im waiting for my visa . good bye shining  place. ill miss boston a lot but its too depressing to think thats not my life. but with him i can live good lifestyle. lol normally no one leaves usa. all want to come usa. i got so depressed here . and being rejected by boston., and all this psychotic things. I am really waiting my visa to india. XD not to get married but to visit. but normaly no one leaves usa for love xD i dont drive so its just very very overwheliming and im extremly disturbing espeicallu seeog tje horse manuer in the backyard  and the coyotes. after college and stuff, i just never become a proper profesional to my parents liking and i had sex for like 1 years so .....its not pissible to get an appartment and i dont know anyone. and if i do. they allready are married and settled down. who the **** am I? my family like sister and cousins are in nyc, i live in those boondox areas. that if u go one more  2mile u will reek of fish curry. ( no offesne) but its not for me PS. I drink bottled water because my house water is not clean. Its no different from outdoor sewar line in rural indian village. and  nyc everydy propane smell XD And beep Beep hell No xD thats why i LOVE boston :'( perfect balance. BUT social security or the TAX MONEY dont help mEo[fdsekwjknlfdlfleqkrwhjnkfjle;KDGDNFEW;L But hopefully i Go india. And Live Regular Life ..I know its just a dream. But its desperate And final one lOl

I've only been married 6 months but been with him for 6 years. I don't think we ever had a honeymoon phase because we are very different and don't have much in common as far our views go and we have argued our entire relationship but there was a time I suppose when I extremely intrigued by him. Literally every 4 months I have a new love interest. First it was my boss. I started having sex dreams about him. Falling for him. Had to quit that job because I couldn't stop thinking about him. Then it was my new coworker couldn't stop thinking about him. Then it was a guy friend of mines In the beginning of our relationship he was emotionally abusive. He's better now with that though.

Anyone ????

She is so critical that when ever she does that I loose my cool and began to yell back and cuss at her. I provide food to the table, I pay my bills on time. But she fights because she says sometimes I IGNORE her when she's is trying to talk to me. I always pay attention to her even when I'm not looking at her. We have no problems of jealousy and frankly we quite honest about that. Sometimes I forget to do things but eventually I fixed them, ok but I don't like her condescending attitude which make me mad and I end up saying something bad. But the thing is when I yell she begins yelling back at me. We had throw some stuff but one time she slapped me and I didn't wanted to hit at her back so hit the wall and left the house. She began crying saying that I don't love her and why do I act like that? Ok this is the thing, we just married a year ago. When I met her I thought she was beautiful but I thought she was conceited. I was heart broken because a girl I like had cheated on me with my friend. So I guess I needed to distract myself so when I met her I wanted to talk to her but eventually I stop because I saw no Interest from her. Then 8 months passed by and we hang out, my ex wanted to get back with me. My ex had just lost her dad so I was there for her but my ex used me again. I then began talking to the girl and before you know it we took a trip to Vegas unexpectedly. We got so drunk that we slept with each other and she got pregnant so we have a baby girl

Bull to the shitt. When we humans do it we fantasize on people we wanna *** but can't. LIES

i like someone younger. she refuses and is causing problems what should i do?

Could I try another girl to double check? 

They got this blue glow in their eyes and left their wives. Eventually I think the wives got them back, but not sure. Does anyone know?

We've recently been having some problems at our small parish. We have a wonderful pastor, and he truly has a pastoral spirit. However, ever since my husband was elected to be the head of one of the organizations, he and my pastor have been butting heads. They're both around the same age, so I would have thought they would get along. Come to think of it, our pastor has always been a little distant with my husband, but I always chalked it up to my husband having a pretty aggressive personality. Not everyone knows how to respond to that. However, things have become so bad that one of the organization members advised my husband to step down, as this person said our pastor would continue making things difficult for my husband. Every idea my husband has had, which are all very good, has been shot down. It almost feels like he's been bullied by our own pastor this whole time. It's disheartening, because my husband went in full of enthusiasm and excitement, and now he's discouraged. He's tried talking to the pastor, but gets turned down. Our pastor even ignores him when he sees him, but talks to me and our sons as if nothing is going on. I've never had a problem with him and this pastor and I have always gotten along, so I don't know why he can't treat my husband the same. Should we switch parishes? I'm not one of those ultra sensitive people who runs away at every insult, but I just don't want my husband to feel like an outsider.

I was recently under the suspicion that my wife is having affairs with the neighbor. There has been three incidents this past month where my wife was hanging out with my neighbors while I was still at work. My neighbors are in their late 20's, they are college kids and my wife is 53 years old. I don't understand why she would be there.

Some bloke just asked.  I changed it up to be more interesting. Let's hear it!

And should it be required to have at least 19 lovers before marriage? It has been said that men prefer an experienced woman to marry   

In other words, how do I know if I'm doing marriage right? Is there a report card of checklist I can use to help me gauge where I'm at with muh murrige? If I'm not 100% sure then there is a problem..... Of course! How did I not figure that out myself? Can I apply this logic with everything else in my life? For example, how can I trust that something made in CHAI-NA doesn't have a virus? Quickly Pedro!  Throw everything out that's made in China!

Or do you only need to worry about it when it comes time to dump the spouse? But isn't that what we pay lawyers for? That's like me telling you to not buy a car unless you're a good sneaky car salesman.  Lol!

So my husband told me that he hasn't been watching porn but last night I found out he was on a porn website he has a history of doing this and whenever I confront him about it he always denies it and says he stopped and he asks me why don't I trust him it's not exactly the porn the bothers me it's the fact that he has to lie to me over and over again when it's obvious that he's still doing it this is the 6th time that's he's lied about it I even tell him if you tell me the truth I won't be upset but he continues to lie again it's not the porn I'm mad about it's the lying like why won't be just admit it ?

Whats not to like about a "get out of jail not free but at high cost card" if you're a dude.  If you're a lady, get out of jail and get free stuff.

My wife has always had this thing to where anytime I'm typing on my laptop she wants to know what I'm typing or who I'm talking to. Since we're both working from home now she's in the kitchen and I'm in the bedroom. Typically when we wake up I turn on the lamp on my side of the bed and it pretty much stays on during the day. Today I was typing an email to my sister and my wife, who is on the other side of the house, just decided to come into the bedroom and complain about the light being on. She said I had the blinds open and there is enough light in the room. She said I was running the light bill up. Granted, she's in the kitchen which had 2 overhead lights and she's sitting at the kitchen table and around the table there are 3 windows. All of which she had the blinds open. It's okay for her to have the kitchen lights on but me having the lamp on my side of the bed on is running up our power bill sky high. I honestly think she just came in here to see what I was typing or who I was typing it to. We've been working from home several weeks now but today was the first day the lamp bothered her. Was she just being nosey or just trying to nit pick? And should I go in the kitchen and turn off her lights since she's sitting next to 3 windows.

My husband and I have been going through issues throughout our two year marriage that have to do with his infidelity and drug abuse. He left me home alone for two of my birthdays and we've only been married two years. When his birthday came around I decided to not even come home because he has been staying out every night until 5am with no explanation on where he was. When I did finally come home I noticed he hadn't been home all day. I tracked him down and found him at another apartment complex but his phone was charging in his car. I checked his phone and found he had a gf who he had unprotected sex with for two weeks and he was also on dating apps and talking to other women as well. I was devastated. I confronted him and he said he did it because I missed his birthday however the text messages stem from weeks before his birthday even began. He now is angry at me all the time. Calls me a *****. And when I try to work it out he makes me the one to blame . I finankkg found somewhere else that I can stay because I just don't feel like this is real love. Why can't he stop talking to them and be with Me? Should I move out and leave my husband? What are your thoughts ? 

Why in marriage it has been termed wrong within marriage? As many so called modern people talks about freedom, their body their choice, equality, sex is not a big thing, etc.  If a husband complains if his wife's sleeps around after marriage, then too the wife can say that he should think it this wsy that even though she sleeps with everyone, she married him and not others, so he should be happly with it...n the others only gets her body and not her love..which only the husband gets, even though he does'nt get sex.  And children are children and they are innocent, so even if the wife gets pregnant from other men her husband should happily raise the children of others and feel good.

And how long till we can cure HIV?