She neglected to mention that she is currently married. So this whole time I've been her side piece. When I confronted her about it she told me to f off it's not my business since we aren't dating. But the thing is it bothers me knowing I have been sleeping with a married woman who never explained to me why I never see her husband. If I had known I would have looked for another fwb one who is single. Should I have minded my own business?

Me and my wife are loyal to each other, financially my business (OUR business, as of our marriage) is pretty successful. but the problem is lately things have gotten boring. My wife often has a depressed, miserable, cold, dead fish look in her eyes. Like she doesn't wanna be here and she's just biding her time until her green card gets here or whatever. Sometimes she's excited or happy but often she's not. And it's not just her resting face, it's like a depressed annoyed look. She didn't used to. For me, I'm also often bored. I didn't used to be monogamous until her, I've been faithful to her for our entire marriage of over a year but I'm also pretty bored with that. Also, i feel like she's cheating on me, but I can't prove it. When I mentioned today that we're as of now separated and I want a divorce, my wife at first was like "fine! I agree!" And acted annoyed but relieved. Then she broke down and started crying. Her behavior is erratic and weird. Why does she act so hysterically sad about breaking up but at first, act happy and glad? Also I lost a lot of friends since getting married, and also since I stopped smoking weed a couple years ago and also lost a lot since I stopped drinking 3 years ago and I stopped talking to friends who were bums/bad influences. I feel like I need some time to myself to rebuild. My wife wants to visit family in Portugal and I'm totally fine with her going. She keeps hesitating on buying the tickets and then hysterically blames me.

even have any chemistry between them! What a dull, boring, dead marriage! I have a feeling they don't even sleep in the same bedroom! That marriage is so over.

This is someone is work with day in-day out, matter fact, I had coffee with him earlier. He's never crossed the line nor indicated that he wants to date me or finds me attractive. Is it possible he didn't really notice it was me? I have only one photo, but for anyone with half decent vision, I look exactly like my photo... including the eyewear I have. Is it possible he didn't even realize it was me? How is that possible? Please advise me!

As a 19 year old, the idea of exchanging body fluids and risking getting pregnant and/or an STD, scares the living **** out of me. The fact that it "feels good", is not enough to make me interested. I am not a religious person. I am not one of those people who are "waiting for marriage", because in this day-in-age, people do not respect their marriages. Therefore, your risk of getting and STD is the same as when you were single and unmarried. Does anyone else feel this way? I honestly do not see myself having sex in the near future or ever.

I'm single and she is about 20+years older than me and married for many years. We became friends on Facebook and began to message each other daily. I enjoy our conversations. There is a little flirting but nothing serious. I believe that she also enjoys our chats. I asked her if her husband knows about me and she said yes. My question is, do you think that it is wrong for us to be chatting with each other?

Isn't stable just another word for conforming to a standard and not allowing any flexibility? Because flexibility would make things unstable right? Doesn't stable mean firm or strict or structure or hardened or unmovable? So basically a stable marriage would be one grounded in religion right? And a stable home would be a home grounded in authoritarian hurricane power right? You know, when a person with a brain breaks down all the words that we accept in Psychology, the roots of where they come from are exposed.

Me and my husband have been for 3 years. He just told me that he cheated on me 2 years into our marriage.

So basically, I think my dad might be cheating on my mom. Recently ( past 6 months), I've noticed a few hints that might suggest this. - He goes out EVERY NIGHT. There is not a day where he stays home. After work around 7pm, he comes home, showers, then leaves, claiming he's going to a friend's house. - He's constantly on his phone texting. He knows quite a few people, but he never puts it down and he doesn't like to share any info. When asked who he is talking to, he just says "no one. just a guy from work." - He spends a lot of money. When he goes out at night, sometimes he "eats out with friends". The card is under a shared account with my mom so she can see the history. It will show expensive bills sometimes, which is annoying because she makes more money than him, yet he is always spending it. But often she'll ask why it cost so much, and he says he was just covering for a friend. - The biggest one of all : Today I drove home from school during a break, which I usually don't. But when I got there I noticed an unfamiliar car parked in front. I went in and my dad was laying on the couch with the dog, and there was a woman sitting on the couch near him. So they weren't actually doing anything, but what made me uncomfortable was my dad was shirtless (he usually is at home) and he never dresses like that in front of other people. When I asked who she was, he said "Oh it's my ex coworkers wife. I gotta help her out with her car."

So I am a married guy and there is a young girl who just moved into our neighborhood. She is attractive and I know my wife has seen her many times and my wife basically told me to avoid her and don't say hi to her. I am a friendly guy so Its kind of hard but I don't want to fight with my wife so I listened to her and i don't say hi. I don't know if my wife feels threatened by her looks or she sees her as competition because she never has anything good to say about her and It's kind of annoying because we don't even know this girl who just moved in. Lately my wife has been dressing up really sexy and I don't mind it but this started ever since the girl moved into our neighborhood. What I basically want to know is why do women behave this way? I am a faithful guy but I feel like women can be so competitive and mean towards each other for no reason. Maybe my wife thinks I am going to leave her which is far from true

Self explanatory. The woman is my gf and i want her to move to US on a fiancee visa

Everyday it's the same routine: 5AM – I wake up, use the restroom, let the dog out, get started on breakfast, make coffee, take shower, do my make-up, get dressed, warm up my car, fix the bed, feed the dogs and cats. 6AM – he wakes up, uses the restroom, takes a shower, gets dress, make coffee, heads to work. I do: the dishes, sweep, mop, make dinner, play with the dogs, laundry, put laundry away, buy the groceries, unload/organize groceries. I buy the little things (trash bags, light bulbs, ect), I clean the carpets, dust, clean the bathroom… I think you get the idea. I do almost everything and still make time to listen to his day, to give him the best positive advice. I am there for all of his family functions (he is not for mine). We have just a few bills: Light (he pays). Water, Internet, TV (I Pay). Why am I living with someone when I do everything for them and myself without getting anything in return. All I want is for him to show he loves me, get me just because flowers, take me on an elaborate/planned out extravagant date or vacation. Make me feel like a queen rather than enslaved Cinderella. He has accepted my faults and made sure I don't over step his boundaries. He wants me to hold him, to rub him but I am just so tired and want to sleep (but he watches TV so loud in the bedroom) hasn't changed in 13 yrs.

My husband met me with a childhood and adulthood addiction to porn and sex. I am disabled and have chronic pain and was raped/sexually abused as a child/teen. He will keep me up all night satisfying himself with my body and could care less if it causes me pain or not. Today he did it and I cried the whole time because of how much it hurt and he didnt even stop or care. He is a Bible thumper and claims that he has Biblical immunity because of me being a bad wife. He will just cheat if I dont give in he says. Is this normal? And counselors or pastors dont help either, they kicked us out.

My man and I have been together for 15 years. We've live in a house together and have an 11 year old daughter. We are happy together with an issue hear and there because no one is perfect. However, he is a good man and is always there for me. Everyone seems to wonder when or if we will ever get married. Since we are not married I feel it's ok for me to flirt with other men. My best friend lives in another city that's a few hours away. So whenever I go to visit her I stay the night or sometimes the weekend. While hanging out with her I've met a guy whom I'm very attracted to and flirt with a lot. People have seen us dancing and flirting in public. Some say it's considered cheating and disrespectful to my relationship. We aren't married and it doesn't seem like we'll be getting married soon so how is it cheating. I haven't slept the other guy although he is pushing me to. Is this cheating and should I stop enjoying flirting with other men?

My wife is the "take charge and do what your religious upbringing tells you that you should be doing" approach to anger management. When she's mad, she will take out her morality and her abusive upbringing and the inner ghetto b*tch will come out. She's also the kind of person to completely block you out of her life if she sees you as a threat or as the problem. So basically, she uses her anger to feel empowered and strong. She will name call, repeat herself nonstop to silence you, and she will use laws/norms to control you. I use my anger to try to prove my point stronger and harder than I did before. So when she goes into fortress of solitude mode, it forces me to bring out the bigger and stronger guns. I don't get physical but I'll bring up the past, cuss, and I will raise my voice. Anything to get her attention and tell her she's acting like an idiot when she takes charge and forces the family down HER path of righteousness and force us to obey HER order. Clearly there's nothing I can do to fix her, she's going to take charge and she's going to do things HER way (which she thinks is the RIGHT way 999 times out of 1000). So my strategy to "fight her" isn't working; no, it's never worked. She takes charge of the entire situation and she blocks out everyone so she gets her way. It's like a spoiled baby who learned how got her carry license; she's not afraid to use heat if she needs to just to get her way. I need help. Should I just surrender? She refuses therapy.

I have an issue I can't seem to get my wife or step-son to understand. My 23 year old step son has a 2.5 year old daughter by a girl. He gets visitation with her every other weekend. My wife and I get along with the girl and a number of her extended family. Her father, mother, and aunt. Well, lately, we have been hearing that they don't want the grandma to see the baby. The girl's dad has called me a few times saying not to let his ex-wife see the baby. When I pick up my granddaughter for her weekend visits me and the aunt will always talk. Very friendly, of course. And she will tell me that her sister has some problems. The baby's momma has even said that she doesn't want her mom to see the baby. It's not my place to find out why. That's their family drama. For a while grandma was allowed to see the baby and spend time with her but for some reason now they don't want her to. Ok, my step-son has been in contact with the grandma and he said that he doesn't have a problem with the grandma so when he gets her for his weekend visit he's going to allow the grandma to come get the baby for a little while. I told my wife that I didn't think that was the best idea. We shouldn't get involved in their family drama for what ever reason. My wife thinks it shouldn't be a problem if he wants to let the other grandma see the baby. It's his weekend and he can do whatever he wants. I told my wife that it would be a different situation if the baby's mom was saying she didn't want her daughter to go visit the father's mother. However, in this case she's saying she doesn't want her own mother to see the baby. Again, my wife and step-son feel they should ignore her family's request and just allow her grandma an opportunity to see her granddaughter. I say this could cause a ripple affect if they girl finds out that he let her daughter see her grandma, much less, she comes and gets her for a few hours. It's not like he's saying "you can come to our house and you can visit with her here." No, he's going to allow her to come pick her up tomorrow night and let her spend the night with her at her house. If baby momma finds out then she could possibly say, "well, since you went against my wishes now you don't get to get her on the weekends anymore." No, they don't have a formal visitation arrangement in place. Why won't my wife and step-son just honor the request of the mom instead of thinking they know what's best for the baby and allow the other grandma to have visitation?

So i recently got married with my now husband and a few months later found out he cheated on me with her, so i moved out. so I found her on Facebook and realized she's married, I have pictures of my husband and them together, would you get in contact with him and send him the pics or just leave it alone. Don't know what to do?

Within the past year my wife and I have had major financial issues that we are taking care of, but will take time. It's taken it's toll on me. I want to be positive as my family is still healthy and we have a great time together. I don't want this to beat me and live my best life while my kids are still young and I have a good marriage. Thx

When ever my girl friend ignores me or gives silent treatment I end up chasing her for approval and put all my efforts to make her happy.But when i am upset with her for something she doesnt care and doesnt make an effort to reconcile the way i do and starts ignoring me moreDoes she love even love me.Please guide and advice me what should id do.Thanks

He seems to have lost some of his manhood so to speak...his coolness.

We married for 7 weeks after dating for about a year. One day she decided to walk out on me due to some serious issues i was having with her brothers and father. The world fell down on me; at first i was so stupid to call all the hospitals and cops, then it hit me. There was noway to make her reason by phone, she acted like a spoiled brat all the time, not her usual cause she always sounded more mature than her age ( im 41 and she's 23 ). I filed for divorce, lost alot of money etc and now she says she wants to come back. Is this some sort of sick joke ? Her parents dont want to talk to me from day one. The divorce is in its final stage and she ain't getting a dime and i've asked for compensation and the judge seems to be on my side after hearing my story. What should i do now ?

I was talking to this really cute guy at my college. I was bragging about how I could make him *** in 3 minutes and swallow it. He laughed and said "you like to deep throat huh, you know how to work it"? Please help.

I m 27, i live in London and I ve been to university studying business and i m happy in work now. I ve been watching porn since i was 14 and even though I ve been with 26 women in my life i have to admit that i prefer to masturbate watching porn than having sex with a real woman, is this bad?