I make around $840 every TWO WEEKS, and my boyfriend makes over a grand every WEEK. We're not living together yet. He was pushing me to live in his town, but it's way too far from my job and where I'm in college, even though he said I could live there for free. I told him I'd do halfway, but now he's saying he wants me to pay exactly half of everything. I'm starting my clinicals for nursing soon, so I may have to drop to part time work, which I DEFINITELY can't afford then. I still have previous student loans I'm paying, car payment, insurance, and my own bills. I can hardly afford things as it is, and I like having some emergency savings money. Other girls I talk to their BFs only have them pay a small amount of rent or utilities. Am I the only one who thinks it's messed up? Not sure what to do.

[Discussion and Opinions #1] Would you forbid them from seeing each other or would you let it last as long as it can? Why or why not?

I'm 15, almost 16. My home life is very stressful, on which I'd rather not go into detail about. My boyfriend is 18 (yes, my parents approve). When I turn 16, can I live with him? I have a job, as does he. I feel like I'd be a lot happier and I'd be able to get much better grades. I live in iowa, if that matters.

She is 37 and has a son that's 10. I'm 16 and we have a close relationship. I am attached to her and I stay every time she stays afterschool. She brings an iPad to school for lesson planning and she always lets me use it whenever I ask her. She doesn't let other students use it either. I bring her coffee and I offer to share snacks to her often. She knows my family issues with my parents divorce and how im not close to any of them. She knows how important she is to me as a role model because I told her so one time over email. I email her frequently, sometimes daily. I call her mom over email but I never did during school besides the one time i did on accident. I don't want anyone to tease me about me calling her mom in class. I sometimes ask her to bring me drinks occasionally and she does. I bring my lunch box sometimes and I always ask her if I could leave it on her desk so i don't need to carry it everywhere i go. Also I drew her some pictures for her that she lets me hang on her whiteboard. I feel like she mothers me sometimes. I also find myself around her a lot and am usually around her belongings while I watch movies on her iPad. But she is really friendly and sometimes I get just a little bit jealous when she talks to other students. She is the type to really care about her students.

Edit Long story short...my ex gf delete me off of Instagram and than I blocked her. When one of my friends went on his Instagram and went through who i'm following my ex is there but it only shows i'm following her. I am guilty of still looking at her instagram though is that why she is showing up ?What can i do for this ? Thanks

His marriage was an old fashioned tridisonal marriage so I can t just ask him why he married her or anything like that plz help me come up with a Gd question to find out

They are twins actually and they are 14 I came home from the grocery store and I caught them doing it. There was also a tub of mayonnaise right next to them. What does this m

So recently my daughter has changed. She has started wearing all black clothes. We were in the car yesterday and was talking about what it felt like to kill people and that she wanted a bat wrapped it barbed wire. We have a neighbor that is on vacation and I said I wonder when he will be back and she replied what if he never comes back. She doesn't smile she just has a creepy look on her face all the time. Does anyone have a similar thing going on. What should I do?

Okay so this situation all started on Twitter less than a month ago.. This guy started talking to me, at first these conversations were relatively harmless.. Then as time went on he started to get very sexually inappropriate with the way he would talk to me.. he would say very vulgar things that I can t repeat.. I am 17 years old. I had started to get very uncomfortable with the conversations he was having with me.. So then I found out that he is in his early 30s... He was fully aware that I was younger than him and he persisted with his innapropriate messages anyways.. I finally just deleted my account all together. The evidence of these messages are still there though. Should I report this? Or does it not matter since I m not talking to him anymore?

We need to have a little help from the state, my husband an I both work, but times are still very tough. About a year ago a Temporary Protection Order was wrongfully put on us... I'm just unsure if they can see the TPO I don't want us to get into trouble or W/E .. Please help!!!

channels etc. about it? I am a female. I am a female and I dont know if a male likes his chest to be kissed etc. and should I start fro his neck etc.?

My ex and i been broken up for 6 years. However during thise 6 years yes we still had sex together, still texted me every 3 months, he never had great relationships with women since we split (always came to me for girl advice...) Now he is singl but has been for a long while. Texted me about his new job with the MTA as a bus driver (always wanted to be one since high school. He knew many drivers back then too and his best friend is a driver also). Then he said we should celebrate our way (yes our way to him is having sex). He tells me how much he misses me. It takes a lot to get his feelings out of him due to bad years in high school with his family (being put up for foster care and staying with an aunt who only wanted the montly checks from the state. Never gave him gifts for the holidays, they never cared about him). Im so proud he got the job he wanted. He makes a lot of money now but honestly i never stopped loving him since we split 6 years ago. I dont care if he worked retail or in fast food, i love him for him. Always will. His other ex tried getting back with him recently for the money. He didnt go for it. I love him for him and im so proud of him. He texts me all the good things happening to him, wants to hangout, says he misses me. I am 23 and he is 24 going to be 25. Should we get back together?

This morning my husband and i got into an argument about him holding on to old love letters/songs and how i just can't stand the fact that everytime we go see her, she always placing a mother day card infront of me to say see what my son made me and my husband doesn't even remember making it. But anyway my husband and i had an argument and instead of him working out his relationship on his own, he calls his mother and tell her everything, then he hands me the phone and he'll start laughing like some school boy. I don't mind talking to her, but for stuff like this i believe parents don't need to deal with it. He had three other siblings who argues with their spouses and they don't call her like my husband does. I ready to end his marriage, i don't have time dealing with some mama boy who's calling mommy to fight for him. Please give some advice before i end this marriage for good, i can't see myself being disrespectful or talking back to his mother because i treat her like i do my own mother, but i do want her to understand the signs of a mama boy.

Since last name is family name. Actually I made a foreign nickname but I don't know if it's okay to make and use last nickname.

I had my first driving lesson with an instructor yesterday, it was ok but I have high social anxiety so it was mostly silent. He asked me some questions about school and stuff and I just answered, each lesson is 1 hour. But during it after a bit of silence he would say like yeah hmm yeah like at random times as to like make me say something or have a convo. But I have zero social skills and I don't know what to say and it's so awkard. Is it ok to just drive in silence? I hope I'm not the only one

I'm in High School, I'm in the 12th grade and it's getting close to prom. I feel like I'm unorganized about everything. I'm kind of freaking out because I don't know if I'm going off to prom by myself or with someone. Than aside from that, my mom says I don't do anything for her and I'm selfish. In my eyes I feel like there's nothing I can give her. I don't have much, and I don't have a job. I just felt really bad and I cried a little and she said I was sensitive. I'm just feeling really bad and I want it all to be over.

she's 21 now and she wanted a kid since she was 17 years old, I have no idea why but anyway.. She now then says she doesn't want kids anymore and would abort if she has kids now JUST because she couldn't have any since she was 17..Is she insane or ??........I don't even get why she would even think about killing her babies IF she gets pregnant now just because she couldn't have one then ? is she not all there or should I just ignore her because she's stubborn and wants attention?

Con malas me refiero a las mujeres que juegan con los tíos, y a veces están bastante feas, tengo varias amigas que son lindas y buenas que no tienen novio (incluyéndome) y ni un pretendiente, pero las tipas malas tienen hasta dos novios, uno tras otro y una fila de opciones por elegir :( Eso me pone muy triste ¿Será que yo tengo que ser mala para tener suerte con los chicos?

Hay un chico de mi instituto que sé que le gusto, me lo dijo, hablamos mucho por chat, se me acerca muy cariñoso y todo pero tengo una duda, siempre que estamos con mi amiga también conversando le presta más atención a ella, agarra su celular, revisa su mochila, también lo hace conmigo pero más le presta atención a ella, aveces le encontré que se le queda viendo, ella obvio sabe que yo le gusto a él y él le ayuda a ella a estar con otro chico pero no entiendo porque esa diferencia, parece que le gusta también a ella o estoy equivocada?

I've known this drop dead beautiful friend that is a friend with our family. She is married and has children. Now since I met her I've been having sexual fantasies about her. I known her for a few years. I do have other lady friends that are single that I met at a church group. After I started meeting and getting to know my female church group friends the thoughts of the married one went away for awhile. Now recently the sexual thoughts of the married one came back to haunt me. I still think of my friends in the church group as much as I can but that doesn't seem to be doing it. I do talk to my lady friends in the church group to friends and family. That does seem to help. The thoughts of the married one tend to enter my mind before I go to bed and after I get up. Now how should I get rid of those thoughts of the married one? It is driving me crazy.

I won't even come downstairs to eat. I wait until everyone is gone. I don't like much attention at all. is this healthy?

Ok so my friend let's call her jade and her dad is pushing her aside when his girlfriend comes over he says rude stuff to her and does this everytime she called me almost crying trying to tell me and idk what to do it sounds like emotional abuse but idk for sure but I have always hated her dad he is bad news and stuff what should I tell her to do? And should I tell my mom?

my mom has bipolar and she doesn t believe it. she is always yelling at my dad and my siblings for no reason, she says we do stuff we don t and it is so annyong. we don t really make a big deal about what she does anymore. yesterday my older sister was yelling at me because she thought i stole something, my mom came downstairs so i went to sit on the porch and she locked me out at night. i think it was either the 5th or 6th time i got locked out. she said she hates us sometimes, and she once told me to go downstairs so she could kill me. i m the one who tries to stand up to her but i end up getting in trouble. it s like she never wants us to go anywhere like vacation as well and she only cares about herself and she says it s my dads fault we stay home but really it s because she says she wants to stay home. she s so jealous and even of me sometimes. a bit ago we were all going to go somewhere and it s a long story but near the end we had to wait for our dad to see if my mom would come get in the car so we could leave. my dad pointed to lock the doors but we didn t understand so she got in and broke stuff in the car and ripped his jacket and more. she wouldn t stop so he went with his elbow and it hit her eye and she keeps trying to get us to side with her and she keeps saying my dad punched her but we were there and my sister was supposed to call the police but she didn t. i have more to say but theres no room and i forgot a lot of it. she sometimes hurts us but it's not all the time. i hate how her friends don't know the truth and acts all nice sometimes and always acts nice in public. she wonders why we don't love her, it's just annoying. she has horrible hygiene and takes a bath once every 2 or 3 months. but she does yell in public at us. i don't feel mean saying i don't love her and i really don't even when she acts nice which is hardly ever. if she dies i wouldn't be sad and that i do feel is mean to say. she is not diagnosed ith it but it's obvious

An old best friend of mine just sent me a message saying she missed our friendship and would love to reconnect with me. I am TERRIFIED and have so much anxiety just thinking about it b/c I it's been years! What would we even talk about!? It would be so awfully awkward.. We grew apart bc I used to drink and go to parties like she did/still does in high school when we were friends but I stopped and haven't done so since then. I also have almost zero friends now and no social life as a result because my few close friends went to different colleges... I really want to make friends now I just feel like I am so weird now bc I haven't had friends/done anything "normal" for my teenage age (I'm almost 19, in college) in almost a year bc I'm so preoccupied with school. I feel like I am boring and can't relate to anyone my age since I don't drink/party/so drugs, I don't care that other people do but I just prefer not to. What should I do? (I know I'm overreacting, but it's just my nature and I don't know what to do) Sorry, I kind of rambled a bit. My question is - what should I do in response to her? or how would I go about making the situation not awkward being as I would feel incredibly uncomfortable (even though I wouldn't mind just seeing her to talk or something) thank you!! : )

In 2015, a male friend of mine and I (both 15) were hanging out late at night (it was about midnight, which is not odd for us- we've been friends our whole lives). He had just broken up with a long-term girlfriend & hadn't been feeling the best (he has a history of depression and self-harm, I do too so I've always been one of his support systems). We were sitting on his couch and he grabbed my hand & held it. I thought nothing of it- we're best friends and he was sad, he needed support. He asked me to come sit closer to him & I did, again not thinking anything of it. We sat pressed against one another for a few minutes before he suddenly pulled my head toward his & kissed me (which was my first kiss and he assumed that). He asked how far I had ever gone with anyone and I said this, to which he replied "I figured", however, that didn't stop him from continuing to kiss me and putting his hands up my shirt. He took my shirt and bra off and had his fun (I'm disgusted with myself as I write this) while continuing to kiss my lips and neck. He tried to put his hands in my pants twice, but each time I moved them away and he didn't try again after the second time, which is probably because his older sister pulled into the driveway and he moved away from me. I didn't want this to happen. I was scared, overwhelmed, & vulnerable. I didn't say no/fight back, but I didn't say yes either. I was too afraid to stop him because I didn't want him to be mad at me. Did he sexually assault me? I guess I should make it be known that I did not kiss back or touch him. I simply laid on the couch with him above me doing whatever.

I don t think women are all like this, but I noticed that some of them are just plain rude to the members who are not in their clique or are younger. For instance, this younger girl in her twenties I knew was on this site and she got banned for sticking up for a member, and the mod was threatening her. The other female mod was always very sarcastic and constantly messaging the girl snarky messages to her to "behave," and she did this to other members. She was especially hateful, sarcastic, and rude to the point where no one unless it was their friends could ask a question without being "yelled" at . I noticed these ladies were in their thirties, what happened to maturity? Funnily enough the most well-moderated forum I was on was this ICP site, and the mod was always pleasant, mature, and respectful. These ladies could ve learned from him! Why s it like this?

I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early

I know a lot of people would say that's stupidity and all. What I'm scared of (besides losing my wife) what if the other guy said he can't leave his wife after all? I'm not saying I'm a perfect husband but I did what i thought was my best. She keeps saying that the problem is herself not me...she's patrionizing me. I would like to put more details but as i go on I feel like just let it be then come next day, its happening all over again...please advice.

Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now on and off. I didn't want to date him in the beginning because he has an alcohol and heroin problem and so I was weary but he seemed so nice that I overlooked it and started dating him. Well today I got upset because well it seems like I put more into the relationship than he does. He doesn't have a car so I always have to drive over to him even when I'm tired fromwork I still go I try to make him feel loved and I pay for him sometimes when we go out when he doesn't have money and he pays for me sometimes too. I just feel neglected and like when I go to hug him or kiss him sometimes he pushes me away and tells me not to touch him etc I just feel really unwanted. Today I got upset and told him I feel like this and how I'm mad and hurt about it and well he basilcy was saying how I just need to stop this and that he doesn't know what I want him to do to show he cares I just think he is really selfish...he alsways asks me for rides etc. So today he told me to shut up and I got really mad and I have a bit of a temper and I lost it and started hitting him ad he started hitting me back he pinned me down and put a pillow over my head and I was yelling and swearing at him and finally he let me go and I was like this is over. And I know I should have hit him but I just couldn't take it anymore all he does is drink and take drugs I'm just sick of it. He texted and said hes sorry but I don't really think he is.

I'm so sorry I lied to you, I didn't mean to hurt you. I just wasn't thinking. Everyone at school doesn't understand me the way you did. It's not the same without you. Remember Katheryn? Well, she got so drunk last night she ran naked down the street in the cold, haha. It reminded me of when we did that on a dare. We had such good times together. My mom's sick. Nobody is helping me with her so i've been so tired lately. Please, don't throw away our friendship because of this. I need you more than ever now. You're the only one you really knows me at all. Please, just call me back when you can