I just eloped to my wife a couple of days ago we are both 19 years of age. A little background, I have never met her parents because they are very strict and they would approve of her having a boyfriend. Her parents don t let her go out at all, only school and work. She insisted that we get eloped because her parents would never agree to her marrying at this point in time. So we did and the plan was for her to move in with me. We decided the right thing to do was tell them, rather than her up and leave without a word. She told them and although she didn t get a beat down like anticipated, her parents didn t approve. Her dad was telling her that she was getting a divorce and she said she wasn t. And he told her he wasn t going to let her leave. Then she told me he said that she has to wait a month then she can live with me and she ll have his blessing. He also said she couldn t see me within that month either! He said if she leaves before she doesn t have So I m asking can he get an annulment for her if she s 19 years old and legal age? She obviously lives with them still. Is it possible for him to file for annulment without her consent? He can trying pulling some religious card or something I don t know. I would like to know the opinions of others. I m worried about something like this happening. Thank you. PS we live in Texas if that helps, I already skimmed over the annulment laws.

My husband and I are in our early 30s. My father in law left my mother in law years before I met my husband. They are still married but estranged so my mother in law has taken responsiblity for the mortgage and all of the house expenses. She has been renting out a room to a relative for years now. Her relative is moving out soon and she can't afford the house expenses on her own. We've suggested that she move to a smaller home that's more affordable but she is refusing to move and wants us to move in with her and help her keep up the costs. I want to start grad school this year in a different city and feel as though I'm being forced to change my plans to accommodate her. I understand she's going through a lot financially but there are things I want to do with my life as well and feel as though she's not considering us. We're newlyweds and have only been married 4 months. I'd rather not live with my mother in law especially so early in our marriage. My husband is conflicted because he doesn't want to disappoint her. It's causing a rift in our marriage because the thought of it makes me very unhappy. Am I being selfish or are my concerns reasonable?

Will my ex get any type of custody? Our daughter is 2 and I have been supporting her for the past year, I had her a little young and was finishing school so I. Could get a full time job which I've now had for over a year. He hasn't been helping me support her in anyway he bought maybe 1 box of diapers her entire life and he very rarely comes to see her. He does not have a job so he can see her whenever he wants but chooses not to. He's had 5 jobs now and none have lasted more than a month. But he's been threatening to take her from me all of a sudden and I'm just really worried. Im not gonna cut him out of her life but I would like full custody .

We have separate rooms.

I have to leave at 11PM to go pick up my husband at work. Since I am not going in anyplace and coming right back home I am going to drive barefoot and not bring my shoes. I have been barefoot all day today and I don't feel like having to put my shoes on since I am not going in anyplace.

I have been in a fake relationship with a married man for 5 years. I think I continue to entertain this nonsense because I really don't want commitment. Now he's getting divorced (for complicated reasons not associated with me at all) and I do not really want him and I feel bad cause he loves me and he thinks he's gonna be with me. I always like new people and I feel like I am never going to settle. Age: 29 going on 30.

My boyfriend and i have been together 10 years we have 2 kids 2 i had from previous husband. During the time we have been together, i have been the sole provider for everything. I just realized he is a complete narcissist and user. He is driving me mentally ill! every time i try to talk to him about things that require his attention and effort he gets mad or down plays everything. I have gotten to the point where the kids are disrespectful to him and he's always picking on them for small things that lead to big arguments or punishment. I feel trapped i want to escape but i don't know how to leave him. I've told him many times how i feel and how i want to break up. He gets upset and cries to make me feel bad then eventually everything goes back to normal until something else happens. I feel so stuck like giving up! he does nothing to contribute to house work and little to finances,nothing in the relationship. and he lives with me and not on my lease! i know so simple but i'm emotionally and mentally exhausted.

Been married 7 years. We enjoy superficial time together, but we are starting to avoid deep, serious conversation. We don't fight often, because we avoid controversial subjects. We hang out in separate rooms almost every evening because we enjoy different things to decompress at the end of the day. Communication is rocky, so we're just kind of settling into this superficial relationship. I'm worried for our future.

I am married and in the past have had issues with being faithful. I think it s mainly because I have a strong desire to feel wanted or to be seduced . I want to be a good & faithful wife. I guess what I am asking is ways to feel that in my marriage. My husband doesn t always fulfill that need. Are there things I can do to ignite the closeness & intimacy I desire with him?

I'm asking this because my parents always argue, Especially my mom always has to say stupid things to my dad so I'm just like wow are marriage couples like this? I mean at least be happy and stop making stupid comments and ****. I would've at least be happy if I was married, getting sex at the time yeah it seems that couples could be unhappy sometimes which I don't get it.

then talks and acts like my son..My son died a few years ago after I yelled at him to get out of the house,.He was struck by a car and died right in front of my house. why does my husband think this is funny? It hurts.

He and I are BOTH gamers, but when we met we both became more focused on starting a business. We both STILL played games but much more casually such as maybe an hour or two per day, if that at all. Some weeks not playing at all. Mostly playing until finishing a game and that's it. But he's into the shooters and playing competitively and concentrates. He has been playing these out of the blue more lately. He always has played them in the past. But he's always watching videos on famous competitors playing and how they play and so he's preoccupied with that. Or he's playing the game in general and has to concentrate. He either doesn't hear me or tells me to wait a second and he never tells me when he can answer me or listen. I have things to tell him about business ideas or things that come to mind, or even just general conversation and he is so damn wrapped up concentrating on these games. He forgets things I tell him. His mind is on them I'm guessing. He just answers me without really answering me even if he's not playing. He has no idea what I've said. He sounds like he's listening by saying "oh yeah!" Or "mm hmm!" But he's not. He doesn't hear me. I have to re explain. It's like I can't talk to him, there's a wall. Why bother telling him anything then? What can I do? I've talked to him about it obviously. That does nothing. He says he hears me. I can't have a conversation with him anymore because he's so tied up in this game. Also, since we've been together this is the most he's focused on games. He's making games his side job, and it shouldn't be if he ever wants to leave the job he's in, which he absolutely does. He has told me he played a lot in the past leading up to meeting me and I believe that's where he's at again right now.

The other day my husband came home with a plate . I simply asked where it came from. He shut me down and said what's the deal with me asking. A girl made him breakfast and they do that a lot at work so drop it. A couple of months ago he came home from a hunting trip and there were women's tennis shoes in his car. I had his truck detailed a few months earlier, so I know they were not there before. Same response. Then he lied and said they were his moms. Next day they were in the trash and he said they were from an ex before we dated. Then he asked why I didn't just trust him. I mean am I not allowed to ask why there are women's shoes in his truck? Every time something like this happens he acts like I'm a terrible person for even asking. I'm starting to feel insane.

I went to the park with my husband and infant son today. I put sunscreen on him. While doing so, I told my husband that my dad put sunscreen on me everytime we went out since he had had skin cancer. My husband then went on to say "I bet, any excuse to touch you." He then laughs like it was funny he was insinuating my father is a creep. He doesn't like my father but my father has never touched me in any inappropriate way. I told him I felt super disrespected by it but he said when he imagined sunscreen he thinks about an episode of Baywatch and I'm being too sensitive. Would you have been offended? How would you have responded?

A guy I know trys to sit next to me often and even if there is loads of space he will spread his legs so wide so our knees are touching and he will leave them there for a long time without moving. I have also caught him inching closer to me on the sofa when he thought I wasn't looking. So is keeping knees/legs together a sign of sexual attraction or possibly romantic attraction? If it helps I also catch him looking at my face/eyes alot and then averting his gaze to the floor when he sees me looking. He's protective of me too and helps me when he can. And I get the impression he tries to show off abit in front of me to but he gets flustered sometimes. This guy is in a relationship though so I'm not sure if he just wants to get laid or if there is more to it?

We are together almost 6 years.From the beginning of our relationship he was like this.He is so good in bed but in other times he is not touchy and wants sex once a week -_- When we are in home i wear sexy dress,lingerie and i bend etc i do everything but they sometimes arouse him ,When i want he doesn't tell to me no. When he sees me nude he doesn't get hard but every time i see him nude or even half nude it turns me on! What can i do??Why doesn't he get horny when he sees me nude?? I talked about this to him and he got mad and yelled at me it's the way he is :( He is 34 years old We love each other as i mentioned he was like this 6 years ago when we started to have sex

My husband is so demanding of Me. I can't be turned on like a switch Each night he comes home Please Give me advice

We were having problems so we went to marriage counseling. It didn't go well but we found out part of it is due to anxiety issues. The Dr recommended a low dose of something and it helped so much.. Things were going great, just seemed like life and marriage were laid back and easy. But he stopped taking it just because he wanted too so now it's more tense around here. He can be nice then later that day tense and angry. I do try and talk with him about what I can see and he doesn't want to hear it.. It so frustrating. Sure I can visit an lawyer but I don't want a divorce just things to be 'normal'...

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my wife talks to me about her fantasies when I ask her about what they are but says their better left in her head. she couldn't see me with someone else or her self with someone else. says shes totally satisfied.

This may sound weird & petty, but it's becoming an issue. My husband and I have been living together and sleeping in the same bed for 8 years. We've always had a problem sharing a blanket, as we both steal covers. That was an easy fix, we each have our own blanket. However, he's starting to make comments that I take up too much of the bed and that I'm always pushing him towards the edge of the bed when we're sleeping. Keep in mind that I am barely 5 feet tall and relatively thin, it's hard for me to take up too much space in general. I have trained myself to sleep on the edge of the bed, yet he still complains. This morning we were woken up by his nightstand falling over. His comment was, "This is what happens when you push me towards the edge of the bed." Meanwhile I am on my side only a couple inches away from the edge myself. I'm not sure what advice I need. This seems to be a source of tension with us, we don't have the space or money for separate beds. He tells me I do this in my sleep as if I have control over what I do while I'm unconscious, like it's just a bad habit I need to fix. Yet he is the one who is usually rolling over on top of me on my side of the bed. How can I talk to him about this in a way that will get through to him that this isn't something I am doing? I'm just tired of being bitched at for it when I've trained myself to sleep on the edge of the bed already. I realise this is more a communication issue than a bed issue, but any tips are appreciated.

We ve been married 10 years and the first time he raised his hand to threaten me was in front of our baby. I took her and left the house. He apologized, said it wouldnt happen again. 8 yrs & 2 more kids later, he has since raised his hand to me a few more times, and smacked my face 2x. The 1st time i had smacked him first for yelling and swearing in front of our kids and our nieces and nephews. Since I did it first, I felt I couldnt blame him. This last time he smacked my face, i was driving and he was yelling at me and I yelled back. It wasnt hard enough to injure but did sting for several minutes. Afterwards, I let him know I was leaving and he told the kids that "mommy was going to leave and take them away all because i smacked her". Making them cry. Of course they did not see anything wrong with that as he spanks them, has smacked them on the back or back of the head. He has never seriously hurt anyone of us and I dont believe ever would. It has been a year since he last smacked me and I said I was leaving. Ever since he really found me to be serious, he has been extra nice to me & the kids. So now I feel guilty for moving forward with a divorce. Especially as a Christian where I get told that divorce and remarriage is wrong. Divorce is okay if there is abuse but as Ive never been seriously hurt and it is not consistent, I can bear it so therefore I should stay because God hates divorce and Im not in danger. I just feel so torn. I dont want to sin or ruin my kids lives.

I put honest pictures of my self up (if anything I think I look better in person). Pictures can be very deceiving I have had a professional take my picture before huge difference. Those models don't actually look like they do in the magazines in real life. I also keep hearing about how there are "not enough educated men for women". Well I think being an engineer certainly makes me "educated". I am tall, gainfully employed, I have dreams, ambitions goals, I have a sense of humor, etc but I don't have that hot look. I am working out now but when you are going to school for engineering and working you don't have time to eat healthy or work out for hours a day thus I gained some weight. So by not being the "total" package even though weight comes and goes (if I gained a lot of weight because of stress/medical issues and I married one of those women would they just divorce me, probably)? But if I just had that hot look and live with my mom I think I would do better online just because of looks?

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My wife is a physician who gets about four weeks vacation a year and she can plan a year in advance. I work in oil and gas, my "time off" is a mere request/suggestion. She goes over the top all the time for me. Her birthday is coming up, she took time off work to have a four day weekend and I can't plan anything good enough (like getting out of town and going somewhere nice) because there's a pretty decent chance I'm going to have to work. Nothing beats me down more than feeling like a total failure. I can't keep my wife happy, I'm lost, I don't even know what I'm asking I just need help. I'm a Geologist around the Denver area if anyone has any suggestions at a better job where I can actually plan time off. Problem is even if I get a normal job, it seems like the normal for my friends is two weeks vacation so I'm going to fall short either way. She should have married a doctor. I'm fine with not being that smart, but it drives me crazy that I can't be there to do fun things for her time off

He's done it for 15 years, wakes up hard, jerks a little then slips it in to come. I love it, especially waking to feel him coming. My two friends tell me their husbands do the same. I read here that the dried up 'spinster brigade' as I call them thinks it's wrong or rape! Most don't have men, a sex life, or sex experience or if they did the men dumped them for being frigid, and found a real woman.