My girlfriend cheated on me last week with a guy at a party. Anyway she told me after it happened. But it happened before I had a big event that I was preparing for and she waited to tell me until after the event so I wouldn't have it on my mind and I could still do well. After she told me I was furious I yelled at her and yelled at her. Then I cut off contact for a couple days. She messaged me later saying she missed me. So I then began contact with her again and we started to talk about it. She said she felt unhappy in the relationship and felt so bad that she did it and that I deserve better than her. But then said we can't be together right now and that she needs to figure out what she wants. But we had still been in and out of contact for the last few days sometimes it's her initiating it and sometimes it was me. I met with her the other night and told her I wanted to fix things but I don't know if I can get passed what she did. But she said she still needed time. When we met that night she wanted me to stay over but said it was probably best if I didn't so I left. She hasn't told anyone but her closest friends and that is the same with me. She isn't telling her family and I haven't told mine. She said if we tell our families there's no chance but she understands if I do. She still tells people that we are together even though we aren't right now. Im not sure what she is feeling or even if there is a chance. Any advice?

So a guy( maybe 20 years) at my moms work place asked whether he can buy drinks for her and he knows my mom is married , idk what to tell my mom about this situation, neither do i know how to read into this situation, idk whether it was like a joke 

I also think she is too attractive for me. I keep thinking that its too good to be true, or that maybe she isn't really attracted to me, so why bother trying since I might get rejected?

I've been talking for this guy for 4 months. He was so nice to me from the start, he was saying and doing all the right things. In the beginning, he told me that he was hopeful for a relationship in the end, but wasn't sure because it would be long distance. A few months passed and he then asked to send pics with me. I was initially hesitant but I thought if I did it he would like me more and would want to keep talking to me.  We made a plan to meet. He had made the plan to spend Saturday night and all of Sunday with me. So, we met for the first time a few weeks ago and I feel like he had different intentions for the night. He wanted to have sex but that's not what I wanted. He didn't seem upset but on Sunday morning he made up an excuse and said he had to leave. I think that's why he left early. Now recently I told him I wanted to try dating, but he said it's not going to work out. I've asked multiple times, giving so many ideas but he's just been shooting them all down without trying. He says that he likes me but doesn't have time for a relationship. But he wants to be friends. Is this just another way of saying that he doesn't like me? Has he been using me this entire time? 

My boyfriend's best friend outside of our relationship is a girl hes known for years before me.They text everyday & each time I see him texting her I feel sick to my stomach.I told him to tone down texting her everyday & he said he wont abandon a friend for me. She's really insecure about her looks & would fish for compliments from my boyfriend even before we started dating. My boyfriend would compliment her but I asked him to stop and he did. 2months ago we were arguing a lot & he was telling her about our relationship problems & she was giving him advice. I snooped & found this out & he lied to me about it. Then I confessed I snooped and he apologized and said he thought our relationship was doomed so that's why he confided in her. He told me he would never badmouth me again to her or anyone and I decided to trust him and got back with him. The other day I looked over his shoulder while he was texting her and saw she sent him a kissy face emoji. I asked why she sent him that. He said he never sent her a kissy face emoji while we've been in a relationship together and that he was surprised she sent him that since she hadn't done that in a long time since before we were together. He said she probably was just feeling affectionate and excited at the moment since he was asking her questions about the guy she's seeing. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. He says they are just friends and that she is no threat to me. I just cant stop feeling uncomfortable about them. I regret snooping that one time but ever since then he said he would change his password and make sure I don't see his phone. I understand because I invaded his privacy and I trust he wont physically cheat on me especially since this girl lives far away. He said also he has to hide texting her from me bcuz he knows I don't like her & that I would start an argument. He tells me he deletes messages between them because he doesn't know how I would react & feels he is walking on eggshells with me. I dont want to be a jealous insecure girlfriend anymore nor do I want to be controlling but I just wish he didn't feel the need to text her everyday. He says they only talk about books since shes an English teacher, music, and tv shows. But he doesn't show me the texts because he says he deserves privacy and that when he told her I snooped that one time she said she thought their messages were only between them and felt her trust was betrayed so he doesn't want me to see their conversations.

This girl and I both work in a retail store. I work up front and she works in the back. She has showed some signs that she might like me, but I am not 100% sure. She does this one thing that is really werid. So if im working at self checkout she will walk pass with her head turned away from me. Then as soon as she is pass and she will turn head and look directly at me.

I KNOW PENIS SIZE DOESNT MATTER PERSONALITY DOES, BUT I STILL WOULD LIKE REAL OPINION i am 5'11 and because of the size of my body and height my penis looks even smaller then it really is. what would your initial reaction be if you were in bed with someone around my body type females please no trolls penis is not very thick either dear anon, im sorry you are not comfortable with your own body so you have to make fun of others. I feel happy to at least have a 5.1 inch I cant imagine what yours is

Ok so I'm talking to this girl shes 17 I'm 15 and I text her like 1-3 hours a day she knows I like her and I'm planing on asking her to a school dance tomorrow I know her from robotics I'm taller than her and I'm just wondering on your opinion  I wondering on your opinion on how you think it will work out and your op on freshmen dating a senior

We dated a couple months ago for about a month and we were good friends before. we ended on good terms and we decided to stay friends and hopefully get back together in the future when we're both in better places in life. well we ended up drifting apart :( I want to text him because I miss our friendship and them as a person, but I'm a p*ssy LMAO. Any advice on how to overcome my fear of rejection from this person and just text them??

My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married next week. We are 26 and 27. Recently, we moved in together. Our relationship has been awesome, but I can see there's a disconnect. My boyfriend told me that he will pay rent and I can pay utilities. We've lived together for 8 months. He's pretty traditional and often expect me to cook, clean and do laundry. I wouldn't have a problem with this if he was the sole breadwinner but he isn't. Tonight he asked if I could loan him money for rent and moments later asked if I could cook dinner. I do not like this dynamic because it's putting a lot of weight on me. He wants me to pay bills and tend to household chores. He wants to be the man and be given this power but I can't do that when he isn't doing what he told me he would do.  Advice?

Okay so I saw my neighbors grandson one day and I thought he was cute  but I was only 9 so I didn't think much about it anymore but when I was 10 I started liking him again and it's just gotten worse. I'm 13 now and there was this guy at my school and I thought he was cute so I gave him my # but he never called or text then when my school had our ceremony he didn't talk to me he wouldn't even say hi or bye and me and my mom talked about it a DNS's she said to follow my heart and when she said that I immediately thought about my first crush so does this mean I really like him or is it just a crush? I liked him for about 3 years. Please help me Sorry this is so long

Recently my girlfriend let me touch her breast, and as I was running the nipple she said it was sensitive and she couldn't explain more then that so what does she mean by sensitive?

This guy reached out to me from August-October via social media. he would always respond to my snap chat stories, message me through snap chat/ send me snap chats. He would ask me to meet up if he saw I was out but I always declined cuz I wasn't sure how I felt about him. In October he texted a mutual friend of ours asking if I was single (assuming he knew she'd tell me) & then he ended up texting me to ask to go on a date. I wasn't really too interested but ended up going on the date thinking it wouldn't turn into anything. I ended up really enjoying him & since then we've been talking and going on dates/hanging out for about a month. He at first pursued me very strongly and would make comments as if he wanted to progress into a relationship despite me telling him that I'm not in a place in my life for that right now.. but then he backed off and now he's being really hot and cold.. what do you think his intentions are? I'm very confused.. he gets frustrated when I don't text or snap chat back but when I do he seems like he's annoyed with me.. I asked him where he was at and he said he isn't ready to be emotionally invested either because of his past.. 

I'm considered to be even more unattractive then most other women. Please tell me the truth and no lies.

And they are invisible to men at the age of 25, when they are in the prime of their youth and want to get married

My boyfriend was let go from a job that he was in the Teamsters union a few weeks back. A guy from the union has stopped by 3 times already, no call ahead as far as I know, my boyfriend doesn't answer unknown numbers he just waits for the messages. He says he wants to talk about benifits. He says that my boyfriend can keep them at no charge. The union guy is coming back next Sunday, does anyone know if this is for real? What does guy want so bad from my boyfriend?

I met this girl she is really comfortable around me and we barely see each other because I have sports after school. But I usually see her while passing by or getting lunch also sometimes on Fridays. However, she's still single, and I would like to go to the military ball with her and get to know her more. I don't wanna mess this up before its too late. How should I ask? Why does no one reply to me? these are not dumb questions

Hi ok so there's this guy obviously and I started liking him in fourth grade and we both liked each other starting in fifth grade and up through sixth grade and I had told him I liked him at the end of the year and he said he liked me back. I guess he lost feelings over the summer because he did not like me anymore starting seventh grade. I still liked him until april when I had told him again because i'm great at keeping secrets and he said that he didn't like me back. He also said something that offended me so I had started to really hate him. (he's not mean, i mean he was 12) Starting 8th grade my friend made a group chat which he was in and we ended up starting to mend slowly. We then continued talking and became fairly decent friends. I soon then caught feelings for him. In November it had gotten out that I liked him and he said that he thinks he likes me back but he wasn't sure himself. A couple weeks later he knew for a fact that he liked me. The feelings are still mutual as of now and he even rested his head on my shoulder on a movie we saw with two other friends. (he also said i'm the prettiest girl in the class(: ) We both don't want to date until highschool as middle school relationships hardly go anywhere and seem pointless in my eyes. He said that he would date me in highschool though. Do you think these feelings could remain neutral until we're ready to date? I really like him and obviously I can't let go easily as i've liked him for like 4 years. 

If you're already in a relationship and you're in bed, do you ask if your partner wants to have sex? Do you just start playing with each other then it progresses to someone climbing on top and start humping you? How does it work?

I've been getting closer to a coworker in my office. She, myself, and two other coworkers interact a lot at work, and more frequently outside the office online. The four of us are always going back and forth in a group chat, but she always seems to single me out in the conversation and we end up having a back and forth with each other while the others become less involved. She's even talked about these conversations with other coworkers of ours as they've brought it up to me multiple times. A while back she began following me on social media and since then always seems to be keeping track of what I'm doing online. Our interactions in the office are either really fun or just really awkward as she seems more reserved and shy at work. We'll pass each other in the hallway and she seems to do everything to avoid eye contact or any type of interaction. The next minute she's grabbing my hand trying to block me from getting by her. She also tends to reference how she can never find a man and the trouble she's had with men in the past. I know that nobody can really answer this except for her, but just wondering what she thinks of me? We've only just started getting close fairly recently, and we also work together so I'm trying to be careful with how I approach our interactions, especially since they seem to vary a lot.

My boyfriend has a close female friend hes known for years before me. Her name is "M". He says shes his best friend outside our relationship. I have jealousy and insecurity issues and also hes my first boyfriend. Hes a lot older than me though, and has had three long-term girlfriends before me. We've been dating for three months only. Since before we started dating I knew my boyfriend got along better with women than men. He talks with "M" everyday but just a few texts to each other. "M" moved upstate so they only see each other once every two months now. The other day though I was looking over his shoulder when I saw she texted him the kissy face emoji. He said hes never texted her a kissy face emoji while we've been dating and he was surprised that she sent him that. He said she probably sent him that because she was feeling affectionate and happy he was being a good friend by asking her questions about the guy she's seeing. He always tells me not to worry that they are just friends. When I asked him if he had romantic feelings for 'M" in the past, he said not especially. I trust him to never physically cheat on me. But I just want to know if this is normal for my boyfriend to text her everyday. I don't know if it was appropriate for me to ask him to tone down their texting everyday but he told me he wasn't going to abandon a friend for me and that she is no threat to me. I don't want to be overreacting and lose him over something that may be actually minor nuisance.  They talk about music, books since shes a teacher, shows, and sometimes relationship advice.

and then I told him no but he said he bought it anyway funny?

I've been dating this girl...I think...for a few months now. We met at summer camp and really hit it off there. A few months later, after we texted a lot and saw each other a few times with our other camp friends, I asked her out and she said yes. The thing is, is that I don't think I made it clear that it was a date date, and now almost 3 months in I still don't know whether it's for real or not. We've only been on 2 dates, only because she lives 30 minutes away, and it's hard for us to plan these because of school, and they've went pretty well. But now it's been about a month since I've seen her, and we've still been texting a lot just not really in the way we used to, or maybe I'm just being silly. Of course with my major anxiety, I'm worried she'll find someone else from her own school, keep in mind I still don't know if we're really dating or not. I just need to know what to say to her, and day by day my anxiety keeps getting worse and worse. What should I do, if anything at all.

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and we used to have sex all the time like everyday type of thing. Then, he got a job and we started seeing each other less and less which was understandable. We also have been fighting a lot more recently. The past two nights we tried having sex and for some reason it was awful. He was taking so long to finish and I don't understand why because it was never a problem before but he got really upset with me because I kept asking what was going on and I just feel awful. We are both almost 18 btw. Someone please help me out. I feel like i'm not good enough for him anymore.

Ok, so no one has ever asked me out in my life, but today in the library this kid goes up to me he's only a grade younger than me (i'm in 11th) and tells me his friend thinks i'm cute and wants my number and gave me his friends phone. I was so nervous I couldn't think properly and I was just like turning him down in a nice way because I was uncomfortable and I only got his friends name, and with the power of instagram stalking I found out who he was and I kind of regret not even giving my snapchat or anything. what would you do if you were me 

I had been dating my bestfriend of 2 years for around 3 months. One night he slept over and we got crossed him way more than I did. And we were making out and he wanted to go farther I said no but he kept pushing and I kept saying no and giving reasons why. He then tried to move my pants and I moved away. He then left the bed and threw up from the alcohol. The next day I broke up with him. And now 3 months later we're talking again and trying to be friends. Is that crazy of me yes, and I miss being with him. Why i don't know even my best friend is concerned and I don't know why I feel like this. Was it even sexual assault?

she didnt break it though

I told the boy I like that I liked him about a month and a half ago. He said he liked me too and then we left it at that. Subtle flirting, hanging out. My friend Becca texted this boy and asked if he liked me because she was wondering I guess and sent me a screenshot of him saying "yes, but I don't want to date her or anyone right now." Which was fine, he doesn't want a relationship right now I'll respect that. A little while ago I told my other friend Laura that I liked this boy, and she did too. I felt bad but didn't want to give him up completely because I've done that in the past for friends and ended up being crushed and nothing came out of it. We all continued as normal and now today Becca told me that Lauren and the boy, Charlie, were going to the Christmas Dance together. I asked Charlie about it and he said it was true. Laura told Charlie her feelings and apparently he's liked her since the sixth grade. We talked and he said that he never really liked me he just didn't want to hurt my feelings. He then put two and two together and realized Becca had told me and started saying mean things about her which is really out of character. He then texted me and said "we're good right" and I said "yeah forgive and forget" He then followed this up with "good don't make this harder then it needs to be" That really upset me but I didn't say anything. Laura has sexually harassed me and others in the past, also, and he knows this! I just don't know what she has that I dont.

Just say anything to hurt my feelings and tell me how ugly I am!! Idc if you've seen me before just roast tf out of me

This girl and I both work in a retail store. I work up front and she works in the back. She has showed some signs that she might like me, but I am not 100% sure. She does this one thing that is really werid. So if im working at self checkout she will walk pass with her head turned away from me. Then as soon as she is pass and she will turn head and look directly at me.

"Tracy" I dated for about 10 years and we have been friends or more for 20 years. I have never bored of her in any sense of the word. Physically things are off the charts. I love her mind and her looks. We separated because she was depressed and struggling but that was a long time ago. She's been doing great for about 5 years now. She wants another chance. "Heather" I have been dating for 11 months. I have mixed feelings about her. I am still with her because she is in love with me and treats me amazingly. She would crawl for a mile on broken glass just to see me. Beyond that I have mostly negative things to say. I fear my heart just isn't in it but I'm trying to make this work. My friends and family all tell me to leave "Tracy" in the past and to stay with "Heather"." Maybe both women are wrong for me.

I've been dating this girl...I think...for a few months now. We met at summer camp and really hit it off there. A few months later, after we texted a lot and saw each other a few times with our other camp friends, I asked her out and she said yes. The thing is, is that I don't think I made it clear that it was a date date, and now almost 3 months in I still don't know whether it's for real or not. We've only been on 2 dates, only because she lives 30 minutes away, and it's hard for us to plan these because of school, and they've went pretty well. But now it's been about a month since I've seen her, and we've still been texting a lot just not really in the way we used to, or maybe I'm just being silly. Of course with my major anxiety, I'm worried she'll find someone else from her own school, keep in mind I still don't know if we're really dating or not. I just need to know what to say to her, and day by day my anxiety keeps getting worse and worse. What should I do, if anything at all.

There's this guy who has been staring at me a lot, he happens to be my friend's brother but idk how he would know since she's only like a school friend anyways he has been staring at me and doing weird hand gestures like this 🤘 And every time we are near each other like when I am in line and he is ahead of me he looks at me and apologizes yet he doesn't with anyone else. I honestly don't know what he is doing especially with those hand gestures and staring. He keeps staring at me, he gets food the same time I do even though he is supposed to be in class and when he is talking with his friend he always looks at me.

So, I've been friends with someone I know online for a while. I told her I liked her and she liked me back. I really like her... but I haven't told anyone about it except my brother... I have no idea how my mom would act, since she might get mad and say online dating is bad. I trust my friend a lot though. I know she wouldn't do anything bad. I need to tell my mom, though, I feel like I really should sooner or later. I feel it'd be worse since I am still in middle school. Please let me know how I should handle this :-) Thanks for your support.

I'm pretty sure my friends with benefits has it he's never even asked if I was on birth control. He says he likes me a lot and texts me he misses me a lot even though we have only know each other 4 months. Last night he said he wanted to get me pregnant.

Thinking back I didn't make too many efforts to get dates due to some bad experiences with women. I've been afraid. In my mind though I had more run ins then I did in real life     Asked a few out but nothing came of it. They were nice i about it too. Just the notion that I can't do it as you might laugh at me. Rejection I'm ok with.  It's normal as anything to any of us. Women laughing at me is what I'm afraid of. Even more afraid is a woman saying yes. Yes is a nuke I'm not ready for.  Also like I said before my mom stifled me a lot when growing up and there's an invisible barrier between me and the opposite sex. I can't say nothing to them. Nothing. Not even hi. 

i just got out of a relationship and started using a dating app. just realized the guy who asked me out on a date has a kid, after he asked. i know its a horrible reason to let someone down & im sure they struggle going through this each time. but i dont wanna be mean. i just got out of a 7 year long relationship and i went on the app for fun

And yours don't 

I met this guy last year in one of my classes. Around this time I remember having car sex then he basically ghosted. I still have him on Snapchat I didn't think he would text me. Should I ask? I think it's kinda weird because after a year? Shouldn't he have forgotten me?

My girlfriend used to go so out of her way to look after me and show me she loved me. She took a day off work to help with an important document, always supported me etc We have now been together for nearly 2 years and things have changed. I constantly ask about her and we talk about how her life is going and what is going on but she has no idea of the important deadlines or aspects of my life. I tried to being up a piece of work I was worried about and she just started saying how she didn't feel very well.  I cook her every meal, am constantly there for her, drive her everywhere and wait for her to finish working late at night so I can drive her home, when she has important work I spend hours proof reading it etc  She doesn't know what my important issues are. She is talking to other people but can't talk to me for long before turning to her phone, she is constantly taking selfies and yet there are barely any photos of us on her social media. And any conversation we have (even if I'm upset or worried about something) she turns to her. What her worries are, how she's feeling, how tough her life is etc. She just doesn't seem interested in me anymore.  I love her so much and she constantly tells me she loves me but our conversations seem cold, like it's just something to get our the way until she can go back on her phone. we really do work as a couple but I'm starting to feel rather neglected.  What can I do about this? What are opinions on this? 

Everytime Im waiting for the bus guys will break their neck staring at me while driving and on the bus women always make direct eye contact with me and WONT look away. Also, at school I tend to keep to myself because Im really awkward and occasionally I'll be fidgeting and I'll look up and a guy will be grinning at me. I dress very casual and I dont wear any makeup so why is everyone staring at me?? 

This guy likes me, and I don't see myself dating him. He's very sweet so far, he's watched all the animes I've recommended him, and he's offered to spend $50+ on me. Problem is we rarely talk, I've known him since 3rd grade but we only started speaking regularly since 8th grade (we're in Highschool) Another roadblock is that he has autism, though it rarely shows. He's such a good friend, I'd feel like a b**** if I said no to him, what do I do?

Ok so me and this guy have been dating for about 5 months. Things were going great and I really feel like we have a good connection. Well he started college a week ago and lives with his 2 roommates. Well he's been drinking and smoking and hanging out with his roommates every night and I'm not upset about that because he deserves to hang out with his guy friends. I just feel that we are going to drift apart because he is 1.5 hours away. I don't want to control him or tell him what he can and can't do but I just don't know how I feel about this. I just feel like the drinking and smoking is going to lead to problems

I'm speaking about men