Family: Question: My Dad and I are alone in the funeral home. Or are we?

Question: My Dad and I are alone in the funeral home. Or are we?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 02:11 PM PST

He works here and there are no viewings tonight. It is just the two of us. Due to the snow we are going to sleep here tonight on a cot. Just me and him, or is it? There are at least 6 bodies he said, including a 22 year old male who died in a car crash Thursday (too soon). Are we really alone?

Question: I have the worst parents ever. How do I get new parents or find confidence from others since mine are worthless objects?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 01:49 PM PST

Question: Help! I don't know what to do with my life anymore... I just feel like sleeping and never waking up again.?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 01:46 PM PST

My parents taught me as a kid growing up that I wasn't allowed to talk about my family life with other people. I understand the things happening to me is a cultural thing that most parents in Asia do; parents in Asia tend to physically and emotionally abuse their children to mold them into what they imagine is their definition of "perfect" child. I love my parents and don't like people disrespecting them and I know that I owe them my life because if not for them I wouldn't be here. I've written about myself so many times but I can't get myself to share it because I know people will judge and I don't want my parents to be presented in a bad manner but I'm now a 19 y/o bi girl and I am depressed, suicidal and suffer from social anxiety and all they do is ridicule me. So here goes! I'm stuck at home because they wont pay my uni fee because we are in debt, I have 2 younger bros who has to go to kinder&school, my grades suck (overall 2.75 high school gpa) and I didn't get the scholarship I applied for. I can't get a job because all the places in my country only look for uni grads to work and stay with them forever and all the work places that only requires hs diplomas I've been to them and they've shamed me for not going to uni or for my appearance which is fat, pimply or just plain ugly to my parents or for how I'm not good at speaking the language of this country because I grew up abroad, even though they needed an English speaker! and I honestly i don't know what to do!

Question: My parents signed me up for a crappy stupid camp and I don't want to go??? PLEASE HELP!!! (details below)?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 01:37 PM PST

My parents signed me up for a stupid "social" camp and I really don't want to go. I have a school dance that night and do not want to miss it. Also, last time my parents sent me to this camp for a week, it was awful and I was puking the whole time because the food was horrible and I did not enjoy it or have any fun at all. Please help!!! Any suggestions for how to convince my parents to not make me go are greatly appreciated! God bless. <3 the camp is from a Friday to a Sunday

Question: My mother tells me sex secrets about members of her family. Is this inappropriate and how do I avoid them finding out?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 01:19 PM PST

I am worried these relatives will find out I know and disown me. It is things like details of her step-brother's affair 30 years ago. He stayed with his wife and they reconciled so I doubt many people know. Or details of her uncle sexually abusing his daughter and it turned out he was innocent and the daughter recanted.

Question: How do I get my Dad not to beat me with a belt or paddle anymore (I am 54)?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 01:18 PM PST

Question: My dad is controlling of me?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 01:08 PM PST

I am a very confident person, and everytime i tried to be confident he tried to hush that, he would always try to put his thumb over me and basically shut me up from my confidence, I feel when I m with him I m not free and basically felt repressed, I got an apartment to get away from him, and yet I still don t feel free because he can come over here whenever he feels like it further the control he has over me. Everytime i tried or would let out my confidence he would make a big deal out of it and treat me like a child, playing mind games with me as well. As a result my life has basically fallen apart, im stuck trying to pick up the pieces and put it back together again, I m 19 years and second semester of college, also i don t have my license or a car because he would make a big deal out of that by again trying to undermine my confidence and independence. As a result ive been living in fear, my self esteem, and mind felt f ed up from all the mind games he played me. My guy friend who is interested in me has offered me to go live with him, ive thought about it many times, but i don t know what his intentions are, part of me feels like i would be freer with him knowing he would protect me that is if he isnt going to rape, he said he had an extra room, and i didnt have to worry about the money, what should i do? I want to be free, also i feel because im so confident the repression of my confidence has affected me greatly I frequently want to scream and let it out. I am a girl btw & 19 years old, I would just like to enjoy my life for once without him trying to control me all the time

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic and it is wrecking every weekend. How do I get over this, it hurts so much?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 01:02 PM PST

Question: It's wrong to hug your sister?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 12:42 PM PST

Apparently some classmate saw how I hugged my sister and then he told me that it's really gross and perverted and that I shouldn't do it anymore at my age. (I'm a guy btw) My sister and me are both teens and for me it always has been a completely normal thing to hug her... We get along really well and I just love her as my sister. I don't get it, what's so wrong about that?

Question: Mature women please help?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 12:36 PM PST

I'm starting to datean older women who has a kid. She is 28 and i'm 23. The thing is lately I noticed she's starting to hint she needs money for her kid's private school or she is going to get kicked out of school. We only been dating 2 months. I feel like helping her but that payment she needs is 2k it's now 100 bucks. I got the money but I feel like I will be doing too much since that is not my child. The only way I can see me helping her will be only because she also has an extra kid with me etc or that was my child the one she currenly has. Oh btw the child's original dad walked away. Am I in the wrong here to think like this???? a part me of say's I'm right and the other part say's I knew she had a kid = she comes with the kid all in one package take it or leave it

Question: My father's life insurance was made to my mother and she split among the 5 children, who pays the taxes?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 12:31 PM PST

Question: How to stop my mothers bitchines?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 12:13 PM PST

My mom acts like a ***** torwards me,everytime I'm in a room with her she tellw me to leave because she can't look at me.I didn't do anything wrong,she doesn't stand me now that she is back together with my father,since he always protects me but is mean torwards my brother,but he deserves it.He tells a lot of lies and is mean,cruel,just like my mother.She worship's at my brother's altar,but shits at mine.I just can't take it anymore,she acts like a mean *****, it's hurting me since my dad isn't always here to protect me.She tells him that I didn't do the dishes or that I talked back to her,but she doesn't mention calling me a hoe,*****,slut,nasty child,waste of space and telling me I was the biggest mistake of her life and that I shouldn't have been born.

Question: Please give me some advice?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 12:11 PM PST

Hi! I was really close to someone i even called her 'mom'.. we saw each other at least once a week and texted every day. On my birthday she suprised me with lots of gifts and after my birthday she became distant she responded shortly to my messages or didn't respond at all.. she said she was getting tired of me sending constant messages so i sended her short messages like have a nice day or i miss you. One day i texted her again and she responded like ' sweet of you but i said that you don't have to send me each day an message ' and just like that she blocked me! I haven't seen her in one month and she had blocked me for one week now.. she means a lot to me and i don't want to lose her.. has someone some advice for me? I mis her a lot but i'm scared too.. Thank you very much!

Question: Help my mother is a burden?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 12:00 PM PST

I don t mean to be so blunt but it is the truth. I m 32 yrs old & married. My mother just turned 66 but has been bedridden for the past 3 yrs. She fell on her head close to 10 yrs ago. & was in severe pain & had damaged something. She worked in a hospital at that time & didn t ask for help. She did tell me how much it hurt & I m also angry at myself for not pushing her to get help. Well she progressed quickly from that. Doctors don t know what is wrong with her just that it seems she made her alzheimer s progress quicker. She had become a toddler for many years and now an infant. I am 1 of 4 kids. 2 of them moved out of state. Now it s just my younger brother & I & no matter how much we argue he doesn t come around to help. My mom lives with my dad. She has medicare & does not qualify for Medicaid. We really do not have a lot of money & hired someone out of our own pockets. But they can t be there always so I have to run over everyday to change and feed her. It s quite depressing & I m getting much & would really like to start a family of my own. My husband gets on my case for not pushing others to help & also I unfortunately neglect him because I m always so busy. When it comes to the relationship of my mother & I we never had a good one. She always favored my older sister & had told me she wished I was never born and yet her precious child is far & way and I m doing all the work. I need help. What can I do? I feel very angry at her for not taking care of herself. Advice?

Question: My Mom is a pill popper what should I do?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 11:23 AM PST

My mom was once a alchoholic Years back she started to take Tylonel PM and she has taken it everynight for the past couple years ive told her its bad im not Stupid even at 14 I knew that it wasnt good for her and it wasnt one or two it was 4-5. Now im 17 she still takes tylonel pm I think she is depressed she is ALWAYS in the hospital for something I caught on Quick she is just faking pain to get medicine. But very recently she has been acting intoxicated sluring words, forgetting and I asked her if she was ok and she said yeah I got sick and went to the ER they gave me medicine so I said OK. And today she was at work helping a elderly lady get off a toilet and she pullled her back and she said she was in pain so they gave her medicine as she was laying on the couch she started nodding off I could tell she was on a drug so later that night I asked what they gave her for pain as she said Vicodin and I was like wtf for pulling your back so I am planning on giving her a paper from a website and i want her to read it and relize I know what is going on she will denie it but i am planning on getting all of her pills and taking them just to show her maybe even start leaning her off of them so she doesnt have to many withdrawns. I dont want her to start doing crazier and crazier drugs. I want her to use cbd oil that will help with pain and sleep it will be great it wont show up in her system if she doesnt use to much and it had been proven to be basically harmless. Thoughts?

Question: How can I convince my parents to buy me a guitar?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 11:17 AM PST

I'm a teenager and I want to learn to play the guitar but my parents won't let me. I've asked nicely and I've been peraistant in asking them but they won't agree. They make excuses like you won't play it, you won't have time for it, and even that a guitar is for guys( I'm a girl). I even offered to pay for it but they still say no. I don't know anyone who can let me borrow a guitar either. I don't know how to convince them.

Question: My mom is punishing me for something I did not do.?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 11:11 AM PST

Okay, so in school the lunch money to buy food is $3.00. My mom gives me 3 dollars each day to buy lunch money. The other day she was in my room while I was in school and she found my wallet. She saw a lot of money in there and she jumped to conclusions that I have not been giving the three dollars to the lunch person. I have been giving the money to the lunch person every single time. I have a lot of money there from birthdays, Christmas, etc. When I got home my mom was screaming at me for not paying for my lunches. Now she punished me and took away everything. Write now I'm writing on my old iPod touch. I tell her to believe me, but she refuses and keep saying the same thing that it's my lunch money. I don't know what to do, it's just making me mad that she won't believe her own son.

Question: Where to bury my father?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 10:59 AM PST

I got a weird question my father is dying those kids want to bury him next to our mother who he was married to for 30 years before she passed away anyways we want to bury him next to her but my step mom is not up for it he s been with my step-mom for 10 years what do I do and my dad does not want to be cremated

Question: Am I the only person in the world who truly hates their mom with a passion?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 10:45 AM PST

I just hate because I want to be truly different from everyone else. I hate seeing how everyone loves their mom that's so original and it is stupid in my opinion(just my opinion don't let it get you down). I also hate her for being annoying and doing her job as a mom, and still loving me. I hat how she decided to have me, I don't want to be here. I hat life in general she was better off just having my brother. If I were gone she also wouldn't have to worry about me wasting her money. I HATE HOW SHE DECIDED TO HAVE ME.

Question: Quantas orações há no período &quot; Se o dia 12 serve para os pares trocarem presentes, os solteiros também não ficam á toa&quot;?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 10:30 AM PST

Question: Will person ahead of house get blamed?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 10:30 AM PST

My mother passed away about a year ago. I am now left in her house with a mentally ill brother. A social worker must have told my cousin she saw our refrigerator and it didn't have a lot in it. My cousin asked me about it and I tell her we eat out or bring restaurant food in a lot. My brother lost 9 lbs. one month but gained it back the next. If my mom was there they would just talk to her about this. I feel I did good at keeping house and getting food for a year. My brother agrees he gets good food and said if cousin called he will tell her. Will I likely be getting blamed for stuff at house since mom isn't there and is it really anyone else's business about food since we lived a year without mom there?

Question: Do you think it's okay for my abusive father to act like the victim?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 10:23 AM PST

My father has been verbally and emotionally abusive to me and my mother all these years. We had enough of his insults and threats, so we left the house in November without letting him know. Ever since we left the house my dad's side of the family has been deleting us on Facebook. They think that my father is not an abusive man. My cousins see him as the good uncle that is nice, but that's not true. He treats my cousins better than me and I think that's stupid. My aunt, who is my father's sister, stayed with us for about two months last year, and my mother told her about my father being abusive. My mother even showed her the bruise that my father gave to her when they were fighting. Now, when she found out that me and my mother left the house, she deleted us on Facebook. It seems to me that she keeps supporting my father even though he's an abusive man. Also, some of my cousins deleted us on Facebook because like I said, they see their uncle as a nice man. It's sad to see my dad's family deleting us on Facebook because they are so brainwashed. They don't think he's abusive. Anyways, my grandfather would be an abusive man to my grandmother, so that why my father treats my mother that way, and it's also the reason why my aunts and uncles think that being an abusive man or woman is normal in marriage. I know that my dad is telling his family that he did not do anything bad to us. They see him as the victim and see my mom as the bad person. I'm still in shock.

Question: What do you think I should do in the situation?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 09:46 AM PST

I'm dating a woman with 3 kids. Her 19 year old son just started living with her because he said he can't stand his dad anymore. His dad is pressuring him to go to school, and he doesn't want to go to school he just wants to get a job. So he just stopped going to school his dad got mad and now he's living with his mom. We had plans this weekend but the son opened up to his mom and said he was feeling suicidal. So now basically she is having to spend the night every night with him and we are unable to do anything. I was very supportive of her, and her family situation. We cancelled our plans for the whole weekend so she could be with her kid. The weekend is over and we were planning on having a date night tonight because he's feeling better. But now once again she is telling me that she has to stay with her sign because she doesn't feel comfortable leaving him alone. I feel bad for the kid but I told her if it's that bad then he should go to the ER. He's basically preventing her from doing anything and she had to call out of work. I can understand she needs to be there for him, but I'm beginning to wonder if this is normal after a couple days.

Question: What is your uncle's name?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 09:45 AM PST

Question: Cant stand my husbands 2 boys?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 09:41 AM PST

I knew before we got married he had 2 sons but I never knew how hard it would be living with them. Everything they do is about sex, they steal my soiled panties, make fun of my stretch marks and jack off in rooms 3 or 4 times a day. id much rather deal with menstrual cycles thank you.

Question: My bro attacked me in my room+pinned me2the ground,I couldn't breathe properly then his wife came in kicked me alot+smashd a chair at me?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 09:41 AM PST

Question: My Dad is an arrogant ***. How do I find a new Dad who is more loving?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 09:40 AM PST

Question: Wll i grow anymore at 16.?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 09:37 AM PST

So im 16.5 5'9 and 130lbs. My mom is 5'8 and my dad is 5'11. on my moms side all ik is tht her dad was 6'1 but on my dads side all of his sibling were over 6 foot and his dad was over 6 foot as well. will i ever get to six foot...am i a late grower?

Question: My mother kidnapped me from my father and family as a kid. How do I get over the fear they still judge me for this years later?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 09:37 AM PST

She has since died and they see me again.

Question: Can I get taller than my parents?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 09:35 AM PST

I'm 13, 5'2". My mom is 5'0" and dad is 5'6".

Question: Is it possible to get pregnant at 43?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 09:27 AM PST

My mother is 43 years old. Yesterday, I took some photos on her camera roll because my phone was dead. After I took them, I sent the photos that I took to my phone and deleted it from her camera roll. All you iPhone users might know that when you delete a photo from your camera roll, it doesn't actually delete. It goes to the "recently deleted" album. So I went to that album to delete my photos and there I saw a picture of a pregnancy test that my mom took in our bathroom. I guess my mom doesn't know that there is a recently deleted album lol. The pregnancy test shows that she is positive. But my mom is 43. Is it even possible to be pregnant at that age? Plus I know that my parents always use protection because my mom thinks that having more than three children is crazy. She already has three children now. I don't think that my mom has told anyone and that I'm the first person besides her to know. My parents haven't been sleeping together for a few weeks. I think they got into a fight or something, but they are not talking. And by the way, that picture was taken yesterday and deleted yesterday too. And no, I don't think my mom is cheating on my dad because my mom would never do that. All she does is work, go home, work and go home. I'm scared that the reason my mom deleted that picture because she doesn't want anyone to know and she's planing on aborting the baby. Idk am I crazy? Or maybe the pregnancy test she took was cheap and crappy and not accurate? Maybe menopause?

Question: How to deal with my mom pestering me about a wedding coming in 2 weeks?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 08:34 AM PST

I am choosing not to attend my cousin's wedding for personal reasons, plus we're not even that close. I'm at home for a few months waiting for school to start back up in September... but for the time being i'm going insane with my mom trying to convince me to go to the wedding, the more i tell her I'm not going the more she pushes the subject? she's also calling and telling her friends that i won't be attending this wedding. her friends and her are speculating that i might be mentally ill and anti-social because i also don't attend funerals (for personal reasons).

Question: Does an empty refrigerator mean we don't eat?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 08:33 AM PST

My mother passed away about a year ago. I am now left living with a brother that has mental illness. About two months ago a social worker took him to a Doctor and he lost 9 pounds. A month later he gained it back. He is like 350 pounds. My cousin must connect with the social worker and heard about losing weight. The social worker was in house and felt there was little food in refrigerator. My brother prefers if I take him somewhere to eat or bring food in from a restaurant. I know if I was alone my refrigerator would be rather empty. My brother said he is happy with the food I get for him. My cousin called and complained about a lack of food and I told her he prefers meals out. Why are they complaining about little refrigerator food when I know we still eat good and plenty?

Question: I'm an only child and I don't want to be but my parents don't mind me and they don't want to get me a sister or a brother.What to do?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 07:45 AM PST

Question: Why can t I let go of the past?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 07:41 AM PST

I m 20 years old and I can t seem to let go of the past. I know I should but I was always bullied in high school and then my moms boyfriend, now husband, was like another bully at home that I had to deal with outside of school. I know I m overweight but he always talked about me and he would make side comments that were unnecessary and when I would try to tell my mom about it she acted like she didn t want to believe me and she would take his side. I would always cry and to this day I still can t stop crying every time I think about it or something happens to me that reminds me of it. I really want to stop crying so much and actually move on with my life. And as far as losing weight i know it s something that I have to do and no one can do it for me, but it s hard when you have no motivation in your household and it s hard to motivate yourself. I used to cry so much that my older sister would hug me and try to call me down, but she moved out, and when I talk to her on the phone and tell her what s happening she has to tell me that everything s going to be alright and that things will get better. But I don t believe they will. I start college in the summer time and I m going to try my hardest to finish college as fast as I can so I can just move away. PLEASE NO RUDE COMMENTS NO RUDE A*SHOLES!

Question: I keep being rude to my parents and loosing my temper even though I try not to?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 07:23 AM PST

I have a habit of getting moody and angry at the smallest things with my parents, but I m never like that at school. I honestly don t know what s wrong with me. I know I should respect them, and I really do want to, I hate shouting at them, but I still do it. I know it must hurt, and so I try not to shout, and just not start the argument in the first place. But it s no use, I loose my temper way to easily and end up saying things I would regret after. I ve never told them to die or said I hate them or anything like that, because I simply wouldn t dare to, though when I was younger, I would never dare shout at them either, so I m afraid that I might start saying things like that eventually. I am religious, and do pray to god that I ll stop being so disrespectful to them. I really do love them a lot, but if I m starting to think that if I did, why am I so rude to them. Whenever I see an argument coming, I try to shut up or just listen to them tell me off and apologize. Sometimes it works and I m really happy, but they times, I just end up loosing my temper again, and start screaming and shouting. Can someone give me advice on what to do, I need it. By the way I m 13 and on the way to 14 next month, and I ve read online that teenages can get really moody and unkind, however I don t want to be like that, I want to learn to control myself.

Question: Is there something wrong with me?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 07:15 AM PST

My mother got remarried and had 2 kids with my step-dad and my father had 1 child with his girlfriend. My step-dad raised me as his own and I've always called him Dad. Sadly, being his step-daughter I've experienced inequality i between me and my 2 half-siblings. Thing is the bad things I do aren't even near as bad as my sister does (14), even still i get harsh insults and blames and all she gets is just being grounded for 1 hour and then she does everything all over again. Of course, I do see that all the attention and love that they receive, I didn't entirely receive. I sometimes feel very suicidal, depressed and angry, because there isn't a week of peace. If I worry about my half-cousin or others, I get yelled at and be told it's none of my business, but if I keep everything to myself and end up losing my mind they're always like "Oh, next time tell us all of your worries and sad thoughts because we don't want you to keep it to yourself". Lately, I've noticed that I have more headaches, less sleep, less nutrition and irregular periods. I don't want to tell my mum because I know that she will say "shut up! You know nothing about pains, I've suffered more! You young people are getting ridiculous every year!" or she will just make fun of me an saying that I'm exaggerating. If I say I may be suffering some depressive experiences, she will say that she's the one that has Depression. If I ask for a psychologist, she will just tell me to shut up and grow up. I don't undestand.

Question: My mother likes to hurt her adult children as a means of getting back at her enemies. Might she not realize she is hurting us?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 06:59 AM PST

For example we can't go to Christmas in her family because her foes are there. The holidays suck because of this. Thus she is hurting us to get her foes back. Might she be abusing us by accident rather then on purpose? I've told her it hurts but she says our Dad makes the rules. I am an adult living on my own but don't receive invites from my mother's family due to the tradition of her boycotting. So even at age 26 I miss out.

Question: Brother in law staring at me?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 06:51 AM PST

Bro in law keeps staring at me? I keep catching my husbands bro staring at me and then looking down at the floor when I catch him. And now he keeps brushing against me and sitting really close to me so our legs are touching and finding little ways to touch me and it's weirding me out. Why does he keep doing this? What does he want?

Question: My mother likes to lie so how do I know when she's lying and when she's honest?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 05:55 AM PST

Question: My Dad is pure evil. How can I get him to understand me when he is more ignorant than a pile of ****?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 05:54 AM PST

Question: Do I have to help my brother pay his rent?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 05:25 AM PST

So, my little brother has leaning disabilities, so needless to say, he didn't get good grades, get into a good college, and now doesn't have a good job. My parents always tell me that I have to take care of him. Sure, I do make a lot of money, and since I save a lot or invest a lot of my salary (my goal is to become a millionaire by 30), I could just use that money to pay for my brother's expenses. I know you're supposed to help your family and all that, but it'll mess up my whole plan. Should I help him?

Question: How do I talk to my dad after finding out he raped my mom?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 04:48 AM PST

My dad raped my mom. I was a teenager, and am only finding out 5 years later. My mom has left my father since then, but I m not sure how to talk to him or if I can. He also verbally abused me for the last 5 years I lived with him. I had gotten past it to a point where I could talk with him and visit if someone else is there, but I m not sure how this new info should/shouldn t affect that. He seems more civil than he used to be, which is why I was able to speak with him occasionally, but he raped my mom. I don t know how to get past that.

Question: My dad is a perv?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 03:21 AM PST

This has been going on for a while. I don't mean perv as he's a creep to anybody else, I just know for a fact that he watches porn regularly. Not just that, I literally found used condoms in his bedroom. He's in his late 50's, and mom haven't been at home this week. I honestly don't know why there was a used condom in his room, whether he was just jacking off to porn with a condom or hopefully nothing worse.. I've catched him watching porn, he's really bad at hiding it, or maybe I'm being too observant or something. He has his door half open, and my room is next to his room. When I walk into my room and look into his room, I can see that he's watching porn on his big mobile phone. He wear headsets at times, so sometimes he doesn't notice it, and he honestly thinks that I can't see it. He starts walking down into his room more often now on the days, which he didn't really do before. I wonder why that is... Honestly, should I do something? Really don't want to talk with him now after seeing the used condoms lol. The used condom was put back into the small condom package and was lying slightly under his bed. As I said, he's bad at hiding it. Thanks for the answers, but the fact that I learned about this was unintentional. I did not try to snoop in his room when I found the condom, I just wanted to borrow a t-shirt since I couldn't find any in my closet. But I'll still take your advice, I'll mind my own business now, and I never planned to tell anyone anyways :) He tries to keep it in secret, he just doesn't realize he's not good at it.

Question: I don't wanna grow up?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 03:14 AM PST

In 2 months I'll be taking my real GCSEs and turning 16, then Sixth Form but I just wanna stay my childish self forever because I feel like people are expecting me to mature and be all these things I'm not. I'm really just uncertain about the future... Did you ever feel like this?

Question: My father humiliates me a lot and it hurts deeply?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 02:41 AM PST

I've told him before that it hurts my feelings when he does that but he doesn't listen and starts to humiliate me out of the blue. He compares me with others and tells how inferior I am to them. What more humiliation can one do than comparing you with someone to denigrate and hurt you.

Question: FVCK ALL fats, n!gggers, thvgs, smokers, tanned, religious, tattooed, and ALL STUPID PEOPLE IN GENERAL, SUFFER?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 12:44 AM PST

Question: How can I gain my parents trust to go out?

Posted: 05 Mar 2017 12:07 AM PST

i haven t been allowed by my dad to go out since i was in elementary school and now it s even worse that i secretly got a boyfriend. he despises my phone ever since middle school and made me give it back everyday after school. i can t even bring it out with me when i m with my mom going out, only at school. He s the most strictest person i ve ever met, he doesn t even let me hang out with my best friend or have my friends over or let me use my phone to talk to my partners for school projects. i m not even allowed to volunteer for cancer walks or making food for the homeless anymore. i understood how i lost his trust and i guess i do want it back so i can go out but i really despise him because of things he has done to me personally. I guess my dilemma is i want his trust back to go out, but i hate his guts and i don t feel safe around him so i don t wanna talk to him. help?

Question: Should I be jealous that my younger sister says she love our older brother more than she love me when i'm her brother too?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 11:45 PM PST

Question: Mom allows brother s friend to sleep in her room but not me?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 11:21 PM PST

my brother is younger than me and hurts me, calls me dumb, and threaten to throw asphault at me, and he only does this when his JERK friend is over! he is a bad influence and yet no one does anything about it! he even got to sleep in my mom s bed with my brother!! and he is bossy and they always gang up on me and i am older then them, i m afraid my brother s the favorite.

Question: Help i just found out my dad abused my mom..?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 11:15 PM PST

My mom told me today that my dad used to hit her when they were younger like before i was born! She said she was pregnant with my older brother and that my dad used to hit her and stuff... and that after my brother was born he was like 4 months old my dad kicked her in the back and left his foot print on her back and that my mom went to her bff celina and told her what happened and that celina told my mom that the wife he had before her was also abused.. and celina was friends with my dad's ex wife too btw so she said that one day she went to the market where my dad's ex wife worked and spoke to her and said that the ex told her that my dad would hit her! idk what to even think about this honestly.. i am now 18 years old and my parents are still married, i guess im hurt because my mom never told me this about my dad... she said she wouldve never told me this but it sort of came into the conversation..idk all this kind of changed my perspective on him. You know? I mean he's still my dad and i love him and he's never put a hand on me or my older brother, he's always been good to us... he's giving us what we needed but i still cant over the fact that he used to hit my mom! and that he basically abused her! I mean now my mom and dad are good they seem happy together like theyve looked past that idk I need some advice i really dont know what to do.. should i confront my dad about this?

Question: My dad cheats , manipulates and treats my mom so bad?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 10:58 PM PST

My dad always treated my mom badly . He s hit me , gave my sister a concussion, and hit my mom . We re over 18 now and he stills treats her bad . My mother drinks from being treated so bad . She does whatever he wants . Cooks cleans pays the bills , gives him anything he wants . As soon as he comes home calls her a ***** and talks and emotionally abuses her so badly . She doesn t deserve it . Last week a friend said she saw my dad making out with a older woman . He was nice to my mom for a bit then the thee night she confronted him on why he really didn t come home til noon the next day and he cussed her out called her a birch . Etc . He doesn t let her have any friends . Or do makeup or her hair . She always pays for his stuff before she does anything for herself . He s just a horrible person . He s a narcissist , sociopath , had really still has bad anger issues . You can t correct him unless you want every tv in the house broken . Yet she s scared to be alone . If you tell him what he does to her he gets demotic and either makes you fell bad and drowns himself in the pond of goose crazy and hurts someone. What do me and my sister do ? He s broken her and made her into a drunk woman with no purpose r hope . What do we do? How can we help her? He makes 6 grand a month has 2000 n bills . She makes 13 a hr and pays his stuff . He really is a selfish asshole . Like what do we do . We hate to see our mother like this and we are scared about her getting suicidal again .

Question: How can I convince my brother he is not older than me?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 10:38 PM PST

We have such a great relationship, but this has become a sticking point and I am worried it will end up hurting our parents.

Question: If you get a chance to live anywhere in the US where would it be?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 09:53 PM PST

Question: Can I have some advice, please?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 09:35 PM PST

I'm a 13 year old boy and have been raised by my single mom. We are really close to each other. She is 36 and has this tattoo on her hip that she got in college. Its a really pretty butterfly, but she never talks about it and it's kinda just there. I have always thought it was really pretty and I have wanted to tell her that. I don't think she needs to show it off all the time, but it wouldn't be bad to sometimes because a lot of girls are not lucky enough to have something that pretty on them. Should I tell her what I think about it or just not bring it up?

Question: What would you do if this was your son?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 08:53 PM PST

Let's say you have a 31 year old son. He's married with two children named Sara and Andrew who are both 14 years old. Your son has no job and depends on his wife for money and resources. He punched his wife in the face and calls her ugly, stupid, hideous and worthless. He also tells the kids they look disgusting just like their mother, he spends most of his time play Video games, hanging out with friends while his wife and two children work, go to school and pay for house bills. And cook. Sara cooks and cleans, their mother works 12 hours a day and Andrew works 8 hours every Monday, Saturday and Sunday. Your son stays at home and often yells at them to either shut up, cook him something, or belittles them for something like not cleaning up, paying a bill on time, or not buying him a video game. What would you do if this was your son? He's married to a woman named Stacy and has two children. He doesn't work and depends on his wife and two children to work, pay bills, and buy him video games.

Question: I live in Connecticut how much is a DNA test ?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 08:35 PM PST

My son father is a dead beat he denying his son knowing is his they look just alike and I was loyal to him and didn't cheat unlike him he cheated on me so IMA do a dna test to show him how stupid he is .

Question: Parents do you let your kids watch old cartoons or are they too offensive?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 08:20 PM PST

Bugs bunny, road runner, Scooby Doo, Tom and Jerry and so on. I find a lot of parents won't let their kids watch them because they are too offensive and violent. These same parents watched these cartoons as kids and they turned out fine. Why are they too offensive in 2017?

Question: My bros wife snaps every time someone talks abt her kids,even if private,Pushes her nose in+says "what did u say?"how can this ***** shutup?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 08:06 PM PST

Question: My parents always asks me to treat them. Is this normal?

Posted: 04 Mar 2017 08:05 PM PST

I'm 21 and just graduated last June. I have a stable job. But whenever I ask my parents to hang out they always ask if I'll treat them? And so I do, I treat them every week for dinner and so. i still live with my parents though. Were 5 children but I'm the youngest and my 2nd to the oldest sister also lives with us. But they never ask her to treat them. Lol. Is this normal? Or am I bad for not always saying yes whenever they ask if I'll treat them. I really wanna save up money. :(