Family: Question: My girlfriend literally tried to kill me.. advise please? |
- Question: My girlfriend literally tried to kill me.. advise please?
- Question: My girlfriend weirded me out and i don’t know how to approach this?
- Question: What tv show is this brother kills his small brother?
- Question: Is this bad?
- Question: I am the 2nd with my name so should I put ll even though upper case is a L my dad has the same exact name so the difference is the number?
- Question: How do I convince my dad to let me get the truck part i need. (Age 17, me not my dad lol)?
- Question: How Should I go About Forgiving My Father?
- Question: How to go live abroad and alone at 17?
- Question: My sister is raising some really bad kids. What can I do about this?
- Question: How do I convince my mother to let me do All Star cheer???????
- Question: I once found a burrito in my shoe. Am I a pretty princess?
- Question: Why is my mother upset about them leaving?
- Question: Can you call the cops on a family member who hasn't shower for months?
- Question: How do I deal with the guilt of knowing that I want my parent to die?
- Question: How in the world do two parents give quality time and quality attention to 10+ kids in large families?
- Question: Urgent help | psychosis?
- Question: I'm 30 years old, dad won't leave me alone calls me when I'm asleep, calls when he only needs something, he's put on block! bothering me?
- Question: I plan on moving out of my mom's house, but what about my little brother?
- Question: What is my boyfriend's MOTHER'S problem?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: How do I help my friend who’s being abused?
- Question: I’m a bad person?
- Question: Is storing weed in my dad's urn rude?
- Question: I want to move back in with my dad?
- Question: My mom has an extreme superiority/god complex. How do I tell her this?
- Question: I strongly dislike my older brother and don’t talk to him (and vice versa). How do I get back on good terms with him?
- Question: Took $8 from my mom?
- Question: What do I do when my daughters dad, by the way she is 5yo, puts her through emotional abuse. He will tell her that he is not her dad?
- Question: Me and my dad have a problem with my mom?
- Question: Help! Parents won t let me sleep over at my best friends?
- Question: The person that sexual assaulted me is going to die, it’s a family relative, should I go to his funeral, he is going to die soon?
- Question: Having family problems! Please help?
- Question: How do I convince my mother to let me do All Star Cheer??????
- Question: Am I being treated like a doormat by my in-laws?
- Question: So what will happen to me when my mom dies?
- Question: My step mom keeps calling me cookie i hate it by dad thinks is funny and its OK she calls my sister pumpkin we hate it?
- Question: My sister assaulted my father with a stick and was arrested. She is out of jail now, how do I stay safe when I have to see her?
- Question: My father is known as the "King of Arrogance" even telling me as a teen that arrogance is good. How do I not let his behavior define me?
- Question: I feel so sad that my rooted beliefs come from my Mom's lies. How do I fix this?
- Question: Should my mom be doing this with my ex????
- Question: Was my mom flirting with my husband?
- Question: I told my mother while I was drunk that she killed my father and she’s upset how to make it up to her?
- Question: 6 y/o b/g twins sharing a room?
- Question: Mom compares me to a dog?
- Question: My Mom dislikes her sister and my Dad hates my Mom's sister. Can I hate my sister who is similar to this aunt?
- Question: Since my father is a chronic liar and misleads our mother why might it be that she still loves him?
- Question: How to comfort your sister ?
- Question: My father submitted I-130 in 2008 for my family any idea how long it take?
- Question: Found My Father Cheating on My Mother?
- Question: My sister is toxic. What do I do?
- Question: I always get so annoyed when my step dad talks to me. I don’t know why but I do.?
- Question: What to do in this situation?
- Question: Should I wait till Friday to tell my dad to let me go. Or should I just stay at my moms house.?
- Question: My parents blame me for literally everything?
- Question: Hello, I have two different sides of parents. I love my mom and siblings more than my dads side, my dad has a more promising future for me.?
- Question: If I adopt a 5 year old child & I take very good care of him.What are the chances that I will be able to get along with him peacefully when?
Question: My girlfriend literally tried to kill me.. advise please? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 01:53 PM PST we've been dating for 10 months and the other day one of my friends who's female texted me asking what the homework is for a class and i replied and my girlfriend was over and asked who i was texting and i said a friend and she SCREAMED YOUR ******* CHEATING ON ME sand SLAPPED ME and knocked me over and kicked me to the floor and held me down trying to choke me until i kicked away |
Question: My girlfriend weirded me out and i don’t know how to approach this? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 01:43 PM PST so we were talking about ourselves and asking what turns each other on and she said she had a.. um fart fetish for me... i told her i'm not interested and she said please if she loved me i would do it for her and i said no again and said it makes me uncomfortable and she said ok and moved on but now i'm super uncomfortable around her and i avoid her and ignore her texts and messages. i blocked her on facebook and instagram and i'm thinking about breaking up. i know it seems like a small deal but im really uncomfortable |
Question: What tv show is this brother kills his small brother? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 01:33 PM PST I can't recall which show is this I think the older brother killed his younger brother by accident . They make it sound as a kidnapping . I remember that the clue was the mother wouldn't hold her son which made them figure out that she unconsciously blames him |
Posted: 05 Mar 2019 01:06 PM PST Is it really bad to be by yourself a lot? |
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Question: How do I convince my dad to let me get the truck part i need. (Age 17, me not my dad lol)? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 11:20 AM PST I know that it is the u joint. I can replace it myself in 20 min tops. So my dad won't let me buy a ujoint until he hears the issue himself. I get in my truck and it stops the noise and hasn't done it for a day since he got in. I would think ok maybe it was just ice or something but it only does it when he gets it. I have had several people riDE with me and hear in including a car expert lol. Each time it does it, it will do it for days at a time up until my dad gets in. No its not his wait he's not big at all I've had bigger people in there do it. We even swapped seats and it refuses to do it now. What do you suggest I do? I don't want to throw a drive shaft that's spinning at 4,500 rpm while I'm driving down the road. That would mess some stuff up. What do you suppose I do? |
Question: How Should I go About Forgiving My Father? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 11:09 AM PST My father used to be someone that I thought could do no wrong. We did everything together growing up, and I loved being a Daddy's girl to the fullest. I am very blessed that he was there, and I would not ask for anything else. However things changed as soon as I started to get older. I started to see a change in him. My parents used to argue a lot, and nothing bothered me more than that. I started to find out that my father is controlling,manipulative,and verbally abusive. He exhibits this when he does not receive what he wants.If he doesn't get his way he would do whatever it took to scream out his point. My mom divorced him and my older sister moved away. Recently there was an incident where my Dad took money from my bedroom when I went away for two weeks. He threatened me to the point where I called the police. Since then our trust has been completely lost. It makes me sad because I want to forgive him, but his actions make it difficult. |
Question: How to go live abroad and alone at 17? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 10:21 AM PST hello, so i am turning 17 in a month and i recently moved back to where i am from. before that i went to live in london for five years where i basically grew up from 11 to 16. i made friends i finished my GCSE's and all. then we came back to Switzerland where i am originally from however it's not going good. i don't have good grades i don't even think that im going to pass the year and its 3 years of sixth form here and i should have been in my second year but because i didn't go there for school they made me start from the first year. if i redo the year i would have lost 2 years and im going to finish super late and that's not my plan. So i really want to move back but obviously my dad just came back this year so it's not like he can ask his work to go back there. I don't think my mom would also be ready to live away from my dad. so i don't know what to do. Is there a way to live there alone at 17. and i also doubt my parents will let me live alone. is there families that take in students or how could i convince my parents to let me go live there? thanks |
Question: My sister is raising some really bad kids. What can I do about this? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 09:56 AM PST They are all around 6. Older and younger. It's three of them but she doesn't take care of them and leaves them with my parents all the time. However, my parents can't take care of them and spoil them and have no idea what to do with them because we were raised correctly and were never as bad as they are. They fight all the time. Talk back at such a young age. Complain and cry all the time. They are just so annoying. They throw tantrums everyday. There's a boy who cries everyday for any little reason. |
Question: How do I convince my mother to let me do All Star cheer??????? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 09:12 AM PST My mom is hesitant because of my grades. She said she would consider it if I get no zeros for daily work for the last quarter. I am going to keep up with grades now but..... How do I convince her AFTER I do that??? Please Help Me!!!!!!! |
Question: I once found a burrito in my shoe. Am I a pretty princess? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 08:59 AM PST You see, I was adopted by a family of tree frogs when I was a boy...but they were all killed by a lawn mower and I'm all alone again. I just want to be princess of my own kingdom, even if I'm a boy. |
Question: Why is my mother upset about them leaving? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 08:54 AM PST So my sister moved back in with me and my mother back in June after her house burned down. My sister has two 9 year old boys that are really destructive, gross, and headache inducing. Sometimes my mother would have to babysit them and she just couldn't handle them. So yesterday my sister finally moved out and my mother claims that she misses them! She's legit sad about them being gone! Why? |
Question: Can you call the cops on a family member who hasn't shower for months? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 08:33 AM PST My sister is a drug attic... She hasn't shower for months, and her clothes are dirty doesn't do laundry... She stinks with very nappy messed up hair and touches the food in the house, sits in the couch.. Trust me It's very disgusting, and it's getting to the point where nobody cares about her anymore. .. She has a 1 year old son and doesn't take care of him nomore.. Doesn't buy diapers, food nothing.. She uses her son's money ther she gets from welfare to buy drugs... Now she has nomore welfare, nomore getting money for her son because she stopped going.. Instead my mother does all the work and she's getting old... Isn't this child abuse? What can the police do? My mom don't want to call the cops because they might take the baby away... We tried to help her, but everything to her is a joke now... I believe her brain is damage from all the drugs she use.. Her baby daddy is her drug provider and now in prison.. We want to keep the baby, but we want her out the house or in jail.. Nothing gets through her head... She is probably the worse human being in the world right now.. |
Question: How do I deal with the guilt of knowing that I want my parent to die? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 06:26 AM PST I have had an abusive alcoholic father all my life and as time has passed, his health and behavior has only gotten worse. I have completely lost all of the love I could have had for him because of everything that he's said and done to me and my mom and my sister. He's even admitted to abusing us emotionally and physically without any signs of regret or guilt or anything. The nurse that he admitted this to asked him how he would feel if my sister and I were abused in the same way by our husbands and he just shrugged saying that "they'd just have to work it out"- this is only one example of how he has shown us all that there is NOT a secret part of him that cares or loves us 'in his own way' like so many people keep telling me. It's not 'just the alcohol talking' either. Plenty of men can be alcoholics without hating their daughters like he hates us. At this point all I can feel for his is wanting him to die and leave us all alone. All I want is for him to exit my life and stop damaging everyone around him. I know I'm not supposed to feel this way |
Posted: 05 Mar 2019 06:10 AM PST There is a traditional Catholic Church right next to me in my neighborhood that offers the latin mass. Every Sunday, I always see big vans driving up and loads of children coming out. It really boggles my mind when I see large families of 10 or more kids. Do the needs of some children go unmet since the parents are overwhelmed? Are there children in large families that are struggling in some areas that go unnoticed (falling through the cracks) due to the overwhelming responsibility of the parents? I only have two kids and I already feel overwhelmed. I can't even fathom having 10 or more kids. |
Question: Urgent help | psychosis? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 05:22 AM PST Since yesterday my sister went all weird and thought she was spied on by someone in our family that's literally on the opposite side of the world. She kept saying "I dont trust you/him" and she removed any phone my mother had. Later that night she got scared because my brother came downstairs and she ran away. We had to call the police, and she came into the police station herself and said some false things about that family member (which is very serious). The next day we went to a doctor and they said we needed to visit a philologist tomorrow. Do you have any tips or explanation why this is happening? P.S she also keeps making up things that didn't happen in the fast but she believes its very true |
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Question: I plan on moving out of my mom's house, but what about my little brother? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 04:10 AM PST He's 18 but hasn't moved on from high school yet. School ends in june. Well at least he's told me so.. I'm afraid of losing him. You see, me and mom we don't get along. And I feel like he's caught in the crossfire. I want to be there for him but he still wants to stay with mom. His body language shows me he is unhappy with our mom but his words always says he is going to stay with mom. I believe my mom is manipulating him to say these types of things to me bc I haven't done anything wrong to him for him to hate me. I mean yes we "hate" each other but only because of fights like who gets to play games or who has enough money to buy food. He doesn't work, he gets ssi for disability. We don't hate each other as in a very strong hate. Its competitive and sophisticated. Lately he has stopped talking to me. I see his face so sad when my mom yells at him. I offer to help but my mom says I can't do anything about "X" situation and to "go away!".. My heart crushes when he tells me to go away too.. He says to go away and I can't help mom. And then after I manage to calm down my upset mom She keeps telling him to do whatever it is that she wants And then I feel so hateful. I hate him ! :( even though we still talk sometimes he says he has to go now and help mom. And then when he "helps mom" my mom just yells him. My head hurts and so does my heart. }; what can I do to help him. |
Question: What is my boyfriend's MOTHER'S problem? Posted: 05 Mar 2019 03:26 AM PST Since August she has been with 3 men. And I have been with her son since July. Ever since October she has acted as if I am the devil to her. We went on a cruise. While we were gone she did get mad at me because I begged my parents to buy me 2 pictures (buy 1 get 1 free) and eventually my father did cave in on me. Then she went back and bought the EXACT same 2 photos. And told me "You can have these" I looked as if she were crazy. "I know you have wanted them for a long time." The next day I refused to go around her when she continuously asked my mom questions and rolled her eyes at me when I would look at her. Yes they did get off of the ship before me and I did get off without them knowing however my mother was aware. And my boyfriend knew where I was the entire time. We came back the following day and Christmas passed she still hated me... new years has came and gone and here we are. Her 1st boyfriend from when me and her son were together gave her everything from coffee pots to tooth paste and she kicked him out told him he wasn't good enough. He literally bought her dinner EVERY night and cleaned her house paid her Bill's. 2nd she stayed on the phone with my mom more than she seen him. She talked about him more than anything. Now shes with her ex husband my boyfriend's father.... and he was nice to me when they were divorced and now they are together and she has turned him against me and he called me basically a piece of **** last night. And I am wondering... |
Posted: 04 Mar 2019 11:57 PM PST My parents recently got divorced because my mom was cheating. Like, two days after they told us and she left the house in tears, we find out she's living with the guy she cheated on my dad with. And all of a sudden we're going from house to house. My mom wants us to give the guy a chance but I hate him. Later we got kicked out and now she's living with my grandma. She and the guy were still in contact and now she wants us to pack up our things and go back, but my grandparents made a deal and said it was only if we want to. Now I have no idea what to do. All I know is I hate that house and I hate how my mom disregards others. She wants us to hear his side of the story and I feel bad if I don't. Help please. |
Question: How do I help my friend who’s being abused? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 10:56 PM PST How do I help my online friend? His father is abusive and he won't tell anyone about it. His mom is in another state and he refuses my advice to tell anyone. It's really worrying me, and he's tried suicide before. I've run out of ideas. |
Posted: 04 Mar 2019 08:44 PM PST I'm 14 and a girl btw I don't know what's wrong with me. Everyone says I'm a mean person because I constantly yell and get angry with people. I don't know really how to cope any other way. I've lost all interest in my hobbies too. I used to love reading but I haven't finished a single book this school year. I just feel like everything is pointless and I'm miserable all of the time. All I do is go on my phone or sleep. I don't want to be mean. I love being around people but I'm just so mean I don't know what to do anymore. What's wrong with me? :( |
Question: Is storing weed in my dad's urn rude? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 07:19 PM PST I keep weed in my dads urn because no one would ever think to look there and my dad smoked and i think he would find it funny but is this rude? |
Question: I want to move back in with my dad? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 06:02 PM PST my dad lives in a different city than my mom. my mom moved an hour away about a year ago and during the school week i would be at my dad's, but for most of the weekends i would go to her house. during most breaks. i grew up in the city that my dad lives in. this school year, my parents attorneys settled on moving my brothers and i to my moms for the school year, and visit my dad on the weekends (opposite as before). the entire school year i've been wanting to move back to my dad's house and attend school there because i'm so much happier there. here i barely have any friends and i don't really do much with my life other than go to school. when i go to my dads house on the weekends i hang out with my friends and actually get out of the house and i feel happy there, whereas here i am constantly depressed. i have argued multiple times with my mom about moving back with my dad and she won't let me because she claims the courts said that they moved us here for our best interests. today i found an email between my mom and her attorney that they moved us here because that is what their attorneys had decided on. the judge never "ordered" us to move to her house, as my mom claims they did. my dad told me he would take my mom back to court and fight over where i attend school. (i told him i would like for him to do that). i would like to possibly avoid the courts (because i could move there quicker if my mom would agree) but i would do it if necessary. i am unsure of what to do lol |
Question: My mom has an extreme superiority/god complex. How do I tell her this? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 05:42 PM PST I'm currently 17 years old, and live in my mom's house. My mother has several glaringly obvious mental issues, one of which being a superiority complex. She's also extremely passive aggressive. She'll say that she has a "suspiscion" or "thinks" something, and then the next day it will be absolute concrete fact according to her. For example, I live in a family of 10 people, most of which regularly leave the house on a near daily basis. One day, a few of us get sick, and I catch the sickness a day later. My mom says "I think Claire brought the virus home", despite me getting sick later than the others. I point this out, but she ignores my comment. The next day, she has told all of my much younger siblings that the sickness is all my fault, for no other discernible reason than "it just is." This is a relatively mild and harmless example. She'll say that she thinks I have a mental illness without ever being diagnosed, and the next day she'll make sure that I put it on my resume so that all my employers know what they're getting into. If I ever say anything she disagrees with, insult or not, no matter the intensity, she'll respond with a much ruder, passive aggressive version. My dad has never called her out on it except in their most difficult arguments, but she turns it around and says that me and him are the ones like that. She is very verbally abusive, so I'm wondering how I can tell her to stop? |
Posted: 04 Mar 2019 04:46 PM PST Long story short, he has a condescending attitude and talks down to me a lot. I've had social anxiety and depression most of my life and it was until recent years, after beating my anxiety, that I realized that he is a bully. I know I should be a grown up about this but I do have a bit of resentment. I used to have really low self esteem as a kid and would avoid eye contact. So, he would say stuff like "no wonder you get bullied. I would bully you too. Look at me in the eyes when I'm talking to you, you freak" This didn't stop in adulthood. I once visited him and his kids. I don't remember the argument but he yelled at me in front of his 3 and 5 y/o daughters and said : god you're a ****** idiot. Dealing with you is like dealing with them" pointing at his kids. I stopped talking to him after last Christmas when he didn't invite me to his Christmas dinner even though I live 5 blocks away from him. He is the only relative I have in the U.S. He visited me during New Years but only after my father called him and told him that he should visit me. I kicked him out and haven't talked to him ever since. I'm being childish but how can I fix this awkward tension between us? |
Question: Took $8 from my mom? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 04:42 PM PST I feel guilty because I door dashed $8 worth of food from my moms card. I know it's no big deal, and I won't die from it, but I feel really guilty. Should I worry? |
Posted: 04 Mar 2019 04:24 PM PST He will say he is just a friend and that " the fat guy" next door is her dad and continue to fill her head till that is what she knows and what I say don t matter and he ll just say oh she knows who her dad is. That s not the point. You don t teach a 5 yo that. There are other things not just that but this is a main thing. He doesn t act like a father. He is emotionally abusive to both of us. Disrespects us. He has her hanging on his every word and agreeing with everything. Her mind is going to be damaged. Asks her who the better parent is, which she said me but that is not the point, she is around me more than anyone. He comes to visit because I don't trust him alone with her. Tries to buy her affection or says he will take her toys away he bought her if she don't say she loves him. You cant force a child. Tries to get me to have sex with him and when I say no, makes me out to be the bad person or says I am mean. I am more worried about my daughter than what I have to go through. She doesn't need to deal with that. That puts a lot of stress on her and she acts out, doesn't want to eat. I mean what we have gone has been going on long enough. Every year since 2015, he has talked about giving up his rights because he says its not like he gets to see her anyway which I get blamed for that. He has totaled 4 vehicles due to drinking and driving, lost license twice, jail, court ordered live in rehab, house arrest. He is just very irresponsible Basically has to do with verbal abuse to me and daughter, mental abuse to me on the phone and visits and mental abuse to daughter. No stability in visits with daughter. Not mentally stable long enough and does not show any parenting mentality. Cant be trusted alone with daughter, he cant act proper in my house, not responsible enough to buy a car seat or doesn't want to spend the money. Calls me up drunk last month, I hung up and he repeatedly called. Left voicemails and texts |
Question: Me and my dad have a problem with my mom? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 03:27 PM PST My mom often flips out on me and my dad over nothing. We got a dog and it's not used to me after 1 month and she wants to get rid of it and instead of talking she just goes right to flipping out and cussing. And she is a house mom she stays home all day so I have no idea what it could be. The main thing is she stays in her room for 4 to 5 days and does nothing but flip out when my dad goes up their to sleep or take a shower. |
Question: Help! Parents won t let me sleep over at my best friends? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 03:00 PM PST Keeping in mind that I am 19, they have met the parents & known her for quite a while now. Her parents as well as herself are devoted Christian s who don t even watch PG 13 rated movies. I ve slept over at her house MULTIPLE times & even stayed with their family for a weekend while my parents went out of town but EVERY time I ask to spend the night it s this whole issue of "why do you need to sleep at her house?" I just want to be a normal teenager. She leaves for college again tomorrow and I have not seen her all of break. What should I do?? |
Posted: 04 Mar 2019 02:34 PM PST He did it a long time ago(like 6 years ago), I don't even feel comfortable talking about him, my mom says it's time to forgive him, she says I should just move on, and attend to his soon-funeral( he hasn't die yet,but he is going to) I feel like I don't want to go, but is this a part of healing that I should take? I don't know, my mom says that I should forgive him, it won't matter anymore, since he is going to die. I don't know what to do.. Thanks! |
Question: Having family problems! Please help? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 12:53 PM PST My mum, my sister and me used to be close. After dad passed away we were the only members of the family. My sister has been married for about 2years now and things are a little different. She comes home like once a week to meet my mum. They talk about things like jewelry, others home, how my sister is wealthy than rest of my cousins and things like that which I have no interest in. They only talk about such topics which makes it hard for me to bond with them. On the other hand I m just a student in my final year. I do not get pocket money and work part time to fund my college fees. I am a staright A student. I work very very hard to get good grades. My sister was fully funded by mum in her university days. She was even fully funded by my mum for her wedding. But my mum doesnt seem to have even a dollar to spend on me. They are hanging out a lot recently, they go shopping together and go to restaurants without inviting me. I would love to take out my mum to restaurants too, but I dont have enough money. Then she calls me things like stingy, selfish etc. I dont even like their company anymore. All they do is bith about others and talk about how rich my sisters family is compared to others. I am feeling suffocated to stay with my mum. She acts so biased around me. Everything I do feels like its not enough. What do I do? |
Question: How do I convince my mother to let me do All Star Cheer?????? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 11:54 AM PST My mom is hesitant because of my grades. She said she would consider it if I get no zeros for daily work for the last quarter. How do I convince her after I do that??? Please Help Me!!!!!!! |
Question: Am I being treated like a doormat by my in-laws? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 11:36 AM PST Hi..I've been married a long time...my husband is from a foreign country...I'm american..his family wasn't happy to have me, as I was not from his country...they actually said it to me (and still do, sometimes), but come with a second statement, like..."but we accepted you because you're nice"...anyway, I always go above and beyond to be helpful with anything they need help with...as soon as I help with one thing, and it's finished, another sibling needs something else, or a nephew, niece, etc. I host every birthday and holiday (except Thanksgiving) at my home...I bring food for my elderly mother in law, drive their kids to practice when asked to, just about anything you can imagine....I don't expect any favors back...I don't...BUT, I won't even get an occasional call or text just to ask how we are doing..My son has a severe disability, and it's really exhausting....they don't even call to check on us....the only way they "show" concern, is when they see me they say..."wow....you look tired"...that's it...I won't say anything out of respect to my husband...but I feel he should....and, yes, I realize I have to start saying no....I'm not sure why I can't..Maybe I'm weak, or afraid they will hate me...any good advice? Am I wrong to feel this way? |
Question: So what will happen to me when my mom dies? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 11:00 AM PST I'm 24 and my mom is 62. My dad is still alive, but he's pretty much just like a sperm donor. I'm still in college, barely ever worked before. I don't have any close friends. I don't have any relatives near me, they are all in my mom's country. The closest relative I have is in another state a few states away, but I burned that bridge by having an affair with her mom's spouse. I never had a boyfriend. I can't bear the thought of being married and having kids. My mom never taught me how to cook, how to work, how to drive. When she dies, I would be lost, not knowing what to do. Would I be living by myself for the rest of my life? |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2019 10:22 AM PST She is a narcissist but our parents made her this way by spoiling her. I am scared of her now. |
Posted: 04 Mar 2019 10:20 AM PST I worry that people will associate me with my father's hurtful behavior since he is so hard to like. |
Question: I feel so sad that my rooted beliefs come from my Mom's lies. How do I fix this? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 10:18 AM PST |
Question: Should my mom be doing this with my ex???? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 09:07 AM PST My mom works in the same large office building as my ex husband. There is a popular restaurant on the first floor of the office building. One day mom was waiting to be seated and my ex husband Jim came in and saw her and invited her to join him for lunch. Never being one to pass up a free lunch, she did. She said they had a great lunch and a fun conversation. This has happened 3 times in the last year. Mom just adored Jim when we were married and that did not change after the divorce. I did not know any of this until Mom told me about it. She said she wanted me to know from her. She did not want someone that knows me to call her and tell me that mom was on a date with my ex husband. I asked mom if she planned to do it again and she said she might. She denied it was a date. She said it was just two friends having lunch together. I am really confused about this. I don't want my mom dating my ex husband. Do you think she is? I told my mom about my concerns and she told me that I should join her the next time she had lunch with my ex. We remained friends after our divorce so I don't think it will be a problem or will it? Please give me some advice on what I should do. Should I join them for lunch or would it be awkward? |
Question: Was my mom flirting with my husband? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 07:40 AM PST My mother, June told me she wanted to start dating again and hopefully get married again. She had lost a lot weight and had bought a whole new wardrobe. She ask my husband if she could model her new clothes for him. He agreed. After she had showed him her new clothes she ask my husband what he thought of her chances of finding a man that would marry her. He told her with her great looks, a year from now she would have been on her honeymoon. She should plan now for her wedding dress as he knew she will get a marriage proposal soon. She said is that true or are you just trying to make me feel good? He told her men can not resist a beautiful woman with a great figure and she would soon be married. She gave him a hug and said you are the best son in law ever. Should my husband even be thinking about mom's figure? For the record she does have a GREAT FIGURE. Was mom flirting with my husband or was he flirting with her |
Posted: 04 Mar 2019 06:57 AM PST How to justify my words I told her that you killed my father by your actions he died from heart attack which was not true but I just said it and now she's not talking to me please how to justify my words and make it up to her |
Question: 6 y/o b/g twins sharing a room? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 06:48 AM PST Should/when I separate them? We only have 4 bedrooms and I have my 12 and 17 y/o boys sharing a room and my 15 y/o is by herself, so i'm not sure who would go to what room, advice? |
Question: Mom compares me to a dog? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 05:02 AM PST Before saying move out I already did I have my own apartment with my boyfriend. I have a boyfriend everything is good with him. So I got pregnant and my mom said it's the same thing with dog when they see males when in heat they get pregnant . Why does she compares me to dogs? Plus she keeps telling peoples I don't even know that I'm a slut that can't keeps her legs closed. What should I do |
Posted: 04 Mar 2019 04:39 AM PST My parents frequently taught me to hate growing up but my Mom is not at all as bitter as she was when I was growing up. My Dad also likes hating people. |
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Question: How to comfort your sister ? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 03:28 AM PST My sister is upset because she had a dream about her and Brian May from Queen dating she got upset because it wasn't real. I dont get why shes so upset. How can I comfort her ? |
Question: My father submitted I-130 in 2008 for my family any idea how long it take? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 02:43 AM PST |
Question: Found My Father Cheating on My Mother? Posted: 04 Mar 2019 12:16 AM PST My friend was over a couple nights ago and heard my father talking to someone. My mother was was in her home country for her mother's funeral. We look out of my door and see my dad looking through the fridge, but with a woman next to him. I don't know what to do, call my mother, stay quiet? |
Question: My sister is toxic. What do I do? Posted: 03 Mar 2019 11:35 PM PST I am 13, take care of her 16 hours a day, and my mother favours her. My mom thinks it's just sibling rivalry, but "sibling rivalry" doesn't cause bruises. I can't confront her or anyone about because I will be in trouble. |
Question: I always get so annoyed when my step dad talks to me. I don’t know why but I do.? Posted: 03 Mar 2019 11:04 PM PST |
Question: What to do in this situation? Posted: 03 Mar 2019 08:28 PM PST I'm 25 and I have a 20 year old sister who does not know her place. She slams the door and plays loud music, always talks back to my parents, makes passive aggressive comments directed towards me when I'm around to make me feel bad, steals my things, etc. I've tried giving her the benefit of the doubt numerous times and I've tried completely ignoring and disregarding her but she gets on my nerves and makes me so angry. I've never hated someone so much before. I help pay the bills and I have student loans to pay off so I live in the house that family rents to save money. Also, one day she was going up the stairs while I was going down and my shoulder pushed her because we bumped into each other. She then cursed at me and told my mom that I hit her when I didn't. She did this numerous times to me in the past and I kept it in and didn't yell back or say anything. Now she's cursing and crying cause I'm treating her the way she treats me. |
Posted: 03 Mar 2019 07:25 PM PST I'm 14 and have 2 families. My moms and my dads. My dad was chosen by the judge in court to be my bigger guardian, but now I'm pretty sure its my choice. My mom gets me every second weekend and I return back to my dads house when its Sunday. Today I returned back from my moms. Next week I will be at my dads and the week after I will be at my dads again cause they switched weekends. After those two weeks I'm back at my mom and I'm wondering if I should tell my dad that I'm staying with my mom, or just not tell him and just stay at my moms house anyway. If he calls the police the best thing they can do is check to see if I'm not being held against my will. |
Question: My parents blame me for literally everything? Posted: 03 Mar 2019 06:43 PM PST seriously, i just dont understand this. my parents blame me for everything. im a 16 year old boy, and they blame me all the time for stupid reasons. last year, my older sister failed her ap physics 1 exam (she scored a 2), and my parents blamed me instead of her. my parents told me that because i was in ap chem and ap world last year, they spent too much time helping me, so they couldnt help her with her physics stuff. not true, i was very independent, and my parents almost never helped me with my homework in those classes, because i did well in those classes. my younger brother, who is in middle school, is getting bullied, and my parents blame me, even though he is portraying himself as vulnerable and soft in public. they say it's because im being mean to him at home. and also, my younger sister was watching videos on my dad's work tablet, she broke it, i was upstairs doing my history homework, and guess what? my mom screamed for me to come down and blamed me .she screamed "you broke the electric pencil sharpener when you were in 5th grade, so he learned to follow suit. youre the one responsible for breaking your dad's work tablet" one of the women in my mom's ladies bible study group has a daughter that got raped, and her son was diagnosed with autism, and my mom says its my fault, even though i dont even know who the heck that person is, and needless to say ive never even met her kids or heard of them i would love to call the cops or cps, move out, or talk to my youth pastor, counselor, teacher, etc., but my parents said they wont do anything about it, and they even accuse me of lying when i told them that they blame me all the time. and they wont let me move out because they think im "incompetent and stupid" |
Posted: 03 Mar 2019 06:20 PM PST Should I choose the family I love or the family with more money? |
Posted: 03 Mar 2019 04:56 PM PST he reaches the age of 13 - 17 during puberty. Elisha Unfortunately my husband & I have fertility problems & we may not be able to have a biological child on our own. |
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