I'm mixed and my husband is a typical white man, I'm tired of him. We have four young kids. He's so annoying all the time. He leaves the cabinets open and leaves the milk out and when I point it out he just laughs it off. I'm 27 and he's 29 and very immature. I'm pregnant and it wasn't planned but I'm fine with it. The thing is my husband is so immature and does nothing right. We like to do a lot of stuff with our kids, our older sons play soccer and we often go to the park or go out to eat. My husband just goofs around and I tell him to stop and he just laughs it off. When we're eating my 2 year old starts shouting and imitating her white father. And then people look at us and it's embarrassing and I blame my husband. What do I do?

I have been dating a guy for several months now and I love him very much . Recently, he asked me to fly with him to meet some of his family. And told me to give him a date so he can get us tickets. The problem is, I'm terrified of flying and just airplanes in general. I flew when I was younger and hated every minute of it. All were horrible experiences and I am terrified. I hit that point where I don't even want to look at a plane, let alone get in one . He told me he'd hold me the whole time but I just can't bring myself to do it. I don't know why my fear is so bad but it just is. I tried to talk to him about it but he keeps pushing it on me. I know this something I will never get over and I will end up freaking out or crying the whole flight and just making the trip worse. I tried to talk to him about it and even offered to drive because I pretty much know the way or meet his family when they fly into our state.I don't want to hurt his feelings because I love him so much but what do you think I should do? And i can't drink alcohol before a flight because I'm underage

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me and my long-term partner had a rough time before.. he cheated on me and told me when i was 8 months pregnant. he never was supportive and constantly left me alone. I was always not strong to leave and sometimes I had enough and met a couple of other close guys. I didn t sleep with them but kissed. I told me partner I met them and such. now me and my partner are getting along very well like a miracle happened but im constantly feeling guilty because I didn t tell him all the details that I kissed nd maybe more but never slept with any other man!

So i just relized that my maternity leave ends next week, I had a baby on 1/8/2016 and was on leave from work. me and husband have been chatting things out and we feel its best i just stay home to care for my kids, have no money for babysitter and we feel its a best thing to do at this point. Husband suggest i just call HR sometime this week and place in my Resignation. I felt perhaps i can do it over via email because that way My HR have paper documents of me placing in my Resignation A friend said to just go back to work and place in 2 weeks and work those last week and tell HR face to face you want to Resign, Problem of my friends idea is that i have no babysitter to look after kids if i did do that so im trying to avoid that option. would appreciate any advice or inputs.

As the title says, I want to take my two BX5 speakers and make it so I can turn them on and off without having to reach around the back or have them running all the time. I use them for my computer speakers that does the usual stuff and gaming. Is there a way I can make a toggle for both of them or each of them?

He was in love with her for a long time but she was never willing to date anyone because of some unfortunate tragic events that happened to her. I saw her only a few times back in high school before she moved away. My boyfriend and I got together after that and have been dating for four years. Just recently she moved back into town for college and we ran into her. I never knew her all that well but my boyfriend was close friends with her. Since then they talk a lot and spend time together. And just the other night my boyfriend told me that he doesnt know if he's still in love with her. He claims that he is in love with me but isnt sure if he loves her more. I figured it would be best for us to part but when I told him he insisted that he DOESNT want to break up. I fear that he wants to keep our relationship hanging in case things dont work out between them. She has only reached out to me on one occasion and apologized for always being around him. She told me how its hard for her to find any men that she's comfortable around and that she just appreciates how my boyfriend was there for her back when things were horrible for her. My boyfriend isnt even sure that she'll be able to have a relationship with him as she is still struggling with things. And I feel really horrible about this because of her situation. I think if things had worked out better for her they would have been together. I don't want to seem like a jerk to her or my boyfriend but I don't know what to do.

For about a year now my female boss (I am female and married) has been making offhand comments to me about a friend of hers that s into swinging. With a few comments here and there about her husband wondering if my husband and I have ever been to a local swingers club near us. I just kinda blew her off. Still little comments here and there about it from her. We go to a get together at her house with 2other coworkers. My boss and her husband took it as their personal mission to get us drunk. Which wasn t that hard as neither of us drink much or often. At some point her husband ends up kissing me & offering me his 10"dick..I find my husband and he s drunk yet trying to keep everyone away from my friend and I. Then when we are like ok this is getting weird let s leave. My boss comes running up to me and says I heard you kissed my husband so to make it fair you have to kiss me too. Then she kisses me...ugh. At this point we go out to the car to leave and they are following is out to the car going come on have another drink don t leave now it s just getting fun...now she is telling people that my husband and other coworker had a threesome. Which did not even remotely happen. And I just don t know what to do at this point. I have an out of town trip with her in April and she keeps mentioning that her husband may drive up and visit us while we are there. I need my job and don t want her mad at me to where she tells the owner of our company a bunch of lies that may cost me my job.

Mother of those 2 kids is never home for those kids, she let them always with Nany and see them just when that sleep or weak up , What can happen to her if child protections know that? She is divorced ,and father of those kids is the only one who cares for those kids when his weekend comes to have the kids,

My mom has a friend that she wanted to exchange email with so she convinced Betty to buy a computer. Mom wanted me to teach Betty how to us the computer so I agreed to do it. I went to Betty's home for an hour on Saturday for several weeks. Betty's husband was with us the whole time I was training Betty. Betty told me her husband John was very jealous of her and other men. When Betty briefly went to answer the phone, John asked me if I was "fooling around" with his wife. I told him he was with me the whole time I was there. I knew at that moment this was my last training session. I was not coming back to that house as I had no idea what John might do. I did not hear from either one of them again for several months. Then my mom told me they were getting a divorce. Then I got an invitation to a "He's gone, good riddance" party at Betty's home. I decided to go. At the party, one of the guests told me I was the cause of the divorce. I asked her how that was possible. She explained that Betty used the computer to track what web sites John had been accessing and found he was on several web sites for finding women to date. He had also been posting stuff on porn sites. She said that if she had not know how to use a computer they would still be married. I told her I did not teach Betty to trace web sites from the computer. She must have learned by her self. Am I responsible for their marriage break up?

Es la primera ves que mi hermano mayor lleva a su novia a la casa es la primera ves que dice quererse casar y ella es mas joven.que el y solo conocia a mi mama pero ayer me conocio a mi mi esposo y mi bebe a mi hermana y su novio, invitamos a mi cuñada a pasar la saludamos platicamos le regalamos chocolates y la invitamos a regresar. Por cierto esa visita fue de improvisto no la esperabamos.

I am a cancer girl and a few months ago I slept/cuddled with a scorpio that seemed to like me. Back then I was not sure about my feelings and so backed off. We have ignored each other since then . Now I feel bad cause i like him and want to restart over. I asked him if we were going to ignore each other for longer and he said that he was not ignoring me all this time and that he was not mad at me or anything after that episode...(by message) But we still keep being silent and I think we would be otp but I don't know how to even start talking to him again... Help. Suggestions. Thank you :)

I am a girl and im 16. I have been visiting the psychologist at my school to talk to her about a habit that i have ad that i wanted to stop. I started that habit when i was really young. You know when you rock your body back and forth when stressed? That's what i do consistently even without being stressed. My parents thought i stopped it but i never did. The only one who knew was my sister. This year i realised i had to stop it because when i do it i waste my time and never study or anything that's important. I went to her and we talked. She told me that it's my choice and it's no big deal and i can stop it. Next time, i went she got aggressive and told me about addictions and then she told me that she will call my parents. I told her no and when she asked me why. I told her that they will probably shout or think im not a grown up or anything plus they didnt actually know that i still went to that psychologist. If she calls them, they'd shout at me for talking to a stranger and not them. She told me im extremely arrogant because i think that i can read minds. This clearly wasnt my intention at all. I know they love me and want to help me but why would they waste their time helping me stop a habit i created? They have better things to do, right? She told me that i think im in control and that they'r ethere to help me and i told her that if im the one wasting my time with that habit then why should i waste their time too. Was k being arrogant?

Me and my step sister had a truce together and we sakd we couldn't hide anything from eachother or tell on eachother. And she accused me of hiding something from her yesterday and she told me I broke the truce. She told me she is done with me (She meant done with my trust) and now she won't trust me at all. Is there anyway I can get this truce back in order and earn her trust back? Serious answer please. I need good advice.

I always get the feeling that I'm too shy, or that I'm too judging, or I'm too silly, etc. What should I do to relax myself and chat with my clleagues without feeling pressure?

Even if she wasn't the best looking? of course no that's irrelevant

My girlfriend told me that if i want to stay with her that i am not allowed to play games. We are together for more than 2 years and we live together. Before her I used to play games day and night but I stopped all that. She is 5 years older than me (32) and thinks games are for teenagers. I think it is not fair that I can't play even from time to time. A friend of mine invited me to come over to his place and play games and she said that that would not be fair towards her and that it would mean I do not keep my word. I feel as if I do not have my freedom and support from her. If she liked doing something I found stupid, I would never tell her she can't do it. I do not know what to do about this?

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I'm 15 1\2 I've been secretly wearing my older sisters and mothers clothes since before I can remember. Yesterday I was up in my sister's room wearing some of her clothes shejust turned 17 and was suppose to go to our dads for the week and celebrate her bday with dad and my mom was on vacation with her new bf, so I had the house to my self for 6 days. Any ways I was in her room wearing some of her clothes and trying her makeup when I went to paint my nails I couldn't find her nail polish so I went in my mom's room cuz I knew she had some in her night stand. When I opened the drawer and found a sex toy and lube so I took it back to Amy's room to play with it and use her webcam to take pic's and videos. About a half hour in to this the door opens and Amy is standing in the door way looking at me for a sec and walks away and left. She didn't say a word, just left. But I know she seen everything her clothes makeup and our mom's sex toy in me. Idk what to do, I'm so embarrassed I just want to run away. How am I supposed to look her in the eye now? What if she tells my mom that I was using her sex toy or my dad or friends? Please help me, I just want to die right now!

He kept asking me if I was still besties with her but I'm not anymore Someone else took my place and I was left behind like I was nothing It's so shameful to have to explain why. But anyways all I could say was "I was replaced " And I couldn't get into detail without crying like a biaatchhh How pathetic is it to cry over someone who wasn't even your real friend from the start. 😔

Long story short, my children were taken by DSS under ridiculous and unfair circumstances. We've been battling this for a year now, and I'm wondering if I can get some insight on when they will be coming home. Another question I have, is i lost my engagement ring...can you give me insight on where it may be?

I don't want to get any more dogs because they will pass away one day. I don't want to be with anyone because they will die one day. When I love things I love them so much if something happens to them I don't want to live anymore. I want to be able to be attached to things but I need a different perspective. Got any?

I have a 15 year old niece who has taken advantage of my kindness, hospitality, and love to her. For so long as I can remember she has wanted me to cover her when she sneaked out, invited boys over. But I gave up trying to cover for her I knew it was wrong and I was afraid something could happen to her. Lately she has been posting inappropriate pictures on Facebook, Instagram exposing more of her body to men twice her age. I opened my mouth and Expressed my concern for her, and well now she has blocked me. I don't understand how you can try and protect someone you care for and they throw it back in your face saying "Get out of my life"

I am attracted to my cousin were both 14 and i don't know what to do and if i should make a move and how i should make a move I'm a Male and she is female my family is christian and My mom, dad and i are spiritual.

I am a 20 year old female. I don't remember a lot of my childhood, however, I remember very distinctively the times this neighbor girl, who was a couple years older than me probably 8 years old, would take me upstairs with her and do things with me behind a locked door. She called it "Bad Doctor", she turned it into a game she would play with me. She would stick forks and spoons inside me and play with my vagina behind a locked door to their upstairs bathroom. She would make me close my eyes, she liked me to be nervous, she would even blind fold me on occasions. I recently thought of these times again, and I thought to myself..."Was I molested by her"? I have always been boy crazy, wanting to sleep with any guy. I would even masturbate at a very very young age. I have always been in touch with my body. I always want it harder, rougher, faster. I like the pain. I like to have a guy pretend to rape me. I also fantasize about women. Wanting a woman to go down on me. I don't know why I have these thoughts and feelings, but I can't help but think it was because of the girl that molested me when I was about 5 years old. What do you guys think? Would you consider that molestation? Is that the reason why I would masturbate at such a young age, be so into sex, and fantasize about women?

I have a history of bullying and being labeled as weird. Not sure if it's because people couldn't figure me out because I'm quiet. That was a long time ago. Now during class, I was having a moment of anxiety amongst others of my table. And then moments afterward since class was over I heard a person who had been in the same table earlier saying "she's a psycho, strange, etc" and other's saying "she was just scared." All the while I was even near enough to hear. All this seem to fall so in line with my suspicion that they must be talking about me and thinking that I'm weird.

We've been working together for the past few months. The feedback is always excellent. He's a client of the agency I work with. Well, I'm leaving this place next month and when I told this client, he blurted out immediately 'I'm going with you!' (meaning, he chose my over the agency). That's normal I suppose when you build up a good rapport, plus, I've never had to sign a contract with this agency I'm with..it's very informal. I said to him, that for the moment I can't agree anything (as I don't want to be unethical). Well, he called the agency and told them he's moving the account to go with me. Later on I started thinking mmm, I wonder does he like me? See... He often talks about his friends, his daughter but... he mentioned his wife just one time, very briefly in passing. The strange thing is, he mentions things like 'I went for dinner last night with my best friend' or 'I'm just back from a trip with friends'. It's always 'I' not 'we'. Well, I sure am not into and don't encourage married guys. So, does it sound like he likes me? I'm actually now considering cutting all ties with him, just in case. Am I imagining things?

Actually I break up with guys cause they expect sex too soon just after 3-5 dates or 1-2 months. I only had 1 serious relationship and that was in high school but i had known my boyfriend forever before having sex

She copies everything, down to music, movies, hair, make up, clothes, school, etc... If I post or like something on FB so does she. If I color my hair a certain way, so does she. If I like it, she likes it. Constantly trying to be in contact with me, secretly sending flowers and cards without my dad knowing. She s 26 the same age as my husband.. It s starting to freak me out.