My ex wife came out as a lesbian a couple years ago she left me for her girlfriend who she's been with for a while. Me and her have 2 kids together she's pregnant with her 3rd baby since they're both girls I don't see how she got pregnant. At least she's nice enough to let me see our daughters. She and her girlfriend just got engaged last week. Even though im married and have a kid with her a and is having another one should I be mad at her ?

It s making me depressed. I m currentally in a group project with them and so it s not like I could just walk away. Every time I say something or do something they just find away to make it sound bad and exclude me. Even after this project it s not like I could find new friends because I go to a relatively small highschool and the friends you have is the freinds you got. What can I do?

so basically last night I went to a small party and got drunk for the first time, and it is safe to say it wasn't a pretty sight, i was saying so much embarrassing and mean stuff, I was vomiting by 10:30pm and i dont remember this but i asked to have a shower so my friends showered me and i went to bed straight after this of which i passed out. I'm just embarrassed to face all of my friends because i just dont want to talk about it i just want to move on and forget about it because it is a moment that im not very proud of and im really embarrassed about the fact that i asked to have a shower and so they showered me, and i am also embarrassed about the fact that i was vomiting sooooo much, i dont know what to do! is my story really that embarrassing? like I don't know, and can someone say something to make me feel better about the situation, TIA

We're 15. He's currently only an internet friend and we've only talked online, but we might meet soon. Today I asked him if he was bi. He read it, it took him awhile to answer and then he asked whether it's important. He then told me that he doesn't want to answer this question. And the REASON I asked was because I was a somewhat suspicious that he is, so I asked it. This and the fact that he gave an inconclusive answer to a simple question pretty much answers it, doesn't it ? Since a straight person would immediately say no. I have nothing against bi people

I never got this.

So I met up with my friends today and one of my other friends was late and when she got there, she saw me talking to this guy and said in a sarcastic way 'oh it's typical of you always talking to people. You were always the one who at school everyone had to shut up for talking so much' Then she said the same thing when another guy said bye to me on the way out. Then when we were hanging out she kept taking pictures and videos of me and then showed me the videos laughing and it made me feel really self-conscious. Then at the end she said 'you were always the one wearing nice dresses and looking regal and now what's happened?' Why did she want to make me feel so self-conscious?

i love a girl a tonn but she got hurt by some ex friends of mine that i kicked out years ago. they pulled a prank where they gave me a condom on my 18th birthday and it was a stupid prank and i got mad at them and told them that i dont like that. i punshed them for it. but when i told my loved one about it she exploded and everything went to so bad that litterly to the point where my loved one and her friend that is now gone told me to kill myself and that i didnt deseverve to live even when the prank wasnt something i could prevent. and to this day still hear its my fault and such. she is a heart transplant and i know they cant have sex and i dont wnat sex either but now she thinks i want sex constnatnly. told she says i do stuff when i dont and says stuff i dont like. like that i have sex when i never have, gets confused so much of things when i even tell the truth. she says to leave my best friend or that she leaves. my friend helped me when those ex friends went mad to her and me and stood up for her. she was hurt from it and i was too. now years later he does talk to them sometimes because he is tired of all the drama but doesnt talk about me to them. he doesnt mention them to me. nothing. he tries to keep me afloat when i feel super depressed. tries to get me outside in the shed building stuff. or just talk to people and more. when my loved one wanted somehting so super bad when i couldnt afford it and her parents wouldnt get her it he helped me out a little bit with money to help. he talks to them because he is tired of all the drama that happend back then and just wants to get stuff to how it was and live in peace. what should i do. because if i hear one more time that i did stuff when i never did i will kill myself because i cant hear that anymore because ive heard it for 2 years almost every day. what should i do. leave that friend or not. Yesterday she made me choose on the question I am asking right now. When I did what she said to leave and block her because the thinks I already choose when I didn't choose. I later got a message from someone and I told what happened to that person but in the end it was the girl imitating someone to get me back and at this point I don't know what to do. Because if I left her . I would do it so I wont kill myself in front of her eyes and her getting hurt. but she is asking me to either leave him or she would leave. when each time she said stuff that wasnt true or believed lies other people made. i got told " you dont like me " " kill yourself " " you dont deserve to live " when litterly anything in life went wrong. even when we never talked about that friend or what happend. when she did that fake account stuff she told me herself she was dead nad that i was bad and everything and more. i just really dont know what to do. please what should i do is itworth it or anything just please someone said it wasnt understandible . i just need awnsers and ill provide in updates as much as i can

I am bothered about something my friend did a few days ago. It wasn't major, but it overstepped something I talked to them about several times before. When I sat with it, I realized it was uncomfortable, and I am thinking about it constantly. I agreed to meet my friend in a week. Should I wait to tell them in person, or on the phone? It is a close friend, but we usually interact in person, not a lot over the phone.

When I texted him he played the hurt card and cast blame on me. I said okay despite all that i tried giving you the doubt but you're still stuck in the past bittnerness and resentment. He said Ok I'm not going to argue with you enjoy your trip( i was going on vacation). I'm back now and at church this Sunday he keeps staring at me and he passed by me and winked at me but why does he text me? What does this mean?

I can't stop thinking about my friend which I like very much and he likes me very much as well. We have a strong connection. Does this mean that he is constantly thinking about me too? I think it has to be true.

I've been friends with a group and I spoke to them about the topic before that I don't want to talk about certain religious stuff, and I still feel like they are pushy with me. Even if they say they aren't, and say they only fear for me from God. I don't want to be a friend that someone wants to do a good deed on, I want to feel accepted and I don't. How many chances should I give them? And if not, how do I end the friendship?

I care about these people but they dont care about me. Its so hard to let them go though because they're all i havs

There is this group of kids I used to talk to all the time. This year I have a friend who they don't like for a variety of reasons (most ppl don't like her, she has a bad rep for being mentally unstable and just weird). I was talking to them the other the other day and she forced herself into our circle and they started saying crap to her face. I was annoyed that my friend was following me around but also felt personally attacked by this (I've known this girl for 10+ years). So I left that circle and this friend followed me bc at this point she doesn't have anyone else but I ended up feeling super weird. Did they want me gone too? I genuinely appreciated their presence and they helped me a lot last last year so I hope not. I am hoping they realize my situation but there is a chance they don't. a lot of the reason I'm staying her friend is because I have an older brother with autism who people aren't very nice to, so I know how much I can help; I don't plan to cut off things for petty reasons such as this but anyways, what do those people think of me now? What would you do in this situation? I am asking this because she is not the only friend I have and I care about other people too. Furthermore, she was not born with a mental illness, she developed them with time. She is the same person from this question if that gives any context: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20181021052541AAWmNqU You guys aren't answering the question. I mean well but this is a recurring situation with this girl and I'd like to know more about what is happening, not what to do.

I have this friend. Actually she is my best friend. She is different from all my other friends because for one thing she is a lot older and she has told me at times that she feels like I push her away but I don't realize that I do it so I was wondering how do I keep that from happening again? And I want to do everything to be right in our friendship. She's really important to me and I'm important to her and it's also hard for me to have a healthy balance with her because I do have a social disability

This is a difficult situation. My best friend and i dont see eachother super reguarly but we've known eachother since we've known eachother since we were five and we're close. Since two years ago we've started touching eachother and jerking eachother off when we see eachother, and the problem is that eventhough i like it, I know that he's straight and that if it wasnt for me this never would of started. I'm always the one initializing it when we meet up and im always more involved and into it... THe thing is I know that if it were for him, we'd probably never do this kind of thing and i think the only reason he never wants to stop is because he's scared it might be awkward and he dosnt want to ruin the friendship. Now if i tell him i'm gay my problem isnt that we'll have to stop but that he'll get creeped out or react badly since weve been doing this stuff for all this time. What shouyld I do?

The 'normal' women around here are snobs. They belong to a clique, they don't allow variety in their group of friends or people who are a different way. The rest of the women are down to earth, but they carry the likelyness to go to jail or prison and usually end up there. At 21 they already have a kid(s) that are at least 6 years of age, have multiple boyfriend's, shack jobs, petty relationships that don't last, crazy psychotic attitudes when they get mad. The 'normal' women that clique that they're in will get rude when you try to have anything to do with them, or if you hang with them and their exclusive group that they're in, them and their friends will harrass you over the way you are, make fun of the way you talk accuse you of being 'different' etc. What should I Do?

I have this friend, he works out a lot and has a wild personality. Ever since High school started he's started getting more wild and aggressive, usually its tolerable but there are times when he keeps things to himself and gets even more aggressive and moody... an example was my birthday party, everyone gave me birthday punches, but they did hurt as much as his does. I told him that it hurt and to stop and he said he wasn't even hitting me that hard, I spent the whole party with my arm burning and in pain(It the next day and my arm hurts even more and its kind of hard to move it) the thing is my older cousin works out as much as he does(And is in the military) and he didn't punch me nearly as hard as he did. another example is at the same party. There was a bouncy castle and me, a few other friends. and my three little cousin's were in it bouncing around. He runs in and everything was complete chaos, it told him to chill because of the little kids and one of my friends didn't know him like the rest did and he just asked why not? and continued with what he was doing. I knew something was bothering him but that doesn't give him an excuse to do all of that. I'm starting to get hesitant with inviting him places because whenever he's in a bad mood he's just aggressive and has the worst attitude. I talked to the two friends that knew him as well as I do and we all agree that this needs to stop. Is there anything we can do?

Is it bad for someone to say that animals love us when no one else does?

I'm a very shy introverted 15 yr old girl in highschool. Ever since I started year 7 two years ago, I haven't made a single friend. This has now become a problem and makes me feel down. So I've figured out why I have no friends, it's because I'm boring. My true personality isn't boring at all, I love having fun, but at school I reply dull one-worded answers. I never say hi to anyone either, they're the ones who say hi to me. I've realised that I seem uninterested and boring to others, so they haven't bothered to befriend me. I want to change that though. I've decided that I will talk to people in full sentences, I want to greet people before they greet me and I want to make conversations. But I'm not sure how to do it. It would be strange if all of a sudden I began talking more. How can I gradually make myself change?

They talk about their beliefs and suggest me tips from their beliefs and i need friends to talk about my romantic life and things they find sinful. I care about them and they care about me too, but is this worth feeling like I can't be free around them wholly while they can be around me? As i dont get offended but they get offended if i say something outside their faith and they tell me they are worried about me or i feel like they judge me by asking what does your mother or father think about that? As if to say i shid be worried of what other people think as what im doing is wrong but I don't think that.

So on Friday of last week my coworker displayed odd behavior. He did no work all he did was stare into space (stare at nothing) and at one point his head tilted to the left. I walked by and withouf looking directly at me he noticed I was there so it wasn't like he was completely gone, he gave me a side eye and said to go away. He did this all day, stare st NOTHING. Please advice!! I kind of do not want to go to work on Monday. He's zoned out before st times but this is kind of excessive. Should I be worried???

I have gotten some female "friends" through dating and though maybe it could be great, but I never see them and I am the one who has to make plans and 19/20 they tell me they can't on that day. I just gotten to a point where I start to hate them, because they wanted this friendship not me, ironic I have to do everything. I have stopped contacting them and heard from some them, one asked me if I was mad at her, but she is not stupid and should know I wanted more than a friendship, which is quiet depressing I discovered. Another girl tells me I am her best friend, but we have only met once and she seemed rather upset I didn't told her I had a girlfriend after she had gone back to her ex. I just feel like I'm the girls loser guy friend, who has to do all the work and they accept the meeting when they want to. When I have met with them it has always been a good time, but it disappoints me that they seem to have no interest in this **** friendship they wanted, also I have no feelings for any of these girls, I wanted to know them better and see if it could be more than a friendship, but they were quick to decide because they apparently know all about me after 1-2 meetings. Hope someone has a helpful answer, because right now I just feel like to text each of them and tell them I hope they die soon.

There's someone I'd like to be friends with, close friends because we have a lot in common and they feel the same. However, they have beliefs different from mine and are offended by my beliefs or see that what I'm doing is wrong. They tell me they are just worried for me because they fear God and what I do is against that. I also feel like they can talk freely about their religious beliefs and even suggest religious tips for me to feel better when I open up about my problems. I usually tell them I don't believe that and they say they understand but I still feel like they see me as inappropriate. I don't mind agreeeing to disagree but I feel like I am seen as inappropriate and when i tell them about stuff i do in life that is against their views, they ask things like what do your father and brother say about that? But I believe i should be free to do what I want. How do I feel free around this friend, as this is a priority for me in friendship. I want to be their friend, so am I overreacting by feeling uncomfortable? Should I talk to them again? I do t want to feel like i need yo defend myself or viewed as bad whenever i open up about something and their omain goal is to make me like them rather than to listen to me. And seenit from my perspective like I do for their beliefs.

All the women where i live seems to follow this pattern. They are 21 with children that are at least 6 years of age. They typically live with their boyfriend's, shack up and have petty relationships with them. Sone claim they have to write the jail number down to call their boyfriend. Hardly ever I see women that aren't like this where I live and they are usually snobs and are in snob groups.

Drunk seems to be a bit more understandable but still. As for just being so excited and having an adrenaline rush why do we tend to like people we don't usually like more? I know this definitely isn't always true or applies to everyone but I've seen it happen and I know that I also start to like and talk to people I don't like more during it. I wonder if it's because of that "shared experience" kind of thing. Just a curiosity

Last night I went to a club with a few friends. We went outside to smoke, but then they wouldn't let my friend in because she was drunk, so I stayed with her. I wasn't drunk. My other 3 friends (2 of them were sober) went back into the club and left us waiting outside. I called them all several times and no answer. I was stuck, they drove us there and I was trying to take care of a drunk girl, not knowing how we're going to get home. 45 minutes later I see them walking across the street.. I guess they didn't see my missed calls and had no concerns about where we were or if we were ok. I'm so upset because I thought my friends were reliable but they didn't even care.

he glances at me a lot when I'm laughing or being dumb and I sorta want to talk to him bc we have a bunch of school extracurriculars together however, I've seen him be flat out mean to some of my friends so I don't wanna be too friendly I'm generally reluctant to talk to ppl I don't know unless I have a reason but since I am around this person so much, I want to atleast be acquainted. I feel like it'd make the extracurriculars a lot less boring, especially bc I feel judged by this person

I'm an adult woman and my close friend doesn't like swear words. I express myself that way at times. I understand if I'm at her own home, I wouldn't use it, but what about in my daily life where she's there?

What is the best way to tell my female friend that I want to be more than friends and that I like her a lot?

I have a friend with anxiety, depression, and ADD among other things. We are both in high school and I've known her for the past 12 years or so despite facing issues with her, I'm trying to stick it through. She isn't a psychopath for sure but she is really fascinated with dead animals, has breakdowns all the time, does not work at school, and isn't good at reading social situations. She's also super touchy(for example, jumping at ppl, hugging crying strangers bc she sees somoene else hugging them, trying to get in groups with ppl who don't know/like her) and it's...just not helping her. I am in band and she moved to my section (saxes! I play bari and think they are great... except they can be a little mean) and I hear them talking crap about her all the time. I have tried to confront her about issues or when she does something wrong but she becomes all defensive. She also follows me around a lot which is honestly annoying me. I don't mean to be selfish but a lot of ppl won't talk to me openly or at all with her around. I know she needs a person to latch onto but don't have the heart to push her onto someone else. How can I help her or what should I do about her? she goes to therapy and takes antidepressants but it isn't helping our situation at school

I don't even know what to do right now. I really want to kill myself because all of the hate people give me. Even my own cousins think I'm weird and go on Snap and spread rumors about me, two days ago I told this girl what I thought about her and her and her boyfriend just laughed at me.. She has been spreading rumors about me, talking about me on Snap and saying very hurtful things about me behind my back. She calls me lesbian or bisexual or even insults the way I look. People outside of school say that I'm really pretty but people inside of school think that I'm just a piece of ugly ****. I don't have any idea what I should think, all of my feelings are mixed, I wanna cry but that would make me feel worse. I have social anxiety and I don't speak a lot so It's hard for me to interact and those bullies and people in general make me want to take a knife and just end it all and release me, the person that burdens them so much, me, the person that they all hate. My cousin is over and she's 10 YEARS OLD, she goes on Snapchat and asks this person "Is my (not revealing my name) weird?" and they reply with "YES" and then she asks "What grade are you in?" and he says "6th" I am in the 7th grade and these people has been spreading rumors about me until the whole school knows about me. My own cousins act like they have nothing to do with me and all I want to do now is kill myself. WHY does everyone disvalue my life so much? I cannot tell my parents cause they'll get mad. Help. I'm just hurting so bad.. My cousin just called my other cousin and she just told her that she way staying with (my name) and she replies, "What? That weird girl?" everything has been hurting so much and I literally have no idea what do do. The character count wouldn't even allow me to fill up 3 pages of my feelings, I urge to just end it all. No one ever wants to help me, no one ever wants to care. I've been to the school councilor but she tells me to "just ignore them", she even makes me cry

I want to go back to just being friends like we were and maybe see others. I just don't want to loose all of my friends in the process. I probably sound like a jerk. But I do care. Just not into the relationship. It feels forced on my part.

I babysit my neighbor's kids. His "girlfriend/partner" calls my phone multiple times instead of texting. Her calls are not even important. The guy doesn't even call my phone, unless it's urgent. Is there any way not NOT get calls and ONLY texts. Or should i tell her to only text?

I will have to speak to a female tomorrow. What do they talk about? What are the usual topics? (e.g. Hilary Clinton, metoo movement, new shoes, etc.) I need some guidance so that I don't screw it up.