Some younger people especially girls suddenly change the way they address me and their attitude as if I'm the same age as them (use a different pronoun in our language, I do look younger than my age). I told them I didn't like it but they kept doing it. Some people kept inviting me for a drink a few times, after I have told them no a few times. Some people kept making fun of me, even though I told them I didn't like it. Essentially, my only 2 choices are: tolerate these behaviours, or stop/reduce spending time with them. I'm inclined towards the latter, but I would like to hear your experiences.

I feel like ghosting her is the best way, only because she's very sensitive and I try to explain the reasons why I don't want to associate with her any more will lead her to have a mental breakdown. I thought this situation was dealt with because she had ghosted me for 3 weeks until texting me again out of the blue. the reason why she ghosted me is because I called her out on her toxic behavior - she was cheating on her boyfriend, had a mental breakdown because her bf found out, and the way she talked about the whole situation really pissed me off. She claimed that she wasn't even aware that she ever had sex with the guy because she was too drugged out, however she had already admitted to sleeping with the guy on five separate occasions in exchange for drugs. I told her it wasn't healthy to lie to her bf and to herself, and that she needed to admit, at least to herself, that she actually did something wrong and it wasn't an accident. This really freaked her out because if she admitted that it was wrong to sleep with this guy, then her other dozen affairs would also be her fault and she wasn't willing to accept that. her bf is nasty af and started dating her when she was in high school and he was in his late 20's, so I don't feel bad for him. he bought her "accidental cheating" bs fyi. she's gotten really into hard drugs lately as well as being a sugar baby on a sex app and I've got to be honest, I'm not interested in being friends with a heroin-addicted sex worker.

i'm 16 and so basically i found out one of my close friends went on a hike with 4 other people and i was angry because i wasn't invited so i messaged him about it and he said ohh i would have invited you if i knew you liked hiking so he said next time he would invite me and i'm worried he'll forget to invite me next time so i'm crying really bad I'm really sad i'm crying so hard 

I'm a 21 year old guy and last year at this time I was dating a girl, 18, that I worked with. Long story short, it didn't work out. We are on social media together but no longer work together or talk. So anyhow, one day last year she wanted me to take her to the mall. And she wanted to bring her friend. So I said cool and I took them both to the mall. Just recently, in my suggested was the girl I was datings friend on Instagram. So I followed her and she followed me back. She just liked a couple of my older posts. Does she like me? It's kinda cool and interesting. I'm not necessarily into her but I think it's cool she took the time to do that. We only met the one time. 

I go to school 4 blocks from where my mom works. Sometimes when I get out of school, I go to her workplace and find an empty desk and do my homework and we go home together. Several of her co workers, mostly guys offered to help me with my homework and I sometimes accepted their offer. They were a great help and I thanked each one every time they helped me do homework. Several of mom's co workers, told me they had a daughter or son my age. One female co worker told me the guys did not really want to help me. It was great for their ego that they had the attention of a young girl. The guys never hit on me or did anything like that. Am I doing something wrong here?

If you had called and text your best friend about 10 times and she just all of the sudden stopped responding to you would you tell her how you felt and cuss her out a bit for not responding to let you know what was wrong? I told her I felt like she was being a gd a hole for not letting me know what was wrong. I also let her know that if anybody had a reason to be upset it was me because I am very sick and my dog just died. My brother said I should have let her know without cussing at her but I really was hurt due to her never responding to me.  I had let her know earlier to please tell me what is wrong and she has blatantly ignored me complete silence and so I finally lost it. This was over a text message and zero response from her after  There is no way you could have read that all queen Bry that quickly and answered that. Immature maybe but unless you have a better alternative then hush 

I have a high school friend that i am still in contact with. we were following each other on social media and we reconnected when i was getting married. I invited her and her best friend and they both traveled to attend my wedding. we all knew each other in high school. I tried keeping contact with both after the wedding. talk to them sometimes and comment constantly on their social media. At some point she needed my mother to write a recommendation letter for her to get a job in an organization. And since my mom was well known there I did without a thought. After the fact she started taking interest in me i told her she did not have to pretend for this i did it because she was a good friend. but we kept contact, we started talking more. One day i solicited her advice for a relationship issue and she helped. another time I needed help i asked she said she was at work and will talk later. She didn't get back to me. I brushed it off and said maybe it was because she didn't want to talk relationship so i let it go and talked to her again. couple days ago i asked her to recommend a place for my mother since her birthday is coming and I'm not there but she is in the same city if she could name some places i could have someone take her there she said later because she is out. She didn't answer. then i check her best friend snapchat she posts a picture of her receiving a message from her and captions it, ''what i wish i could be getting right now''.did i do something to deserve that

Teen Dear Daughter in question (DD) has been friends w/ a group of girls for 3+ years. One of girls, let's call her Sue, created a group chat w/ all girls PLUS 2 guys she's known since elementary (boys go to another school). Main group of girls barely know boys except socials/sports. 1 of the guys called DD a B in the chat & has been bullying the other girls off & on w/ name calling. Sue seems to think it's "funny" & doesn't stick up for any of the girls. She's also been bullying the girls for the last 6+ months & it's only getting worse.  I have 2 teen daughters. The 1 in question told the guy not to call her a B. Sue told DD she was being sensitive, that she must have problems & not to take it out on him because she can't take a joke. DD went off & said, remove me from the chat and gee, thanks Sue, for taking up for your friends (once again).  MUCH later, the guy (who also bulled a child years ago to the point of suspension) & Sue eventually apologized but Sue now says, TD was in the wrong for saying anything & making a big deal of it & treats DDs like crap at school, bullying the other girls/classmates to take her side. PS, all girls in group are scared of Sue. Sue's mother works at school and is making sly remarks. I said, forget SUE & find new friends. IMO, she's shown who she is & now playing hurt victim in this & trying to make my TDs feel stupid for speaking up. BTW, I'm an associate w/ Sue's mom but feel the drama is not worth it as she's condescending herself.

So, I have these exact same shorts. They are about the same length on me. Maybe even longer. I wear them around at home when I'm relaxing. My bf and I just moved into a new apartment. My brother invited his friends over to check the new apartment out. I greeted them at the door, and stuck around, and we all chatted for a while. After all his friends left, he got kind of mad, and told me I should have put something more decent on. I admit, they are definitely short, but I've seen women wearing shorter in PUBLIC. I didn't argue with him, and just apologized. His friends didn't seem uncomfortable in the slightest. They just acted like their normal selves. I mean. Was it inappropriate of me to wear these in front of company? I didnt think anything of it since I'm so use to wearing them in my own home all the time. 

Overall, I'm not that confident in myself. I never really have been, tbh. However, I'm 17 now. With that being said, I need to be more responsible. I can't hide in a shell forever. I need to start communicating more. I just don't know where to begin to start fixing this flaw of mine. I've been like this for most of my life.

I met this guy online we live 4 hours away from each other driving distance. And one hour if it's a plane ride. We've talked for almost a year now and he wants to come to meet me. I wouldn't mind going to see him though either way is fine with me. Yes, I know some people you meet online are creeps but not everyone is. And honestly, it's no different than meeting someone in a bar. I know that I have to be safe I know about catfishing and how people can be crazy. And I also know that you can't meet up with everyone you meet online. So don't bother to tell me I'm crazy etc if it's not your thing fine. @Anonymous: You can be raped and murdered by someone you meet at bar.

Since September I have been living in a small 3 bedroom apartment with two other roommates. One of my roommates has a friend from MTL ( we live in ON), & nearly every single week since the end of September my roommates friend has been coming down to ON to come and visit her. She will typically stay in our apartment anywhere from 1 - 1 & a half weeks. I personally don't mind my roommates having company over, but the fact that her friend is here so often & stays for some time is kind of like we have a fourth roommate. Her friend also does not clean anything & has had her boyfriend over on a few occasions as well. I want to know if it would be reasonable to ask my roommate if she could possibly have her friend over a little bit less. Also, we are currently all in University. Her friend attends Uni in MTL, but misses A LOT of her classes to come down to ON.

I met my friend through my sorority and we have been friends for a few years. When I first became friends with her she was nice and I liked being around her but now she's incredibly selfish and doesn't care about other people at all. She does things that she knows annoy me like break my thing, eat my food, scream in my ear, etc and thinks it's okay to do but when anyone does the shitty things she does to other people to her she freaks out and throws a complete bitchfit. An example is multiple times when I had to leave for class her car was parked behind mine and I asked her to move it so I could leave and she said no because she was too busy curling her hair for her minimum wage job and told me to move it myself and she didn't care if it made me late. Today, I was parked behind her when she needed to leave for therapy and she asked me to move it and just to see how she'd react I told her I was too busy with homework to do it to which she responded by screaming and crying saying that she was going to be charged if she was late and said her having to get somewhere was more important than me having to go to school. Also, I am no longer friends with one of my other friends because of her because she told the friend I sided with her in an argument since she was losing it. It's gotten to the point where I'm debating if I want to live with or be friends with her any longer because I'm sick of being belittled and treated poorly by her. What should I do to confront her?

I've been talking to a guy who lives in Aurora Illinois. And I live in Grosse Pointe Michigan. I really like and want to be with him. I could always move in with him.

So I have a former friend named aaron who is now an hater and a bully and he is tearing my life apart. I am 25 years old and I have autism and so that is really making my life hard already. It is affecting me not being able to get a drivers license cause I can't remember what I studied. The other thing is that I'm having a hard time getting a job cause I can't even get an interview. Aaron was talking to one of my friends earlier today and he told my friend that he has a better chance at getting a girlfriend than me cause he can drive and has his own places. He said no girl wants to be with a guy who still lives at home with his parents and is unemployed and takes the bus all the time. He says that I will remain a virgin forever. Hearing that hurts me a lot cause I am struggling trying to get my life together and I really wished I have a significant other. I'm so lonely and I have no local friends. My only local friend I had moved away last july and I only get to see him once or twice a year. Not only that I lost almost all of my friends earlier this year and I only have two friends left. I am just so upset and I don't get why aaron thinks its ok to do this to me. Why is he being so cruel to me ? How come aaron thinks that no girl wants to date me because of my current living and life situation ??