Never thought i would b typing this. My man of 11 years had disappointed and shocked me 2 the core. We drive 2 our mailbox i get the mail. A sketchy letter that looks out of place addressed 2 my husband. I open the letter in front of him and i see "all models r over 18." So here is this pamphlet w porn ads. Porn of every genre and pictures and at the bottom 1 800 numbers 2 call. I ask him wtf is this? He says "a porn site must have got my info while i was surfing the site." I smelt bullshit and i asked him calmly again. He answers " fine. I may have signed up 4 a free trial on pornhub." That was his final answer. But y do that if porn is free. What did he really do? Did he PAY 4 porn? He had told me that he never watched porn that 4 sum reason he couldn't get off when watching porn and that he couldn't *** from porn. He told me this I never asked him this. So now i am in the dark and just shocked as hell. And even more scared that he paid...why? What is going on and should i leave him 4 this? Not against porn but the lies hurt. I was down 4 whatever sexually but he needed more? 11 years with this man.he got caught told me hasn't watched porn and jacked off in years.

My wife has been drinking heavy for 25 years until she ended up in the hospital for 2 weeks. When she got out we went to a few AA meetings but she hasn t touched a drink in over a month which is the longest ever she has gone. She is doing great she is like a new person. I feel like our marriage is over I think she only was with me because I was co-dependent took care of her. Now that she is sober I think she has less and less attraction to me I know a few family members who were long term alcoholics they also got divorces after many years of marriages. Family members who got sober after years of alcoholism ended up in divorce. Which is strange because for years their spouse complained and threatend to divorce only happened after getting sober.

I plan to never have kids in my life. I'm very confident that I won't have the want or need for kids. And just so you know, I'm Homoflexible, so it's very likely that I won't have to worry about "a future husband who wants kids". I don't need kids. I don't want them. Just wanted to make that clear. Anywho, I hear that it's hard to get done at a younger age. Is it a physical issue, or what? I was very sure the process was quite simple.

I have seen this Chinese tradition a lot where the woman loses control of the relationship and wants to leave. It is especially apparent within the first 2-5 years of having a child together. In my marriage, my wife has been violent and it has resulted in me calling the police. She was charged and given orders to see a psychologist. Well, once again she was talking like she didn't want to hear from me. She kept up at me saying she doesnt like the person I have become and that she really wants to move. I can tell she is giving a lot of thought to the divorce process. I decided to let her know how the whole process works since I've already done the research. She is starting to talk about divorce agreements. I've made it clear that I want our marriage to work but if she is hellbent on going, then I'm after our apartment and her support in paying child care and maintenance. My son cannot witness us talking hostile to each other. But I also don't want him shoved between 2 homes. He is only 6 months old. She doesn't want to go to counselling. Neither of us can afford lawyers for a divorce. The tables have turned and she cannot get angry at me anymore because of the violence order. I reacted to her anger last night by calling her idiot. I immediately apologised by she has held it over my head. She has been diagnosed with a defensive personality that cannot take criticism... I had tried to ask her to speak with her parents about the noise they make in the kitchen of a morning when I'm coming home from night shift to sleep. I tried to reason that if they let me sleep a bit more, then I can get up and care for our son whilst they go for their routine walk in the evening. Today she reacted unpredictably and announced that she is taking her parents outside for one night and that it was my turn to care for my son. I panicked because I work alone in a healthcare environment that cannot be staffed on such short notice. I proceeded to try and call my parents to come and get my son but she backed down and said her parents would still care for him. Called me idiot, told me not to speak to her and that we can divorce because she doesnt want to work on the relationship. It doesn't really surprise me because we have no friends in common, she takes separate vacations and doesn't spend any time with me. I often tell myself I was used for citizenship and a child.

I would never act on it, especially since he's married with a family and I have a boyfriend. Before he was a pastor, he was working at a middle school, so I am sure he's used to younger girls having a crush on him. I am 28, he's 41. I've been going through a hard time lately and he's been there for me and my family. He's been hugging me a lot lately (mostly side hugs, but there was two body-to-body hugs) and he's very muscular and smells INCREDIBLE. It's hard for my hormones to not react to everything sometimes. Is it wrong to have a crush on him? Again, I would never in a million years act on it. He's definitely the type of guy I would love for my own husband if we were both single, but he and his wife are beautiful together and have a beautiful family. Yeah, yeah, yeah read the rest of it. Infatuated isn't as strong of a word as if I said "I love my pastor", which I do, but not in a romantic way. I could definitely see myself developing a friendship with him, of sorts. We get along well. He's been the pastor there for a year and I've also had a bit of a crush on him, but I'll admit my feelings have been stronger as of recently because he's been an amazing help during my tough time. I do find him emotionally attractive. He's got the greatest personality and he is such a good husband and good dad. It's hard not to like him. *I've always had a bit of a crush on him...not also

How would I find out if he did sexually abuse me as I have no memory of abuse what so ever. This man has no accusations of it other then his son as a kid would talk about penis and breasts after being with his Dad. Some thought was the Dad may have just had X rated films on. The son is now an adult and the daughter was never real close to him. The ex-husband is a loser but I am afraid to say he abused me or is a pedophile when I have no memory of it. The man has died 6 years ago so I cannot confront him or anything. He was in the family back in the 1980's and divorced since 88. He remarried twice and his 2nd wife survives him (1st was a divorce also). However, I only met her at the funeral so would feel weird asking her if she was suspicious of anything.

I know someone who had a one night stand after drinking with someone and he and his wife are separated after 12 years of marriage but not yet divorced.

My husband and I both work full time, he is an engineer and I am a horticulturist. He is at a desk and I do physical labor every day. We also have one son, cats and a dog and live in a 2,000 sq ft house. He will not cook, clean, tidy, or even put his own laundry away. I wake up at 5 in the morning, make breakfast for our son, take care of the animals, pack lunches, make the coffee, I make sure my husband is up on time for work. I bring our son to the before school program and I head to work. Get out of work, pick son up, hit the grocery store if needed, go home and cook dinner, help with homework, take care of animals, do housework (dishes, laundry, vacuuming, take trash out etc) and I don't get a break until about 8 or 9 sometimes later depending on the day. He gets home, sits down and doesn't do a thing besides sometimes going to the gym. I have brought this up so many times to him, it really is a weekly argument. I'll ask nicely, I'll ask firmly, I'll full out ***** about it. And his most recent response when asked if he could give me a hand was "I'm not going to have my time managed or be tasked with chores, So for your own planning, just assume nothing will get done and then you can be pleasantly surprised when I've taken care of something." I am seriously about to go exorcist on him! Spinning head and all. I'm effing exhausted, and short of leaving him, idk what the heck to do about this. Other reasons he's given me is that he is the one who is the bread winner.

The letter in my draft box... "Back when we had a brief chance to hang out, I have to say I was rather sad as you and I had lots of things going on and, I don't think I even had the pleasure of taking you out to dinner. But anyway, I always felt this strong need to get to know you. You put off an intense energy of curiosity in me. I'd see you around (university) and think, I really really want to know that girl. Anyway, I hope we can become good friends."

I'm a single guy and since I'm not married, I have to do all my cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping and ironing. I always envied married people because they can at least split the housework. But the funny thing is, my friend just go married and he also has to do ALL the chores just like me. While his wife is a teacher who only works until 3pm, she claims she's too busy with lesson plans and grading papers that she has no time to do any cooking and cleaning. Is this normal??

He wants joint custody of the dog. He wants us to meet for coffee once a month to talk out the dog. We have no children so , I would kind of like to be done with him after the divorce. He has texted 73 times in a couple days. Wanting to know why I didn't put the cans back in order? why is there a knife in the fridge? It's making me angry and upset. He seems to be following me to starbucks the grocery store , the dog park.

We're currently expecting and of course he is just as excited as me. But anywhere we go , either in public , by our selves, or with other people he can't keep his hands off the bump ! He'll rub my belly while we wait in line at shop rite , when he drives he likes to keep one hand on it and feel the kicks, when we sleep, etc. The other day we were running errands at the mall, and as I was looking for clothes he came up behind me and began caressing and rubbing my belly...I told him to stop and he seemed offended. I just want some personal space. Is that wrong?

Like many men even they marry gorgeous women they just cheat and it shocks me. Why?