My last boyfriend and I were together for about 3 years and we had been close friends for 15. Our relationship was amazing. I recently had to break it off because of his parents. They are overbearing and blame me for everything. They claim i keep him away from his family which is far from the truth. They had refused to let me visit with him for holidays etc. His mom was always posting nasty things on my Facebook pictures and her own wall. I had to block her to get her to stop. She insists he can't make decisions for himself and so I control him. He has tried to tell them this isn't true but they won't have it. I've also tried talking to them but to no avail. I have shown nothing but respect while they scream at me and also at him. Recently his mom claimed they hadn't seen him since we moved out together because I won't let him but he actually visited about twice a week. She rallied her family against me and It really hurt. I asked him what we were going to do about the problem and he said he didn't know what to do to get through to his family anymore. I felt like he wasn't standing up for me if he could let them say these things about me just because it was easier not to deal with the arguments he always had with them. I couldn't see a future where he always saw his family without me and they talked crap about me because no one stood up for me and I wasn't there to stand up for myself. I still love him and I miss him so much, every day is hard.. how do I move on from this?

I am really nervous about leaving my parents and I've already been to sleep away camp and It was a really bad experience. My parents kept telling me if I didn't want to go I didn't have to. But I kept saying i wanted to go. Now thats im leaving in one week I really don't want to go and i'm scared because its to late to back out of it. I am really nervous about leaving my parents and I've already been to sleep away camp and It was a really bad experience. My parents kept telling me if I didn't want to go I didn't have to. But I kept saying i wanted to go. Now thats im leaving in one week I really don't want to go and i'm scared because its to late to back out of it.

Everytime there is a party of a wedding, my mom NEVER lets me go with her. Im 12 and her and my older sister go while i have to stay home with my dad and brothers and take care of my 2 baby siblings. Its just so irritating that i never get to have fun while they go to engagement parties. My cousin got engaged and i had to stay home and take care of my siblings. Today, there is a wedding and my mom wont let me go. I am just so pissed what should i do? Should i be pissed at her? BTW, im a muslim so there would be nothing inappropriate and there would be no alchohol or drinking and if you are wondering why i wanna go so bad, its pretty obvious that i would wanna go to a party or a wedding instead of babysitting babies and THE POINT IS that i dont know why she wont let my and THE POINT IS that i dont know why she wont let me go

When she looks at boys or bleeds? I bet she has great vagina Wayf

Her goal is to hurt him but she is hurting me.

Like she has a sister she loves and a sister and brother who she hates. There is no in between. She expects us kids to hate like she hates. A burning passion of hate in her. She boasts of dreams where she is hurting her brother. She is a sick and bitter person and does not see it. My Dad enables all of this. And lets her feed herself hate everynight.

Like details of where her brother lost his virginity. Or how my Dad is a grouch when she doesn't let him have sex with her.

My parents have been fighting for a 6 years and I can't handle it anymore. It happened once that they had physical contact... It was 5 years ago, which resulted by moving to another town in order to star a new life and forget about past arguments and all those things. I really don't know how to act because I saw my moyher in really bad conditions very close to suicide...and I always turn up the music on my headphones so I don't hear them but I still do. I am so sorry for my sister, she's 11 and she must listen all fights...They don't want to divorce becouse of us(children) but I think it's the best option. I tried to talk with them but it didn't bring up the result...

I am 13, and I was trying on a dress for a wedding we were invited to. She wanted to see if we needed to get it altered. She asked me to put my hair up, so I held my hair up. I proceed to say "it s fine," when suddenly she starts ballisticly yelling at me for having an "attitude." I thought maybe she was just stressed or something, but no, she was dead serious. Because apparently I used a rude tone and was acting disobedient, as I was supposed to tie my hair up. I would like to point out that I did not at all say "it s fine" in a rude tone nor did I have any intention to. I tried explaining this to her but she wasn t having any of it. She continued yelling at me for my disobedience, attitude, and seemed to criticize my whole personality. I guess I was supposed to agree to everything she says and wants. Because a "good child" will always agree to the parent and not have any opinions themselves. I m sorry if this was to long, I just needed to rant. Do you think I was having an attitude? Or is the way I apparently acted acceptable? Thank you.

So she left to go somewhere and i had asked her before if i could pay her back if i could order something. she said after. i had forgotten about it when she got home. i walk into my room and remeber. i walk back out and say "mom can we order it now?" She says"No. i am doing something right now." i go "ok." then she freaks out on me and says "why dont you have your dad or aunt order it." I walk into my room and calm down a little. I go back out there and try to be reasonable and she goes "i wont buy you a nose ring anyway." but if i were to pay for it, you wouldn't be buying it.??? help??

I don't mind seeing her on special occasions in a group like a wedding or funeral or Christmas. But, I do not want to have to see her personally one on one and I don't want to be close to her. Her sister is the same way but I am not the child so in that case it does not effect me the same way. My Mom makes me obsess that she will destroy family relationships of mine like she did when I was a child. How do I remove myself from her enough that no one notices even if I have to occasionally see her and be nice? I love her but have a hard time being around her in a relationship other then a distant one. She used me as a weapon growing up and I have toxic shame because of that. Her sister does the same with her own kids.

I'm scared because in my family we are the only ones not to participate in the extended family get together. I cannot invite myself as that made my aunt uncomfortable. This is my mom's family and she does not get along with her family. My dad is an only child and his surviving parent has Alzheimer's. All my cousins will be gathering and we will not as we will be the only ones not there. With the exception of Christmas we never go to family events. I'm old enough to drive but cannot invite myself so I feel pain and dread like I'm some kind a second rate relative. Easter is a family holiday how do I get over this pain? Once a month the extended family gets together and we do not go because we are not good enough because of my mom. I am at age 17.

i'm 14, and female to start. i used to eat, a lot. got something at school for breakfast, had lunch, plus extra fruit, come home and had a snack or two, ate dinner, sometimes ate another snack and ate around 11pm. about a week ago my dad and i had an arguement, causing his girlfriend to hate me even more. her and her daughter decided to leave then instead of waiting until summer to leave as planned. it took them only four days to get out. well, my dad drinks a lot, and it's only him, my little sister (11) and i here now. i have to grow up really fast again. my dads ex wife (my stepmom) is trying to help but doesn't much. i'm the only way me or my sister eat. my dad won't cook, he also hasn't been shopping since his girlfriend left. my little sister makes her own breakfast and lunch, and leaves me to make dinner for us. my dad doesn't ever eat much, just asks me to make him cheese crisps occasionally. (yesterday and today) Last night i made my sister dinner but not me. i ate some mcdonalds today and just a cheese crisp yesterday. i know that was all probably a lot of useless information but could this be stress? depression? please answer.

Iam 25, Since my childhood I have experienced problems with my sister who is 12 years elder than me. (Iam more beautiful than her &ppl used to praise me on beauty). Whenever she used to go on trips, she brings first class things 4 herself & third class 4 me & cites that it is good & expensive that is why it is mine, my mother always takes her saying side as she is elder you must listen to her because ppl who have elder siblings are blessed. 24/7 she mocks me & belittles me on everything. Whenever there is something (usually a girl with morally bad character) she labels that it s like you & now I have witnessed that whenever we go out as family & from opposite table any good looking guy starts to look at me or give me attention she starts saying bad things to me like your dress is so cheap, your makeup is so flawed, why do u misbehave wid everyone so much or Oh man your deadly acne scars(which is very light & usually does not appear under the foundation) This gets me very embarrassed. And usually on instagram or Facebook stalks me and does bad comments after which I have blocked her.She is very creative and she designed the tv room, once I was watching the Tv, she came by and told me to get out as you have zero creativity in it while I have contributed my time and energy harshly. I started crying after this and Left but couldn t help forget it.I think & pray secretly that she might die so that I can leave in peace.

It s funny how strangers always care about my feelings and my parents do the opposite, knowing me, I love playing piano and singing, everyone outside of my home tells me that this is my future, I really know what I m doing and have my passion and I feel happy with music, meanwhile my parents always tell me,I have a disgusting voice and that I would never achieve my dreams, I don t deserve friends, I m bad at everything, I usually play the piano at home and sing because it makes me happy and then out of nowhere a member of my family would tell me to shut up, why is it that, people would always be shocked at how good they think I sing but my parents don t like it? I don t know if it has something to do with their culture, or maybe my parents just don t like me being so English, (I was born and raised in England) but honestly it s fine, sorry for making you read this... just had to see if it happens with others, where your parents would call you names, And don t like you, etc,.

I am in my 50s. I didn't want kids to begin with but my wife did so I just let them live with us for 17 and 18 years. I never allowed them to get a permit at 15 or a license at 16, but they wouldn't stop talking about how they need to learn. Why do they need to learn? The closest bus stop is 15 miles away. Long story short, I bought them a car for $200 off of CraigsList. My wife and I drove 10 minutes to go pick it up, I drove it home 10 minutes my wife drove her car. I paid my 26 year old neice $80 to teach my son and daughter how to drive it. She has a license. My daughter started driving it for the first 15 minutes(which my neice let me know), she said she stopped so her brother could practice it as well as it was about to start storming. My son wanted to try for a longer time even though my neice told him he needed to stop. The car was overheating and conked out why they were on the highway. My neice said they got out of the car as fast as they could and ran towards the edge of the street. My son and daughter were both scared(neice called and she took pictures of the car, smoking). I told her "ok and what do you want me to do?" She said "well your son and daughter were in that car. Don't you care?" I said "not really they're 17 and 18." I asked her to put the phone on speaker so both my kids could hear me and I told them to stop acting like babies. Why are my kids like that? This was their first time ever driving a car.

I m kinda a quiet girl that always minds her own business. everyone knows really well that I hate touching and physical contact. My brother is an asshole and a bully, and i hate him so much, I m 21 and he s 26, I was eating in the kitchen and suddenly he came and started to annoy me by touching my shoulder, mocking me and talking loudly near my ears. I told him to stop because i m in a really really bad mood, he said "you can t do anything" and he slapped me on the face and ran. I got angry and ran after him and hit him on his arm and then went again to finish my food. he came back and started touching me again, i told him to stop, he said "what you re going to do?" and continued touching me, then i yelled at him to stop, he was like " SHUT UP" and then he hit me again. I got angry and slapped him, then he slapped me really hard again and I fainted for seconds and my nose started bleeding. I got real real angry and told him that i wish he dies and how much i Fu**ing hate him. and he was like "your words doesn t affects me" "your loud voice doesn t scares me" and was making fun of me, not feeling sorry at all. My mom saw what happened and saw the slap but she told me to go to my room, and she was talking to my brother really nicely and i was like "so you re not going to anything about what he did to me??" she was like "GO TO YOUR ROOM" I felt so angry and unfair because he is the one who started all of this and slapped me and started annoying me when i did nothing I told her that i'm going to call my father, and she threatened me and told me "do you dare" I was like "then why don't you do something?" and she was like "GO TO YOU ROOM" I went to my room and called my father and told him everything. my father got really angry at my brother and he told him if he touched me again he will F**king beat him and do something really bad to him. and my brother told my father that I'm just so dramatic and he was just joking with me, but I took it seriously!!! then my father told my to stop getting angry and just forgave him this time and tell him i he touched me again. my brother told me he is sorry and he won't touch me again and he was kinda laughing while apologizing so he wasn't sincere , i told him i forgave him. but i actually didn't forgive him and i feel so angry i wish someone bigger and stronger than him slaps him so hard and beats him, so he can learn the lesson well. I really hate him so much, sometimes I get this feeling to go and stab him while he'd sleeping and kill him. what should i do to get my revenge ? I'm really angry.

I get mad at my family sometimes and have no way of getting back at them, so I take $1s and $5s and once a $20 from their wallet. I feel terrible after and say I'll never do it again and I'll pay them back and then they say somthing awful to me again and I don't feel bad. I haven't done it in a while but the thoughts always there. I also usually keep the change when my dad gives me money for somthing. I accidentally cheated on a spanish quiz by leaving my notes below my desk and not seeing them till I was halfway through, and my mom and me stopped at RiteAid the other day, I took a $20 out of her wallet with her permission and thought I slipped it back in her purse but I must have accidentally put it in my purse. She thought she'd lost her wallet and canceled her cards and everything, I helped her look for it and after we gave up and she'd cancelled everything I found it, and instead of admitting my fault I put it somewhere she'd find it and assume she'd dropped it. Will I go to hell? Am I bad person.

So yesterday my parents bought me a macbook cause i wanted to make youtube videos and they only wanted me to use it for that. So today i was just watching youtube (h3h3 productions) and my dad comes into my room and sees that I'm watching their connor murphy video where they use curse words and sexual humor. He looks at me and sys he is very disappointed and so I got really sad. He probably thought I was watching porn or something on my laptop (even tho I wasn't). What should I tell him? He is very strict with my internet access too and takes away my internet 5 days a week and blocks me from everywhere. I'm scared he's gonna take away my overall access because If he sees me on a website other than google classroom he flips out. I was on club penguin the other day and he acted like I was watching porn and took away my access for that whole weekend. And club penguin ended that week! I still haven't forgiven him for that and I don't think I ever will. Please give some advice.

Can someone tell me what it is supposed to train them to do?

If you ask anyone to describe my mother in law Jill, they most probably would say "beautiful". If someone ask me to describe Jill, I would say she is the best mother in law any guy can have. She is always there if my wife and I need help with anything and she is the nicest person you will ever meet. On day at work, she came by to ride home with me. I introduced her to some of my co workers. The next day these co workers asked me if she was married. I told then no. They ask me if I would fix them up with a date with Jill. I told them someone as beautiful as Jill did not need her son in laws help getting dates. She can get all the dates she wants without anyone's help. My co workers then ask me if I would bring her to the bonus day party they were having after work next week so they could get to know her better. I don't know if I should do that. They would enjoy the party more if she was there as she is really a fun person to be around. Do you think a woman would be interested in guys that are a least 10 years younger than she is? Should I stay out or her love life and ignore their request even if there are some real great guy that want to get to know her better? What should I do?

Ok so my son and myself were out playing in the garden earlier, and I accidentally kicked my son in the balls when I tried to do a hand-stand. He screamed and curled up on the ground in pain! I said sorry and made sure he was ok, but I think he thinks I did it on purpose! How do I make him realise it was an accident? I would never hurt my baby boy like that?!

She is 15 years old and is a goth girl, loves to stick her pants on her knee, listen to heavy rock, she does not leave the house and when she goes out she wears the hooded leather jacket, I even bought her high heels She is tall 1.78 in height, she only wears boots, she is not very social, even her hair is a bit short and she has fringe, she wants to act like crazy, she already has bipolar disorder, I found an album with Tattoo photo on her things.

I just got home from taking my daughter to her friends house. Since I did not go in anyplace and came right back home to be more comfortable I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

I'm 17 and I've always wanted braces. In fact, I need braces. The back of my molars are sideways and they don't like up with my teeth. I always grind my gum because of this and it is extremely uncomfortable. Everytime I go to the dentist, my back molars always get cavities because they are sideways. I have Medicaid so going to the dentist is free, but my Medicaid does not cover braces. My dentist have told my mom that I need braces ($8,000) and my mom always say that I don't it. My mom wouldn't understand because she never got braces either. She is just extremely selfish. She bought herself a $14,000 Rolex watch, but wouldn't pay for her daughter's braces. My dentist even offered my mom a alternative type of braces for me for $4,000. My mom still said no. In my state, if you are under 15, on Medicaid and NEED braces, the state can pay it for you. My brother is 13, so he got his for free. I can't. Last year, I stared taking $20.00 from my family's resturant. I have about 5,000 right now. I keep te money somewhere in my room. My plan is to spend the money on my braces when I move out. I know this is wrong, but it's too late to go back now. I have a bad feeling that I will do something even worse than stealing when i grow up. Please help!

My mother is quite sweet and 40 years old, but when I explain to her that I'm concerned about something that deals with my bodily health, she calls me crazy and tells me not to worry about it. But aren't most parents supposed to worry about their children's health? I would know best about my health considering it's my body and I can tell when not-so-normal things are going on. I would set my own appointments but I have yet to get a car. And I know if I called for a check-up, she wouldn't bring me. Is there any way I can get her to worry about mevery just a tad more?

I share a room with my younger sister and when I go to college this year my mum plans to put my stuff into storage so my sister can have her own room. My dads wife sees this as an opportunity to try to get me to move in but I found for over a year to leave that hell home because they're violent and treat me like garbage. My dads wife is only 8 years older and she treats me like a child. In the end they wouldn't let me leave so I packed a bag and went to my moms and refused to move back. My dads wife says moving in with them is my only choice since my mom "obviously doesn't care about me if she's packing my stuff up" but I hate it there, I legally have to visit and a weekend is hard enough I don't know if I'll make it if I move back. What should I do?!?!

I tried to ask my mom if she would go formal/prom dress shopping with me. she said "no". She won't do anything without making it an argument, please help

I'm 21 and my brother in law who's about late 20's early 30's keeps trying to flirt with me. Since I watch my nieces and nephews he has access to my cellphone number and he sends my texts like " Hey beautiful, hows your day going?" Yesterday I went to the beach with my sisters family and he kept looking at me and commenting on how good I look in my swimsuit. He slaps my rear when I walk by,comments on how well my pants fit. And frankly i'm tired and disgusted by it, sure he may not be blood but that is my sisters husband the father of her children. What should I do to stop it and should I tell my sister? I have already told my mother but she was no help and just told me to grin and bear it so yeah, I don't think she'll be any help.

My mom passed away yesterday from cancer. She d been fighting it for 2.5 years, but her death was still pretty sudden. Honestly, I feel kind of uncomfortable being around my family and I don t know what I should do differently. I really just want to get back to school and back into a routine, but I feel like if I go back on Thursday everyone will tell me it s too soon. I just don t want to be stuck in our empty house thinking about mom

My sister is in her junior year and she really wants to go to prom. However she has not been asked yet and plans on not going for tat reason. She has dated two seniors who are now in college and she has a lot of guy friends. I personally think she is really pretty and are disappointed in the guys who haven't summed up enough courage to ask her. So I know im in 6th grade and there basically nothing I can do, but how can I get my sister a date for prom? I would love to see her happy only if its just for one night she deservers to be

She's asked me this question over and over and were about to go on vacation to the Philippines and I don't wanna start my last day here with her having the idea someone is knocking on my door when I'm sleeping and I serious don't hear it night because I'm a deep sleeper but she doesn't believe that. The minute I woke up to go say hi she asks "who was knocking on your door?" And I told her I dont know because I didn't hear it. She thinks its my grandpa knocking on my door late at night but I know no one gets up in the middle of the night to knock on my door and this is beginning to worry me that something is there at night knocking on my door :(

I had parents growing up, my dad always tried to kill himself when I was little. I remember being 12 and sitting in the corner and seeing him walk in with his wrists slit and he didn't even look at me. And my mother always let us back in that environment. As I got alittle older they separated but my mom was frustrated and she started to abuse us. For instance I remember I was 15 and I didn't close the shampoo bottles and she would beat me over the head with the broom. And she would make us clean constantly. Etc. a lot worse. But I'm not gonna go into that much detail. But now as a 23 year old woman I'm struggling with anxiety issues. I have no parents to confide in, and no money to get professional help. What should I do?

I'm 14, and going to be 15 in july and i want to walk downtown by myself, but my mom and grandma won't let me. We live around 5 minutes away from downtown, i'm really into photography but i can't use my camera because all i do is sit inside. I have no friends, no close family, and i do homeschool. I'm tired of sitting inside every single day, 365 days a year.

My sister is 7 years tounger than me and we always argue about everything.She never listens to me and whenever i politely ask her to stop she does it even more to irritate me and then i get cery angry and start yelling on the top of my lungs and then she starts crying and whining that im bad with her.This happens all the time,every day im just sick of it.I always get angry and i think im going to have a nerve breakdown soon.It is really bad for my health im constantly under stress.My parents are aware of this they even disciplined her very well couple of times but after two days she continues to do like she used to do.What am i supposed to do? I sometimes feel like a psycho but she clearly provokes me so much that i cant handle it.I just want to have a normal life.I want us to be normal sisters and i do everything good for her.Our grandparents died and i always run after lessons to get on my bus and pick her up from school so she wont feel sad when all her friends had left home.Please help.

Okay I'm looking for ideas for my adopted grandfather? His birthday is coming up and he's going to be 105 years old me and my brother trying to figure out a good idea for a birthday gift for him. here's a little back history growing up in Florida there was older couple liveing upstairs from us and kind of adopted us since our family was living in Northern Ill and hod no childern of there own. my dad was always gone overseas with the Navy so it's just me and my brother my mom. Him and his wife came over here from Mexico when they were little tiny children and his mother's always felt that he needed to serve his new Homeland in some sort of capacity, and he did just he earned multiple medals and commendations for acts of Bravery during tearned. Panyways and he served in some of the worst hellholes you could possibly imagine in the Pacific. I'm trying to figure out what would be a good gift for him for that meen alot to him. me and my brother were talking about there's an organization supposably fly him out to Washington for the day but I'm not sure what it is or how to get a hold of it can anybody help?

I'm 25 and still live with parents, I've been trying to leave my parents house for the last 2 years, but I can't, it's too difficult for me and my emotions are to high, and also Mom gets to emotional

REALLY guilty. What do I do?

My wife isn't feeling very well she has a sore throats she's coughing a lot. She didn't sleep well at all last night. She didn't act like she felt good yesterday. I don't feel very well myself. She has her last bible school class this afternoon she has to go to that. Her class isn't until 2 it's almost 11. How can I help her feel better ?

I decided when i was 14 years old that when i move out, that i will NEVER EVER speak, associate, or even see ANYONE in my family(including cousins, uncles etc) All they do is complain and tell me what im doing wrong. Its like they need to put me down to feel better about themselves ever since i was in middle school. When i moved out, i left WITHOUT a word and when nobody was home. I blocked their numbers and social media and somehow they found out where i lived. Can i like put a restraining order on them? Is there a way i can disown them?

some background: I have a little spoiled sister. No we are not teenager or children. In fact we are adults in the 30s. YET she acts like a spoiled children even though she has two children of her own. The problem: she is very disrespectful to me. Pretending does not know what the F@#$ I'm doing right now. And she is manipulative insecured woman. She has done nothing in her life and she is saying I'm doing nothing. Delusional really. About 10 years ago she was dating a guy who runs an electronic shop and all they do is dating dating dating almost everyday with her BF. While I was busy working in the computer industry. Fast forward now, she is a housemother of two weird boys. She stays home most of the time. Funny thing, she pretends she doesn't know what I'm doing for the last 8 years!!! Well she knows what I do but he is simply a manipulative *****! saying that I'm doing nothing with my life. How the F#$# I bought a new car and a new house if I'm doing nothing? while her house is simply bought by her husband and she doesn't even have a car.

I have of course apologized for my behavior & each day I try to be a better daughter, tell her I love her, buy her gifts & call her every night. I love my mom more than life itself & it kills me when I think about how selfish & mean I was at times

So my mother gave me her old apartment as she moved into another, however She keeps coming back to my apartment. I don t mind helping my mother out and taking her in but she continuously keeps saying that the apartment is now hers again and that she s taking control of my apartment, and that her giving it to me then was just a temporary gift. But the apartment is under my name now? And she s only doing this because she doesn t like my boyfriend. She wants me to pick sides but I can t ? I don t think u should be allowed to take back an apartment just because u don t like who they are dating. So I told her if she doesn t like it she can go, am I wrong this? I don t understand why she would even give me the apartment if she was planning on taking it back the moment she needed it. I guess

please read it all and help me

My half sister and I share the same father and my half sisters half twin brothers share the same mom with my half sister. So what does that make my half sisters half brothers to me? Are they still considered my brothers even though we don't share the same blood?

Im 14 and girl, have no friends at school.Plus my mom is always complaining about every little faults of me.My mom sometimes even beats me and dad warns.

I'm at a really tough point in my life. I'm 16 years old. I turn 17 in April. But at the beginning of this school year (Junior year) I started doing things that my parents weren't too happy about. Having sex, drinking. They knew about the sex early on and just told me to be careful and what not. The drinking part though, that's a different story. I only drank twice before I got in trouble, once in August, once in January, and every time I was responsible. I never drove, I never let anyone that drank drive, I never put myself in a situation where I could be taken advantage of. Also I went to at least 3 parties, but I never drank at all. I just had fun with friends. But during all of that, I had to lie to my parents about where I was because I knew they wouldn't let me go. Which was my first mistake. So when I got caught for all the drinking, partying, having sex, I built a trusting relationship with my parents. They let me drink, as long as I was responsible and called them if I ever needed a ride/was in trouble, If I went to parties, I sent them my location, and every time I changed locations, I would text them and tell them exactly what's happening and where i'm going. Everything was fine, they trusted me.

Last night me and my husband and daughter were watching the World Trade Center movie it's my favorite but I feel bad for letting my one week old daughter see this. Also I feel bad for her because she doesn't understand it. She thinks it's just a movie. She doesn't know it actually happened. She liked seeing the air planes and police men and stuff on it. Some parts she thought it was funny. Especially when the police men were saying bad words. I haven't watched it in a long time I forgot it had bad words. When she's older I don't know how to tell her it really happened. My 8 year old cousin didn't even know about it I guess they don't teach this stuff till high school he's in the second grade. I feel really terrible I let her watch it. It was her first movie. I was 8 when it happened I don't really remember it. I just remember watching it on tv. I don't think it's right for a kid to know that two guys came and smashed a plane into the towers and killed 1,000 of people. I don't think kids should know that till high school. I'm 24 I still love the movie but I had nightmares for a long time after I actually saw it I'm also scared of air planes. I don't want my daughter having nightmares or the same fears I do. I was 13 maybe 12 when this movie came out I still love it. Her dad told her it was only a movie but that's a lie it did happen. Am I a bad parent for letting her watch this ? What am I gonna tell her when she's older ?

Isnt it really weird that my sister never had a BF? She's 20 and said she doesnt want a BF. but why? I mean its way more fun to be in a relationship than being alone all day. She also never goes to any parties and prefers to stay inside the house. This cant be normal? Im 16, go to parties every weekend and already had many girlfriends.

"A true warrior is not immune to fear. She fights in spite of it."

My mom and I used to be like best friends but ever since she s met her boyfriend she doesn t talk to me like we used to do. When we do go out together she s always on her phone texting or calling her boyfriend and this annoys me so much as it s supposed to be OUR time together. I get mad and walk away just like I do nearly everyday. I don t have a dad figure in my life and now I m losing my mom s figure... She s never nice to me or my brother and little sister but when her boyfriends children come she acts like she s their mom and not ours. Please tell me what s wrong and if it s something I did...

On Wednesday (half day) I, and my friends want to go to town after school so after 12. There's going to be 9 or 10 of us (me included) going. They all want to go on the bus, and I realize won't let me go on the bus so I said you can drop me off and I'll just wait for my friends somewhere. She still said no, because of my ''safety'' I am well aware of not talking to strangers or doing something stupid. She doesn't trust me. I can always phone and text her that won't be a problem. I don't want to go for long, just maybe 4 hours or so. I don't know why it won't be safe, I've seen 11 year olds go to town on their own and I'm 13 and I'll be going with a whole crowd! I'm very extroverted, and I feel trapped and suffocated. I rarely go out with my friends because of this and it makes me feel left out. My sister said she will convince my mom, but she didn't! She just started agreeing with my mom, but my sister did start going out to town much later around 15. But I will be very responsible!! She said she would let me if my sister came, but my sister still has a full day at college. (shes 17) But i don't see the problem, how can I convince my mom to let me go :( realize my mom won't let me go on the bus*

18 year old, who's parents are divorced, now my dad isn't really happy that I choose my moms side, thus he really doesn't want to talk to me.. Before he would be fine with it we would go to lunch, but now he's really not really into that, what should I do?

My mum is always crying in the bathroom because my dad is verbally abusing her. They are in court right now because my mom wants separation but my dad doesn't and he is making it more difficult for her. The problem that is making this process longer is the house. The house is built by my dad but my mom bought the plot. The house alone without the plot is valued around 50k and the plot alone is valued around 200k. So my dad wants more than 50k which in my opinion is not fair. My mum bought the plot when she wasn't still married so it is only hers. Because of these problems I am currently going to counselling sessions to try to focus on school because I can't focus. Sorry this is long but I had to explain some stuff and sorry for my poor english. Does anyone know how I can help my mom because she is constantly crying in the bathroom when my dad is around? Thanks and a 5 star best answer will be given.