Ok where so I begin? I want serious answers. I don't want to feel judged, please. So my husband and I have been together for 9 years married 5. I had been holding in a lie for a long time. I told him I had money that I actually didn't have. But I didn't have the courage to just tell him the truth. There was no reason why I even made this lie up. I have beat myself up for it. In October 2016 he found out that I was lying. He said we needed sometime apart. So I moved out. Since then, we have talked only a little about it. Yet he said he wanted to still hold a tight knit together. I see him almost everyday. We text non stop, but when I bring up anything about us, he always says 'we will talk later'. But later never comes. I have lost a part of me. I love him with all of me. Like I said I kmow what I did was horrible and there's no way I can make up for it except saying I'm sorry. I can't even tell you how many times I have said I'm sorry. I kind of in a way think that I should just end this myself and just let his heartache go. But the other part of me wants to stay strong and keep waiting. It's been 5 months. How much time does someone need to actually decide if they love me for me and want to stay with me? I have heard all reasons why I should give up that I'm fighting a battle that is already lost. It's been 5 long months. Im an emotional roller-coaster. But should I be waiting this long? Should I just move on with my life?

My wife is having a baby in August she's scared to give birth again. She's only 16 she had her first baby when she was 12 long story there but she's not worried about the pain she's worried I'll leave her like her ex did. Her left right after their daughter was born. He didn't even show up until after she was born she had to do it herself. She hasn't seen or talk to him since then. It's been 4 years. She's also scared because her friend made her watch a movie about Charles Manson. I think she's too young for stuff like that. She shouldn't be watching it especially since she's pregnant and her baby is due right around the same time. How can I make her feel comfortable ?

My sister in law Grace embarrassed our daughter Lisa but she blames it on my Husband. Yesterday Grace happen to stop by as Lisa was getting a spanking for knocking a hole in her bedroom wall then spraying toilet cleaner trying to kill a spider. I told her not to go near the living room cause she was getting a spanking in her short nightgown. Grace did anyways and seen my Husband sitting back in the recliner with Lisa flat over his lap. Sometimes Lisa has gotten spanked longer then other times but never hard. The second that my sister in law seen Lisa in her underpants she told me that "Lisa is feeling embarrassed to be over his lap in her thin nylon brief" I told her that no she is now embarrassed that YOU seen her and later was upset that cause Daddy stopped spanking that it seems like she got two spankings. Yes a little girl getting a spanking would be embarrassing but not from her parents? Right? Grace told me I am full of ****. Am I??

She must be unable to get some dick. Don't she know that no man will marry a 25 yr old virgin? I got married when I was 38 weeks pregnant and my baby is 6 months old.

My bf and I have been together for 2 years. He has a 5 yr old daughter and we now have an 8 month old son. He got married at the age of 18 and his marriage lasted less than 2 years because she cheated and got pregnant by another man. She has made our life miserable. He has residential custody of the 5 yr old and im a stay at home mom. Now i always believed in being married before having kids and he knew that. I had my son and he never proposed even tho i have brought it up multiple times. What upsets me is that im under so much stress taking care of his daighter who is a lot more work than my son, i treat him like a king. He gets home from work at 3 and is always tired he doesnt have to lift a finger doesnt even have to put his own plate away and im not worthy of a ring because ohhh i forgot to do a load of laundry the other day. On top of that, im an illigal immigrant and althought i wanted to marry him because i loved him, becoming a citizen would be the cherry on top. Now, his bm just found out about my status and shes threatening to call ICE on me, she says so I can have my son taken away. Im super worried and upset and all my bf has to say is "what she said was kindda bogus, dont text her anymore stop replying to her".

He says any other girl in this world would make him happier.. I'm worthless and I just spread my legs and pop out kids.. WE are pregnant with OUR 3rd child.. he tells me I need to just my stuff and leave.. the house is in his name and his dads so I just don't see how it's fair to my children and i that I have to leave!? I need advice desperately! We have been together for 9 yrs and married 1, but I think it's time to separate neither of us are happy anymore!

I feel sick, you guys. I am a newlywed and Tonight my husband was arrested after being stopped by the police and one thing led to another and he ended up at the police station. My mom and I rushed over after his parents called us. But the moment my mom and I said we were coming, his parents said "No, no need. We'll settle this." But he's my husband, so I had to go. We went, we spoke to the police and everything was okay. Now, once I entered there was another woman there and I was confused who she was. I assumed she was an assistant? But she couldn't be because she wasn't dressed as such. It not until two of the officers told the story of what happened and mentioned the woman beside me as my husbands "girlfriend" as they recounted the story. My insides fell to my stomach. My husband was there but silent, I assume because he's arrested so this might not be the time to defend himself. It also seems like his family knows this girl. So I found out that when he was stopped, the woman was in the passenger seat. I've been silent since we got home. He took a walk. He quickly got angry when my mom accosted him about the girlfriend comments. What do I do you guys? I'm 22 btw

His father has dementia in a nursing home. It's the most devastating illness. He is at the phase where he doesn't know who we are. The nursing home is an hour away. My husband works 60 hours per week. I wish I could say that our visits at least brought him happiness, but they don't really. He's happy there with the staff and he doesn't remember we were there 30 seconds later. We fight about this a lot, because I push him to go. At the same time, I understand he's exhausted on his days off and our whole day ends up revolving around the visit and traffic. I also feel the guilt from his family members most likely judging him for not going. If you were him, would you visit? How often? Thoughts? Another factor for him is that it's also terrifying to be confronted with the illness when it's possibly genetic, so that messes with his head a lot too. The other residents are even worse off. Some can't talk anymore. They scream. It's just incredibly sad.

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I'm concerned about my sister who recently got engaged to a man she has known for a year and a half. This guy got officially divorced just this past summer and had been separated for a year before that. He was very much in love with his ex-wife and was sort of side-blinded by her want for divorce. He tried to make it work and get back together with her but that just wasn't what she wanted. Shortly after he met my sister and they've been dating for a little over a year and he just proposed to her this past weekend. So far i just told her that I am very happy for her, but I snooped his facebook and instagram accounts and his ex-wives account to get all the details of what happened and what I discovered was the same thing as what my sister told me. I know my sister is very in love with him, and she is very excited because it's hard to meet men nowadays but I don't want her to go through with something that she might regret. I suggested that she take things slowly and not rush into anything to ensure he is remarrying for the right reasons. She just moved in with him as well. He has 2 kids from his divorce and shared custody. How soon is too soon?

My boyfriend asked me to marry him, he was 2 kids with his ex wife, she cheated on him and ugred for the divorced. I have never been married but I have one child out of wed lock who is not his. But I want to marry him but I don t want it to be biblically wrong. I ve done some ready but I just can t find the answers I m looking for. I m a Christian. Any input?

I'm a powerful and independent woman My husband had the NERVE to tell me that I shouldn't spank our kids with a wooden spoon. I've done nothing different from how I was raised. I've had worse done to me as a kid. So I'm thinking about calling the cops on my husband and say that he beat the kids before he has a chance to pin it on me.

A friend of mine was trolled on Facebook by a Black guy marrying a White guy out of racism when she didn't. She's Black but she blocked him for good. And today, my husband yelled at me when I exchanged greetings with a White guy at church. My husband is Asian and so am I. He thinks all White guys fetishsize Asian girls and always accuses me of being a racist White worshipper like my parents do when I'm not. Me and my friend both live in the South and most people still marry within the same race. And a person's race is highly emphasized over character which is another reason divorce is so high. My friend's parents are okay with her marrying outside her race while mine are not. Is it evolutionary for some guys to be like this? Some perpetrate violence against interracial couples.

We've been together for 6 years and I have a 12 year old from a previous marriage. Whenever she does something that he doesn't like, he'll just yell at her to stop it. Then I jump in and express how rude or mean he's being, which sends a message to my daughter that I'm contradicting him. I don't always understand the things he gets mad about, and I don't feel comfortable just blindly going along with something I don't agree with when it comes to my child. Like today in the car, a song came on the radio that she likes so she started singing along. He then turns up the radio, I didn't know why at the time, I thought maybe it was because he liked the song too, but later found out it was to drown her out. Well, she just sang louder when he turned it up which made him mad and he snapped at her, telling her to stop singing because it's annoying. I was like, "geez, that was really rude" or something like that. Then he gets mad at me because I'm "defying" him. Turns out his parents raised him to believe that it is very rude to sing along to a song in the car with other people there because they can't enjoy the music with you singing…ok. Weird. I don't necessarily agree, I don't personally think that's rude or annoying, but whatever, if he does then fine ,we can be respective of that. But he didn't express any of that in the car. He just told her to shut up and that she was being annoying. Anyway, that's very typical of what happens around here. I have told him numerous times that I would be more than happy to support any logical rule he wants to put in place, but he HAS to communicate better. Stop and explain why something is wrong and why she shouldn't do it and clearly communicate your expectations for the future. I'll totally get on board with that. But despite me telling him that a million times, he just won't change, so this keeps happening. What do I do? Am I really supposed to sit quietly by when he does that and just support him no matter what?

My husband and I have been together for seven years. We have a deep connection and we do love each other. My husband had an emotional affair years ago and after that I spent years falsely accusing him and not appreciating him anymore. A few months ago, he went crazy, spent all our money and had an affair. My kids and I had to leave because he spent the rent money almost leaving us homless. After the kids and I left, he said he wanted to work on our marriage. However, he blocked me and would not speak to me or our daughter for weeks. Come to find out, he was living with his girlfriend and her baby. I started a new relationship and so now we are both living with someone else. A lot was left unsaid and unresolved. He says he wants his family back and is still in love with me but he can't leave his girlfriends house because he would have nowhere to go. He is waiting on a new job out of State and has asked me to go with him and to work on our marriage. This seems so crazy to me. We both say we love each other and want to try again while we are living with our new boyfriend/girlfriend. Nothing has been resolved or laid out. My kids and I have nowhere to go but where we are staying now. I'm super confused. Help!!!

My husband s niece visited us for 12 days. My husband is 35 and his niece is 19. We were also celebrating my son s 2nd birthday so we planned a trip to Disney as a family. Throughout the trip the niece was only interested in talking to my husband. She would book rides where I could not take my son and my husband and her would ride on, while I watched the baby. They would both walk ahead of me and my son. After having spent 5 days in disney and going through this everyday, we came home. After coming home, every evening my husband took her out either shopping, dinner or while doing household chores. Every night they would both sit in the living room and watch late night movies while I went to bed. He then also planned a day trip to ski with her. I could not join them on any of these expeditions as I am currently studying for some exams. Trip to disney had already costed me time from my studies. My husband s niece didn t once make an effort to develop a bond with me and would go to a different room (usually to the one where my husband would be) anytime we were both home together. I felt completely ignored throughout all this and when I tried bringing this up to my husband, he said I was being mean to be thinking that way since his niece was only in town for a few days. Was I wrong to feel this way? Is it reasonable for a niece and uncle to be spending so much time together in such a manner? Relationship between my husband and his niece.

Im seeing a woman and im not sure she's divorced. She says she is unhappily married but i dont buy it ( she could be divorced but being married sounds more "exciting" ) We got into two huge fights recently and she said: if i were divorced would you marry me ? Why did she ask that ? What answer did she expect to hear ? I said yes cuz cause that would be a dream come true.

I don't feel threatened by these women but I wonder why he does this. They in turn will like his photos. He will also always posts things he is doing with his friends, his son, his mom etc but never dates with me. I'm his Facebook secret apparently. Why does he do this?

Taking into account that the wife never wears one in front of the husband. If the wife was 'shocked' by that, would it make a difference if the husband could hit the thong with a cumshot from over 12" away? And that he could get himself bigger, and shoot farther, than the wife had ever bothered to try to accomplish?

This is a question for those in committed relationships only please. How do you feel when your spouse likes attractive other members of the opposite sexes photos on Facebook?

I accepted friend requests from some customers and coworkers to be nice. They requested me, I did not request them but I did accept their request as to not be mean or make a big deal. One customer actually gave me a hard time in person for not accepting his friend request right away. Anyways sometimes I receive messages on Facebook from a couple of the men in particular who are customers but I do not wish to communicate with them on a very personal level outside of work. How do I respond to their messages or should I just ignore them and act like I never go on Facebook anymore if they bring it up?

I am in the initial stages of divorce with a young child. My husband is a truck driver so he is barely home, so standard custody does not apply for us. He wants me to have one hundred percent custody, and to see his son whenever he is in town, for a few hrs, with no overnight visits. How do I word that in the final decree? Do I need a mutual agreement typed up with a lawyer? Thanks. By the way, I am in Texas.

My husband is so mentally exhausting. weve been married a year and hes just so ******* negative all the time like he is never appy even though our life isnt bad. Hes always going off about people who dont do the jon he does and they dont work hard like him hes a mechanic. he drinks a lot too which always makes it worse and will even sometimes direct it towards me like oh your just as shitty too cause your a receptionist you shoulda went to school for mechanics and actually worked. i cant stand it cause im a positive person and i make enough money to pay my own bills and live comfortably so why is that not enough? hes just so concerned with people who make more money than him and they are just welfare assholes or people who get everything paid for them. like stfu. idk what to do.

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It's unfortunate that I don't have one:( So I do whatever it takes to make sure my husband remains satisfied and wont stray. I do have a pretty face and sense of humour, so I make up for my faults and character defects. should all marriages have similar views such as mine?

Haven't had sex in months and I'm tired of her excuses It's either, I'm tired, I'm not feeling well, I'm not in the mood, I don't want it today or whatever I'm not getting my needs met so should I look elsewhere?

He's more and more insistent even in the daytime when other drivers can see us, if it's a woman driver passing he speeds up so she can see! We are going to crash the car at this rate Is this a fetish?

My wife just ask for money , she separated her pocket and saved other home , shop , ... for her while is housewife and not working. If i give her salary and other money she will bear me for some days the again asks money more and more which I can not. also she learned my sun 29 years and daughter 28 years to ask money more and more , all have game.

I found out i was pregnant about three weeks ago. At first my husband was really happy and supportive. But this saturday is the second saturday that he comes home drunk. He says hes working but i dont see him at all the whole day until 11 or 12 p.m this is really affecting me because i get really mad and upset. I just feel really bad both physically and emotional. I have tried to have a word with him and he says he doesn't care if i leave him that he's not scared. I am desperate and don't know what to do?

I did a really really stupid thing I was on a business trip from work with one other woman a some male engineers. Always fancied and fantasized about the one guy, he picked up on this and yes the short story is we had sex in his hotel room, alcohol being part of the reason He wasn't very good at sex no foreplay and all over in no time he came so quick, it ruined my fantasy, I always imagined him having a large piece and taking me to orgasm, but he was quite small and shot his load off in no time. I learned my lesson, most men are useless in bed! Stick with your husband ! but I have to tell my husband it's tormenting me how I have let him down I read on the blogs about women who cheat they say 'Always tell him it was just a hand job, he'll get mad but get over it, NEVER say he screwed you they never get over that I am new to this is that true?

My husband very often tells stories about relationships with his exes, their experiences, or sometimes compares me to them. Does it mean he is not over them or he is looking for them in me?

My husband had 2 girlfriends before me, one cheated on him in his own bed with his mate and the other dumped him and got with another guy days later. I was next in the picture and he has worried for years about me finding someone else. He also looks at my phone or laptop screen when I'm using them. I had somewhat of an emotional affair once (completely accidentally, shut it off as soon as I realised such a thing exists. I divulged too much information to an online male friend) and I'm very careful about how involved I get with people, what I say etc since. The one thing I won't do is let him look at my phone or computer screen, I guess that was something my parents put into me because they used to catch him looking at my phone screen and it used to annoy them (lack of respect for my privacy) so my privacy is still something which matters to me. I work from home so I don't have the colleagues and social interaction that he has in the office, so a lot of my support comes from online. I'm also in the kink community and sometimes I want to discuss something for guidance, advice, opinion etc without being told I can't talk about sexy things outside of my marriage (he's the newcomer, so I try and gather some insights before I drop him in the deep end!). We had an argument about him looking at my phone screen last night and admitted we were both in the wrong, but how can we move forward? I'm not for giving him all my passcodes just to get him to trust me. Thanks in advance.

I've been betrayed and it hunts me everyday. My wife cheated on me and still having an affair with also a married man. He's in another state but I know they still keep in touch. We still live in the same roof with our 17 year old son. He knows about his mom and I have been going through this past 4 yrs, and YES 4 yrs...I told her that if she still wants to save our marriage then she needs to stop their affair but if she still wants to continue its best for me to move out. I'm not happy with this toxic marriage. I just need some advice, appreciate it!

My husband s coworker sent him a picture of a girl in just her bra and underwear, that the coworker said he was dating. My husband s reply was that she was hot and he needed to "get on top of that." Then in a later message he told his coworker that he d "blow his load at hello." This really bugs me! He is my husband and he shouldn t be talking about other women like that. When I confronted him about it, he told me that s G rated compared to what they talk about at work. Do I have a right to be upset? What should I do?!

I got her to watch porn with me. She saw a few guys with bigger **** than me, and is now encouraging me to get a pump, and is talking about threesomes. I feel terrible now. Help