Friends: Question: Are they up to something bad? |
- Question: Are they up to something bad?
- Question: Why don t I want to hang out with my friends? Please help!!?
- Question: Is it too soon to say something at new job?
- Question: How do I stand up for myself? :(?
- Question: How to garner new enemies?
- Question: I have terrible communication skills with my parents... I might be sent back to a place I dont want to be?
- Question: MY FRIEND IS CHOKING?!?
- Question: Does this teacher dislike me?
- Question: My family is threatening to tell everyone that I didn't have friends growing up and that I was a loser?
- Question: Can someone be "too independent" for a realtionship?
- Question: Girls who drive would you have done this?
- Question: How to get close friends in highschool?
- Question: Do you like outgoing people?
- Question: Why do people like Sailormoon?
- Question: Why did he lose interest? He isn't carrying on the text conversation? But is answering my questions in detail?
- Question: I Keep Losing my Friends over one person?
- Question: Should I tell my friend about hat happened?
- Question: I don't understand her message?
- Question: Should I tell this dude to screw off?
- Question: Friend ignores me when they can?
- Question: I said something racist??
- Question: Is it immature to think this is rude?
- Question: Should i tell my mom?
- Question: How can I get my roommate to stop stealing from me?
- Question: I feel so bad and she wont speak to me anymore?
- Question: How do I stop being friends with someone who I see almost everyday?
- Question: My daughter never came home from friends house?
- Question: My 5 year old brother keeps snitching?
- Question: Saw a friend doing dangerous things, but telling on her would get me in trouble....?
- Question: Do all women wipe after they pee?
- Question: How can I gain my best friend back after this?
- Question: Are all high school guys this way?
- Question: Did she want to meet or not meet?
- Question: Why is my friend crazy ?
- Question: One of my classmates was taking a picture of...?
- Question: How do you fix a broken friendship that you were sexual ly involve with?
- Question: È pazzia??
- Question: I need advice!?
- Question: Is this as "wrong" as it feels?
- Question: My friend is pretty mean. How should I deal with it?
- Question: Is it okay that i'm still struggling even though I'm in uni?
- Question: Should we tell our friend we are going to Florida without her?
- Question: How do I make my friend eat a rock?
- Question: I'm being bullied and I need help?
- Question: LDR and Family problems?
- Question: Is it wrong to ask a married man if he thinks you're pretty?
- Question: Almost my first time and I'm conflicted?
- Question: Am I overeacting?
- Question: Does anyone have this problem with their female friends?
- Question: What is another word for this?
- Question: What do you call someone who wants someone all to themselves?
- Question: Am I a bad person for not talking to my cousin?
- Question: What can I do about a friend who always keeps talking negative about my friends and family?Always comparing them and being negative read blw?
- Question: Does he only see me as a friend?
- Question: Reasons why ur mom has to pick u and ur friend up from school?
- Question: Why don't women like variety in their group of friends?
- Question: Do you feel like the world is ending?
- Question: Why Do Guys Do This? SO Incredibly Frustrating?
- Question: My friends are leaving me on my birthday.?
- Question: A really strict teacher found me and my friends notebook that has a lot of mean stuff about people,?
| Question: Are they up to something bad? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:51 PM PST they closed the blinds in the window so I couldn't see them are they? |
| Question: Why don t I want to hang out with my friends? Please help!!? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:48 PM PST I love my friends. They are amazing people and i don t know what I would do without them. But recently I have not been wanting to hang out with them. They always text me and try to talk. I just tell them later that I wasn t on my phone. I don t know why I have been feeling this way. It s not that I am lazy. I just emotionally don t feel like it. Thanks for your responses in advance! |
| Question: Is it too soon to say something at new job? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:33 PM PST I started a new job 3 weeks ago and I feel there is going to be a problem with me and one of the other girls. She's only been there 3 months before me and we do the exact same job so she's not in a higher position than I am. She seems to of taken a disliking to me and when we were introduced she didn't even look me in the eye and couldn't get away from me fast enough, she was asked to help me settle in in my first few weeks and answer any questions I have but she hasn't helped me at all and kept leaving me and didn't show me around or where I could find anything, any questions I've had she's just said "oh I don't know" and left me on my own, when she does know the answers. It's like she's deliberately withholding information and doesn't want me to do well. I have tried to make conversation with her several times but she just ignores me and won't ever look at me. It's bothering me and making me feel it is personal as she's so lovely to everyone else. Is it too soon to say something? I don't want to look like the bad one or rock the boat but shouldn't I say something now rather than not at all? What could be her problem with me? |
| Question: How do I stand up for myself? :(? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:33 PM PST I'm your average guy, I guess; pretty thin, but 5'8 height. I'll admit I'm weak and out of shape, but I do work around outside from time to time. I'm emotionally sensitive and caring for others, mostly quiet and keeping to myself, and it seems people take advantage of that! As I hang out with my friends or other people, I'm ALWAYS the scapegoat and the one kid everyone gangs up on to tease and make fun of or completely annoy; in Science class a classmate literally keep tossing my folders off the table, and another one picked it up and motioned to hand it to me and when I went to grab it he dropped it, wtf :( I'm quiet and non-outgoing mainly because of my social anxiety, but I prefer not to interact with kids my age because they're all immature and stupid, rude. How do I stand up for myself, assert my strength, and prove to others that they shouldn't screw around with me like that!? Any advice is greatly appreciated, thanks <3 |
| Question: How to garner new enemies? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:30 PM PST I am down to one enemy left and I grown tired of upsetting his business operations. Another one, I tired to get fired several times, no avail. I got one to quit last year. I don't work, so... I need new enemies. |
| Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:20 PM PST So i got in trouble again for the 10000th time over communication and my dad is stressed out over the fact that I dont know how to communicate and let him know over simply easy things such as where i am at or how im getting to school |
| Question: MY FRIEND IS CHOKING?!? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:14 PM PST THIS IS NOT A JOKE!!! I CALLED 911 BUT THEY'RE GOING TO BE 15 MINUTES! SHE'S SORT OF CHOKING SORT OF JUST HAVING A LOT OF TROUBLE BREATHING ON A HOT DOG!!! PLEASE HELP! |
| Question: Does this teacher dislike me? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:02 PM PST There's this one teacher who's very outgoing, playful, and funny. He jokes with everyone in the class except for me. Sometimes when I walk into the class, he'll literally stare at me until I sit down or until I look away. He stares at me with that look that I can't describe ( it's not a bad look). Sometimes when he dismisses class he'll look at me as I leave. He always give me 100s on homework and passing grades on test. One time I did the wrong assignment but he still gave me an 100. I'm a quiet girl, I mainly talk to my friend who sit beside me. The teacher normally talks to everyone and joke with the other quiet students in class. Everyone talk amongst their friends in that class. But when my friend and I talk, he'll ask us to be quiet. I'm assuming he's asking him, because he never looks at me when he ask us to stop talking. He'll look at him and say "I'll wait" or something.. When I went in his office alone last year he was extremely sweet, which is what made me take his class this year. but now all he do is stare at me and not show any attention to me in class. Sometimes I catch him glancing at my private areas, especially when im wear leggings. Sometimes he throw paper to me when he doesn't feel like walking to my section, which I think is rude. Idk what I done to him? |
| Posted: 06 Mar 2017 04:58 PM PST Scared. I moved to NYC not too long ago, made new friends, and has started a new life. I distant myself from my family because of their toxicness, and now they are threatening to go on Facebook and tell everyone how I never had friends growing up, how I was depressed and a loser. I am scared and don't know what to do. I will be humiliated, what if my new friends found out? |
| Question: Can someone be "too independent" for a realtionship? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 04:38 PM PST While I feel like I need more space, my boyfriend feels like we aren't seeing each other enough. We see each other at college 3 days in a row out of the week, so by the weekend I'm usually not in the mood to go on a date because I've already seen him so much. I get emotionally exhausted and I need time to just be alone at home and chill. I do need more space than most ladies, and I warned him of that. Is it possible I'm just not right for a long-term realtionship? |
| Question: Girls who drive would you have done this? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 04:26 PM PST I just got home from taking my best friend home. Since I did not go in anyplace and came right back home I drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home. I did not need my shoes for a 20 minute drive since I did not go in anyplace. |
| Question: How to get close friends in highschool? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 04:22 PM PST I'm a junior in highshool but I dont really have any close friends. Everyone knows who I am but I don't know a lot of peoples name even when they know mine. A lot of people say wassup to me we joke around in the hallways but no ever invites me to hangout or do something literally all the so called popular kids talk to me but never to hangout Thnx in advance. |
| Question: Do you like outgoing people? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 04:13 PM PST It seems like outgoing people are popular and make the most friends. But in my experience, they can have some of the most boring personalities. Always talking but never saying anything of substance. Do people not care what they say and just wanna be around them? On the other hand, I love a funny, loud person. The funniest people are usually not outgoing. |
| Question: Why do people like Sailormoon? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 03:24 PM PST Yeah, so she is pretty. Other then that, she is stupid, annoying, and selfish. She would rather let the world fall into hell just to be with Tuxedo Mask. What the fฮผck kind of sh¡t is that? If I was to let the world fall into hell just to be with Supergirl, she would hate me for the rest of her life. Also, what the hell kind of leader needs the most support out of their team mates? A leader is suppose to be the one who encourage their team, not the other way around. |
| Posted: 06 Mar 2017 03:08 PM PST Am I friend zoned? |
| Question: I Keep Losing my Friends over one person? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 03:05 PM PST there is a guy i like. he lives in the netherlands but i live in the states. so it's long distance. my parents know about him and my ex friends talked to him too, but none of them like him. i have lost 2 friends because of him. One is just mean to him for no apparent reason and called my friend manipulative and a pussy. my friend never did anything to her but she is boy crazy. i get made fun of and teased in math class about what my friend is doing and such and how he is cat fishing me. my other friend keeps telling me that he likes my long distance friend but today removed him on facebook and makes fun of him behind my back. my long distance friend has autism and anxiety issues. i need help because my friends say he is creepy. i keep losing friends because they don't like him. usually if i don't feel safe i will speak up. can you please help me and give some advice ? |
| Question: Should I tell my friend about hat happened? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 02:48 PM PST My co worker is in a relationship with a friend of mine..and yesterday there was a guy who came in, was talking to her, and then I overheard him ask her out on a date and she said yes. They exchanged numbers and everything. I don't think she knows that I overheard that either. |
| Question: I don't understand her message? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 02:28 PM PST We were best friends during the very early years of elementary school and we were put in the same gifted programs that our school system offered. We did everything together until my family decided to move and we became separated and nobody even tried to keep me and her in contact. However, we were able to have our elementary schools funnel us into the same middle school where I got to see her again, and I still was able to remember her. The only problem is that I thought she was incredibly beautiful and was shy to the max, which was so bad I couldn't even speak to her (I had poor social skills at this time). I couldn't understand why I couldn't talk to her like any old friend of mine. Someone at the time had walked up to me and asked me if I had liked her, and I got so frightened that I said no (she was also standing right there). After an entire year, she moved away and this time with no way to contact her. Years have passed and I had seen her on the web and decided to send some requests. All of them were just left on "pending" so I decided to cut the losses and leave (She accepts anyone else in a heartbeat). After a while, I deleted all social media, but then she accepts the facebook request. I deleted my facebook anyway. We later winded up going to the same festival one time and I caught her walking by me alone from her friend group to some blank spot, something I never saw her do before. To this day, I still don't understand. Does she want me to talk again or move on? My Facebook was permanently deleted |
| Question: Should I tell this dude to screw off? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 02:18 PM PST Ok so this guy who is my friends brother is obsessed with me and won't stop watching me in school. According to my friend, he stalks my Instagram and is completely in love with me. So today I was walking to my class and he stepped on my shoe behind me and I looked around to see who it was and it was him and he didn't even say sorry. He's such a creepo! Should I just tell him to stop staring at me? |
| Question: Friend ignores me when they can? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 02:10 PM PST I have a friend who i often talk to and walk with, but when we walk together most of our classes are the same or close to each other, but there s one time where my friend keeps walking when they see me, and even speed up, pretending they didn t see me, unless it s completely obvious they did should i say something or would that be weird of me? |
| Question: I said something racist?? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 01:55 PM PST I said something an African American in my class who was laughing about racist jokes.. And he called me racist and is threatening to tell everyone! I ve apologized sincerely and I know he isn t even mad anymore, I overheard him say it to his friends. What should I do? I don t have time for this drama with two big school projects looking up! Please help me! |
| Question: Is it immature to think this is rude? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 01:40 PM PST I think that it s rude for someone to invite someone else to a group outing or gathering without first checking in with the rest of the guests. For example, a couple of my close friends and I were planning to go out and get dinner during our spring training trip in Florida. We are all a pretty tight group, and constantly talk about "inside jokes" and this that have happened to us in the past, the usual things good friends talk about. However, about an hour before going out to dinner, one friend informed the rest of us that she had invited another teammate we aren t really friends with. I didn t have a problem with her coming, but I did have a problem with this friend invited someone to our plans without asking the rest of our group if it s okay first. Do you think that I m being immature about it, or do you also think that it s rude to invite someone else to pre-planned activities without asking or at least informing the rest of the group first? |
| Question: Should i tell my mom? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 01:13 PM PST ok so heres what happened. long story short, ive been feeling crappy since forver, got blood tested, nothing came up, then blahblahblah, i got fish oil pills because i figured omega 3 was what i was lacking. okay, when i bought them, i knew about their benefits and gave one to my mom, and du.mbass me didnt even consider what she was already taking. and now shes in the hospital because her blood pressure went to low and now her blood sugar is pretty low. eventually i put the two together and realized it was all my fault, and now i feel so damn guilty. idunno if i should tell her and apologize and on her fury (i know she'll be mad lol) or just do lots of favors for her and never tell her i told her. yay all is forgiven. but she forgave me too easy, and i still feel bad. if you were in my situation what would you do o try and make up for it?? |
| Question: How can I get my roommate to stop stealing from me? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 01:04 PM PST She won't stop. So she will put her name on my stuff and also have it put in the property record to make it look like it is hers. We both live in a adult living program.. I can't get a new roommate because I can't afford a new place and a deposit. Not only that she has lived at this house first. I have put my name on my stuff but she crosses it out and puts her name on it. I can't put my name on every single damn thing like my clothes and towels and that. But when I say she steals they don't say anything about it to her. But so then I threw some stuff of hers away and then they said something about it to me. Well,then they had a meeting about it and my legal guardian defended me by saying I don't have to pay for it cause she has stole so much from me. Well I bought her a drink and the next day I think is when she took all the cooking seasoning of hers and some of mine and hid it. I checked in her bedroom and that is when I found my 2 towels of mine in her room. She lies and says she doesn't steal that she just gets stuffed mixed up. I don't like this girl cause she thinks my parent's are rich because my parents threw me a birthday party last year. I have tried everything for her to stop stealing but she won't stop. I can't put everything in my room anyways. I'm also afraid that she might be using my laundry soap. But the staff doesn't pay attention to her or just don't give a damn either. I told the staff that they need to make sure she is not taking my stuff and they said they can't get an eye on her 24/7. But I had this roast beef packet thing that is plastic and she the staff ingraved her name on it and this is also the same staff that bought her a present cause she had to leave the house and didn't buy me anything. |
| Question: I feel so bad and she wont speak to me anymore? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 01:00 PM PST my name is Jonathan and im 22, I had a really close friend Sarah. We were friends for about 3 years and the last few weeks she was so caring towards me because I had surgery and she was always there to help. but 3 weeks ago she came to my house to talk because she thought I lied to her about something.. no one was screaming but she wad upset, I soflty held her because I didn't want her to leave my house ANGRY!! ( I knoow I was wrong it was in the heat of the moment) She texted me that I crossed the line when I touched her and that apperanntly she was abused in the past. I felt bad that I delivered a cute apology letter to her house with a teddy bear. A cop came to my house last week asking me to leave her alone!!! I cant stop thinking about this situation, Will she talk to me down the road??? I feel bad......any advice??? |
| Question: How do I stop being friends with someone who I see almost everyday? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 12:26 PM PST I'm currently "friends" with this girl who lives on my street. I really want to stop being friends with her. A lot of people think she's annoying (and I just started to realize how annoying she is) and I don't want people to associate me with her if they think she's annoying. She is not intelligent at all (takes a special English class) and she screams everything and is really obnoxious. For instance, one time in school I was talking about a boy I liked (whom does not go to the school) and she screamed very loud that I was going to hook up with him, which was embarrassing for me. She also picks on my insecurities a lot, like calling me fat (even when I'm 5'2 and weigh 115 pounds while she is not too skinny herself) and making fun of my red cheeks, which I cannot help. I think it would be best for me to do it gradually since I see her so much, but how? |
| Question: My daughter never came home from friends house? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 12:07 PM PST My 9 year old daughter went over to her friend's house for a sleepover last night. I waited until 10 am, to see if the parents would tell me when to pick her up. They never said anything. At 11:30, I texted. No reply and it's 1pm. I'm getting really panicked! What should I do? Went to her friend's house. My daughter came home. |
| Question: My 5 year old brother keeps snitching? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 12:05 PM PST So my five year old brother won't stop snitching, and it's SO ANNOYING. When my 12 year old brother and I were talking on the trampoline how to deal with this, discussing revenge about deleting his xbox account, the snitch told on us because he was listening from the window!! And he was listening from my room with my door closed...I caught him because he was stupid enough to howl when we were reading revenge plans on the internet, but...it's hard. Sure I should probably let this go. I know. But he does this ALL the time and I just want to hear him cry. I don't care if I get in trouble, I just want him to stop snitching ! A revenge so good he'll be afraid to do it..often.. So...what should I do...? |
| Question: Saw a friend doing dangerous things, but telling on her would get me in trouble....? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 12:03 PM PST I'm 14 and last weekend I lied to my parents (VERY rare for me) and went to a party with mostly older kids that I never would have been allowed to go to. I told them I was at a friend's house for a sleepover. I didn't want to go to the party to do anything crazy (and I didn't), I just wanted to go to go and to be cool for having snagged an invite to a party for juniors and seniors. Stupid, I realize. While at the party I ran into a friend of mine from church Ive known all my life (she's 16), and she was CLEARLY doing some kind of drugs and putting herself in a risky situation with a guy who could have taken advantage. It was clear she was making dangerous choices & talking to her I get the impression it isnt the first time she's gone behind her parent's backs to do this. I also think she was planning to drive home. I am really scared for her and really feel the right thing is to tell somebody before somehting bad happens. The problem is that lying is my mom's BIGGEST rule, and I'd be total toast if she found out I lied to her to go to the party that night. Honestly, I'm totally confident I'd get a spanking (my mom rarely does that, esp at my age, but its the clear rule for lying, and mom always means what she says). Suffice it to say I REALLY dont want that to happen. But I also don't want to feel guilty if something happens to my friend. Her mom and my mom are really tight so there's no way I could tell her parents but not have my parents find out. What do I do? |
| Question: Do all women wipe after they pee? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 11:55 AM PST We don't wipe our penises |
| Question: How can I gain my best friend back after this? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 11:46 AM PST Last week I had a bad breakup and I started to cry and do a lot of bad things. I lie a lot but never anything serious, but last week I disappeared in school, didn't tell anybody and the bus left with everyone worrying. My best friend keeps texting me a lot and when I answer (1 hour later when I was at home) I told her I was still in school and that they have not picked me up. I don't know why, I just didn't want to tell her I was fine, because I wasn't. But then I said "Nah, I lied" and told her the truth. She wasn't screaming, she was just "-_-". I said "I'm sad" and she snapped "Yeah and I'm not talking to you", I apologized but she left me on read. In school, she ignores me, changed seats and replaced me with another friend, ironically, he has my same name. It has been days and I'm not very good; I cry a lot and don't know how to talk to her, because we never talked seriously about a fragile subject such as our friendship. It seems she stopped caring. It seems she moved on. It seems she is ok. She does not look at me, talk or join in a conversation I'm at. She blocked me on WhatsApp and ignored my text messages. It feels like she was waiting for an opportunity to stop talking to me. She hasn't deleted any photos with me or unfriended me on FB or stopped following me on IG, but I don't know. I'm not much of a talker because I overthink for the worst. She is my rock, my laughs my light; my best friend.... How can I gain my best friend after this? |
| Question: Are all high school guys this way? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 11:42 AM PST I am the only girl in my AP Physics class at school. The class has a lot of homework. A group of us students like to get together in the evening and do our home work. When we started this we would rotate whose house we went to do the homework. Now the guys want to come to my house to do the home work all the time. I thought that was probably because if we have a problem we can not solve, the guys ask my mom for help and she always has the answer or maybe because when our homework is done, mom give the guys homemade pie and ice cream, cake, or cookies. I was curious so I ask the guys why they always wanted to do our homework at my house. What they told me just blew me away. They said it was because my mom was so nice, so beautiful, so hot and so sexy they wanted to be around her. It is true mom is VERY BEAUTIFUL but she is not hot and sexy. She has a great figure but she NEVER shows any cleavage or wears tight sweaters. How should I feel about what these guys are thinking about my mom? Are all guys this way? |
| Question: Did she want to meet or not meet? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 11:36 AM PST My friend had asked if I'm at university today which I said no, but will let her know in afternoon if I can go to downtown after work. So, I did get back to her with "I can go to downtown today. How about you? Are you still having class?". Her reply was: "Have to be after 7pm". I then replied "Ohh your class is done after 7pm? Do you want to get coffee/tea or another day?". She just replied with "Yeah sorry".....which I was confused about so I said no problem maybe another day. |
| Question: Why is my friend crazy ? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 11:34 AM PST My roommate / friend is 16 years old she cries at every little thing mostly over her ex. She and him had a child together but he was never there for them. When she was with him she was crazy about him literally crazy. She would hang around him more than me I didn't really care but in a way I felt kind of left out. Now she's married shes having another kid. Even though she's married once in a while she still comes in and sleeps with me half the time. Shes also crazy about her husband too. After her ex left her she did nothing but cry over him for months. Why is she so crazy ? |
| Question: One of my classmates was taking a picture of...? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 11:22 AM PST His friend's private area. They sit next to each other(both 14) I sit on the desk behind them, so I see what they're doing. So.. While one wasn't looking, other one took out his phone, aimed it at his friend's penis and it looked like that his friend was hard(that's why he took the picture, I guess) They're both males. (He was in jeans) Is he gay ? Or he likes masturbating to that kind of pictures :o ? |
| Question: How do you fix a broken friendship that you were sexual ly involve with? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 10:50 AM PST My friend and I had a big fight last night and I told him that he might lose me as a friend. He says ok. He says he has a unofficial girlfriend and that's part of the fight. I don't want to lose him. |
| Posted: 06 Mar 2017 10:48 AM PST Ma รจ pazziaaaa??????? "Mi piaci fisicamente,ma ce qualcosa che non mi convince di te :a me piacciono quelle piu testa di *****". Me lo ha appena detto il mio ex.... che intende???premetto che avevamo anche rapporti. |
| Posted: 06 Mar 2017 10:23 AM PST I m a bridesmaid in a friend from high schools wedding. They are doing two bachelorette parties to accommodate friends and family. The one was announced 3 weeks before the event and I already made plans a month before this. The second one hasn t been confirmed yet, but some of us have already been told when it will be. I already purchased tickets for a concert a couple weeks ago for the day it is supposed to be (but an invite hasn t been sent out for it yet and it will be happening in a month). Do I need to cancel my plans to be able to make it to at least one of the parties? |
| Question: Is this as "wrong" as it feels? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 10:20 AM PST I'm a 20 year old woman. Relevant info: (1) My best friends have always been guys, including now in college. (2) I'm also on the club women's lacrosse team at my university. My best (guy) friend, whom I've known since high school, has been interested in asking out a girl that happens to be on the lacrosse team for a while. When, in a totally separate, random conversation, he realized that our locker room showers are wide open, communal style, he began obsessively asking me what she looks like naked etc. At first I thought he was joking, then I told him no it wasn't appropriate, and meanwhile its not like I've been staring her down in the shower. But he keeps asking, and more or less says he expects me to go make sure I pay attention and report to him. He keeps saying if I'm really his best friend, and if I have knowledge thats useful to him, I'd tell him confidentially. That I owe him more allegiance than a girl I barely know who happens to be a teammate. I just feel like its really inapropriate, and breaking the trust of shared locker room space. But he seems to take it as a real shot/violation of friendship that I won't tell him anything. Thoughts?!? To be clear, I'm absolutely not seriously considering answering his questions, I'm asking more because he seems SO confident in his view on this, that I'm curious if I'm skewed/biased in my view......or if I'm right that this is really out of line. |
| Question: My friend is pretty mean. How should I deal with it? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 10:19 AM PST So, my friend is not the nicest, and I don't know if I should forgive and forget, or deal with the situation head-on. Here are a few examples of what has happened: -Attempted to steal my iPad after I accidentally left it at her house. -Makes me angry "because it's funny" -Blamed me for scratching someone else's car when I was in another town -Ripped a drawing I had spent 3 hours on and said "I could do better in 5 minutes." I gave her the reference photo, a pencil, and a timer for 30 minutes. She yelled at me and left, after she produced a "not as detailed" drawing. -Storms home if someone says something she doesn't agree with. -Firmly believes that she is the only one that matters, and if someone doesn't want to do something because it makes them uncomfortable, she yells at them and calls them weak, and a bunch of other things, and sends them home in tears. -And many, many more. But, the problem is, she is teased at school, even though she is one of the popular girls, and is really insecure about herself because she had to be put in 10 orphanages when no one wanted to adopt her. I've tried consoling her, but she just gets angry and I don't know what to do. Help? |
| Question: Is it okay that i'm still struggling even though I'm in uni? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 10:02 AM PST All my life I've been that one girl in class that nobody liked nor hated . I was so uninteresting but as a kid I thought that all would go away once i get a little older . It got a lot better in high school but once I started uni i -again- reverted to that state where nobody wants me .i only have one friend in the whole uni that i can spend time with. I really try to meet other people but I always feel like I'm bothering them because when they see me again they don't say hi unless i did . And sometimes they completely ignore me . That never affected me too much . But those same people, when they see my best friend They always say hi and invite her to things and joke with her and ask her to join their study groups. And it really hurts when she does nothing and never greets anyone and talks behind their backs , yet she's the one getting all the people . And it's not fair . This is really getting me depressed because i don't know what else to do. Please help . I can't stay like this for the rest of my life . I'm 20 btw . I'm always clean and i speak loud enough for people to hear me . I'm not exactly shy either. |
| Question: Should we tell our friend we are going to Florida without her? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 09:49 AM PST My friend an I are going to Florida over spring break together. Should we tell our other best friend we are going without her? Or wait to see if she finds out? She gets jealous very easily (like when we hang out without her), and she will probably be a little angry when we tell her. Or should just lie about it and say we are both going to Florida on separate trips? We don't want her feelings to get hurt. |
| Question: How do I make my friend eat a rock? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 09:44 AM PST |
| Question: I'm being bullied and I need help? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 09:40 AM PST First of all, please don't give me the typical "just tell someone if authority and they'll work it out" crap. It doesn't work. Well not for me it doesn't. The story sets at my school. I was returning because I missed my friends and wanted to be reunited with them. They also wanted to see me, but things changed. I'm not being mean or racist, but the Internationals ruined my life. I was ok with them at first because the school actually had a little additional income and a heap load more kids. The internationals tended to wear makeup... a lot of it too. One day I came into the restroom and they saw me. They asked me what kind of makeup I wore (I loathed makeup and would burn it if I could so obviously I never wear it). I told them I didn't wear any makeup ever. A spark seemed to come off in their head and they asked if I had plastic surgery on my entire face and body. I also said no. Like people I am in the 8th grade why would I get plastic surgery ever. They asked me what beauty products I used and I answered ," Shampoo, body wash, and conditioner." They seemed to be angered and asked me what kind of diet products I used. I answered none. I have high metabolism and am naturally underweight. Now they constantly bully me. They pushed me down the stairs, took away my homework, took away my crutches, threw my phone off of the slide, etc. I have tried telling my principal before, but it has gotten worse. They said if I ever told anyone again, they'd make my life hell |
| Question: LDR and Family problems? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 09:36 AM PST My family is very strict. Back in Middle school I used to tell constant lies, and get a few C grades, and my parents hated that and punished me for them. I'm 16 now, and my grades have gone up to mostly A's and maybe 1 or 2 B's, but my family wants more from me. Just recently I got a report card with 4 B's and 2 A's. The result? I got grounded. I wasn't worried about losing my phone or anything... I was afraiding of losing a girl that I really like. We met online about last year, and she lives 1,300 miles away from me. We would text each other almost every day, and we've seen each other and heard each other's voices. I found out that my internet is going to be out for 1-2 months, and I have no way of contacting her. We basically said our goodbyes, and are going to take a break from each other during that month. I don't want to lose her, and I don't want my grades to go down. I need motivation... Ugh. As sad as it sounds, I'd ditch everything for her. |
| Question: Is it wrong to ask a married man if he thinks you're pretty? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 09:13 AM PST This married man has been flirting with me on Facebook. We've never met before in person. But he's been flirting with me for awhile now. So it seems as though he really doesn't care about me knowing he's married. I'm not interested in getting involved with him because I know it's wrong being as though he's married. But I'm curious to see just how far he'll go. This is actually one of the reasons why I'll never get married. Because I know how men are. |
| Question: Almost my first time and I'm conflicted? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 09:09 AM PST A guy and I planned on having sex for awhile so yesterday he picked me up and drove me to a vacant parking lot to have sex. It was my first time but it didn't work out because he couldn't fit it in. He said I was too tight after he tried shoving it in numerous times and I kinda felt stretching but not where it was supposed to be. I think it didn't work out because I wasn't ready, I was really nervous and I started shaking from how nervous I was cause it was too big. Also, he already came in the condom so why did he continually try to **** me? And I think the condom busted but I know it can't effect me cause it wasn't inserted in me. Idk how to feel about it. I'm a senior in hs and all my friends have sex and told me about how good it is but I don't think I can enjoy it. And he wants to try again so should I give it another try? |
| Posted: 06 Mar 2017 08:40 AM PST Me and my bf are 21 and have been together for almost two years. Occasionally I go over his house for the weekend while I m not in school. So this past weekend I was at his house and we decided to make some lemonade, btw the whole day I m wearing a t-shirt and shorts.so after 5 minutes of being In the kitchen making lemonade and joking around, we hear his roommate coming down the stairs and he turns to me with pure disgust on his face just a full 180 and says "why don t you go dress yourself?" When i tell you I ve never felt so hurt in my life, he just spoke to me like I was just some hoe off the street or something. My problem is that I was dressed like this for the whole day and he had no problem with it but as soon as his roommate comes along he has all this hidden anger. I don t dress for other people I dress for myself and how other people look at me in the comfort of "my own home" is on me. I don t control his roommates eyes and where they land on me, regardless of what I m wearing. Am I overeacting or is this some form of slut shaming please let me know? |
| Question: Does anyone have this problem with their female friends? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 08:37 AM PST All of my female friendships are constantly unstable. One minute we're good, the next she won't talk to me. Does anyone else have this problem?!? |
| Question: What is another word for this? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 08:31 AM PST What is called when someone wants their friends to be friends with no one else but them and gets jealous and mad when they re friends with someone else? |
| Question: What do you call someone who wants someone all to themselves? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 08:31 AM PST What is called when someone wants their friends to be friends with no one else but them and gets jealous and mad when they re friends with someone else? |
| Question: Am I a bad person for not talking to my cousin? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 08:03 AM PST I really don't have friends due to social anxiety and he always calls me because I'm the only person who will answer him since everyone is working and I'm not. We went to the movies two days ago with my stepbrother and he only really talked to him. People find me boring because I always lacked social skills since I was always isolated as a kid. Am I selfish for not answering him since I think he calls me just because I'm the one person who will answer him whenever. He will sometimes just hang up and not say I have to go. I just get a sad feeling in me every time I talk to him now since at the movies he really was talking to my stepbrother and I feel like he only talks to me because of what I just typed right now. |
| Posted: 06 Mar 2017 07:20 AM PST Ok so I had a friend who once lived with us because he came from Louisiana and he wanted to work here in texas and was waiting for his dad to get a house here. So When living with us he slept on the couch because there was no more room. So he accepted we had a fool house. so everyday he would talk smack about my mom and my sister and her kids. And he would say awful stuff. I wasn't bothered on little a little cause I know what my family can be like. Anyway time passed he was a good person helped me out with a few things. So know I'm having a campout at the beach this weekend and I invited him and he started to say that my friends were bad people and that there not the best people to be around and that there B****es. And he never knew them like I did met them only like 5 times or less but just briefly. And he only met them when me and 2 of my other friends were going through a rough patch like most relationships have. And my friends are not bad they don't drink or do drugs nor smoke we always have fun and do the best we can to look after each other. He is the only one who is being an @ss. and the thing is he never stops with the insults. And often compares my family to his and my friends to his saying how much more better they are then mine. I've known this guy from school and I'm just fed up. I'm only inviting him and being nice and I don't do it all the time just sometimes we don't talk 24/7 or anything. But what should I tell him if he continues to belittle my friends? What can I say to him to make him stop. Some of the people going he didn't even know of them and he still proceeded to judge them and bring them down. I hate that about people. please help thank you so much. Full house my bad..lol |
| Question: Does he only see me as a friend? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 06:59 AM PST I'm seeing this guy and we meet up every few weeks. When we meet up together, we spend so much time together. The other day we met up and spent 7 and a half hours together. He kept smiling at me when I was talking to him and kept laughing at the things I said. He hugged me when we first met and also hugged me bye and he remembered almost everything I told him in our last meeting too. I asked him at one point what our relationship was and he got flustered and told me he didn't know and that at one point he was thinking of kissing me. Since then, we've kept hanging out and I spend around 12 hours with him each time. We are very close on an emotional level, yet nothing has yet happened except hugging each other Why do we spend so much time together? Does he only see me as a friend? |
| Question: Reasons why ur mom has to pick u and ur friend up from school? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 06:47 AM PST |
| Question: Why don't women like variety in their group of friends? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 06:08 AM PST Women I meet, their friends all dress the same, talk the same way and act alike. They are of the same body build and physically look alike. They aren't variety at all. When you try to hang with her, you will begin to get bullied by her and her clique of friends over having a different personality. I keep running into women that are like this? Any suggestions? |
| Question: Do you feel like the world is ending? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:50 AM PST I saw a video on instagram of my friend smoking last Friday and I feel like the world is ending one by one. I barely even have any one in my life that is clean living. My parents and other relatives but not all of them. My friends are ending the world by being rebels. They can't rebel if they die and they are ruining their lives and my chances of having them in my life. I need friends and they hurt all of us by their individual sinfulness. My parents are old and my father is unhealthy, so that means that they could die due to a lot of aging and health trouble for my father. My brother moved out again. I almost have no company in my life because all of my company is dying. People are dirty and don't accept clean livers in this world they want people like me to die. The other teens befriend me but don't appreciate clean living and do things to end our relationships such as using drugs. People the world what it is and without people living cleany in the world will be nothing. Don't ever promote dirtyness or follow dirtyness. |
| Question: Why Do Guys Do This? SO Incredibly Frustrating? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 05:37 AM PST When a guy stays in touch with you all the time. When you know he cares a ton for you, and jumps at every opportunity to take care of you. When he hugs you, checks in, fixes things, and remembers everything you tell him. When you feel him slowly building trust with you... When he is always there for you and has your back. When every time you hang out its great fun, lasts for hours and hours and hours and always just the two of you... when you know (because he's told you) that he finds you attractive and smart and sweet... but he keeps some weird distance there between you. Even jumping at the idea of hanging out with you, then backing out if he starts to feel he has exceeded some imaginary limit with you. But he never strays too far away. Over a year he has been doing this. He knows how much I adore him. WHY WHY WHY i try my best to be as affectionate and there for him as I can. He comes to me for support (which of course I gush over how successful he will be and how smart he is) but never asks anything else of me. I would do anything for him |
| Question: My friends are leaving me on my birthday.? Posted: 06 Mar 2017 04:36 AM PST My birthday is on Friday and I invited 4 of my friends to sleepover my house. It was casual and my friend group usually has sleepovers for this kind of stuff like Halloween and birthdays. I sent this last Saturday, only one of them responded at first ad she seemed excited but said her family was visiting so she couldn't sleepover but she'd go. I then messaged the ones who didn't respond and then only one of them did. She didn't seem excited and she too had a prior commitment so she could only stay for a few hours. This is coming as they also left me out on a group school trip. We were supposed to make groups of 4, there are 5 in our group so I was left out. Am I being to sensitive? Should I say somthing? The two others still haven't responded at all. The one who only responded after her i messaged her a few times actually cancelled completely because she has two prior commitment |
| Posted: 06 Mar 2017 03:26 AM PST We haven't written in that book since a very long time and he says we are bullies that need to do something but we want to apologize, we are but i have the most terrible feeling I really need advice, I'm so scared to face it |
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