I became very good friends with a girl when I first started college. We did everything together, I became very close with her family and all seemed well. This girl began mocking me in front of our peers and laughing at my expense a lot. When it was just the two of us though it wasn t so bad, me and her had very similar life experiences and shared a lot of the same problems. I introduced her to someone I considered a friend and she began meeting with her a lot. The two of them when together would bully me, gang up on me and call me names. They began making group chats, calling me on no caller ID and getting people to add me on social media when we fell out. I became very isolated and overly anxious. The girl I was very close with came back into my life and very recently found out she is pregnant. Her situation is pretty messed up. When we were friends and when my mental health took a turn her and her family were there for me. Honestly I don t know what to do. I m trying to be supportive but I just can t trust her. Please someone help me.

Hello! I am in need of some advice and perspective. I grew really close to a supervisor in college to the point where I babysat her kids and was occasionally invited over for dinner but there was always still a fine line since I was still considered a student. I graduated about a year ago and we have texted almost every day and I've visited as often as I could. I have considered her a great friend and mentor! She has been a godsend helping me transition to the adult life and has called me to cheer me up when adulting gets rough. We talk everyday, have shared drunk stories with one another, and ALMOST seem like friends but then she'll do or say something that makes me question what our status is. For instance, she will constantly say I'm young and a child (we're 10 years apart), or will ask about my personal life but will never share details about hers. She will also sometimes say she still views me as a student I'm someone who needs to know where I stand with someone and I believe this relationship is bugging me because the line is very blurry. Is she a mentor or a friend? Do I overshare about my personal life? Should I even be sharing my personal life if she's a mentor? My overthing is beginning to make me distance myself from her a bit. Is it something I should just let unfold on its own?

So I have bumble & I have the date and the BFF sides. I just downloaded it today. I am getting a lot of notifications saying "you have a new BFF match" but when I go in the app, in my queue and messages there is only matches from the date side. I have looked all around and can't find where the BFF matches are, so I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong? Please help so I can find my matches from both sides!

When this guy first called me he asked me to hangout. I think that's different than a date. But anyway instead of going I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits instead. He said yes and that he had always been into me. I felt like I had did something wrong by asking to be friends with benefits. So I apologized and I told him I had feelings for him. He said I didn't do anything wrong. We ended up having sex but before we had sex we went to the movies out to dinner and to the arcade. First we met up at the hotel though and he said since I was nervous we could go out first and I said ok. We had fun together and not just because of the sex. We have things in common we like the same movies, food and entertainment. I told him I had fun with him and he said he had fun too.

I'm a guy, I don't know if that matters. This girl we known each other for years and she said she'd hang out with me anytime we both have anxiety issues and are homebodies. She lives like 20 minutes away. She gets a lot of depression and emotional mental issues, and I want to be there for her I told her I'm here anytime and when we hung out once it was a great night and she said we should hang out again soon, she a great friend.....but all these problems she has she said she just wants everyone to leave her alone, she needs space. She might bipolar she mentioned once but I've kept quiet like she said. She said online she was sick and I asked how she was and she said ok, just a cold thanks for asking...I'm too afraid if I message again she'll block me cause she said she'd do that if people didn't stop bothering her but I'm just worried and love her and I don't know what to do...am I bad?

Help me out .Please!! My roommate talked to my daughter "your mother is crazy I'll put jail to her ,she is *******,*****. She is stupid.Get out from America, go back to your country. ,She was using '*******, *****, ****" to my daughter. My daughter is still 6 age, what kind adult talked to kids. She has 1years old daughter, she listen to whole the time "****, *****, ****". I wish I could move from home, but I am a single mother. I tried looking for a place, but couldn't find a place, so I have to wait until they move home. Every day she and another roommate will not sleep in the voice of her friend. I am forbidden to speak with them directly from the big house. I've discussed it with them twice. What can I do? I want to do something in accordance with the law. Do you have any good ideas? Thank you. I'm sorry, horrible my English writing.

I used to be a type to love to socialise but recently for the past 6 months I absolutely hate the idea of going out to town an drinking. I have major anxiety over it, I feel as if I say I can t go am a major let down so I am making myself go but I only want to order lemonade an be home a few hours later. Is this bad to do this idea? I feel as if I m being stupid but I have dreaded this night for a few days now! What are your suggestions?

So a girl I met during swim season this past August has become one of my best friends, but I feel like I can't be myself around her. We usually hang out every weekend and today I asked her what she was doing tonight and she said "probably hanging out then going to bed early". Is that a sign that she doesn't like me or doesn't want to hang out with me or am I just overthinking?? I've always thought she doesn't like me but she keeps reassuring me that she does and stuff but idk I'm not myself around her and idk how to be.

My mom got me a trip to Jamaica for my college graduation gift. I get to take a friend wuth me, so i decided to take my bro (best frien). Recently my friend had a party at his mom s house and i got blackout drunk. I did some embarrassing things and was aggressive to others around. I ended up breaking a picture frame. Since the party a month ago my best friend has not talked to me. I believe he is mad with me because this is not the first rime ive gotten this drunk. I have tried to contact him multiple times during the month without being overbearing. I have apologized and have taken full responsibility for everything, but so far i have gotten little to no response. I am concerned that he will back out of the trip. He has already paid for tbe plane ticket and passport. What do you think? Would you back out of this trip? Abd how can i help our friendship.

Should I grow up and stop posting on my snap? I don't have any real friends so when I get bored I post self recorded videos of me singing and dancing. (21 year old female) one of my aquatints told me that people have been talking bad about my snaps behind my back. I know I'm getting older and shouldn't care. How do I stop letting this bother me ? Or should I delete my snap I'm starting to feel like this is how everyone secretly feels when watching my snaps.... sorry I might just be overthinking everything. Any solid advice would help. Thanks in advanced.

Hi so my best friend and I have known each other for about 5 years but we got really close like 3 years ago. Last year we connected so much and would laugh about everything together. But this year she has changed and it's kind of upsetting. We are in 8th grade and she is more slutty, cusses a lot and acts like she doesn't care about me. She never makes an effort to be my friend anymore which makes me sad. I see her with this other girl she hangs with and they laugh all the time. It's like she is kind of moody with me or acts tired all the time. I feel like with friends you have like a spark and we don't have a click anymore. Im slowly losing most of my friends but still have a couple true friends. I'm not sure if I should keep trying so hard to be her friend or if I should just wait till highschool. I'll probably have lots of friends freshman year, right? She also makes a lot of dirty jokes now and I don't find them funny most of the time

I use to have a best friend on Instagram who I texted every day for a long time and now we just drifted and don't speak anymore . I miss it. What should I do

I do admit I look at the difficult experiences I been through as a good story to tell and how it's helped me become a stronger person.

why am i such a masochist, how do i start giving her a taste of her own medicine??

I have this one friend that I often play video games with. We have a lot in common and I love talking to him, he's basically the guy version of me and vice versa. Whenever we play games together we'd talk throughout the next few days, and then he'll straight up ignore me for a bit. We'd start talking again, play games, and then the cycle repeats. If I gave him space he'd go on about a week avoiding me, and then he would pop up again trying to reconnect. In a way, I guess we flirt a bit? We call each other idiots, he's called me a chipmunk, we spend hours talking to each other and laughing whenever we do talk. He even jokes at times that our dads would be great friends. However, it's just friendly. His past girlfriend got extremely jealous of this. Maybe he's trying to avoid jealousy with his new girl? I'm not really sure to be honest, but it kinda hurts knowing that a good friend of mine is avoiding me for whatever reason. I'd just like a reason to make sense of all this.

I told her that i like a guy and she told me that my face is too ugly for him She interrupt me all the rime when we speak with others and she want all the attention to her She also tries to prove to everyone that she is better than me One day she told me that a girl called me ugly behind my back and i am pretty sure she told me that only to make me feel ugly

I love my best friend, but I'm really getting annoyed of her "good girl" act. She way different from my the rest friends, My best friend doesn't drink, smoke, go the club, she won't find a boyfriend, wear the clothes as my friends and I do, and the worse part of it all she hate twerk and she doesn't know to twerk and it's sad. I tried to tell her to stop acting like good girl and come out of the it. Because I know no guy don't like the stuff like, she refused to advises. I can understand that she's way different from us and more worry about her college classes, but she's has the time of the world to worry about that. She's 21 years old, she need to have some fun, not studying and working all the time. (my friends and I are 23 years old)

I just started my second semester of freshman year in college, and I meet these 2 new girls. I thought that I had finally meet my college friends but I'm not so sure now. We hung out for like 2 days & they invited me to the cafe with them. For the past month, they are always together & never invite me to do anything with them. They only text me when they want to go get food (I have a car). Sometimes I'll notice them in the cafe and they never speak. I'm pretty sure they see me, because I pass right by them. I don't know if I'm over analyzing things or what.

Okayyyy first we don't share same religion, I am not allowed to marry someone who is not my religion  2nd he is my brother's friend, we have gone on outings with a group  3rd: I have joined the company where he works. He is super nice to me. Says hi in front of everyone and after every hour checks on me if I am doing okay and talks to me, eventhough he sits very far from my desk. He has a good position in this company  Now I don't understand if he is really nice to me or he is just doing bcz I am his friend's sister. Also I really like him and when he talks to other girls I feel jealous.  I told him yesterday I was out of my bus tickets and he bought a ticket for me.  What should I do to stop my feelings?

my old best friend ( we will call her emma) and my new best friend (we will call her olivia) are now ,"dating" emma had been changing olivia into a toxic person and they both now tear me down and intentionally piss me off over this relationship. i know olivia is only doing this because of emma because she never has acted this way towards me. i don't want to leave our friendship, but i also don't want to continue being brought down. a main problem is that me and olivia are in the same friend groups and i don't want to cause problems between the formed group as well. please help me.

How to move? how to talk? or what to do? I really will appreciate your feedback and advice from men and girls because I hate being this way, it makes me suffer everyday but Im ready to change because I want to do that, and please dont answer with "just be your self or self love things" please, because I need real help.

Okay so I moved schools like a year ago because my parents made me, yesterday I switched back to my old school and I was so excited to surprise my old friends. I saw them and they seemed excited to see me, they told me hi and stuff and I had them for a class and we talked in class, but at lunch I went to go sit at their lunch table and my friend said "umm" and I just went on my phone and my other friend said "we don't want to talk to you, maybe sometimes but not at lunch". so I got up and went to the bathroom and stood there for the rest of the lunch, this was a horrible day and I regret going back now because i'm gonna be all alone at lunch. What should I do about this? i'm gonna cry.

Yes i know i shared this once before but i didn't get any answers from last time, Anyways I grew up with small class with small small group of friends so i thought 4 friends was enough for me and we all have same learning disabilities so you think this girl will get it anyways I had moved out the state in 9th grade from New Jersey to Arizona about 15 year go & I was 15 year old so I had to move with my family so now I am 30 you think Drama would go way but no it doesn't but anyways her name is Courtney ever since i have moved out the state she have been picking up fights for stuipd reason and i dont know what her problem is but mean time i have hard that her ex boyfriend have slap her in the face so i dont know how bad it was and i hard it from her ex boyfriend that i knew in middle school for one year before i moved out to high school so yeah can this cause what her and I fighting? she have once apologize to my sister and my mom saying she was sorry she wasn't her self because of great grandfather have died and she shouldn't treat me like this so anyways mean time she kept picking up fights again up till month go and tried to apologize to her mom like she did to me but I think she one controlling her mom page so mean time she went back tell one my close friend name Jessica that also i knew =since 4 grade about our fighting and she took Courtney side and Courtney told me that Jessica agreed that I am annoying and that i finally got out of, is she jealous of me? I do photography work going Glamis flying with my grandpa airplane around his neighbor hood and all they do is work and they go to bars on weekend to sing karaoke

This guy initially asked me to hangout. But instead of going I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits instead. He said yes and that he had always been into me. I felt like I had did something wrong by asking to be friends with benefits. So I apologized and I told him I had feelings for him. He said I didn't do anything wrong. We ended up having sex but before we had sex we went to the movies out to dinner and to the arcade. First we met up at the hotel though and he said since I was nervous we could go out first and I said ok. We had fun together and not just because of the sex. We have things in common we like the same movies, food and entertainment. I told him I had fun with him and he said he had fun too.

all i do is sit around my house(during the week) and watch youtube but its because my parents dont let me do anything or go anywhere because they dont trust me. they let me go to my two bestfriends house on the weekend and to the roller skating rink too but that's about it. and thats what i do like every weekend

my best friend is no longer my best friend because i was jealous of her and i said rude things( im 15). i never meant to be rude but it seems in keep losing the people i love the most and i'm losing myself in the process. i hug people at school a lot and act like i have friends and keep a smile on my face but its hard. i never know how to feel or how to act anymore and tbh i don't care. im not normally a rude person there are just those little things that you should keep in your head yknow? it wasn't normally a huge deal but idk what happened. do i need therapy or something?? idek

If a friend doesn't want to talk anymore should you let them be forever, or give them time to calm down and try texting them again and see if they reply?