What would cause someone to complain that the soda doesnt have enough ice, the friess dont have enough ketchup, their bestfriend is being passive aggressive in offering help, the doctor was rude, I want to change the channel(while I'd watched a program for an hour & 15 minutes when all other waking hours we watch news shows which I dont like 24/7,but dont comment)? If I say, ohhhh, that's really good she(other friend) got that job she wanted, complainerr will say "yeahhh, she just better hope they treat her right." Like, what is going on where everything is wrong?

My friend and I have been in touch for 9 years. We played softball in highschool and we knew each others secrets. I stayed a great and supportive friend while she was in a destructive 5 year marriage filled with abuse. He moved her 2.5 hours away, but I still managed to make it to important events and I stayed by her side. After she got divorced this year, I thought I'd have my friend back, however she quickly got a new boyfriend. Now she's meeting new people, and although we promised to stay friends, I see she's drifting away. For her birthday, I was the only one to make it. I got her really nice gifts and a card. One day we planned to go out dancing, and as the day approaches she leaves me on read and never replies. Weeks pass and she messages me saying she hasn't heard from me in awhile, even tho she ignored my text. My birthday just passed and although she came, she didn't even give a card. Friends that I least expected got me a gift or card. Not that I expect anything but at least a card? I invited her to an event this past weekend and she said she'd come forsure! As the days get closer I message her telling her where we will meet and she never replies. After 9 years, don't I deserve a text back?? Am I asking too much? I would never confirm an event with a close friend, or anyone for that matter, then just never text back.

At my part-time job, I had a coworker, who I was somewhat friends with started calling me useless and saying I deserved to be fired. I told her multiple times to stop and I did not find it funny. One day the assistant manager asked me to do something and I said sure. This coworker said "oh no, don't let her do that she sucks at it, i'll do it." At this point I tried to just walk away and do it because I didn't want to deal with the drama. As I was walking away this coworker said "bye useless." I was really upset and my boss took my to the manager's office to talk to me about it. The general manager was in there doing paperwork and said she would talk to this coworker. After she talked to her, most of my "friends" stopped talking to me and started making plans behind my back. I also found out that they were saying that I was terrible and didn't deserve a job there behind my back. They all went back to school and I work there during the school year, as my school is local. It has been relatively drama free. I am concerned with them when they come back and what they are going to say to me. I struggle with anxiety and don't feel comfortable working with people who are going to insult me to my face/behind my back. I want to talk to my boss but I don't want to seem like I am being petty or overreacting. She did acknowledge in the past that they should not be saying these things. I'm just not sure if a few months away from these coworkers will help when they come back. Any advice?

My parents always complain about me not having my license (im 18) but they NEVER take me to the driving school.. like they put no effort in what so ever. I can't even get a new job (i hate my current job so much, ive been here almost three years now) all the ones that wanna hire me are "too far" and they dont wanna drive me there. Im so sick of this bs. What do I do? Someone please help. I can't uber and I can't get a friend to take me

I saw my boss eyeing me at the grocery store. He kept staring at me there? He wasnt even there to purchase anything , he was just constantly staring at me from across the store??? Please explain

I love games and hang out with the gamer group at my school. The boys are never made fun of and always hang out with the "popular kids" while the girls in our group get made fun of and called "fake girls" by all the other girls. I don't understand why i can't play video games without getting bullied. I just want to be able to be myself without getting bullied. Help

It is not that the husband is necessarily a bad guy. I only met him one time briefly. I am just glad, not so much that he is dying but that his wicked divisive wife who my Mom likes plans to move after he dies. The husband dying I could care less about as long as she moves. He must not be great if he married a wicked soul like hers but I don't know him to know if he is wicked or not. So how do I act sympathetic if I have to see the wife at some point? The husband is a lot older and has prostate cancer that has returned and is deadly. He has 4-6 months. The sooner the better so the wife can move and we won't have to hear her insult my family anymore. My Mom likes her cause my Mom hates family also. Also they both are obsessed with real estate.

One of my classmates gets bullied almost everyday, and I know why. Everyone thinks he is ugly and is very weak. People also think that he is dumb. Because of this, people bully him all the time and laugh at him. I have that one "cool" kid in my class and he always bullies him. What can I do to stop this? What do you do when your friend gets bullied almost every day?

This girl i used to be friends with a year ago now sits at my lunch table with my friends, and I'm not sure why. She is extremely annoying and always follows me in lunch. I've recently started dating a good friend who had a crush on me, and I can't talk to him because she keeps talking to him. I've tried telling her to give us some space, and she replied with, "I'm sick of this relationship drama, ugh!!". She also often tries to insult me or call me a b***h. I really don't like her, but feel bad since she actually has no one else to talk to. I understand she's lonely and all, but she has been such a nuisance for the past few weeks, and she knows she's bothering me. How do you tell someone you don't want to be their friend? (or should you even?)

I have this friend and he thinks that he is more good-looking than everyone around him. He also lied about going to travel to Germany and he doesn't show me the flight paper he said flight been cancel because of wild fire when I search online there wasn't wild fire he lied to all of us. He calls all of his "friends" ugly. He also thinks that he is smarter than everyone, meanwhile he is basically failing every class in school and he is 21 years old get disability welfare and he doesn't work.He tries lying about his grades. He also always needs to be in the center of attention, I really dislike him and so do all of his other friends. He judges all my other friends and people about them looking ugly he also Called me ugly and is hurtful since I'm a Asian guy he is like Mexican. He never said any guys handsome he judge people sayin how does that guy get a pretty girlfriend his ugly is not suitable for him to have a gf. He also say that I'm too ugly to be dating girls.

So I sit at a table of 4 and there's two kids that kept talking and I could barely concentrate on my work. So I asked the teacher to move one of the kids and she did. But one of the annoying kids is at my table and she overheard my conversation with the teacher asking to move. So since she knows I'm the reason why the other kid moved, she keeps complaining about it and blames me for everything. It's so annoying and I don't what to do. I've tried ignoring her, but she just glares at me and keeps complaining. I don't wanna ask to move again because my teacher was already annoyed that I wanted to move for the second time this year (I moved earlier this year) so I don't know what to do

There is this guy at my school who wants me to always speak to him every time I see him. For example I might see him in the morning and he'll speak to me and I'll speak back and we talk a little. Then he might see me again the same day and speak again. But if I don't speak he'll say something like "fine just ignore me" What does that mean? Why does he do this? I don't get it. Like why do I have to speak to him multiple times a day?

I have known this guy for almost 5 years now. We were just friends for a while, went through a very rough patch, and then reconnected last year. I finally decided to let my guard down and give us a chance to be something more. After 6 months, things ended. It was not the right time for him because of other personal things going on in his life. We had a long talk about everything and agreed on being friends. He is the male version of me. We get each other. I have never had this connection with anyone else before. His family loves me, I love them - they even still keep in touch. Because of all this, even after being hurt multiple times, I wanted him in my life. Since all of this, I have been going through waves of emotions. At first I was fine with being friends, then I wanted nothing to do with him, then I started to miss him and ended up realizing that there are still feelings deep down. I enjoy his company and really do want him in my life, I just don't know if this friendship will ever work. I feel like recently, I am feeling more frustrated and annoyed by little things rather than being happy. When we see each other in person, we end up falling into the same routine as the past. The attraction is still there. The feelings are there on both sides. In a way, we don't know how to be just friends. The mixed emotions are killing me. I just don't know what to do anymore. I have never been through this.

I'm the one talking in the blue and he's in the gray. I met him at a store where he works. He had asked me to hangout twice I couldn't go because of school. But that was awhile ago. I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits I sent him a picture and video of my breasts he said he's interested. He keeps saying that he's interested but that he works a lot. Would a guy say he's interested if he actually wasn't?

I'm the one talking in the blue and he's in the gray. I met him at a store where he works. He had asked me to hangout twice I couldn't go because of school. But that was awhile ago. I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits I sent him a picture and video of my breasts he said he's interested. He keeps saying that he's interested but that he works a lot. I don't know why he keeps saying that when he really isn't.

Shouldn't she be greatful

Okay I have a friend who is my best friend but she never texts me and I harldy see her at school I try texting her and she does reply but it's always just one word responses. She's planned stuff to do together and I always say I want to do it but at the last minute she cancels on me for her own plans. And just yesterday she finally texted me first about a problem shes having and I was happy because I missed her but then she said that she had no one else to talk to That made me feel like crap. I was her last choice. I don't want to do. What do think I should/what is your opinion? She's told me I was her best friend.

It's about opposite sex friendship.

So my bff is having a last minute Halloween party and all my friends are going and so is my boyfriend but my mom won't let me go cause my twin has nothing to do and no one can hang out with her but I don't want to be the only person in my friend group not going so how do I get my mom to say yes?

My coworker came to work smelly one day. I pulled her to the side and told her I think her clothes are sour. She apologized and said she she only owns one pair of black pants and that she didn't have tome to wash them out and tried hiding the odor with perfume. She thanked me. After that, I didn't smell any odor from her. She tells me how he (the coworker) would go by her (when it's only her and him there) and say "Booty smelling like booty." She said she ignored him because she didn't know he was addressing her at the time. Then last week he randomly shouted out "YOU STINK!!" She said nothing. Then Friday morning she was doing stocking items (she had her headphones on the store was closed) and he walks by and say "You got this whole room stinking." Once again, she said nothing. She told me she asked numerous amount of people even her most brutality honest friends and they all say she doesn't smell (including me). I told her she needs to confront the coworker about his behavior and if he doesn't stop the disrespect, to start reporting to our SM. What should she do?

Every time I book a vacation someone in my life has a problem with it. First it was a close friend of 15 years that would do stupid stuff and have a nasty attitude. I stop talking to her. Then an ex-boyfriend who would just make up these dumb arguments. I broke up with him and block all communications. Now, years later I have a new boyfriend and I have a trip to Barcelona, Spain coming up and he wants me to cancel. What am I doing wrong? I am so frustrated!!! He wants me to cancel because he states Barcelona is too dangerous for me to travel to. Plus I do talk about travel because it seems to upset everybody, so I just keep it to myself until I need to mention it. I do not talk about traveling..... As per the answer I am obnoxious. Please suck a dick and kill yourself. You are a waste of ******* space. **** you ! **** YOU TOO!!!!! PHUCK YOU TOO!!!

How do you maintain a conversation with someone who only answers your questions with a question?

I like this guy who I don't know very well, and I'm friends with him on Facebook. There is a girl he hangs out with a lot who it seems is just a friend (they've known each other since high school and we all went to the same school; I remember hearing talk back then that she liked him, but I don't think he reciprocated). She often posts things on his profile. Recently she posted something she thought they should go see, and my crush responded. Later another guy commented on it and said something about how they should just make it official. Well I noticed as soon as my crush got back on Facebook, he promptly deleted the post entirely. I wondered if this meant he did not want people to see the comment and think they were together? He has that he's single listed on his main page, and there is no evidence that he and this girl are an item besides. I've also noticed he's liked posts about being single. Could there be some other reason he hid the post, like a secret relationship between them? They both work in the same field so I wondered if that might be a reason to be private. I can't exactly ask him outright as I don't know him well yet.

I told my best friend that I'm not going to be talking to anyone for awhile and she knew the reason because I told her this before and the reason is is because I'm going through a rough time and she's been knowing this but she thought I was pushing her away by me saying that I'm not going to be talking to anyone for awhile so was that kind of ridiculous for her to feel that way? And she has felt like I was pushing her away other times but I have a social disability and it really gets in the way and plus she's a lot older than me and we are both adult females but I do think she kinda depends on me sometimes and I don't know what to do really and also she knows I have a social disability

Because my friend needs help with alot. Getting to school not acting stupid and not insulting people in accident. He is my friend but I have to watch him like a three year old. And he is 16. I understand he has autism and can't do these things on his own. But he can barely use the bathroom on his own. Which I try to teach him. The teacher and his parents always look to me for help. Is it because I understand him more?

Is that something people could pick up on and how so? Would it make them see the person as very odd? I am talking about those 20 years old and older.

We've been friends since 2003, so I am confused as to why she did not say anything, especially since he was like a dad to her. Our home state is Colorado, where she still resides and I'm in New York but whenever she's in my town she'll reach out. Also, when we are home for the holidays, we'll make contact and do something. She also has contacted me whenever something happens to those we know from our area, like people who died, when someone has a baby, birthday parties, divorces, etc. So I am really confused as to why this important matter was not told to me, as she's the one who always keeps me up on hometown things. Plus, she knows that I don't keep in touch with anybody from our hometown, except my cousin. But my cousin and I have different social situations. The only reason my cousin even found out is because she heard an older family friend mention it. Then she contacted me and asked if I'd heard. As far as social media, I have FB, Instagram and Twitter but nothing was posted to alert me. Then to top it off, I found out that other friends of hers knew about it soon after it happened. I know this is about her loss but I am very angry. I am flying to our hometown in a few days and was told that she is still in town. My first thought was to reach out. But then I thought about it and realized that this is just really strange and maybe I should think about how to handle this. Why do you think she didn't say anything?

I'm to shy to go and talk to people I have difficulty making friends and I wish I wasn't so quite. I want to be a fun person that everyone can get along with but its just to hard. I wasn't always shy when I was in primary school I talked to everyone and it made them hate me and it would annoy when I spoke to them or even came over and I'm worried something like that will happen again. All is this is making me want to end my life. I'm not considering it, the thought just keeps popping up in my head and it is making me feel worse by the minute. Please help is there anything I can do or is there no point?

One of my coworkers told him I was mean, so now everytime he sees me or everytime I come in the room he makes a stupid joke referencing that I am mean. Like I know that he's making a joke, so at first it didn't bother me. But now he is starting to tell these stupid jokes in front of the person who started the mess. For example, today he said Sara said you're mean and I got annoyed and said Sara is lazy so I guess we're even. He and another employee busted out laughing and the girl looked shocked that I said it, but at the end of the day she should have never started the rumor and he needs to stop provoking the situation. It's like he gets turned on by it or something. I have never done anything to her. I'm actually the only person there who chooses to carry on a conversation with her. This situation is starting to make me feel uncomfortable. If I didn't hate going on interviews I would honestly quit. It's like I work with a bunch of childish adults.

I am 27 years old I was diagnosed with social anxiety and depression I struggle with it since the age of 10 years old. Throughout my life I've struggled with family issues and issues with going to school . Throughout my life I am a lot of people found me boring I didn't make many friends and the friends I do you make but often times not hang out with me to hang out with other people and some of them will say I was too boring. I was harshly critiqued growing up I was never fun enough I was told I was ugly and unattractive I'm never dated . On my birthdays nobody ever hung out with me when I ask people to hang out my make up excuses so I spent a lot of birthday the moment. I'm tired of how my life is sometimes I just want to shut down. even now I still have trouble making friends then on top of that very quiet and then I get size for being so quiet and then when I talk to people I still don't make connections I still make friends friends I want to except reality and except myself for who I am but it's so hard because here I am single With no friends and no matter how hard I try my life is not the way I want it to be. I never got to learn who I was outside of being fearful and depressed. I often wonder what I would have been like if I didnt have depression and anxiety. I work now and I am in school. But im still not happy. Im so tired. Any advice?

So I hired a company earlier this year for a few projects and the account manager and I hit it off. We were chatting on the phone for long periods of time, became friends on social media and even started texting. We talked about making plans at different places around town, etc. I thought we were becoming friends. Recently he invited me to a party. Non-work function, only friends. I show up and know he ll be busy mingling but he really didn t talk to me at all. I got a hello hug and that was it. I tried going up to him later to initiate some chat and I got another hi and that was it. It felt so odd. He didn t even try to engage for some small talk. I felt so awkward. Why invite me and not speak to me all night? I don t want to misread things. If I m just a client he likes, cool. But making plans outside of work and inviting me to personal functions (there s another one in a few months I m already invited to) is confusing. What s the deal?

I've had a friend since 2nd grade and we are now both freshmen in college. We go to WSU which is in midtown Detroit. I've noticed she's been going off campus from time to time now which is kinda scary for me because although our campus is safe wondering off into parts of Detroit alone isn't the best thing to do at ALL. I literally have had dreams about her meeting people online and not ending well. She went out for lunch with a guy she claimed she knew for a while and the whole thing was very suspicious. I told her it would be nice if she would tell me when she leaves and share her location with me but she just says "I'm not stupid trust me" so I just let it be. Fast forward to current time I texted her a few times today and she never replied until later. I then ordered food and my delivery guy was having a hard time finding our building so I went out in the rain to get it from the main road. As I turned the corner I saw my friend standing outside and I was completely shocked to see her, when I asked why she was waiting out here she just told me she was going out to dinner with Alejandra's (our friend from back home) uncle. She then got into a car with black tinted windows and pulled off. Now I feel as if she is lying to me and I just want to make sure she is safe. Please help I'm afraid she is talking to guys online and meeting up with them to have sexual activities or far worse things. She's lied about smoking and drinking in the past. I don't want something bad to happen.

i have 2 roommates and they are really close and they hang out together with their group of friends.. im not as close to them and i can't blend in with their friends because they are all Chinese and i do not speak or understand. They come over everyday.at first it start with 1 person, then another, then 2 more, and another 2 more.. it stresses me out.. and they always have their boyfriends over.. they also have the keys so they can come in whenever.. when im home i look really ugly.. and it sometimes scares me when a guy comes in while im in the kitchen looking gross.. also i would be peacefully eating or cooking and then suddenly 8 people come over to the house and so i gotta go eat in my room.. sometimes i dont eat at all and starve myself because there is no space for me to cook and i dont want to bother their social gathering and also it is awkward to just quietly cook beside all those people while i listen to them talk in a language i dont understand. also i just eat whatever like snacks when i dont feel like doing my makeup.. i feel like i ahve to put on makeup and dress nice just to go out to the kitchen because i never know when people will come. there is no living room so they all stand in the small kitchen.. also i ahve so much homework,. i dont understand how my roommates are able to hang out every single day, but i have to stay up almost every day. my sleep schedule is messed up.. so.i gotta nap and sleep at the most random times.. but i can't because they always have people over and it is so loud it is also affecting me mentally.. i also can't focus because i have to work in a quiet place.. i talked to my parents about possibly letting me get my own studio apartment.. but it is too expensive here in nyc and dangerous.. i just dont know how to tell them.. they will hate me.. they will tell their friends they cant come over because i told them not to come over so they will also all hate me and think of me as a weird stubborn person.. i have social anxiety and im very introverted and shy.. so it is very stressful for me everytime a big group of people comes over and they never clean after themselves, they will leave the food out for a few days until it starts to rot, so i have to clean everything for them and take out the trash, do the dishes, vaumme, mop and i jsut do not understand why.. they arnt the only ones using the kitchen.. they also eat my food, use my stuff.. and it bothers me.. i told them to clean after but they wont listen.. they were my "friends" from last semester.. but i was never really close with them..

I know some of you say go get a life but I have very small learning disabilities & with add or adhd so i grew up in small class since 4 grade to 9th grade then i had to moved out other side the state in USA New Jersey to Arizona but i go back see my family & close friends anyways I've group up with different others people that have all different kind learning disabilities but I known 5 people so i had 5 different group of friends i had made in group and they all had same learning disabilities that i have so you think that they understand it and I thought was enough friends to make while i was in same town & school and around the block.anyways I had made fake Facebook once before to get with a old friend name Courtney to get back at her for karma and worked for while and account and didn't get deleted before i deleted before that she have continued fighting with me with mean names & one of them was that i seem to annoying to her but she have called other name calling that was worst, so anyways I want to make fake account to get a answers of who said what to our mutual friend because other mutual friend name Jessica said she havent hard or talk to so i want to see who lieing, how many photos/friends/posting do i need add? is 25 friends is enough? i made it back in September and I hide the date.I give you 20 points each if you give me good answers and ill answer back to you & i know group some have with add or adhd

I have a friend and I am friend's with her friend as well, I know her friend longer. this one friend only bothers with me when she needs money, and I don't hear rom her unless she wants honey.. so she asked me for 400.00 and I told her I couldn't do it, she then disfriended me I apologized and she said she will only be my friend and forgive me if I give her money, and I told her I don't need her friendship and so he friend that I am friends will won't talk to me either, it's funny.. I was being used and her friend which I know longer also disfriended me. nobody ever sticks up for me.. so I don't know, I feel really down. I always helped her but I can't afford 400.00