I'm very worried for my friend. Let's call her Robin. She is a freshman and there is this guy he likes who is a junior. There have been numerous accounts of him harassing girls. I've actually spoken to these girls and they say that he touched them inappropriately. One of my friends warned Robin about him saying that these rumors might be true and she should probably stay away from him. They also hung out recently and the guy told her that he loved her and put his hand on her leg. She said that she loves him back to him but she worries that it's moving too fast (I feel like it's important to note that they haven't even kissed yet). The weirdest thing is that just a few days before he proclaimed his love for her he had feelings for another person (who rejected him). I'm worried that this guy is going to use Robin and it will ruin her forever. How do I get through to my friend without damaging our own friendship? Let me know if you need anymore context.

I have this friend who constantly seems to have a very hostile humor that has at times offended me and some friends... it gets pretty annoying at times having to deal with somebody who constantly mocks your laughter or your voice or simply makes you out to be crazy.. today I confronted him about it and he justified himself by saying it's all a joke but would it hurt him that bad to ever apologize? He never has! And he says it's a joke he doesn't have to apologize .. am I just dramatic or what the hell is he an actual bad friend

What should I do? Besides invite her next the time.

I m a young adult gamer, 21yo, and I don t have many friends because of my moving around (combined with social awkwardness I d like to think I ve out grown a bit now). I work fridays-mondays and have the middle of the week off, how am I supposed to meet new people outside of customers at work?

**** people bruh I fr got no friends. Like I got friends but people who used to talk to me n I thought were my friends jus stopped talking to me all of a sudden n it makes me hella sad but I don't give a ****. In football they be making fun of me and **** it's hella sad

Caucasian girl turned towards my friend and opened leg wide. I and her are next to each other. I could not see her panty. I could not show it. I felt that way. I thought that my friends and I were ordinary Japanese faces. For white women it seems that my friend liked it better than I did. Is there any preference for Japanese men for Caucasians? Did she feel something different between me and my friend?

I am a very socially awkward person. So I only have about 6 friends or so. Then i have 2 best friends. Me and one of my best friends go to the same school, while the other one goes to another one because her mom works there. Well we havent seen her in a while. Later my best friend that goes to my school texted me saying she was going to go out with my other friend. I mean i wanted to go too, i havent seen her in a while. Her parents know my parents, so its possible. But i guess not. Later i see her snapchat story, and i saw that my 2 best friends went our together and reunited, having fun together. It seems to always happen with all of my friends in general. I dont expect to be invited to every party and every event that my friends go to. But when best friends are like reuniting and are going to have fun together, they need to invite the whole pack. But..i guess i was never a best friend to them. How can i cope with this? I get upset easily and im the type of person who is nice and kind at school but a depressed, slow person at home.

My friend and I were joking around with this guy (he's not really my friend, but he's in my friend circle, and I see him frequently) while he was dancing, and I said, "haha you're embarrassing yourself" then he brought up something that I had done while intoxicated. So, I talked to him about that, and I explained to him that I was just trying to make a lighthearted joke, and that's when he told me that he was trying to make me look bad because he thought I was trying to do the same to him.

Ever since school has started I've been really upset. I mean like I was always kinda that way but its gotten a lot worse. I've become really insecure about myself and I've become really lonely. I barely have any friends and if I do they are the type of friends that I just talk to during school and after that its like I don't even know them. It feels like no one at school cares about me and I am unimportant. Like I don't matter to them at all and if I were to switch schools or whatever they wouldn't even care. It would just be nice to know that someone at my school actually cares about me.. is that too much to ask for? It feels like everyone I meet seems to hate me or something. I also feel like I mess up every friendship I'm in with my awkwardness. Like I'll be having a conversation with someone then I'll get really nervous and start to sweat and my voice will get shaky and all of that. I've just been feeling this horrible feeling that I can't even express. It feels like this bubble full of emotions inside me that I can't get out. Even when I wanna cry just to get it all out, I can't. Its all just really annoying and I wish I could just be happy and confident again.

I asked this guy if he wanted to be friends with benefits. I didn't think he was interested because he keeps telling me he's busy. I think maybe he's telling the truth. A year ago last September he asked me for my number. I use to see him at a store where he works. In February he called me asking to hangout. But we didn't because their was a conflict with our schedules. In June he asked me to meet him at the Opera I didn't because I was nervous. So since then we've been trying to find to hangout. I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits he said yes. This was in July and we have yet to hangout. So we've been going back and forth about hanging out. Recently I've been telling him that he's really not interested in me. Yet he insists that he is and that he's just busy with work. I don't get why he keeps saying he's interested in me. Yet we haven't met up at I'm thinking about just blocking him.

So I was at my boyfriend's house and my friend was calling. I told my boyfriend Id talk to her later. (she can speak horribly sometimes) but my boyfriend insisted that I answer So I answered and she was trying to hangout with me. I told her I was hanging with my boyfriend for the weekend and she got upset and started calling my boyfriend ugly and was very rude. This pissed me off. Thankfully my boyfriend didn't hear any of it. Should I confront this friend?

This probably sounds stupid but Me and my bets friend let's call her "J" We were best friends since kindergarten and until she started taking dance at this place and the last time we hung out was during the summer and she was on her phone the entire time texting her dance friends it was pretty rude and this year I'm a freshman so I just started high school and her dance friends started and are now at the same high school as hers and I never even see her anymore she is always hanging out with them we barely even have a conversation, Like today I tried to say Hi and she avoided me so I am wondering if I should just lose contact to her or just still be friends like off of social media?

My aunt has holy bibles in her house, but they all have upside down pentagrams on them with the words OOES It stands for The Order Of The Eastern Star In their basement there is wall plaques and pictures of a pyramid and a tick mark going up the pyramid, each tick mark describing a certain degree mason. It has a whole lot of Egyptian themed plaques with the compass with the g in the middle. There tends to be weird symbols and weird writing on Some of these plaques. My uncle was a shrine and a mason. However why is my uncle and aunt house soaked with this stuff?

0 minutes agoDetails I asked this guy if he wanted to be friends with benefits. I didn't think he was interested because he keeps telling me he's busy. I think maybe he's telling the truth. A year ago last September he asked me for my number. I use to see him at a store where he works. In February he called me asking to hangout. But we didn't because their was a conflict with our schedules. In June he asked me to meet him at the Opera I didn't because I was nervous. So since then we've been trying to find to hangout. I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits he said yes. This was in July and we have yet to hangout. So we've been going back and forth about hanging out. Recently I've been telling him that he's really not interested in me. Yet he insists that he is and that he's just busy with work. I'm thinking about just blocking him.

Ive always wanted to do this I don't have friends don't get to socialize I'm just stuck at home all day unless my boyfriend is free to take me grocery shopping. I don't have a car. He works like 24/7 traveling making sales, so it's me and my daughter can't walk anywhere there's nothing around. So does anyone know of any thing that's safe to meet ppl online.

One of my former classmates wants to sign just a 3 month lease from Jan-March. My lease ends in Oct of 2019 but I may be moving out of state before then, so ideally I would like to find someone who wants to take over the lease. He doesn t want the responsibility of finding a roommate and staying long-term. He also wants to start re-decorating my apartment. I bought an external 2 x5 pantry and he demanded counter space for storage of appliances, which I don t really have because the kitchen is tiny. My friend says he keeps things out all over the counter to the point where there is hardly any room. His last 2 roommates also said he would keep a chore chart and tally whenever he did stuff and would expect stuff done for him in return. They also got into a fight once because he wanted to bring over a girl and have the other 2 roommates leave for the evening. They were both fed up with him and were anxious for the lease to end. I ve never had a roommate so I don t know if this is just normal stuff you put up with or if I should keep looking?

I was very nervous when I saw my crush at a restaurant. I went into the bathroom to calm down my heart, I was unsure what's going to happen so I told my friends I wanted to leave but that was my nerves talking. When I came back from the bathroom I was a lot more comfortable being around him. However my friends started talking crap about him, threatening to beat him up, made fun of his clothes and hair, called him an asshole and I deserve better. They never stopped making fun of him and talking crap about him. They claimed they were worried about me and looking after me. But talking crap, making fun of him, and threatening to beat him up does not show me they were looking after me and worried about me. I felt like I was with a bunch of middle schoolers but my friends are in their early 20s and I'm 30 years old. If I was worried about a friend I would comfort them and ask them if they are okay. I would NEVER sit around a table and start sh*t talking about a person, making fun of them, and threatening to beat them up cause I'm not rude and I'm not childish

My husband works with a guy who's wife tried to be my friend. She'd go out of her way to cook for us and buy us drinks but I realized she just tried to buy friends. I recently found out how she really is, and though she never did anything directly to me, she's fake. She is in an open relationship with her husband ******* our roommate and god who knows who else. She also doesn't have custody of any of her kids and said she would have aborted this last kid if it wasn't with the man she was with. She has stole clothes from someone I know. And the main thing SHE ACTS TOO NICE. Just comes off as fake. I began to ignore her and her messages and she told our roommate about it. I have suspicion that our roommate listened in on my husband and I talking when we thought he wasn't there and went back and told her which honestly I don't care everything I said was the truth. Well I had messaged her and said I've just been busy and I hope it didn't ruin our friendship but now, knowing our little piece of **** roommate went back and told her probably I just want to clear up that I do think she's just too nice and comes off as fake. I don't want to be the one that talks **** but says the opposite to their face. It's bugging the hell out of me. I'm no better than her. Should I even message her again or no? Also, this girl has made our roommate diss all of his friends, even his best friend from 10 years ago and he's barely known these people. I get bad vibes from them.

I am best friends with this lady, shes older than me but we have had a special bond for years. We talk every day, she likes to call multiple times a day (and I love it) i love talking to her, she makes me happy (vise versa). I have a great love for her, she does for me too, but sometimes it brings a littl efear in me. Im scared I will lose her.. She calls me every day/all day and we talk for hours, but sometimes I feel like I annoy her (she still calls though. With me feeling like im annoying, i find myself wanting to detach myself from her, so i won't be in her way anymore. She has never said I was in her way but I feel like it.. I tried not talking to her or answering her phone calls this weekend and it worked for 3 days but I found myself answering her call today. Its hard detaching myself from her, I love her.. any advice? Do you think its best for me to try and un-attach myself from our great friendship

Yesterday I invited my friend to come to a bar with me and my new boyfriend. My friend was really negative all night from the minute he joined us and horrible about everything, I was actually so embarrassed over his behaviour and even my boyfriend noticed this. Me and my boyfriend started kissing and cuddling later on. After a few minutes he started playing on his phone and ignoring me when I started to make conversation with him. Then he gets his coat and said he was going home shortly after this. He said goodbye to my boyfriend and barely even said anything to me. Why did he do this?

So I have been best mates with this guy for three years, we met at university/college and for the three years of university/college we were pretty inseparable. However, recently he keeps calling a mate of his from back home his "best friend", he has been friends with this guy for longer then with me since he was a kid, but I find it hurtful that everytime he mentions this guy he always refers to him as his best friend. Just wondering if I should say something? Should have added that he has now left university and I am still here but we do still see each other regularly and speak to each other on video games Is it normal for me to feel hurt? Or am I just being a child about the whole thing?

So for a while now since our first semester of college started I've been driving my friend to and from school. We both have the same classes and before the semester started the friend asked if I would give them a ride. I said yes because I wanted to be nice, but it's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm in too deep. In order to pick up my friend I have to rearrange my route and it's getting to the point where i don't eat breakfast in order to rush and pick this friend up. At times my friend critiques my driving. Sometimes they want me to take them to the bank, which isn't that bad since it's in the direction that we both need to go. I have to began to feel like I'm the only one responsible for getting my friend to and from school everyday. Never once does my friend arrange for family members to pick them up or drive them places. And it seems like her family doesn't seem to care. My friend seems to not be making any advances in getting a car also. I ask for gas money every once in a while, but Im not the type to ask people for money. At this point I don't know how to bring it up to my friend that I don't want to keep driving them. I value our friendship and I don't mind taking them every once in a while, but I can't keep up with having to alter my morning schedule to make sure I get them to school on time and deal with having to fill up my tank more often. So I came in here to get some advice

I'm a 15 yr old girl and I don't have any friends. When my family and I go to gatherings or outside I wear makeup and want my hair to look nice. However my mum tells me "Why do you wear makeup? You don't have any friends to look at you." This makes me feel upset. Just because I have no friends, does that really mean I should go places looking ugly with no confidence, because of the mere fact no one looks at me? This confuses me, so is it okay to put effort into your appearance even if you have no friends?

I realized I have no plans for this upcoming week - last week I had an awesome time with one of my smaller friend groups. I spent 30 hours with them, but somehow I was not tired. I got home and spent some time alone and now since the new week is here, I feel uncomfortable thinking I have nothing to do. I have texted that friend group as well as a couple others and I have either received one word responses, people saying no, or no response. Yes, I do respect that my friends have lives outside of hanging out with me. And that's not really why I'm upset. It's just that some people chose not to explain and left me on read. IK they left me on read because they were on Instagram and read my messages hours ago. Are they annoyed by me? I don't think I did anything to get on their nerves. I feel like everyone is running away from me, even though I am very kind towards them. What can I do?

I've seen a photo of a girl who I've had a really bad falling out with over 15 years ago on one of our mutual friends' photo on Facebook and this was the comment I've posted on her photo "Good times with wonderful people! Anyone who knows her is very blessed and privileged because she is one of the most kindest, sweetest and inspirational people I've ever met, the world would be a much better place if more people were as kind as her" I want her to know that I've forgiven her for what happened over 15 years ago and would like to make amends with her on Facebook.

I was at a slumber party that was supposed to be all girls. Once boys started showing up and people started drinking and smoking I wanted to leave. My Leslie told me that me and her could just stay in her room if I felt uncomfortable. I agreed and when she stepped out to get us drinks she came back with 3 guys and locked the door from the outside when I tried to leave. The guys were holding my arms and touching me all over. I was fighting them off when I was able to break free and started banging on the door yelling for help. My friend from the outside kicked the door in and the 3 boys let me go. I quickly got my stuff and my friend took me home. It's been 3 days and I'm still as scared. I left the sleepover crying, hair messy with my shirt ripped, the boys said I wanted it and just acted like that so people wouldn't think I'm a slut and my friend is telling everyone that I told her to send the boys. I'd tell a teacher but I don't think they would believe me, 2 of the boys are star athletes and athletes are praised in my school. Please help, I don't even want to go to school anymore.

I'm a packer fan and this bet I made with a viking fan. The bet was the packers had to win at home win in Minnesota and win the division. That first game of the packer vs viking game they tied. It was in green bay. He said I lost the bet but this whole time I've been saying I should still have the game in Minnesota because they didn't win. Yes the bet was a 3 way bet and I'm a big packer fan. I did pay him already because he kept on bitching saying he won. Yes the bet was the packers had to win at home, win in Minnesota and win the division. They tied the 1st game and he saying he won the bet. Yet I'm thinking they tied so I really should have 2 more chances. I already paid him so he can shut up. I just know I will never do a bet with him again.

I have a thing going on with extremely annoying friends. Either they are making sexual noises, ranting about communism, or new world order, being bossy, and fighting constantly. Does anyone else have strange friends like this, or am I just unlucky?

I recently was invited to my friends house party for Halloween. I am 28, but my coworker friend is 21. It's going to be a house party and I know it will be people around her age. I know there will be alcohol and drinking games. I'm just wondering if I'm too old to go? Or should I go?

The girl I like who does like me back, has her birthday this upcoming Wednesday. She has a very unique and beautiful name, Dima. She's Arabic. I went to Anthropologie clothing store and got her an alphabet necklace with the letter, "D," for her first name and then a pair of earrings. I then went to get her a birthday card that I already know what I'll write in it. I just hope she finds what the gifts sweet and thoughtful. She's management at our job (she's one of my direct supervisors along with her sister although it's a secret from her sister that we like each other) and we're very secret flirting with each other at work. We haven't gone on an official date since we do have different days off and she sleeps way earlier than me like 8 and 9 pm (she lives with family). We've talked things out and she knows I'll always be nice to her even if we can't offically date.

So my friend suggested we make dinner together. That morning she texted asking if we could reschedule to which I said sure, assuming something important came up. Later that day I saw on her Snapchat she's hanging out with other people. Am I overreacting in being kinda pissed now? She didn't even apologize. :/

Im having problems with my parents im a high school student and i want a social life with my friends and boyfriend but i go to my ranch every weekend and barely get to spend time with them. I never get to hangout weekdays because of school and homework. And my friends never invite me anymore to hangout and when i invite them to my ranch they never want to go. I do have a horse at my ranch that i ride but its hard because i dont have the barn environment others have because im always with my mom and i have no friends to ride with out there. I cant go out there during the weekdays because of school and its on hour away. What do i do?

This weekend is my birthday, and I've had stuff planned for the weekend for about two weeks. My friends and I were going to hit up an amusement park on Sunday because we also had stuff planned on Saturday. I'm not sure if I should invite my best friend to the amusement park because she doesn't know my friends and the girl doesn't know how to socialize with anyone but me. I ******* love her and want her to be with me but I don't want everyone to feel uncomfortable. Pls help

I'm 18 and and I was on my board skating with my friends and there were also girls I know there and a lot of people I know and out of nowhere this 15 year old kid I barely know shoved me off my board and I fell to the ground and was in shock and felt and I just started bawling uncontrollably in front of everyone almost immediately, I couldn't believe it was happening so I couldn't stop and just kept bawling and everyone was shocked and confused and then he he got on top of me and me and I did nothingt and could barely speak and I ended up saying "I'm sorry, I'm sorry please get off me and he hit me in the face once and I just laid there screaming and crying harder and my friends threw him off after a minute because I think they were so shocked to see me like that and that I didn't even defend myself and then him and his friends ran off and I just couldn't stop bawling in front of everyone I was so humiliated girls were watching and friends who couldn't believe I was on the ground bawling and now I'm afraid of what everyone thinks of me. I could tell how shocked my guy friends were that this 15 year old caused me to be on the ground screaming like a ***** and that the girls who thought I was cute were turned off and now idk what to do