i got divorced from my husband and then he died a few years after....do i still need to use my divorce decree...or am I totally free and single..?

For me it's hard to tell when a man only wants sex. I feel like a man can text you 24/7 and still want sex. It actually happened to a friend of mines. He was texting her 24/7 then once he finally got her comfortable enough he had sex and started getting more and more distance as if to say that was his only goal. And so many men will go the extra mile even though meantime having an ulterior motive. So how exactly can you tell.

Today I made a bad decision and drove through a flooded area that I probably should not have.  It messed up something on my car and was making a horrible noise. My husband is the service manager at a car repair shop and was actually just a block away from where this happened so naturally my first instinct was to pull in there to let him look at it. I had no idea his store was in an audit so after texting him and waiting for awhile and he not answering I decided that maybe my brakes were wet and just try to get back to work. Unfortunately I didn't get far and it locked down so I called him. He answered in a very aggravated tone and let me know when he came to pick me up the inconvenience it was.I certainly didn't mean to have to bother him at work but he works on all of our vehicles and I didn't know who else to call.  After he took me back to work he called later and said he had my car at the shop and had it fixed to see if I could get a ride there and he was getting off work . I came within 10 minutes. I saw my car but did not see him. I walked into the Service room and was greeted by an employee that told me I had to sign for my car. I told him he was mistaken me for someone else that I was there waiting on my husband. He said my husband was busy and he was handling it. I said handling what?  I asked to see my husband and he took out an invoice and I really did I have to sign it to get my keys. My husband was no where to be found.

One of my friends I've known for years set me a screenshot of his messages where women be begging him for sex and he ignores a lot of them.  He's extremely attractive but seems to only be obsessed with having sex with me. He even has model chicks trying to get at him. Not sure where or why this obsession came about. I'm not even a Virgin I've had a couple of different partners so me being tight can't be the reason. It's so weird how lately he's been so sexually attracted to me because of all the years we have known each other we've only ever been platonic.  I told him he had plenty of other options to fulfill his sexual needs he was like " they are weird"

Sometimes I go up to my husband and sometimes he will come up to me, but we always kiss at the same time. Does it matter who comes up to who? I feel like he comes up to me a lot more than I do to him. I do almost always go up to him to kiss goodnight. Does it matter who initiates it? 

Just wondering if finding another partner after the death of a spouse is something wrong or normal?

A lot of the times I will go up to my husband to kiss him goodnight and he will have his head leaned towards mine because he knows I'm giving him a goodnight kiss. Other times, he will come up to me and we will both kiss each other. Are we both initiating kissing when this happens? 

Tell your own thoughs

My name changed, due to marriage. Now when I try to withdraw money from an account that was opened under my maiden name, the bank is refusing to allow me to withdraw the money. The only document that I have to prove my original name is my state issued marriage license. What should I do?

As much as you love your husband/wife if they came to you tonight and told you they were having an affair what would you do? 

If he cheats, no big deal but the corona virus is on another level of bad. Am I right? Honestly ladies, you'd rather see your man die that get a cheap thrill!? The selfishness knows no bounds! Let the guy have a good time (without you) just this once without the usual threats!

I tried a few top shelf cognac, whiskey, and tequila.  I'm not sure if I really like any of them although the tequila came out ahead on smoothness and no lingering aftertaste. Although I'm a seasoned veteran of marriage, I'm pretty new to the booze. Any recommendations?

I started seeing someone that I met at my friends wedding. It's her brother in law, and when I met him I knew that he is the type of man that is all about honesty and integrity. Since the wedding over the summer, we've been in contact and I've been to his place more than once. We text each other everyday, and although he lives two 1/2 hours from me he still finds time to text me asking how my day was. He's seven years older than me, but the age difference doesn't really make a huge difference in all honesty. So the thing is, I'm an American born citizen and my family is West Indian. Although he's white and cares about social issues with both race and government, that's not JUST why I like him. With what I went through in the past with my mental health and depression I get nervous sometimes because I really care about him. I just get scared because of what dysfunction my parents went through in their marriage. My sister is 35 and isn't married or has kids. I want to fall in love for the right reasons, not just for a child or the title of marriage. I don't want his race to also be overlooked with my family especially with my older sister.

My husband and I live in an apartment complex. I was talking to my husband today (he is off work today i am home sick) and my husband went to throw some things out to the garbages outside. Apparently the lady who lives next door to us was asking my husband if we were arguring (she was listening to my husband and I talk because she was in the hallway) but we werent yelling or anything, i was joking around with him. Im sick at the moment my voice doesnt sound normal. Apparently our neighbor went to the landlord lady in the rental office and she told her that my husband and i were arguring (we dont argue i dont understand we try not to be loud we dont play music i work usually night shifts my husband usually works during the days) but the land lady wasnt mad at my husband and I she just laughed and told my husband to be nice to me (apparently she really likes us). Why would she think we were arguring? Its really making me upset. She even warned my husband that if we dont stop arguring that it could get physical and she wouldnr want to witness that. I wouldnt touch my husband like that, he wouldnt touch me like that. This just really hurts my feelings from what my husband told me and I dont know what to do. I am afraid to speak because then it would be considered an "arguement" :( My husband and i barely argue and i love him i dont understand this at all :(

The wife and I agree that we need to not only spice up marriage but throw in the entire bottle of hot sauce! That being said, are there any high end kinky establishments that you would recommend? Not looking to become swingers....but meet a hot chick or two to help the wife out.  Maybe she can learn some trick or two! Also, do not recommended anything to close to hood, riff raff, undesirables, etc. Aaaw Cmon now youall lettin me down!  I thought we had established a rapport although admittedly I might have come off as mildly offensive 

I have a beautiful blended family of 5 kids. Two of mine and of my husbands and 1 baby together. My husband and I had been planning a trip to Mexico to visit his family for over a year. Unfortunately, I couldn't go because I started a new job and we also just brought our dream house. My husband went with his 2 daughters on the trip. My kids stood sad because they were excited to go but I didn't feel comfortable sending them aboard without me. I told my husband to make up for them not going I was planning on taking them on a trip on their birthdays ( a week a part from each other). We just brought a house so our finances are a bit tight at the moment so I told my hubby that I'm just taking my 2 and leaving the baby and his daughters since they already had a beautiful trip this year. He didn't say anything but I can sense he got upset that I said his daughters and our baby is staying. Am I being unfair?

My husbands best friend from high school got him a new job. We currently live in Dallas and the job was in St. Louis. They offered my husband the job last Monday. He told the company he wanted to give his 2 weeks notice and needed time to relocate. They told him they could not wait that long and he needed to be in St. Louis by the following Wednesday (Today.) My husband and I discussed things and we both agreed that it was in the best interest of our family and that he should turn the job down. On Sunday my husband dropped a bombshell on me and the kids. He told us he quit his job (without giving 2 weeks notice) and accepted the job in St. Louis. He told us he thought it would be a great opportunity for us and financially we'd be better off. I'm absolutely beside myself. To make matters WORSE he accepted the job without any type of offer letter in hand. He left for St. Louis on Monday. Today was his first day and I found out 1.) it's now turned into a temporary job, 2.) he has no benefits for the first 3 months, and 3.) he's only getting 4,000 more per year then what he's making here in Dallas. They originally told him 10,000 more then his salary in Dallas. I'm beyond livid. We have 2 children in school my daughter is in 3rd grade and my son is in 5th grade. I also teach high school biology so quitting in the middle of the year is not an option for me. Any advice? I really don't know what to do and I'm absolutely beside myself.  Side note: he can't get his old job back now. 

I always feel like I am too ugly and worthless to get married, and I always feel like nobody will want to marry me. Can anyone give advice on how I can stop feeling like this?. Actually, I graduated from high school, I have no physical and mental health issues, and I am definitely NOT a drug addict. I am a woman who is asking this question, by the way.

We've been together 6 years and I've done more for you then all of her exes have ever managed to do combined. Give her money all the time pay the bills while she looks for a job and drive her everywhere because she's too scared to drive. Women also say I'm sexy and compliment me daily at my job so I'm not an ugly person by an means. Sometimes I just want her to pull down my pants and suck on it sloppy and get real freaky with me. She doesn't even try to be adventurous or sexy in the bedroom. Matter of fact she comes to bed every night in baggy sweatpants baggy shirts. She had never once tried to wear lingerie for me. I don't ask for fancy gifts or money. I just ask for some sexual attention. And yes she has been like this our entire marriage but when she was dating her ex boyfriends she told me she would be so freaky with them like send them nudes out of the blue , sucking them out the blue and initiating wild sex. I feel like she settled for me because she couldn't get the guy she wants which furiates me. I know she's always had a certain type and I'm the complete opposite of her type but she told me she loves my personality. We are married I want to be wanted sexually as well

I'm a assisted cook at a adult daycare and the head cook called me to go to the storage to get some ground beef out for a soup. Ok when her husband passed me the keys I know I placed them back in the drawers, but after I went home a employee called me and asked for it. I came back to the building to look for it but it wasn't there. So now the head cook is act funny like I have the keys. I explained that her husband which is the janitor even saw me when I put them back. So now I'm wondering did they try to frame me but still why cause I'm the one who always do all the cooking since the head cook barely even come in. I just feel dirty like I'm a thief but God knows I didn't keep those keys 

While she was hosting many a dude during her brave and adventurous single years?

If so, how do you not visualize the plowing? Wait, wait I know the answer.  You have to be mature or something  No need to thank me for planting these seeds!  You're very welcome!

She posted this after being fed up with her FB friends constantly correcting her when she posts something grammatically incorrect.  Keep in mind she's almost 40 years old, never had a job, and is married with two children.  If her husband were to die, she and the kids might end up in a shelter, as she is very dependent on him (although, he doesn't make much money) and she has absolutely no skills.  And according to her post, she's very critical of everything, particularly when people criticize her.  She even posted how she actually got into a verbal confrontation with her mother-in-law.  Apparently, she doesn't give a damn that it's her husband's mother.  Therefore, she doesn't kiss @$$, and will not make an effort to get along with her mother-in-law, since she (the daughter-in-law) always has to be right.  Is she in the wrong here, as well as how she doesn't give a damn about her grammar? 

Couple has open marriage for several (8+) years. Husband never acts on it until near the very end of the marriage. In fact, his wife is the only woman he has had until then. She had several (6-8) partners by the time they were married. She was 19 then.   Wife hid two sexual partners from husband at different intervals in recent years. First one was a free pass, rules defined AGAIN in great detail. Then the 2nd one happens, wife tries to hide whereabouts after not coming home until late. Truth comes out. This was with another coworker, so we all knew. Cue sharp decline in trust. Months go by. Wife then proposes mutual friend sleep with husband, begs them to and it eventually happens. Husband gets taste of what a normal woman is like. Starts reevaluating life. Wife turns out to be a raging nutcase and had been for some time. Has a habit of screaming, hitting and taunting husband for any perceived slight. Snaps at small children regularly. Demands he go back to the military so SHE could "live her best life" because she is supposed to be a military spouse living in Europe. It doesnt happen (age limit). Divorce is starting. Wife then decides to accuse husband of having an affair/adultery because he continued to see the other woman AFTER separating in a NO-fault state. Psycho lady.  This is my coworker. I've listened to her talk about it, admitting to being a total b**ch to a loyal man and her kids. People are NUTS. 

If my husband or boyfriend ever cheated on me, I'll strap him down to the bed and cut his penis off with a saw, so he'll never use it again. 😤 Once I'm done slicing it off like cake, I'll go more ham on him by farting on his face! 🤬