Family: Question: Help embarrassed to talk to my parents about sex?

Question: Help embarrassed to talk to my parents about sex?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 02:42 PM PDT

So we have to watch a video/movie about sex tomorrow and whenever I have to talk to my mom about like puberty/sex/personal things I get embarrassed and my face turns super red. My mom is kind of awkward about it too so it s a very uncomfortable situation. How should I tell her about it

Question: I need help. I lied to my mother, and I was grounded. I was ungrounded this Friday, and today I was regrounded for lying again. I messed up.?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 02:41 PM PDT

I lied to my mother a few weeks ago, and was just ungrounded recently. Today, I was regrounded for lying. How do I become ungrounded again.

Question: Does anybody else have an overly affectionate and overbearing mother?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 02:39 PM PDT

I'm almost 30 and for my entire life my mother has been very overly affectionate and overbearing. I have two older brothers, so I am the only girl and also the baby of the family. She cares for me, I know, but too much. In my most recent case, she invited herself over during my spring break. I work at a school and live 3 hours away. I didn't tell her when my break was, because I knew she would invite herself to stay and I desperately needed the time to work at my other job to make up for finances. Sure enough, she called me up to tell me she had requested the same week off, because she checked the school's website to see when my spring break was. Fortunately for me, a friend of hers invited themselves to stay the same week so she wasn't able to stay the entire time. During her stay, she hovers. It's to the point where I have to excuse myself to the bathroom so that she doesn't follow me. She also consistently talks to me in a baby voice, which is extremely demeaning. I've mentioned it to her before, but she gets upset and tells me that one day I'll have a child and understand a mothers love. What disturbs me the most out of her behavior is when she tries to be affectionate. One of the mornings during her stay, she said that she was upset that I was already up, because she was going to crawl in bed and cuddle me. I told her that I was too old for that and it's not normal, but she insisted that everybody does it and attempted to make me feel bad for saying no.

Question: My sister hates me?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 01:53 PM PDT

I feel like she hates me... it makes me cry... what happened was my fault today.. well: this morning we were going to my dads house because he had wifi and my mom doesnt and she's out of town cause she can't pay.. blah. So we were in the car, my sister and brother were fighting for some reason and I came got really mad and snapped at her. I didn't mean it, the words just slipped out. I said "*sisters name* calm down!! You are so mad all the time, *brothers name* is offering you something and you are just so angry at everything!" She said: "no i'm not..." I said: "Yes you are and i'm TIRED of it!" Then she said "Gabby, why would you say that? That's so mean, you're going to make me cry again. I'm not always mad, i'm always happy. We were just talking we weren't arguing." Then I said I didn't mean it, because I felt bad and the words just slipped out of my mouth. Then I started crying, and now I feel like my brother hates me too.. when I started snapping at her he told me to shut up... I feel so bad, I didn't mean it.. I don't know what I'm asking for but please, some advice if someone will answer. I know it's long but I just don't know what to do. She's 17 My brother is 16, I and my sister just learned how to deal with each other and now I feel like we aren't.

Question: What do I do with these?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 12:40 PM PDT

Ugh So a couple weeks ago I went to Applebees and I had mozzarella sticks cause I havent had them in a while and they were really good So then I asked my mom to buy some from the store for home and she did Ive tried them multiple times and they have tasted horrible and unedible but I have alot of them left and my mom expects me to eat them since she bought them What do I do? I refuse to eat them and theyre just gonna sit there. Btw I dont fry them i put them in my oven

Question: I'm 50 so what do I do when my sister comes after me about?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 12:30 PM PDT

Has a bad day so because she's getting divorced she has to check me

Question: What do I do when the whole family rejects me and I have no one no friends and no family just me?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 12:29 PM PDT

I have severe anxiety so making friends triggers too much stress. My family does not like me because my parents died and they were on bad terms with extended family at the time of their death. They died in 2014 in a car crash

Question: Help!! My mom is getting married to my biological father that hits us when he is angered because she thinks he has money, what should I do?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 12:10 PM PDT

Question: My mom stinks. How to deal?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 12:10 PM PDT

I live far from my mother, in a whole another country. She is very manipulative and toxic. But I still love her (because I have to I guess) and take care of her (send her money, pay for things, buy her things and etc). There is one thing she needs to do: to take care of herself I keep everything clean and organized in the house (especially when I come to visit). And she doesn't do that. Every time we have a fight, she cries and tells me I am a bad and cruel daughter and she is old and this is normal (I know bunch of old NEAT people). The biggest problem is that she wants to come visit to where I live and looking at her in this condition, I understand it will be a disaster. It's not like having a baby or a pet that you need to take care of, but worse. Because she never listens, gets offended and often works the opposite, to the contrary of what I ask her to do just to make a point. Abandoning my mom is not an option. But I feel like she is bringing enough damage through this huge distance and she will do more if she is near. What to do??

Question: How do I make myself have a twin?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 12:05 PM PDT

I do not have a twin and that is very sad to me. I do have a brother, but he did not want to get gender reassignment surgery to be my twin. How can I make myself have a twin?

Question: I have an inheritance b/c my father passed away yrs ago but none of my fathers family told me about it. What can I do to receive it?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 11:45 AM PDT

Question: Does my sister have any right to say anything?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 11:14 AM PDT

I am 25 and recently moved back in with my patents after a terrible break up with my boyfriend. We had a mortgage and had to sell up and everything. I've moved back home to try and get some money together and have been considering changing my career and pursuing adult nursing. I never went to university but it's now a 3 year degree where I live in England. My sister is 3 years older than me and went to university when she was 18 and has a good paid job and her own place. She was always cleverer than me. She started interrogating me and kicking off saying it's unfair I have moved back home and she doesn't want my parents to support me financially whilst I return to study as it's not fair on her. I am paying them rent and paid them rent back when I was 18 unlike her when she was at university they paid for everything for her such as all her food, travel expenses, books etc. I am going to pay for all those things myself as I am currently working and saving my own money, I literally just need a roof over my head and my parents really want me to become a nurse so are supporting me. My sister seems really jealous and angry that I am being given a new start. It's like she's never happy for me. I asked her what's up and she just turned her nose up at me. What's her problem?

Question: Why won't my mum take my advice a/b my bro? I think it's good.?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 11:14 AM PDT

My bro contacted me and said that he was receiving eviction notices. He said he had taken on 2 many expenses and didn't get the second job he had needed. I told him that I didn't have any $$ for him but that I could help him get a job as a residential assistance. His rent would be significantly lower. He declined and said he's just talk to our father. My father gave him his rent $$ plus several few hundreds more to get on his feet. I asked my mum why wasn't my offer accepted and she said it was b/c it took away my bro's dignity. My dad called me b/c yet again this month my bro wanted him to pay his entire rent. He said he can't afford to keep helping. I told my dad my bro needed a long term solution other than having other people pay it. I'm just not understanding why my mum and brother don't get this. ????? What am I missing?

Question: My dad refuses to let me get a Nintendo 3ds/Smash Bros., because of his restriction of "Only $15" and "no electronics", despite the fact?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 10:43 AM PDT

that I could afford it and he has bought several iPads, iPhones and a new laptop into the house. I threatened that I would go and buy it but my dad said that if I did that, I would lose all my electronics. Obviously, he is weakening my economic opportunities and also dampening my will to do something new. Who is right--Me or him?

Question: Blackmail?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 10:26 AM PDT

I don't know what to do... I can't stand my mom anymore... She's always yelling and threatening and recently she's blackmailing me about a plane ticket that I have and that she will remove it if I don't do as she says... If I don't I'm either grounded or she will grab me by the ear pull and yell... Help.

Question: Do you love yourself?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 10:22 AM PDT

Question: Dad ******* sisters friend, that moved in. What to do?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 10:18 AM PDT

So my sister's friend move in our home. Against the will of many of my family. This started in High School. The school go so worried He was called in. No one but my Dad likes her there anymore because she is very manipulative. I recently found out why. What should I do? I and the girl are now in college.

Question: My friends got my boobs out and played with them for 30 minutes and they left should I pull my bra up or leave them out in front of my bro?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 10:14 AM PDT

Question: I need help with a concert?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 10:07 AM PDT

So basically my sister is suppose to be taking me to this concert with my friend but the thing is that my sister won't take me unless she knows that I'm passing. Ok so the concert is 3 days before the end of school and my mom said she would let us go but my mom is not gonna get tickets until she knows that my sister will be taking us. I have no idea like my sister will take me unless she knows I passed but I want know until the end of school which is when the concert is. ANY IDEAS YOU GUYS MIGHT HAVE?!

Question: Are we are dysfunctional family or am I too sensitive?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 09:40 AM PDT

Tomorrows a hectic day so we decided to have takeaway, me and my mom looked on the internet and wrote down our pizza order (for tomorrow)and I went to show my dad, but my mom told me not to because he'll get all confused and anxious. I thought that was silly and shown it to him anyway and he complained it was expensive. Now my moms angry at me for telling him and I feel so guilty. My dad keeps nagging my mom about the takeaway and my mom keeps yelling saying it's my fault! What should I do?

Question: Is my mother a prostitute?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 09:07 AM PDT

Ok so it all started from when i dont know.she goes out on almost all weekends.Friday and comes back on sunday.She has multiple relationships with guys with whom she meets at the site twoo.my father knows about it and supports her because she just has those relationships for money.When she comes back home she always has a bondle of money wrapped in white paper.I read her wattsapp messages and they were disgusting.I want to kiss you,should i send my pensis picture and blah blah.I recently found out her breast and vagins pictures in the computer which she has no idea its there.When i ask her were do you go she says somewhere for work and in her big bag she takes all the sexy panties and all sleevless inners and hot p[ants.As we are indians the moms dont wear all those shorts and tank tops aom but somewear and some dont.Please help.Only two friends knows about them and i trust them .I called my elder sister today (she is out of state for her job)but she knows about moms going out but i dont know what she thinks about it.She called me last week telling me that we have to stop moms going out for 2 or 3 nights.Today i called her and directly asked her-is my mom a prostitute.Moment of silence.She asks-who told you that .i said no one.She said its nothing like that.she is coming in may and she said i will talk to you about that when she comes back.did i do the right thing asking her the question?.pls pls help.pls everyone.My sister is 23 and i am 13 i will turn 14 this year.

Question: I want to throw my son of my ******* roof?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 08:45 AM PDT

The little ***** gets on my nerves so much I want to ****** to die. I tried to pull out but my girl pulled me in.

Question: Child abuse?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 08:44 AM PDT

I dont like my stepdad. At the time when my mom married him, I was in Korea, and I did not even know if my parents divorced, it was 7 years ago I moved to America a year ago. My stepdad started to dislike me because I didn't know much about American culture, and I acted "rude". Now, I am getting used to America and I don't like my stepdad now because he has been really grumpy for a year everyday and sometimes he'd whip me for being slow doing chores. He threw stuff at me for being slow last week, and It totally turned me off and I started to hating him from just disliking him. Yesterday, he told me to take out the trash, and I kind of ignored him because he was following me and yelling harassing me for being slow like usual, and I said "you see why I hate your husband mom?" to my mom. So my mom wanted to talk to me and she end up yelling at me (at the time, she was really tired from work). Then my stepdad just came into my room and started to whipping me with his belt for causing trouble when my mom is tired from work. I did not move an inch, even though it hurt a lot, because if I show my mom me suffering, her heart will break. I didn't even change my face and my stepdad got more mad and whipped me harder and harder. My mom tried to stop him but he stopped after a couple minutes. Now my back is bruised from the metal part of the belt and I didn't show my back to my mom and said my back is totally fine. But I'm thinking of reporting him for child abuse now. What should I do?? I know I was rude to my stepdad but since I hate him so much, it's hard to be polite and kind to him. He doesn't act kind and polite to me either of course... I know I was rude to my stepdad but since I hate him so much, it's hard to be polite and kind to him. He doesn't act kind and polite to me either of course... I just want to be separate with him. He doesn't even live in my house and he just comes over.

Question: How should i handle this?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 08:31 AM PDT

My fiance had a messed up childhood. Messy divorce..his mom remarried and he has 3 step brothers- when he turned 18 move out on his own..because his step dad built a house that didn't have enough room for him , so i can imagined he felt abandoned. He doesnt like talking about it. His real dad he isnt that close with and he sees once every few months. With that being said..I feel like whenever his mom calls and says come over or i need money or a favor( meanwhile she never asks him if hes ok what he needs). he jumps to her. I think because he wants to get any love and attention she gives. He is 35. This weekend we have my friends surprise 30th birthday. Hes known about this for a month. He spoke to his mom and one of his brothers is going to visit for the weekend, and she told him he should come join also, she said she missed him and hasnt seen him. He now doesnt want to go to my best friends surprise party, and wants to stay at his moms for the weekend ( she lives 2 hours away). I said cant you visit another weekend? And he is very upset about this and said " he guesses so." Also, i noticed any older mother like figures- he becomes close to. One of his coworkers is an older woman and acts as a mentor to him and he is very close. Also one of his old bosses was a woman and he still calls her to confide her and ask her advice. I feel he is still searching for that motherly connection. Do you think he needs therapy?

Question: My parents had to see my rotten brat of a sister last night luckily I was not there. How do I avoid ever having to see this crap again?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 08:20 AM PDT

Question: My dad likes to lie to my mom does this mean she should divorce him?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 08:19 AM PDT

He lies to me also as he's a pathological liar doesn't even notice that

Question: Me and my mom argue all the time so i got grounded four about 6 months now?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 07:34 AM PDT

my mom really expects alot from me my brother is in the gifited program so she expects me to have perfect grades shes sexist and says becuase your a girl you need to know how to cook and clean and you need to serve the man first im tired of it and next week my crushs mom asked me if i wanted to go somewhere with them next week how do i get ungrounded in 2 weeks we have such a bad realship i just want to FIX IT but we have fought down the stirs shes left marks on me i need to get ungrounded and im only 12 what can i do HELLPPPPP im 12 i really need help to get ungrounded in 2 WEEKS

Question: I killed this kid for bullying me, my next target is his family. How to kill them without being detected?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 07:22 AM PDT

So here recently I shot this kid to death for calling me a loser, my next target is his family. I was thinking about shooting up the funeral and killing his family that way, but that wouldn't be safe because then I would get caught. What is some stealth ways for me to kill his mom, his dad, his baby sister, his little brother, and his grandparents?

Question: How to deal with a mother who says you're deceptive?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 07:20 AM PDT

(Before I explain, I will give some background info. I am almost 17 and a girl. My elder sister is graduating college this May. I am biologically almost exactly like my mom, and my sister is almost exactly like my father. My father left three months before I was born when my parents divorced, I found out about him two years ago and he has had parenting time ever since. I know him enough, and he has been emotionally and physically abusive so I have concluded he will only ever be a biological father to me.) Ever since I was little, when I did something bad like a normal kid would do, my mother would say I planned it and that I was deceiving and wanted to hurt (mentally) my mom. It used to bother me so much that my own mother would say that to me because I had never planned something intentionally bad in my life. I'm simply not like that. And now I'm older, whenever I've done something "bad" in her eyes, she tells me I'm becoming like my father's side and I intentionally did it. It just bothers me that I've known her my whole life and she still thinks I'm like my sister and my father. I don't know what to do anymore because I've explained it to her and I don't know what I should be doing anymore. I am a Catholic and it hurts when I get it from my mother and when I get it from the other side of my family too. I'm just trying to live in good way, by being nice and compromising and I don't know if I should ignore them, or get to some understanding with my mother.

Question: What does it mean to be a kindred spirit?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 07:17 AM PDT

My friend said "You are a special person, you are a kindred spirit"

Question: What does kindred spirit mean? How do you know if you found one?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 05:57 AM PDT

My friend said "You are a special person, you are a kindred spirit" What does that mean?

Question: This is not a question just letting you all know Yahoo Answers are very rude and should be took off of the Internet.?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 05:53 AM PDT

Friends have took their lives, hurt themselves and more because of this website. I do not recommend using it.

Question: Simple family problem?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 05:43 AM PDT

I got a cousin who barely moved down the street from me. He is 20 and I am 23. We been bestfriends forever it's just lately he's been bothering me 24/7 to go buy him some alcohol which I have a few times. He no drive so he is free of dui risk. However not free from doing something stupid and have it backfire on me for having me supply it. Long story short I told him I will no longer be his beer runner. He got pissed and looked hurt but I did the right thing correct????? I even told him to get a fake id just like other teens he instead gave me the devil eyes as in looked betrayed.

Question: What does this mean?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 04:10 AM PDT

My friend said "You are a special person, you are a kindred spirit" What does that mean?

Question: I want to cut my dad out of my life, if that bad?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 03:30 AM PDT

My dad supports me right now along with my mum, but is abusive. He always makes sure we know he's the boss, tells us things VERY slowly word by word as if we're stupid (to the point where I'm like- hurry up, I forgot what you were talking about)... Things got so bad with him a week ago that I ran to my room (he followed me). To stop him going in I grabbed my pocket knife and pointed it at him, because I honestly feared he would physically harm me even though my mum was next to us. When I was little and he got angry at me he used to drag me by my hair. A social worked friend of ours told my mum if we reported every single thing that my dad did, he wouldn't be able to work anywhere anymore. Is it wrong to want to cut him out of my life? And how do I do it without cutting out my mum at the same time (I mean they live together which makes it difficult; ignoring one while still talking to the other). I'm planning on doing it soon after I move out of home. He loves me, but I don't like the way he treats me. He makes so many rules, restricting what I do all the time (and even does that to my mum to a certain extent). I'm lost as to what to do and how to go about things. Any and all advice is appreciated even though I do realise this question was worded messily and that I went in circles with it and that I was vague too Cheers :)

Question: Kind of dysfunctional family/divorce problems?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 01:53 AM PDT

I have a really bizarre family situation. I'm 14 and an only child. My mom is an orphan and is estranged from her foster family so she has no real relatives. She homeschools me. My dad doesn't respect my mom at all – he has no regard for her feelings on anything – but he's fine with me. My mom is kind of a "helicopter mom" but I know she cares about me. My parents really don't get along, and are likely headed for a divorce soon. The problem is, I'm not sure if I want to stay with either of them. My dad would let me get away with murder, but I still hate him for how he treats my mom. My mom would be so strict – I legit have never been home alone or anything. I just feel kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place. Do you have any suggestions?

Question: Is it bad that I stay at home with my mother at 24?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 01:25 AM PDT

Hello, this is my problem, ever since I graduated from high school I have been staying at home with my mother while others​ are out experiencing adult life but I finally found a job at McDonald's but I only work one day a week and that pisses me off, I have no driving license and my mother won't help me, I feel totally isolated and everyday I have a headache from staying at home, I'm not saying I want to go out and be social because I'm anti social, but Im always irritable and I even snapped at my mother bunch of times which I don't mean to do, but shes the main reason why my life sucks now, what should I do?

Question: So I wanted to know if I was acting like a spoiled brat in the situation (more in the details).?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 01:02 AM PDT

So when I was about 11 I think, for Christmas my twin sister wanted a DS light. We had already gotten the first DSs for our birthdays six months earlier, and I didn't really end up using mine. I didn't ask for it, it was just something that my parents' friends got us. So anyways, for Christmas I said I didn't want a DS light because I didn't think I would end up using it and it would be a waste of money, along with any games I got to go with it. I told them I didn't mind if my twin got one and I didn't. So they asked me what color I would want just in case I got one and I told them sliver, but I still asked them not to get me one because I knew I wouldn't use it, at least not for very long. So come Christmas, they get me one (white, btw), and I said thank you for it but I ended up not using it very much. Then my mom got mad at me for it, and I told her that this was why I asked them not to get me one in the first place. Also, I didn't get things that were actually on my list because the DS was expensive. They said they had to be "fair" by getting us the same things, but I told them that it wasn't fair for them to get me something on my sister's list instead of something that was on my list. They never got my sister things on my list instead of things on her list. I also said it wasn't fair for them to get me something that I asked them not to get me due to the fact I wouldn't use it, and complain about me not using it. Was I being spoiled and unappreciative?

Question: Is it possible to make graduation less...awkward?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 12:18 AM PDT

Let me explain. After I graduate in a couple months, I'm going out to eat with my family. Well sure the idea is nice...but to he honest I'm not that excited...I kinda feel bad about that...but I'll have my unsupportive hypocritical mother, a stepdad who I hate with my entire being, 2 stepsisters who do Nothing but whine, a Dad who I know Nothing about other than he's a womanizer and a perv and officer, his wife who only speaks Spanish, my 2 step grandparents who are getting Alzheimer's (my step grandma is waaaay into it though...my step grandpa is gettin there :/) and a mentally ill step uncle. I mean how can that NOT be awkward? I'm not trying to be negative but I feel like it'll end in some sort of disaster...NO rude answers please?

Question: Is my wife's sister interested in me?

Posted: 04 Apr 2017 12:17 AM PDT

Me and my wife were staying at a hotel recently to visit with her sister. The first day she came to visit us at our hotel, I didn't really say much cause I'm not a social person at first. My wife told me on the way home from the trip that her sister told her in private that she was upset that I didn't talk to her that day. My wife's sister also seems to like to tease me alot whenever she is around me, but then again she does that to mostly everyone else I've seen her around. She doesn't really make too much effort to make conversation with me if we are the only ones in a room. I've also seen out of the corner of my eye that she always glances at me when I walk by her, but then again it could just be innocent. She is a very mature and smart woman, and from what I know about her doesn't fall for just any guy. I may have just answered my own question but I'll ask anyway, Is she interested in me? And if she is, is it enough to just ignore her until she gets over it? Or do I have to talk to her about it?

Question: Is my grandpa just a pervert?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 11:52 PM PDT

Since last year my grandpa has been acting weird around me. Like he is sexually attracted to me. I'm in college and moved to my grandparents house. I caught him staring at me while I slept in the living room. He was there for 5 minutes, he said sorry and went back to his room when I woke up to a creepy feeling. I've been freaked out since. I believe he masturbates to me, though I'm not sure, before he goes to the bathroom he will walk pass the bathroom just to stare at me, then goes back to the direction of the bathroom. I found Sperm one time after he used it. I told my mother and grandmother about the staring but said I was overreacting. He has always been very loving, but now he is constantly telling me he loves me, he only acts this way with me and not so exaggerated with his other granddaughter. He has stared my butt im sure and saw me naked once, since my door has a slight gap. He didn't say anything though my grandma asked what he was going and he left. He has talked to my sister and grandma crying saying that he would never touch Me and that he can't hug me. But he has yet to talk to me about my uneasy feelings. One time he was drunk and said "you know this is your home too you can do anything here." He always use to say that and I was happy he seemed like the old grandpa but then he ruined it by saying "you can do anything, Anything" while winking and giving a kissy face. He is always very loving espically when drunk. But I felt gross after that.

Question: Is my grandpa a pervert?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 11:29 PM PDT

the past year I have noticed my grandpa acting strange around me as I m the only granddaughter living at my grandparent house right now. I woke up to him watching me sleep in the living room. He said sorry and went back to his room. Ever since this I ve been freaked out unfortunately he came into my room without knocking and saw me naked too. He is constantly staring st me and telling me he loves me. Which he use to do but not so exaggerated like it is now. I know he loves me, but I feel so uncomfortable when he says it now. He noticed this and talked to my sister saying he would never touch me. But the thing is I ve never given him that feeling because I didn t feel like that. Just weirded out by his intense staring and overly affectionate love stamments. He doesn t act this way with his other granddaughter just me. I m told my mom and my grandma Not in detail just about the staring, it progressed since then. they say I m overreacting. he is still staring at me and I believe he even masturbates to me. Every time he goes to the bathroom he makes sure he stares at me before he goes in. Like he will be right by the bathroom but will walk past it, turn to stare at me and then go back to the direction of the bathroom. I found sperm in the toilet one time after he had used it. Also My grandma said he cried to her because he can t hug me or be like he was before with me.I don t let him now. But he has yet to talk to me about how uncomfterbal I am around him. I feel suspicious.

Question: Should a man be cradling a three year old? Aren't they too old?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 11:16 PM PDT

Holding them like this. Obviously with an older kid.

Question: Parent's fighting?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 10:55 PM PDT

I am 16 years old and my family has never had problems. My dad has been suspecting my mom of cheating a while ago but she always denied it. recently they've been arguing a lot. my dad is a nice loving caring dad and just want's the best for us. a few hours ago they were arguing again and my mom admitted to cheating. she says she doesn't want my dad anymore that he is getting old and ugly and her new man is so much better and wants him to move in with her. it broke my heart seeing the tears run down my fathers cheeks because he rarely cries.You can tell how much my dad loves my mom and now he is leaving in a few days because my mom doesn't want him, leaving behind 5 kids with a mom working a not very good paying job. to support us. I have been crying for so long I don't know what to do. I am scared and feel so lost. I've been dealing with enough already. I love my dad so much he is my only friend. Please Help.

Question: How do most people feel when the anniversary comes of one of their parent's deaths?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 10:39 PM PDT

Like for instance, how do most people feel when the yearly anniversary of their mother's death comes around? Do they shed a tear or do something special? Because I don't think a parent would want you feeling bad on the yearly mark they died. I guess it's just different.

Question: How to deal with a family memeber who's institutionalized?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 09:37 PM PDT

So I have a family member who's done 15 years in the penitentiary. He just received got released and all he talks about is religion to people and when I say what's your purpose for saying this? And he gets stuck and just goes rambling on and on about government conspiracies and God. Just about delusional things how do I make him realize that's these things are delusional and aren't true? I'm an atheist btw so religitards stay away.

Question: I really really REALLY really want an older brother. Who else?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 09:18 PM PDT

Ever since I was young, I've wanted an older brother. Everyone I knew was much older than me and was abusive, and I was bullied for a good portion of my life. I grew up without a father, and everyone I know that I mentioned is female (myself included). I always imagined having a protective and caring older brother, but that won't happen. ;-; even now, even though I'm not being abused anymore, I still really really want one XD Ah, well. At least I have an imagination.

Question: Is it Rude to Cancel on a Friend After Initiating Something Due to another obligation?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 09:15 PM PDT

So there is this event in my community that goes on every year (it's a 6 mile walk for a cause during the day), but this year it's on a Monday morning. Most of my family and friends are going to skip it this year since they can't take the day off from work or school, but I wanted to go since I can take the day off from work. My good friend who is also my coworker mentioned at lunch that he is going to take the day off from work that day to go to the event. About an hour later at work, I ran into him again and asked him if he wanted to go to the event together this year. He said yeah we can, and he asked me if anyone in my family was going and I said they have class/work. He mentioned that every year he goes with his entire family. Then I said, "oh then go with your family, I don't want to throw myself..." He cut me off and said they are going anyway so I can join them if I want. I just found out a few days after that the due to the time and location of the event, I would have to miss one of my graduate courses later in the day which I don't want to if I go to the event. Would it be rude or does it seem like I'm avoiding his family if when the time comes I say "I just saw the timing of the event and it coincides with my course." He knows my class schedule so that isn't a problem..

Question: I blame my brother for everything?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 09:12 PM PDT

My Dad told me that the reason my Mom left him was because she wanted my brother to be born in the U.S. Because of him my life has been completely ruined and our family has been split apart (since my dad did not want to move to the U.S. with my mom. I hate my brother so much and wish he was never born.

Question: Why did my family sell me to the circus?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 09:07 PM PDT

Question: Is it acceptable for this 17 year old boy to make sexy chicken enchiladas for his 14 year old sister so she'll have sex with him?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 09:03 PM PDT

Question: I do not want my sister-in-law anywhere near my unborn child?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 09:01 PM PDT

She's nuts. Just some of things that she has said/done: *"You're dead to me" *"I will forever hate you" *"I have never trusted someone less than I trust you" *"I will never support the marriage between you and MY brother" *"You are just a spoiled brat playing wife" *"You are not family" *I've been blocked on facebook *She facebook messaged each and every one of my family members, including my mother, slandering them -- calling them sluts, whores, alcoholics, etc...She even told my sister that she should have her child taken away from her. * She implied that our baby should be taken away from me, and full custody should be given to my husband. * She threw a secret, something of which I told her in confidence, back in my face, using it as ammunition. * She told my husband to bring our child to her without me, and against my wishes. He told her no, she got upset and blocked him. This all went down because I didn't say hello to her at my brother's wedding, one to which I didn't know she was invited to. This had "offended" her. I told her repeatedly that I didn't see her there, and why didn't she say hello to me? My husband thinks she has some sort of mental illness. She's made it clear that she has an over attachment to my husband and resents me for "taking him away from her". This has been going on for a year and I am fed up with the slander and abuse. This is not someone I want around my child. Am I wrong to feel that I don't owe her anything, and keep our child away from her?

Question: Why does my family hate me just for being a conservative Christian?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 08:53 PM PDT

My folks are always trying to corrupt me morally & drag me down. They try to get me to go to strip clubs, have sex with women I hardly even know, curse, drink alcohol, listen to horrible mainstream music, and conform to vile liberal culture that I'm disgusted by. Now, I know I'm not not the most perfect guy in the world but shouldn't people want the best for their own family? Shouldn't they be happy that I try to live clean & do right? It's not like I try to force my convictions onto them, I just ask to be left alone but they're like crabs in a barrel trying to drag me down. I spent years of my young life climbing out of the pit of moral degeneracy & becoming a better me, I'll be damned if I ever go back to the old ways. But they can't stand me for it, they think they're so much greater than me & I'm just this weak idiot who's too scared to let loose, not realizing it's because I've matured early because I've already been through a lot of hell. How can people be this way? Does this mean they love me or hate me because I seriously can't tell anymore?

Question: Can some say a child was wrongfully taken in Oct when they had full knowledge that mother and child were moving away from his abusive way?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 08:35 PM PDT

My daughter left her bipolar cheating husband with their daughter. had done nothing to express interest in the child's well being at all. he now want to say he plans on saying she kidnapped the baby so his parents can have her. he is in Cal we are in OR. he is military but had many many issues. He is a very unstable young man. We tried all we could to help them both but everything was his way or not at all. He cheated on my daughter and she saw him kissing the neighbor they day they brought baby to Cal from Or. He has had many ladies behind her back. I could go on. Looking for actual laws here. Its been almost 6 months he asked one time about how she is and asked one time for a photo.. Thats it.

Question: I m so afraid of losing my mom...?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 08:31 PM PDT

I m 15 year old female. Okay so for some reason I feel like I m going to lose my mom like I accidentally hit her in the head with my head and I grabbed on to her tightly feeling like she was going to slip away you see for some reason my thought process said that she was going to die right then and I began crying hysterically because I truly thought she was going to die I have two younger siblings one age 5 and the other age 3 but my moms pregnant with another child her hormones are throwing mine off majorly believe it or not and I m much more emotional where as I usually never cry or get my feelings hurt okay so let s back track to when my younger sister age 3 was born my mom almost died in labor so it s understandable that I m worried about my kik dying for that reason but I am still unsure why it s so deeply bortherijg to me I ve always been really close with my mom like always but I don t understand why this sudden fear of death is so strong my question is what do I do how do I fix this strong over reaction to anything that happens to my mom

Question: I have an abusive brother and I don't know what to do.?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 08:30 PM PDT

My brother is 17 and I am 13 so as you can imagine he is quite stronger than me. He torments me in every way possible, calling me names, making me feel bad about myself and my personality, and of course beating me for self-pleasure. I don't know if I can handle this anymore it is overwhelming and traumatizing. He hates me and finds any way top hurt me, for example when he loses something of his he blames me and starts physically and verbally hurting me. The only advice from my parents is to ignore him which is quite impossible given the fact that he instigates the fights and attacks me. When he attacks me I try to fight back but I just start breaking into tears. I really need help this is a huge problem so any feedback would be great.

Question: Are girls/women protective of younger brothers?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 08:29 PM PDT

If speaking from personal experience, please state name your age and gender.

Question: Would you let your 19 year old neice marry a 36 year old?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 08:25 PM PDT

My brother don't even seem to care but it's really bothering me... I just think the man is being a pedophile... But my brother said he known him for a while and trust him please help any advice is appreciated

Question: Do bipolar parents know they're awful?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 08:23 PM PDT

My Dad has bipolar, and was extremely abusive to me growing up. I hate him so much. I'm 24 now. I graduated college in May 2016, work at a homeless shelter and in a seafood department at a grocery store. I still live at home, but part of that is because my parents need help paying the bills. My childhood haunts me to this day. My Dad kind of admits he was a bad father, but still blames me. I was just a little girl.

Question: How could I reason with my mom?

Posted: 03 Apr 2017 08:23 PM PDT

I don't hate my mom. I just hate the choices she makes. My mother has four children, me included. I'm the oldest at 13 years. All my younger siblings are under 8 years. The thing is, my mom spends more time on her phone or with friends than taking care of her children. She hands the responsibility of controlling all of my younger siblings to me, along with the expectation that I'll clean and keep an A average GPA. I hate it. I'm not fond of younger children. Cleaning isn't my strong suit and I honestly don't give a crap about keep an A average, useless score. I didn't ask for 3 other siblings nor the responsibility of them. I understand well enough that my mother had to physically push me out of her fcking vagina, but I didn't ask for that, did I? Too late to go back now. LOL. Either way, I want to reason with my mother. Ask her to stop pushing all these goddamn kids towards me. I don't want to remember my teen life as a second mom to my siblings. Also, my mother doesn't party or do that kind of thing. She just expects too much out of me and I wish to get her to stop.