One of them I had a fling with. I was the reason he got out of his social awkwardness and started making friends. I was also his first kiss. Ditched school together to hangout almost everyday. I've talked him out of suicide before. He was only 17 when he died along with his bestfriend, Andrew. The other 2, were my best girl friends I've ever had. We always hungout. We were there for eachother all the time, and spent time with eachother almost every weekend. They were only 16, one had just turned 16.  Everything's so different. I broke down many times today. I wish it was just a nightmare. I stay up all night, wishing things were different. I can't move past it. School isn't the same, nor will it ever be without them. It hurts so much. All I have left of Jordan is a cat he adopted for me for my birthday, since I lost my other cat. As for Marilynn and Secily, I just have a lot of their clothes and shoes. Jordan Kidd, Andrew Miller, Marilynn Dominguez, & Secily Lackey. You 4 will be missed. .

What can I do to make her want to keep plans with me? Maybe I am to boring that is why she cancels if she gets a better offer? Help!

Think i dont want to be friends

So I am a woman in my 20's and I met a new friend a few months ago and she also has a 12 year old daughter. Anyways, I am a Black woman and my friend is white. However, my friend's daughter I feel doesn't really like me. She doesn't make eye contact when she looks at me, never says thank you, and I have caught her several times making fun of Black people with jokes and some racial slurs. I actually think her daughter is prejudice. My friend also told me when her daughter was younger, her daughter would say she found African features unattractive. Now I have brought up to my friend all of this, but she insists her daughter is still a child and "doesn't know better and that is is hormones" of what she does. She said she is 12, but to be honest, I feel its just excuses.

I was drinking with my boyfriend and our friends. I legit thought I saw him inappropriately touching one of the girl's there. So I started acting really spiteful and passive-aggressive (re-enacting what I thought he was doing). The girl confronted me because she thought I was dissing her (she thought I was re-enacting her touching his knee to get his attention. I thought I saw his hand up her leg) then I looked more closely and he wasn't even touching her. I immediately realized I had messed up and was like "f**k! I'm sorry! Sorry sorry sorry sorry" and tried to explain what happened. I had a long chat with the girl the next day and she was saying "yeah that broke my heart that you thought I would allow that... it's fine... this was just a hiccup... just don't do that again... can you stop bringing it up?... seriously... don't worry about it." My boyfriend and I have worked things out, too. I clearly have some underlying jealousy issues (or something) which need to be sorted, so I'll start working on that. The other people who attended are still very angry with me for falsely accusing and disrespecting their friends. They have requested (to my boyfriend) that I no longer attend social events with them. I understand that this is my fault and that the problem is with me and nobody else. But how do I fix things with everyone? That is true actually... I have a history of getting drunk and being really negative and dwelling on the past (the same stuff over and over). This was just the worst thing I've done. Yeah, I gotta quit alcohol.

I'm a 22 year old guy. All of my friends are other guys. I think it might be a good idea to broaden and start making friends with girls too. I've actually never had a girlfriend before. I have difficulty with girls in general. So I think maybe I should try making some friends who are girls first. How can I do this??

I work for a company that is laying off people mostly women because of lack of business. Many of these women are single moms and their job is their only source of income. The company told us that if we upgraded our skills to use a computer it would be easier to find other jobs in the company. They got a former employee Bill to volunteer to train us on computers on our lunch hour. Bill also on his own time spent many hours at night and weekends training us. It was hard work for us but luckily we all found other jobs with the company. Bill is a 22 year old single guy that we all love what he did for us. We want to do something VERY SPECIAL for him to show our appreciation. Any suggestions? What can a bunch of gals do for Bill that will he will remember for a long time? Guys, what would be the BEST thing we girls could do for you that would make you say "THAT WAS GREAT"?

You heard that right, I am 19 and never had a job. For the past year and a half I've been studying in college and actively doing volunteer work on a local political campaign in my area because I enjoy doing it. I am in no need for money at this point in time, but my friends keep pressing me to finally get a job, even though I don't have a vehicle to drive myself and am currently relying on my friends to drive me to campaign events, etc. (We're both volunteers so their driving there anyway). My plan is to wait until I am 20 before I start working, but I am self conscious because my friends keep pressuring me to get one. Should I just rush getting into one?

My friend is 95% angry about something Daily. She says she loves herself but the way she lets others treat her how could she? Her ex cheated on her and lied constantly and she still stuck with him till he left her for someone else and she still wanted him! She says I'm annoying and that I piss her off yet she texts me everyday and wants me to hangout. It's like she can't be alone. She has a son but when she has a man it's like she puts the man before her kid she will say it's her life but I believe if you have a kid then it's not about you anymore it's about the kid! She has a high sex drive and always seems sad but if you try to help her she gets mad and lashes out at you.

I know that we should be happy with ourselves, personally - but it's also good to receive recognition for our hard work. I posted that I will be receiving my Masters Degree this month on FB and the first time it got only a few likes (11), so I thought I would try again (maybe they didn't see it right). I posted it again and it got even less likes (some friends didn't even like it). Then the people who used to bully me (a few years ago) post about how they are JUST entering school to get their grad degree (right after I posted) and they receive over 300+ likes (some even from people I know that ignore my own accomplishment). I don't understand why. I'm nice and I always support them when they achieve anything. 

My best and only friend is making some very poor choices, she's been clinging to an unhealthy toxic relationship and although I'm being reasonable she's not listening. And yes, I tried being an open listener but nothing she's saying is really changing my mind, and she's not exactly listening to me. I want her to see that what she's doing is only going to keep hurting her but it seems that everything I say is going in one ear and out the other, what should I do?

I'm a 22 year old guy. All of my friends are other guys. I think it might be a good idea to broaden and start making friends with girls too. I've actually never had a girlfriend before. I have difficulty with girls in general. So I think maybe I should try making some friends who are girls first. How can I do this??

Ok in like 2 months is my 21st birthday. The thing is I don't really have friends or a girlfriend or anything I have one friend who is dumb and stupid. I'm not being mean but it is true one girl asked me if I'm doing anything big and I said I have no clue. What if she comes and it's just me and this other weird guy oh man that will not go down well. I really want new friends, real friends who can be trusted and not losers who never shower and break my stuff. It's upsetting not having anyone to talk to and my parents get on my nerves. The thing is people will probably look at me and think I have hundreds of friends because I'm always happy and I'm clean and not scruffy. But they have no idea that I'm I'm just a loner. It just makes me feel hopeless. What girl will want to talk to someone like me? If I had real friends then problem solved. What can I do?

I have been friends with a camgirl for a while. We had been talking about meeting in person. But work has made it very difficult to get close to her even though we have talked off and on for over 2 years.  When she is done working she does want to talk online anymore. But when we talk I can tell she enjoys our conversations and I do too. Anyway, she got sick and went missing online for over a week. I was worried about her and I have feelings for her especially during this time of Corona.  So, I contacted her son who is 30 on Facebook, and told him I was a friend of his mom and wonder if she was okay cause I had not heard from her in a while. Yes, awkward but I was desperate and worried. Anyway, she returned online the next day or so and I told her what happened and she became irate that I contacted her son. She said he hated her job and that I had ignored her boundaries and caused friction between them. I kept trying to message her and let her know I was sorry and trying to explain things. But she turned really nasty and said she had to work and didn't want to deal this and said some very hurtful things l me for causing a rift between her and her grown son. She told me to leave her alone for a few weeks.   So I have been heartbroken cause I love this woman. The first two weeks were awful. this is the longest we have never spoken and have never had a fight before. I don't know if I can fix this. Yes, I made a huge mistake but I wasn't deliberately trying to hurt her relationship with her son. I was just worried about her and sometimes love makes you do stupid things. I don't understand why she can't see that.   She bares blame in her own relationship with her son as far as her job, etc. And maybe had she been more responsive and considerate I wouldn't have been so worried and did what I did. Her responsiveness and consideration have been an issue at times. I get it her job drains her. But many people have hard jobs and still make time for others. What should I do? I want to fix this and I still love her. One last thing. It's important to note I think this woman I am in love with has never truly been loved except for her son. She had some family members and a few ex's that treated her like garbage. She's very introverted when she is not working. She barely leaves her house. I think she just is not used to someone really caring about her in a huge way and loving her the way I do even though we have not met yet. I feel like telling her all of this.  

Im a 24 year old guy,  and i had feelings for this women named Nicole.   We used work on the same floor.  Nicole and I used to talk alot, I noticed she would stare at me all the time and blush.  I could feel a chemistry between us,  but she was married with kids.  We never said anything disrespectful to each other.  Later she admitted to one of my closest friend about her feelings.  My close friend kept nicoles secret without telling me for the longest time. Nicole began having problems with coworkes saying,  we are too friendly with eachother and how she probably doesn't doo her job.  There was drama and i was told to stop talking to her.  Nicole didn't want to see me in trouble and she was trying to protect me.  Later on she became cold with me.  she used to be super friendly now she would act different with me.  Everyone began keeping an eye on us at work.....one day for her birthday i gave her a gift card,   She told my supervisor about the gift card and I was removed from Nicoles floor.  i got put on a different department far away from her.     3 weeks later after i was removed,  Nicole quit and left her job and even blocked me from facebook. Nicole came back to work early this year after 1 year offf.... but she looks down everytime she sees me,  She can't look me in the eyes and looks down at her phone.  Its like i dont excist anymore.   Does she really hate me now??????