I had infertility issues so my husband and I had to do ivf. We ended up having a beautiful son. Though my husband has commented many times on how he wishes he had our child the "real way" or the "natural way". It makes me so upset when he remarks stuff like that. He also has said he doesn't feel like a real man cause he didn't "make a baby like everyone else".

I'm 25F and I married my husband when I was only 22. Now I want to divorce him because I realize I married too young and I can't do the things that I want to do in life, he's immature, I converted to his religion in order to marry him and I don't like it, I'm currently interested in someone else (but not cheating), and I might not want kids after all (or at least one)... He will always have a place in my heart, and I still even want to keep him in my life if he would still like to be. Now I'm really afraid to be alone relationship-wise, as I fear that no one will love me like how he did (I can be very insecure about how I look). I'm just so scared and stressed and I don't even know how to break the news to him. Please help. I also forgot to say that my feelings for him have dwindled significantly :(

My husband is always gone from home the majority of the time. He has sex with other women while gone and I fully am aware of this and am okay with it. We have a son together who's very young. I plan on keeping this all a secret to him

Like they think they're better than single people

Let me start with fiancée. We both 35 years old. 2 years together recently broke up a month ago coz she went through my phone found out I was still talking to my ex. NO I was not having sex with my ex. The reason was for property that we bought together. I couldn't tell my fiancée coz she was insecure from the first day. Present, I work for my Dad and have startup on the side. I had my home and everything. Life was good. Turning point we didn't sell the company when got the offer coz expected more and then started to put money from our pocket and my partners too. Had a fight with my parents coz They didn't like my fiancée at all. Fed my fiancée all the time she lived with me most of the time. Then I had to put more money in startup, sold my home thought will buy again in few months. Asked my fiancée to move in with her but things didn't work out. Now we broke up and I have noone. Family not talking to me at all. Almost took loan on everything to put in startup. Now last thing left is my car (911 Carrera S) been thinking should I take a loan on it or sell. Future is uncertain. Don't know when the buyers will come again. Fiancée left who I thought will be there in my downtime. And worse we both were drunk and wanted to take her home so I drove and got a DUI. Now basically I am alone. No money, no fiancée and no family. If I take a loan on my car payments are huge and don't know about the future. What will you do? Has anyone been through some like this? What was the outcome?

After years of trying to get my husband to move out, he is finally doing so. It's been absolute h-ll living with him: emotional abuse, verbal abuse, angry tantrums, draining my bank account. But now that he is leaving, I feel guilty about not wearing the bracelet he gave me more often. It was one of the only things he gave me. I feel like if I'd worn it more, maybe he wouldn't be angry. I feel like it' my fault the marriage is over because of it.

I have been fighting for custody now for two years. My 4 yo son's father was deployed last year...He came back in June 2018 and we outlined an agreement...still not signed. I cant get him to show or agree to anything proposed. Now, we are set for a pre-trial hearing and I am nervous as I found out he enrolled our son in Catholic pre-school (without my knowledge). Our son has been attending pre-school for one year now in my area of residence....I have no idea how to cope with this stress.

My husband works five hours away so he is gone weekdays and home on weekends only. Could this end up working out?

My husband is gone Monday thru Friday every week for work for years and travels about five hours away. Many people have told me they've seen him with other women. Thou I choose not to believe it cause our child. Last night someone emailed me a video of him acting sexual with a woman on a mechanical bull at a bar. I was quite speechless and don't know how I should approach him about all of this

Basically I feel an intense attraction to boss.. he's married with a kid, but does not wear a wedding ring or have any pictures of her on his desk. He's complimented me on my hair before and my tattoos and flirted with me .. but also criticizes my clothes sometimes in a joking manner. Sometimes when we're talking he'll innocently touch my arm.. He goes to church, and has been married for over 10 years. But his wife doesn't wouldn't go on vacation with him to fl and he even asked one of my coworkers to come with him. I have deep feelings for him and today he said he'd go over one of the projects we're working on with his wife. I don't know if he casually mentioned her to see my reaction or to remind me or himself that he's married.. I have the biggest crush on him and I know most people are going to tell me to keep it professional but a lot of people are WAY too judgemental. Please give me some advice and if you think he's jnterested in me.. I'm not trying to break up a happy home but if he's fallen out of love w her it could be worth exploring.. I just wanna know what to do. For some reason a lot of people on here seem to think they have the right to play god and judge me, you don't. In fact unless you can provide a logical perspective don't bother answering

Please only respond with genuine advice. I am very emotional and I would just like good clean answers! Thanks. I was very intimately involved with a coworker, honestly my first real relationship. And things ended recently and it has been hard. We went through seasons of not speaking to each other and ignoring each other - which made me pretty miserable honestly. I once had this person I shared everything with and truly loved to now pretending like we never existed. That was a rough time and maybe about a month ago (we ended in April) we decided to try and be friends and work towards that. It has truly been hard to find a friend in someone who was more than a friend. I find myself reminiscing a lot, and just feeling sad bc I know itll never happen again and things wont be the same anymore. We def had problems though. And I know that things wouldn't have worked out long term even if we would have tried harder for longer. Sex and intimacy would be keeping us together. So yes. I knew this was inevitable. The reality of it is just difficult. So, now I'm stuck at my job where I see this person everyday and while we are cordial it still hurts. It also hurts me knowing that they have moved on seemingly a lot quicker than I. Again, this was my first relationship and my first breakup. Does anyone have any advice on how to deal at work and even outside of work. Will things get better at work with time? Or is it reasonable to want to seek other options for employment?

I went to my friend's birthday party. We're both 13. At the end of the party, I was sitting on his lap and he wrapped his arms around me tightly and smelled my hair. His mom took me by my arm and pulled me off of him without saying anything. Is she jealous? I only see him as a friend as i have another boyfriend more experienced and older. She makes it seem as if i was going to eat him up lol. He's the one who's crushing on me, i was just joking around with him.

he decided to go to a class which was about 5 hours away. He had to drive. He ended up taking a female person with him, had dinner, went to the 45 minute class and drove back. He tells me about this the day after. He did know prior to leaving that day that she was riding with him. I admit I am very jealous but my problem is, I was hurt and felt deceived finding about it afterwards. He stated that he would always tell me in the future of things such as this. This was months ago. Fast forward to recent, he goes to a practice which is about 10 minutes from out home. Prior to leaving he has his wedding band on, but removes it before he leaves. I questioned him about it when he got home and his reply was "he did not want to lose it". Which I think is b.s. So, going back a little farther, I have asked to go with him to see what he does, so I can best relate, because I am interested in what my husband does, he claims that I can go sometime but that "sometime" never happens. There is always some excuse. So, my question to you folks is.. am I over-reacting or do I have a reason to worry? I am really trying to understand but It keeps popping up in my head. I struggle with it daily. Part of me thinks he is ashamed of me and have asked him but he denies it. So this has been going on for about 8 months and yet I have not been invited to join him with all the "gang" which does include females as well as males. What do I do? PS.. we are old and in our 50's. Ideas?

I have been married 5 days and ever since my husband has been focused on my Jim. Jim had been my best friend for the last year, we never had a physical relationship. Jim is my patient and I work an hour from home. My husband thinks that we meet up while I am at work.

About 9 years ago, my husband and his ex wife created a deed to his house and her name is still on it. We went to the insurance place and removed her name from being a beneficiary to his life insurance and put my name on it. Do I need to worry if her name is still on deed? It's joint tenants with rights of survivorship. In the divorce papers it says husband has ownership. Do I own house partly too instead of her?

We moved here about 2 years ago for me to take a job. I make good money but it's not my dream job. My wife really wants to move closer to both of our families because we have 2 kids and she says she feels isolated and lonely where we are at now. I found a job close to both our families (about 3 hours from here) as a branch manager and best part is it would be about a 20k pay increase. But I also applied for my dream job where we live now and got an offer but it's 15k less than what I currently make plus no company car so I'd have to buy a car. I don't know what to do. I really want to take this job but I also feel bad like my wife is gonna hate me for making her stay here.

Ladies: Would you find this utterly disrespectful from your man?? Gentlemen: would you even tell your woman this, especially if she FORGAVE you for being unfaithful in the past?

My daughter lives in a house i owned before I married my current wife. My daughter has gotten a dog. My wife feels that my daughter should not have a dog and I should tell/order my daughter not to have a dog. I personally don't see it as a big deal, but my wife is upset that I don't see things her way. Is she wrong for not accepting that we are different people and see things differently or is she right that I should not view things my own way and act in accordance to what I feel is correct?

3 years to our married life , we use to put all our salary in one joint account with my wife since 3 years , even now we have same joint account. now situation is my wife is controlling all money , i am unable to purchase anything from even my money , whenever i talk to buy clothes or shoes etc she fights with me. i am very confuse here , and her father is very stubborn person same as her , always ready for fights and arguments. how do i separate my money ? do i need lawyer help ?

There's not really room for all the details since there is alot to our story but... My husband has been very abusive to me but NEVER would he do that to our 2 young daughters. I don't feel safe anymore & can't risk leaving my babies being without their mother. I have a decision between staying or going to stay with a friend to help build my independence & making a life for me & my children but the thing is that they can't have kids there.... I don't want to leave my kids (even though they are safe) but it may be the only chance I have to make a good life for them. The shelters in my area are awful & not a kid friendly environment, even the family ones. :( I don't know what to do, please help me

My bf keeps telling me that other girls split the bill. I don't see why he keeps dating me then bc I told him that I wouldn't date a guy that can't afford to pay the bill

I've been with my husband a little over 8 years. 2 years ago I got the manager position in my job. The owner wants to leave town and is showing me everything from recipes to produce and who to buy supplies from. I called my husband because the owner wanted to tell me more about recipes. Told him I might be an hour late, he went crazy saying the owner has been giving me responsibilities that aren't even mine to quit on the spot and just F everything. I dont get it he told me I told him the wrong way. What's the right way? I told him stop being jealous because that's how it looks he told me that's not it that it was the way I approached him by saying I'll be an hour late..now he wont talk to me at all and I gotta go to work dont know how to make everything better or if it's just him acting crazy. What's going on? I'd ask him but he keeps saying dont talk to me.

Dressed for a funeral. She says she thinks I'm comparing her to other women. She also seems to be retaliating since my parents are able to spend more on the kids than I normally do. She blames me and says she doesn't need me, only the kids. I just want to find a solution so we can enjoy the remaining days. Help?