I have completely pulled back from my friend guy whose emotionally unavailable. We've been friends since September , but lately he has been cold, selfish, and arrogant towards me. We were talking once a week , but since I pulled back its every other week..he's wondering why the change and is there someone else. Actually there isn't. I can't afford to get hurt by him being I don't know his true intentions nor his feelings.. I do care for him, but I'm not trying to fall for a guy only to get hurt.. I'm afraid he will lose me as a friend and potential mate if he doesn't change his behavior. I already distanced myself a little now it's almost 😞

I took a shower, and had to walk out of the bathroom to get clothes to change into. I saw my friend, who was at my house hanging out, and I accidentally dropped my towel. She saw my dick, giggled, and wiggled her pinkie finger. What does it mean when someone wiggles their pinkie? I'm really confused

I'm 15 and in the 9th grade, and all my friends are guys, and I want to make new friends who are girls like me but I'm so awkward when it comes to talking to people that when I start a conversation and when it starts to go good the other person just kind of...walks out of it? I'm in the middle of being popular and unpopular, so the popular crowd do talk to me but none us are really close, but I like all the things the popular girls like and I just want to know how I can open up more? Advice?

This guy and I are friends we hung out and we had fun together. We went out to the movies and out to eat and then we had sex. I asked him if his guy friends are as exciting as he is. He said more exciting was it a bad idea for me to ask this? I don't see the problem being as though this guy and I are just friends we are friends with benefits. I told him I only asked because I've never met a guy who's as exciting as him.

Basically I have a friend. She's a little weird and doesn't have many people to hang out with. Despite the fact she has a person she claims to always play a game with I'm always the person she asks to play with first but "she doesn't like playing with me." Why am I the first person then?! Anyone get wtf she means?

My best friend was suffering from heart failure. He died while I was speaking to him. He was shaking then I heard a loud fart noise. Then he said "I just **** my pants" then he passed out and the beeping noise went off

I have this friend that I m not very close with. She always asks me to go and hang out with her friends at this trampoline park, but I always tell her some excuse as to why I cannot go. I m just not a fan of the trampoline park and think there s a lot of little kids that usually play there who get in the way (we are in high school.) How do I tell her that the reason I don t want to go is because I don t like the trampoline park without offending her?

This guy and I are friends we hung out and we had fun together. We went out to the movies and out to eat and then we had sex. I asked him if his guy friends are as exciting as he is. He said more exciting was it a bad idea for me to ask this? I don't see the problem being as though this guy and I are just friends we are friends with benefits. I only asked him that because I've never met a guy as exciting as he is. Maybe I shouldn't mentioned that.

We are not good friends, sort of friends. I know he will never make a first move. I genuinely like him and like to see him happy from his heart and I don't know how to confess my feelings to him. Maybe he will feel awkward or uncomfortable, I'm not sure. We have hugged in past so I don't know how he feels about me. How do I confess my feelings to him? He is shy and quiet person but a smart and intelligent.

I unexpectedly had to work late which was a problem for me. My 15 year old daughter needed a ride home from school. I asked a co worker and friend Bob if he could take her home form school and he agreed. She had met Bob previously. He picked her up from school and was driving her home. He asked her if she had any food for dinner at home and she said no. He ask her if she would like to join him for dinner and she immediately said yes. She thought they might go to Sizzler. He took her to Ruth Chris. She told me it was the best meal she ever had in her life. She was so excited about the great meal she called me at work and told me about it. The next day at work I thanked Bob for driving my daughter home from school and especially for the great dinner they had. My daughter said beside the great meal Bob was a lot of fun to be with. I told Bob I would pay him for my daughter's meal. He said "No Way" would he take any money. He said I was happy to be able to help you. Would it be appropriate for me and my daughter to take Bob out for a meal? The problem we can not afford anything near as expensive as Ruth Chris.

This guy and I are friends we hung out and we had fun together. We went out to the movies and out to eat and then we had sex. I asked him if his guy friends are as exciting as he is. He said more exciting was it a bad idea for me to ask this? I don't see the problem being as though this guy and I are just friends we are friends with benefits.

at first guys like me since I'm reserved, but at times social, but as soon as girls start competing with each other around me, suddenly I'm on the outs with them, and I can't be friend with the women, because they won't accept friendship. if it weren't for the few true people i grew up with, IDK..I really don't see what they see, that makes them so aggressive. I used to enjoy being friends with women when I was heavier, but I lost a bit of weight and now they just won't and guys are over the top competing with me a lot harder than each other..(I'm still fatter than all of them, so I don't get it..)

so me and this girl that i know from highschool were talking on facebook last night this morning i checked my facebook like i do every day and i see she was not on my friends list so i check and i saw she unfriended me so i sent her a friend quest hen i go back on to check it i see you removed the add friend option on her page whats up with her is this a normal thing to do? i also still have her phone number that she said i could keep should i save it or get rid or it?

We all have cars. One of the friends car is about to die, it's on its last legs so that's understandable. But anytime we do a long trip that's at least 2.5 hours away, my car is used. It's my dads Range Rover and I understand it's a nice car to drive but it's always assumed my car will be used and I am getting annoyed and fed up. My other friend also has a car but for some reason we never use hers. I'm starting to get pissed off that my car is being used because mileage etc goes up and that's without them offering gas. How do I stop this behaviour? Otherwise they say 'well then we can't do the road trip if we can't use your car'

So I was skateboarding yesterday, I fell down and hurt myself pretty bad. I said "F*ck skateboarding I'm done". I got so angry I legitimately didn't want to skateboard again after that. I stopped skateboarding that day and just went home. About a week later I decided to try and give skateboarding another try. One of my friends called me out and said that I was a liar because I said something that I didn't mean. Except that wasn't really true; at that time I really did mean what I said, but it was a temporary feeling. Technically speaking, did I lie? Did I lie because I said I was not going to do something but ended up doing exactly just that? Or was it not a lie because I said something and %100 meant it, without intentionally saying a false statement?

So my friend tested positive for HIV a few weeks ago, and last weekend when a bunch of us were hanging out, he almost risked exposing us to the virus. When he first found out about his diagnosis, he told me and another friend and asked us not to tell anyone, but since he could've exposed us to it I reluctantly had to tell everyone involved because I simply didn't to risk any of us getting it. Plus me and another friend are getting tested just to be extra careful, even though it's a next-to impossible chance we caught it. Last night I had to tell my friend that I told people about his diagnosis and only did so because of the circumstances and that I'm getting tested, which he kind of understood. He said he can understand why I had to tell people, but is annoyed that more people know since he only wanted a handful of people knowing for the time being. I know that I acted reasonably and probably done the right thing, but he's really upset about it and I don't really know what I can do to make it better. Any suggestions? He potentially exposed us to the virus by carelessly drinking straight from a bottle we were all drinking from (we were all drunk and I didn't stop to think at the time). This wouldn't be so bad, except he hasn't started any treatment yet. One friend has gotten two mouth ulcers since and it's freaking him out, and wants to get tested. I know the likelihood is next-to impossible, but I'm playing it safe as I don't want to risk the possibility of him getting his blood into his saliva that day.

I know this might sound like a weird question but What is it called when you feel like you can't function without your best friend? And you're both adult females and you're both straight

I have stuff from someone I know and a little over 1 1/2 weeks ago I left to help a family member with some business stuff. Now I'm back I contacted the friend multiple times by texting and social media saying please come get your stuff (I held it for them due to them trying the van life in a desert area for a while but now they live in a cooler area near me still doing the van life). I think I might have unintentionally upset this friend when they asked me about social media posts and stuff about what people said about them. I got several questions like that from various people so I put on social media that we as a society need to stop being concerned with how many likes we are getting and be more concerned with the here and now being concerned about the people that are constantly in their lives the ones who matter more than a like on social media. I've gather from tidbits that this is one of the many people whose value relies on how many likes they get from a post. I don't care if they don't want to talk to me anymore I spoke what I feel is the truth about social media and they asked me for advice about those concerns which I gave. What I care about is still being a good person I don't want to throw this stuff away but I need it out of my place now. FYI I know they are still alive because they post to social media and they reply to comments. What are my options legally now that this person has refused for several days to get back to me regarding their stuff?

I went out yesterday and I was really really drunk. Me and the cousin fooled around a bit in the club but nothing really happened. However when we left we ended up *******. I feel so shitty about it. I feel like a really worthless friend and like a complete waste of space. I can't believe I did that to my friend. I really don't know what to do right now and I also have no idea how I'll tell her. Please help

Hi so I'm 13 year old girl and I have never had friends I don't know why I'm very friendly and nice and good looking but yet I have no friends I have asked people online before and they say I must be ugly and fat which isn't true or people say I don't socialise well im kinda an introvert and socially awkward but I try acting like an extrovert and I talk to people and school and clubs I do like gymnastic,dance and horse riding but I still have no friends I have no idea why do you?

I have a group of around 5 good friends, and recently after a bad breakup when I tried to talk to them they all kind of blew me off. I conducted a mini experiment and in the last few weeks, every notification I got from them (not that many) was about something I could help them with and i never seem to just get invited to stuff except for by one of them. I m not in a place to just get rid of them all and start over but I dont want to just get used. Any advise?

since then can't help making fun of me . what should i do ?

Everyone sucks ***. Friends I make are Jealous of me and everyone hates me for no reason. I don't know why but I do hate people for that reason.

I am a freshman in high school. A girl in my friend group does not like me and makes it very obvious. She is always insulting me and saying things to make people not like me, right in front of me. She is the type of person that needs attention all the time. Also she is VERY loud person and does a lot of embarrassing things just to draw attention to herself. For example she posts videos of herself cringey dancing on her snapchat story. One time we were at a dance and she started doing push ups in front of everyone. Also whenever she can, she will brag about herself. She played on Varsity a couple of times and would not shut up about how she was getting a Varsity letter (I don't think she is, but that doesn't really matter). I have a Varsity letter and our friend has two--its really not that big of a deal at our school. One time she literally told me that she does not like me. I am nice to her but after I spend too much time with her, it becomes obvious that I am pissed at her. The more time we spend together, the more we dislike each other. I am worried to tell our friends about how I feel. People either love her or completely hate her. I can tell when my friends are annoyed with her though. The only people that I know who hate her have told me. Whenever she insults me and I say something back to her, it just backfires and I look mean. I don't know what I should do because she is in my friend group that I don't want to leave and on my cross country and track team.

Now I fear what she will do, she's hardly ever home she lets her oldest watch the two youngest. She's got three kids by different fathers and she thinks that she's it (better than me) because she drives a more expensive vehicle.(That I think she got in some kind of a settlement) or something because it looks like it cost $50,000.(But she said she bought it with a job she had in Chicago) She has said some not very nice things to me in the past that I"ve let slide. Like certain things in my apartment looks "Ghetto" And callling where I'm from backwards and uneducated. She just looks down on me. I even found online where she says she's in charge of several day cares in the area (but she doesn't work, and when I looked her up, it doesn't look like she's ever worked.

I started this new job and this guy who trains me has been very nice to me. And his very helpful and was just curious if he might like me? We been talking just like regular people and what's really interesting is that we have clicked right away but anyways I'm just curious if he might be interested in me.

I like my friends a lot but I need advice. All of us are 13 years old and females. They say I have saggy breasts which isn t true. I only think they say so because I have the biggest breast out of all of the group. They also say I am a grandmother because I read more than hang out with them at lunch and call me old for not being interested in the latest challenges and dances eg. momo challenge and orange justice (after looking up that challenge no way am I doing it). And they also punch me especially in my breasts and my back which hurts a lot. And lastly, they tell me to shut up when I barely say something. I know that isn t how friends act but I have no other friends... please tell me what to do!! The only time when they support me is when I have an allergic reaction (strong perfume scents, salty foods, some things I sometimes encounter everyday).

At my job there was a woman who i really really liked. She was around 35, and im only 23. Plus she was married with kids, she always knew i liked her but she was cool about it. She worked as a secretary, and i would always stand by her desk and we would talk. She always laughed and smiled soo much when i was around her. She would always stare at me, she has an amazing personality specially with me. She told my friends that im a good kid, but to young for her. Later me and her began getting in trouble at work, because coworkers thought our friendship was innapropriate since shes married. This caused so much drama at work that my friend was about to just walk out and quit. Apperantly the manager told her that she could be fired if she talkes to me again. Alot of coworkers and including management began spying on us. One day around Christmas i gave Her a gift card without anyone seeing, she said thank you. But days later she wrote management a long email, she expressed how stressed she is at work, and how my precens is affecting her at work. She also mentioned i bought her a card. I was suspended and removed from her department. I hear that now she doesn't talk to anyone, she just sits quietly at her desk and she is more serious now. What is going on with her???? Why did she betray me?????

Im a dude, i used to be friends with this girl named Emily. We were friends for 5 years, she was my bestfriend, and she cared soo much for me. She was there for me through all my good and bad moments. even my family loved her, But back in May of 2017 we had a fight, and she was so mad that Emily blocked me. We haven't talked since 2017 and it still hurts me. Deep down i have so much anger and sadness inside of me. I miss her soo much, my life doesn't feel the same without her. I feel so empty, plus ive met alot of good friends but nothing compares to Emily. Can i please have advice??????

My friend Adrian fell in love with a woman who is married. They used to be friends for the past year, he would always talk about her. I can tell she also liked him, so she decided to stop talking to him. She blocked Adrian from everything, but now Adrian is always in a bad mood. Adrian is obviously Jealous of her husband, and apperantly the woman is preganant and that made my friend Adrian very upset and angry. I can tell that this is killing him inside, but i dont understand why he's soo mad about this?? He knows shes married!! Can i have advice????????????

When I was six I had a friend I met at daycare, she would come over my house a lot and once I went over hers my mother and I can only remember her mom and dads names and hers, but not her last name or were they moved to they weren't from my home town we even asked the daycare lady she can't remember... I'm 22 now, any ideas of how to find them we tried Facebook

Couple of months ago, my guy friend was in serious mood and I thought he was having a bad day and he suddenly jokingly said to me you love me and you know it. I wasn't sure how to respond to that. I was speechless. Yes I am in love with him and love his company. But I can't confess because I want him to make the first move. Was him saying you love me and you know it means he loves me? Why did he said that? I don't want to bring that up because I feel awkward asking him that. We are good friends, he hugs me tightly from waist. How can I find out if he has feelings for me?