I'm 20 female and because of the way i look and dress everyone has the impression i'm too cool for "nerdy things" as they imply. But because I look younger then my original age people don't believe that i don't smoke or drink alcohol and always getting me to join them, but it's not mycup of tea. I'm not interested in fitting the crowd. I'm me, i don't get peer pressured easily.But despite the way i look i always wanted to go to japan to travel for the experience of language, culture and mainly anime. I'm learning on my own and have found it fun and interesting! I love romantic comedy Manga love love love them, i go crazy!! So i'm really excited but i wish i could go with a group of friends also. Most of my friends are not interested and some say stuff like "ew","why?","you're weird". Because like i mentioned they get a shock from my appearance to my actual self. But i am not afraid to show my true self, luckily they haven't left my side. And i'm going next year to japan 2020 with my husband (who also doesn't have a big interest in it but supports me.) But i still wonder... Is there someone (a female close to my age) who also enjoys it as much that i can meet? (I can never understand how youtubers get so many friends alike to trip with them.) If so please don't be afraid to hmu or comment any of your social media. I hope we get along. Thank you for reading :) Ps. (Please do not refer a meeting friend app, people just get the wrong idea there)

He's annoying/clingy/needy/makes big fuss of little things/claims 2b great w/ social cues, yet he doesnt notice wen i want him 2 leave me alone/when i just dont wanna talk. Everytime he wants 2get my attention, he reaches over 2 my side + taps my desk. I Feels like he's slamming his hand down every time he wants 2get my attention, EVERY time. And usually he either seems 2 complain bout his life/make fuss about how much u mean 2 him/complement u too much. He's the type that shows too much affection towards a person way too fast. Like if he feels comfortable with you, he may over share. W/ that said, He seems 2 have the type of depression that some use to get attention. (This is where the over-sharing comes in) So every time he says something like "my friends are the only reason im alive right now" or wen a teacher asks a question for students to call out an answer, he sometimes blurts "depression!" in a joking tone. N just a couple days ago wen he went for a fist bump and i happened 2 decline, and he proceeds to say that it was more painful getting rejected by me cuz im uually one of the nice people. Bit dramatic over a fist bump. But wen help is offered, he declines. I dont wanna hurt him but this friendship isn't workin out. He needs someone who will make him feel good n i dont feel good with him. How do i confront him about this problem and cut the friendship without sounding too harsh? And how do i make sure he gets the help he needs, should i inform my school couselor?

My parents put me into a huge high school with a lot of different feeder schools leading into it, so everyone already has their friend group except for me. I went to a private school from preschool through 8th grade and all of my friends I made were there. But now that we have all separate into different high schools, they have new friends that they hangout with. While as they are my only friends. Please help me I don't know what to do.

I'm a freshman trying to beat the seniors in a timetrial so I can get some play time. The coach said run 8 down and backs in 1min, then you're done. But, if you fail, then you have to rerun once more. I tried really hard, but I missed it by two seconds, but only two seniors made it, so it wasn't too embarrassing. As soon as I crossed, I just projectile vomited. I wiped my face then lined up for my next sprints, but a junior said "you gotta tell coach." Of course I wasn't thinking and went and told coach, he said to go find a janitor. When I got to the janitor, he was on the phone, so it took 5min to tell him. When I got back, the team had already went into the locker room. I told coach I was sorry it took so long to get the janitor, and that I owed him 8. I asked if he wanted me to do them now or next practice, and he just said I can get him later.

My bro is 20 and he's been playing a video game where he met 2 girls who are 20 and a guy who is 46. He's planning to meet with them all at Disneyland since they all got 'close'. They literally met on a kids game and it makes me wonder what a 46 year old MAN is doing playing a DISNEY GAME. He was saying they were all planning on getting a hotel room and he will have to share a room with the freaking guy. What kind of 46 year old has anything in common with 20 year olds? The 46 year old apparently said he's married and has kids. Like is your wife freaking cool with you hanging out with 20 year olds? If that's even true?! Apparently he's only seen pictures of all of them too and no videos and when he asks they said no. And the girls are supposingly 'flying out' to meet at Disneyland and the 46 year old will be picking him up FROM HIS HOUSE. Why would you even give a stranger your address? Plus I'd like to mention, the 46 year old is paying for him, Disneyland and the hotel and everything. Wtf? Could this be me just tripping? Apparently my brother told him he can pay him back when he gets a job. I know those kind of people go on those sites to lure out NAIVE people and he isn't listening to me saying 'he knows it's gonna be okay'.

I was told that smiling with teeth is natural

Or is it just me who've experienced this

today my friends slapped and touched my stomach and they said i was "getting a beer gut" im on the skinny side and my metabolism is fast but this really hurts me because i was always insecure about my belly they said it was just a joke and im slim and i know they wouldn't lie, but idk im offended *but im offended

This might sound like a weird question but I was wondering what are some examples of some weird friendships between females? The reason I'm asking this is because my friend that's a lot older than me does not make sense sometimes when she says things and one time when me and her were talking on the phone she was keeping her granddaughter and her granddaughter asked a question and then there was just silence so I thought that was weird so do these things seem weird?

i have an android that wont make anny sounds wut so ever TBH i erased files that i shouldint have oooof so i think i scrude my phone over plss tell me my phone is ok bc i cant wach youtube it buffers so much and there is no sounds plss help me!!!

There's a time limit to where solitude is healthy but I'm getting too comfortable with solitude and it's depressing. I'm getting bullied for being different and sometimes I want to go ranted on them but it's hard to open up when I'm too comfortable.

So me (21 and Female) and my other female friend are attending a house party of a friends and we were invited. I'm scared though, what usually happens at these parties? Is their fights or drugs? Or sex? I don't want to be raped.

I am a white boy, however we live in mixed race society and I am friends with allot of black people. I noticed that my black friends call each other niga and homie and i kind of felt left out and felt like the odd one in their company. I decided i need to blend in with my friends so one day i greeted them by "Sup ma nigas". They all looked at me with anger and then beat me to a plup ! Why did they do this when i called them a niga but it is fine if they call each other niga ??????

So at the beginning of school I befriended someone, but later I got into a friend group and it's been a little awkward. I honestly really like my friend group, but every lunch my friend comes up to me and asks if I want to move to her table with some of other people including a friend I had before coming to school. Once or twice I left my group to talk with her and they clearly thought it was a little weird that I just left them. I like her but I also like my group, and it's not only weird leaving them but I don't even know if her table would even want me there this far into the school year. Thanks for listening

I'm 15. The girls in my friend group have been talking about going to a nude beach this weekend. It's got black sand, with a famous sunrise view, so even I was excited. Then everyone started talking about if they would get naked or not. All of the girls said they would, or at least lose their tops. There's only one guy in our our group, he just kind of shrugged about it. I don't really care about being topless in front of the general public if it's a nude beach where I don't know anyone. But I'm uncertain because of the guy. It's not like I don't trust him, he's probably the only guy my age that I DO trust, but that's why I'm nervous. He's my best friend, who cheers me up, makes me laugh, respects me...but still. I've never been topless around a boy before. See, I like relaxing at the beach but I never go into the water, and he's the same way. So we're probably going to wind up hanging out by ourselves a lot. I've also got very large breasts, with classmates often staring and commenting even when I'm clothed. (Plus they tend to bounce a lot when I walk.) Most of my friends are petite or totally flat, and I know that if his eyes are drawn to anyone, it'll be me, the token Latina girl with 34DDs in our group of white friends I mean I want to do it, I do. It seems exciting, especially if the other girls do it too. But would it change anything between me and my friend? Would it make things weird? I don't want to ruin things with the one guy who makes me smile these days...

So I will try to keep this as short as possible. It's not going to be all that short but thanks for reading. The girl in like totally in love with is bi. When I met her she was already talking to her ex who is a girl. I found out she thought I was cute and everything like that and actually well she told me herself. So I tried to see if it would lead anywhere. I wasn't intentionally trying to fall for her at all honestly. I was hurt a few years ago really bad and wasn't really able to recover properly for a long time. And I ended another relationship because of that last November. So here's my dilemma. She says she is interested in me but at the same time wants to try to fix things with her ex. She is very hot and cold. She went from being more hot than anything too hot and cold too cold and every once in awhile hot. We've talked about it and everything like that and part of the problem is every relationship she's ever had with a guy has been terrible and she's been abused physically or mentally or both every time. So she does not have trust in guys at all. I've known her for just a few months now. But I've like totally fallen for her. We see each other literally like everyday but and just seems to not go anywhere anymore. Like she's pushing me away. More below

Two years ago I moved across the country and have never made a good group of friends because I have social anxiety, let alone have I met any boys. I moved school in April to an all girls school. I haven't met any friends that are my people. I know people who could be my friends, I just don't know how to approach them or anything. I also have never had a boyfriend. Everyone is having their first times & whatever and I don't even know any boys. Not one. It's even more difficult because I go to an all girls school. I know that there are people I'd like to befriend but I cannot start a conversation to save my life. I just want friends. I want to start taking pills to lessen my anxiety but I know my mum won't allow it. I honestly don't know what to do I feel stuck

im a seventh grade girl and i recently moved an hour or two away from where i lived before. I really really miss a ton of my friends from there! i don't want to drift apart! but i don't ever get time to see them!! :(((((( anythink that might help?

One of my best friends (both of us are girls) has been annoying me a lot lately. She is always poking me and does it repeatedly. It's been going on for years but it's really starting to annoy me now. I tell her to stop and she can clearly see that I am annoyed but doesn't stop. She also does it in public and it just pisses me off because I'm just trying to walk around and there she is just poking me. She also grabs onto me a lot too and like I just want my personal space. Some people might say "oh it's cause she likes you" or something like that but I know she does it just to annoy me. So I don't know what I should do.

Basically,i'm going to travel from Spain to Uk to visit my older brother,and the distance from his house to the airport is about to 52km. I was conformed to just pay a taxi/uber to there,until a friend of my brother (that I only know from facebook) said that he could get someone to give me a lift on that night but to not tell my brother because it would be a surprise (?). I told this to my brother but he said he has trust on his friend and theres no problem. But... well,i'm curious about what people outside of the situation think about this. I'm a grown up,but still a woman and I never saw the guys... Thanks in advance.

may I ask your opinion on something? I am a 21 year old girl who was at Mardi Gras new orleans with an 18 year old emo boy(by emo I mean he looks more like an emo girl, skinny with long black hair and mascara). We were doing a photo project. We had 1 horse and I sat on it while the he walked the whole 4 hours. The crowd is Horrible to walk through, people step on your feet, the horse steps on the feet of the one walking (the boy). The Horse stepped on the boy's feet few times, and ran over him once, pushing him on the ground, which was dirty with beer cans etc. Didn't hurt him severely, his feet hurt for about 10mins and he had to rest on the ground. I am more experienced controlling this horse. Even though I got him a few times last year, I think it would be worse for me walking, as he is not as experienced with this horse. Plus the drunken men are all over me if I walk. They don't mess with me if I'm on the horse. Im not sure weather to let him ride(he is whining about it) ,what should I do this time? There is 1 horse (saddled western), it can only carry 1 of us, and we cant switch on and off either because of the crowd. Its a 4 hour night. He can ride while I walk, or I can sit on the horse and He can walk on the ground, which one would you do? its a long walk and we both want to ride, he is an 18 old boy 5'7" 115 pounds (who has signed a release form) and Im a 21 yr old girl, about the same height 125 pounds. Which of us should ride the horse and which of us should walk?

There's someone whose birthday is coming up. The thing is we haven't seen each other in a year and our last conversation was an argument. It was pretty bad between us. Tbh I don't even think they remember I exist. We go way back to a few years ago. Should you still wish someone happy birthday even though you are mad at each other? We're not friends anymore and probably won't be who knows, but still if you remember their birthday should you still say it? If anything it's only a text message saying happy birthday because I currently do not know their location. I can't say it in person is what I'm saying.

Hi! I'm 15 years old and I have a few Internet friends. One of those is my boyfriend. However, I get super pissy with everyone besides my boyfriend and in real life friends. I don't know why!! I don't believe it's hormones but??

Last weekend we were sitting in her bedroom we got bored she said let's play wrestling, I told her sure and we started. As we are playing normally she came to carry me to slam me on the bed, so out of nowhere she placed her fingers on my pussy moving her fingers like holding my pussy with her fingers she carried me and I was wearing soft short shorts with no underwere. I felt her fingers pushing my pussy as I'm over her head she kept me in the air moving and pressing her fingers on my pussy which was tickling me. So at this point I started to get wet in her fingers and she felt me getting wet on her fingers for sure, so then she dropped me on the bed on my stomach and started to rub my butt, then placed her hand down my butt between my thighs and pushed her hand into my pussy from behind and raised my body with while she is holding my pussy tightly. So I was on her thighs like semi air on my stomach she said this is a pin try to move and pressed her fingers firmly on my pussy between my thighs from behind I couldn't move and my pussy was tickling me when I move as she is pressing her fingers on it I just laughed , So then she started pressing on my pussy and stopping repeating it she did that for so long which made me wet she could feel my pussy directly cuz I'm wearing short shorts with no underwere. I felt her fingers touching me so after a while she stopped and I went to change my sleeping clothes thinking about it is that normal thing from her to do ? Why did she do that?