I'm 18, and I want to move out because I don't get along with my mom. I don't want to move out so I can do whatever I want, I just want to be treated normally. Whenever I want to go somewhere, my mom tracks my location and has to call the parents of my friends to make sure there is adult supervision. I know she wants me to be safe, but I've gotten to the age where that's not normal. It's not normal to be an adult and have her call my friends parents for sleepovers. I have a good paying job, and I'm even paying for my own college. How do I make the blow a little easier when I tell her I want to move out?

A few days ago i was at a water park with My mom. My chest is Very big even though Im 14 so it is Very hard to find a Well fitting bikinitop. The one i was wearing was to small so it showed alot of skin. I got to the pools and no one was there except a kid and his mom. I went ahead of My mom because she had to use the restroom. As i went in the pool the kid started starring. I am not new to starring so it didnt bother me. The kid soon starts moving towards me and eventually is behind My back. This kid seemd to be about 7 or 8 years old. When he was right behind me he decided to pulling My bikinitop and grab My boobs. I turn around and smacked him lightly. I took My bikinitop, went out of the water an dput it back on. The kid started crying and went to his mom and told her that i wouldnt let him touch My boobs and that i hit him. The mother walks over to me and as i was expecting an apology she started blabbering in My face why i wouldnt let him touch My boobs. I was shocked and speechless. She goes on about how good he has been and because i wear such a revealing top i should just let him do it. I calmly explained that because of My breastsize it is hard to find a fitting top But she didnt listen. She then tries to rip off My bikinitop and eventually My mom comes in between and she had the swimming guards with her. They escorted her and her son out and i never saw them Again. Why would she ever think that it would be okay for her son to freely sexually harras me? ****'s f'ed!

my mom says my dad doesn't want me around,he says he loves his new sons instead of me, im a girl.

I'm just so sad that my dad treats me so awfully after I confided in him about getting raped. Ever since, he's been threatening to emancipate me or homeschool me or get rid of me, and he says he wouldn't care about me anymore at all. Sometimes he even says he hates me or doesn't care about me now. He blames me for his depression, drinks twice a day everyday, and tells me I'm the reason he wants to kill himself. I got RAPED. Why does no one listen to me???? It seems like no teachers listen, my parents don't listen and make jokes of it, and an OFFICER at my school knows and doesn't care. I WANT TO BE NOTICED. I TOLD MY OWN SISTER. I'm sorry for caps I'm just so angry. Right now as I type I'm in a silent room not allowed to talk or express my feelings while my rapist is two rooms beside me being praised by everyone. I wish someone would just listen. I. Got. Raped. I NEVER had sex. He took my phone, I can barely go outside without being screamed at, I JUST now got my TV privileges back, and I know I got drunk at school which is retarded, but they aren't even mad about that. They're mad that I "went out and had sex". And I didn't. I GOT RAPED. I'm in class and I'm trying so hard to not cry because I'd be sent to the office and they'd tell my dad like my dad told them to. I just want to feel understood. I'm fifteen, not a genius. I was supposed to get therapy but my dad doesn't think I need it because apparently I only called out rape because "he has a new girlfriend".

This is going to be LONG, probably. Nobody has to look at it, I'm just lonely and sad. I got raped in October, I don't know if it's going to block that word out, but yeah. I was barely fifteen and right after, I was in shock and as soon as I hit my bed that same night I started crying and didn't even know why. The next day I told everyone about how I lost my virginity and something just seemed off about it, but then I realized what actually happened and I told four teachers. I BEGGED them not to tell my dad, I just needed someone to talk to regardless of the consequences. I knew that if my dad knew then he automatically wouldn't believe me, so I never told him until January when I got in trouble for drinking at school, which is stupid, I know you don't have to tell me. I knew that if I told him it wouldn't matter because I was already in as much trouble as I could be in. This is going to seem bad when I say it but I'm a victim and I shouldn't be treated like I went out and had sex, because I didn't. I went out and got raped. It's a guy at my school, too. He's 18 and literally everyone loves him. I'm honestly not sure if the teachers even believe me. People will say it's stupid that I didn't tell my dad the day after but clearly it's never happened to them. It's not that easy and it never will be. Ever since I told my dad he's been acting like I'm some animal or like I'm a whore. He literally calls me it every single day. I'm typing more in a whole other question.

I don't know why but sometimes when she eats and if I walk by she'll spit or wipe chewed up food on me and thinks it's funny. I find it very disgusting and I told her numerous times to please stop it is not normal and she'll get mad and tell me she can do whatever the hell she wants. She also force me to eat something that she spit out once. I was in my preteens learning to cook and the food was undercooked and I didn't know she went to try it only to find it wasn't cooked all the way and she spit it out and told me since she had to eat it I had to as well and force the chewed food in my mouth and I began crying when she walked off angry. Now last week she was in the kitchen eating something and I walk pass her and she wiped chewed up food on my shoulder and I immediately snatched away and tried to wipe it off and out of nowhere she punched me in the eye and all my siblings just stared startled and she told them that I pushed her. I really didn't and got a black eye for no reason. Please do you guys know why she does this to me?

My mother found porn on my ipad when I was younger. It was stupid of me, I wouldn't ever do it again. And because of this action, I lost her trust, and I had no tv, no youtube, and no phone. A little while later, I got a phone. Stupid me, I got in trouble for texting somebody that I shouldn't have been. I went without electronics for another long while, which was torture. I now have a phone, but she has strict resrictions on it, such as NO APPS, only texting and facetiming. She also has the internet completely blocked. I of course, am thankful that I even have the ability to text and call now, But I would also like some freedom. I want to be able to do something without her hovering over me all the time. Can anybody tell me how to gain more freedom, or what I could do to gain my moms trust back?! I really need help.

I always feel guilty because as a kid until age 15 I believed my Mom and all she told me. She taught me that if my Dad loved me he would have been faithful to her. She also taught me all the gossip about how he doesn't fulfill his child support obligations and how he may have cheated a bunch more and how he can't love me and my siblings because he loves no one. She used the word narcissist. When I was 15 I began to reconnect, much to my Mom's despise, and he really seemed happy and to like me. I got closer and learned the cheating was a one time thing he regretted. The money stuff was all my Mom's lies that I had believed. Now I am in my early 40's. My Dad died last year. I feel really guilty I believed her from ages 8 to 15 and was estranged from my Dad. I resented my Mom for it but in the last ten years she has softened and thus I have been able to forgive her for the most part. So at age 41 I am asking, was I guilty as a kid for part of the estrangement since I believed my Mom and joined her in hating my Dad in those 7 years? Did I contribute to it by existing? I have heard the marriage went downhill once they had kids and I am one of 3 kids. I was ADHD growing up so the hardest of the 3. Any thoughts?

They are between the ages of 17 and 26. One child, the one who is more the black sheep, she is very bitter at since the child does not serve her well emotionally and rather talks back and has an attitude.

So my mum is 59 and has been lazy for the last 3 months. She refused to cook and won't let me cook. She will call my grandma up on the phone and ask her to make food for us which I have to collect from her house. How do I motivate her to get back to cooking?

So Nobody ever takes interest in me in this family but the second I start dating a beautiful woman who's 100/10 ("out of my league") & change my relationship status on Facebook everyone tries to send her a friend request and want to know about us. Like bro none of y'all invited me to family events before But now it's a big deal?

My sister was dumped my her husband of 10 years for a woman much younger than she was. The house sold and she had to move but her apartment would not be ready for 2 weeks so she is temporally staying with my husband and me. As expected she is depressed and has a very low self esteem. Trying to help her I asked my husband to tell her she is still beautiful and appealing to men. He did not want to do it but I insisted and that was what he told her. BIG MISTAKE. She thought he was flirting with her and she has been flirting with him ever since. He has been trying to avoid her but it is hard when she is living here. He wants me to tell her to back off. His is not interested in her in any way. I think he should tell her so I will remain good friends with her. Please give me your opinion. Who should tell her? My husband says the faster she leaves our house the better.

My older brother when I lived at home, would get away with talking to me rudely, making threats, and one time, even came at me with a knife. Moments later, id get a call from my mom telling me I have to be a bigger man, walk away when he gets like that, or Im making her life difficult, or I'm immature, etc. My mother would, during my youth, often say to me and many times in a whisper tone of voice that I'm nothing, nasty, I won't be able to do this or that, no girl would ever like me, people think I'm stupid, ect. They also, when I was a kid, used to laugh at me when they made me upset.

Long story, my mom and step dad have been married for 11 months. Last week, he came into the house drunk yelling accusing my mom of cheating which she wasn t and got divorce papers. He kept calling her out of her name. My mom got mad then threw ice. My step dad then got up and slapped my mom then grabbed a trash lid and hit her on the head. My mom grabbed a knife but he snatched it from her causing a huge cut on her hand which led to her getting stitches the same day. The police was called and even when they got there he was still calling my mom outta her name. I feel bad because after all that she wants to get back with him. He almost choked her one time. He belittles her in front of his friends. He calls her out sober and drunk. He left home like 3-4 times. He has anger issues and gets mad over little things. He gets smart with me so I didn t talk to him much. Just hate seeing my mom going through crap but I can t make my mom s decisions even though I really hate that she s getting back with him. I just feel like he ll do the same thing again or worse.

After college, I moved back home.It has been tough cause my parents have not been nice to me. My mom obsessed with my weight and will ask me how much weight I have lost or if I weigh myself on the scale. She gets angry for stupid things and rehashes past issues continually. For example, I didn't get a flu shot on the day she wanted me to. she said if I didn't get one I wouldn't be able to go to Kentucky with the family. My dad is also really mean and sarcastic. For example, one time he asked me to vacuum the couch and I attempted to use the wrong vacuum and he just said were you born yesterday? When have we ever used that vacuum inside? Whenever I misunderstand something he tells me that I need to be more aware of my something. My parents also make me feel stupid when I tell them about mistakes I make at work. It also doesn't help that I am a Christian and they are not. My mom says that my main priority should be work and I should be spending time after work doing work related things and not leisure activities. She tells me that I should only read a verse a day. I don't believe this is wrong but the Bible is very important to me and I seek to read more than just one verse a day. I tell my mom I understand that work is important but I want to have a work life balance. And she was like wow okay. I know I should just move out but I have only been working temp jobs for the past few months and I don't have enough to move out. Any advice on what I should do?

I need help explaining my life: I have been lying to my mom since the age of eight. The reason I know this is because I always was fearful of my Mom and I remember the day I lied about having friends because as a kid I never had many and when I lied about being social she always was interested in what I was telling her. From then on, it worked pretending to have close friends because she was content with me and she didn t blame me for not trying. She yelled at me a lot as a kid and looking back now, I realize I lied to her out of fear because I was scared of her. She would blame me for things I couldn t understand and she would talk a lot about her regrets. I don t know if I am crazy, or if sometimes I am doing anything wrong at all. She gets mad de yells at me and my friends can t understand it either because it is over the smallest of things. Look, I desperately need some help. I m going to college soon, I am questioning my own sexuality which is a whole harder topic to talk about with her, and i feel trapped. Is it me or is my mom the issue too?

so i am obsessed with him i'm 16 and he's 18 and so basically i'm obsessed with him and kept making new numbers to text him when he blocked and new snap and insta accounts to harass him bc im so obsessed and i try to go places where he is to see him and use his name for my password and make fake accounts of him and talk to myself pretending to be him and change my friends contacts to his names to pretend he's texting me and and he is super uncomfortable and stuff and i'm worried can he get one on me i'm 16 so i'm two years younger then him but can he i'm so worried

My boyfriend invited me to stay in the mountains with him and his family, but my mom lost her mind and will not let it happen. I'm 18 years old. I understand she wants me to be safe, and I am always good about checking in with her. I'm tempted to just go without her permission because she legally can not stop me, but I don't want to disrespect her and I'm sure the repercussions would be bad. What should I do?

My parents get so pissed and try to bring me down and force me to get a job, go to college, degree and all that. What do y'all think about my parents?

I'm a 23 year old guy, and I've had some problems with my dad. My dad has not really been there for me, he's never been a real dad to me. He met me for the first time when I was 4 years old, I never really saw him much when I was young and since my parents were divorced he didn't really help us financially. My mom was the only person who was there for me, and my dad was mostly selfish or worried about it his life and his business. Throughout my whole life my dad has lied to me about a lot of things, I've taken him out to eat, we've done things together and we've talked about life. But I just feel like there's no connection between us, when he calls me it's usually because he needs something. My older brother gave up with my dad, my brother has two kids and my dad only sees them for birthdays or Christmas. He doesn't really do anything with his grandkids, he never takes them out or anyting. My brother has been screwed a lot by my dad in the past, and I'm scared the same thing will happen to me. I know it's wrong but sometimes I feel like cutting my down out completely. Can i please have advice????????

Today was the last day we could do our school re enrollment paper and it was due at 4:00 pm. My parents received numerous emails last week telling them that they had to do it. It wasn t until 5:00 today that they finally told me, and asked ME to do it for them! So now, I don t even know if I can return to that school anymore. Also they are very ignorant but that is a different topic. Anyone know what I should do??

I asked a friend about a holiday destination, but they never replied..... they are not busy either...

When i do something bad and it's something small i get a tiny smack over the head but when it's something big it's a lot worse. One time he threw his boot at me, sometimes I have to sit in a corner facing the wall on my knees with my hands behind my back and he doesn't let me up until im crying. I've came to school with black eyes snd bruises and when people ask I lie snd say my sister hit me with a ball. I've never told the truth because he supports our family and i don't want to ruin my family. What do I do. My mom knows but I don't know how she feels about it.

Hey guys, so I am a first time father of a little girl. She's 1 month now, and we just got her social security card and her mom says that she wants to keep the social security card at my mother in laws house, and I told her no we need to keep the social with us and she said that she wants to keep it at her moms, but that makes no sense to me. As her parents I feel like we are the keepers of things like that. So why can't she see that?

I always feel guilty because as a kid until age 15 I believed my Mom and all she told me. She taught me that if my Dad loved me he would have been faithful to her. She also taught me all the gossip about how he doesn't fulfill his child support obligations and how he may have cheated a bunch more and how he can't love me and my siblings because he loves no one. She used the word narcissist. When I was 15 I began to reconnect, much to my Mom's despise, and he really seemed happy and to like me. I got closer and learned the cheating was a one time thing he regretted. The money stuff was all my Mom's lies that I had believed. Now I am in my early 40's. My Dad died last year. I feel really guilty I believed her from ages 8 to 15 and was estranged from my Dad. I resented my Mom for it but in the last ten years she has softened and thus I have been able to forgive her for the most part. So at age 41 I am asking, was I guilty as a kid for part of the estrangement since I believed my Mom and joined her in hating my Dad in those 7 years? Did I contribute to it by existing? I have heard the marriage went downhill once they had kids and I am one of 3 kids. I was ADHD growing up so the hardest of the 3. Any thoughts?