For the record, he never goes out or stays late at work. I encourage him to go out with his friends, but he doesn't want to. 

It weren't for the kids. I love them to death but hate being around my wife. I'm so torn. What do I do? 

He told me that raw dogging her p**sy is the best thing ever

With me she doesn't have to work she doesn't have to work I provide us a nice lifestyle the big house the boats the fancy cars. I also don't cheat I'm not a cheater and I will never cheat. We don't spend a whole lot of time together because I work a lot but we do come together on saturday and spend a couple of hours together. I'm a good man to her and she knows this which is why I don't think she will ever willingly leave. I'm not her type. We were good friends before we dated and she told me her type while we were only friends. She loves men with men with a sense of humor that can cook. She also loves men that aren't so opinionated and more laid back. I'm neither of those. I'm a very opinionated person and I refuse to back down on that which is where we clash a lot. We have different views on everything. Everything. The only common ground we have is the fact that neither of us wants kids but when we see what else we share we come blank. Our sex life has also been horrible she's becoming more and kore digusted with me I noticed. I thought it would improve over the years but it's gotten worse. She never orgasms either. And just lays there quiet and wanting me to finish Quickly. At first I thought she had a low sex drive but now I believe it's cause she really don't wanna be with me. I bet if she was having sex with a man more her type she would be begging him not to stop  She is 22. I'm 35  My heart is not in this relationship anymore really I'm not happy anymore and it's because of our relationship  And also my wife complains to me about not wanting to watch certain shows with her even though I told her I'm not a tv show person I would rather watch movies  I told my wife don't sit here and lie to my face you're with me for security you know if you got with a man you really wanted he wouldn't do all that I do or even if he had the money he would probably be selfish with his money  She was like I'm with you because I love you. I'm a pretty girl I can have anybody I chose you" and I said " any man can talk a great game but I've actually proved myself to you "

This mass panic over the Coronavirus is ridiculous. It's not nearly as dangerous as you keep being told it is. Look up statistics and compare them to other causes of death. It's extremely low.

My wife just got a message from one of her friends that her friends husband is dying from the virus. He's on life support they got him on a violator they got 2 young kids they're oldest just turned 7 yesterday she's the same age as our daughter. Because of her weak immune system she can't go see them or even be around people hardly I'm the only one she can be around right now and the kids. She doesn't know what she do if something happened to me. I'm taking these next 30 days off work though I have to for her. I haven't even be out and around people since I quit working last week. She's really upset about this. How can I help her feel better ?

My Fiancé frustrates me quite a bit. A few of the things that particularly get to me are: 1. Having his ear pods in constantly, which makes it difficult for him to hear me. 2. Never being consistent about chores or helping me with the house. 3. Allowing his boys (my step-babes) to leave messes (they're 9), which I end up picking up, or being lax about keeping up on their homework. 4. Holding conversations with the mother of his kiddos, that aren't pertinent to childcare, or allowing her to bash me. And... 5.Pushing  to financially support her, in one form or another, "for his boys", without actually assuming custody. She is emotionally and financially unstable for the most part and my income and work is expected to be maintained, in order for him to continue on with his weekend arrangement.  6. Staying up late every night, making it difficult to wake up when our baby wakes.  I have asked, pleaded, yelled and cried for him to work on these things and when I do, he just tells me "I'm always mad at him", but the problem still persists.   This evening really broke it for me, as his boys drew a picture of me simply yelling at a fat version of him. It hurt me so badly, mainly because it's either an actual representation of what I look like to them or it's just a silly little jab at the two of us. What should I do to rectify this? I'm so lost.

I have screwed my wife so hard these past few days she actually started respecting me and stuff for a day or two. My side chick sent me 123 nudes, close ups and she wants the D so bad. She's asking for D pics. My friend has been pretty horn too. His wife is on the rag and he's been like looking for stories online to read. haha How you all doing?

We are married and I'm wanting to know if I'm allowed to pick my husband's vehicle up after he just went to jail. I don't want to get in trouble. We are married though I figured it would b ok since we are married. 

I don't understand how this mans entitled to 140 million. She made that money and he doesn't need to have a whole 140 million, wtf seriously, even giving him a free 10 million is a bit too much. I seriously don't understand how that's ethical or logical. I'm not sure what kind of learning difficulties the judge has but that can't be right surely?? Am I missing something?  I must be missing something

Hello All, I have been married for 4 years. After having our second child my wife has started to deprive me from sex. She always gives excuses to prevent us from having sex. She is a one man woman I know that. She is a very caring and lovely housewife. I am very depressed due to this situation. Please give me advice as how to make my wife have more frequent passionate sex with me again.

I believe people show their true face after 2 1/2 years of dating ya 

Do any of your wives talk about sex topics with their girlfriends (mostly about others they know), but then they are as cold as fuckingice to you? I mean, really, what the hell?

I've been divorced for about 2 years. I've been with my current boyfriend for about 3 months. Its easily the most serious post divorce relationship I've had. It's also the best relationship I've had in a very long time. We're planning on having sex for the first time on Friday. I'm super excited, but I'm also super nervous. Firstly, this is the first time I'll have sex in 4 years (the last 2 years of my marriage were sexless). On top of that, the last time I ever had sex with anyone other than my ex-husband was 17 years ago. I'm crazy nervous. (To clarify, I want to have sex with him. I'm just nervous about it) I'm nervous about getting naked with him (I want to get naked with him, but I'm nervous about it). I'm not sure if I'll do the right stuff. What if I'm not good in bed with him? What if the sex doesn't work well with me? I want things to go really well, but I'm concerned they won't. What can I do to not be nervous about having sex on Friday? What can I do to make the sex as good as I possibly can?

Way back when we had parties - pre virus - a good friend at our NY Eve party said "at midnight we swap spouses" and we all laughed. But I've been wondering. Alcohol, we know, can sometimes lead people to say what's really on their mind. We saw this couple at the Super Bowl Party and I had no chance to follow up. I've talked to my wife about our friend's comment. She said, "hmm, ask her what she meant." Good idea to follow up after the virus cools off? Laugh it off if it's nothing? Or maybe where there's smoke there's fire? I've had time to ponder this ... Whatcha think?

I'm doing this for my human womwn out there! I'm really working on being a nicer marriage and divorce frequenter I'm not even crossing my fingers.

i'm a very lonely man in my forties, i have lived alone for 15 years in a council flat....ive had severe mental problems to cope with in life....and ive never achieved any relationships in my life and never had a female partner...........my only support is my elderly parents who live far away. i have a vivid imagination  and i always imagine people who have different lives to me out there, the opposite life to me....like happy couples who live together, guy and girl, the girl is brunette,  and when they get home behind closed doors, they grin and giggle to each other before they have sex....their lives are simple, happy.......and they have achieved their goals in life.....so the opposite to me. and when i have that thought about other people's lives, i feel a jealous anger towards that couple....because i want that too, i want what they have......i would like a pale brunette girlfriend too and to have pleasurable sex, giggle and have fun......but instead i live a tortured, isolated life with no relationships, dealing with mental health problems?.....and in the last few years acquired type 2 diabetes too, so i manage that condition. is there any way i can stop these imaginings of other peoples lives? then feeling extreme jealous anger as i imagine their grins?

I know youalls down in the dumps about corona but the least you can do is laugh with me.  They say laughter is the best medicine. Here I'll even throw in a few standard M&D questions: Duuuh, I cheated, why is the wife mad? Or Ooooh Yeeeeh!  My chubby hubby better be happy with ALL THIS despite how many people I was with previously.  I take my murrige seriously so why is he not satisfied?Who's with me?

I'm always hearing how a dude is insecure if he doesn't like the amount of people the current wife's done the nasty with.  After all, who wants to picture their spouse bumping uglies with sooooo many dudes.  At the very least, she took sacred vows to wipe all them previous adventures away (or so she thought). But did you ever stop to think how having to drag around that giant bag of fond memories affects her current state of mind within the confines of sacred marriage? Cut her some slack I say. How is the best way you ask? Simple.  Fess up!  Right Now! To Me!

Say it with me:  MUH MURRIGE! At least I ain't asking for your seedy backstory (although the offer still stands). Who's with me?

My husband is a good man. He is generous, kind, thoughful, hard-working, but he doesn't have a lot of drive. For example, he's been doing the same work for years. He says he loves it, but the pay is unspectacular. I decided to tell him that I am leaving back in January. I thought he would be shattered and would be on the phone with me every day pleading for me to come back, but he's done nothing but live his life. I found out through Facebook that he bought a motorcycle, started his own home brew, and is studying Tae Kwon Doe. This is ridiculous. When you dump someone, he's supposed to fight to get you back. What am I going to do now?

I am 50, and my wife is 44. We have been married for 13 years. 2 years ago, we found out she has breast cancer. It was considered Stage II and had moved into 2 of the 5 of her lymph nodes they tested. She had a partial mastectomy, and has completed targeted radiation treatments and so far is cancer free. Her doctors put her on Tamoxifen as part of her treatment. I understand this drug basically forces her into menopause.Prior to all of this, our sex life was pretty normal, usually 3-4 times a month. Since her surgery and over the past year, it has gone to zero. We had a long talk about it and she told me that she had absolutely no desire or need for sex, however, she would do it "if I needed it".The first time she said this, I wasn't sure what to say or how to take it so I didn't say anything. Several weeks passed and I asked her again, and was given the same response. Once again I declined. Fast forward 6 months. I asked her again if we could spend some time together? She agreed, but wanted nothing to do with foreplay, either giving or receiving. It was just straight missionary sex. Afterwards I felt extremely guilty for even askingI try not to ask very often, but I do long for the intimacy. Every time we have sex now, I have these overwhelming feelings of guilt almost to the point of hating myself for even asking. I'm afraid that eventually I'm going to cheat on her, and I really don't want to. I'm just not sure what else to do in this situation.  

Our daughter is in culinary school or was until the government shut everything down. Now we are all at home 24/7 with one another. My wife has never cooked for our family ever my daughter was always the one to cook. Now all of a sudden she wants to cook all the time since we are quartined an acts nasty with our daughter for wanting to cook. She complains our daughter is trying to compete with her. I said that's not the case cooking has always been her passion our daughter had a history of depression and anxiety and she said that helps her a lot with it 

a couple months ago i decided i didn't want to have sex anymore (because neither of us want kids yet and i hate sex) what should i do, i consider porn cheating, and so does he, 

She fell asleep with the conversation open on her phone. They re about 1500 miles apart, We have a lot of children, And I was caught in an online affair about 5 years ago. Mostly to deal with the boredom of life was looking for some excitement i an online fantasy so can empathize with where she is, and don t want to be a hypocrite. Now and for the past few months, we ve been having sex morning and night, and she has multiple multiple orgasms (not one or two but a dozen) and even has started squirting, rear entry etc. Should I ignore it? Should I call him up and thank him? Or kick her to the curb? Hmm, no not a troll, would a 10 year old kid virgin troll know that her sex drive increases, to go form zero to sixty overnight, most guys might say wow I'm amazing, but that's kind of suspicious change of behavior. Don't forget I've been there and done that, and wasnt neccessarily thinking of the other woman, and each time it ran its course 6 months or a year relationship, after w while that gets boring too. So wondering anyone else.

What should the wife do? And if the ex came to return all these materials in presence of her husband and on asked on the door by husband he said thathehad visited to return something to the wife, which the husband had no idea tillhe suddenly took outand presentedin front of them? Then, how awkward will be for the husband to face this? Specially see and know what his wife did and gifted this ex and received from him including taking attractive sex pictures, etc? At least if he has feelings and self respect?

Hubby and I went to a bar one night, he got drunk. Some lady asked him to dance, he told her he was married. I told him he could have danced with her. He went and asked her to dance. She told him he was good looking and had nice arms. A few days later he gets a text from someone he assumed it was from her. He hide the text from me and kept deleting her messages. He ends up sending her a nude saying "if this is not my wife setting me up send me a nude". The person was offended and said since he's married she would not contact him again. He contacts this lady's cousin and asked him if she was the one who sent the text and to make sure she wasn't mad because he sent the nude. I am furious with him for sending a nude to someone he had no idea who was texting him and for bringing someone else involved in this. I asked him what he said to her cousin, he refuses to tell me. I asked how he got the cousin's number and he told me he's not telling me his secrets. The lady got my hubby's number and email from his facebook page. I found out about this because she sent an email to him as well. I don't understand why he contacted this lady's cousin and why he was so concerned if she was mad over the nude and why he won't tell me what the conversation was between him and the cousin.

As she will be always in the superior position in their relation,  like teacher, guide, governor in bed and other things as she will always take the leading role and will not listen to her husband saying that he is inexperienced so he does'nt know anything , and will order him to follow whatevershe says? Is this what a husband can expect if he accepts a veteran wife who is bold, modern and experienced in relationships, also in bed and also in running ahome?

What should the wife (who shared her first time with other men and also explored every special thing and feelings with her exes ) say in return to her loving and caring husband with whom she could'nt share he special things for first time as she already shared it with others? If the wife too cares for her husband then should she lie to her husband that she too did'nt feel so happy and so special with anyone else even though it was a lie as she really had much good times with her experienced exes who knew everything about her in bed after continuously sleeping with her numerous times when she was with them at that time? As now for the husband it will take time to reach to that level of experience that she already saw or experienced with her exes? If she should'nt lie, then what should she tell that innocent and caring person in return who had no clue that his wife is veteran enough in this field where he just stepped in?

This weekend since the weather was nice my husband got out and washed his SUV. He's got every gel, cream, lotion, and potion to keep his Navigator spotless. When I asked him to wash my car he reluctantly said okay but he said he wasn't going to detail my car. He feels that all I want to do is drive it and put gas in it. He said there's nothing wrong with a woman cleaning her own windows or vacuuming out her car. Well, he bought some stuff to put on his tires to make them look black ans shiny. He bought some stuff for my tires but they look nothing like his truck. I asked him why he doesn't put the same stuff on my tires and he said he'd make a deal with me. He said that if I buy the same stuff he'd put it on my tires. This stuff is $10 a can and he can only find it at one store. I told him Why couldn't he just do it because I'm his wife and I want my tires to shine too. He'll buy expensive stuff for his truck but won't do the same for my car. I have to even make him wash it. He said there's nothing wrong with a woman washing her own car. What would the neighbors think if they saw me outside washing my own car? Is this an argument worth having about buying stuff for my car? I don't just wash my laundry or cook a meal for me so why can't he do this for me?

I see a lot of women who have had relationships, some get serious, some get sexual only. I understand some people have bad luck with relationships.  My issue for me is that I am pretty, kind, and smart but I get a lot of guys who end up liking my appearance. They always say I have gorgeous eyes, beautiful face, it's nice to hear but it seems as if no guys really fall for me as a person as well. They always end up going for the sexual right away. I feel so weird too being a 27-year-old woman and not married because I feel a lot of people who are way younger have gotten married. I thought I'd be married by now, not that there is a timeline, but I am not horrible or anything. I am not loose looking at all, I dress well, and everything. Then I see the women who are married. I look at them and wonder what makes certain women marriage material? They get these nice and wonderful guys. I know I am picky too but I get a lot of weird guys or they are not my type at all. Sometimes, I just give up because I feel I am too old to start something serious. I feel like I will never find the man of my dreams. What can I do to change myself so that I am looked at as a beautiful person inside and out and just taken more seriously in general? And I see people in their 20's getting serious