How can you test your girlfriend to see if she is really going to be with you there for you by your side For better or for worse ? Rich or for poor ? Sickness and in health ? Till death do you part ? I'm not poor and I'm not Ill or dying There is nothing wrong with me I'm doing very well in life and am a successful stable and healthy Normal person You can't just trust and believe a woman's words at face value Girlfriend wants to get married we've been dating for 2 years But I haven't had a scenario situation event happen in life that could put my girlfriend and our relationship through the test to see if she is really Wife marriage material yet And The One ? I'm afraid Wife would just abandon me and leave me if something bad happens to me in life during tough times or if something bad happens Like all the other Western Women who cheated had affair divorced their husband abandoned them left them to die when push came to shove and husband needed them the most during bad and tough times I don't want to end up like all those other divorced men I hear about see and read about it I've heard and read a lot of divorce horror stories My Woman's loyalty and true love and devotion for me must be put to the test before I go ahead and marry her and risk everything and put everything on the line to marry her

I'm ready to marry you yesterday.

Hello, i just opened my yahoo account with the intention to ask this question. I have my husband who is a good husband, and we have 7 years married and 2 years of relationship which makes a total of 9 years together,at the begin of our relationship she hated me and did things to me to make me feel bad,like, comments,bad looks etc,but my husband gave me my place,so she changed,and now we have like 2 years in peace ,harmony and love,at least for my very sincere intentions. Now,what is really brothering me is that he always tries to excuse other people over me.Here goes the question, what you guys would think if you mother in law try you with love and nicely but when you tell her nice thinks on facebook she ignores you and respond others thanking them for the comments,but ignore yours most of the time,moreover, if you have told her how bad other person which is not her friend has been with you and you have shared with her some bad experience that you have had with that person, and you mother in law reply to the comments that that bad person made to her just thanking her,and do not respond to yours,,but in real life she trieds you with "love".I dont understaend,i feel she is not beign true with me,and my husband thinks that i am exaggerating,but i dont know my inner sence tells me that she is not my sincere friend,,what you guys think is the right answer??? My husband is also going to read the comment

What are the disadvantages or unfavorable circumstances for women and men married to their co-workers from their work? I will pick the best answer.

Here's the situation: about four months ago, this guy messaged me on instagram and started talking to me about my artwork, and we messaged for quite sometime. After a few weeks of talking on instagram, we exchanged snapchats and he started hitting on me. I am currently single so I enjoyed the flirting. It then escalated to us sexting/sending nudes, and he even said he wished he could drive up and see me (which I said I was uncomfortable talking about since I didn't know him that well.). He sends me videos of himself saying good morning and constantly telling me how much he loves my eyes. Curiosity got the best of me a few days ago, and I asked him if he was seeing anyone, and he responded that he "goes with the flow". Since his answer was weird, I looked up his phone number that was connected to his business on facebook (which I found through his instagram), and I found his personal facebook, AND I found out that he's been married for two years, and that he's going to be having a child soon.... What should I do?? should I call him out on it, should I block him?? Even though he didn't do anything with me in person, I feel HORRIBLE that he's going behind his pregnant wife's back and talking to me/trying to send me sexual things. God knows how many other girls he might be talking to. PLEASE help. Thanks :).

If a married man and a single women are close to each other for a couple of years or more, they tell each other that they love each other, and there s lots of fooling around all the time but it stops short of intercourse, is he having an affair, and is she his mistress?

So I have been married for 5 months now and I recently found out my husband has been giving another woman money.She messaged me and told me about it. At first I didn't believe her, then she started sending screenshots. When I confronted him at first, he lied. Then he finally confessed that he has been giving her money for months because she needed money for "gas and food". Mind you they have had sex in the past before we met and he also sent her naughty messages. He says that the messages were photoshopped but I don't believe it. He even said in one of the text messages thst he would divorce me if they start dating. He swears that they haven't had sex recently but I don't know that since he is always working out of town.

Hello all. I recently left my boyfriend and moved into my own plave with my 2 kids(14,17) Reasons for seperation: He made me quit my job of 12 years because I was too close with my employee He made my son" leave the house 3x a week and walk the streets for 4 hours to make him a man and meet friends My daughther says he talked to her about using condoms and told him he would block the school number if she wanted to skip also kept her home a few times. He blocked everyone I know on my iphone wihtout telling me and he tracks and accuses me everywhere I go. He claims he does this "to improve my sons future" Denies my daughther says maybe she has a crush on him. And he does that to me because he loves me. I am so lost anymore I don't know who is lying or telling the truth. He says my kids are manipulating him and we need to move forward with our child and he will no longer interview with my kids. If I move I lose my credit as I signed a lease and he towed my car which im making payments on and its in impound which I can not afford to get out. Why do I want to stay with this man? sorry my kids are manipulating me because they want to skip school and be lazy on you tube all day . they hate him because he is lying down rules

My son's mom put me on child support when he was born all because she found out I cheated but lately me and my grandfather have been taking care of my son. She always has an excuse about why she can't keep him. How can I fix this problem.

He's incarcerated and we're in Illinois.

My husband and I moved into a new development... One of the maintenance guys (who is also married and only lives 5 units away from us) only seems to talk to me when my husband isn't around... My husband even noticed, and I get the impression it makes him a little jealous. Over the past month or so, I have bumped into this guy three times now, all of which he seems to kind of go out of his way to chat with me as I'm walking my dog. I believe his wife is disabled, and doesn't leave the house often. Is he flirting with me or just being friendly? Is it because he's sincerely interested or maybe just lonely? I have to admit that I do get a vibe there may be a mutual attraction between us, but could I be imagining this??????? Also, I am happily married and love my husband and still find him sexy, we still enjoy each others company, make each other laugh, etc., but I can't stop thinking about this guy, and I look forward to these random encounters we have had so far. Could I be sensing something happening between us or am I completely out-of-touch with reality? Also, why am I so interested in this guy? I don't understand what is going on and need some guidance!

My husband and I have been having this argument for months.I had a strong relationship with my husbands parents and the rest of his family in the beginning,i loved them and they treated me good and just like their daughter.I'd always go over clean and cook for them and help his mother out even though his sister is older than me and lives with them.I sometimes go in the morning make breakfast for them and come back.I would never disrespect them and never hesitate to do what they ask me.I spent months helping his sister study for her courses.Over the months they just started hating me, telling me how horrible i was and they would call me all these mean things and say how I'm the daughter of a prostitute(my mothers not even in my life,because she left us when i was so young)and how i can never be a great mother,they lie and say i never did anything for the.They always bring up my husbands ex wife in front of me and say how shes better than me (but from their words,she treated everyone badly) they treated me soo horribly,his dad almost wanted to hit me.Anyway i haven't talked to them in 4 months and planned on not having anything to do with them.My husband fought for me in the beginning but now is telling me to forgive them and tells me lets go visit them just once to talk things out.He just recently started talking to them and his family thinks I've banned him from them even though i encouraged him to go see them and talk to them and check up on them but just dont involve me. He tells me to just go visit them for one day and he cant keep going alone because im not with him. He tells me they want to see me but i just have this feeling they are lieing and still full of hate. My husband is a kind and forgiving person and doesn't want hate between us even if its only a fake smile in front of them but I've been stubborn about this and have grown to hate them. I just dont want to go and talk to them again after how they treated me.  I'm been just miserable fighting over and over about this with my husband, when my husbands miserable theres no love from us all. He grew up being the hated one out of the children, for some reason his parents always treated him differently but hes so forgiving he doesn't care , me on the other hand, i want him to have a relationship with them, i just dont want to be in it but it's not going to work out. Ugh

My husband do this at times and he just don't tease me. He do it as if he mean it. I was thrilled to also learn that he not only takes my pics at times but also notice my emotions while I am a sleep and then he tells me about it when I wake up what I was doing and why...

(She has no independent income). I got the tracking info off her phone and found out it was delivered today. A family member who knows about this saw her stuff the package in her backpack and head off to the gym. I will be picking her up in a couple of hours. I don't want her to know that I know, but I need to find out if she has opened up another CC or is taking money covertly to shop. Advice?

He is starting to exhibit some of the same behaviors as he did when I caught him the first time. In addition, he will not let me use his phone for ANY reason....even for me to order US food when my phone was dying, and has started sleeping in another room with the excuse that he's tired of me complaining about his snoring. Mid 30s, no kids, and terrified of starting over after all these years together. When I ask him, he says of course not...but his behavior says otherwise. Any of my requests for counseling are shot down and according to him, i need it, not him. Any suggestions?

I thought he withdrew the money to put it into another bank, but it's been in our house for almost 2 weeks. Everytime I ask him about it, he starts getting irritated and even angry with me and refuses to tell me why. All he tells me is "nothing is wrong, everything is fine". We have two kids living in the house and it isn't the best neighborhood. We aren't wealthy by any means and if something were to happen to that money, we would be devastated financially. How should I approach this with him? I'm thinking he is having some trouble with the IRS, but I don't know. I have not seen any letters. I'm completely left in the dark and it worries me having so much money in the house even if it is in a safe.

We are struggling with money. My husband is trying so hard to pay off a hospital bill of mine. He blames it on me and i understand that it is. I am trying my best to help. Im working and finding a new job to help aswell. But my husband is mad and grmpy and i just want to sooth him, calm him down. I have written love letters , messages, meals, baths. So my question is men, what would you wished your significant other did for you on a time of stress?

We have been married for 3 years and about after the honeymoon phase its like she just get more and more detached every day. She barley talks to me, she always is looking to start an argument, she locks herself in our bedroom and makes me sleep on the couch. I have tried to talk to her multiple times, even bringing up counseling and she just shrugs and walks off. We don't have any kids, which brings up another thing! She practically lied to me about her thoughts on having kids. She always talked about how she wanted 4 kids after we got married, then once we were married she all of a sudden doesn't want any kids. I personally want children and I am very angry that she is pulling this behavior. She acts like the victim in every situation and constantly tells her parents, and friends our personal business about our marriage. I have never been so aggravated with someone before as much as I am aggravated with her. What left is there to do? We are both Christians, and divorce is the last resort. I would prefer not to think about it, but I am very stuck right now. Help. We are both 23 btw.

I have a cheating lying husband who Im leaving, after some research online I found most of the stories were much like my own, he cheats we leave he begs for his wife back she goes back to him he keeps cheating. Why is this? For example, my husband and I have been together 4 years he's cheated on me every day of it however I had no idea until I was 9 months pregnant with our first child and we were 2 years into things. I left for a few weeks he begged for me to come back, so I came back I thought things were good until I come home from the store and find him in the back seat of a car with another women right in front of our apt! I left again this time for a few months, he begged me back, after this I would rarely have sex and when I didn't always used a condom, I didn't trust him not to give me an std well he was popping holes in the condoms! So I had another child.I left again for a few month he begged me back, sitting outside my moms house for hours every day even in the rain begging for his family so I tried one more time, I just came back to him 4 months ago and I'm now pregnant again and he's cheating again, I can't do this it's our 3rd child I can't afford to keep having more so now I'm leaving, but what I don't get is why do men beg to be with a woman they cheat on, if you love someone you don't hurt them over and over on purpose so why do these men want to stay? Why do they want to stay with a woman who gives them hell for cheating then they keep cheating?

my Husband never takes initiative to do anything whether it's sex, dates, food at home or just anything he leaves it all up to me and just sits on the sofa and waits for me to initiate things. I have to plan for dates otherwise they dont happen. I have to engage sex or it doesn't happen I have to cook dinner or get him to buy buy something otherwise he doesn't eat. He would sit home all day and wait for me to start cooking or ask him "what's for dinner" otherwise he would sit home all day or come back from work and eat nothing. When we are home I have to say " let's watch a movie or let's do this or that otherwise nothing happens. If I don't plan day outs or fried meets or family gatherings then they never happen we would end up being sat home just watching the news and thats it. I'm so sick of it I have spoken to him many times about it but he doesn't listen. Would be nice to have my husband organise a date or take me out without me planning it all. Feel like his mom i mean even kids get their parents to do stuff this one leaves everything for me to take charge off

My wife wants me to hang out with and be friends with her ex because they have kids together. She wants us all to be together and hang out. Im fine with saying hi to her ex and being nice to him but thats where I draw the line. I dont want to hang out with the guy. She says this isn't normal and I should want to hang out with him however her parents are divorced and her dad and mom hang out with her moms new husband all the time but they fight non stop and it is not fun. she thinks it is normal. what should I do?

I was forced into an arranged marriage by my parents when I was 20 yrs old to a man. This was back in 2011. I liked him but I never fell in love. I care about him but I honestly do not think I can ever develop romantic feelings for him for the rest of my life. Recently I met someone who has everything I've ever wanted in a man. He is successful and his personality makes me feel sparks around him every time. I can tell he is the one who I should have married. He likes me a lot too. We just have started seeing each other but he does not know I am married. Its been a couple of weeks already and I want to divorce my husband.

Im 39, male, married with children. I love being a Dad and I love my wife after 16 years of marriage. I am faithful but I admit to being sexually frustrated. My wife and I were into bondage when we were younger but no longer. My wife just got past cancer last year and I don't push her. I mentioned our old bondage sex lifestyle but she is not interested in going backto it. Our sex life is mostly dormant now. I find myself with strong urges to practice it again, I want to have a submissive female as I am a Dom. I am still faithful but at night I dream about being a Master again. I have told her about it but she either thinks it is a joke or I am purposely trying to hurt her feelings for not participating anymore. I stay quiet and try to suppress these urges. It has gone on for nearly a year now and it doesn't end. What is wrong with me and am I a bad man for having these urges?