My gifriend and I came to an agreement that we will just have to tell her husband we have been cheating. We have a coworker who is blackmailing us and we just can't hide it anymore. Would it be a good idea to do it in public where there are witness in case he tries to fight? Confessing is a lot harder than I thought.

He will treat her as a joke and a hookup even if he was shy to approach her and she did it for him. How can she respect a man like that and how can he trust for her respect if he knows that she had to take the lead to initiate the relationship? She took the emotional risk and acted like the chooser getring her prize. I anticipate a bunch of comments disagreeing but I don't care. I don't care how shy you are...i am not gonna be your mom and do your work for you. I want a MAN not a boy or "equal partnership".. A lady should be treated as such.

There's this freezer we have in our garage. In it is all kinds of meat from 2011. There's dates on the bags of meat. It's his mothers food and I couldn't for the life of me understand why she would keep it there all these years. I talked to my husband about tossing it and apparently that really offended his mother and she got really upset claiming the meat was still fresh. She invited us over for dinner tonight for steak. It wasn't until after I finished eating that she let me know all the food I just ate was from the freezer that was in our garage. This included frozen green beans, corn, and steak all from 2011. I feel sick as a dog now. I knew it didn't taste right. I've been having a stomach ache and vomiting for the past hour. I'm a nurse and I'm starting a new job tomorrow morning at a hospital. I'm really upset and I feel as though she fed me this food to spite me for suggesting we toss it! What would YOU do?

I had my child 3 months ago with a man I loved and well a man that I thought loved me. I was completely obsessed with him and I just wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. I caught him cheating when I was 5 months pregnant, and my child stopped breathing a week and a half ago and I found some other girls pictures on my phone. We have split up. He really doesn't want to work on us I have tried everything that I could. I told him I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him..he was it for me..the only thing he says is "aww.." but every time I try to walk away completely he ends up coming back and telling me how much he misses me... anyways, I ended up filing child support..not even out of anger but just because I am ready to let go. He is so angry at the me and he told me that he never told me i couldn't ever have money. I am kinda scared about vistiation but he makes 22,000 a month He is a doctor.. I don't even make 1/2 of that and I am having to support our baby on my own... Was I wrong for filing for child support since he can't promise me a commitment?

After working 12 hour shifts, in the 2 hours I have to be awake in my large shared house before having a life in between work, I get the sense that there are no less, maybe more than 2 girlfriends of guys who literally never leave the house. Suffice to say, in my experience, if given the chance, women will choose to sit home and get fat. Am I right?

How to react?

What kind of businesses or people have five digit numbers ? He had a backpage app on his phone, could it be an escort texting ?

A little bit of background, we've been married 2 years but dated for 4. He started a new job about a year ago and one of his coworkers is a woman he knew back in high school. Now, this woman is also married to her high school sweetheart and has a child and me and my husband have two kids. Here is the stuff that's bothering me. She texts him quite a bit and he seems to take his phone everywhere and never leaves it unattended. At work they'd go out to eat at nearby restaurants for their one hour lunch She's very friendly with him and gets super close to him when they talk. He has picked her up before at a bar when she called him because she was "too drunk" to drive herself home. That one really upset me when I found out I recently ( about 3 months ago) brought this up to him and he says they are just friends. When I asked him if they had ever dated before in high school or anything, his response was that she had a boyfriend at the time so no. Which leads me to think he wanted to but she was taken ? The final straw was when she quit the job 2 months ago and went to visit him at work and two other coworkers saw them talking alone really close together in the parking lot outside and told me about it We have two kids together, a little boy we just adopted and one child from his previous relationship and I don't know what to do, he insist that it's just friendship but I don't know anymore. Am I overreacting or is this normal friendship ?

Wasn't involved in anyway when they were still happy together. Didn't contribute to their reason of breaking up in any way. But being their kids' babysitter for a couple years, you were friendly with both parents and often played as thearpist during difficult times. But it stills feel kind of wrong to jump right in no? When both parties are so vulnerable and talking to lawyers and fighting with custody battles and yada yada yada. It started as honestly innocently just wanting to comfort someone in a time of need and one thing led to another.

I'll be getting married in a few months & my fiancé just told me that she loves me but she's not in love with me anymore, I asked if she wanted to call off the wedding but that amount of money her family and I have spent she doesn't want to call it off. She wants to try marriage to see if it was just stress from both side of the families pressuring her that she has to lose all her friends, have kids and not do things on her own. I personally i don't want her giving up her friends and I'm fine with her doing things on her own and when the time is right for both of us we'll have kids. (We don't live together yet) Any suggestions on what I should do ?

My mom emailed me that her TV had died and she wanted me to help her find a new one. She was afraid the salesperson would take advantage of her. Monday I got an excited call from her that said our TV buying trip was off. When she got home there was a new big screen TV in her house. There was a note on the TV screen that said. "This is just a small payback for all the wonderful things you did for us when Joan (me) and I were married." It was signed by my ex husband. I was shocked beyond words. I knew mom adored my ex husband when we were married and I guess he felt the same way about her EVEN AFTER our divorce. I called him up and ask him how he knew my mom needed a new TV. He said on the email to me she had sent a copy to him. He said your mom is a lovely woman and I know how much she enjoys her TV. Then mom told me my ex had done a lot of other things for her like fix her car, fix her computer and train her to use the Internet and a lot of other things. She had not told me about ANY of this. All of my single girl friends that I told about this told me I must have been out of my mind to divorce such a great guy. They wanted to know if I mined if they dated him. I can understand why they want to date him. He is a GREAT looking guy. After giving it some thought I did mind them dating him. I think I have feeling for him again. Please tell me how I should make the first move to try to win him back. Do you think I have a chance?

Is watching webcam sex on sites such as AdultFunCams.com and chaturbate cheating if you are married? It's just for fun but sometimes I spend money too ... I enjoy it as I tell them what to do. Am I bad?

Okay so i basically eloped with a man who proposed marriage to me last year. Well kind of didn't really elope, because my parents know about it and encourage it. It was my mom's last wish to see us married. So yeah we married each other last year, and i've been occupied with the paperwork. I just got back to our mutual hometown last week, and he added me on facebook. Now, his profile has the same first name as his one but a different last name. So this big question is, we've been seeing each other on person and sleeping with each other.. his relationship status is set to separated. I'm in the process of obtaining a residence right now.. on a side note. But my question is, What's your opinion on the him setting his status as separated? And then adding me to his list? Most importantly is the spark still there in our committed marriage? Thank you . We are both similar natures in love so it's very fulfilling so far

after i said that he snaps out and pour the drink on my face and after we get home he hit me while his friend is around. i left him. but he is keep begging the second chance and said it's just a mistake and everybody make mistake. he said his reaction is to my action, i shouldn't disrespect him in front his friend by saying have fantasy about three man. for me that was just a joke, everyboday has fantasy but we all know that it's not real. how should i do? Jay asked if i have a fantasy about other men sexually and i said yes with 3 man, im just kidding, and didnt really mean it, i have no implication that i am dissatisfied with him. i was just saying it by fun and to be cool. am i the one should to be blamed? should i give him second chance?he has been begging a second chance for 3 month. and siad we both made mistake let both take responsibility to fix it. i am so confused. what should i do?

he throws the brush away immediately and said it's disgusting since lots of white hairs there . he said maybe maintenance personnel came into the house and used it, he will check with office tomorrow. i just believe him how can he has no idea about this? is he lying? i think he either cheated on me or hiding something from me, but he insist that no cheating. this morning he said he wanna a break since i always accuse of him, what should i do? I am pretty sure it's not mine, it's not only one, its a lot white hairs at my brush. the day before when i used it no hair there since i cleaned it every time after i use it. but next day afternoon when i use it, those white hair were so obvious. there must be someone used it or he invited someone to come to his place. but its white, i dont think he will date an old lady. its just so weird and really bothers me.

You hardly ever see families with 4 or more kids anymore.

In a course I am taking we study social media and the effects it have on relationship. One of the things came you where someone who is actually married not show they are on social media .Privacy came up but why would one want to hide if they're married. Dating is one thing but married

I was judge many time by my relatives to get married even if I'm not in a relationship yet.. Do you think you find does people who judge me to get married are stupid?

I told him I am aware that there is five years work available but the reason I want to do the course is so I have something under my belt for after then. He then said '5 year plan hey'. Why did he say that?

We plan on getting court house married to try and get me some way of having a job as soon as possible but i don t even know if that technically works. Along with that i don t speak any french and i don t think i could ever learn it in time for getting up there so i don t even know if i can get a job without knowing that. These things keep adding up and im turning up scared. All i can ask is this so far. Will getting me a court house marriage with The love of my life be able to get me a job soon? and will i need to know french to even get a job? Please i just want honest even if it hurts.