so basically she sneaks out every night to see her boyfriend who's 38 and she's only 15! i went through her phone and she is planning on getting rid of me and marrying her bf! i don't know what to do? when i threaten to take her phone she threatens suicide

so i just wanted to say that my mom has been no help to any of these symptoms, i am starting to believe she caused my depression, My mom would always yell at me and call me stupid and stuff and she would say im a disgusting person,(i dont believe i am) she would say stuff about me like suck in your stomach, like she thinks im fat(which i sorta gained weight after someone passed away,but still thin) she would always say stuff like, look at your hair is so ugly and ruined. she would criticize my face of acne. She would discipline me only and not my other siblings by taking my phone and computer away, she would yell at me for baking, she would yell at me for almost anything. when i try to defend myself she would say dont talk back or i will take your technology away, or worse she would hit me with brooms or he hands , i would tell my dad and he would tell my mom to not do that. SOmetimes when there are days when shes relaxed,i would try to talk to her ,but she would ignore me or say ya like she listening but she makes it clear she isnt. She would say stuff like careful or you get fat when i eat desserts. I began to fail classes and my mom would get mad at me saying im getting fat and im stupid. ,i began to feel major symptoms of anxiety where i cant even look at people in the eye cause i feel like they are judging me, or think low of me. I feel like i cant accomplish a good life and my dreams, and im really insecure of my looks that i have to follow trends also im to scared to get too close to people and have good relationships

She's 15. I don't think I'm that strict of a dad, all I ask for are decent grades, a clean room, and don't dress like you're auditioning for a rap video. My wife on the other hand, just wants to be her friend and lets everything slide. Everything becomes, " oh well, it is what it is". The game thats being played now is, she won't even ask me if she can do something, she asks her mom, mom says yes, and then when I catch her doing something( I.e. buying a skimpy outfit, watching tv when she should be studying, etc), it's always, " Well, Mom said I could". I think its only getting worse because now that its summer, she's out with friends a lot more, which is not the issue. The issue is that she won't answer her phone, has come home drunk, and refuses to clean the room. Should I start taking away the phone and laptop or is there something more I could do?

Is a Toyota a good beginners car? Those are pretty cheap.

I never really wanted kids I always tell the guy I'm with that when I'm with someone though I haven't been with anyone in over a year I'm done with that for awhile due to being hurt enough. Sometimes my mom will seem to fake whine hard to tell if it's fake or not as I know a lot of moms do this to their kids, because she wants me to have my kid. I don't want any anytime soon I probably won't in the future either as my career job will keep me on my feet a lot I probably won't have the time that's what I wanted for my career job to. I start college soon so I don't even have my own place I even told her I'm not having kids if I don't have my own place, I'm working on everything slowly. What I want for my career will take a lot of time and money. I have also told her that my cat is her grand child from me lol. If you go through this I'd also love some response funny ones are a plus, it's kinda fun to do this part though. She already has a grand kid from my brother the grand kid just moved with the mom far away though so I know that's why she's doing this treatment with me again. Before my nephew I always hated kids I'm still not a fan of them just don't have pure hatred.

she wore micro bikini (one can barely cover nipples and partial vagina) to attend boss's pool party. she wanted to take this chance to get raise because her boss likes her. She doesn't let me go because it is a private party. She came back just about an hour ago and she looked exhausted. I found out only she and her boss were in this 2 person party. Her bottom piece of bikini has big load of sticky warm white stuff that smell like sperms. She is the bread winner in our family so I don't want to confront her. Could that be something else other than sperms?

Growing up my mother had and still has the tendency to listen to others especially her boyfriends and that has created a lot fights because of her listening to others. She would sometimes shame me about being too skinny or wearing shirts that I liked. I've also noticed that she gets jealous on how much attention I get from dating apps and sometimes I feel like she tries to make me feel less when that happens. She talks about being proud of having me at home and not doing drugs and getting drunk making their parents worry where they are but when she's not bragging about me, at she home starts to say different things like you need to move out people younger than you (17-18yrs) have their own place, etc. she's a hard worker and people see her as nice but the things she's done are unexplainable. She always wants things done her way and makes things about her when I try to tell her something she's doing wrong. I give her advice on what to do when she's have guy problems but never listens and keeps complaining. She's always looking at the bad side of things. Sometimes I feel like she praises my sister more and like what I do isn't good enough.

I'm in my early 30s and still haven't found someone. I was closed to getting married once but it flopped. I'm thinking of adopting or having my own kids. If am going to have my own kids (from a sperm bank), I will need to do it now because my fertility will rapidly decline soon. I know there's huge stigma against single motherhood so I want to know if I should really do it.

Why does this age group still act like teenagers?

Hello this is the Grim Reaper. I have full control of Oumaimas account since she had left her phone on and forgot to log out of her account when she collapsed on the floor. This is a late announcement but I had taken Oumaima's life away a few days ago because she had been misbehaving not only on the internet, but within her family as well. So all of you dont have to worry about that pathetic lady asking you all the name of the "boat" that sank in Titanic. Her misbehavior and violation of community guidelines on Yahoo Answers was related to an unknown mental illness she was diagnosed with a year ago after the death of her younger sister. She had died after being killed by her ex-boyfriend in an arguement. Eversince then she had been extremely mentally unstable, and had even hurt her family members a couple of times. To clear things up about her background, 1. She is NOT a medical sciences undergraduate. She had dropped out of university as a culinary arts student after her sisters death. 2. She does not live in Philadelphia, she lives in Allentown, Pennsylvania. Probably why she had mentioned that is because Philadelphia is where her sister was killed by her vicious ex boyfriend, and also where she had a traumatic experience with a perverted elderly man. 3. She has never had any interest in the movie Titanic. 4. Oumaima is 19 years old. Not 23. Thats all i have to say. Hope I cleared things up. Sorry she bothered all of you and called alot of u liars and rude names.

I just feel like basically this is my only way of saying no to bs around me. I just got into a little argument with my mom about who should have the laptop charger since we have similar laptops. She ended up kindly (betrayingly) you can have the charger. Then left and coughed very loudly like she always does when she backstabs me. If I don't think negative thoughts about her to talk about what she did it just gets pushed into my mind and idk where it ends up. If I think. negative thoughts about people they don't seem to mess with me. So am I wrong?

Ok so I found out this morning that my daughter is pregnant, and it's with her 1st cousin on her dad's side. I asked her how and when it happened ,but she won't tell me. Since her cousin lives lose to us, she sees him all the time. They go swimming at may house when I'm not there. He comes over all the time when I'm not there. He is 15. I don't know what to do about the situation. My daughter won't tell me anything. Please somebody help me! I just don't know what to do. I never thought my daughter was having sex... let alone with her cousin.

He owns a strip club,another bar,and he wants to get into the casino business. I told him that he was enabling people to cheat on their spouces and enabling their alcoholism. He said " i don't care. People are gonna do what they are gonna do regardless so they might as well give me their money instead of someone else" .

So, my daughters birthday is coming up and she's going to have a party of course. But I don't know what girls that age enjoy, so how do I entertain and excite them? What are some good activities?

My mother is an alcoholic who almost died a few years ago from acute pancreatitis. She does still drink sometimes but not as often as she did. My wife says she finds her unpredictable and whilst she doesn't think she's a horrible person, she feels very uncomfortable and not happy letting her babysit our young daughter. She only allows supervised visits she never lets my mother be alone with our child. My mom says she's out of order and is stopping her from seeing her granddaughter, my wife only really allows her to see her a couple times a month and not for very long visits either, maybe an hour max. She says my mom isn't a good role model for our daughter and she would rather she wasn't a huge part of her life. Is there anyway to change this ? I feel bad for my mom

But I'm a normal dude with friends ( all married) .. but now I want to reinvent myself.. what should I do?

I'm almost 17 and have basically been alone there before. I went with my school a few years back and my friends left me. So I went off on my own, and my parents know this. I know my way around, and where everything is. I'm responsible and always reply when my parents call/text me. To be honest, my dad wouldn't actually care. He would just tell me to ask mom. But my mom on the other hand would just say "we'll see" up to the point of me asking too much and getting in trouble and ruining the chance of actually going.

My wife and I did ivf and ended up having to use a donor egg and have a seraget carry our son. I love my two year old child to death. Thou I get really upset sometimes at the fact I couldn't have made this child through sex like most people on my own. My wife was the one with the fertility issue but I still wish so bad to have had a child the normal way. Is this a normal thing? I also feel like my kid is going to be different cause he wasn't born through sex like every other kid

I asked this question before and for those of you who saw my last question, this is kind of an update. Apparently when she saw my message (telling her that despite what happened between her and my Dad, I still want her to be part of my life), she ignored it earlier, but now that I checked, she has apparently unfriended me on Facebook and I can't message her. For those of you who have not seen my last post, (according to my Dad) she has left him for another woman and moved to a nearby State with the woman. She appears to be avoiding me. Why would she be avoiding me and unfriending me on Facebook?

We all live in different cities. When she does visit, it seems like she spends more time with other relatives and their families. When she does visit us, she always brings other folks along. This is very annoying to me because I feel core family was not strong to begin with and we are not taking full advantage of the time we have now. I don't mind extra visitors, but I think there should be time dedicated to just the family.

Im 27. he's 35. We've been together since I was 19. He lives with his grandmother andd has 3 kids by two women. I have no kids and no desire to have kids. I always thought we were the perfect match because my bf doesn't want any MORE kids and I have no desire to get preganant EVER. who knows if my guy friend will ever want kids. Yes, he doesn't have kids now but that doesn't mean he won't EVER want them. I'm never changing my mind, I'm not maternal at all I never even get baby fever so me and my bf have been taking precautions so that i don't get pregannat. me and my guy friend do have a lot in common, except for the fact that i'm very outgoing and loud and he's extremely shy and soft spoken. me and my guy friend are both aspiring authors and he lives with his parents also, he is like 29 i think. me and my guy friend have been friends for 10 years and my boyfriend said that he believes he's a better match for me because of our background, how we were raised, our career aspirations, and personality. My boyfriend said our personalities can clash sometimes because me and him are both strong minded and opinionated and my bf is the type of person who is stuck in his ways. he does have a tendency to get mad over little things where my guy friend is very laid back, i've actually never seen seriously mad EVER and i've known him a long time. my boyfriend said that my guy friend is more passive which fits my personality better.

I have been going to this barber since I was 6 years old, in 1975. My dad used to go there too. I'm 50 and I still come here, but I found out the barber just died at age 84. This place has been open since 1967 and it's just sad to see it closed, his son works there too but I guess he doesn't want to take over the barber shop, he wants to do different things now and it will close he said, I am sad because I have been coming here for 44 years, I remember coming here as a kid with my dad. He died on June 30th so i'm sure his funeral hasn't happened yet, right? I just found this out yesterday that he passed. Would it be rude to call his son and ask to go to the funeral? I feel like I need to be there. The last time I got a haircut was a month ago and I feel bad now I didn't even know something was wrong with him, I mean he was old but still.

Hi I'm a first time mom and i had my son in may and he's a month in half old and my sisters dont have kids and my mom act likes she doesnt understand why i react about my child the way i do sometimes like one of my older sisters tried to take a pic of him and she was close up to his face and her flash came on and shined in his eyes and he got scared and it was too bright and i got upset because he was only 4 days old at the time so I freaked out because i didn't want anything to happen to his eyes and my mom act like she didnt understand why i acted the way I did and she tells me oh yu can't act like that with your baby and everybody act like they dont understand that i have to be in the house with my child and I have to basically watch his every move and its just annoying ppl don't understand how it is to be a mom why is it that?

We always have a housekeeper and she does all the cleaning around the house, even the laundry.

I wanted to have a small normal birthday party at my house without a big dress which I personally don t like at all. I don t like being the center of attention and I have many personal reasons as to why I Don t want it. I want to make my parents happy but at the same time even planning it makes me miserable. My mom keeps telling me I have no choice and that I it s not my decision. My dad just wants me to be happy but also wants a big party. My mom already wants things her way and doesn t let my have what I want also. I know I should do it for them but I really don t want to and it makes me more sad than happy having it. My parents are forcing me into having a big quinceanera and I really don't want one, but after all I've tried to explain to them they still don't care about what I think. What should I do?

I'm having a grief, so please don't joke. (we engaged, and everyone has a different story, please dont judge or guess) my boyfriend went to heaven, his father wants to give the phone to me our photos are in the phone 1. the police said he sent this phone to my boyfriend's uncle his uncle doesn't want to give the phone to me. but if I offer money he may change his mind. how should I talk to him? 1. his father talks to the uncle to give it to me 2. I talk him first, and put his father on the phone 3. offer money it's like he is too lazy to do anything. that's why he rejected. or he's ashamed that his relative is passed away. and find it uncomfortable to talk with me. he asked me for money. (for 6 times) so offering money could work. his father is an old, borderline alzheimer so his uncle may not take him seriously. the uncle claims he let police handle my bf's belongings. but his father said the uncle sold freezers and other belongings away. (his father is a borderline alzheimer) I called his phone and the phone contract still remains. so his family didn't stop the phone contract. normally phone sellers would make phone contract ends. 2. the laptop, I think his uncle told the house cleaning guy to throw away. 3. the laptop, house cleaning guy took to sell 3.-1 the laptop house cleaning guy took home, put on the internet market, he still has it. 3.-2 the house cleaning guy sold it online already. 3.-3 the house cleaning guy sold it to a local store I am going to send message to his phone. in case someone turns on the phone I'll explain I'm his girlfriend and I'll buy the phone. someone said it's not wise to say 'Im going to give lots of money' what's the wise way of talking? someone said, if I say to a person who has the phone, 'Im going to buy this phone for lots of money' it makes them feel uncomfortable and feel reluctant. is it true?

My fathers side of the family is huge. (10 siblings, plus him make 11) all but one have multiple kids and ages of the kids ranges from babies to 40. I'm 22 and I think I'm a good person. I love my immediate family, my parents and two sisters I would honestly do anything for them. But the problem is that my father is very close with his siblings and their kids, my cousins. Cousins around my age are always hanging out together. I'm the odd one out. I don't enjoy their company. My dad try's to get me to socialize with them but I don't honestly want to have any tight relationships with them because I think they all have the same mentality. They settle for shitty jobs, work to have money for the weekend, and don't show any interest in bettering there lives. They are good people but they settle and I don't want to settle. I want to do better not only for my self but for my parents, sisters and future kids. So with that I've basically cut ties with them, so on the rare occasion that I go to a family event. They all resent me. I've caught them talking bad about me and even others family members that they are "close with". They put in a friendly face and as soon as you turn around they are already talking sh*t. I don't like the fakeness. I've told my dad how they act and even he acknowledged that I was right. But still he wants me to be closer with them. I don't know what I'm looking for. I don't know if I want advice or just wanted to vent... either way I appreciate any feedback.

My Stepmom left my Dad for another woman like a month ago (according to my Dad), and ever since I tried talking to her, she appears to be avoiding me. The last text I sent her was explaining that despite what happened with her and my Dad, I still want her to be a part of my life. She saw my message and didn't respond.

For various reasons I cannot make it. I did just see all the people two weeks ago so it is not like it is people I don't see often.

I've been staying with my sister since June, just wondering is it wrong that I paid rent for the month but want to leave next week when I get paid ? They fight nearly everyday not just yelling but physical altercations and after telling my sister to stay out of my belongings they still go through them etc I miss my privacy and being able to live freely. I don't even eat in the house because I fear they'll eat my groceries. Oh and the kicker the girlfriend had a job but quit to supposedly find a new one so now I'm the only one with a job. I came to stay so I could save money up from living in hotels but at this point I rather struggle there than be here any longer

I am a mom of two toddlers. I am thinking of doing a dual masters/PhD program. Me and my husband both work full time but I'm willing to switch to part time work after the program starts. Can I manage to get my doctorate while being a mom with a husband and two kids?

I just turned 25 and I still live at home. I know it's bad. I am getting my master's and graduating in the fall. I've been finding myself hating my life at home. I'm the only one who cleans and I clean up after all my useless siblings and my parents who never clean. And my brother enforces gender roles on me and makes me make him food when he gets back from work. He forces my mom and I to make him food and he turns into such an asshole when there's no dinner for him. Which I think he should make his own food. But his janitor job is so hard that he expects dinner when he gets home (not my problem). I hate cooking. I was raised with gender roles where I am supposed to cook because I am female. I am supposed to clean because I am female. I hate that ****. Everyone should cook and clean. I hate cleaning up after everyone. No one cleans and I can't stand dirt so I always find myself cleaning. I hate to find things so dirty in the house. Yet my brothers never clean or cook and I hate it from the bottom of my soul. When I tell them to clean they fight with me and are huge assholes. When I graduate I am going to move out of here so fast. But lately I've been feeling really sad and like I hate my life and pissed off. I just want my own place, cook my own food and clean up after myself. I hate that I am taking care of everyone. Is this a reason enough to hate my life? I even feel like drinking to numb how much I feel.

Having heath problems sucks really bad so much that you want to end your life & your family wont even care about u I dont know about anyone els but when u have heath problems people really do take advantage of you even from your own family even your own blood family I keep telling my brother to get a job to help pay rent and stuff but he just keep saying do you know how hard is it to find a job he keeps using me as an excuse just because I cant do nothing about it just because he know I will pay everything with my check just because he knows I need him he dont care to do anything, It hurts my feelings so much I even told him im going to end my life then he just says go ahead he dont care because he know he can help themself he just waiting for me to be gone from his life. When I tell my other siblings they really dont care either they just say is your problem like people really dont know how hard is it when u have heath problems u cant live life normal people even if u wanted to. Now I see why people with heath problems die sooner or later is because their family dont give a F about them you get treated so much like crap u get zero respect your pretty much garbage to them your nothing but a tool to help out your family to move on with their life then when they are ready they will leave your a$$ for dead like you never exist is so sad to have heath problems Im sure im not the only one getting this.

This isn't a troll story. This is legit. My cousin, we'll call him Todd, and I are 10 years apart. I am 28, he's 38. Because of our age difference and the fact that we live on opposite sides of the country, we didn't grow up together. We were practically strangers all of our lives, except the summers we'd go visit his family and that's when we were super close. There are quite a few photos of us as kids, being two peas in a pod. The furthest back I can remember is visiting them when I was 8 and Todd was 18. I had such a crush on him, I didn't know any better. This crush came back when I visited them again at age 11 and then again at age 13. I knew it was wrong, but again..he was practically just an attractive older guy stranger to me. Fast forward to maybe 6-7 years ago, he told me that now that I'm an adult, he is seeing me in a different light and he developed a crush on me. We talked all the time on Facebook and developed feelings for each other, but because of the distance and the fact that we're related, we knew it couldn't happen. 5 years ago, he got married. Up until a year and a half ago, he still would flirt with me and even dirty talk me, but that was mainly when he was drunk and/or high. I kind of enjoyed the attention and would tell him about my sex life or things I enjoy sexually, as to tease him. When him and his wife got pregnant, he stopped talking to me as much. We would still catch up, but no more flirty talks, which was good. I recently got engaged and Todd was happy for me. Well, we just had our family reunion. I hadn't seen Todd in 15 years, since I was 13. I kept wondering what seeing him again would be like and I NEVER expected us to be alone together. I saw him 2 of the days and the first day, his wife and kid were around so he paid very little attention to me. The 2nd day, things were different. He indirectly came onto me a couple times and after my fiance went back to the hotel for the night, Todd and I were pretty attached at the hip. We had a nice chat away from everybody else and he basically said he doesn't know how he's going to control himself. Long story short, we ended up briefly making out in a dark room of the house (it's a rather big house) before we almost got caught. I probably won't see him again until my wedding late next year and I don't plan on being alone with him again. I told one of my best friends and she thinks I should tell my fiance what happened. Would you want to know, if you were my fiance? It would be one thing if the person I cheated with was a friend, but it's my first cousin. :/ My fiance would never forgive me. I post anonymously because it keeps people from being able to identify me. No, I don't plan on pursuing this. At the end of the day, we're cousins and he's married and I'm almost married, so no. Honestly taqueria, I wouldn't say my whole fam is like this, but my brother confessed to having the hots for our older female cousin after the reunion. They hadn't seen each other in 20 years, so what do you expect? I live in America, that's all I am going to say. We all do...all Americans.

Now back in June 2018, my mum forced me to leave my evening job as I was working too late she said and they were tired of me coming home at 11pm/11:30pm at night. BTW, I had quit my 30 hour job as I was making no career progress in retail (where I was) and I felt lost in my sense of direction. So I carried on with my evening job and I then my 2nd stepmum forced me to quit, which I tried to stand up for myself and it ended up causing arguments 24/7. So I was redundant for 3 weeks and I was gambling at that time (I began on my birthday)and carried on to make up for lost money) and I became even more broke :( Then as I was paying for more and more stuff at home, despite being forced to quit my job that made me extra money, I got tired of never getting a thankyou always being nagged and yelled at for not paying attention etc!!, that I began shoplifting. Not a great move getting caught because I was and still am being a beck and call person 24/7 for my family as if I don't have feelings, I'm not a person etc!! This obviously caused my faimly to be extremly angry at me even more, but I got sick of the burden all the time and constantly being halfweay home and having to turn round, walk 40 odd mins to get little things here and there all the time and then when I'd call to ask for specific details, the phone would go to voicemail and I'd then get yelled at.

As we were both at home with our parents, we would split all the chores at home and everything. 50/50 for doing the dishes, sweeping, vacuuming and dusting the rooms, doing the laundry and shopping and cleaning the bathroom and doing the gardening. As soon as she left, all of those chores fell on me, and bit by bit I had changed. Not just because of my dad's death, but because of the sheer amount of work I'd have to do. After 3.5 years, I am tired of constantly paying for stuff and not only that but my parents asked me for a loan to buy a car and they asked me how much savings I had, and stupidly I told them., So they borrowed my entire savings £3,200 and they still call me the bad person. Simply because I didn't go to my baby brothers naming ceremony as I was working and I wasn't allowed time off and because of the fact that my sister had tgiven my new brother a gift and I hadn't. (Even though when we as a family first moved house, from my good heart, I gave £500 deposit to help them out) and split my tax rebate for them!!yet I am still not good enough :(

So yea, after this had been going on, in my previous employment, I worked 2 jobs (the 1st being 30 hours a week 10:30-5:30pm) Monday to Friday, and then Id be working in the evenings 6pm-10/11pm at night in this restaurant I was working in). Id be doing about 3-4 evening shifts a week) which I saved all the money from my second job. I had and stil have a dream to move and live in Australia and before I began my 2nd job, I had saved about £900 in my savings. So then with my 2nd job, and I was and continue to try to help out my parents, giving them like £180 a month, I managed to save up £3200) and every 2 months, Id spend £300 for my next lot of driving lessons) which I am still doing now. Then after a while, it seemed nothing I'd do at home was good enough. Yes my younger sister left to go to a life of constant smoking, drugs and permanent partying being a nasty gold digging girl (she hates me btw, we do not talk at all!) and yet because I want to actually have a life my parents do not want that. Ok, so as soon as my younger sister left, untidy, messy and dirty as she is, I was left with all the work.