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I work 9 to 6 and my husband works 8:30 to 8PM and we only have 1 car so I have to wait for my husband to come pick me up while I wait at his mom's house for 2 and half hours...and we come home late at 9:00 because its 30 mins away where we live..when I come home I'm so tired I stand up all day at work and don't wanna cook.. Obviously I cook for my 1 year old then I have to take him bath and it's almost 9 30 then I put him bed and he falls asleep at 10...and its the only time my husband and I eat... we've been taking Togo orders alot now...because after 10 30 finishing up eating I take a shower and then I have to prepare my son's lunch and dinner for tomorrow because he stays at his grandmother's house all day and literally it takes 2 hours to cook and making it all pretty and nice...and these days I get finished at 3am and have so little of sleep and wake up at 7 to get ready and its same routine but my husband sister in law doesnt live with us and for her to say I dont cook or clean makes me so mad because my husband mom cooks for her kids while she at work and me I don't...my husband is old enough to cook unlike my little one who cant cook at all

My little sister is moving into her first apartment with her soon to be husband. She's getting married in August. She set up her wedding registry and it's the most bizarre stuff I've ever seen in my life!! She's asking for body wash, foot soaks, board games, razor blades, candles, glade plugins, toilet bowl cleaners, laundry detergent, shower curtains just things that make you really scratch your head. Everything she's asking for just doesn't make any logical sense for being on a wedding registry. Should I say something to her or stay out of it? My mom thinks it's ridiculous and embarrassing and wants my brother and I to say something. She refuses to say anything as to not upset my sister. My brother seems to think this is proof my sister is too immature to get married. Should I get involved or just let it be? It is her day and I just want my sister happy that's all I care about. Should I say something? It is a little embarrassing 

If anyone can provide any insight, I'll appreciate it. My son is a physician's assistant. He was born and raised in Long Island, an upper middle class suburb. Recently, he's been dating a black woman from Brooklyn. She's from the neighborhood, Brownsville, where Barbara Streisand and Mike Tyson are from. We are all of Irish, Scottish descent.  He introduced her to us and I don't know. She has a degree in social work, her LMSW. She's nice, but a bit "ghetto". She is not refined to what I'd like. She wears braided hairstyles, has a daughter from a previous relationship and she curses a lot. She is the first black woman my son has ever dated. My son has friends of different races, but he has only ever dated white and Asian women.  My son works as a physician's assistant and he lives in Brooklyn as well. This woman lives in Brooklyn and works as a case manager, they are thinking of moving in together. Might I add, he is 32 years old and will be 33 soon. Her daughter is 7 years old and she is 30. I wanted to ask her why she didn't marry her daughter's father, but my husband told me it's "none of my business". I am not racist, I just don't know. Her personality, her looks, how she dresses is very different than I'm used to. My son seems to really love her. Then their children will be mixed race. My other children think I'm being nosy. What can I do in this case aside from accept it? I'm not racist at all, just surprised  Thank you all

If my husband still has things in boxes from his ex wife (school stuff and fabrics) in the utility room, should I be upset? He said he forgot about it and don't know when she could pick it up. They were together 7 years and divorced for 3. We've been married for 8 months. She and her husband usually come on the weekends to drop off kids, but that's it. My husband said maybe she can get it when it gets warmer because they have to go through kids clothes anyway that's in the shed. Do I have a right to be upset? Or let it go and trust my husband that she will get it when it gets warmer? I don't want to keep on about it. 

My wives Dad past away last year. She was a Daddys girl and I know misses him very much. Last week her Mammaw passed away. In this past year I started a job that I work over 50 hours a week we have an 11 year old daughter and my wife has an 18 year old son from previous marriage that is living with us. He is having a lot of issues as well and we are trying to help him. I am stressed beyond words and beginning to take it out on my wife. I know she is hurting and dealing with this the best she can. However she is dealing with a thyroid issue and can be very sharp spoken. I want to be there for her but my own stress we fight alot. Our little girl is feeling the strife in our home so much she asked my wife this morning if we were getting a divorce. I don't know what to do anymore.  My wives Dad was my mentor and I could always go to him about anything and he had an answer.  Its been so hard this past year 

He is 36 and has a daughter from a previous relationship. I am 28. We've been together for almost 6 years now (3,5 years living together).  I knew since at the beginning he didn't want marriage and I thought I'd be ok with it. But I've started to change my mind because marriage is very important to me. I can't bear the idea of being just the 'girlfriend' for all my life.  One other thing that bothers me is the fact that he was always kind of postponing the idea of having a child even though he knew how much I wanted my first baby at around 26-27 years old. He made excuses such as I should get a stable job (I was a temp at the beginning), then I had to get my driving license, and now he said we should buy a house first..  I feel if he hadn't a child himself, he wouldn't be playing these « games » with me, which have crushed my soul and made me so sad. Furthermore we still can't decide on where we should live (I'm a city girl, he prefers suburban)   I love him and I know he loves me back, but I feel like this is not working, like I'm the only one to compromise my believes and desires. So my question is: is it reasonable to change my mind on the marriage topic and to leave this relationship despite the love I have for him? Or marriage is just a piece of paper and I'm silly to throw away a good man? 

They want me to share in the hatred.

My friend is in a tight spot and needs a place to stay for a few months along with her young son until she gets her own place. She doesn't have many options right now. And yes she did say she would give us some money to stay. But my husband doesn't like other people staying with us because he likes privacy and it makes him uncomfortable. I really want to help her out while she gets back on her feet. But I don't want to make my husband uncomfortable either so I'm not sure what to do. 

She's forcing me to choose the color of leather:  Red, Black, or White? We're going shopping today for kinky playtime outfits and are trying to avoid the cheap Halloween Vinyl. I'm really leaning toward the devil theme, she wants the angel! Decisions, decisions! Please advise.

long story when i was growing up i was emotionally physically abused by my parents my mom would pull my hair she would beat me with a baseball bat and she would call me ugly and said nobody would want to be with me and my dad would spank me till i cried when i was 18 i met my boyfriend saadhav we started dating 3 months after we met 3 years later he found out on what was happening to me at home and that i was being abused he took me out of my home and made me live with his family 7 years later we got married and now 4 years later i just got a call from my aunt today that my parents regret on what they did and they are now seeking counseling. i don't know what do do i asked my boyfriend now husband (who rescued me fro my abusive parents) saadhav said that i should not because he does not trust them and he does not want them around my kids. what do i do this is not a troll btw my husband is the best thing that could happen to me he rescued me from my abusive parents and he is my hero my husband suggested that i don't contact them and he does not want my parents around my kids idk what to do please help ANSWER MY QUESTION NOW!!! This is not a troll i was abused and my now husband saadav saved me from my abusive parents

my son married a women and they have a child. i don't want to share my son with anyone and i want my son all for myself my son wants to cut ties with me for his wife and son i don't want my son to be a father and husband. What is the best way i can do to track my son down just so that i can force him to divorce his wife and abandon his baby just so i can have my son all to myself this is not a troll btw this is serious

Why did she have to exist? why did my precious son have to get married? it is not like i wanted him to. I never wanted my son to have a relationship. why do i have to share my precious son with her? i just want my son all for myself :( and i hate seeing her face her voice is soft and mousy like her families. i tell my son to divorce her just so that i can have my son all to myself but he won't and moved acros s the country with his new wife what do i do? this is not a troll btw i am serious i want my son all for myself

Why did she have to exist? why did my precious son have to get married? it is not like i wanted him to. I never wanted my son to have a relationship. why do i have to share my precious son with her? i just want my son all for myself :( and i hate seeing her face her voice is soft and mousy like her families. i tell my son to divorce her just so that i can have my son all to myself but he won't and moved acros s the country with his new wife what do i do? this is not a troll btw i am serious i want my son all for myself Answer my question now 

My ex and I are were never married but we had 2 children together. he's been there since they were born but since our breakup he hasn't seen or spoke to them for now 2 months and possibly longer. I think it's inconsiderate of his children and their feelings. He says he won't see or speak to them until it goes through the courts. Basically he's a coward and doesn't want to face me after his sudden decision to walk away from me and our family unexpectedly. Anyways...will this make him look bad in court? will this affect his visitation? our youngest is almost 3 months old

First of all blood is thicker than water, you are and will forever be your maiden name. You are born with it. It's your father who gave you life, not your husband. You can have hundred different husbands and therefore hundred different surnames but you can only have one father and his surname is your real surname cause you came from him. It's understandable that children get their fathers surname so that they wouldn't be labeled b.astard children but that women get their husbands surname is just ridiculous. Why don't husbands get their wives surname?? I always laugh when I see women changing their surnames on Facebook after they get married it's ridiculous, one of my friends got married and she said I'm not my maiden name anymore I'm Mrs  ...... now, then she said her husbands surname and I'm like biitch you will never be that surname, you will always be your maiden name. When you divorce which surname do you get then?? That's right your old maiden name. Like I said blood is thicker than water. When I'm going to marry one day I will keep my maiden name out of honor for my deceased father who I respect and love. If my future husband doesn't like it that would be his problem then not mine. I am my own identity, not that of someone else. It's like women want to become someone's properties. Women must respect their background and know their family tree. 

If my husband still has things in boxes from his ex wife (school stuff and fabrics) in the utility room, should I be upset? He said he forgot about it and don't know when she could pick it up. They were together 7 years and divorced for 3. Should I mention anything else about it to my husband? We've been together for 8 months.  Married** for 8 months 

I'm ashamed I was too exhausted to perform for the wife last night.  After all, she's been very demanding and performing for me all week every single night go for hours session.  I admit this has been some of the most enjoyable sex I've had with her in a very long time.  Its so good, I almost don't regret getting married and forgoing from the many lovers lifestyle that singles are so fond of. Remember, I have a career that keeps me busy all day and frequently have to work nights.  So I've been rotating and multitasking her needs and getting her fix every night for several weeks now. Did I let her down?  I woke up with a raging b0ner so I know I could have at least fixed her this morning but she's out cold too. Marrieds, do you designate days of rest or get your freak on every single night until death?

I need advice on this since my girlfriend and I are starting to consider eloping. We haven't gone into thorough conversation about it because I want her to come to her own decision about it and I'll support her on whatever she decides. Our situation is a bit complex, In the two years we've been together her parents and I haven't had the best relationship. They didn't want her to be with me because they loved her ex and I guess I wasn't up to their standards and they never really tried to get to know me up until a few months ago. Apart from them I get along with most of her family and friends. My family is pretty much limited to my parents and my siblings and a handful of friends. We've been engaged for two months and in between work and everything day to day haven't discussed any wedding stuff seriously. She brought up eloping kind of playfully and I didn't press her on it. I want her to have the ceremony because I feel like it's something she'll regret if we don't have it, but is it REALLY that important in your opinion?

Will any partner who marries such a wife be under doubt and and fear of getting dumped after some time when her body will again get bored and her past desires would return? Because her past action shows that for her changing partners is not a big deal.

We live in an apartment complex and found out today from the landlord lady that she hears that my husband and i were arguring and then she says in the sweetest way (she likes us for some reason she said we remind her of us when she was our age) to my husband "dont be mean to your wife" Does it sound like a neighbor complained or did the landlord walk around and hear us herself? Im confused because nobody came to my husband and I and even an elderly neighbor offered us furniture a few weeks ago being very nice. We barely argue but i admit i was yelling one time because my husband was having a seizure on the bedroom floor and it scared me but still :/ Im going to try to keep the television volumne low and not argue although we barely argue to begin with. I am very confused as neighbors say hi to my husband and i all the time (except this one lady we never see her go out or come inside unless shes out while i am at work i really dont know) Im very confused.

I have been seeing a guy for 5 months. He has been kind to me. However, there was one thing bugs me. He has a friend is dying. He went to seem him every Friday after work. He never talked about his wife, once I asked, he seems uncomfortable talking about her. This Friday he was off and said he had to do something for his friend. Later said he picked up med for him. I asked where was his wife. He finally told me she needed a ride and they went to pick up med for him. In the age of Uber, I can only see this was an excuse to spend time together.  Am I too suspicious?

Spent the evening with the wife in the city.  Only problem is, I can't bring myself to drag her into the bar with me for various reasons. #1 The youth of today sucks.  If I see another hipster manbun or purple hair!  WTF happened? #2 I'm not sure if people were just bored walking around pretending to have a good time or if they were in reality having a good time.  It couldn't have been that fun as I wasn't having that much of a blast, although the weather was nice and very few homeless to be seen.  Wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't for #1. #3 Ok, so if we made it into the bar and got a few drinks, what are we really going to discuss?  The kids, Bills, umm... more bills, and the kids? #4 Majority of people are ugly and see #1.  I'm not sure I would ever want to get to know any of these freaks or become good friends.  I lean toward antisocial anyway. SO that's how it went.  I guess I'm a boring guy.  Lucky there was a casino nearby and we spent the rest of the night eating good food and gambling away some disposable income. Any tips to be less boring? Your pal, Xavier BTW, the wife looked  better than the vast majority of these hobbit troll hybrid frog women roaming the streets.  I was truly disgusted. Even the middle aged ladies on the "girls night out" were meh....

I was born outside of marriage and people frequently call me a bastard and love child and other offensive stuff on forums. Why is it such a big issue?

My husband recently started mistreating me a few months ago he's verbally abusing me.These past few days he changed so much, he slams doors and gets angry within seconds if I say the wrong thing he threatened to kick me out knowing I have no where to go and "accidentally" cut off the top of my finger when he slammed the door on my hand. He started hitting out puppy and I try to help our dog but he starts attacking me if I say anything. I can't find a new home for our puppy because I'm afraid he will hit me if I act out or do something without letting him know. Does this behavior progress and become physical? And how much time will I have before he does it so I can get some help.