My ex and I had a 'mutual' breakup almost 2 years ago. I was the first woman he dated after his marriage ended. Around the time we broke up I felt him pulling away & I knew we needed to end things because I felt he needed to work through the grief of his divorce alone. Out breakup was mutual but maybe more him ending it then me. It was painful because I was still in love with him. Deep down I guess I thought that I could give him 'space' & maybe we would have a chance in the future. Bad timing. After me he ended up rebounding w/another girl he dated a couple months. We stayed friends & when that ended we met up for coffee and he informed me he was moving out of state. We ended up seeing each other a couple times before he moved and there still was a connection (physical & emotional) between us. After he moved we stayed in regular contact until he met a girl about a year ago. then nothing until they got engaged about 6 months ago. Immediately after that he started viewing my snap chats & Instagram stories. Every single one. He posts often about how happy he is so I found that odd. To be honest I didn't like seeing his posts but I kept him as a friend because he was an important part of my life Now just last week I noticed he unfriended me. He's still friends with his other ex & even his ex wife but unfriended me. It really hurt my feelings because I feel totally forgotten & like I was nothing. I hoped we could have stayed friends and I find it odd. Thoughts?

My husband works full time, while I work part time. I pick my son at 2: 30 everyday and do the mommy duties with him. My husband plays tennis for two hours every Wednesday night. Recently, he joined this yearly ping pong tournament in a city that 40 minutes away. Its every Friday night from 8 PM to 10:30 PM and will last for a couple months. Last year, we went with him but it was for about 3 hours or so just boring in this school hall. On weekends, he sometimes works part time as a programmer in his brother in laws firm. Again, I'm stuck with my son who is in to HO trains which only interest me for 5 minutes.Is this fair to me, he gets to do something that's purely for his own self? I have a couple of friends I see once or twice a month for dinner and Paint Nite. What do you think?

I have anxiety so I naturally worry and my head is all messed up. Anyway, he's brought up wanting ME to have sex with another guy while he watches and I think it's very weird and homosexual. He gets turned on by me talking about other guys during sex and saying their name. He asks me to fantasize and tell me how big their penises are and all I think about is GAY GAY GAY! I've become obsessed with him being a closet gay man fearing to come out to me and his family due to judgement. I always ask him if he's gay and he constantly says no. It's gotten so bad that I'm constantly online looking up signs your husband is secretly gay. Yes, I want to be with him but he's turning me off! I don't know what to do anymore.

Mine is having two guys at once, it's not the detail just rolling around with two guys holding there c oks

He gets angry at the tiniest things. If I even have so much as a slight raised voice about something or seem uppity he goes into a rage most of the time. The other night I had a special event that I was in. He worked a long day and was hungry of course when he got home. I made dinner but I didn't make vegetables. Sounds silly already. Well he never eats them and leaves them just picking a few, and I didn't make them since I was hoping to be out the door soon as we'd already be late by then. Well when he sat down to eat he threw his am hands up saying how it wasn't enough food! And I said well you never eat the vegetables and the whole thing, so I get up to put a bowl in the microwave (a quicker way to make them) and that's when it all went downhill. He threw his ring (as usual) and was freaking out saying I gave him an attitude. He never went to my event and now we aren't talking. He says that he can't stand me and to just shut up and won't talk to me about it at all. I feel like he will never respect me. I don't know what to do. I asked for an apology and he told me I gave him an attitude that's why he didn't go. I just don't know what to do. I stayed silent for an entire day and we have gotten nowhere. He's a good person and sensitive and he does try, I know this can turn around but I don't know how to do it. What do I do? I don't think he would go to counseling.

My ex-husband and I have one child together made in the marriage. We had marital issues and I was suspicious of his "too friendly" relationship with a female co-worker. He chose to leave the marriage and deny any affair. We agreed that he would give me a certain amount each month which he has held up his end of the bargain. I recently found out that the "co-worker" is pregnant with his baby. I guess he can t deny it now. I ve been told by several people that it would be in my best interest to get a child support order instead of the verbal agreement. If she file before me, she may get more than me if I file after her. It s not about the money, I want to make sure my child is protected. He will be stretched very thin with another baby. Also our divorce papers show that he agreed to said amount. Will the courts honor the divorce decree? I ask because he is giving me a little more than what he courts generally would require for 1 child. We live in NY by the way.

My wife has been acting weird the last few days. We will be watching tv and she will randomly start kicking me, lightly punching my arm, and will have an aggressive look on her face. The other night i was gonna go out to a bar with some friends and she acted out again and seemed pissed when i was leaving. She is always mean to herself saying she hates herself, worries i find other women more attractive. I think shes worried ill cheat on her or leave her. Any ideas why?

I have been married for several years to my 2nd husband. We have kids, but I am absolutely miserable. He is super clingy, annoying, immature, cheated on me, selfish, demanding, and verbally and mentally abusive to me. He tells me what to do, when to do it, etc. I made up my mind long ago that I did not love him and did not want to be married. He has "moved out" twice this week but keeps coming back. I talked to an attorney today who told me that he cannot stay married just by not signing the papers (as he promises he will do, not sign the papers). I feel that there will never be a way out of this marriage if he has his way. He claims I am selfish and immature but that he wants to be married and throws himself at me with I love you, affection, etc that I do not want from him. How can I get out of this marriage and get him out of my life?

I live in Maryland and the of my kids and I agreed on visitations ourselves but nothing printed or signed we just went with it. So far for a year everything's been fine. My job is seasonal and just picked back up in April and my schedule has been a little rocky so some days I'd ask her if she could pick the girls up from daycare, thus has only been going on for a week. My question is, can she just up and change the visitation just because she is irritated? Am I able to go to court to keep the visitation agreement that we had in place?

Hello everyone, My wife and I are married from 5 years ago and we have a child. We have some financial problems started from 7-8 months ago, but I have it under control and still trying to keep it on that way. Anyway​ she talked with me yesterday about some idea she got from the internet, that she can rent her womb for a 10k, not also that , she made a call without telling me and really want to try it, she s only now asking me to agree to do that. To be honest I don t feel good with that, letting her waste her life and health doing this for money. Also I m​ afraid if she doesn t do it now, she ll blame me for along time after few years in the future for not letting her to try it and earn some money. What do you think if this happens to you, the same situation, will you agree for your wife to do that?? Waiting for your answers, please help.

than he is with me cheating. Is my husband giving me the go ahead?

Back when my boyfriend and I first started dating, I had issues when it came to saying "no" and hurting others! I never wanted to hurt people's feelings, so I would try and make them happy without thinking about the long term consequences! I was 18 about to be 19 at the time! I was young, dumb, and ended up in three relationships at the same time because I couldn't say no! The one guy I was with loved me very very much but I didn't want to get close to him because I knew I was doing a wrong thing! He wanted children and to get married and I didn't want to let him down so I told him yes! I told him how I felt about not wanting to be married and the hurt in his eyes crumbled my spirit! So, we ended up running off to vegas and getting married! Me being 19, I still had my other boyfriends and would sleep with them and do things people in relationships do! I had so much guilt but my heart couldn't find the strength to hurt them or end the relationship! After I dumped the guys, my boyfriend found out all about the cheating! I felt so horrible! I also got pregnant and had a miscarriage! I ended up annulling the marriage so I could finish school so I could be financially stable! My boyfriend just got fired from his job as a corrections officer and I was going to school for nursing! After he found out about the cheating and being upset and broken about me ending the marriage, he decided to cheat on me! I wanted to show him forgiveness and compassion so I forgave him and decided to lo love him regardless! I truly fell in love with him and told myself from that day I would never hurt his soul ever again! I began reading the bible, praying, and I found God! I gave him access to every account I had and deleted all my social media accounts! I showed him my phone and would give him daily words of reassurance on my part! Whenever a guy would try and text me/ talk to me, I would not respond back and would immediately tell my boyfriend! I changed and became a stronger individual was loyal! I would tell my boyfriend how much I loved him every day and give him affirmations of my love and wanting to spend my future with him! But, he kept on cheating and cheating over and over again! Around 6 times! And each time, I would forgive him and tell him I still love him and we can work on us! Since I changed and I felt horrible about the situation, I thought he could to... but he never did! He said it was because of his self-esteem but he would never talk to me about his feelings he ended up ending the relationship because he told me he could never get over the cheating and me ending the marriage! I'm going on 21 now and every day I feel so guilty of my past actions and decisions of hurting other human beings and him! I pray every day that God heals his heart but my pain is still there! I looked up the username he always uses on online dating sites and he's already looking for another relationship after we've only been broken up for two months! I tried my hardest to be gf I could be! I would give him love, affection, affirmation, money! I got rid of all my guy friends or anything that would make him feel uncomfortable! I forgave him for his infidelities and I just love him still! How do I move on and stop feeling guilt?

We are married and have two kids. We are thirty years old and I have a decent job making around 70K. We have always talked about moving out there because my wife is from there and her family is still there. We have a plan in place to be debt free before going. We are going to stay with her mom until we get on our feet. My job will not transfer me as there is no open position. Any suggestions on trying to secure a job before? Any suggestions for the move from people that have moved cross country? Thanks!

My husband asked if I wanted to make real one of my best fantasies, two men in bed. Have to admit I do fancy it and he says it would be a turn on for him Have any of the married women tried this? Does it cause problems later?

We have recently acquired a pair of rats in our attic. I can hear them up there and now I've been fining rat droppings in the kitchen drawers. They accidentally got stuck in the wall next to our furnace the other day and my husband decided to feed them and give them an escape rather than call an exterminator! I'm grossed out and disgusted! He refused to call exterminator because they will kill the rats. How do I get rid of the rats or get my husband to see reason and call an exterminator? I'm not allowed to call the exterminator unless he says it's okay! If he found out I called it would be all bad. I'm not allowed to call the exterminator unless he says it's okay! If he found out I called it would be all bad.

My wife has several guy friends, some who are exes from high school. She talks to them regularly, one is the reason behind our current separation. One guy, I thought was just a great friend us actually a guy her and another girl blew together when she was 16 and in her "exprimenting" stage. I, on the other hand, am not allowed to talk to another woman. I suggested we get rid of our friends who were the opposite sex (I dont even talk to mine) but she refuses saying she gets along better with guys. Am I just being insecure, jealous, and crazy? Is there a line that has been crossed?

& that he would be home late. This rubs me the wrong way & I'm very worried. What do I say? Do? Why can't they discuss business at his office during business hours? I've never really thought that anything was happening between them until about two months ago his company had a party & while she was sitting down he walked up behind her & started rubbing her shoulders for about 5 seconds, my friend told me I was over-thinking & that it was harmless so I let it go

many women just expect husbands to keep quiet and not even question them

I started going to church on Wednesday nights because my wife convinced me. We used to go on Sunday mornings but I got tired of waking up early and bored me. The only way I can make this a fun experience is I have to drink a bunch before I go. My wife drives and she's ok with it. But I think I had too many beers and two whiskeys on the rocks and was kind of drunk. Usually when the preacher is passionate I also get passionate to the point of excessive. What I remembered and my wife told me the preacher said "praise the Lord!" and "Jesus loves you!" and I said "Fu*k yes!" and "hell fu*king yes!" I guess I said it too loud and now my wife won't talk to me. How can I tell her to forget about it as I want to get laid this weekend?

Why wife won't let me try anal because her ex husband hurt her when they tried anal sex He was (she tells me) inconsiderate and had a very large penis. I am 5 inches and am a caring lover I would be gentle and lube everything, but she won't let me near it it's not fair!

A few weeks ago we had to rush my mom to the hospital because she became very ill. She spent 3 or 4 days in the hospital and is now home on bed rest to recoop. My brothers and sisters have been taking turns cooking for our parents since she's not able to do it herself. Yesterday my oldest sister sent out a mass text to say that we all would get together and each pick a few dishes and prepare Easter dinner and all eat together as a family next Sunday. The menu has been divided up and everyone knows what to bring. When I told my wife last night we were eating Easter dinner at my folk's she seemed a little upset. First of all because she thought it would just be me and her at home alone cooking for just us. But secondly, because my/our brother-in-law was going to be there. This is my sister's husband and he's one of those people you just get along with and tolerate. He tends to say rude things or stuff no one really wants to hear. Again, we tolerate him and mostly ignore him. Years ago when I started dating my wife he use to always rib her for this or that and now she doesn't care for him. She doesn't want to go because he'll be there. I told her to just ignore him and talk to someone else. It's not like there's only going to be her and him there. We're planning on about 15 or 16 people being there. We've been together some 15 years and she has yet to learn how to ignore him. Is it time for her to just let this go and do like the rest of us and ignore him?

It's been three years now since I cheated on him, we had extensive counselling and somehow we got thru it and he forgave me Then the other night after what I thought was some amazing lovemaking he upset and surprised me by asking me if my lover had been better, had he a bigger penis, what the anal was like and even did his semen taste nice??? I haven't told him details in the past to avoid hurting him, he was better and bigger but there's no way I can say that I don't want to hurt him any more How long do men torture themselves over this?? It's not relevant surely I cheated had sex and confessed to it all Can't we just move on?

That was two days ago. I just haven't called her because Idk how to tell her that I may have to pay $6,000. She's going to be pissed.

My husband is 38 and has a severe alcohol addiction and I am ready to loose my mind. He has so many health issues and continues drinking. He was diagnosed with advanced cirrhosis about 4 years ago and on top of that has diabetes 2, high blood pressure, portal hypertension and the list goes on And on. He's been hospitalized a few time. A few weeks ago he was hospitalized for 2 weeks due to severe pneumonia which almost killed him. Now he's back home and back to drinking. He's been hospitalized for severe anemia in the past due to blood loss. His blood pressure and diabetes are normally out of control. But nothing seems the scare this man. He looks like he's loosing muscle mass, and worries me allot. I'm ready too loose my sanity. Me and our boys try to talk to him over and over but nothing seems to work or scare him. Sometimes I just want to pack our stuff and leave. I'm at my wits end. Any advise?