You do realize that'll make you look horrible and even if you succeed in blocking him, you will lose votes in the fall. You will only guarantee that liberals hold onto the White House and also retake the Senate. That will only lead to 3-4 more LIBERAL justices down the line. No matter what you do, you have lost. Conservatism is dead. You have lost the culture war. We have won on everything social from abortion forever to LGBT marriage,we will win in everything else from education, immigration, gun control, further healthcare expansion and so on. Why don't you just face reality already instead of embarrassing yourselves and further killing your own party. Keep behaving this way and you'll make sure your party becomes irrelevant which to me as a liberal is great btw =) deluded cons you're going to be punched in the face with reality during the elections. it won't be pretty at all muahahaha hahaha trump is a gift to both hillary and bernie. we're hoping he gets the nom so they win in a landslide victory. if you think he has any chance you prove you are beyond any mental help, haha stupid pathetic cons. jadam that is not at all a law, resorting to ted cruz style lies now out of desperation are you? lolz socrates you don't know where to begin because there is nothing to pick apart. try again con. haha you cons have never proven shes a criminal. shes not even being investigated by the fbi as a criminal, if she was she wouldn't be able to run idiots. they're investigating the security of her servers, not her. but of course the facts don't matter when you watch faux news or the blaze. meanwhile, chris crispycreme the con is actually being investigated for criminal activity starting the day he drops out of the race and you cons ignore it.

Please help me I don't know what to do!! Last year my dad asked me to send a text to my sister using his phone. I did, but I had seen that he had other unassigned contacts in there. I wasn't sure what to think. I thought it might be for his job, but one day I was curious and when he wasn't around I looked at his phone when it was charging. There were messages on it saying things like I love you, can't wait to see you tonight I NEVER told anyone about that.. But one night I woke up to my mom and dad talking and my mom crying bc she saw these texts. They never wanted me to know obviously, they were in their room w/ the door shut but I could still hear them. My dad swore he would never do anything like that again but I'm really scared now.....My dad rarely texts anyone, like only close family members and I've been seeing him text a lot lately., I don't know if I should worry or not. Him and my mom have been married for 32 years and if he's being unfaithful to her again I'm so scared they might get a divorce!! I just can't think he would ever do this again because just a few months back my sister who is 26 found out her husband was cheating on her and they were so close to getting a divorce. Thank god they didn't!! But I know my dad and I feel somethings not right. I just don't know what to do! I'm 16 by the way. I couldn't bear to tell my mom her heart will BREAK if she knew i knew this and was under this stress :(( what should I do?!

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I'm in my early 30s and in a secret polygamist relationship with a married man. His wife has no idea he has me and two other wives. He is a great lover and husband . He is the alpha male type makes great money supports us and we enjoy great sex. We aren't Mormons so we do have orgies among other things. I don't need your snooty responses but why is this not more accepted. It's really a great way of life.

I've been with my bf for 7 years and we have a 14 month tot. I stopped working when I was 36 weeks pregnant and I've been a stay home mom. He was working at a fast food and he cheated on me there. He recently got a better demanding warehouse job he works 5 days a week 8 hours a day. Our agreement was that he worked and pay all the bills and I stay home and cook, clean and take care of our tot. I have to have food ready before he goes in and have lunch for his work. We have a lot of issues to work out because he would threaten me if I don't do any of this things I will get kicked out.i have no job or money. I did get kicked out. We have so much resentment towards each other. For him being abusive n his feelings towards working a lot. He hates working and wants to be home all day. He started smoking in the weekends to have fun. And leaves a mess at his little man cave. He usually picks it up. But today he said that I need to pick up cuz he pays my bills. I have no money. I can't rely on family cuz they still live with a child abuser that abused me n I don't want my daughter to live with him. I don't have any money or education. I did try leaving but it was hard my mom wanted to pay for a hotel. N live in a garage. So I went back to him. Idk what else to do.

Please be easy on me for this has been hard enough. I have had an on again off again relationship with my now ex-fiance for 3 1/2 years. We have a beautiful 9 month old daughter. I first left him in September because he would not get rid of his homeless drug addicted brother who kept sleeping on our porch and stole from a store with my infant and I in the car, We decided to give things another try and we moved into a beautiful duplex (that I can barely afford). He was trying to get me to be a stay at home mom, but I did not trust him enough at that point because he could not even get rid of his brother who was continually causing problems and moved into our old apartment after I moved out BECAUSE OF HIM. So I went and got a great full-time job at a hospital, luckily, or I'd be screwed right now. Well, three days after we moved in I found out that he had been having a very flirtatious conversation with a married woman online. I consider that cheating. He knew I would consider that cheating. So I told him not to come home. He told me that he would pay the rent here because he knew that he had screwed up, but I did file for child support. Also, how much could you possibly care about your child's well-being if you are cheating on her mother 9 months after her birth and letting her move into an expensive place knowing all the while that you were cheating and that I would never forgive that? He was literally talking to this woman minutes before we moved into our new place.

I really want to do the savage race. It's a 5.71 mile obstacle course race through water and mud. I want my husband to go but he doesn't want to. My friend who is a guy, and his guy friends are going. They invited me and I am torn because i feel like it would be inappropriate. Would you go or not??? I probably won't out of respect for my husband but it just sucks because i want to go and the only people going are my male friends. I just did the warrior dash with my gym group and my husband didn't go but that had girls and guys in it.

For privacy's sake I won't use actual names. My friend's mom divorced his dad about 10 years ago. No complaints there because the guy was a pretty abusive drunk so my friend and his mom would do their best to stay away from him as much as possible. A few years later after dating some more, his mom decided she was actually a lesbian and got married to another woman, and yes this is legal in the state. Fast forward to now, it seems his stepmom's just as bad as his abusive father. First off, my friend's college fund? Blown on not one, but TWO cruises just for my friend's moms, my friend's been working for 2 years at Target doing 14 hour shifts trying to save up for not just college, but also a new apartment away from his house. His stories about the screaming? True, when I was visiting and we made ourselves some lunch, his stepmom forgot I was there and screamed "TURN OFF THE STOVE YOU'RE WASTING GAS" I asked him why he never confronted his birth mom about his stepmom and he simply told me "she's completely submissive to her and agrees with everything she says". When I spoke with his stepmom (thankfully peacefully) she simply told me he was a highly immoral young man. No other explanation. My friend participated in blood drives, worked in soup kitchens, and worked with habitat for humanity to build homes. Plus, he's been an Eagle Scout for at least 4 years. Definitely not the case Well, I'm not sure what we can really do. I live 2 states away so I can't have him move in here

Two years ago I went through a court marriage but in less than 3 months we filed for an annulment. I am currently again open to dating and met a guy I really like. We have only been on four dates. At what point should I tell him I was married for a brief period of time and the circumstances around it. My ex and I were only married for 3-4 months and did not consummate the marriage. Also, do people snoop around and try and access annulment records by going to the court house?

So my daughters best friend of 5 years has always been super friendly and social with my wife and I. But lately more with me than anything. She lives only a couple of blocks so she's over quite a bit. Anyway, yesterday my wife and daughter went out to visit my inlaws and my daughters best friend came over. I had no idea she was coming over and after I told her why they were she asked if she could stay until they came back. Not knowing how long that would take I said yes anyway. We basically stayed on the couch watching t.v. for a few hours, only this time she basically interviewed me the whole time. About where I'm from, likes, interest. She's very talkative and sweet so I didn't really think much of it then. But now I'm not sure, sometimes she gives me a look but I really don't know what it is. My wife and I had my daughter when were 19 (I'm 34 now) and she was my high school sweetheart so I don't have much experience. What are the signs? She's 15 so i might be really overreacting but I don't want to cause anything to arise from this so I'm trying to be cautious, any help?

Is it common for people who are dating someone with a past such as divorce to go to the court house and order a copy of their divorce records?

So I found out my wife cheated.. Now this is sucky news. I talked to her calmly and we decided to stay together, now this is the second time she cheated but I'm so in love with her I'll always forgive her, the first time after we were sexual and romantic, but this time she don't want to be either, should I worry? I tried talking to her but all she says is sorry.

He only needs 60 to approve anybody he chooses. He has 46 instant votes from dems, 2 instant votes from liberal independents, then there are plenty of senators you guys would call RINO's, a few of them prochoice such as Murkowski, Collins, Kirk. He literally just needs to find 9 more ''RINO's". No filibuster attempts will stop him. It doesn't matter if Ted Cruz rants non-stop for 72 hours in an adult diaper and reads from Dr Suess, we'll still get our liberal Obama selected justice. And the longer you cons stall, the more likely you help us our and ensure a landslide victory in the fall to hold onto the White House but to also take back the Senate. That will only ensure a couple more of liberal justices in the next presidential term. So good luck with that. No matter what you do, we have won the culture war and the court. You guys should just get over it already. Have yourselves a good cry, mourn your pathetic psychopathic cult of conservatism, and then embrace progress. plenty of 'Rinos'' get elected all the time, he'll find his "rinos'' easily and we will control the courts for decades. Face it cons, you've lost. poor deluded cons. well hold onto your fantasy then while you still have it. its going to be crushed soon enough. you're going to be punched in the faces with reality cons, it won't be pretty at all. he has 46 dems, 2 liberal indepdents, plenty of so called rinos you cons complain about all the time, 3 especially liberal ones. you won't be able to block him muahahhahaa but its cute that you really believe otherwise =) do you really think that any of your candidates can beat Hillary or Bernie, LOL. What makes you think they won't select someone even more liberal than Obama 3-4 times... haha. Even if you somehow succeed in your pathetic little battle of blocking him now, which you won't, you'd still lose the big war when the next liberal POTUS completely changes the court to the left. Yes abortions on demand as well as all the liberal things that scare you, you can't stop us muahahahahhaha

Today my husband and I were driving and he was already really upset about something. Then when he was backing up he accidentally backed the car too far and hit something (it was like a cement wall or something) Since he was already mad this put him over the top and he threw his phone down on the floor on my side. The phone ended up hitting my knee before hitting the floor. It hurt and I started crying since I wasn t expecting it and it scared me. My husband felt really bad when he realized his phone had hit my knee and kept apologizing to me. He even started crying too because of how bad he felt. My question is, is it normal to throw things when you re mad? We ve been married 8 months and this is the first time I ve seen him throw something so this isn t a habit or anything (and I m sure it won t become one.)

Long story short we've been together for a while and have 2 kids (twins). The relationship has been nothing but him being a horrible provider (unable to pay rent and bills or take care of the kids)Its been mostly on me and now this year he has been paying rent and "showing me he can do better" but now I just want to be friends. I know I deserve better. I'm scared to end it because of the kids they are 8 and love their dad!

My husband of 25 years is in love with another woman. They've known each other for about 17 years and he says that he has always had feelings for her, but never acted upon it. I believe that in the last year, they have begun a more-than-friends relationship. He hardly ever speaks to me anymore. We haven't had sex in over two months and it used to be at least once a week up until then. I heard him whisper her name in his sleep last week. I believe that he loves her. I am devastated, but whenever I confront him about her or about the issues in our marriage, he shuts down and won't answer me. I don't know what else I can do - I've been trying to make him happy. I asked him over the weekend to block her from his FB account because I didn't like coming across selfies she posted that turned up on his news feed. Instead, he deleted his account entirely and hasn't talked to me since. Can this be saved, or have I lost him?

My wife and I've been married for nearly 2 years now, no kids. We are recent immigrants to the US. Our marriage was arranged by common family. Both of us went to college in the us. I have a job, while she cannot work since she has no work permit. We are working with an attorney to get her a work permit. Financially, our marriage has been tough on me, since she had no income/savings i have pretty much been solely responsible for all the expenses (right from travel, to furniture, insurance etc). I am often stressed about financial stability because even though we are applying for a work permit for her, i know that she won't be able to contribute much for a long time because she has a pretty big student loan to pay off. Besides she still hasn't really figured out what she want kind of career she wants There is a lot of friction in my marriage with regard to finances/ownership. I don't really share the passcodes to my bank account with her yet, I am just not comfortable to that idea yet. I pay for everything, and if she needs something she usually buys with our credit card. if it gets out of hand i question her. She feels that she is equal owner of my savings/income, and must get an equal say in all our expenditure. I however feel that I don't need to justify my expenses to her. She is a lot spendier than me, and hasn't really acted maturely with me yet. Am I being unreasonable, what should I do?.

I suspected that my husband was having an affair with a younger woman back in November 2015. He did not answer me when I confronted him about it, which I took to mean that I was right about my suspicions. I do not know how long it had been going on. I had assumed that he had stopped being unfaithful because he was spending all his time outside of work at home and I never caught him on his cell phone (while at home) again. I now think he is at least in contact with her on the days he is at work - I just have a feeling. The other night, he was talking in his sleep and kept saying her name and "I love you." I deleted his Facebook account completely and am planning to contact her ex-boyfriend (who I have known for years) to try and get some answers because I know they are still friends. He is not talking to me hardly at all. We have not had sex since December, but it used to be once a week. What more can I do?? I cannot lose him!

Hey all, ive got a pretty gross question. I'll just ask it..did I poo out 4-5lbs?! Here's the story, i went to the ER about 2 weeks ago for some abdominal pain and feeling kind of just sick. They did am X-ray and the doc told me that i was constipated and gave me some laxatives. So after taking the laxatives and drinking some prune juice i was going about 4-5 times a day for about 4 days. I then went to a GI specialist and he told me to deink the laxatives 3 times a day. I did that for only one day and continued going number 2. I have a scale in my room and i would always weigh myself (before the laxitives i was weighing 140-141) but now im weighing around 135! Ive looked up a lot of things online and colon cancer always comes up and its been really stressing me out BIG time. Another thing about my stools is that i used to go once a day and they would be pretty uhm..big? Not huge but sizable and latley they have been soft and thin/flatish. I have a endoscopy and colonoscopy next month and im hoping everything turns out alright. Anyway i guess i have two questions, is it possible thaf the weight i lost was due to backed up stool? Aaand is soft snake like stool (kind of like soft serve icecream) and a bit dark brown normal? Sorry again for the gross questions. Thank you

So 6 years ago my husband and I were just dating and going through issues. We had a baby. Anyway got this girl preggo. I found out about it and raised hell at both of them. Later I tried to work things out with the Bm knowing we d both have kids from him. No cigar. he took care of baby but when she found out he was trying to date me again she said he could only see him without me around. I moved away, he followed and when I was convinced he changed we got back together and eventually married. Last time he saw the kid he was 2. He stopped trying b/c of her not wanting me around. Well now that we re married I informed him of his rights and told him he needs to fight to be in his sons life. It s not fair to his son that b/c he was an idiot he can t have a father. Well now Bm is making it extremely difficult to see or get any info on his son. She refuses to allow him to pick him up saying it s been too many years and he s a stranger. She wants supervised visitations. However when I showed up with him she went ballistic and walked out taking his son. She informed him that as long as I m there she ll keep leaving. Why is she treating me like I m some random woman that took her man? We were together first and for way longer. Now we have two kids. We can t afford a lawyer yet so he s just been trying to contact her. She won t answer calls and responds when she feels like it. Never gives info about the son but put him on child support.

I have been married for a four months already with my husband. We have had some pretty bad arguments, but we ve managed to make up for it. Yesterday, we compromised on making it better and to reduce the arguing. Later that night, he randomly told me he was in love with his best friend and me at the same time. He said he married out of impulse and sometimes regretted this marriage and thinks about her and misses her, but he hasn t talked to her since we ve been married. He s 21 and I m 22. I feel like I dragged him into this marriage and a lot of the arguing is my fault. He said he still wants to make it work, but I m really hurt. I don t know how to deal with this. What should I do???

So I just recently got married to my husband a month or so ago and my birthday was yesterday. I was really excited for it because, you know, it's my birthday. Well, he treated the entire weekend like we normally treated the weekend. Nothing special. He got me a comic book I wanted and a cheap watch I needed. And then he didnt even do anything special for me for sex. Like, I told him so many times I wanted to have really long foreplay and a lot of oral and he did the normal two minute foreplay and went down on me for, like, two minutes. And then for dinner we went and ate at a sports bar even though I'm a vegetarian and hate sports. When I brought this to his attention he wouldnt communicate with me. He just acted guilty but didnt even bother fixing the problem. So now I feel unapreciated and upset and I'm afraid to even bring up my feelings because I dont want it to be an issue.

I have been with my husband for over a year. In that time many special occasions have happened. For his birthday I bought him a watch and arranged a surprise party for him. For Christmas I got him an expensive clock. For valentines day I bought him a gun. I never received a gift from him. First was my birthday and nothing. Next was Christmas and nothing. I told him I was upset about not getting anything on Christmas. I even cried. He told me he was sorry and he didn't know it meant so much to me. So Valentine's day I was expecting something from him. Yet again nothing. So question is am I being petty about being upset?

So one day into the job I quit because I was offered something better. I was going to stay for about 6 weeks then give my 2 weeks notice but I thought it would better if they know now. Can employers find out about this and will they care? I heard they can check your SSN for all the job you have held but is this true? I am from Texas if that makes a difference.

We have gone through a lot, and I told him I wanted to divorce. He wants me to stay, but I can't get him to own up to, or take responsibility for any of the issues in the marriage. He blames me for everything. For example, I was always messy. Over time our house became a disaster with papers and junk all over. I wanted to clean up and start fresh, keeping the house in order. I have been trying for over a year for him to help out and I just end up doing it myself. He keeps saying its my fault he is messy now, he gave up, and he's not going to start cleaning just because I suddenly decided i wanted a clean house. He apparently does not get the fact that people change and grow. He does not want to. I have engaged in a lot of self improvement over the years and he just blames everyone else for his problems. He won't admit that he was verbally abusive (calling me f'ing idiot and retard). all he can say is that I said mean things back to him. I didn't know how else to respond, it was self defense. He's refused to go to therapy for his anger, anxiety and depression problems. But he'll go to marriage therapy with me, of course that's because I'll be the one making the appointment and the effort and all he has to do is show up. Is this a lost cause?

Were staying here for 4 weeks. I've told him no, if you have to question it, its probably wrong. Would you do it, or is it too disrespectful?

I do not care about Valentine's Day. I do not care about gifts. We just had Christmas over a month ago. I think it's cheesy and pretentious to spend money like that on certain designated days such as Valentine's Day. I have been married for almost 15 years and my husband use to spend so much money on these days...it was ridiculous and really didnt even amount to **** after it was over, but the bank account was $200 or more less. Flowers wilt. They look pretty the first day, and then they wilt. Dinner is just food. We eat food everyday. Jewelry, I have plenty of...its just more taken up space. I just dont care about Holidays much...other than for the kids. Do you think people are silly at these times and worry too much about what everyone else is getting, like children do....or am I just cold? I am in my mid 30s We have always had everything we wanted, new cars, houses, clothes, ect....and I just think that its overrated. When I see people buying things they cant afford or blowing their money away because so and so got something they didnt.....I think its ignorant and childish. And I think Valentine's Day is for kids and teens. As a married 30 somthing, I expect my husband to care about me 365 days a year...not just one. So it amuses me to see pretentious women making a deal out of one day that should be designated for teenage lovers. I just dont think we should have designated holidays...I think everyday should be a holiday. I cant stand women 30 and up, who think these holidays are about them and their worth...how minuscule. If your husband only cares about you on holidays, then you need to go. I dont want to hear at work, or read about your bad valentine's day online. grow up. My husband spent $200 on roses, not jewelry. my husband is a big spender, he would not buy me cheap jewelry...I get what ever I need any day of the year...I do not feel I need to go overboard or spend excess money because everyone else is. I donate my childrens things to charity...I would rather hear about the 20 something young single girl at the office getting gifts for Valentine's Day...than my own husband spending money out of our joint acct on those things that I do not feel impressed by...like I did as a kid. @Piero, Thank you for your response....great minds think alike:)

So I just got married last summer. Right after I got married my husband and I decided to move south. We both hate the cold and wanted a change. I didn't want to be stuck in the same state my entire life. Wanted to explore some. We got extremely lucky moving down here. I have a wonderful teaching job, I love my coworkers and it is an awesome school. The only issue is that we live about half an hour from my school which is not bad at all, but on the way home it takes me about 1 1/2 hours due to traffic. I am a country girl so this is so different to me and I hate traffic. We have also struggled meeting friends here. The other teachers I work with are awesome but quite a bit older than I am. My husband really enjoys it here, but I can't help missing my family and friends. Unsure if moving back would be the right thing to do or not. We are also thinking of moving closer to where I work it's just a ritzy place with expensive rent! Thanks for any help!

I've been working for a plumbing company in New York for about 4 months. I went to trade school for 7 and a half months before I started this job I have many certificates I have my G60 my F60 my osha and my scaffolding license I also have my drivers license....how much should someone start with I was started with 13 dollars. Any advice? I will also say I've learned a lot working at this company these are some amazing people here

He says I'm this lying, cheating slut. I can't go anywhere without accusations. This time I came back to help financially and he promised different behavior. Yet, he stepped on my feet. I told him it hurts. He said why don't you like me? You talk to other men. He thinks he is right cause I'm angry. I'm angry because for all eight years I get accused but I haven't done that. He called me a liar. My four year old daughter has started up again not wanting to go home, saying she doesn't like daddy and having screaming episodes often. Reasons I have left before was due to emotional abuse (me and kids), violence, rape(doctors couldn't confirm but that it was rough) and hurting the kids. I thought depression was the cause and that we were safe from him being on medication. Also recently he said he didn't want to deal with the debt until my name is on it. Another shocking comment was that he would do cocaine if it wasn't so expensive. I'm completely against this.He let his friends smoke. Then a couple days later I confronted him. He said that No body smokes in his home. I'm confused cause some people say its normal while others say get out he doesn't care. My fear of leaving is cause I'm worried he will harm me (he has before as well as stalked)and he said he will claim bankruptcy and take off without notice leaving me to deal with everything. Is it fair of me to change locks and pack his things? Tell him I am done and tired that I can't be myself without being torn down in ridicule.

We were gonna ask each other to change but that didn't work . We can't live with those things we dislike about each other . I'm afraid if I accept who he is , he won't accept my messiness . He can't stand it !

what potential problems can be caused by a person who still spends time with and is on very friendly terms with their ex husband because thy share children together? Could this potentially prevent the person from meeting a new romantic partner or if they do will it turn that person off?

I've only seen lazy and selfish wives do this. They make terrible lovers, terrible friends, and they make terrible homekeepers then they start to feel vulnerable that he would retaliate and start to get paranoid or suspicious (even when nothing warrants suspicions). But why do women keep score like this? If you suck at being a good wife, be better and he won't cheat, plain and simple ladies! This question is not about my wife and I. I am just tired of all these affair questions on Yahoo. My marriage is fine, just boring that's all.

Due to the season of Lent beginning, our Church had a series of events this past weekend. My wife forgot about attending on Sunday (yesterday), so she put all of our offerings in on Saturday. The Church provides us with envelopes and dates. I don't handle any of the household bills or the budget. My wife takes care of all that. She understands it better than I do. All I understand or even care to know is what amount to pay by when. She follows a very strict budget, and was a little upset with me that I took the last of the remaining cash we had at home--which was a $20 bill--for the collection yesterday. It's not like it will break us, but she always likes to have a little cash on hand in case of emergency (i.e. one of the kids is sick, and one of us has to run to the pharmacy in the middle of the night). She insists on going over bills and accounts with me each month, but I have told her repeatedly that whatever she decides is fine. She says it's not mandatory that we give at every collection, but I feel bad if we don't. Is she right? And should I have checked with her before I grabbed it?

I found out that my husband texted another women and told her he misses her and wants to see her. So he told her to call him to arrange and she said ok. But I didn't find any calls from her or texts till now ,this was from 2 months. What should I do?

The third anniversary of our divorce was this weekend. Because we have kids together and co-parent, i see her or talk/text with her daily. I texted her, "Happy Divorce Day". She rexted back, "Right back atcha." Do you ever mention the anniversary of your divorce to your ex? Do you not ever think about it? Ours is on 2/13, which, because of proximity to Valentine's Day, makes it sting a little more.

So my husband didn't give me a gift on valentines. I asked him why he couldn't even send me a card on our first valentines, he said he didn't think it was necessary. He said I dont have to show my love by giving u gifts. he never gave me anything. and he lives in india and i live in usa. I mean theres a huge difference in our thinking. he keeps telling me to stop using facebook and showing off my pictures etc. I mean he thinks using fb is showing off. and honestly my marriage was arranged and wedding night was awful i didn't like him at him. and he is clearly taking me for granted. i would have to sponsor him to come to usa. did he only marry me to come to usa. he gets so intersted in talking about visa process. and on the other hand he doesn't think its necesarry to give me even a single bulshit valentines card?

Porn doesn't hurt anyone. It doesn't ruin sex lives. So why do females make a big deal out of their husbands watching it. If wives aren't showing their men affection, what else are they suppose to do? At least the man isn't cheating.