In not sure what to do she s imitating wolf howls and even has a wolf hat thing

She calls me every 20-30 minutes, it drives me insane!

Ok I found my sisters tumblr and it shocked me. She's 22. This is my older sister that I love, Brittany. We used to watch spongebob together when we were 10. We went to our first concert together (Brittney spears) . And when I found her tumblr all of that disappeared. She had sexual photos of her dressing up like a baby on her tumblr. She was wearing a diaper, she had a binky. It literally made me throw up. I closed the tab and went to the bathroom to vomit. She doesn't know I found it and talks to me like everythings normal. I tried to act like nothing was wrong but I can't. She knows something is up but she doesn't know what exactly. I want everything to be normal again, but whenever I see her I just remember the photos. I know it's her life but I can't help my brain from thinking that's ******* disgusting. How can I accept this? Should I go to therapy? should I talk to her. I just want my older sister who I used to look up to back..

My parents have pictures of my nephews all over the house and one picture of my son when he was 3 months old, hes almost 3 yrs old now, and they didn't even have a proper frame for it. My brother lives over 20 miles away from my parents and she sees them a few times every week, we live less than 10 miles from my parents and they dont care to come and see my son at all. They only see him if I go to their place. I think my mom knows that this bothers us but she doesnt seem to care, i showed her a pic of my son with his halloween costume and she only repliedwith a pic of my nephews costumes and didnt say anything about my son. This has been upsetting for a long time, but why would she do this on purpose knowing its hurtful?

MOVING OUT IS NOT AN OPTION. I CANNOT AFFORD IT RIGHT NOW. i need a way to deal with her. i already have health problems i'm dealing with and the last thing i need is her causing unecessary drama with me. me (25) and my boyfriend ( who is 34) were watching a movie on the couch and after the movie was over and he left to go back home my mom sneakily whispered to my dad "i need to show you something" and she went to show him the couch and she was like " there's a white spot on the couch, she's been doing something" and my dad " i don't see anything. you're paranoid" and i was thinking to myself " wow you gotta be super bold to have sex in your own parents house. first of all i'm not that disrespectful I try not to sit too close to my boyfriend while at my parents house, we don't cuddle none of that. i go above and beyond to make sure i'm not being disrespectful and she STILL tries to find an issue where there is none. i'm just really frustrated and depressed because my mental health and physical health is deteriorating, i can barely afford to pay all of my medical bills and i have a mom who acts like a lunatic.

I don't mean the essentials such as household supplies and food. I make sure those things are well-stocked. In fact, as long as I have food in my cupboards and the necessary things I am more than content. I know I suddenly didn't turn cheap, either. I love buying for other people - well, my sister and brother-in-law and my father at least. I look forward to birthdays and Christmas now not because of what I'll get but because what I'll get them. I find this weird because I used to be extremely selfish and materialistic. And then, almost as if overnight I shed those bad habits that until now I could never admit were bad. Is this a part of growing up? I don't think I'm complaining but I'm just a little perplexed as to this organic change in me. Growing up I had the moniker "Nova 'I want' *Last Name*" Yes, I was so spoiled and selfish those closes around me used 'I want' as my middle name.

I'm 25, I just graduated from college a few months ago. I've living at my parents house until I can afford a place of my own. For the past year or so or ever since I've starting to have a passion for cooking and I have been cooking a lot for the household and for my aunts that stay nearby, I noticed my mom has had a nasty attitude with me. I mean my entire life we've never really had a good relationship because she was mentally and physically abusive but that's a story for another day. I hate fast food so I'm not going to eat fast food just to make her happy and make her feel comfortable. I'm not doing anything wrong by cooking, I cook AND clean up after myself, I wash all the dishes. She still complains. She's like " I hate when you cook you dirty up the whole kitchen. Even my dad was like " the kitchen isn't dirty". I work everyday except for Saturday so on saturdays me and my dad go grocery shopping so I can meal prep for the week and my mom goes " your dad is not taking you to the store on Saturday. He will have to take you on Friday. Knowing I work and don't get off until 9 pm on Friday's. I know I should have my license by now but I have extremely bad anxiety so don't judge me. Being raised by a controlling and mentally unstable mother will mess you up. I'm still trying to restore my self esteem from her constantly putting me down. I feel like no matter what I do it's mever good enough. She asked me " oh how many grocery stores does your dad take you on Saturday?" she said that in a very nasty tone and i was like " you don't control where other people can and cannot take me but if you wanna play these games i'll just take a uber saturday". i'm trying not to spend unecessary money but if she wants to play these jealousy games so be it" also me and my boyfriend were watching a movie on the couch and after the movie was over and he left to go back home my mom sneakily whispered to my dad "i need to show you something" and she went to show him the couch and she was like " there's a white spot on the couch, she's been doing something" and my dad " i don't see anything. you're paranoid" and i was thinking to myself " wow you gotta be super bold to have sex in your own parents house. first of all i'm not that disrespectful i try not to sit too close to my boyfriend while at my parents house, we don't cuddle none of that. i go above and beyond to make sure i'm not being disrespectful and she STILL tries to find an issue where there is none. mikey?? i'm confused. i'm not trying to take her house by cooking. i thought i was doing the family a favor by cooking, my dad doesn't seem to have a problem with it. he actually appreciates me cooking and slaving over the stove especially when i work so much. i guess i should i just buy mcdonalds everyday so she feels like i'm not a threat??

I know for a fact , everyone loves my twin sister more than me , but The Holy Trinity. I just feel cheated out of everything , jobs , my health , independence , etc. Just so here and her friends in the Greek college system can destroy former populars , basically. Early peakers , artists , athletes , beautiful people. Discriminate and lie , destroy their reproduction system with EMF. IT IS FRAUD , ILLEGAL REPRESENTATION AND DISGUSTING. I DO NOT NEED MY CLASS AND HOMETOWN OR MY TWIN AND MY HATEFUL FAMILY MEMNERS WITH THE BACKSTREET BOYS , HAVE MADE ANY LEGAL , SOCIAL , AND PROFESSIONAL IMPOSSIBLE AND IT HAS LEAD TO NARCASSIST ABUSE BY MY FAMILY , INCLUDING MY TWIN SISTER , DO NOT MOVE TO HILLIARD , DUBLIN , WORTHINGTON , COLUMBUS , ETC. ALL SO THEY WOULD NOT HAVE TO TURN IN BLACKMAILERS. TO SAVE FACE AND BLAME ME. I QUIT , I AM DONE BEING THE DEPRIVED , REJECTED TWIN , TO KEEP THESE HORRIBLE LAWS IN INDIA AND AT THE U.N.. THEY KILL A CHILD AS AN ADULT , ONCE THE OTHER IS NAMED AS A "god" or " better " socially. If I can not pursue an education for my religious beliefs since I was convicted for crimes that were done by other individuals in reality. I am a Christian , My family is Freemason , as is Ohio. So leave!

He told my mother that he needs a letter from her saying that he took care of me (which he didn't) for his "citizenship" it turns out that he was lying and he has a state issued court date with my mother over him not paying child support. He wants the letter to use to defend himself. Sigh.

My husband/ her father passed away unexpectedly in July. Thinking of asking my brother's to go in his place. my ^

My fiancé was complaining to me now that we found jobs with better pay and full time (me and him got the same job but only working two days together) that his mom is now asking for more money. Basically what I mean is that my fiancé buys metrocards to take the bus but the metrocards do not get used because when he leaves to go to work his father stops him and makes him go in the car. Reason is they offer to drive him and be nice but then at the end of the week they yell and say "oh we drove you too much we want $10 for gas. But because you started a new job give us $20." He already pays 1/3 of the cellphone bill, pays for the television provider they have, has my engagement ring he put on a monthly bill to pay it off little by little, i dont know if he pays any other bills he didnt say. Then the $32 for the metrocard gets wasted. We got these jobs because we both want to move out & now we finally can with pay from the new job and us still doing our part time job for 2 days a week. He told me he got mad at his father for making him go in the car because he wastes money on metrocards and is trying to save money for me & him to move in together. Then he said his dad just stood quiet and didnt say anything but let him take the bus. Is this wrong? He doesnt mind helping his parents out but he feels like because he got the highest paying job in his family now that they are taking advantage of him and asking for money all the time. We are both 25 and 26 yrs old & want to move out

I walked back a little early with my son aged 9 who was ready to go home. He and I are all that are left. My wife, 4 other kids, vanished without a trace. No crime evidence found, no marital issues existed, no trace. My wife adored our kids and never would have abandoned Michael (the 9 year old who is still with me). Michael has had it hard, blaming himself, ever since. 25 years later, should I hold out hope? Police never found any evidence of any crime or anything. The car was never found.

I need an answer

I am 16 years old. My Stepmom is always going through my stuff. On a daily basis she goes through my phone to check my text messages, I haven't posted anything on Facebook in two months but she still check it everyday. Everyday she searches my room. She is doesn't like that I am on diet and I refuse to eat the unhealthy crap that she cooks. I asked my Dad to tell her to stop doing searches in my room but he said she had a right to search my room because she thinks you have an eating disorder. Which don't I have an an eating disorder. I Ripped pages out of my diary just so she couldn't read my thoughts. She also makes me talk to her because she thinks I am to shy. She also thinks I'm hiding the fact an eating disorder. I'm sick of my parents trying to force me to eat food that I don't want to eat it's stupid. I'm basically a good kid can I go to school I'm supposed to I don't do drugs or smoke I don't drink alcohol but my step mom has it in her head that I haven't eating disorder. She thinks it's because ex boyfriend used to call me fat all the time. She didn't like my ex boyfriend cuz he was always putting me down. She thinks I went on a diet to who impress my ex-boyfriend. She doesn't want me on a diet because she doesn't think that I'm fat . I want my stepmom to mind their own business.. I meant my step mom has it in her head that I have an eating disorder

My dad asked or perhaps demanded me to lend him a large amount of sum. The thing is I need every penny with a baby on its way, the due date is quickly approaching. I wouldn't mind if it was a smaller amount, I kept telling him that I can't do that amount due to bills but then he started like interrogating me, asking me what bills!? They were very supportive (unless it came to me needing money), but I don't understand why they don't give me any choice when it comes to me lending them money. I would never directly ask them for money, they always say that they've got none without giving me the opportunity to even ask. How can I avoid this topic when I'm with them? Thanks

I keep hearing its women who is afraid they don't get married or husband will cheat. How about men?

I like this guy who I don't know very well, and I'm friends with him on Facebook. There is a girl he hangs out with a lot who it seems is just a friend (they've known each other since high school and we all went to the same school; I remember hearing talk back then that she liked him, but I don't think he reciprocated). She often posts things on his profile. Recently she posted something she thought they should go see, and my crush responded. Later another guy commented on it and said something about how they should just make it official. Well I noticed as soon as my crush got back on Facebook, he promptly deleted the post entirely. I wondered if this meant he did not want people to see the comment and think they were together? He has that he's single listed on his main page, and there is no evidence that he and this girl are an item besides. I've also noticed he's liked posts about being single. Could there be some other reason he hid the post, like a secret relationship between them? They both work in the same field so I wondered if that might be a reason to be private. I can't exactly ask him outright as I don't know him well yet.

For the first time my friend opened up completely to me sort of.He told me he almost commited suicide along while back and im trembling almost.Im cryingbecause i feel so bad and my mother is being a COMPLETE GODDAMN ******* *****.She is telling me icannot do anything,took my ******* PHONEANDshe kept going on and nagging on me and ******* putting ME down MORE AGAIN.Im 15iSRSLYCANT DUCKING DO THIS ANYMORE! I CANT HANDLE MY MOTHER AND I WANT HER TO JUST FUCKINGLEAVE!MY DADIS SO MUCH BETTER EVEN THOUGH HES JUST ABOUT THE SAME BUT BETTER.she keeps going on and on and i just cant do it,i blame her for me hating myself a long time ago,my low self esteem how I KEPT LOSING FRIENDS INSTEAD OF GAINING. ALMOST EVERYTHJNG HOW BAD I MAINED GOOD CONFIDENCE IN MIDDLE SCHOOL."******* crying cause your friend gtfooh" how i dont care about my grades bc i hang out afterschool,no one cares about my grades and they wont help me when im 18"I want her to seriously LEAVE as much as i dont like saying stuff like that.she says how i take after my sister who wasxa really bad example towardsall of us.Please what the **** DO I DO.She keeps REMINDING ME OF HOW SHE IS GONNA kick me out at 18 or something or isnt that like disowning?i cant handle the stress she gives me over small ****.ialways wanted a mother who is actually "sane" who is actually ******* supportive.Yes i give attitudes but she gets mad over the smallest ****!!I HATE MY LIFE CAUSE OF HER&I REALLY HAVE NO ******* FREEDOM TO DO ABOUT ANYTHING.

Okay so I'm 15 and Aniya ( younger sister) is 8 . And idk but I think she is obsessed with me literally. When her and my Mya (other sister) gets into their daily argument Aniya always says things like " you don't look better that Caiya ( me ) " or " Caiya got way more edges than you . When I'm fixing or doing her hair in the mirror she always stares at me in the mirror. I ask her countinsly to stop and she'll say things like " I'm sorry I can't my eyes just goes to you " And that really creeped me out . So their room is getting fixed cause the rain somehow got into it and got mold in there . So they have to sleep in my room which is fine with me . But when I'm laying down in the on my phone and I look up she is staring at me . It don't be the "oh your my role model and I wanna be like you " it's the stares the creeps p gives you . And it be even weirder because she literally gets comfortable and does it . I ask her all the time why she does it and she she'll give me theses lames excuses. She would be tryna to act like me , talk like me , walk like me and even sign like me ( I can't sing) . I got mad when she was staring in my face the other day and yelled at her to stop and said she should stop staring because it rude , and annoying and she shouldn't do that . And I went back to my phone and I look up and she was still staring. Idk what's going on with her . I hate being in a room with her cause of that. Can some help me ?

i'm 17 and i live with my 3 sisters (22,18,14) and both my parents. is it wrong to wish my mom wasn't living with us? when i was 10, i found out my mom was an alcoholic. she quickly became physically & emotionally abusive. it seemed like every week i'd come home to find out she attempted suicide again. (to this day i have nightmares reliving the days i was in the car and she tried to crash or the day i watched her jump off our 2 story balcony) my dad got a restraining order on her when i was 12 that was supposed to last 7 years, but my dad let her live with us again a year later. she's been in and out rehab and to this day she isn't sober. the thing is, she'll be sober for a couple days, maybe even a week and start crying & apologizing for everything. when this happens my dad says we're in no place not to forgive her and both my parents tell me i'm the reason my relationship with her is bad. i hate to say it but i hate my mom. i'm not mad at her, i'm hurt and i don't wanna get hurt again because everytime she says she won't drink again, its never true. i never talk back or disredpect my parents, and i've asked to move out and try not to come home for as long as possible. being at home with my mom scares me even though everyone says my mom won't hurt me again. (BTW CPS has taken my mom away before, but as we've gotten older, there's nothing they can do)

I am in foster care right now.

I am too young to go where I want. My Mom despises my Dad since they are divorced at my Mom's choosing. She resents that I still have a relationship with him. He is remarried and she despises his new wife (though they only met once and my Mom refused to speak to her). So we are going to my uncle's beach house where his in-laws are. His in-laws are the ultimate rednecks and one is a convicted sex offender. She lets me see them but not my Dad since she divorced him. She says he is a bad influence on me (he misled her about finances) but doesn't mind me seeing someone convicted of rape in 1998. I do not get that. So my question is what do I do when my Mom makes me see my uncle's in-laws on Thanksgiving to keep me from my Dad and step-mother

Okay I just started about a month ago watching this boy he's 2. My girls are 6 and 2. Anyways my 2 year old bit his son and I told both the boys mom and dad. He was fine with what I told him because he understands kids do things, but the boy's mom called cps and now they want to investigate. I have nothing to hide but I don't need her added stress to my family and I'm pregnant too. She'd call with every little incident and I don't think it's fair to me to go thru that for nothing. Suggestions?

well im 25 tried it for first time ever this weekend and I didnt like the numbness of throat so never will i do it again. my mom and I loving trusting relationship.always told her truth on everything but I feel she be very mad at this. You think I should or keep it a secret?

To relieve stress, my dad comes home every day and opens his app called clash royale on his phone and then iPad, which he proceeds to cuss at and jam at when he is losing a battle. This is quite scary and rather annoying for me. While he dials it down in my presence, he screams and yells when I retreat to my room or am not in his line of sight. What should I do??

if so, how hard is it staying on both sides? which side are you mostly close to?

I like this guy who I don't know very well, and I'm friends with him on Facebook. There is a girl he hangs out with a lot who it seems is just a friend (they've known each other since high school and we all went to the same school; I remember hearing talk back then that she liked him, but I don't think he reciprocated). She often posts things on his profile. Recently she posted something she thought they should go see, and my crush responded. Later another guy commented on it and said something about how they should just make it official. Well I noticed as soon as my crush got back on Facebook, he promptly deleted the post entirely. I wondered if this meant he did not want people to see the comment and think they were together? He has that he's single listed on his main page, and there is no evidence that he and this girl are an item besides. I've also noticed he's liked posts about being single. Could there be some other reason he hid the post, like a secret relationship between them? They both work in the same field so I wondered if that might be a reason to be private. I can't exactly ask him outright as I don't know him well yet.

So I'm a kindergarten teacher and I noticed one of my students is always fighting and getting in trouble. I know that's a sign of their home so I asked him why he gets so upset. He responded with "Because that's what Africans do." I asked him what he meant and he said his family fights at home. I asked him if he gets hit and he said his dad hits him all over his body. He told me he missed school on Monday because his dad gave him a bruise on the neck over the weekend so his mom kept him from school until it went away. He also told me that his uncles punch him in the stomach whenever they want and for no reason. I asked him if his parents know and he said they do but they don't do anything about it and they keep making him visit his uncles. I contemplated on whether or not to report it and I did because it's the right thing to do but I was in foster care as a child and my foster parents were verbally abusive and always told me no one would love me and I wouldn't amount to anything and I would hate to think I tried to do something good and now he just ends up with abusive foster parents. To make it worse, I reported it after he went home. I let that little boy go home to an abusive home. I feel like the worst person in the world. I've always loved children and love teaching them but now I'm feeling like maybe jobs involved with children aren't for me because I get to emotionally involved and end up sad. Any advice good or bad will help. Thank you guys.

Who do I get to talk to him? He had a swimsuit issue out as he seemed to have been looking at it when doing it. I am a mother and am sickened but I think I recall hearing this was normal. I have not confronted him yet. What do I do? Do I talk to him about the birds and the honeybees? How do I find someone to? There are no men in his life. His father took off with another woman when he was 6 months old. We never heard from him or his family again. My father is deceased and it is just my mother and I in my family now. His only sibling is a sister and we have a priest at our church but I'd be way uncomfortable asking him to. I know nothing about puberty, porn, masturbation, what's normal vs. what means something is wrong. I have no idea what to do. What do I do? What do I say? Do I tell him I know? I went to get his sheets and saw what he had been doing. PLEASE REPLY, I AM NOT BEING A TROLL LIKE SOMEONE BELOW CLAIMS BUT AM ASKING A VERY SERIOUS QUESTION.

I see this time and time again. Right now I have an aunt that is not talking to the family (my Mom's side) and so we do not see her children anymore. Years back it was an alcoholic uncle and his kids all blocked me and my sister on Facebook after the falling out. That uncle later got help and the kids resumed contact with us. As a kid my Mom had issues with one branch of her family and so I was barred from seeing them. I missed out cause of my Mom's bitterness. So why is it that the children of estranged relatives (adult children or kids) usually become estranged also even though the fight is not with them?

I am 22, and have a pretty good living going for myself. The father of the child is committed and actually wants the child, and more so has no plans of leaving me or the child.We have been together almost 2 years. We live together but my dad still has a room for me at his house as he isn't ready to feel like I've moved out (he expects me to spend the night every once in a while every few weeks or so). I partially think its so he can have control over me. He doesnt like the idea of me getting my own insurance or anything because he wants me to be dependent on him and I think I qualify to be on his until im 25 Worst of all his temper is awful. I grew up with him screaming at me for the smallest things, I could give examples but im sure it sounds too comedic and out there to believe. I wouldnt believe people like him exist either if it wasn't for seeing it for myself example anyway: just last week he screamed at me and punched his steering wheel because I wouldnt get on board with him on his opinion of movie. He's popped me in the mouth for things I didnt even do because he doesnt like to let me talk, hes amost split the wood on my bedroom door over me leaving the house looking "unkempt" according to him because I had a few hairs out of place. Hes made more innocent teenage girls working cash registers cry than I would like to admit. I sound immature but I am ready for the baby. Its just him i am afraid of. He would like to believe Im a virgin and still act as a child..

I have always been confused about this. My father was born in London to an American mother and an English father. My mother was born in Vietnam to an American father and a Vietnamese mother. What does that make me? Does the generation skip my parents and go straight from my American grandparents (So I would be a 2nd generation American by this method), or does it restart because my parents both came from different countries.

They feel I just need to let it go and accept that he was young and doesn't do it now. An older half-brother (my Dad's son) sexually abused me between the ages of 6 and 12. He was ages 16 to 22 at the time. He went to jail for abuse cases and is now a registered sex offender. His real mother had committed suicide so my Mom loves him like a son. My feeling is that I am horrible and others will find out I am a slu.t for losing my virginity to him. I also feel anxiety for no known reason when around him. He comes to family holidays so I see him 4 or 5 times a year. I have started skipping some of the events but things like my sister's wedding I'd feel wrong to skip. I was his only victim in the family which makes me feel like I was partially to blame. My parents don't blame me for what happened then but they blame me for feeling shame now and anxiety. How can I get them to see I cannot help what is happening now anymore then I am guilty for opening my legs for the older brother Chuck?

Her suicide was in 2015

I am an adult but don;t want it to be too obvious.

He has not done this to anyone and is never aggressive with anything. I just fear this cause he is a guy (he is 20). I fear all guys so I avoid all other then my brother. Our father is deceased from alcohol abuse. I don't know any other males.

I dont want anything to do with my sister, she is one of those type of girls that is just DRAMA. Just non stop drama, i disowned her already but she keeps trying to contact me one way or another. I dont know what her problem is, she needs to get a life. I have my own life, im doing my own thing and she just keeps trying to come into my life stirring up problems. If she cant get to me directly, she will use other people, like my mom, relatives, people i know to try and stir up problems, contact me. Its so wierd and creepy. She just wont leave me alone. Should i call the police ? i really dont have time for this.

To make a long story short. I suffered a massive stroke that has caused some physical issues like partial paralysis(or muscle weakness) on my left side and I walk with a cane. However, I'm having another problem with holding a grudge. I have an Aunt that suggested because I have these problems, a potential boyfriend wouldn't want me. Meanwhile, She is a high school drop out, has three children by three different men, are and is a gold digger. I was highly offended that She'd suggest such a thing, when I know I'm a much more accomplished and classier woman then She is!

What should I send? Her husband passed away from cancer.

She tells me , no candy for the baby tomorrow. My baby is only 3 months , why would she even say that to me ? I'm just offended she would even say that to me.

Is that really love or is it selfish servitude.??

Will be going to college in the Spring to be doing my pre-recuisistes to be an Rn. Currently working full time as a nurse aide making about $11/hr. Don t want to get in to debt that s why I m working. My grandma is crazy and grandpa is chill but bossy. They act like I m 10.