Why when I got married it's like every man in the world is trying to hit on me? And if im completely honest they are all HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE! Hear me out well, I will never and I mean NEVER cheat on my husband! He is the love of my life, my sunshine on a cloudy day, my rock and salvation, shall I continue? And trust me don't think it's all in my head ( I have been experienced enough in the dating world to differentiate being friendly and plain out flirting ). I need legitimate answers. Don't reply with ignorance or disrespect! If you have been married for a prolonged amount of time you completely understand where I am coming from.

If her ex had a huge penis, will she be hooked on it since an average sized penis will not be able to stimulate her like the large sized did? Will she cheat to experience it again?

My ex hates me and whenever they are mad , visitations with the baby are missed . It's been 3 weeks since he's seen our 2 month year old. He's mad that I put him on child support . Before , I have him the option to take the baby with him for an hour or two . He refused stating he was worried and would just visit the baby and I at my home . Now that he's mad, he stopped seeing the baby . I'm not into the in and out of a child's life . That's just and pathetic . Is it ok that I deny home visitations on my time UNTIL he files a court order to have visitations ? What are your thoughts ? What's the point in punishing the child ?

I have made a mistake years ago back in 2011. When I met my husband. It's almost like everything was telling me to not start a relationship with him. I was getting signs left and right and I ignored them. Like everytime we were going to get together something got in the way. But when we started dating He was the nicest person I have ever been with. The best of the best. At some point I even got scared because it seemed too good to be true how much he loved and respected me. Today after two kids I cannot say the same. I lost everything that meant something to me. I have to go back to school soon to change my career, I lost most of my family members to his antics,trying to protect him, or defend him everytime. my mom who did everything for us is the person he mistreated the most recently. She is so fed up I'm scared of her getting sick. his family dislike me for no reason whatsoever. I tried everything to get them to appreciate me, but I realized, or it seems like he does everything so that they will not like me. I still don't know why he stayed with me. I asked several times if he wanted to part ways, because things were not working out between us. He always seemed as if we had problems but it will get better. tonight im wondering why do we meet people like this in our lives? Why do we have to go through things like this? I don't regret our kids at all. Sometimes I wish they had a different dad. I have to wait a bit because I'm not ready financially.

Isn't that what they've signed up for? They knew what you were getting into..

See I was given my wife a bit of the old "In N Out" and the condoms I was wearing caused a rash and I want my money back. So how can I get my cash back even though I literally had all of them on at once during the bouncy bouncy I was giving to my wife???

If you tell your gf/bf that you don't like them talking to someone (and it's your first time doing so) should they stop talking to them out of respect to you? My girlfriend has this guy friend that's knows a lot of her friends that's been hitting her up a lot recently. To put this into context, it's been enough for me to take notice and I don't feel comfortable with it. She says it's nothing and that he's just being "friendly". I just don't like him and I feel that should be enough for her. We've been together over a year and I don't have a bunch of girls blowing up my phone or me doing that to anyone else, and him knowing she's with me should be a no-go zone as it is. So should she be listening to me if I say I don't like what he's doing? Im being open about how I feel and trying to be real with her

Let me explain. I have this friend I've known for over 2 years. He's older, married with a family. We used to be a bit closer, but aren't as close as we used to be. I know his family very well, me and his wife get along just fine. I am younger than him by 11 years and I have a boyfriend, but only since this time last month. We have NEVER hugged, not even when the situation called for it. I always thought that was so strange. Well, I lost a loved one last night and my friend and his wife saw me today and he seemed to feel awkward about everything, not knowing what to say and I guess I sort of expected him to hug me since literally EVERYBODY else is, even people who have never formally met me, but he never hugged me. Why would he not want to hug a grieving female friend? I have only seen him hug one other girl, but I think she initiated it and it was just a side-hug. Is it weird for somebody not to show physical, platonic affection to a woman who isn't their wife? Tara, oh I mean he shakes my hand, has jokingly run into me. Even one time, a piece fell off when he was trying to open his sunroof in the car and it fell in between my legs and he, without hesitation, put his arm in between my legs and reached down and picked the piece off the ground.....so I don't know if he's necessarily against touch. null_the_living_darkness, I highly doubt he's depressed. He has a great life. Also, he doesn't dislike me. He worked very hard to get me to even like him as a person lol, so I think disliking me can be ruled out.

I don't feel the urge to have a child I'm happy being an auntie after a miscarriage in my teens I'm now 30 & honestly don't see myself any less if I don't give birth. I struggle to see positives outweigh negatives

Why did my friend's wife move her knee to touch my knee under the table while sitting next to me? Then a little later put her hand on my knee and leave her hand there?

As going through grief right now, I just want to hear stories from people I don't know so I can be as emotional about it as I can be. Starting with me, I am a 43 year old mother. I lost my husband in February this year in a car accident caused by a drunk driver. The first month was hard, but I had to be there for my kids. I can say I do have the best set of parents and in laws, who do continue to live with me & do treat me no less than a daughter even with my husband gone. I am a mother to 2 beautiful kids, a 21 year old daughter & 20 year old son, both who were 11 months apart. Last month, I lost my 20 year old son, unexpectedly. Since then, I have not been handling it well, but now I see it as staying storng for my daughter who also has lost a brother & a dad. No parent should have to bury their child, & I pray no parent or wife goes through the loss of a lifetime like I have. I would love to hear any tips or advice anyone can offer at this time. Everyone has to leave one day, but leaving before you even had a chance to live your life has been the main reason that has been hurting me. Thank you in advance

Help for a friend who lost her husband recently in Boston, MA. Her husband and she have 2 small kids. After her husband's death she found out that her husband has insurance, will and savings named on his ex wife's name living in a foreign country. The ex spouse and her husband do not have kids together. My friend is left penniless with two kids to raise and fend for herself as well. My friend is a little simple. Are their any legal ways she can get herself as beneficiary to all finances that actually should go to her instead of ex spouse.

2014 I found out my dad's having an affair with a girl and then I found out a guy has my password to everything. He asked for my hand in marriage in front of my dad I said yes and my dad was the witness. Then my dad took me away from there and said to never meet my husband not even go to his workplace. He also said that he will tell all the males in the house what happened because how dare a guy propose to me? I was forced back to my home and forced to witness the new girl with my father. She had all his card information and was doing his signatures for him too. 4 years they kept me away and even forced me to marry an old hag 90 year old man . they tried to get me raped to break up my marriage so my dad's girl can marry my husband I managed to escape and my dad tried kidnapping me but 4 years ago I had saved all the email logs of their plans and I told my dad I have those emails and since my husband has the passwords he can read. A month later I met my husband, we made love and now i'm pregnant. I'm homeless too and he send me money everyday. I am now pregnant and even then my family is sending harassing text messages and forcing me to come back home. Threatening me saying what will happen about my life. And i'm carrying a baby. Please help me, what do you think about this whole scenario and how do I make sure my baby doesn't get affected by this crap? I'm very strong for holding on too long but apparently they are stubborn enough to keep trying to kill me. Thanks.

My husband and I were at home one evening talking about stuff when he pointed out a photo of me and my best friend on a side table. He said that in that photo I looked like our son's date night sitter. I took a good look at the photo and agreed I saw the resemblance. The next thing I said was, "so that's why you like her"! He knew I meant, "so that's why you're attracted to her"! His response was, "Maybe" with a smile. I reacted, "so you admit you like her!" and he said,"I'm kidding!" He said he was just responding to what I said, that it was I who made an issue. We had this same girl when our son was still little and stopped using her for 5 years. My husband was the one who thought about her when I was in the process of looking for a new sitter since the previous one we had, an older lady, became less available. My husband likes to chat even with our other sitter who is in her 60s. Aren't jokes meant half-hearted or there is some truth in it? What do you think of that comment,"Maybe." I notice women (teens and twenty yr olds) passing by get his attention wherever we go.I am planning on calling back our 60 yr old sitter instead.

Sorry for the length, but the situation is unique and complex: I'm a student at one of the top 10 universities in the US, and will be graduating in Jan. 2020. My boyfriend (of one year) attends school with me, and will be graduating in May 2020. As we begin planning our future post-grad and applying, we find ourselves in a unique situation with some issues I've had trouble googling advice on. First and foremost, he is an international student from Brazil here on an education visa. We recently were informed that his chances of finding a company who's willing and able to procure one of the limited H-1B visas available in the US each year are slim to none. Thus, we find ourselves pursuing alternate options. (details continued in answers...)

they all end up regretting not listening to my advice and they keep asking me what I should do. I just tell them they gotta suck it up like every other married guy and live a lifetime of regret but I don't think that's enough good advice