know that we have no future now seeing as he lives in another country, plus I don't even know if he likes me in that way, so I've tried to get over him, but I just can't. I like him so much, more than I've ever liked anyone, and my feelings haven't subsided at all even though it's been over half a year since I last saw him. I've tried talking to other guys, but I feel nothing towards them. I can't imagine myself ever liking anyone else, let alone liking someone as much I like him. But I'm sick of feeling this way. So my question is, do you have any advice on how I can finally get over him?

I have a good friend that I talk to about deep stuff and she hasn't replied in months to me. She has left me on open for months and when she finally does reply she says: I don't get notifications. I am really close to her and there is another guy that is close to her also and I feel that he is her favorite and he is trying to turn her against me. He wants to break our connection and she is talking to him a lot more than me. I was told by him that she texts him daily and he can higher up whenever. But she is drifting away from me and I feel like she is fake Should I cut her off?

So I've tried on some ladies underwear and I really liked it. They just seem to be more comfortable if you wear certain types. Any thoughts on what might fit best? Also if you or a guy you know does this what do you prefer?

She was anything I could ask for, but I personally wasn't ready for it. I struggled with terrible depression at a young age, and it took a long way for me to become a different person today. I still experience some moments where I just feel numb and sad. There are time I asked myself, if life even worth living? All I know is, insode of me, I am still not happy. With all this madness, I didn't want this beautiful woman to go through it, so I told her to find someone better than me. I still have feelings for her, and I definitely regret telling her to leave, but the past is the past. Ain't much I can change, but guilts and regrets.

I'm not so worried about looking like a coward. Just want this to be as soft a landing as possible.

my boyfriend calls me all kinds of names when we fight and he never admits to when he is wrong. He is trying to force me to live with him and I just don't want to. He wants me to be his built in babysitter and babysit his kiddo 5-6 days a week. He claims if we live together that his child is my responsibility. I told him no this is not the case. Trust me I don't mind helping out a couple times to a few times a week, but I do not want to be the built in care giver

We text and talk for hours on end. We talk and text about tv shows about love about sex and about life. We laugh and it seems kind of intimate. However she has a boyfriend so I am very confused. I think she is sending me signals. What do you guys think????

Maybe 'potentialism'?

He's giving me a week to decide what to do

I broke up with her via text a few months earlier.

is it a cultural thing? I see a lot of teenage white girls that go crazy about riding horses and sh.it I don't see this obsession with black, hispanic, or asian girls. they think horses are silly and for country bumpkins could also be environment, maybe those girls grew up in farms or small towns with horses?

I (18f) don't have a lot of relationship experience or reg relationships in general so I don't really know what's "common" to other ppl or expected. The relationships I have been in, I've always made it clear when the topic of sex comes up that I'm abstinent and that I'm fine with anything except sex because I'm saving myself for marriage. Guys always say, "cool" and seem to respect that but will complain and call me a tease further in the relationship? Am I doing something wrong that I should avoid in the future? Ex. bf asks for a nude, i send a pic (not showing face for safety ofc) and then when i don't sleep with him he calls me a tease and wants to break up. Or I'll be making out with a then bf, and we'll grind or dry hump and over time he calls me a tease and get mad at me bc i don't want to have sex. What am I doing wrong? i thought being clear from the beginning would prevent issues

How can I know if a guy is interested in me personally or because I'm an easier person to get with because I'm clearly attracted to him? We met on a dating app where you match solely on your looks and a brief description which is optional. We talked for about a month then went out, second time we went out it was only for about 45 mins tops and he drove about 30 mins to get there. Before the 3rd time we went out, he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship and i told him I respected the fact he let me know!! He's SO HOT so I'm down for something casual with him, but the 3rd outing we got drinks and before hand he asked if I would come over after and I said yeah! But after the drinks i felt like he asked me awkwardly so I declined the offer!! I even gave him a couple other chances to ask me and he asked awkwardly. I think he's genuinely a nice guy but I want to know if he finds me attractive and that's why he's taken me out a few times or if I'm just a girl that's potentially willing to hook up?? He's told me I was cute once on snap chat and has called me sexy a couple of times.

I'm an okay looking guy (I'm not a model by any means) but I been told by ex girlfriends and other girls that I'm cute and really nice but yet I fill out my profile nicely I do everything the internet tells me to, to get more matches and it doesn't seem very high. Keep in mind I only live in a city with 60,000 people but there are towns an hour away where I live with easily over 100,000. I also state in my profile my height which is 6 ft which I think that would help me. Any advice? PS- I get like maybe two a week and most of those girls don't respond to me. OR they match me and then unmatch me...

Idk if this happens to everyone and I seriously don't get it especially when I'm not replying lol. This random guy who I don't know commented twice on my picture and said "Hi. You're very beautiful" then messaged me twice last night "Hi" and "I like you" then just messaged me again and said "Hi" Like wtf? Idk if I should say something back or just ignore him , like you don't know me ...? Ok then

I am an italian male who is going to be taking a woman out on a date (details in the question) but I do not know where to take her. She said she loves eating out and she eats out with her friends all the time, but I don't know what restaurants would be good because most of the restaurants I go to are italian and she said she isn't a fan of italian food. Any ideas?

This guy has a crush on me and I kind of like him. But I'm not hundred percent over another guy who I talked to and really liked and he liked me. It didn't work outbut we are still friends and I can't compleyely get over him. How do I move on so that I can possibly talk to the other guy (we are all 17 and in classes together and it's weird and we are all friends)