We are married for 4 years . She is good caring wife . She is a bit childish/innocent IMO.I caught her with man having sex . But I still love her and want to forgive her . I want to blame the guy not her . How can I forgive her without hurting her or myself . She is kind of person that if you press her enough you can make her do things against her own will She is 24 BTW

I can understand if a man marries a 25 year old when he is 30 and they grow old together, but are there single men who pursue women over 35 or even 4o for marriage? I see it happen with celebrities ut never with anyone else unless the women is really rich and the guy isn't. every single or divorced man I know over 50 and 60's pursues women. in their 20's early 30s at the oldest

Im 27. he's 35. We've been together since I was 19. He lives with his grandmother andd has 3 kids by two women. I have no kids and no desire to have kids. I always thought we were the perfect match because my bf doesn't want any MORE kids and I have no desire to get preganant EVER. who knows if my guy friend will ever want kids. Yes, he doesn't have kids now but that doesn't mean he won't EVER want them. I'm never changing my mind, I'm not maternal at all I never even get baby fever so me and my bf have been taking precautions so that i don't get pregannat. me and my guy friend do have a lot in common, except for the fact that i'm very outgoing and loud and he's extremely shy and soft spoken. me and my guy friend are both aspiring authors and he lives with his parents also, he is like 29 i think. me and my guy friend have been friends for 10 years and my boyfriend said that he believes he's a better match for me because of our background, how we were raised, our career aspirations, and personality. My boyfriend said our personalities can clash sometimes because me and him are both strong minded and opinionated and my bf is the type of person who is stuck in his ways. he does have a tendency to get mad over little things where my guy friend is very laid back, i've actually never seen seriously mad EVER and i've known him a long time. my boyfriend said that my guy friend is more passive which fits my personality better.

Well we decided to swing with couples same room everything open no secrets. If one of us wasnt getting lucky then the other wasnt. I found messages on her phone she was hiding sexual convos from me and she says that she thought about how I would feel and that it would hurt me but she didnt think i would find out. Which is bull I dont think she gives a dam how I was going to feel I think she is sorry she got caught. I could be wrong idk. It doesnt make sense to me. Idk what to do now I love her shes my wife idk how to trust her right now. How can we fix this? I dont understand why it's so more exciting with strangers you'll never meet than your own husband.

My younger sister is 17. She lives with me and my wife. They fight everyday. Mainly because my wife is trying to impose a certain discipline on my sister and she's in that teenage rebellious stage. I understand this and in the same time I don't want to give my sister the impression that she's not welcome in my home. My home is her home. So I'm trying to stay in the middle and not take sides, but the situation does not improve. They each expect me to take their side Any ideas?

I've been having an affair with a married man and it ended really nasty. I really almost want to tell his wife cause I know her and she's a super nice lady. Though I don't want to start drama with his wife and child and certainly don't want her to be mad at me

I'm having an affair with a married man whom has a wife and child. He's 24 years older than me. Everytime I'm with him we hardly talk but he immediately gets ready wants sex when I'm with him.

Im 27. he's 35. We've been together since I was 19. He lives with his grandmother andd has 3 kids by two women. I have no kids and no desire to have kids. I always thought we were the perfect match because my bf doesn't want any MORE kids and I have no desire to get preganant EVER. who knows if my guy friend will ever want kids. Yes, he doesn't have kids now but that doesn't mean he won't EVER want them. I'm never changing my mind, I'm not maternal at all I never even get baby fever so me and my bf have been taking precautions so that i don't get pregannat. me and my guy friend do have a lot in common, except for the fact that i'm very outgoing and loud and he's extremely shy and soft spoken. me and my guy friend are both aspiring authors and he lives with his parents also, he is like 29 i think. me and my guy friend have been friends for 10 years and my boyfriend said that he believes he's a better match for me because of our background, how we were raised, our career aspirations, and personality. My boyfriend said our personalities can clash sometimes because me and him are both strong minded and opinionated and my bf is the type of person who is stuck in his ways. he does have a tendency to get mad over little things where my guy friend is very laid back, i've actually never seen seriously mad EVER and i've known him a long time. my boyfriend said that my guy friend is more passive which fits my personality better.

My wife and I have been married for 25 years. Now of course I've seen other people while in our relationship, but she never found out. We are doing just fine but everytime at the end of each month, she treats me like garbage and I don't know why. Can someone please tell whats going on?

My husband came and asked me why I don't pick up a majority of the time when his mother calls and I told him the truth. She's exhausting, I can't get a word in edge wise talking to her and she blows off anything I say. She frequently gives me unsolicited parenting advice while criticizing my parenting skills, yet she makes no serious effort to have a relationship with my children, her grandchildren, and she talks bad about my husband, her own son. She always runs him down to me really bad and I don't like it. She eventually stopped calling for a long time and since I've never been close with her I made no effort to reach out. I ran into her this month and she told me that she changed her number and stopped calling because my husband called her and went off and told her never to call me again. He was livid about her calling me and talking bad about him. Am I wrong for telling him the truth?

My daughter who rents a house I owned before I married my current wife has gotten a dog. My wife and I live in a different city than my daughter some twenty miles away. My daughter has gotten a dog. My wife feels that my daughter should not have a dog and I should tell/order my daughter not to have a dog. I personally don't see it as a big deal, but my wife is upset that I don't see things her way. Is she wrong for not accepting that we are different people and see things differently or is she right that I should not view things my own way and act in accordance to what I feel is correct?

We have been married for 6 years. We have had MAJOR family drama with his side. Short and simple, they don t like me. My husband told me last night when he was drunk that he shuts me out when I tell him how I feel. He apologizes the next day for the things he says but frankly, I m tired of the "I m sorry". He is an alcoholic, and was sober for 2 years before meeting me. I drink wine occasionally but when I found out his past I stopped. He then picked it up on his own and now he has no filter. He keeps going and doesn t stop. So if an emotional sting happens during that drunk time there is NO calming him down. Has anyone else had this issue and what do I do to help him open up when he s sober. When he went to work this morning I dumped all the alcohol so I m sure I ll hear about that later. I just need stability emotionally . How? Just how?

I'm married to him (10 years), have 3 kids. Been abused for years emotionally, he's also got adult autism, but I feel like I just can't anymore. I think I love him, but how much can someone take.. How much is too much to put up with? How can I heal and improve when it's a constant battle already every day.

My husband and I have been married for 31 years. We both have medical issues, so I got used to us being close but without that certain kind of intimacy. Obviously, it didn't dawn on me that he could still have an affair. But then I found out he had been secretly talking to an ex for the past year, expressing his undying love for her. He admitted to me that if we were not together, he would go back to her. Thing that I'm pretty much his caregiver, I almost said let her have him! Would be so much easier for me! But then I found myself feeling really hurt. I think it really surprised me that I was so hurt over this, even though I knew that he was unable to do anything physical, and was not interested in leaving me. I don't know why, but that almost made me more Furious. He was sitting there saying to her that I have been so good to him, Etc, that we've been married for 31 years, so he would not leave me. I told him I'm not some dang consolation prize. If she would make him happier, go for it. I basically trying to push him over to her oh, but he will not budge. In my opinion, it's because he knows how good he's got it. He knows that nobody else could help him the way I can, because no one understands his ways like I do.

my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. I thought everything was perfect.. He is my whole life. 😭 I noticed since January he seemed a little distant with sex. It used to be every damn day basically and then it started turning into every 3 days and he seemed kind of depressed a little and I figured it was all from losing his job. Fast forward to June.. sex is every 4-5 days. I asked him why and what is wrong! He told me his dick hurts. I'm like huh? But I just believe him. Because I trust him. He's been turning me down. 😭 I have never not once our whole relationship. Since the last few months he's even been spending less and less time with me and I don't know what I did. I thought everything was perfect. I've never logged into my mans email or Facebook or nothing but on Monday I did. I just had this "feeling" So I log into his email account and I saw all his search history. This MF has been watching porn almost every other damn day since we been together and he promised me he doesn't. HE told me porn was like cheating to him. NOW I'm not naive and stupid enough to believe he would never watch porn but what I saw ******* destroyed me. He was specifically searching for women and things that look nothing NOTHING like me while I've been crying wondering why he won't have sex with me! 😭 it hurts so ******* bad I can't get over it

Hello. I know it's hard to tell. He's a truck driver and works at night. My sister got a text sent from an sms gateway half of a year ago saying "you're husband Name is cheating on you" from K. Today she got a similar msg also from K. Too bad we cannot check who is it from. How can we tell if he is cheating. My sister told him that. He says it is bullshit. On one hand he is really caring and loving and likes my sister very much but in the other..... Idk They've been married for 10 years now.

I logged into her messenger to text one of her friends to set up a surprise for my wife and I wasn't expecting to see her chatting with a guy from work she told me she won't text and the guy from work also told me he won't text because it was out of line. I believed both of them to not do it again because of stuff that happened at work with them two. She wasn't surprised that I was reading the messages she told me she done it to find out how I would react. She told me if she wanted to she would have already dated 5 guys at once. We had a long talk. But the message suggested to me that the guy wasn't aware of the set up by talking how they would do it. He wrote my wife would jump under the train if she found out and your husband would end up in a psychiatric clinic. He also wrote if would be better if they do it to us.

I have a three year old son that me and my husband had through ivf. We love him to death but my husband still wanted more kids biologically so we tried again and were unsuccessful and stopped. I've always sensed for years in our marriage he had been cheating but never proved it. I got an email the other night from his mistress telling me she's pregnant with his child, she went on to explain he did it intentionally to have more children and she went with it. We ended up talking and she said she would like to make things work out with our kids to grow up together which doesn't sound like a horrible idea to me but I don't know if this type of environment would be good for my son opinions??

There's one I know, she hugs me, because her and I are longtime co-workers. We don't anymore. Why? Because she knows I have a girlfriend.