My wife cried when we made love. Why did she cry ? How can I comfort her ?

I want to claw this girl's eyes out. This girl is 21 and she works with my friend, a married (almost) 39 year old man. He's sexy, in a nerdy way. He doesn't have too many flaws. He's not model attractive, but he's sexy if you're into nerdy, blue eyed Christian guys. She just started working with him and added him on Facebook. Fine. She "likes" almost ALL of his Facebook posts. Now, I do the same thing, but I know why I do it...it's because I've secretly been in love with him for almost 2 years. However, I know his wife and kids and they love me and I love them and I respect his wife and his marriage and family. His wife knows I'm harmless. Does this little 21 year old secretly want him? She posted a status about wanting a sugar daddy, which he makes good money. I know he'd never cheat on his wife, though, because I know if he did cheat, it'd be with me and nobody else. He's a good guy who has good morals and loves his wife and would never cheat. Anyways, does this little girl want him and if so, should I cuss her out? Okay I'm a little drunk while writing this, but still. Kai, it IS my business because if it were up to his wife, I would be the only other woman who gets claim on him!!!!!!! Me and his wife are buddies and she looks like an older version of me and I know if she had to choose who'd get to have an affair with him, she'd choose me! Oh, I have a boyfriend, I'm just territorial over this guy! By the way charles, like I said, very drunk LOL! Just entertain me, okay?

How long did you date before getting engaged? What about married? Do you wish you had waited longer/shorter, or was it just right for you two?

I personally have no desire for marriage... Every marriage I've been to just looks like a waste of money to me.. I just think, "wow, all this money could have gone toward a house.." But a few years ago there was a song that we were listening to that I drunkenly said would be our wedding song, and ever since then she's been wanting to get married... I see us growing old together, but I just don't have the same desire to marry..... We currently live together. What can I do to want to be married, since I do want to spend the rest of my life with her? One of my problems is we barely make enough to get by, so I'm not optimistic or happy in general.

I'm 31 and own my own house. He's 32 and is wanting to buy a house and me move in. I don't want to sell my house unless I'm married and thought that I could just rent it out. He thinks a couple should live together before marriage and I am torn. I have grown up with parents who have told me you shouldn't do that. I'm afraid if I live with him what if he never wants to get married? He says he wants to eventually but you don't truly know someone until you live together. Help!

I've heard that they can be aggressive? My dad is Bulgarian but I never got to meet him, he had a wife and kids and he had came to the UK for work and met my mum and got her pregnant, she told me he was abusive and controlling but when he went back to his family in Bulgaria he never told them about me and that he was kind and loving with them

My father has created a google account with my name and has the code and the username and claims that i send him an abusive message by saying that i want to kill him and his wife. My father told me and he showed the mail who i sended to him and to his wife ! I never sended him , i dont know the mail of his wife. The mail he send to his self and to her wife. he have the password and the username. He claim i send him abusive mail like i write him i will kill his wife. He have the username and the password and he send this abusive mail to his self and to his wife. My lawyer asked me 800 euro for pay the electronic that she would recommend me for delete the email.

My hubby and an old sex partner not girlfriend from."91" have been chatting on social media back n forth since 09 We been married since 2011. He has had sex with her only once in 2014. Since his mom died he doesn't go back home which is in another state. They message each other all the time then stop.Now he wants pics of her vagina to get off. Yes I saw a message.i know it's all entertainment he dont like her.

We have been married for ten years and she just cannot orgasm during sex. It plays on my mind because everyone talks about their man giving them a mind blowing orgasm during sex. I worry she will (or has) cheated on me. I feel like less of a man. I did not have experience before her so I cannot tell if it is my lack of experience. She has been with a couple of guys before me who were experienced and she never had orgasms. I think in the very beginning of our relationship she had orgasms from a certain position. But that's 10 years ago. Nothing since and only oral works for her. A few days we found a position that was comfortable but I didn't last long enough. To this day, sex is boring and routine. She keeps telling me to find the point. But everything I've seen and read just doesnt work! I think I cant get it right :( I try to think about the mechanics of it. So how to reach the upper wall where the G spot is. Car seat sitting position as an example. I gir close to finding it the other day when she was raised on a pillow. It was just inside but I didn't last long. I wonder if kneeling and me going in reverse would work? Just about everything has alluded us.

My husband and i are planning a couples cruise with a few other couples. My sister and her boyfriend, and one of my cousins and her husband. We have a group Facebook chat going and my husband mentioned to my sister that we just recently set up our Amazon Echo and were having a lot of fun with it and that our mom should reconnect hers. My sister bought our mom one and she used it a few times and said it knew too much and unplugged it. My husband says, "typical old folks. They don't like technology like that." Right now it's sitting on her mantle. My sister didn't know our mom isn't using hers. Her reply was, "I didn't know she unplugged it. SMH" My husband then sends me a text message asking was he not supposed to tell my sister that her mom had unplugged the echo. My reply to him was that he needed to stop talking and telling everything. My sister tends to go overboard with stuff like this. She spent her money on a device that our parents could use and they aren't but apparently didn't tell my sister. My husband says that old people don't like technology. They're in their 70s. When is he going to learn to keep him mouth shut?

How do I be patient and wait for marriage? My bf and I believe in saving sex for marriage but we've been together a couple years and about a year ago I started feeling sexually attracted to him after I felt completely safe in the relationship (I used to wonder if I was asexual before because I had no sexual attraction towards anyone). I don't want to have sex before marriage and I don't think masturbation or porn is ok. How do I deal with these new feelings without completely ruining my sex drive? (I've heard stories of women from Christian homes who couldn't even have sex with their husbands due to growing up and always hearing sex is bad?)

Such as in the case of a 57 year old male with a 36 year old woman? Has ZERO interest in discussing marriage and changes subject!

I've been with my husband now for 7 years. He's decided he no longer wants to work..has been unemployed for a year now and thinks he will magically get disability- he is not disable, just lazy. Over the year, he has gained almost 100lbs. We have depleted our savings even with me working 60 hours a week. He will constantly get a new job and stay for a few days or a week and quit. We have a 3 year old, and we need stability. My parents have offered my son and I to stay to get back on ny feet. However, the deal is no free loading lazy husband. He has no money(maxed his credit cards and has had no income come in), and I keep letting guilt keep me stuck. I feel guilty for leaving him with nothing(basically homeless), and am also worried about how he will react. He has a horrible temper and I know it's likely to go bad.

i do not want no more childeren.its not for me no more. they drive me crazy.

Me & my husband are seperated- from my understanding there is no legal separation in Indiana but we live in seperate homes, etc. I am 5 months pregnant and we have a 3 year old together. Both are biologically his children. Can I file for a divorce & obtain a temporary order for child support even tho there isn't s divorce finalization? Thanks in advance.

My husband is Mexican-American, I am a white American woman of Eastern and Northern European descent. We've been together for quite a while, love and respect each other immensely. Overall we have a wonderful relationship. Why is it that, even in 2019, we still get nasty looks, comments, and other trashy behavior from a large handful of Latinas? We tend to ignore it, but it still fascinates me. My husband stated that it's because a lot of Latinas are jealous by nature and/or just waiting around for a man to take care of them, and they feel betrayed when they see one of "their" men dating and marrying out of their group. Is this accurate?

My hubby is still friends with a female he used to sleep with from the 90's hey had sex in 2014. The only thing is nothing will happen because we are 7 hours away from her. They message on Facebook all of the time. I know he does it for entertainment. I found out that he asked her from pic of you know what so he can jerk off. I don't get why when we are married. He uses her for his fantasies.They can chat from morning until midnight. Someone help please!!!!

She has been married 30 years and I am 25. We only see them two or three times a year but enjoy their visits when they come to town. No idea the issues and none of my business but am shocked as can be like if I had just been told of a sudden death. I was told Sunday by someone who had no business telling me so hopefully the couple works things out. They are separated right now I know.

I've seen that before and I'm shocked some of married women are intentionally flirts with my spouse and I'm so upset. I'vrnever Done this nasty acts I always love and respect my own husband. I'll cut tie with them whenever they flirt with my spouse. I hate that kind of ugly behavior some women are very horny they want to sleep with someone's spouse just because their husband is not showing them good love lol. They better back off.

Last night my husband and I were arguing and he said he might as well not be alive and got his hand gun out. He never did anything with it but the fact that he took a simple argument over kids and bedtime that far worries me. I called his parents to come over to diffuse the situation and they took my daughter for a sleepover. I don t want to be dramatic but in the back of my head I question myself on staying with him because of it. About once a month he blows up at bedtime over something silly but is never physical or threatening. Am I over reacting for thinking if I stay the situation will get worse over time? I dont want to throw our marriage in over a stupid argument but I also have to put my daughter and my safety first.

Married man requesting a nude photo from an old flame just to jerk off

This guy I'm interested in says he wants me at a minimum of 200 pounds, meaning I'd have to put on almost 40 pounds, because he likes chubby guys. He said he can help me do it in about two months though I don't know how.

I love being a mom even tho it's a full time job man but I've learned so much from being a parent. BUT I feel as I lost myself in a way I try to keep myself up and Atleast have a outside life outsides of kids and husband but I don't have no friends all mommy friendships didn't last. So I'm friendless and my husband still have his friends and a life... so miserable when it comes to that!

A guy broke our engagement which came out of no where with his family support and the next day he texted me these were his responses Next day he said hope your wel and asked me to delete the family group chat since he was telling everyone I asked how he is Him "Very emotional, tough few days" Then I expressed my hurt by whqt he did Guy:"I'm sorry for what I did nothing I say can make this right. You deserved better than what happened im sorry for all the hurt "I said I was shocked no one supported me. Guy:"we all loved you but my family wanted to support my decision". Then I told him that I did a lot for him and considered him above all Guy: "you did and I don't think I can forget the times we spent together. I hope you find someone who can truly keep you happy you deserve it better than anyone else I've met" I told him I can't wish the same for him b/c he can't handle commitment Guy: " I'm really hurt you feel that way but maybe it's what I deserve. It will take time I will too move on I hope you can do the same. I told him I moved on when you forgot all the promises Guy : " maybe you're right perhaps I didn't deserve your love "Then I told him I'll move on to a man who knows about commitment Guy:"you deserve it I'm happy you've been able to move on "I said you probably are as wel Guy: "it's been hard but family is supportive I then ended it and he said goodbye and wishing and hoping the best for me. Why did he answer this way he tends? Not emotional?

So today i am having a conversAtion with my husbands friend ad he is my friend too. I asked was my husband faithfil bc i have had suspicions of him and maybe his coworker his friend told me this "u are focusinf on the wrong girl. If i had to guess cig he was cheating on i i would guess that it would b a girl from his past,in his town, Were he grew up at." He said that was just a guess thAt he thought her was being fAithful. What does this mean?

Me and my wife have a daughter who's 5 days old we already been talking about wanting another baby. We both want one really bad. When should we have another one ?

My exwife and I are still on friendly terms although I had not heard from her in over a year as she had remarried. She called me one morning to ask me to take her to work because her car would not start and her husband was out of town and she had a VERY IMPORTANT meeting she had to attend in just a few minutes. I told her sure and I picked her up at her house and drove her to work. About a week later I got an email from her husband telling me he was not happy that I took his wife on a date. I am not sure how to answer his email or even if I should answer it. The LAST thing I want to do is cause problems between her and her husband. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. Should I just ignore the email or forward it to his wife or try to explain to him that I DID NOT TAKE HIS WIFE ON A DATE. It was just one friend helping out another friend. It sounds like she has a very jealous husband and I don't want to get in the middle of there problems. Did I do something wrong by taking her to work? You can be sure in the future if my ex wants my help, I will be too busy to help her.

So, my wife and I have been married for 10 years... Now, it is expected that our sex life would deminish over the years... However, for the past 6 months, it is been non-existent! So, the other night, I told her that I really wanted to be with her and that she should give it to me more... She said that she didn't feel like it... then I suggested to her that she should, or she may be sorry... So in a mocking laughing response, she was like "yeah, right" So I give her another warning, and another chance to repent, and tell her once again, that it would be easier on her if she were to give in... Again, the same response... So that night, I "finished" all over the back of her work slacks... Well needless to say, it was not the best day at work for her... But the most puzzling thing was that after all of this, she was actually mad at me... I gave her several oppurtunities to change her tune, if she would have just let me in and out for 3 minutes, I would have finished in her and not on her slacks... I don't get it, am I really wrong here?