It's almost 12:30 my wife can't get to sleep. She keeps falling asleep but waking up again. We tried sex it didn't help. How else can I help her ?

Like when the youngest is 3-5 y.o. because he finally got tired of the complete lack of sex and affection? And he took the retirement $$$ since it was his? Any pitfalls?

and how did it happen? when did you know? how long ago was it?

And just waiting for him to show up

Future wife.

It seems like whenever my husband comes around dealing with our kids becomes much more stressful. One minute he's yelling at them and/or giving a spanking for something stupid. The next minute he's undoing everything I've done to get them settled. For example... I have to "retrain" my toddler weekly to go to bed at bedtime without fighting because on the nights my husband comes home from work early he gets her out of bed as soon as she cries or whines, moans or anything. Or he puts her in our bed to sleep with us (She's 21 months). Whenever he's not home things are peaceful and organized. I work full time, I'm exhausted all the time and whenever I get my kids into any sort of routine he comes home and undoes everything, gets them back up out of bed saying oh they don't want to sleep right now, etc. Anyone else's husband undo all of the routine and structure in the house. How do you deal with it?? Or any suggestions in general??

My wife is pregnant with our son I love rubbing her belly and kissing it. Is it normal ?

My wife is 5 months pregnant with our son she cries at everything or nothing. She's crying right now she does this all the time. Why do some pregnant women cry so much ?

I miss having a partner by me and I'm sick of dates and girls not showing any interest in me. I'm really regretting having my estranged wife arrested 2 years ago. They sent her to a mental home and they said nothing about where she is. How would I be able to find where my estranged wife is out of state so I can see if she wants me back?

My wife is pregnant with our son she's due in March she's got a daughter from a previous relationship but she's still scared. How can I help her ?

Ok I live with my ex husband and I get foodstamp but he always has my food stamps and won't take me to the store to go shopping for food he buys thing s he wants and the card is in my name but he uses it as he please s and. Tells me and my kids not too touch his stuff which he didn't even pay for now before I moved in here he was buying his own stuff and getting our kids school snack now I dont mind buying their s but since when do I have to get him work snacks and he tells us we can a can't touch and I am getting sick of it plus he gets almost all my money every month from my ssi

My brother and sister in laws marriage is slowly but surely falling apart so it won't be long before a divorce is in the works. They live in Virginia, which is where my brother is from, and she is from Ohio. If they were to get a divorce, could she just move back to Ohio and take the kids with her even though they actively live in Virginia and that's where my brother would stay? They are both capable of taking care of the children so that's not an issue. The kids are 3 and 5.

I'm female, almost 30, but I don't see myself settling down and having kids ever. How do I find men with similar views and not having to be so emotionally invested?

If you started your marriage out in debt, did the marriage last or was their strain? If you began debt free, did you feel more at peace in those first months of marriage?

My husband and I were married 4 yrs.Still legally married until 7/24/19 We've been legally separated since 7/24 this yr when he threatened to beat the **** out of me and his other person living inside of him and he began calling me a b***. Ive never been called that and he had nvr taken his threats that far as to beatin the s*** out of me esp in front of our 2 yr old. He threatened to kill my dad and then my mom 2 yrs ago with his revolver on his bday.@ 36 wks pregnant he tried to throw a barstool at me at 2:45am and when he didnt succeed he came at me w/ his fist. I ran out of our apt barefoot and luckily had a pocket in my pj bottoms and had my cell in my pocket and had time to swipe my keys and purse and waddle down 3flights of stairs. He threatened my son and me w/one of his guns last yr. every time he spazzes out ot starts from a little disagreement we had instead of him knowing married couples have arguments at times. he talks to himself and will have a 30 min conversation w/ himself which i asked if he would stop b4 our son was born but nvr did. He told his attorney I abandoned the house so if i return then he could press charges on me, but it was either stay and get beat like his dad his mom or leave and take our son. He's finally allowing me into my house 2morrow to start packing and our son,my parents,bro,his gf, and his friend will all be there helping. Im nervous about being in the same house w/him and what he'll try to say or do b/c his temper/personality?

I was talking to my friend, whom I'll call Richard. I mentioned to him that my little soldier doesn't stand at attention the way it used to, he suggested that I take it and bang it four times against the bedpost, and it will perk right up. Well, it sounded weird, but I trust Richard, so I tried it last night. My wife was asleep, so I snuck in, banged my dingus against the bedpost, and sure enough, it works! But as I was "rising to the occasion", my wife mumbled, "Richard, it's not Thursday."

I'm so sick and f'ing tired of fighting with my husband. I don't have the energy anymore. We have 2 kids (one is only 7.5 months old and the other is 2yo) and I work out of the house while watching the kids. He lies and says things to his parents that makes me look like complete garbage (ex:the Inlaws like having our little ones spending the night, I don't mind, it's sweet-a couple days ago my husband asked if I liked it I said it's a bit difficult because I miss them but a little break is nice. So husband takes it out of perportion and tells his parents that they can't have our little ones over at night anymore) like what!? where did that even come from, and he's not doing it to be nice. He's spiteful. When I asked him why he did that he said **** you, your the one with all the problems, and went off on a rant.. I love our children, hubby can be fun but I'm done

he and his wife go away on vacations,. They have no kids, I and my wife have 3 kids. While I go over to walk the dog, I let myself in with spare key, when I'm done walking dog, I will snoop around, and what I found was a great pair of his wifes used panties, just sitting there in the washer waiting for more clothes. I breathed all of her scent in, and was actually high. I've always dreamed of what she looked like, so this scent is a great first step, my wife, she looks blobby now, after 3 kids and no exercise, I have to look down when she gets off bed . so what I'd like to know for all of you is. Could she be THE ONE !

I'm a virgin in my early 20s, I've never had a girlfriend, but am all of a sudden feeling extremely desperate for someone to hug and cuddle and to share my life with, I do not however have enough funds stored up yet to actually purchase a proper house and support a family of my own. What should I do? ------------------- I do not wish to just get married just due to hornyness, I hope to be able to offer a proper wealthy life with my future yet unknown soulmate, This will take at-least 5 or more years for me. Am I just needlessly overthinking this? How much money should I earn to be able to afford a proper idyllic family life and what all stuff should I get before I start searching for a spouse? I'm thinking that I'll need atleast a 2 story home with a garden and backyard, and a car(I use a bike) and I'll have to look up areas around my home to enroll my non-existent kids in school and college.

I'm married and my twitter info says so. My twitter is virtually hardly that. With a few tweets of my own I use it to follow people, public figures and stay in the loop. Separated with husband for 7 months, we're getting back together. I'm moving back home in a matter of weeks. This guy liked two of my ten tweets, lol. Looking at his profile he reminded me of my husband. What he does, not physically. I instinctively clicked follow (in retrospect cos I am lonely and his attention made me think I fancied him a bit)... Only to discover he fallowed me too. (Was flattered.) Now he's DMed me. Harmless for now, thanked me and showed off (in a cute way) how successful he is...Or, I'm lonely and his PA thanks each new follower. Do I read the DM and ignore it? Never click on it and ignore it? Unfollow him? Delete my twitter? (Been considering the last anyway!) He wasn't flirting, YET, but I do fancy him a bit and I find it odd he DMed me. Thank you all for your input, much appreciated!

I will never understand how people can be so gullible to forgive their cheating partners the trust is gone. why continue to stay in the relationship so he/she can just keep cheating? obviously they don't love you or care about you're feelings because they are sleeping with other people. i been cheated on in the past myself the pain from the betrayal never goes away but i never took them back though i just moved on. what are some reasons people stay in cheating marriages/ relationships?

My husbands sisters have never been nice to me, they treated me so badly that we haven't spoken to them in 10 years and even tried to break me and my husband up with lies. Now one of them has breast cancer and although she's not dying, she seems to have a different outlook on life and wants to make peace with everyone. She reached out to me on Facebook and apologised for her childishness in the past. She lives in Dubai and my husband and I live in Australia. She wants us to go there for a holiday and I agreed only because my husband hasn't seen his family in years. But I'm terrified that when we go there, he's going to get drunk and get a loose tongue, this would probably make them hate me even more. He did that just this weekend with my daughters in laws, he was drunk and told them I beat my daughter a lot as a child and emphasised how bad it was. (I did smack her but I never "beat" her). I've talked to my husband about this hundreds of times in the past and nothing changes. What should I do?

My Mom is friends with his secret mistress so I am scared they will resent us like they did once before. Uncle's wife does not seem to know about her yet.

My wife is sexy, pretty, all the things I could ask for but I like loose women, why.?

Why some father's have daughter but they cheat on their mom?

Ive introduced my husband to all of my family including my cousins. He is generally a friendly guy but hes a lot chatty with one of my cousins. They exchanged numbers and talk a lot. He has also deleted whatsapp chats after I told him to keep it minimal. He also thinks im jealous of my cousin (which I most definitely am not, we had a falling out in the past but we are cool now) They both talk way too much over texts and my husband deletes her chats. When I confronted him he went balistic and said "Its your fault youre so suspicious all the time. We are like bro and sis" Im like "If youre bro and sis then why delete the chats?" I honestly never had an issue or ever made a fuss of my husband talking to women. He has a lot more female friends then male friends. He constantly brings her up in conversations, in a teasing manner, trying to make me jeaous (idk why) and he keeps saying shes so beautiful shes so cute though, why you jealous of her shes your favourite cousin isnt she? Why does he keep doing this its irritating. A friend of mine said it doesnt sound right, Im not sure what to think of this tbh. Is he interested in her?

So my husband's mother passed away from a combination of renal insufficiency and diabetic cardiomyopathy earlier this month. She was a little under a week short of her 98th birthday. She's been living with us for the past two years after suffering a stroke in in late 2016. My husband is (was?) totally obsessed with his mother's health and well-being. I've never witnessed anybody more dedicated to another person's care in my life. My husband had to travel to Toronto for 3 weeks on business and, begrudgingly, tasked me with watching after her until he returned. I was nervous at first, but we practiced her care routine daily and when he left I was fairly confident that I was up to the task. Anyway, just a couple days into his trip, the weekly home health care nurse came by and found her unresponsive, but still breathing. I swear, that I had just had like a full conversation with her changed out her sheets just like a half an hour before the nurse showed up to flush her IV line. My husband hasn't blamed me directly yet, but he's suggested on several occasions that I might be responsible for her death. Hes counted and recounted her pills and seems the think that I may have doubled or even tripled dosed her on one of her kidney medications. I'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop and for him to directly accuse me of causing her death. We haven't slept in the same bed since her death. What's my next step here? How can I convince him that I'm not to blame?

My husband met some friends online both male and female "they live in different states" through a game they play. He then private chats with them nohing flirty or out of line,most of the messages are things aboutf life or games .He was honest about having a wife. I am mad about this. Should i be or am I being overly jealous? My husband met some friends online through a multiplayer game both male and female friends "they live in different states" He private chats with them nohing flirty or out of line,most of the messages are things about life or games .He was honest about having a wife. I am mad about this. Should i be or am I being overly jealous?

I'm a good wife faithful I cook clean and work I do everything for this man I don't think he's cheating cause he's always home never goes out I am a very sexual person horny always and I love trying everything I'm just so confused